March 19, 2025 • 40 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Ryan Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Oh right one on two point seven Kiss FM. Here
we go, sunshine and nice highs in the mid seventies.
Next week, looking really nice about time, tied to my jackets,
(00:30):
same shivers, the chills, very cold.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Hi guys, Hey, good morning. How are you fantastic?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
It's because you had a weeken away from the kids. Yeah,
Michael adulted yourselves. I saw the two of you out late.
I didn't see. I got reports you went to bed.
Michael stayed up late at the wedding, didn't he the
first night?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
And then he didn't make it to breakfast the next
morning because he well he did. He was hurting so
much taking those extra shots.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
That's why I saw him trying to steam it out.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
In the That is his go to move. Yes, he
does a steam room. Saw a steam room, sagn a
cold plunch, all that for an hour.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But time this guy, I did get to see him
with his shirt off.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Tonya, oh retreat.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
It was not bad. He saw me of mine off too. Yeah,
that there was there that the shirt off was.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Good from Michael, Michael, from other people in the gym.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, who else was in the gym? Look at me?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
At my shirt off?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Sierra's husband. I didn't know that he was just looking
from afar, didn't they hid?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
He say hi to me? He was watching me watch.
I mean, I love the guy. Let's just say hi.
It's so good. You never know when you take your
shirt off. Who's going to report back?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Eric?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Huh? Sierra's husband. Eric like that. He has had fun too. Yeah,
he's sounding a good time. All right. So we are
into a Wednesday morning, March nineteenth. I got a quote
of the day coming up. I've got some information about this.
Came out of the University of Michigan. I was just
(02:10):
reading it. We'll tell which foods take away the most
minutes of life and the foods that add minutes to
your life longevity conversation. I'm just gonna get into it.
We're just gonna do it.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
So let's get into the highs and low's about this
time every morning we run around the breakfast table here and.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Those and those and those and those.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Last high big high. The last twenty hours sicany.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I realized that the nail color that I chose last
week for Tanya's wedding is my new favorite color.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
What colors?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
I I don't know the name, oh no, but I
have to remember the number. It's like a very pale
lavender nude, just beautiful full right, like look at that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, that's my high. I'm like, look at your nails.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I like your nails. It looks great. All right, let's
go tiny your high for the last twenty hours. I
think I.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
Slept my first full night of actual sleep in the
last week.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And your voice will be back tomorrow, hopefully.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
That's really nicely s doozy on your voice.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
My high stranger said nice shoes to me.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Oh, I love that.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
What shoes were you wearing?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I was wearing a my workout shoes their hookah, I've
seen this. And the guy says, nice shoes. Are they
worth it? And I said yeah, yeah, I don't know.
I feel like I got a lot more patting than my
other shoes I was wearing. He say, all right, yeah,
I keep hearing that. I mean we were talking about
these shoes. So anyway, last twenty hours. Going back to
your low.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
My low is that for about a week now, I
have had a pain in my left pointer finger index finger,
and I don't know what it is, Like I strained it,
I did something, and do.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
I go to the doctor.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Now, I just weigh out these pains, you know what
I mean? Like you weigh out these pains now? Yeah,
And I'm like, so should I tie them together?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Like I put?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
No, I got pains everywhere, So I got an ambulance
run around side my bike just goes to the biggest pain,
then it goes to the next one.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
And I think it happened a week ago when I
took the girls of Disneyland and I was pushing the stroller. Yeah,
oh my god, must have been it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But who knows, Tey, you you're lower the last twenty
My low is.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
I got a very big pimple on the side of
my face.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
We touch it with your finger right now.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It hurts really bad.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You just added one day to it by touching with
your greasy finger.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
It hurts, right. At least it wasn't like on your
wedding day.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Honestly, my low is not so bad. I mean it's bad,
but not that big good. I just happened to miss
a call from my mom last night and I should
have called her back, but it was already half asleep,
and I was like, I can't. No, yeah, you can't
wake up. It's a whole process. I felt a little
guilty about him. So, Mom, I haven't called you back
still yet, but if you're listening, call you later. Yeah,
Kendrick Lamar, tickets are next. You can leave us at
(04:57):
talk back. What's your high and low the last twenty
hours into with us? Maybe the same thing? Luther and
Kellerich Lamar and Sizza, Ryan Seacrest here, Sisney, Tanya, thanks
for being with us, coming off of the weekend of excitement.
Tanya married and Sisney, let's go talk about your she
got a new husband. Let's talk about your husband. Michael.
I had a chance to spend some quality time with
(05:18):
his shirt off in the locker room.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, what'd you guys talk about at the bar? You
guys were there for quite some time.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
We talked about don't remember, but something she's talked about,
I don't know, barbecuing or something. I don't know what.
Getting together anyway, So you know what's funny about your husband?
When I walked out of the locker room, and then
when I walked in he was singing.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
What was he singing?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Some song was on the speakers of the locker room.
I feel himself, Yeah, feels himself. He feels himself.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
He doesn't hold dock at all.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
But you're tired of something with You're fed up with
Michael and something.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Right, you know, fifteen years together. You just not to
be like a nagging wife. But I love my husband
so much. He does so many amazing things great, and
I am lucky that he is very good with his
hands and can fix things around the house, like for
the most part, you know, we need to call somebody.
(06:18):
But that's what's turned into all these unfinished projects that
are just kind of lingering around the house because we
need to replace our kitchen faucet. I bought the faucet
from the home depot. Okay, it's ready, And then the
faucet has been sitting there in the hallway for a
month at this point, So at what point do I
just call a plumber and just handle it myself, or
do I wait for Michael.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
To this out? But you know what, he'll never learn
his lesson if you fix it for him. You need
to have him wait. You need to wait this out. Nag,
push and get into complete a project.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
You know, we haven't been able to use the host
part of our kitchen sing for months.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Like I got a toilet's been calgged up for ten days.
You get through it?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Oh you gum started on the toilets.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Fat.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Yeah, he built the twins bunk beds like this set
came with a thousand pieces, So I'll give him that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
It took them.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
All Sunday, when one weekend to build the bunk beds.
But then there's these drawers that are supposed to go
underneath the bunk beds, and he's just like, oh, I'll
get to them later. That box has been in the
hallway for since the New Year's Eve.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Is that the guy knows how to do stuff. If
you're married to me, I got real problems. Nothing's getting.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
You.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Then we would just I would do I would hide
because I know you wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I'd be like, I'd hire to do it. That's why
I no. You gott to give him a deadline.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
You say this is this is done next Friday, and
if it's not, I'm going to fix it.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yeah, we had a lake in the roof and I
called the roofer because he was like, no, I think
we're good.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I was like, another story system coming.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
We manage the budget, so just lie about the price.
Say hey, I'm going to get if you'll get this done.
You should see the quote I got for getting this done.
It's ridiculous. And then he'll get it done.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
That's not a bad idea, it's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I like it too. All Right, Well, you guys are
going to be finally going to make it through. They
see the little things that will happen in your Marriageine,
it's gonna be so cute.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
When you guys are I call somebody or not.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
No, we're not the phase of like texting each other. Hi,
good morning wife, good morning husband.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I mean, I get it because I saw it, but
let's not do it. Coming up next, I'm gonna tell
you about the three foods are gonna take away twelve minutes,
twenty four minutes, and thirty six minutes of your life
if you keep eating them.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
There with Rycrest.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Kiss a fan quote of the day for Wednesday. In
a way check it out. University of Michigan did this study,
and we know that you know bad foods take time
off your life, right, Like, that's just it. And I
think as you go through life, you want to add
time to your life. You want to do things that
prolong a healthy life, right, a prolonged life while you're
healthy and you can still do stuff. So these foods
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they say, listen to this, take the most time off
your life.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
So dah yep da, twelve minutes off your life per soda.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
No, I'm telling it like it's bad for you, but
that is significant amount of time.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I'm gonna be fully transparent. I didn't make that up
butt to be fully transparent. I have an interest in
a company called Health Aid Kombucha. All right, I work
with them.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yes, I am telling you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
If you have not tried kombucha and health Aid Kombucha,
this is your savior. You don't if you like soda,
try this. Flavors are amazing and it's good. It does
good stuff for your gut and for your kids. It's
not soda, but it's got like that sensation of Health
Aid Kombucha. In full transparency, I have an interest in
(09:48):
the company, and I love it. And the only reason
I have an interest because I love the product. I
had it a couple times over the years. I'm like,
I want to get in on this company. I want
to work for you guys. All right, Next, c meats
like pershutto ham cured.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
Me Oh no, those are so nice to.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Twenty four minutes, twenty four minutes. Every time that is spared,
twenty four times it meets cured meats. Think all cured
meats twenty four minutes and the longest one. These are
the time that you lose in life every time you
have one of these. A hot dog. No, they say
out of the University of Michigan, every time you have
(10:30):
a hot dog, you lose thirty six minutes of your life. Wow.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Just a baseball season's kicking off. There you have it,
all those Dodger dogs, fries.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
What puts time back on your life? Bananas every every
banana thirteen minutes. Oh, salmon, every salmon sixteen minutes, and
thirty grams of nuts thirty minutes.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
A god, let's offset it.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Today's quote, What if everything you're going through is preparing
you for what you asked for. I have a feeling
it's true. You may not know it yet, but follow
the path.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Kiss FM headlines with siciny.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Well, two games in Japan, two wins for the Dodgers
as the defending world champions.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Beat the Cubs again this morning.
