December 13, 2024 • 46 mins
MORNING HACK- It's the holiday season, a time to spread joy. Here are 3 things you can say to someone today that will instantly brighten their day. SECOND DATE UPDATE- She says they met at church where he goes with his grandmother. They went out for coffee and had a nice time. But now things are a bit…unclear.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Sicity and her smart watcher.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Here my smart watch. Not even gonna say. My shacket
is everywhere. It's my you know, it's a shacket. That's
what you call these. It's like a shirt jacket.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Oh I thought it was a not so nice jacket.
You called a jacket shocket. I've never heard of a jacket.
Is a jacket something that is new and on trend?
Or is it something I should look for in the
new year.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I think I kind of became a thing this this
past year.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Well, I'm in my sweatshirt stretcher swisshirt, in my sweatshirt.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
I'm in my uniform too.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm at my hoodie. Right, it's Friday.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's comfy Friday.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
It's sweatshirt hoodie Friday.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Uh huh.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Show anyway, last night.
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Oh before I went to sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Mm hmmm, this great idea to go caroling? No you
did not this holiday?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Yes I did, Okay, so you haven't done.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
It's this idea from.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
It dawned on me that I heard somebody somewhere talking
about going caroling.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Now, what a good idea?
Speaker 6 (01:20):
You had, Ryan, Yeah, are you going to pass out
gluten free cookies?
Speaker 7 (01:23):
Too?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Took it to another level? Okay, uh huh was it
you Tania talking about going caroling?
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (01:28):
And we're gonna pass out gluten free cookies and we're
gonna wear matching sweaters.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
That's you Wi, not me. We you wi us we
that's you correct, I'm not doing that. Yes, So went
on Amazon last night and started searching for Christmas Caroler costumes.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Are you dressing up in old costumes?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
No, we're gonna wear ugly sweaters.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
We're doing well. I might. I'm probably gonna dress up
in something from you know.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Either year, like you and like the old time you
like back in the UK.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Yes, before there was electricity, silent night.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I'm gonna grab a beard.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I'm gonna put on a fake beard, a top hat
and something plaid. And so here's what's gonna happen about
five o'clock on December twenty third.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Oh, you're this is actually happening.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Do you think I'm going through all of this and
playing the background music, because it's not. So I've got
to come up with my Christmas caroling name mm hmm.
And then I'm gonna have a Christmas Carol book. I'm
gonna have a candle, candles my top hat, and I'm
gonna sing we wish you a merry Christmas and to.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
My little niece, but she won't know it's me, right, candle.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Just like cute.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
That's very cute.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
I'm gonna take candles. That's a good idea.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
When I get inside, because obviously the family won't invite.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
The carolers in.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
We'll see how long it takes your to realize it's
Uncle Rye Rock.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I love that idea.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Is that great?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I think that's really cute.
Speaker 8 (03:06):
You know, I gotta go run an errand Flora, Mom, Dad,
everybody gotta go get some more batteries for the equipment
and things, and.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'll see you guys soon.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Well done.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
What a production.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I like it?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
But you know, the costumes on Amazon I'm not thrilled about.
