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February 21, 2025 37 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hello, everybody, good morning, Good morning, Get ready for it.
I actually I slept so well that I got excited.
You ever, you go to sleep early enough to know
you're gonna wake up and look at the clock and
it's still going to be before midnight, and you feel
like you've slept, and you actually celebrate so much that

(00:31):
indorphins run through your body and you can't get back
to sleep. It's like you're getting two full nights of sleep.
I said, I actually said out loud, this is great.
Like I actually said something out loud.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
How'd you get such good sleep? What'd you do before?

Speaker 1 (00:44):
Well? I boxed, That's what it was. I boxed. I
felt I felt physically tired. You got knocked out before
I got hit, and it was down in the ring.
I boxed, and I had some watermelon with gitar and
sumac on it. Okay, spices like not salt. Usually I
put salt my watermelon.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
I'm surprised you ate that so late. Did you get
up to pee a lot?

Speaker 1 (01:05):
I was surprised I ate that so late? I did twice, Yes,
but I was. I was celebrating that. It's the feeling
of like you go to sleep, then you got that
sleep that you feel could have been the whole night.
But it's not even midnight yet. What a dream. It
doesn't happen often, but I want to celebrate that. I
want to recognize that today. How are you guys?

Speaker 2 (01:23):
Good?

Speaker 1 (01:24):
A had a dental cleaning yesterday, Oh my god, the best. No.
I used to love going to the dentist because I
was checked out of school to go. Now, with time
goes by, like things start happening, they start asking you
stuff like I didn't floss for many years in your mouthguard.
I don't wear my mouth guard still, but I do
flass religiously now. I mean, there are so many people

(01:46):
that don't do it, that think they can wait. Probably can.
But I should have started a little.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Sooner, right, you have to and then the receding gums,
the whole other thing. But I was actually a little
nervous showing my dentist my tooth gem.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
I was like, oh, no, what is he gonna think?
He did? Helge.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Not only did he acknowledge it, he was offended that
I didn't get it through him.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Apparently he doesn't just do that. You didn't know they
do tattoos as well. I don't know he doesn't do tattoos.
He's like, you know, I do. I do those gems here.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
You didn't pay for that, right, I was like, oh
my gosh, no, I would have done at a party.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Well, yeah, checking out it's giving out gems like I
need the guy cleaning my teeth and scrape. Yeah, he
done all that. He's a fantastic dentist. But that's it's
a little perk. People want the gems. He'll do him.
I dread that that rake, that uh oh, the silver hook.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yeah, but once he like you know, wash you all
down and stuff.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Well, the sound of it, like the sound of the
bone of your teeth.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Oh, it gives me the chill.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
But afterwards, like you can like but his fingernails on
a chalkboard can breathe through all the gaps, scraping the bone.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Bro I haven't gotten probably over a year.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
Over, so you need to do it.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
It's just every six months, yeah, every six months. And
I was actually talking to my dentists. I wanted to
go awvery four months and she's like, you need to
check with your insurance over Zelos there.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
I love getting my teeth cleaned.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (03:09):
I'm like, it's like the best feeling ever.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's a drag. It takes time. Any appointment. I don't
like going any appointments. They take time.

Speaker 6 (03:15):
The parking and mine's in like mar Vista or somewhere
very far away.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Mine's into Luca Lake right here. Does anybody have a
doctor as a bathroom? Actually in the suite of the doctor.
I go with it, always gone large ruler attached to
a keychain to go to the bathroom that's locked.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, inside, it's inside. One has a bathroom, Oh yeah,
mine's inside. It's beautiful.

Speaker 7 (03:43):
Place.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
A few months, a few years ago. You gotta go
to the bathroom. You gotta go outside down the hall.
The door is locked, and you take a big paint
brush with a keychain on it. That's how it was
back in the day. Is that a hygiene thing? The
bathrooms can't be in doctor's offices.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Maybe because they're the way they built those buildings back
in the day.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
No, I feel like it's an l a thing because
there's like no space.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
I dread going into the bathroom because I gotta go
out unlock it, take the.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Massive, and I hate touching that thing.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Go see doctor Pima to luc Lake, Doctor Pina, Pima Pima,
Doctor Pimah, doctor Pima. No No, I got a great dentist,
doctor John Mrashi. Just want to shout it out, John Marashi.
He's a skateboarder. My dentist's tooth gems. We'll see it's

(04:30):
both la cools.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Well, my dentist is in a band.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Okay, Really, your dentist isn't a band?