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Opening Day at Dodger Stadium, by the way, is next
Thursday against Detroit. The astronauts who are trapped in space
are safely.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
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Speaker 1 (11:22):
You know.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
They were only supposed to be at the International Space
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On air with Ryan Seacrest, that's what we're gonna do.
It's Kiss FM, Wango Tango tickets. They're on sale to everybody.
It's made tenth. It's on the beach, Honeydon City Beach
is gonna.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Be sick, yes, Mother's Day weekend.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Definally, gonna do a sunset set and we're gonna play
match game. Let's get our contestants here. Jackie contested number
one in Norcokee, California. Jackie, Good morning, Hi, good morning,
how are you.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
I'm doing so good.
Speaker 7 (12:13):
I'm so excited to be talking to you guys.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Oh we love that. Or you hold on for and
say you're can test number one. Vanessa is on the line. Vanessa,
you are contestant number two in Palmdale.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Are you ready to try and win Wango Tango tickets?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yes, I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play match game.
So we're gonna a phrase with the blank in it.
Whoever gets the most matches wins. We use our panel. Vanessa,
you hold Jackie your first. Don't say what you're thinking
out loud, just put your answer in your head. Okay,
blank oil, blank oil. What do you think the panel
(12:53):
is gonna write down in the blank, because that's what
you want to match with, Jackie? What kind of oil?
Speaker 7 (12:59):
Can oil?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Tanning oil? You know what oil? I picked olive.
Speaker 7 (13:05):
I was about to say, olive oil is a good one.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Let's go to olive. There you go, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
I also said olive.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Okay, that's not tanning Ruby.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I said olive oil too.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
We have some advocates of the e v O tups olive.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Oh my gosh, I should have just gone with my guy.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Don't underestimate the power of olive oil.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
I am the my god exactly, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
God, Vanessa, here's yours, stand by JACKI, Vanessa is yours?
Yours is blank hole and make sure it's appropriate for air,
blank hole, body parts, blank hole.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Pole.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Okay, that thought, rap it, but I don't count. Okay,
let's go with pothole.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I said water, waterhole, Tanya, I said donut hole.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Ruby, did you say puddle? I said, pothole? Tops sinkhole,
sink hole? How dark dark? All right, then, essay, Congratulations,
you're going to Wango Tango. We appreciate you both for
(14:32):
listening and playing along. Y'all have a great Wednesday. We
have more Wango Tango tickets to get away. They're on sale.
I don't want to two point seven. It's kiss up
down right. It was very funny at the pregame night
before the wedding. Uh, Robbie's dad got up and made
a little speech, and he said, you know, I had to
(14:53):
learn a few things once kind of came into my
boys life. All had to get on the Instagram. Get
on the Instagram to learn about Tanya is everything she
does up on the Instagram and Robbie's like, there's no
the Yeah, it's just Instagram. Don Have you ever scrolled
through Instagram reels and thought, I wish I could share
(15:13):
this oddly specific algorithm experience with somebody I love.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Yes, I think we all have.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Well what is it?
Speaker 4 (15:21):
You haven't? Okay, maybe you're not a share but I am, like,
I see something funny and I send it to Michael,
or I send it to Tanya. I send to whoever
I think would like to see that funny algorithm video,
and it takes up a lot of time kind of
But if you can actually just share the algorithm altogether
with somebody, then that's what blend is.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
It's a new feature.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
It creates a private shared reels feed for you and
a friend, and Instagram mixes both of your algorithms for
a combined feed. So you say, I want to mix
my algorithm with Tanya, Then all of a sudden, we're
going to have our own feed of like videos that
we both kind of like.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But where is that in your main feed?
Speaker 4 (16:00):
It'll be it'll probably be like a different tab. They're
testing it out right now with a few like you know,
beta testing and stuff like that. But then eventually yes,
you would have your set people. It's almost like group text,
but this would be group algorithm feeds.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
All right, Well, when you guys test it on, let
me know if I want to get into that.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
I think the cool thing about this though, is that
for once, Instagram is not really copying TikTok because everything
else they kind of have, and so this is new.
This is completely different than any other platform out there.
I love the idea because I share so many videos
with my friends to begin with.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
I'll might share a video with you right now, not
through that. But this is uh dancing Queen here, This
is I've never seen Mark, our producer, get on the
dance floor, I mean the time of his life. Now
you can't see the moves, but you got to see
our producer, Mark dance. I thought, I I thought, I struggled,
(16:59):
and then I saw this. And so who has it
the composed it places produce the Mark? Can we get
that up to seat or whoever's doing this stuff? That
is that correct?
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
The moves of Mark and Dancing Queen brought him out
on that. He was the first place. Oh yeah, apt
I was on the aultar. Yeah, I saw everybody rushing out.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
For that one on air with Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
But TikTok lots of health trends. Some work, some don't work,
and some are dangerous. So let's start with eyelash trimming.
So it's on TikTok. Everybody's talking about it. I looked
into it. Tiktoks are taking their scissors to their eyelashes
in an effort to appear more manly. Is that masculine?
Is that what they're sing like?
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Guys are doing this because they don't want them to
be so curly.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
I like long curly eyelashes. I'm for them. I would
never do this. They say it's not safe. Trimming their
eyelashes reduces UV protection, increase of the risk of cancers
and cataracts. Don't do it. That's reason enough. Next one
TikTok trends people are talking about, are they just dumb
or do they work? Sleep maxing? Now, listen to this
(18:05):
sleep maxing Sysney Tana. I'm here nightly routine out in
my sleep quality, including red light glasses, having key weed
before you go to bed, melatonin weighted blankets, nostril expanders,
and mouth tape. Oh's one of those things, right, It
is safe, But it's not helping you sleep, Yes, it is.
(18:27):
It's tiny. These are experts.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
It sounds like a chore to do, way too much work,
all of this before bedtime.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Enough to do before I go to sleep, To get ready,
one more thing, a.
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Little melatonin and a mouth tape and alton.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
It might work, but the whole combination doesn't really do
that much.
Speaker 6 (18:44):
They said, these nostril expanders, I might need to get.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Yeah, that's a good look. You don't blank, you don't now,
you won't close your nostrils. Be a real look. Even
Robbie commenting his valves, how TINYA doesn't blink. It's a
great line. Sardines all right, TikTokers are saying, the sardine
diet is what you should.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Be doing, and only sardines.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Well, eat sardines and only sardines for several days in
a time, or months whatever you can do, or weeks,
and you boost your metabolism and you lose weight. Is
it safe? WHOA, No, it's not safe. You're exposing yourself
to way too much mercury and salt, missing out on
(19:25):
the fiber. Now I am a sardine enthusiasm, Yes you are,
so have them once a week, have them every once
in a while, but they are good. They're high Omega threes.
I got high omegas all right? Next one. These are
TikTok trends. Are they dumb? Yeah? Most of them? Pain
tolerance challenge. If you're the pain tolerance challenge.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
No, but it already sounds dumb.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
This is idiotic.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
I don't even want to know what it is.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
You drop a like an object on your foot, then
you rate the pain on a scale of one to ten.
Come on, are there benefits zero? No, it's just for
entertainment and it's not save TikTok stuff and warnings on
these videos. One guy dropped the space hener on his
foot and it broke it.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Oh my gosh, I can't how did you do that?
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Literally hurt. Don't knock the sleep maxing one.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
This one's crazy.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
You're not gonna wake up with the weighted blanket in
the Miladona.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Yeah. I never get to bed Seacrest with you, Sisney
with you, Tanya with you. So she asked this question, Sysney,
do you have a fashion mantra? A fashion mantra?
Speaker 4 (20:30):
I don't think I do, or I don't know what
it is?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Well, do what let's get into this. So apparently this
trending report has a headline with Sarah Michelle Geller.
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Oh, I love her?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Is she still married to Freddy Prince Junior? Yes? How
about those two?
Speaker 1 (20:44):
I know?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Run with it.
Speaker 6 (20:47):
So she says she is only getting better as she
gets older. But she's also revealing her fashion mantra these days,
and it made me think about, like, I really want
to make one of those.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
I don't have one, and I really want one.
Speaker 6 (21:00):
And she said, I think that there was a time
when I worried so much about what was trendy and
what people would think of how I looked in it,
And I think now I'm more invested in myself and
wanting to try things that are different. So people say
it's really important in your career and in life to
have like a north star that guides you, like in
all your decisions. And I've never had a fashion mantra,
(21:20):
and I've been wanting to kind of evolve my style
in this new season of life. And so I was like,
I was wondering if you guys had a fashion mantra
or what it would be.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
So I have one and I'm working on getting there.