But a Carol if you if you I didn't google,
I Amazon search.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
You can find everything there was Christmas.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Carol costumes of yither ye see either?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
How to smell that either? Okay, so what do you like?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I mean, there's there are some nice gowns and some
pants and top hats.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
With the plant clad like green and red like.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
A top, and you could see the funk rolling up
in that.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Do something like this, This is not bad.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Hello, Yeah, exactly, she's showing us Charles Dickens costumes.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Yeah, with that, that's.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
And I guess Tanya, you should take credit for this
because it wouldn't have been in my subconscious if you
didn't bring it up that you and your team were.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Going to do it.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I love that.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Nothing makes me happier than to inspire thee Well either.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Me, they're me either you. The candles are cute, though,
I'm going to bring that to my group.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
You know, if you can't find out Amazon, then just
go go through like a costume store.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
We hark if we harketh. All right, so we do
your horoscopes. Now, how is your day gonna look today?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Let's start it off.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Aries, examine your budget and look for areas that you
can trim.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
The fact Taurus, your head is full of clever ideas.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Gemini, you will deliver a persuasive pitch.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Cancer, mute your inner critic Leo today.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
You will cocoon in your.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Casa Virgo brain dump today and let the words flow freely.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Libra, make plans with friends for tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Scorpio, order in and enjoy a mellow knight.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
Sagittarius, pop into an an indie store, and support a
small business.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Capricorn, someone's feeling flirtatious and vivacious. Aquarius. Today is the
day to make a bold move and five ses Today
is the day to finish that to do list.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So, Chania, you had a ping pong revelation.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Yes, okay, I don't know if Sissy and I told
you about this ping pong tournament that we were in
with the Dodgers.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
It's Clayton Kershaw's, like you may have mentioned that in passing.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Okay, So he.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Does this annual ping pong tournament and we played in it,
and my my boyfriend and my best friend Becca are
berry into ping pong and they always play each other,
like when we have taco Tuesdays and stuff. But I've
never really been good or into it, and ever since
this Kershaw challenge, I've been like I discovered I'm actually
kind of good at it, and now we're really like
(05:51):
into it as a couple. We're kind of like playing
ping pong all the time, and we're gonna have a
ping pong tournament, and we're gonna get other friends that
are like really good at ping pong, and we're gonna
do like a whole time, and I'm gonna make shorts.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
How's your serf?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
That's the only thing I'm not great at. I'm just
I'm a consistent player. The revelation that I had at
this ping pong tournament? Do you know who Zach King is?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Not Zach King of the Mighty Mighty ping Pongers.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
No, So he's like a very famous he makes these
like really cool videos on TikTok and Instagram.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
They're like kind of like magic.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Not the Mighty Mighty boss Tones, not that guy.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Oh no.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
But he was like really really into the game, like
he was pushing me and wanted me to practice really hard,
and I was kind of annoyed at first. I was
like I just don't to have some fun, right, But
it made me a better player, Like I wanted to
be better for him because he was actually really nice
and sweet and encouraging about it. And so it made
me realize, like that's how I want to be as
a partner in life, Like I want to be that
(06:48):
for somebody else, for my partner.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Well, that now there's a lot of great to this
ping pong tournament. Yeah, I understand that, and it's fun.
When I was a kid, we used to play a
lot more of it than I do now. But when
you google the videos of like pro pingpongers, I mean,
it's insane to watch them, how fast they go, I know.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
But it's more than ping pong.
Speaker 6 (07:07):
It was like this life revelation of like, I'm a
better player because my partner is encouraging me and pushing me,
and it was helping me, and I was like, oh
my gosh, I want to be that for my partner
in life. And I feel like I'm not quite there yet.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
But you're getting there.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I hope to get there, all right.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
What we're saying is eventually we make it together for
a ping pong tourney.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Do you guys know it sounds like you only want
people that are good.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
You know that's true.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
You said that, you said other friends who are good
at ping ponger I like to play.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I like to play, yeah, and I'd be up for that.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I'm not so sure. I don't know how good Robbie is.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I'm average, Yeah, I'm a good like out in the
first round person.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
I can't get my Sometimes I can ase my serve.
I mean I can get my serf pretty tight against
the top of the net.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I didn't stand a chance at the Kershaw Challenge. I
played against like two Laker players. They were like their swings.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Across the table.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
I've lent hard people too. We want first round.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Oh, I'm terrified of performing sports in front of people
for anything like friends, Fine, but I would really I
get butterflies singing up playing in like a some of
these tournaments.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
But it was so fun because it was like Will
Ferrell was there and Ashton Kutcher was there, and it
was everybody was just.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Brad Pitt.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Coming up in a second your morning hack. Three things
you can say today to make people happy? Are you
spreading joy?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Siciny?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I try to sprinkle it as much as I can.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
I just packaged up y'all's gifts. Made me joyful to
be giving you something from the heart this year. Last
year for not so much from the heart. They were
gift cards. This is not a gift card. It's definitely
more me for you, for me, for you me you
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you know, and something that's taken a long time to
get to. It's this stage for you. It's been years,
in some cases ten years.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Okay, I have ideas.
