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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Sean Jay and Rich.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
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your calin her husband. It's a great podcast. So my
son Dutchess to me the other day he goes, hey,
I want to do blah would you do it? And
I was like, huh. He asked me if I would
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do the ice Bucket Challenge right, And I was like,
how old is that? And I thought, he goes, oh no,
it's big. Everyone's doing it. So all a sudden I
get this. I get this Instagram.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Meet for the.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
US Speak My thank yous n j veris James, And
then I guess happened to you too, Peyton.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Yeah, thank you Nalia for nominating me for the US
speaking my ice Bucket Challenge, and I'm nominating coach Bry
coach Payting and coach Vix Janaia Way isha w you
have twenty four hours?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Oh do you have twenty four hours?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
What they said, you have twenty four hours to do it?
So this so this go around, it's for the USC
Speak Your Mind Challenge. I think it's like focusing on
mental health and things like that, and all these kids
are doing I mean it's very big. I feel like
in high school, like high school in middle school and
they get a big bucket of ice and they pour
it on your head and it's exactly what we did
ten years ago with the als Ice Challenge. So when
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I got that from one of my players, I was like,
I already did this ten years ago, Like why do
I need to do this again? But I guess I
got twenty four hours, so we'll see.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Well.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
It's funny because Dutch came over and asked me if
I would do it, and I said, I guess so,
and he goes, Kemp's gonna do it. He goes, I'm
not gonna ask Jake because there's no way Jake would
do it.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
So Jake, my.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Oldest son, I said, hey, your brother wants to if
you do the ice Bucket Challenge.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
He was no. He didn't want to ask you because
he thought you said no. He was no, I'm not
gonna do it. That's right. That's why.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
What's funny about the ice bucket challenges when Dutch so
ten years ago, when he was eight, he did the
ice bucket challenge all by himself to himself, and.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I have it on film.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I remember going there, Peyton, what were you saying about
your boyfriend Kadem and lack of sleep?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Oh my goodness, Okay, last night, I'm getting ready to
go to bed, and yesterday it was Easter, so it
was like, you know, high energy, and I was ready
to go to bed. And I'm in the bed and
I don't like having the TV on when I go
to sleep, but I know that I go to sleep
a lot earlier than he does, so I'm like, okay, compromise.
Relationships are full of compromise. Sure you can listen to
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the TV while I go to sleep, because I can't
fall asleep with the TV on. I just prefer not
to anyway. So I'm I'm listening, I'm trying to go
back to sleep. I'm trying to fall asleep, and I
hear this aggravating annoying voice. And I look at the
TV and he's watching Power, which is fine, he always
watches Power, but it's season two of Power and Angela
is still alive and I hate her character. I'm sitting
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here and I'm like, Okay, if you're gonna watch the TV,
can you just put on season five of Power when
Angela is dead so I don't have to hear her
annoying voice.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
That's a good compromise.
Speaker 6 (03:20):
Yeah, like you said, compromises.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I ended up knocking right out after I complained to
him about it, so I don't know if he ended
up changing it or not. But like, who wants to
go to bed to their most hated character on TV?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Why couldn't he watch it on headphones on his phone
or something?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Or no?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Or watch it in the living room or is it?
Are you s room?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
It's time for him to come to bed?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Oh so you make him? So you make him go
to bed with you?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Well I don't make him, but I'd be like, it's
time to go to bed, and he trots along with
me and we go to sleep.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
You guys get to discover the glory because I know
a lot of people need dialogue to go to sleep.
I kind of like dialogue to go to sleep. That's
why YouTube is so great, because you can watch like
hours of uh you know, for me, they stuck up
like eight each and aliens in a row, and you
can watch something that's just like you just sort of
listen to it. Or my wife watches Love Is Blind Sweden,
where they've got to dub it all over and it's like.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
It's just dialogue.
Speaker 5 (04:12):
You don't need to watch anything.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
No. I feel that.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Almost about her husband or her boyfriend's watching keep her you.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Have to get him to watch something boring for you
what you're going to sleep?
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Well, he uses YouTube all the time. He watches Drew
Skis videos all the time, like and then he's just
cracking up and laughing. Lave me alone. I'm trying to
go to sleep, but I really can't fall asleep in
any situation.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
So I'll take you.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
This is the This is really lame, but it's so true.
Like Sunday nights for me are so stressful to go
to sleep, and we got a whole week of shows.
I'm really worried about what we're gonna do and everything,
and so it's I need to get to sleep. So
when I it's very hard for me to sleep. And
my wife loves to read and she's always reading. And
we have this couch in our room, like in a corner.
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That's that when we moved to the house, it was
like this is where I can read, right, But she
likes to read in bed with me, and I have
the sea pat machine on and I put a pillow
over my eyes, but I can still see the light
come in from under the pillow. So I'm trying to sleep,
and then she's like I can hear her turn the page.
I can hear her like move, and I could feel
the bed and move a little bit. And so I
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go to sleep. I say, I'm fifteen twenty minutes into it.