Speaker 6 (04:36):
Yeah, I mean he's Serbian, so he like plays Serbian music.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
I think, like when I was a kid growing up
in Atlanta, dentists or dentists, they didn't have hobbies or
fun things to do.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
I don't think that's what you think.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
They probably that's what I think, didn't. I guess they
didn't share their skateboarding with me. All right, let's get
to the horscopes guys this morning, what do you got?

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Okay, Aries, laid down and take a load off.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
Today, Taurres, don't forget that to do and stay on task.

Speaker 6 (05:01):
Gemini, read the fine print and don't let anything slip
through the cracks.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
Cancer, no normal errands feel daunting today.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Let yourself chill O.

Speaker 6 (05:10):
Good Leo, get some vitamin D and have lunch outside today.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Virgo, let yourself enjoy mindless TV tonight.

Speaker 6 (05:17):
Libra, you'll stop pleasing everyone at the expense of yourself.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
Scorpio reminder, don't compare yourself to anyone on social media.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
Sagittarius.

Speaker 6 (05:26):
If your manager is making work miserable, weigh your options.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Capricorn and pick up a new hobby that lets you escape.

Speaker 6 (05:33):
Aquarius, you need to spend time in water.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Today, and Pisces, don't let anything hurt your feelings today.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Let it bounce off. Tuney, you are a cancer I
feel like every time, and I know that you navigate
the soroscopes. Yours is always relaxed. Take it easy today,
you're doing great, have a treat. I'm for the transcript here.
I've noticed that as well.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
It's not true and then she reacts to hers like
you've never heard it before. So enlightening, because no, it's
true because I wrote it.

Speaker 3 (06:04):
No, but I didn't.

Speaker 6 (06:04):
Okay, I wrote this days ago because I know, and
second of all, I didn't know that I was going
to feel this way. I feel so ill today and
it says let yourself chill, like that's exactly what I'm
going to do later days ago.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Okay, hold on for seconds with Ryan Seacrest. I do
recall Systanty judge not judge such a harsh word, but yeah,
judging about this. When Tanya created it was more out
of concern, you know.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
I was like, Oh, it's just need to take up
so much time, Like you really want to like handle
two Instagrams.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Like you got a new puppy, you rescued a dalmatian,
and now you've created a page for your puppy.

Speaker 6 (06:40):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
I not only did we create a page for him,
it was like part of like the name naming him process.
I was like, if we name him this, can we
have a cool Instagram handle? Like literally thought about it
from the beginning.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
So what made you go from saying not a good
idea and laborious to Tanya, it's actually doing it. I
don't know what it was about.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Well, I think maybe just the uniqueness of having a
Dalmatian and the amount of love that it's going to.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
Give people by me posting pictures and videos of him.
I will say that the photos that you have sent me, Tanya,
of your Sonny, and the photos you've shown us of
the Dalmatian like, you will go up a notch of
having up better day when you see the photos, yeaes
like they're cute.

Speaker 6 (07:23):
And I'll say the reason why I started it was
because I was taking so many photos and videos of
Sonny and I felt like my entire page was becoming
just my dog. And I was like, I'm just going
to put everything on her Instagram and not like keep
mine mine. And it was the best decision ever because
now I have this like chronological she's grown up on
this page. It's like so cute, you know what I mean,

(07:45):
because I have all this documented from when she was
a puppy until now.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
I did this back in the day with Dakota on
Facebook because there was no Instagram back then, and I
just didn't keep up with it, you know, right, So
I have like puppy pictures of her. But then who
knows how long it will last with uh Diego, but
it's Diego dot the Dalmatian Diego dot. Yeah, like Diego
like and then the period and then the domination comes up. Yeah,

(08:10):
I get past all those they don't have enough follower
they're not posting, one hasn't posted.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
Okay, got it here? Oh, you got three blocks of
photos up.

Speaker 8 (08:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
I posted a video not too long ago Diego's first bath.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Yeah, it's so cute.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
So this is really the damnation is adorable. Yeah are
they calm?

Speaker 2 (08:30):
So a lot of energy and right now is like
crucial time for training. And it's all about him trusting
us and building that trust with this dog.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
And how was the bath? That's always a difficult one.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
He was very calm in the bath. I think he
liked it a lot. I'll have to give him another
one tonight. But the kids love it, and as is
really kind of stepping up into like a helper mode.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
This is the best decision you've ever made.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
The dog Instagram find it a lot of words, Sonny.
You at Sunnygirl dot v cavapooh cava poo.