Speaker 5 (09:24):
I'm going to google something really quick.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
What are you going to google?
Speaker 9 (09:29):
Ten?
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Your anniversary gift?
Speaker 10 (09:31):
No?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
Like wooden?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Are you guys would ten? I'm packing.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I'm going to home depot where the doers get it done,
and I'm getting some two by four and I'm painting
your name more aluminum.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
That's the decade long anniversary gift tradition.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
It's not tenure.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
What are you going to do with the wood this year?
Speaker 5 (09:53):
That's what I'm doing?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh not ten? Sorry? What are you gonna do with
the ten?
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Yeah, it's our ten year anniversary.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
It's a tin bucket. It's sand Uh No, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
You'll see something that he's been growing.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
You'll see soon enough. Anyway, back to the morning hack.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
We do have the power to make somebody feel good,
feel happy. So here are three phrases guaranteed to instantly
brighten someone's day. One, you're having a conversation with somebody
and they're talking about something that they're really into, and
you say to them, tell me more about that, and
you do.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
It with that inflection yes, like you're interested to mean it.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Well, I mean look right, jot these down in your
hand and act like you mean it all right, next one,
you know what, you're making a difference. That was hard
for me to pull off subtly and not sound contrived,
but we could roll play it. Tanya, what are you
doing this holiday season for others?
Speaker 11 (10:58):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Well, every year I donate.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
We adopt families through my church, so I go on
buy a bunch of gifts for a specific family.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
It's great, you're making a difference.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
And the last one is and this is heavy, and
this is big, but it's you changed my life.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Oh wow, tubs just role play.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
Oh okay, go ahead, talk about how.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I changed your life.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Oh I thought you were going to say I changed
your life.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
You are to work here and be in his presents.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
What were you doing before this job?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah? He was a history major.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Was a history major. Oh it's great now you really
love your work?
Speaker 9 (11:40):
Right?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Absolutely changed my life? Oh so thanks, come on, that's
too heavy.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
How does it feel?
Speaker 9 (11:45):
It was great?
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Yeah, but you know it's not. The role plane didn't
work so well.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Today's quote most people need love and acceptance much more
than they need advice.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
So shut it, shut it hard.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
I feel like you added that last part.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Shut in and hug it.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
If you just got here, It's time for another kiss,
MIAs giving call love doing this. So Sis Tanya, we
got an email from Eddie Sanchez of Bellflower. He told
me all about his sister. So let me get Eddie
on the phone here. Eddie, thank you very much for listening.
Thank you for sending us this email about your sister.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Yeah, of course we appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
So I was thinking we'll call her now, we'll surprise
her and I've got a whole bunch of stuff for her.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Okay, let's get her on the line.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
So Eddie Sanchez here of Bellflower, nominating Diana of Compton,
his sister.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Okay, here we go, Eddie. Okay, Hello, Hi is Diana there?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Hi?
Speaker 12 (12:53):
Yes, this is her.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Hi Diana.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
It's Ryan Seacrest calling from one of two point seven
Kiss FM on the air with you.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
How are are you?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
I'm fine?
Speaker 9 (13:02):
Thank you great.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
We're just calling everybody that we think is listening and
just wishing them a merry Christmas.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
So merry Christmas, Yay, Merry Christmas Holidays.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
All right, you have a great day.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Wait, wait, don't hang up.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Hold on, hold on, there's more.