I'm going through my closets and I'm cleaning out a
lot of different things because I really just want five
things that are the same. So I don't mind it.
I don't care. You're going to see me in the
same look many days a week. But I want to simplify.
(21:52):
I just want to I want to tighten it up.
I want to get less in the closet. I want
to simplify my look. I want to have a standard uniform.
If you would you know more or less? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
But what about your suits?
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Where do those live?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Fortune?
Speaker 4 (22:06):
Okay, so like those are not in your house? You
have a handful maybe, I.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Mean I got a couple of them, but most of
my suits live at work, right, because that's like your uniform,
almost my uniform off air, you're going to see it. Yeah,
like black shirt, black shirt, black fans.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
It's like Michael the same thing. He wants the same
brand shirts for every birthday and Christmas.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
So does Robbie make it easier on myself?
Speaker 4 (22:29):
And sicany I don't have one yet, but I do
need to get into my closet and and weed some
stuff out, that's right.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
So yeah, I want to evolve. I want to like.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I'm a wife, now.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
You know I was there. I said, your husband and wife,
I'm the first person to tell.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
You I feel like my fashion needs to evolve.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, It.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Is Kiss FM. Thanks for streaming it. Listen to us
Maddie's and Fullerton. Now, Mattie, I want to jump right
into this because they hear it's a sensitive topic. Your
fiance is insistent on getting a pre up. When did
he's bring this on you? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (23:11):
Last night he took me out to dinner. We got
engaged a couple of weeks ago, and it's honestly, it's
been incredible. It's the happiest I've ever been in my life.
But he thinks that we need to sign a prenup
for some reason. He's never brought it up before, and
I kind.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
Of hate that.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Okay what I kind of feel like? What was his
headline when he brought it up to you?
Speaker 8 (23:36):
He was just like he thinks that, you know, it's
just smart business, And I'm like, why did Yeah? Right,
I'm like, why would you plan for our eventual breakup
when you want to marry me and be together forever?
And we got into this huge fight because I don't know,
it just feels very like doomsday, Like why are you
(23:58):
Why are you saying this is smart business when this
is like love you know, and.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Is it a deal breaker for you? That's just I
guess where my head goes.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
I freaking out about it. I I love him so much.
He'd he like had clauses and like like articles about
how he wanted, you know, we are to spend every
other Christmas with his family, which was already our plan
all along.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Why it like in writing yeah that legally, I mean,
I love and trust and loyal like, of.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
Course you're going to do that.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
It'd be one thing if it was like I mean,
even all of the money side of it is like
makes me feel weird.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
But that like putting the.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Christmases in and all that, that's that's even weird.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
When is the wedding supposed to be?
Speaker 8 (24:48):
It was supposed to be next year, And he just.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Threw this on you, the prenup conversation above my pay
grade this one, So.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
There's a guy I forget. Wow, we have his name,
but there's a guy. His title is America's divorce lawyer.
A lot of happy times in his office, and he's
a legal expert and he's got a podcast. I think
that's how I've heard of him anyways. Name is James
James Sexton. He's also an author too. I'm gonna actually
(25:22):
throw this on him for you. You'll listen in and
we'll get some advice on how to handle it and
where to go and how you should feel. Hey time
one second, he's on the line with his.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Neck on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
So let's get into this. Maddie has been generously hanging
on the line here. She's getting married in about a year.
Her fiance just at the last minute, didn't know what
was coming, sprung a pre nump on her, and she
doesn't feel good about it. And then the prenups got
all kinds of things like clauses about where they're supposed
to spend Christmas, alternating family homes, all that kind ofless stuff,
(25:58):
a lot of detail, and just not feeling good about
the concept. Because you love each other, you're getting married.
White if to document all that kind of stuff, right, Okay,
So I'm bringing in this guy here. He's an expert
in this. His name is James Sexton. He's an America's divorce lawyer,
author of If You're in my office. It's already too late.
(26:18):
A divorce lawys guide me staying together? I mean, James,
no shortage of business and no happy times in your world.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
I mean, listen, you know I don't make it rain.
I just sell the umbrella.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I mean, it's never going to stop raining in your world.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
So you have a lot of different platforms here, but
let's just jump into specific Thanks for willing to come
on for this one incident. We just met Maddie, and
you always saying to matt Mattie, give him the headline
real quick, just the headline.
Speaker 8 (26:47):
Yeah, so just got engaged. We've been together this five
years and everything's been amazing, except for last night. He
told me that he wants me to sign a prenup
and there's all these clauses about we have to spend
Christmas at his family's house every other year, which is
stuff we already agree to do. So why does that
have to be legally binding? Why do I have to
sign some document swearing to all these things? It just
(27:11):
shows really itchy and I'm freaking out.
Speaker 7 (27:13):
Yeah. Yeah, So I want to say a couple of
things that I think are really important. So, first of all,
fifty six percent of marriages and in divorce. Okay, so
I tell people constantly marriage is a little bit like
the lottery. You are probably not going to win, but
if you win, what you win is so good that
you should buy a ticket.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
For sure.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
It's absolutely worth it. Marriage can be one of the
greatest things. A romantic coupling that lasts a lifetime can
be the greatest ad value you'll ever have in your
whole life. So I applaud you for the fact that
you're brave enough to love and to say, you know what,
I want to commit to this person, and your fiance
is as well. But that being said, every marriage has
a free nup, every single one. It's either a pre
(27:57):
nup that's written by the government or it's written by
you and the person you love and trust more than
the eight billion other options in the world, eight billion
other people. You said, this is my person, but otherwise
you've got a prenup. All prenup is a set of
rules that govern what happens to your marriage in the
event that it ends. And by the way, I hate
to be the one to tell you this, every marriage ends.
(28:19):
It ends in death, or it ends in divorce. It's
one of the only things you ever say, I really
hope this ends in death, but all marriages end. So
what you have to think about is from the beginning,
who should make the rules of what happens when it ends?
Should it be the government? Have you ever walked into
the DMV and thought, you know what, these people really
have it together, like they should be in charge of everything.
(28:39):
They should be in charge of my finances if the
two of us split up. Absolutely not, Like you and
your fiance are in a much better position to make
the rules for your marriage in the event that it comes.
Apart that being said, part of feeling love, in my opinion,
is feeling safe, and both people in a marriage should
feel safe, because if you don't feel safe, you can't
really you loved. So you have a right in this
(29:03):
conversation to be an equal participant with your fiance and
to say, okay, what about Christmas at your parents house?
That that's important enough to you you want it to
be in writing? What about when we have kids someday?
What if someday we want to have it? It's a
little bit is it enforceable? What we call the police
on each other? Have conversations about why is this important
(29:23):
to you. What is it born of Is it born
of fear? Because very often when you talk to someone
about the provisions that they want, you're going to learn
a lot about what they're afraid of, what they feel
they owe to you and you owe to them. And
I have to tell you, at the beginning of a
journey like a marriage, there is no better conversation to
(29:43):
have than Hey, what do we mean to each other?
What do we owe each other? How do we make
each other feel safe and feel seen? And this can
be an opportunity to do that. It took a lot
of courage for your fiance to say something that he
knew you probably wouldn't want to hear. It is a really,
really healthy muscle to develop really early in a relationship,
(30:04):
and especially right before marriage, because you're gonna have times
where you have to tell each other painful truths rather
than comfortable lives. So I think you should see this
as the opportunity that it really is and not automatically
see it as hey, he doesn't have faith in our marriage,
No more so than when he gets in the car
and puts on a seatbelt. You know, you go, hey, well,
(30:25):
you don't have faith in my driving. Of course, I
have faith in your driving. But you know what, sometimes
a car comes out of nowhere and it had nothing
to do with either of our skill levels. So you
have to kind of look at it like that and
not internalize it. Again, it's understandable to feel it that way,
but I just don't think that's the way to approach it.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Matt, is that helpful? I feel like that's really really
interesting context and great ways to put it so quickly.
Speaker 7 (30:50):
Matter.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
We got to take a break. But does that help.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
It?
Speaker 7 (30:53):
Does?
Speaker 8 (30:53):
It gives me a lot to think about. I think
I'm seeing it from a different perspective now.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
So throw that out, you throw that back.
Speaker 7 (31:00):
At the congratulations on your engagement.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
It's a wonderful thing.
Speaker 7 (31:04):
I wish you all the bad things. Stay out of
my office.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
And stay out of his office. And that's great advice.
Jim Sex in America's divorce lawyer. You can check out
his podcast where we get your podcast and his book
if you're ever in my office. It's already too late
to go check it out. A divorce lat's got to
staying together. Appreciate it, brother, Thanks so much, you guys.
Take care of Maddie. Good luck with everything on air.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
All right, so in the back room, you got you
know where Michael and Ruby have lived for a long time,
and we've got a new member here, a Funzo Funzi
called fun Call me sir, so no, I mean I was.