Speaker 6 (09:05):
So Sunnygirl dot the kava poo it is. It just
brings me joy. It just makes me happy. And I
just upload everything, every photo.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
I take of her.

Speaker 8 (09:14):
There.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
So I was reading that I think seventy percent of
us have pets, and we now, I think more so
than ever, we who have pets treat our pets more
like humans than ever before. We want natural stuff for them,
we want to live longer. We don't want them to
go away. We want to engineer their bodies and their
fod so that they can, you know, have the best
life and be healthy.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
Yeah, because you're my algorithm. I don't know if this
is free. I get these videos all the time in
my algorithm of parents playing with their puppies, and it says, how,
you know, like they're not here for a very long time,
so make their life the.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
Best life ever.

Speaker 6 (09:47):
And I always think about that anytime we're doing anything
with her, I'm like, I have to make make this
the best life she's ever had.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
I know. I can't think about the fact that they
live less than we do because that part, like that part,
I've never been through that way.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
When I sit there and I start doing the math
and I'm like, how I don't want kids to be
I was like, oh my gosh, that's it's yeah, you
want to.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
You don't want to think about it, but you do.
We've got Georgia and Olio. Now a dude dog. This
is a dude dog. I've never had a DoD dog, only
girl dogs. Oh yeah, it seems like he's a very energetic.
He's gonna knock my jaw like he's so strong. He's
got big, broad, strong shoulders, and he comes at you
full speed. Yeah.

Speaker 5 (10:23):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
When you play with the toy, you can just like
and you're trying to like tug it out. If you
do the trick where you massage like underneath their mouth,
they'll kind of release easier the toy.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
He does that to me. It gives you a facial
Oh so I relaxed at night air with Rycrest. Texting etiquette.
Are you familiar with it? And I got a quote
for this morning. But you may be annoying your friends,
maybe annoying your family without even really knowing it. They
talked to a bunch of people and they said that

(10:52):
these are the worst things you can do. You double
text or triple text or quadruple text. For me, it's
anybody since just a question marks so annoying or just
a K so annoying? Well can't you can't take okay?

Speaker 4 (11:08):
I never knew K was basically like cust hey, somebody
blowing someone off.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
I had no I sometimes just do a K here
and there, and I don't read it in a mean way.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
You've done it to me A couple of times. I'm like, oh,
are you mad, are.

Speaker 1 (11:20):
You will people do two k's. What's that mean?

Speaker 3 (11:24):
That's friendlier?

Speaker 1 (11:25):
Ok Why can't you say okay? If you can go okay?

Speaker 2 (11:28):
John Paro does kkh about okay?

Speaker 1 (11:32):
That's what it is.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
It's okay.

Speaker 1 (11:34):
It's easier to just do the KK because they're just
right easier.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
Do you need typing to be it's right next to you, mister.
I never checked my typos and I just send.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Oh man, I had some doozies over the last couple
of days to come out. I always want to read
them back to you, but I forget.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
No, we read them and we tried to, like it's
like trying to solve a clue like scrabble.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Look the perks of this job. You get a little
fun game at home. Decode my tap, all right, So
that's one. And you reply to every message in a
group text. I guess people don't like that, Okay, I do.
I'm gonna stop. Yeah, And you use a reaction instead
of responding the haha, thumbs up, blah blah. Heart so lazy,

(12:15):
so me too fine. I even know how to do
the heart. I think I do all these things. Today's
quote surround yourself with people who fight for you in
rooms you're not in telling people talk behind your back,
and you probably know some of them, and some of
them you just think that they do. But that's a
good quote for this morning.

Speaker 9 (12:35):
YEP.

Speaker 1 (12:36):
Just FM headlines with siny Well.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
A driver was injured overnight when his truck was hit
by a rock while driving through downtown LA. A second
driver reported a similar incident now the two incidents happened
close to each other on the one, ten, and ten freeways.
Trader Joe's has issued a recall of its organic asa
E bowls, saying that the product may contain plastic.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
You can return them for a full refund.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Disaster recovery experts from LMU, UCLA and Purdue University are
looking for homeowners near the Palisades and Eaten Fire areas
to participate in a soil sampling study to test for
possible wildfire pollutants.

Speaker 1 (13:18):
And Tate McRae released.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
Her highly anticipated third studio album, So Close to What
Last Night. We're actually gonna be playing tracks off that
new album all day here on Kiss.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
In fact, we've got one lined up next on air on.