Speaker 4 (13:17):
So I've got Eddie, your brother, on the line.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Oh, let me tell you.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Eddie sent me an email. I'm going to read it
to you, he says. Dear Ryan, Sistey and Tanya, my sister.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
That's you. Diana is the most selfless person I know.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
She has always been so supportive, especially when I came
out to her this year. She blessed my husband and
I by being a surrogate for our baby.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Despite having six kids of her own, she has never
asked for anything, but is always giving as much as
she can. I can't think of anyone more deserving than
her and her family. Please Ryan, help her out. She's
an amazing person, so we believe him. We do believe
you're an amazing person. And we just love the support
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that your brother and the support you have together, the
bond you have together.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
And you're Hi. Hi there. You're a family of eight,
Is that right?
Speaker 9 (14:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Groceries must be an enormous bill.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Oh yeah, my teenagers say they eat a lot.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
So how about one thousand dollars to spend at grocery outlet,
bargain market over on rosecrans for you?
Speaker 12 (14:40):
That would be awesome.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Okay, we're going to set that up.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
We're also going to send you eight tickets to six
Flags Magic Mountain for some funky.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
How's Isaiah? How's Isaiah doing? How old is he?
Speaker 6 (14:55):
Now?
Speaker 1 (14:57):
He's fourteen.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
There's no bigger Kendrick Lamar fan than Isaiah.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Oh I heard he loves.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
So you gotta do me a favor. I'm going to
give you four tickets to see Kendrick Lamar. You got
to surprise him with those.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
No's a massive.
Speaker 12 (15:15):
Oh he's gonna go ahead, sane.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
Yeah. Well, then there's the younger kids.
Speaker 4 (15:21):
So I got five hundred bucks to spend at Pixie
Toys over there on Atlantic for the other kids.
Speaker 12 (15:27):
Oh, thanks, so we got.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
I'm also thinking about just keeping them busy and sending
a Nintendo Switch with money for the games and the
extra controllers.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
If that's cool with you too.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
Oh oh oh no, man, I mean eight people in
that family, six kids.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
You need a break. You need a break.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
You need a weekend at the Terranea resortant spat in
Rancho Palace Verdus.
Speaker 9 (15:59):
I've been there.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
It's that place is like a dream.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, you need that weekend. I'm gonna give that to
you as well, see, I've never heard of it, but
I'm gonna look it up. You're gonna look it up.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
You're gonna love it.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Oh oh, and look click on the spot because I'm
sending you five hundred bucks in spat treatments.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
To Oh man, So I think Eddie, did we miss anything?
Speaker 12 (16:25):
I think you got it all. Say that's something.
Speaker 13 (16:29):
More than you knows so much.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Well, it's a celebration of the love you guys have.
And just to close it out in case I forgot something,
I'm gonna send a thousand dollars in cash to you on.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Top of it.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Oh man, I'm going to help you out a lot things.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Well, Eddie, we love you, and Diana, we love it,
appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Merry Christmas, thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (17:01):
Likewise, all right.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Go tell the kids about all the good stuff coming.
Speaker 12 (17:07):
I'm gonna tell when they get old.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Ye wait till Christmas.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
I couldn't wait to tell Isaiah about the Kendrick.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Na did she could wrap up a little thing in
her kid under the tree.
Speaker 13 (17:19):
Oh my gosh, come on, Oh yeah, it's be like
the most epic. They're going to forget that one.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Big hugs to you and Merry Christmas edding, Diana, thank you.
Speaker 5 (17:30):
Thanks very Christmas.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Hold on one second. I get so excited to do these.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
It just warms my heart.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
So we just had Eddie and Diana, and she's got
six kids. She's got a five year old, a seven
year old, a nine year old, a twelve year old,
a fourteen year old, and a sixteen year old. I
read it to a friend of mine the other day.
He was picking up food at the same place I
was picking up food and he walks out and he
just says, how are you? I said, great, said how
are you? He goes exhausted, and he had this look
(18:03):
on his face. I said, why, what is it? He goes, Ryan,
let me just give you one word of advice. Don't
have kids. Oh come on, that's what he said, don't
have kids.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
How many does he have?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Six? I am?