Speaker 9 (31:47):
I'm telling you, man, I was raised old school, so
like it's always sir or ma'am and I'm just like
man let's first two.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
All right, So Alfonso Corona News. Remember the back room here,
guys going back to his high school, International poly Technic
High School in Pomona. He got an f on his
assignment where he wrote about us when he was in school, right.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
Yeah, and now are you going back to talk about us?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Yeah, yourself. H's a project, right, you had a project
Originally you didn't get a passing grade.
Speaker 9 (32:22):
Yeah, so I got the first time I presented, I failed, right,
and then the only way you could like pass was
to redo it. But the highest grade you could get
was a D.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
So I had.
Speaker 9 (32:31):
So I did redo it and I graduated, thank goodness.
And yeah, so now the plan is to I guess
maybe relive some like nostalgia and also kind of relive
my failure at senior year. But I am going to
come back, and I'm going to come back hard and
just share with everyone, like you know, hey, you know,
just just just because you fail, SENI your project doesn't
(32:53):
mean you can't get to work on the team that
you want to work with later.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
So just saying, are you so? By the way, he
worked for UPS, driving the truck for Amazon, UPS managed
a ross dress for less. Those prices are great in
Wittier And here he is now in the back room.
So what is your what is the body of your talk? Yeah?
Speaker 9 (33:14):
So it is interesting because a lot of the teachers
were or like the staff, they were kind of asking
us like, oh, okay, so like what Like a lot
of students are kind of scared about choosing a major
and then eventually like being unsure where to go from there, right,
And so I think a lot of it is like, okay, well,
how did you find your way through in your career path?
And like, you know, what can you tell students about
(33:36):
like navigating in a sense, you know, counco failure or
uncertainty insecurity? And I think the one thing I've learned
is that, like you know, our career paths are never linear.
I A lot of people think, oh, it's an easy
like you know, ladder up and then that's it, right,
Like you just do the thing and then that's it.
But I realized, like I graduated twenty eighteen, I was
still unsure if I wanted to do like broadcasting or anything.
(33:59):
I was just like I got calm degree, Let's see
what I do with it, you know. And so that
was like about five years of kind of like you know,
like you know, odd jobs, just kind of like working
anywhere and everywhere. But then eventually like it was just like, Okay,
you know what my dream has always been, you know,
being here with this team and just being in the
building here at iHeart, and so like, let why am
I stopping myself now, and so like kind of like
(34:20):
leaving behind that mentality of like oh I can't get in,
Like yeah I can.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I did. It's also about, you know, if you don't
know what you want to do at that age, you
get a job, take a job, just start you know,
making some money and having your own, know, being able
to save some money or paying for your all the
things you need to pay for in life. You'll do
that job forever, but could be a first step into
something that's totally different when you find your passion.
Speaker 9 (34:42):
Yeah, and I think like for me, like it was
one of those things where it's like I knew I
wanted to get into like broadcasting. So that's what I did,
Like I went back to school, I got like a
radio certificate, and then at the same time, I was like,
you know what, I'm gonna work Amazon ups and I'm
going to self fund my little like in the closet
broadcasting studio.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
That that's what I did.
Speaker 9 (35:00):
I have like a little roadcaster like mixer, and then
I bought myself my own mic off of Amazon, and
I was like, you know what, I am going to
be a self funded broadcaster until you know, we finally
get to where we want to go. You know.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
No different by the way, I went to I Mode
Lawns when I was a teenager to earn enough money
to buy a mixer and a microphone from radio Shack
at the mall, and I pretended to be a DJ
on cassette tape so I would just record myself introducing
songs and give them to my parents's gifts. Who what
a gift from that? But he's great. I love you
going back and you know, bring some kiss stuff to
(35:34):
give away too. People love THEO kiss. Oh yeah, I'll
talk to promo.
Speaker 9 (35:38):
See what I can do.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Yeahs A bunch of merch from her wedding, yeah, brad
yag stuff whatever, Yeah, a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
All right, well, good luck. Let us know how it goes. Yeah, no,
for sure, I'll make sure to take pictures. Okay, thumbs up.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
All right.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
Uh, let's see here, Katie Perry tickets. That's what we're
doing next in one minute. Thank you' all. Fonds up
for the back room, Fonzie, thank you.
Speaker 7 (35:58):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
Air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
Kiss FM. Gonna be at our Wango Tango May tenth
the beach Seacrest here assistanting Tanya my wedding chat around here.
You know, Tanya just got married. Oh my god, I
can't believe it. It's like that we've been training for
it all our lives and she did it. And then
you got Tubb's next, our engineer, Jeffrey Tubbs next. He
(36:25):
has no idea what he's gonna do, but he's gonna
get married somewhere somehow, with very few people around. So anyway,
this struck me. Maybe my phone's listening to me and
sending me these articles. I don't know. Probably is it
does happen?
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Yeah, mine does for sure.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
This is uh dividing the internet. It's about reciprocal wedding gifts.
So there's a woman refusing to purchase a gift for
her friend's wedding because they did not get her and
her husband a gift or card when they got married.
Oh come on, really, So it's our husband's friend that's
getting married. Where do you stand on this? And a
(36:59):
few years ago he was a groomsman in their wedding,
but the friend and his now fiance did not get
them anything.
Speaker 4 (37:06):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (37:08):
I don't know the people. I just read the story.
And now her husband is a groomsman in his wedding
and she's refusing to buy a gift. She says, I
believe you should do unto others as they do unto you.
Energy dang. Her husband's upset about it. He disagrees. He
thinks they should be bigger people and still get them
a gift. Maybe they forgot, maybe something happened. And I
(37:31):
agree with her husband.
Speaker 4 (37:33):
I agree so too. Two wrongs don't make it right here.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Just be above the line. If you can afford a
nice gift or not even a nice gift, just any
gift get or something, you know, you any tongs for
a grill grilled tongs. I totally am with him, but
other people agree with her, saying that they didn't forget
it was intentional and that she should not yet it's
come on, life's too short, it is. Did we give
(37:58):
you wedding gifts on it?
Speaker 6 (38:00):
No, we didn't make a registry. We figured we were
doing a destination wedding and everybody coming was our present.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
Yeah, no doubt. That was not a cheap weekend.
Speaker 4 (38:10):
Yeah. Which, by the way, you can receive gifts up
to a year after your wedding, so that like that's
the protocol or like the We have some people.
Speaker 6 (38:19):
Who like couldn't make it, that sent gifts and stuff
like that, but we really we didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
We didn't register.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
We didn't want to.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
I had to book that hotel. Yeah, and that one
hour transfer from the airport.
Speaker 4 (38:31):
Oh not the transfer.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Well, I got in the car. First thing I said
to the guy, I'm like, how the tax, the uber
whatever it was.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
Did you to give you a bucket of beer?
Speaker 1 (38:39):
Ours?
Speaker 7 (38:39):
Did?
Speaker 2 (38:40):
I offered me a beer? I didn't want it, he said,
I said to him how long is the drive? He
goes to an hour depending on traffic.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
What what landing in the romantic part of the island.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
My first was time to get a closer hotel to
the airport.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Well, they actually just built like a highway. It was
like a toll road.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
I'm surprised you didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Take I think it took to I didn't say any time.
Speaker 3 (39:01):
Yeah it was. It was like forty five.
Speaker 2 (39:02):
There was traffic y traffic, key.
Speaker 4 (39:04):
So normal anywhere you go it's gonna be. I mean,
we can't even get to Santa Monica.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
In forty five minutes.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Maybe I didn't want to hear an hour if you fly,
that's true, right anyway?
Speaker 1 (39:17):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, well there you have it.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
Kiss FM. I was gonna do it for us tomorrow morning.
It's a Ryan's rose, so let's just focus on that.
I guess we're on Thursday already. And Orion's rose is
she's convinced that her father in law is cheating on
her mother in law. However, she needs a solid proof
because she's already got a not so great relationship with
their mother in law. Sounds messy seven and Katy Perry
tickets Kendrick Lamar. Tickets every hour on Air, Ryan Seacrest,
(39:47):
wherever you get your podcasts to the back room, take
care of yourselves. Good work today, Thank you you too.
Did Alfonso take off after his big chat with me?
Oh yeah, he was out of here, big moment. Okay,
that's it. Yeah you guys till eleven o'clock. Just kiss up.
Speaker 5 (40:09):
Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Ryan Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Oh right one on two point seven Kiss FM. Here
we go, sunshine and nice highs in the mid seventies.
Next week, looking really nice about time, tied to my jackets,
(00:30):
same shivers, the chills, very cold.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Hi guys, Hey, good morning. How are you fantastic?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
It's because you had a weeken away from the kids. Yeah,
Michael adulted yourselves. I saw the two of you out late.
I didn't see. I got reports you went to bed.
Michael stayed up late at the wedding, didn't he the
first night?