Speaker 8 (13:32):
Air with Ryan Seacrest.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
So let's get to Elsie newest member of the back room,
one of our producers here, and she's got else. How
many roommates you got she's coming into the main studio. Okay.
We had shelves in our fridges. We had shelves, and
we had labels on our shelves. Yep. We also would
label our food. How many roommates do you got? A few?

Speaker 4 (13:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Family? Family? Do you label any of your your your
shelves or your food?

Speaker 10 (14:05):
I don't, but I am moving forward because I've learned
the consequences of not doing so.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Yeah, what happened Every.

Speaker 10 (14:12):
Morning I was coming in with crazy meals and I
just wanted to feel normal.

Speaker 5 (14:17):
So I was like, I'm going to get some egg bites.

Speaker 10 (14:20):
And every every time I got egg bites like, I
felt like, you know, I looked forward to it every morning,
and then I would get it. The next morning. I
would look at the fridge and I just saw like
they were missing.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
And do you know who it is?

Speaker 5 (14:37):
There's two people. There's two people that are guilty for sure.

Speaker 10 (14:43):
I won't say who, but there's there's been a couple
of fences.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Okay, And have you addressed it with them? Me?

Speaker 11 (14:52):
Not?

Speaker 5 (14:54):
I haven't.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
It's my boyfriend that's even more awkward. Well, because I
addressed it.

Speaker 5 (15:01):
My boyfriend did address it.

Speaker 10 (15:03):
He kindly said, hey, avoid grabbing this. This is for
Elsie so that she can have food in the morning
for work, and.

Speaker 5 (15:10):
Then the other person takes it.

Speaker 10 (15:12):
So one person doesn't get the mamo, the other person
gets the memo life, and then it's the other way around.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Friend, I like your boyfriend stepping up saying, look, my
girl works early and she looks forward to this in
the morning. Let's throw it down if you touch your
food again.

Speaker 10 (15:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:26):
Yeah, Are these bad people or they're just rude?

Speaker 5 (15:30):
No, they're not bad people. They just like egg bites,
I suppose.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
I mean, the thing is this happened to me. I
used to bring home chin chin. Remember that stuff? Oh yeah, Chinchin.
I used to bring on the salads from Chinchin, and
the sounds always better the next day if they soaked
in the dressing, wouldn't you know it? Tenas my roommate
at the time. I had Louis Tanaz and Tiffany as
my roommates at the time. Elsie and Tanas would get

(15:58):
home he taught school. He'd get home from school and
he'd be hungry and he'd eat half right out of
the carton of my Chin shin Chinese chicken salad free
for all. You know, the wants are all soggy? That
do you like that?

Speaker 6 (16:14):
I don't like with the wanton second unspoken rule that
you don't touge the other roommate's stuff unless they say.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
I recommend a system of labeling, a system of having
your own shelf.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Things like that feels unnecessary.

Speaker 1 (16:30):
Well, this is a real violation. Two offenders. Tanya, you
live with Robbie, she lives with a lot of people.
Let me deal with this.

Speaker 10 (16:39):
Yeah, I think I also have had experiences with roommates
previously where I'm like, I've respected my roommate, they've respected me.

Speaker 5 (16:48):
So it's just territory.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
But you're like, why is this happening? Yeah? I like
that your your you're sort of staying out of it.
But your boyfriend steps up for you. It's a good sign.
And like him a lot. Yeah. Egg bites, I mean,
come on, guys, you don't need egg bites.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
I mean, if I saw some in the fridge and
I was hungry, why don't you get something?

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Why don't you get like a kish or something? Put
it in there? And see if they take that.

Speaker 5 (17:15):
That will be gone. We won't even see that out
of the box.

Speaker 9 (17:19):
All right.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Well, the fact it's fun to live with the roommates,
all these things get to happen. Yeah, did you meet
your boyfriend as a roommate?

Speaker 7 (17:26):
No?

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Oh no, because I met Tiffany as my roommate and
then we ended up dating. Oh, it was a lot
of fun. Yeah, we shared our shelf. Oh, Elsie, thank
you so much for coming in. Good luck to you.
We will feed you if you come in hungry.

Speaker 5 (17:41):
Thank you. I appreciate that.

Speaker 1 (17:43):
All right, going to the back room, Elsie. They're coming
up next with paying a bit for trying to report
them the match game. So a lot of celebrity engagements
right now, Tanya.

Speaker 6 (17:50):
Yes, So there are a lot of trends, and a
wedding expert kind of went through some of the trends
and which celebrities that they.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Thought would do these trends.