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I said, well, maybe I just won't have six kids,
because please don't. And the look on his face was
like he might die tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
You know, that's just a bad, busy day and it
happens us.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
He looked like he wanted to move in with me.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
But on Christmas morning, Christmas morning, when all six of
those kids are opening up gifts, and there's chaos in
the house and all of that that is true love.
Speaker 4 (18:40):
There could be chaos with one. I want to do
a second date update. If you have ever dated, or
you are dating, listen to this. I'm Maya and Ben
I's reaching out for some help here. So Maya says
she met this guy at church and she said, oh,
by the way, I went to we had my nieces baptism.
(19:05):
And you ever made the mistake in church when you're
reading out loud from the hymnal that you read the
part that's not supposed to be read?
Speaker 1 (19:13):
Do you like read too much?
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Well, I read the part you're.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
Supposed to fill in the blank, but I read the
fill in the blank part. You ever make a mistake?
And then I got Then I got nervous to speak
to read too loud in the church. I get my
anxiety when I'm reading from the hymnal out loud.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
It happens.
Speaker 6 (19:29):
I got asked to read at temple last weekend, and
I've never been more nervous or stressed in my life.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
I too, I have like weird anxiety when it comes
to reading out loud in church. Yeah, so I kind
of follow along, like I'm mumble the first first couple
of beats and then follow the people next to me. Anyway, So,
so she meets this guy at church and they started
talking in the lobby after the service. One day, he
was on his own, She says, he invited me to
(19:57):
get coffee and it was great. Changed numbers and it
was so nice. He has now blown me off. I
don't know what wrong. So my good morning, Maya, thanks for.
Speaker 13 (20:06):
Calling, good morning, thanks for having me pleasure.
Speaker 4 (20:10):
So all right, you meet a church, you see each
other in the lobby. It's a good time to say
a load of people. You probably timed it right. And
then you guys go and you hang out outside of church.
You say that you want to go get coffee, and
you guys had a nice chat just once. Did you
only go out once?
Speaker 9 (20:27):
Yes?
Speaker 13 (20:28):
Yeah, we just want out for coffee one.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Time, easy conversation, I thought, So, yeah, exchange numbers. And
what has happened since? What kind of the electronic communication
has happened since?
Speaker 14 (20:43):
Nothing?
Speaker 13 (20:44):
So yeah, we both go to church, you know, in
the Church of the Valley and van nice and since
her coffee, Tait, it's like been radio silence for days.
And so finally on Wednesday, I texted him and I said,
you know, I had a great time on Sunday, like
maybe we could get some lunch after the service this weekend,
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and he said, sorry, I don't think that's going to work.
Thank you. Though there was like no, you know, maybe
next Sunday or you know, I would have I would
love to, but I can't. Like nothing, it was just like, nope,
not it's gonna happen.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Plus, you guys are going to see Teller inevitably at church,
so it's a little strange that he would shut it
down so rigidly. And there's nothing that strikes you.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That was at the coffee that was like a weird moment.
Speaker 13 (21:36):
No, no, I everything seemed to be going really well.
But now I feel like I can't go to my church.
So I've been going to Little Brown Church in Studio City.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Oh I love that.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So you moved your you move locations.
Speaker 13 (21:50):
They're they're affiliated, so it's not like but yeah, I've
been going to a different location because I'm nervous, like
I don't know what it. Yeah, I'm like I don't
want to run into him and it'd be awkward until
I know, like what's going on.
Speaker 4 (22:06):
Well, listen, do you want us to get into Maybe
the Lord is involved here. Maybe the Lord does not
want you guys to run into each other.