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
And then he didn't make it to breakfast the next
morning because he well he did. He was hurting so
much taking those extra shots.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
That's why I saw him trying to steam it out.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
In the That is his go to move. Yes, he
does a steam room. Saw a steam room, sagn a
cold plunch, all that for an hour.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But time this guy, I did get to see him
with his shirt off.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Tonya, oh retreat.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
It was not bad. He saw me of mine off too. Yeah,
that there was there that the shirt off was.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Good from Michael, Michael, from other people in the gym.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, who else was in the gym? Look at me?
Speaker 3 (01:29):
At my shirt off?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Sierra's husband. I didn't know that he was just looking
from afar, didn't they hid?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
He say hi to me? He was watching me watch.
I mean, I love the guy. Let's just say hi.
It's so good. You never know when you take your
shirt off. Who's going to report back?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Eric?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Huh? Sierra's husband. Eric like that. He has had fun too. Yeah,
he's sounding a good time. All right. So we are
into a Wednesday morning, March nineteenth. I got a quote
of the day coming up. I've got some information about this.
Came out of the University of Michigan. I was just
(02:10):
reading it. We'll tell which foods take away the most
minutes of life and the foods that add minutes to
your life longevity conversation. I'm just gonna get into it.
We're just gonna do it.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
So let's get into the highs and low's about this
time every morning we run around the breakfast table here and.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Those and those and those and those.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Last high big high. The last twenty hours sicany.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
I realized that the nail color that I chose last
week for Tanya's wedding is my new favorite color.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
What colors?
Speaker 4 (02:51):
I I don't know the name, oh no, but I
have to remember the number. It's like a very pale
lavender nude, just beautiful full right, like look at that.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Yeah, that's my high. I'm like, look at your nails.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I like your nails. It looks great. All right, let's
go tiny your high for the last twenty hours. I
think I.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
Slept my first full night of actual sleep in the
last week.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
And your voice will be back tomorrow, hopefully.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
That's really nicely s doozy on your voice.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
My high stranger said nice shoes to me.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Oh, I love that.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
What shoes were you wearing?
Speaker 2 (03:25):
I was wearing a my workout shoes their hookah, I've
seen this. And the guy says, nice shoes. Are they
worth it? And I said yeah, yeah, I don't know.
I feel like I got a lot more patting than my
other shoes I was wearing. He say, all right, yeah,
I keep hearing that. I mean we were talking about
these shoes. So anyway, last twenty hours. Going back to
your low.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
My low is that for about a week now, I
have had a pain in my left pointer finger index finger,
and I don't know what it is, Like I strained it,
I did something, and do.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
I go to the doctor.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Now, I just weigh out these pains, you know what
I mean? Like you weigh out these pains now? Yeah,
And I'm like, so should I tie them together?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Like I put?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
No, I got pains everywhere, So I got an ambulance
run around side my bike just goes to the biggest pain,
then it goes to the next one.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
And I think it happened a week ago when I
took the girls of Disneyland and I was pushing the stroller. Yeah,
oh my god, must have been it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
But who knows, Tey, you you're lower the last twenty
My low is.
Speaker 6 (04:23):
I got a very big pimple on the side of
my face.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
We touch it with your finger right now.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It hurts really bad.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You just added one day to it by touching with
your greasy finger.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
It hurts, right. At least it wasn't like on your
wedding day.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Honestly, my low is not so bad. I mean it's bad,
but not that big good. I just happened to miss
a call from my mom last night and I should
have called her back, but it was already half asleep,
and I was like, I can't. No, yeah, you can't
wake up. It's a whole process. I felt a little
guilty about him. So, Mom, I haven't called you back
still yet, but if you're listening, call you later. Yeah,
Kendrick Lamar, tickets are next. You can leave us at
(04:57):
talk back. What's your high and low the last twenty
hours into with us? Maybe the same thing? Luther and
Kellerich Lamar and Sizza, Ryan Seacrest here, Sisney, Tanya, thanks
for being with us, coming off of the weekend of excitement.
Tanya married and Sisney, let's go talk about your she
got a new husband. Let's talk about your husband. Michael.
I had a chance to spend some quality time with
(05:18):
his shirt off in the locker room.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, what'd you guys talk about at the bar? You
guys were there for quite some time.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
We talked about don't remember, but something she's talked about,
I don't know, barbecuing or something. I don't know what.
Getting together anyway, So you know what's funny about your husband?
When I walked out of the locker room, and then
when I walked in he was singing.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
What was he singing?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Some song was on the speakers of the locker room.
I feel himself, Yeah, feels himself. He feels himself.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
He doesn't hold dock at all.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
But you're tired of something with You're fed up with
Michael and something.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Right, you know, fifteen years together. You just not to
be like a nagging wife. But I love my husband
so much. He does so many amazing things great, and
I am lucky that he is very good with his
hands and can fix things around the house, like for
the most part, you know, we need to call somebody.
(06:18):
But that's what's turned into all these unfinished projects that
are just kind of lingering around the house because we
need to replace our kitchen faucet. I bought the faucet
from the home depot. Okay, it's ready, And then the
faucet has been sitting there in the hallway for a
month at this point, So at what point do I
just call a plumber and just handle it myself, or
do I wait for Michael.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
To this out? But you know what, he'll never learn
his lesson if you fix it for him. You need
to have him wait. You need to wait this out. Nag,
push and get into complete a project.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
You know, we haven't been able to use the host
part of our kitchen sing for months.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Like I got a toilet's been calgged up for ten days.
You get through it?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Oh you gum started on the toilets.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Fat.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Yeah, he built the twins bunk beds like this set
came with a thousand pieces, So I'll give him that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
It took them.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
All Sunday, when one weekend to build the bunk beds.
But then there's these drawers that are supposed to go
underneath the bunk beds, and he's just like, oh, I'll
get to them later. That box has been in the
hallway for since the New Year's Eve.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
Is that the guy knows how to do stuff. If
you're married to me, I got real problems. Nothing's getting.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
You.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Then we would just I would do I would hide
because I know you wouldn't do it.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I'd be like, I'd hire to do it. That's why
I no. You gott to give him a deadline.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
You say this is this is done next Friday, and
if it's not, I'm going to fix it.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yeah, we had a lake in the roof and I
called the roofer because he was like, no, I think
we're good.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I was like, another story system coming.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
We manage the budget, so just lie about the price.
Say hey, I'm going to get if you'll get this done.
You should see the quote I got for getting this done.
It's ridiculous. And then he'll get it done.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
That's not a bad idea, it's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It's a great idea.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
I like it too. All Right, Well, you guys are
going to be finally going to make it through. They
see the little things that will happen in your Marriageine,
it's gonna be so cute.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
When you guys are I call somebody or not.
Speaker 6 (08:05):
No, we're not the phase of like texting each other. Hi,
good morning wife, good morning husband.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I mean, I get it because I saw it, but
let's not do it. Coming up next, I'm gonna tell
you about the three foods are gonna take away twelve minutes,
twenty four minutes, and thirty six minutes of your life
if you keep eating them.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
There with Rycrest.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Kiss a fan quote of the day for Wednesday. In
a way check it out. University of Michigan did this study,
and we know that you know bad foods take time
off your life, right, Like, that's just it. And I
think as you go through life, you want to add
time to your life. You want to do things that
prolong a healthy life, right, a prolonged life while you're
healthy and you can still do stuff. So these foods
(08:49):
they say, listen to this, take the most time off
your life.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
I'm scared.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
So dah yep da, twelve minutes off your life per soda.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
No, I'm telling it like it's bad for you, but
that is significant amount of time.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
I'm gonna be fully transparent. I didn't make that up
butt to be fully transparent. I have an interest in
a company called Health Aid Kombucha. All right, I work
with them.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yes, I am telling you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
If you have not tried kombucha and health Aid Kombucha,
this is your savior. You don't if you like soda,
try this. Flavors are amazing and it's good. It does
good stuff for your gut and for your kids. It's
not soda, but it's got like that sensation of Health
Aid Kombucha. In full transparency, I have an interest in
(09:48):
the company, and I love it. And the only reason
I have an interest because I love the product. I
had it a couple times over the years. I'm like,
I want to get in on this company. I want
to work for you guys. All right, Next, c meats
like pershutto ham cured.
Speaker 4 (10:03):
Me Oh no, those are so nice to.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Twenty four minutes, twenty four minutes. Every time that is spared,
twenty four times it meets cured meats. Think all cured
meats twenty four minutes and the longest one. These are
the time that you lose in life every time you
have one of these. A hot dog. No, they say
out of the University of Michigan, every time you have
(10:30):
a hot dog, you lose thirty six minutes of your life. Wow.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Just a baseball season's kicking off. There you have it,
all those Dodger dogs, fries.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
What puts time back on your life? Bananas every every
banana thirteen minutes. Oh, salmon, every salmon sixteen minutes, and
thirty grams of nuts thirty minutes.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
A god, let's offset it.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Today's quote, What if everything you're going through is preparing
you for what you asked for. I have a feeling
it's true. You may not know it yet, but follow
the path.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Kiss FM headlines with siciny.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Well, two games in Japan, two wins for the Dodgers
as the defending world champions.
Speaker 3 (11:11):
Beat the Cubs again this morning.