Speaker 6 (17:59):
So maximalist, which is aka multiple outfit changes, is a
trend that we're seeing a lot in weddings, and this
wedding expert predicted that Dua Lipa will be one to
follow this trend. The idea of one wedding dress for
the entire day is becoming a thing of the past,
and they could see Dua Lipa having at least three
looks at her wedding. Unconventional weddings are a big trend,

(18:21):
and Lady Gaga is sure to fall into this category.
Bold colors versus everything white, plateful accessories and it all
screams Lady Gaga. And then this trend is the indoor
outdoor fusion, and they see Selena Gomez following this, considering
her engagement was a picnic. This trend is about blending
luxurious indoor design like crystal chandeliers and plush seating with

(18:45):
organic outdoor elements like greenery.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
Ui.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
I love that look, Yeah, like a forest. But that
you have hanging chandeliers, oh so beautiful. Yeah, But you know,
the dress thing kind of gets me. I wore my
dress the entire day, but that dress still to this day,
is the expensive dress I've ever bought in my life.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
You better believe I was gonna wear that thing all day.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
I know.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
Speaking of which, I just booked my room for Tanya's wedding.
I was to better hurry up. I just got it.
I think I got the right room.

Speaker 3 (19:13):
Hopefully did you be decided on plus one?

Speaker 1 (19:16):
Yeah, I didn't get there yet. Amount of hours we'll
see coming through Friday Mix. Thank you, my brother. We're
gonna play match game right now. Get our panel ready, Maddie.
Georgina is our first contestant for match game. Georgina, good morning.
We're playing for the weekend tickets. Are you ready? You

(19:38):
ready to go? Okay, We're gonna give you a phrase
here with a blank in it. All you have to
do is try and fill in the blank in your
head with what you think the panel is gonna match with. Okay,
so yours is blank room. You're contestant number one, blank room?
What kind of room is the panel gonna think? Let's

(19:58):
see room, all right, Georgina, what'd you say?

Speaker 7 (20:04):
Dark room?

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Dark room? Sisney I said bedroom, bedroom.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
Tanya I said ballroom, tops.

Speaker 1 (20:12):
Guest room, Ruby, living living, Okay, got it? Nobody said
dark room. Let's go to contestant number two and San Bernardino. Lauren,
let's do it. Are you ready for match game? Lauren?
Yours is blank tail? Don't say it, just think about it,
blank tail? What's it going to be for the win?

(20:33):
Blank tail? And what you say? Lauren pony ponytail, Siicny
fairy tale Tanya.

Speaker 3 (20:42):
I said fairy tale to Ruby long tail.

Speaker 1 (20:46):
And Top said lobster tail. Ooxtail, O boxtail.

Speaker 3 (20:53):
It's the tie.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
It's a tie. I feel generous. Both of you guys
get the weekend tickets. Congratulations, We love you for playing Happy.
It's a Friday, Happy Friday, enjoy. Thank you. Connie and
Gary Seacrest join us on the line. Hey Dad, Hey Mom,
Happy fifty fifth anniversary day.

Speaker 8 (21:16):
Did you say fifty five?

Speaker 1 (21:18):
That's what it says in the National News. I didn't
know that. Yeah, fifty five years.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
Back when you got married, gas was thirty six cents
a gallon a stamp of sixth cents. The movie Taken
was a buck fifty. A new house in la was
twenty three grand.

Speaker 10 (21:34):
Oh Lately investments.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
The number one song February twenty first, nineteen seventy was
thank You by Slide the Family Stone the Family. So,
mom and dad, what are you doing to celebrate your
fifty five?

Speaker 8 (21:57):
Well, I'm kind of even that up to my boyfriend.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
Well, you you're talking to her boyfriend to find out
what they're doing. I think he's Oh.

Speaker 8 (22:09):
I am done.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, he's gonna call me later.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
Okay, Yeah, we're gonna go have a nice dinner at
the club. A nice dinner at the club, good, yeah,
very A little bottle water cocktail or two sounds good.
I like that. I like to her too. Now, just
just to celebrate what we love you your You're the

(22:31):
best role models and inspiration. I too. When I get married,
hope to be married for fifty five years.

Speaker 7 (22:40):
I hope so too.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
Yeah, and if I then not, then my my widow
will hopefully live.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
Oh my gosh years.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
Just reality, Tanya, not reality anyway, Just before you go
to celebrate the rest of your day. Connie and Gary
c gs fifty five years of marriage. Tanya is getting
married next month. Mom, anything anything you want to tell her, Dad,
anything you want to.