Speaker 13 (22:16):
You know, I just I feel like we hit it
off so well and like and we go to the
same church and it's like, you know, like it just
seemed so perfect.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Like it could be a big misunderstanding and then we
could be helping.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Well, let's try and clear it up.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Right, I'm just saying, if there's another power at work here,
we're going to get involved with your permission.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, please, A little brown are just so cute. Maybe
you're just meant to be there.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
But again, sometimes you're driven down the path because the
universe wants you to be down that path and not
cross paths with somebody. But we'll we'll meddle my hang
on one second. This guy's name is Ashton, So find
out if we can get Ashton on the line. See
why Ashton blew off Maya and I might as going
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to another.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Church on a on air with Ryan Seacrest On Air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
We got him. So we're in the middle of a
second date update. Maya met Ashton at church. They mingled
in the lobby post the eleven o'clock service, I think,
and they went out for coffee afterwards. Good conversation, she said.
The conversation went well and she liked him. They exchanged numbers,
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and now he doesn't want to hang out with her again,
kind of like shut her down. So she's actually going
to a different location to go to church for the
moment because she doesn't want the awkwardness of running into him.
And she doesn't know why she got pushed away by
him when everything seemed to be going well. So maya
have him on the line. You very quiet, don't say anything.
We're going to try and find out what's going on. Okay, Ashton,
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thanks for holding on, bro.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
I appreciate you coming on.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Just so you're aware your voice is being broadcast on
the radio right now. I've got Sisney and Tanya with
me here, and we're calling about a woman named Maya
that you met at church.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Does that sound familiar? Oh yeah, fantastic. How tell me
about Maya? So what's she like.
Speaker 12 (24:20):
Maya? Is it? Okay?
Speaker 9 (24:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (24:23):
So Maya's a very sweet girl. We go to the
same church, well, kind of friends from far and we
went on a date recently. How'd that go, it went
really well. We had a lovely time. I really think
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she's wonderful. She's got these amazing eyes, just beautiful.
Speaker 10 (24:47):
Laugh.
Speaker 12 (24:47):
I had a great time with her.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yeah, nice, Well, forgive our prying here. But so if
things went well and you had a great time with her,
do you have plans to see her anymore?
Speaker 12 (25:02):
I mean, I'm sure I'll run into her at church, but.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Yeah, are you making an effort to see her again?
Speaker 12 (25:12):
Are you? Are you asking on her behalf?
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Yes?
Speaker 12 (25:19):
Okay, I have to say, well, it's none of my business,
but I don't think we're a good match.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Why is that on her behalf?
Speaker 12 (25:30):
She has a bit of a checkered past?
Speaker 5 (25:35):
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
What does that mean?
Speaker 12 (25:41):
You know, that's her business. It's not my place to
expose her on the radio.
Speaker 4 (25:46):
Understood that, okay? But so there's something about her past
that made you feel uncomfortable. Yeah, and you didn't know
about this. But by the way, if it's in her past,
what's the big deal?
Speaker 1 (25:59):
So what she just like some bad things?
Speaker 9 (26:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (26:04):
Like I googled her, you know, uh, and so came
up black.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
Okay, well, hold on for a second, as we have
Maya on the phone here, may Are you listening to
this here? Can you hear Ashton?
Speaker 12 (26:21):
Yes? I can.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
We don't want you to say anything that makes you uncomfortable.
But you just heard Ashton comment about I don't know
what it is in your past that he's referring to,
but something made him uneasy.
Speaker 12 (26:35):
Uh yeah, I.
Speaker 13 (26:37):
Mean he must have done more than just google me.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Oh but is there anything you want to share with
us about what we're talking about?
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Oh?
Speaker 12 (26:48):
Yeah, I use one of those background check sites. I
use it quite a bit.
Speaker 4 (26:54):
What happened in your past that he's so concerned about
and can't get over?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I mean he can.
Speaker 13 (27:00):
You can go ahead and say, oh, okay, so you
were arrested. I was, Yeah, public intoxication in college and
we got the charges dropped, but apparently it still shows
up on those.
Speaker 12 (27:14):
Types of sites. Okay, and you were also evicted.