Speaker 4 (11:13):
Opening Day at Dodger Stadium, by the way, is next
Thursday against Detroit. The astronauts who are trapped in space
are safely.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Back on Earth.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
You know.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
They were only supposed to be at the International Space
Station for a week, but they ended up being trapped
for nine months. The Malibu City Council approved a new
four million dollars skate park overlooking the ocean in Malibu Bluff's.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
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Row, the favorite dog breed in Los Angeles is the
French bulldog.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, that's what we're gonna do.
It's Kiss FM, Wango Tango tickets. They're on sale to everybody.
It's made tenth. It's on the beach, Honeydon City Beach
is gonna.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Be sick, yes, Mother's Day weekend.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Definally, gonna do a sunset set and we're gonna play
match game. Let's get our contestants here. Jackie contested number
one in Norcokee, California. Jackie, Good morning, Hi, good morning,
how are you.
Speaker 4 (12:12):
I'm doing so good.
Speaker 7 (12:13):
I'm so excited to be talking to you guys.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Oh we love that. Or you hold on for and
say you're can test number one. Vanessa is on the line. Vanessa,
you are contestant number two in Palmdale.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Are you ready to try and win Wango Tango tickets?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yes, I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (12:30):
Here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play match game.
So we're gonna a phrase with the blank in it.
Whoever gets the most matches wins. We use our panel. Vanessa,
you hold Jackie your first. Don't say what you're thinking
out loud, just put your answer in your head. Okay,
blank oil, blank oil. What do you think the panel
(12:53):
is gonna write down in the blank, because that's what
you want to match with, Jackie? What kind of oil?
Speaker 7 (12:59):
Can oil?
Speaker 2 (13:01):
Tanning oil? You know what oil? I picked olive.
Speaker 7 (13:05):
I was about to say, olive oil is a good one.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Let's go to olive. There you go, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
I also said olive.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
Okay, that's not tanning Ruby.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I said olive oil too.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
We have some advocates of the e v O tups olive.
Speaker 4 (13:28):
Oh my gosh, I should have just gone with my guy.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Don't underestimate the power of olive oil.
Speaker 4 (13:36):
I am the my god exactly, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
God, Vanessa, here's yours, stand by JACKI, Vanessa is yours?
Yours is blank hole and make sure it's appropriate for air,
blank hole, body parts, blank hole.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Pole.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Okay, that thought, rap it, but I don't count. Okay,
let's go with pothole.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I said water, waterhole, Tanya, I said donut hole.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Ruby, did you say puddle? I said, pothole? Tops sinkhole,
sink hole? How dark dark? All right, then, essay, Congratulations,
you're going to Wango Tango. We appreciate you both for
(14:32):
listening and playing along. Y'all have a great Wednesday. We
have more Wango Tango tickets to get away. They're on sale.
I don't want to two point seven. It's kiss up
down right. It was very funny at the pregame night
before the wedding. Uh, Robbie's dad got up and made
a little speech, and he said, you know, I had to
(14:53):
learn a few things once kind of came into my
boys life. All had to get on the Instagram. Get
on the Instagram to learn about Tanya is everything she
does up on the Instagram and Robbie's like, there's no
the Yeah, it's just Instagram. Don Have you ever scrolled
through Instagram reels and thought, I wish I could share
(15:13):
this oddly specific algorithm experience with somebody I love.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Yes, I think we all have.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Well what is it?
Speaker 4 (15:21):
You haven't? Okay, maybe you're not a share but I am, like,
I see something funny and I send it to Michael,
or I send it to Tanya. I send to whoever
I think would like to see that funny algorithm video,
and it takes up a lot of time kind of
But if you can actually just share the algorithm altogether
with somebody, then that's what blend is.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
It's a new feature.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
It creates a private shared reels feed for you and
a friend, and Instagram mixes both of your algorithms for
a combined feed. So you say, I want to mix
my algorithm with Tanya, Then all of a sudden, we're
going to have our own feed of like videos that
we both kind of like.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
But where is that in your main feed?
Speaker 4 (16:00):
It'll be it'll probably be like a different tab. They're
testing it out right now with a few like you know,
beta testing and stuff like that. But then eventually yes,
you would have your set people. It's almost like group text,
but this would be group algorithm feeds.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
All right, Well, when you guys test it on, let
me know if I want to get into that.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
I think the cool thing about this though, is that
for once, Instagram is not really copying TikTok because everything
else they kind of have, and so this is new.
This is completely different than any other platform out there.
I love the idea because I share so many videos
with my friends to begin with.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
I'll might share a video with you right now, not
through that. But this is uh dancing Queen here, This
is I've never seen Mark, our producer, get on the
dance floor, I mean the time of his life. Now
you can't see the moves, but you got to see
our producer, Mark dance. I thought, I I thought, I struggled,
(16:59):
and then I saw this. And so who has it
the composed it places produce the Mark? Can we get
that up to seat or whoever's doing this stuff? That
is that correct?
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
The moves of Mark and Dancing Queen brought him out
on that. He was the first place. Oh yeah, apt
I was on the aultar. Yeah, I saw everybody rushing out.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
For that one on air with Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
But TikTok lots of health trends. Some work, some don't work,
and some are dangerous. So let's start with eyelash trimming.
So it's on TikTok. Everybody's talking about it. I looked
into it. Tiktoks are taking their scissors to their eyelashes
in an effort to appear more manly. Is that masculine?
Is that what they're sing like?
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Guys are doing this because they don't want them to
be so curly.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
I like long curly eyelashes. I'm for them. I would
never do this. They say it's not safe. Trimming their
eyelashes reduces UV protection, increase of the risk of cancers
and cataracts. Don't do it. That's reason enough. Next one
TikTok trends people are talking about, are they just dumb
or do they work? Sleep maxing? Now, listen to this
(18:05):
sleep maxing Sysney Tana. I'm here nightly routine out in
my sleep quality, including red light glasses, having key weed
before you go to bed, melatonin weighted blankets, nostril expanders,
and mouth tape. Oh's one of those things, right, It
is safe, But it's not helping you sleep, Yes, it is.
(18:27):
It's tiny. These are experts.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
It sounds like a chore to do, way too much work,
all of this before bedtime.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Enough to do before I go to sleep, To get ready,
one more thing, a.
Speaker 6 (18:39):
Little melatonin and a mouth tape and alton.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
It might work, but the whole combination doesn't really do
that much.
Speaker 6 (18:44):
They said, these nostril expanders, I might need to get.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Yeah, that's a good look. You don't blank, you don't now,
you won't close your nostrils. Be a real look. Even
Robbie commenting his valves, how TINYA doesn't blink. It's a
great line. Sardines all right, TikTokers are saying, the sardine
diet is what you should.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
Be doing, and only sardines.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Well, eat sardines and only sardines for several days in
a time, or months whatever you can do, or weeks,
and you boost your metabolism and you lose weight. Is
it safe? WHOA, No, it's not safe. You're exposing yourself
to way too much mercury and salt, missing out on
(19:25):
the fiber. Now I am a sardine enthusiasm, Yes you are,
so have them once a week, have them every once
in a while, but they are good. They're high Omega threes.
I got high omegas all right? Next one. These are
TikTok trends. Are they dumb? Yeah? Most of them? Pain
tolerance challenge. If you're the pain tolerance challenge.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
No, but it already sounds dumb.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
This is idiotic.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
I don't even want to know what it is.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
You drop a like an object on your foot, then
you rate the pain on a scale of one to ten.
Come on, are there benefits zero? No, it's just for
entertainment and it's not save TikTok stuff and warnings on
these videos. One guy dropped the space hener on his
foot and it broke it.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Oh my gosh, I can't how did you do that?
Speaker 4 (20:07):
Literally hurt. Don't knock the sleep maxing one.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
This one's crazy.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
You're not gonna wake up with the weighted blanket in
the Miladona.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Yeah. I never get to bed Seacrest with you, Sisney
with you, Tanya with you. So she asked this question, Sysney,
do you have a fashion mantra? A fashion mantra?
Speaker 4 (20:30):
I don't think I do, or I don't know what
it is?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Well, do what let's get into this. So apparently this
trending report has a headline with Sarah Michelle Geller.
Speaker 3 (20:41):
Oh, I love her?
Speaker 2 (20:42):
Is she still married to Freddy Prince Junior? Yes? How
about those two?
Speaker 1 (20:44):
I know?
Speaker 2 (20:46):
Run with it.
Speaker 6 (20:47):
So she says she is only getting better as she
gets older. But she's also revealing her fashion mantra these days,
and it made me think about, like, I really want
to make one of those.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
I don't have one, and I really want one.
Speaker 6 (21:00):
And she said, I think that there was a time
when I worried so much about what was trendy and
what people would think of how I looked in it,
And I think now I'm more invested in myself and
wanting to try things that are different. So people say
it's really important in your career and in life to
have like a north star that guides you, like in
all your decisions. And I've never had a fashion mantra,
(21:20):
and I've been wanting to kind of evolve my style
in this new season of life. And so I was like,
I was wondering if you guys had a fashion mantra
or what it would be.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
So I have one and I'm working on getting there.