Speaker 7 (23:08):
Tell her, anything I want to tell her now that Mom,
give you advice, go for it.

Speaker 8 (23:15):
Oh, Tanya, I'm so excited for you.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
Thank you.

Speaker 8 (23:20):
Every day is a new adventure, and every.

Speaker 9 (23:23):
Day when you wake up you look forward to what
in the world is going on with Tanya and Robbie. Yes, so,
wishing you all the best, my dear, and here's to
at least fifty five.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Yeah, so sweet. I'm like teary eyed.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
There's some goals for you right there.

Speaker 8 (23:49):
I get that happy, teary eyes a lot.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
That's so special.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
Well, mom, dad, go celebrate. We love you. Thanks for
coming on.

Speaker 6 (23:58):
Thanks for guys.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
Thanks on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Okay, let me grab Chris. Chris,
good morning, Thanks for listening to us. How are you, bro?

Speaker 8 (24:15):
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (24:17):
Good morning, Chris. So you're calling it, says here on
my call screen. One of your coworkers keeps talking about
cheating on his wife and it's uncomfortable for you. So
what what's your issue here?

Speaker 7 (24:28):
So basically, we've all been like going out for drinks
after work and well, like the last few times that
we've done this, everyone's drinking and then he's been telling
us how he cheats on his wife all the time.

Speaker 12 (24:44):
And it's like really uncomfortable to listen to. Like we're
all pretty friendly and we know who his wife is
and we're working together for years and years, and it's
just like I don't want to hear this. I hate
hearing this, you know.

Speaker 1 (24:58):
So can you tell him? Bro's cool? But can you say?

Speaker 7 (25:01):
And then I was wondering if I could get your opinion.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
Well, the two things are. Number one, can you tell
your friend to cool it and not talk about him
front of you? It's making uncomfortab we've got to say that.
Number two, do you think you should tell his wife?
That's what I want to know. Do you think you
should tell his wife what you know?

Speaker 11 (25:14):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (25:16):
Yeah, I mean it's a really it's a hard predicament
because like I don't know, like what you know, Like
some people have open marriages, but they've never said that
to me, and I don't want to like overstep.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
He says he's cheating, he's not having an open relationship
or an open marriage. So do you think he's like
with the things he's saying, like some people may make
things up. Do you think he's telling the truth?

Speaker 7 (25:40):
I think he's telling truth.

Speaker 8 (25:41):
I think he's cheating.

Speaker 7 (25:42):
It's just like I don't want to, you know, mess
up my business, my working relationship, Like he's slightly ahead
of me in the company and like work drama, it's
separate because it's it's that weird balance where you're like,
he's not really like my friend friend, but he's definitely
my work friend, you know what I mean? I mean,
And now we're hanging outside of work. A lot, So

(26:02):
it's like, where do you draw the line.

Speaker 1 (26:06):
I think you got to tell him to stop talking
about it. My question is do you think you need
to take it any further? Sisney, What do you think
does he need to tell I think he can.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
Absolutely tell him, Hey, stop, please stop talking about this.
I'm uncomfortable. We don't need to really mix our personal
lives together. Let's just you know, especially when if you're.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
Stop hanging out with him, bro, what can you stop
hanging out with that too?

Speaker 2 (26:27):
But as far as telling the wife, I don't know.
I wouldn't get involved, Tanya.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
Would you tell his wife? Unless he was my best friend?

Speaker 6 (26:36):
So I wouldn't necessarily tell the wife per se, but
I would.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
Would you tell his wife? Yes? Or no? No?

Speaker 6 (26:46):
But I would tell him that if he doesn't tell
his wife what's going on, I'm going.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
To tell her.

Speaker 6 (26:50):
Okay, yes, blackmail, Yeah, blackmail, that's right though, right, that's right.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
Oh, Chris, I think you just stopped seeing the guy.
I mean, he's gonna get this signal and move on,
keep your distance. It's not your problem, Chris, not your problem.
Thank you for listening to us.

Speaker 7 (27:09):
Of course, thank you.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Just stop seeing the guy. I mean, right, cut him out.
That's gonna send a message. I think. So is Robin
your dad jokes? Tanya, your fiance soon to be a husband?
Does he do dad jokes?

Speaker 3 (27:23):
Uh No, I don't think so. But he's very funny.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
Well you have to tell us not so sure? I mean,
if you have to brag about it, I don't know. Okay,
Well that's all that matters. Yeah, I agree, all right, Latny.
We have a family meeting, a family meeting. What's happening
with you, Michael. There's a dispute at home. We're you know,
same same boat.