Speaker 14 (27:21):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 13 (27:22):
It was around the same time, and in fact, that's
actually one of the reasons why I go to church
every weekend. You know, I turned my life around, and
I was in a really dark place in twenty seventeen
and I don't want to go back there.
Speaker 4 (27:35):
So a while ago, and sounds like she's moved on
and how about forgiveness.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
Yeah, and I feel like all of this she probably
would have just told you if you would have asked
her about her past.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Right, And it sounds like she's in a totally different space.
Speaker 12 (27:49):
Brou Yeah, Yeah, I know I should have asked, and
I know I should have brought this up. I just
it felt strange to do that, to admit that I
looked you up.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
So maybe stop looking people up. This is going to start.
You know, you don't keep doing this with everybody.
Speaker 12 (28:09):
Okay, I've been How do I say I've been burned before?
You know, to protect you.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
But look, Maya's making real effort to it sounds like
make this something that was completely in the past and
will always be in the past, and grow as a
person today and in the future. And that's where you met.
You met at the place where she's trying to be
a better person, right, You met at a church service.
And so I I mean, I'm not going to tell
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you what you should do because it's your dating life,
but you now have a full picture of what Maya
did and where she is now. Is there any interest
there or is this something you can't get past?
Speaker 3 (28:49):
Ashton?
Speaker 9 (28:51):
No?
Speaker 12 (28:53):
I mean, yeah, I think that would be cool to
go out again.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
I'm going to need them in.
Speaker 13 (29:00):
Yeah, I think I'm going to need a minute on that.
Speaker 9 (29:02):
You.
Speaker 12 (29:03):
I don't really love.
Speaker 13 (29:04):
The background thing, and I don't love the judging us
about my past. Yeah, you know, knowing me where I
am now, it's just like, you know, maybe we can
talk on Sunday.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
I want to be around and judge.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Yeah, yeah, I'm with you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
All right, our work is done, Ashton Maya.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
Thank you very much for both being candid with us,
and I wish you guys the best of luck.
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Ashton, lay off the background checks. It's like, just start
having conversations with these women, Like, don't you don't need
to jump into the background check stuff. Maybe do that
once you maybe see red flags, but have conversations with
them first.
Speaker 12 (29:43):
That's a good point.
Speaker 4 (29:45):
Yeah, all right, guys, thank you very much for coming on.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Good luck. I feel like she's going to be uncomfortable
no matter Yeah, because.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
She doesn't trust him A feeling judged.
Speaker 4 (29:55):
Feel judge. It's like, once you feel that, it's hard
to go back to not feeling. So that was not great.
All right, one A two point seven kiss FM. See
christ with you that's called a second date update. We
do those every once in a while, no telling how
they're going to turn out something. All right, let me
grab Isabelle. Here Isabelle. How you doing in Norwalk?
Speaker 14 (30:20):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
How are you, Isabelle?
Speaker 4 (30:22):
We're doing well too. Thank you for asking. So there's
an issue with the guy you're seeing.
Speaker 14 (30:29):
Yeah, So I started seeing this guy about three months
ago and everything's been good. But about two months in
he did tell me that he loved me, and I
don't know, personally, I felt like that was too soon
and I just didn't want to say it back.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
And so I run out it.
Speaker 4 (30:48):
All we want to do in this world is be loved.
Yet the second we meet someone that says it too
fast or totally turned.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
Off, No, it doesn't have to be that way.
Speaker 4 (30:57):
But I see what you mean is about because I
have been on different sides of this. I've said it
like because it felt like the thing to say in
a moment, and then I've said it and you know,
I meant it but didn't mean it. But John, I
used to when I was younger. It was so deliberate,
and then as time goes on, you kind of use
it more loosely. I'm just telling it.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
I should be backwards.
Speaker 3 (31:22):
Sorry, you don't live in these shoes.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
But you use it a little more loosely than you
did because it was so precious at the beginning, and
it was so first time at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
It's still precious every time.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
It's precious.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
But you under said, I'm saying like when you're like
for me, I've been unmarried, so I've fallen in love
multiple times, and I feel like you say it sooner
as those times go by. Is about why is it
that you aren't saying it back?