I'm going through my closets and I'm cleaning out a
lot of different things because I really just want five
things that are the same. So I don't mind it.
I don't care. You're going to see me in the
same look many days a week. But I want to simplify.
(21:52):
I just want to I want to tighten it up.
I want to get less in the closet. I want
to simplify my look. I want to have a standard uniform.
If you would you know more or less? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
But what about your suits?
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Where do those live?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
Fortune?
Speaker 4 (22:06):
Okay, so like those are not in your house? You
have a handful maybe, I.
Speaker 2 (22:10):
Mean I got a couple of them, but most of
my suits live at work, right, because that's like your uniform,
almost my uniform off air, you're going to see it. Yeah,
like black shirt, black shirt, black fans.
Speaker 4 (22:21):
It's like Michael the same thing. He wants the same
brand shirts for every birthday and Christmas.
Speaker 2 (22:26):
So does Robbie make it easier on myself?
Speaker 4 (22:29):
And sicany I don't have one yet, but I do
need to get into my closet and and weed some
stuff out, that's right.
Speaker 2 (22:37):
So yeah, I want to evolve. I want to like.
Speaker 3 (22:42):
I'm a wife, now.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
You know I was there. I said, your husband and wife,
I'm the first person to tell.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
You I feel like my fashion needs to evolve.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, It.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Is Kiss FM. Thanks for streaming it. Listen to us
Maddie's and Fullerton. Now, Mattie, I want to jump right
into this because they hear it's a sensitive topic. Your
fiance is insistent on getting a pre up. When did
he's bring this on you? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (23:11):
Last night he took me out to dinner. We got
engaged a couple of weeks ago, and it's honestly, it's
been incredible. It's the happiest I've ever been in my life.
But he thinks that we need to sign a prenup
for some reason. He's never brought it up before, and
I kind.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
Of hate that.
Speaker 2 (23:28):
Okay what I kind of feel like? What was his
headline when he brought it up to you?
Speaker 8 (23:36):
He was just like he thinks that, you know, it's
just smart business, And I'm like, why did Yeah? Right,
I'm like, why would you plan for our eventual breakup
when you want to marry me and be together forever?
And we got into this huge fight because I don't know,
it just feels very like doomsday, Like why are you
(23:58):
Why are you saying this is smart business when this
is like love you know, and.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Is it a deal breaker for you? That's just I
guess where my head goes.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
I freaking out about it. I I love him so much.
He'd he like had clauses and like like articles about
how he wanted, you know, we are to spend every
other Christmas with his family, which was already our plan
all along.
Speaker 4 (24:25):
Why it like in writing yeah that legally, I mean,
I love and trust and loyal like, of.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
Course you're going to do that.
Speaker 4 (24:35):
It'd be one thing if it was like I mean,
even all of the money side of it is like
makes me feel weird.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
But that like putting the.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Christmases in and all that, that's that's even weird.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
When is the wedding supposed to be?
Speaker 8 (24:48):
It was supposed to be next year, And he just.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Threw this on you, the prenup conversation above my pay
grade this one, So.
Speaker 4 (24:57):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
There's a guy I forget. Wow, we have his name,
but there's a guy. His title is America's divorce lawyer.
A lot of happy times in his office, and he's
a legal expert and he's got a podcast. I think
that's how I've heard of him anyways. Name is James
James Sexton. He's also an author too. I'm gonna actually
(25:22):
throw this on him for you. You'll listen in and
we'll get some advice on how to handle it and
where to go and how you should feel. Hey time
one second, he's on the line with his.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Neck on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
So let's get into this. Maddie has been generously hanging
on the line here. She's getting married in about a year.
Her fiance just at the last minute, didn't know what
was coming, sprung a pre nump on her, and she
doesn't feel good about it. And then the prenups got
all kinds of things like clauses about where they're supposed
to spend Christmas, alternating family homes, all that kind ofless stuff,
(25:58):
a lot of detail, and just not feeling good about
the concept. Because you love each other, you're getting married.
White if to document all that kind of stuff, right, Okay,
So I'm bringing in this guy here. He's an expert
in this. His name is James Sexton. He's an America's divorce lawyer,
author of If You're in my office. It's already too late.
(26:18):
A divorce lawys guide me staying together? I mean, James,
no shortage of business and no happy times in your world.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
I mean, listen, you know I don't make it rain.
I just sell the umbrella.
Speaker 2 (26:30):
I mean, it's never going to stop raining in your world.
Speaker 7 (26:34):
All right.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
So you have a lot of different platforms here, but
let's just jump into specific Thanks for willing to come
on for this one incident. We just met Maddie, and
you always saying to matt Mattie, give him the headline
real quick, just the headline.
Speaker 8 (26:47):
Yeah, so just got engaged. We've been together this five
years and everything's been amazing, except for last night. He
told me that he wants me to sign a prenup
and there's all these clauses about we have to spend
Christmas at his family's house every other year, which is
stuff we already agree to do. So why does that
have to be legally binding? Why do I have to
sign some document swearing to all these things? It just
(27:11):
shows really itchy and I'm freaking out.
Speaker 7 (27:13):
Yeah. Yeah, So I want to say a couple of
things that I think are really important. So, first of all,
fifty six percent of marriages and in divorce. Okay, so
I tell people constantly marriage is a little bit like
the lottery. You are probably not going to win, but
if you win, what you win is so good that
you should buy a ticket.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
For sure.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
It's absolutely worth it. Marriage can be one of the
greatest things. A romantic coupling that lasts a lifetime can
be the greatest ad value you'll ever have in your
whole life. So I applaud you for the fact that
you're brave enough to love and to say, you know what,
I want to commit to this person, and your fiance
is as well. But that being said, every marriage has
a free nup, every single one. It's either a pre
(27:57):
nup that's written by the government or it's written by
you and the person you love and trust more than
the eight billion other options in the world, eight billion
other people. You said, this is my person, but otherwise
you've got a prenup. All prenup is a set of
rules that govern what happens to your marriage in the
event that it ends. And by the way, I hate
to be the one to tell you this, every marriage ends.
(28:19):
It ends in death, or it ends in divorce. It's
one of the only things you ever say, I really
hope this ends in death, but all marriages end. So
what you have to think about is from the beginning,
who should make the rules of what happens when it ends?
Should it be the government? Have you ever walked into
the DMV and thought, you know what, these people really
have it together, like they should be in charge of everything.
(28:39):
They should be in charge of my finances if the
two of us split up. Absolutely not, Like you and
your fiance are in a much better position to make
the rules for your marriage in the event that it comes.
Apart that being said, part of feeling love, in my opinion,
is feeling safe, and both people in a marriage should
feel safe, because if you don't feel safe, you can't
really you loved. So you have a right in this
(29:03):
conversation to be an equal participant with your fiance and
to say, okay, what about Christmas at your parents house?
That that's important enough to you you want it to
be in writing? What about when we have kids someday?
What if someday we want to have it? It's a
little bit is it enforceable? What we call the police
on each other? Have conversations about why is this important
(29:23):
to you. What is it born of Is it born
of fear? Because very often when you talk to someone
about the provisions that they want, you're going to learn
a lot about what they're afraid of, what they feel
they owe to you and you owe to them. And
I have to tell you, at the beginning of a
journey like a marriage, there is no better conversation to
(29:43):
have than Hey, what do we mean to each other?
What do we owe each other? How do we make
each other feel safe and feel seen? And this can
be an opportunity to do that. It took a lot
of courage for your fiance to say something that he
knew you probably wouldn't want to hear. It is a really,
really healthy muscle to develop really early in a relationship,
(30:04):
and especially right before marriage, because you're gonna have times
where you have to tell each other painful truths rather
than comfortable lives. So I think you should see this
as the opportunity that it really is and not automatically
see it as hey, he doesn't have faith in our marriage,
No more so than when he gets in the car
and puts on a seatbelt. You know, you go, hey, well,
(30:25):
you don't have faith in my driving. Of course, I
have faith in your driving. But you know what, sometimes
a car comes out of nowhere and it had nothing
to do with either of our skill levels. So you
have to kind of look at it like that and
not internalize it. Again, it's understandable to feel it that way,
but I just don't think that's the way to approach it.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
Matt, is that helpful? I feel like that's really really
interesting context and great ways to put it so quickly.
Speaker 7 (30:50):
Matter.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
We got to take a break. But does that help.
Speaker 1 (30:53):
It?
Speaker 7 (30:53):
Does?
Speaker 8 (30:53):
It gives me a lot to think about. I think
I'm seeing it from a different perspective now.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
So throw that out, you throw that back.
Speaker 7 (31:00):
At the congratulations on your engagement.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
It's a wonderful thing.
Speaker 7 (31:04):
I wish you all the bad things. Stay out of
my office.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
And stay out of his office. And that's great advice.