Speaker 2 (27:47):
I agree with Tanya with my Michael, like he makes
me laugh, all his all his well good reality.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
He's goofy, he's witty, he's quick on his toes in
that sense.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
But yes, we have our we have our ourg sort
of rs A debate.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
What is it? I love these debates.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
We rented one of those bins that you can put
in your driveway to get rid of junk, and it's
been on our.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
Driveway for all week. We were supposed to pick it
up on Wednesday.

Speaker 3 (28:15):
It's so cute. We have right now too.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
Is it a pot or a dumpster? It's a dumpster.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
So so we have been, you know, because we moved
in a couple of months ago, and we've been sitting
on stuff that we thought maybe we would use it.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Picked the dumpster on a track and yeah, I've always
loved watching.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah it's pretty cool, and so we've been I've been
like just purging right, getting rid of this, getting rid
of that, blah blah blah. And now I was like,
what's behind this panel thing in the garage? It was
like covered by something else and I pull it and
it's four neatly stacked boxes like home depot boxes, like
moving boxes, and they I'm like, what are what's in these?

Speaker 1 (28:50):
And he's like, oh, those are those are good?

Speaker 2 (28:52):
Like it's almost like he checked them and like covered
them already. There were beer mugs, like old like bar
like beer mugs. I don't know, they were just they
don't fit inside the house. And yes, they've been collected
throughout the years from his travels to I don't before.

Speaker 1 (29:10):
You, before me for you, that's what this is about.
He's a beer mugs pre sissy.

Speaker 2 (29:15):
And then there's some of them like that were given
to us as well, Like I remember like there was
some that were gifted to us of that, say, like
San Diego Chargers, and they have like our name engraved
in them.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
It's like beautiful for me. I know what's in those boxes?
Like when he said it, I was like, oh, I
know it's in there. I was like big. I'm like,
let's just throw those four boxes away. We don't need them.
So you want to edit. He wants to keep everything exactly,
and he's like.

Speaker 2 (29:36):
Well, what if one day, you know, we remodel this
garage until like, you know, a backyard hang and he
then and it has a nice cool bar.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
And then.

Speaker 2 (29:46):
I'm just like he wants to save his tops for
the lake house that we're never.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
Going to I don't know what to do. I was
you on this. I think I I too, have like
kept stuff that I always think I'm going to use.
I never ever use it. Never. I do have like
my first radio station jacket in my closet. That's jacket
in my closet. That stuff Sometimes I think, Okay, I

(30:10):
I'm never gonna wear it.

Speaker 6 (30:11):
But also you can have so much of that stuff
and it's like you really, yeah, you have to edit
that stuff too.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
Well. My word for the year has been simplicity. I
like simplicity here. I think that you should push because
in the long run, you're right.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
I okay, I'm right with this type of stuff because
this type of stuff is replaceable. That KISSFM jacket, to me,
is not replaceable.

Speaker 1 (30:31):
I'm not gonna throw it out, okay, Natty four jacket exactly.

Speaker 2 (30:35):
And I've gone through old bins, especially with this move,
and the kids have gone through some of our old stuff,
and to them it's treasure. They find it so fascinating
finding some of our things. So I for that enjoyment,
I want to keep some of that memorabilia.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
That's fine, Tanya, this is what you have to look
forward to, these kinds of things in your marriage. This
is not exciting.

Speaker 6 (30:56):
It again, we're in it, but we're like on the
total extreme other. I was watching this. Actually, I can
send you this instagram sistaning. You can send it to
Michael about how we have to make like thousands and
thousands of decisions every single day.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Send it to Michael. Don't send it to me, just
send it to him. Yeah, there's a decision.

Speaker 6 (31:13):
Eighty percent of our closet does not need to exist.
And so she was like, if you could get rid
of eighty percent in a closet keep the twenty percent thing.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
I like that concept. Could we get to a place
every day where we make fewer decisions? Yeah, I would
like to make fewer decisions every day, And if I
could accelerate that, like every day, have fewer be great.

Speaker 3 (31:36):
You probably have like.

Speaker 6 (31:37):
In the high thousands because you have multiple jobs, Like, oh,
I wouldn't want to know how many you have to
make it a day.

Speaker 2 (31:43):
So like, if we had to wear a uniform to work,
that would be one less decision than we would have
to make correcting WRK.