I think a rem cycle. And also I can hear
her close the book and then go turn off light
and it wakes me up, and I get so pissed off.
But it's not TV. It's like it's like what you
know that walking on eggshells.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
It's like it couldn't be.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
But the other night though, on Friday or Saturday night,
she went to sleep in that area, or she went
to go read in that area, and when she was done,
she came to bed never felt the thing. I was fine.
So she texted me this morning and she's like, oh,
I had a rough night's sleep. And I'm like, you
had a rough night sleep, But it's like, how do
I say it? You're reading too loud?
Speaker 1 (05:54):
You get that doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
I have to wait till I'm in person with her
and explain to her what she did.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
You got to get her one of those little reading
lights that you hook onto the book so your lights
can be out, and she has this small little light
that just oversees the book.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
My sleep scores is sixty four. Look at all the red.
Look at all the red, Look at all?
Speaker 6 (06:12):
That all your wife's fault.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
It is right ipt five hours last night.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Nothing will mess up a morning show person. And somebody's
screwing with their sleep. And it doesn't take much.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
That is.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I always said to Stacy toom like could you do
your rituals like earlier because I'm falling asleep. And then
she's you know what, I have taken her night stuff
and she's stretching in the bed before she goes to sleep,
like can you do that before I jump in? But
it doesn't much if somebody messes with your sleep doesn't
matter what they're doing.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Right, It's so true. Just like listening to you guys
right now, I just feel like an extra an extra
sense of gratitude for Scott because usually he's ready to
go to bed before me, and I wake up before him,
Like if he did what Kadeem did and watch TV
or YouTube at all, Like I can't fall asleep if
I hear people talking. My brain just listens like I'm
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actual eavesdrop her. So no matter what, I would stay
awake like it would drive me insane.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
So wow, I feel lucky. Thanks now I'm trying. I
don't know what kept my wife up. She said she
had a bad night sleep. But here's what I think
it was.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
So last night before she talks to all our kids,
all three of our kids, all the time, right, no
matter what.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Everyday she has talked to him.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
And last night she was facetiming with our son Camp
who's in Hawaii and he's with his girlfriend and he
comes home in two weeks I think, and she's coming with.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Him for a week, and she's staying with you guys.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
She's staying with us.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Blake says, Now, you have to understand the way my
wife was brought up like, there's no funny business like
when we were like, she will never fool around with
me if her dad is in the same area code
as us, right, like, he am I here. There's nothing
like when we were dating, and if I went on
a trip with them, I slepped in my own room.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Whatever. Right, So she says to camp on FaceTime.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
She goes, now, I'm gonna get Catherine's room ready, and
he goes room ready?
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Is she going to just sleep with me? And my
wife went through she was like, she put me in
a really.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
Uncomfortable position because what am I supposed to say? I go, blake,
he's the guy. I go, It's okay. She's like, no,
you need to back me up. And I'm like, oh
my god, I'm fine if you want her to sleep forever.
But what if we go to bed at eight? What
if like he's not going to go in the room.
She's I don't care if that happen. I mean, it
was such a weird thing, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (08:25):
You go through, well, her her principles are in check
right right right, and she's like, she's a good Southern girl.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
She's probably not gonna want to sleep with them, I go,
she has tattoos.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
I remember in college I was dating a girl and
I remember my mom try to tell like she was like,
she can't sleep in the same bed with you when
you guys come into that. I was like, what do
you think is going to happen? Girl? Like, it's not
like I can get pregnant over here, Like it's not
that serious. And then when me and my ex had
broken up and I started dating Kadeem and he came
and came out here for the summer, my mom was like,
he can't sleep in the same room as you. I'm like,
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I'm grown, I'm graduating from college.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
You can't tell me anything.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
But yeah, look at us now.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
If you're a girl and graduate of college, I'd be like,
didn't go get a hotel?
Speaker 4 (09:04):
We did?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (09:05):
You?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Did you just stay at the house.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
No, that's so weird and awkward. Why would I want
to do that?
Speaker 1 (09:09):
I know it's we're awkwards. Will you stay in different rooms?
Speaker 5 (09:11):
No?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:12):
No, but that's even worse. I would rather just go
get a hotel.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Like, I see it through my wife's point of view
one hundred percent, and I also see it through my
son's point of view.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Because they're together every night.
Speaker 6 (09:21):
Yeah, right, like they're already spending the night together all
the time.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Oh he's he's facetimed us from her bedroom, you know,
like there all the time, so I see it her way.
But also, I mean, to me, there's a double statute.
I said, if I had a daughter, there's no frickin
way that happened. I said, But amen, sweating just thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
I think that probably kept up all night, you know
what I mean? Oh, yeah, for sure, because we go
to bed at.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
A like, you don't think that they're going to go
just and she goes, well, Dutch, you'll sleep with Kemp
and then she can have Dutch's room. And I'm like,
and then when we go to bed, you don't think
Dutch is gonna go, I'm going to my room?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
You said, like, like it's She's like, it's the principal.
I guess it is the presidental death anyway, kids,