Jim Sex in America's divorce lawyer. You can check out
his podcast where we get your podcast and his book
if you're ever in my office. It's already too late
to go check it out. A divorce lat's got to
staying together. Appreciate it, brother, Thanks so much, you guys.
Take care of Maddie. Good luck with everything on air.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
All right, so in the back room, you got you
know where Michael and Ruby have lived for a long time,
and we've got a new member here, a Funzo Funzi
called fun Call me sir, so no, I mean I was.
Speaker 9 (31:47):
I'm telling you, man, I was raised old school, so
like it's always sir or ma'am and I'm just like
man let's first two.
Speaker 2 (31:57):
All right, So Alfonso Corona News. Remember the back room here,
guys going back to his high school, International poly Technic
High School in Pomona. He got an f on his
assignment where he wrote about us when he was in school, right.
Speaker 4 (32:14):
Yeah, and now are you going back to talk about us?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Yeah, yourself. H's a project, right, you had a project
Originally you didn't get a passing grade.
Speaker 9 (32:22):
Yeah, so I got the first time I presented, I failed, right,
and then the only way you could like pass was
to redo it. But the highest grade you could get
was a D.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
So I had.
Speaker 9 (32:31):
So I did redo it and I graduated, thank goodness.
And yeah, so now the plan is to I guess
maybe relive some like nostalgia and also kind of relive
my failure at senior year. But I am going to
come back, and I'm going to come back hard and
just share with everyone, like you know, hey, you know,
just just just because you fail, SENI your project doesn't
(32:53):
mean you can't get to work on the team that
you want to work with later.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
So just saying, are you so? By the way, he
worked for UPS, driving the truck for Amazon, UPS managed
a ross dress for less. Those prices are great in
Wittier And here he is now in the back room.
So what is your what is the body of your talk? Yeah?
Speaker 9 (33:14):
So it is interesting because a lot of the teachers
were or like the staff, they were kind of asking
us like, oh, okay, so like what Like a lot
of students are kind of scared about choosing a major
and then eventually like being unsure where to go from there, right,
And so I think a lot of it is like, okay, well,
how did you find your way through in your career path?
And like, you know, what can you tell students about
(33:36):
like navigating in a sense, you know, counco failure or
uncertainty insecurity? And I think the one thing I've learned
is that, like you know, our career paths are never linear.
I A lot of people think, oh, it's an easy
like you know, ladder up and then that's it, right,
Like you just do the thing and then that's it.
But I realized, like I graduated twenty eighteen, I was
still unsure if I wanted to do like broadcasting or anything.
(33:59):
I was just like I got calm degree, Let's see
what I do with it, you know. And so that
was like about five years of kind of like you know,
like you know, odd jobs, just kind of like working
anywhere and everywhere. But then eventually like it was just like, Okay,
you know what my dream has always been, you know,
being here with this team and just being in the
building here at iHeart, and so like, let why am
I stopping myself now, and so like kind of like
(34:20):
leaving behind that mentality of like oh I can't get in,
Like yeah I can.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I did. It's also about, you know, if you don't
know what you want to do at that age, you
get a job, take a job, just start you know,
making some money and having your own, know, being able
to save some money or paying for your all the
things you need to pay for in life. You'll do
that job forever, but could be a first step into
something that's totally different when you find your passion.
Speaker 9 (34:42):
Yeah, and I think like for me, like it was
one of those things where it's like I knew I
wanted to get into like broadcasting. So that's what I did,
Like I went back to school, I got like a
radio certificate, and then at the same time, I was like,
you know what, I'm gonna work Amazon ups and I'm
going to self fund my little like in the closet
broadcasting studio.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
That that's what I did.
Speaker 9 (35:00):
I have like a little roadcaster like mixer, and then
I bought myself my own mic off of Amazon, and
I was like, you know what, I am going to
be a self funded broadcaster until you know, we finally
get to where we want to go. You know.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
No different by the way, I went to I Mode
Lawns when I was a teenager to earn enough money
to buy a mixer and a microphone from radio Shack
at the mall, and I pretended to be a DJ
on cassette tape so I would just record myself introducing
songs and give them to my parents's gifts. Who what
a gift from that? But he's great. I love you
going back and you know, bring some kiss stuff to
(35:34):
give away too. People love THEO kiss. Oh yeah, I'll
talk to promo.
Speaker 9 (35:38):
See what I can do.
Speaker 4 (35:39):
Yeahs A bunch of merch from her wedding, yeah, brad
yag stuff whatever, Yeah, a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
All right, well, good luck. Let us know how it goes. Yeah, no,
for sure, I'll make sure to take pictures. Okay, thumbs up.
Speaker 1 (35:51):
All right.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
Uh, let's see here, Katie Perry tickets. That's what we're
doing next in one minute. Thank you' all. Fonds up
for the back room, Fonzie, thank you.
Speaker 7 (35:58):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
Air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
Kiss FM. Gonna be at our Wango Tango May tenth
the beach Seacrest here assistanting Tanya my wedding chat around here.
You know, Tanya just got married. Oh my god, I
can't believe it. It's like that we've been training for
it all our lives and she did it. And then
you got Tubb's next, our engineer, Jeffrey Tubbs next. He
(36:25):
has no idea what he's gonna do, but he's gonna
get married somewhere somehow, with very few people around. So anyway,
this struck me. Maybe my phone's listening to me and
sending me these articles. I don't know. Probably is it
does happen?
Speaker 3 (36:36):
Yeah, mine does for sure.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
This is uh dividing the internet. It's about reciprocal wedding gifts.
So there's a woman refusing to purchase a gift for
her friend's wedding because they did not get her and
her husband a gift or card when they got married.
Oh come on, really, So it's our husband's friend that's
getting married. Where do you stand on this? And a
(36:59):
few years ago he was a groomsman in their wedding,
but the friend and his now fiance did not get
them anything.
Speaker 4 (37:06):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (37:08):
I don't know the people. I just read the story.
And now her husband is a groomsman in his wedding
and she's refusing to buy a gift. She says, I
believe you should do unto others as they do unto you.
Energy dang. Her husband's upset about it. He disagrees. He
thinks they should be bigger people and still get them
a gift. Maybe they forgot, maybe something happened. And I
(37:31):
agree with her husband.
Speaker 4 (37:33):
I agree so too. Two wrongs don't make it right here.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Just be above the line. If you can afford a
nice gift or not even a nice gift, just any
gift get or something, you know, you any tongs for
a grill grilled tongs. I totally am with him, but
other people agree with her, saying that they didn't forget
it was intentional and that she should not yet it's
come on, life's too short, it is. Did we give
(37:58):
you wedding gifts on it?
Speaker 6 (38:00):
No, we didn't make a registry. We figured we were
doing a destination wedding and everybody coming was our present.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
Yeah, no doubt. That was not a cheap weekend.
Speaker 4 (38:10):
Yeah. Which, by the way, you can receive gifts up
to a year after your wedding, so that like that's
the protocol or like the We have some people.
Speaker 6 (38:19):
Who like couldn't make it, that sent gifts and stuff
like that, but we really we didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
We didn't register.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
We didn't want to.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
I had to book that hotel. Yeah, and that one
hour transfer from the airport.
Speaker 4 (38:31):
Oh not the transfer.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
Well, I got in the car. First thing I said
to the guy, I'm like, how the tax, the uber
whatever it was.
Speaker 3 (38:38):
Did you to give you a bucket of beer?
Speaker 1 (38:39):
Ours?
Speaker 7 (38:39):
Did?
Speaker 2 (38:40):
I offered me a beer? I didn't want it, he said,
I said to him how long is the drive? He
goes to an hour depending on traffic.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
What what landing in the romantic part of the island.
Speaker 2 (38:52):
My first was time to get a closer hotel to
the airport.
Speaker 3 (38:54):
Well, they actually just built like a highway. It was
like a toll road.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
I'm surprised you didn't.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Take I think it took to I didn't say any time.
Speaker 3 (39:01):
Yeah it was. It was like forty five.
Speaker 2 (39:02):
There was traffic y traffic, key.
Speaker 4 (39:04):
So normal anywhere you go it's gonna be. I mean,
we can't even get to Santa Monica.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
In forty five minutes.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
Maybe I didn't want to hear an hour if you fly,
that's true, right anyway?
Speaker 1 (39:17):
On air with Ryan Seacrest, well there you have it.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
Kiss FM. I was gonna do it for us tomorrow morning.
It's a Ryan's rose, so let's just focus on that.
I guess we're on Thursday already. And Orion's rose is
she's convinced that her father in law is cheating on
her mother in law. However, she needs a solid proof
because she's already got a not so great relationship with
their mother in law. Sounds messy seven and Katy Perry
tickets Kendrick Lamar. Tickets every hour on Air, Ryan Seacrest,
(39:47):
wherever you get your podcasts to the back room, take
care of yourselves. Good work today, Thank you you too.
Did Alfonso take off after his big chat with me?
Oh yeah, he was out of here, big moment. Okay,
that's it. Yeah you guys till eleven o'clock. Just kiss up.
Speaker 5 (40:09):
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