Speaker 1 (31:48):
How do you feel about it? You want my size?
You can order from the gap. You guys want my sizes?
Would it be great if we were the Actually I
have been the same I mean this is the same
sweater you saw two days the J crew. Yeah, wow,
I told you I'm wearing the same thing guys every
other day on air with Ryan Seacrest, Let's see sisteny.

(32:12):
A lot of people are talking about I guess psychologists
say there's a scientific method if you're single that should
be applied to dating to stop you from repeating the
same disasters, mistakes, problems, whatever you've had in the past.

Speaker 2 (32:26):
Right, yes, And it's the approach of almost acting like
you're a scientist when it comes to your dating life.
So the first step, just like you would in a
science lab or situation, is observation, which involves gathering data
and recognizing patterns.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
And once you've had huge buzzwords.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
Once you've made your observations, it's time to formulate a
hypothesis an educated guest based on the data that you
just realized. And then from there you reflect on your
past relationships and look at what went wrong. You decide
what changes might lead to better results. It's truly like
you're doing like a science problem in class. The experimentation
phase is where I think it gets a little bit

(33:10):
more exciting, Like you go out with somebody who piques
your interest but isn't traditionally your type, and so that's
when you break that pattern that you've been experiencing for
so many years, and the new relationship is then a
chance to test new hypothesis, ultimately helping you better understand
what works for you. And then finally, wait, wait, wait,

(33:30):
I'm not done. Finally, experts say that regularly analyzing your
dating life like this, whether over brunch with your girls,
beers with your boys. That is very helpful, and it's
almost like.

Speaker 1 (33:41):
You talk through it. You you rehashing it kind of all.

Speaker 2 (33:47):
Yes, that is like a great approach for understanding the
perfect match for you because you're bouncing ideas off of
another person. And it gets even a little bit more crazy.
They say, keep a dating log to really kind of
keep track of your patterns. And then this is where
I tie you in, Tanya rad because it goes back
to your crazy book, the one.

Speaker 11 (34:10):
I did all these things through my workbook and it
worked at wo RK E that in a weird way,
Tanya's weird book that we all give her you know
what about is exactly this.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
It's the scientific method you did to find Robbie.

Speaker 3 (34:26):
I did it, and in the one I called him.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
In, I don't like it. I don't like the process
of it. Maybe I'm being too romantic here, that aren't
you just supposed to run? The universe puts you in
the same place. You end up having these amazing moments
and connections and beautiful things that continue to evolve, the
curiosity the relationship that likes that, and all of a

(34:52):
sudden you realize that this is the person for you.
Why do we have to be so clinical and laboratory
about it.

Speaker 6 (34:57):
Would you tell somebody that was going after their dream
job to just let the universe help them get it? No,
you would tell them to make a plan, to have
a resume, to have all these things lined up. So
why is it any different if you're looking for the one.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
Not to respond to you.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
I think there's something here. There's something here with the
whole breaking of your patterns. I think that we get
stuck in our ways, and that's why we were like, oh,
I don't know why it's working out. I don't know
why I keep only after the third day, I don't
want to go out with them anymore. Whatever it is,
these are your patterns that you're stuck in. And even
like when I met Michael, I never thought that I

(35:41):
would be with someone younger than me, someone who is Latino,
because I just had never dated a Latino man before,
and that was me breaking my pattern and invoil I.

Speaker 1 (35:52):
Just like to believe in the beauty of alignment universe,
you're going to run into that person you're going to be.
It still happened that way for me though, That still
happened and line together to get on the plane, you
sit next to them on a flight, like all that
stuff seems I mean, granted, yeah, but like all that
stuff seems to me better than this.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
But even when you get to that point, like you
can still do the scientific method in that situation. And
I'm like, Okay, am I breaking a pattern? Am I
dating differently than I have in the past? I don't
know there's something here.

Speaker 1 (36:23):
Well, you guys are married, Like, Okay, I get it.
This is of course there's something. You guys are so
very excited about it because you did it all. I'll
try it. Try it the enthusiastic they are because they're
all married up for the rest of their lives. How
great this is. Isn't this a great way to do it? Yeah,
let's go follow the lab science here and do it
because it's gonna work out. Well, No, we're still we

(36:45):
still have this romantic view of how it could happen.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
I still am very much romantic, and I still think
that my love story is very romantic.

Speaker 1 (36:53):
It is, but the story that you just shared me
is so clinical. It's just a method. Give it a try,
don't not try not until you try it. Thanks for
listening to on Air with Ryan Seacrest, make sure to subscribe,
and we'll talk to you again Monday.
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