Speaker 12 (31:54):
I honestly, I don't know.
Speaker 14 (31:56):
I think it's just kind of I haven't felt it
and I don't want to say it if I'm not ready, right,
But that's okay.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
He don't you totally okay? Unless it made you? Did
it did? What's the right word? Did it turn you off?
Speaker 14 (32:15):
I kind of did, not entirely, but it did kind of,
I guess scare me.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
Did it make you feel like, oh gosh, maybe I
shouldn't be so open, Maybe I shouldn't be so comfortable.
Maybe I should I'm going to hold back a little bit, yeah, just.
Speaker 14 (32:32):
A bit, because I do kind of have that guard.
So it did.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It did kind of make me.
Speaker 14 (32:38):
Put my guard up and make me a little scared
to just open up and be be that.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Like, just open with him, And do you feel comfortable
that he said it to you, and you can keep
your guard up for a little bit to see if
it is, yes, exact same for you at some point,
because I think it's it's totally fine for you to
feel that way, and if it continues to feel more
that way than the other way, you know it's not
(33:06):
a match.
Speaker 14 (33:09):
Yeah, I get I'm a little nervous that he is
going to resent me for not saying it back.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Well, don't say it because you're worried about him resenting.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Yeah, I'm not going to I said I love you
to my boyfriend a month before he said it to me.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I said it after the first date.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
Oh yeah, drunk, So speaking of using it loosely and
right away. So it's about I think this is okay,
and this happens. This happens more often than not, where
one person says and the other person's like, oh I'm
not sure yet. Yeah, So take your time with it,
don't worry about him resenting. And again, if those things happen,
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this is not the guy for you. It nets itself out,
it will It is about we love you.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
So thank you for calling you. Take good care? All right?
Speaker 7 (34:00):
Up?
Speaker 3 (34:01):
So how long did it take Robbie to say it
after you said it?
Speaker 5 (34:03):
About a month? What's on brand for our relationship though?
Speaker 2 (34:12):
If I'm being honest, My God on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
All right, so I've never heard of Christmas treat syndrome,
but Sicany's walking around saying, hey, do you have a stuff?
He knows, Hey, are you sneezing? Like no, but my
dog is my dog Christmas tree.
Speaker 5 (34:33):
That's the whole thing, right.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
George's got the sneezes right now? So what is Christmas
treat syndrome? And is it different than being allergic to
pine or something like that exactly?
Speaker 1 (34:44):
So maybe it could just be a fancy name that
decided to make up this year just so we can
all be at the edge of our stools. But either way,
it's these invisible allergens that lurk inside of our real
or fake Christmas trees.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
So yay, it's the.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Most wonderful time of the year.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Don't you have a fake flocked one? Or is it
a real flocked one.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
It's a real flocked tree. I have a real silver
tip tree, and I don't necessarily I'm experiencing any of this,
so okay, but maybe some people do. And it's if
you're having watery eyes, sneezing coffee, or itchy skin. Even
it's like, man, I can affect your skin or feel
(35:30):
like asthma is aggravated. So if you already have asthma
and it's now aggravated or intensified around this time of
year and you're like, why is it, it could be
because of the Christmas tree.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
Okay, so now you have it out.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
They're saying dust, insect droppings, pesticide, mold, and varying types
of pollen might be to blame. So that's where I
think the fake Christmas tree comes into play. Because it's
stored away all year.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
The fake seems more dangerous to me that catch all
kinds of crun over the course of the air where
they get a freshy in there.
Speaker 1 (36:03):
That's what I'm saying. It's like who knows where you're
storing that puppy, and then you have a little who
knows what being built up in little crevices of that
fake Christmas.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
I got to call you Scrooge the rest of the morning.
Thanks for that report to haunt us?
Speaker 1 (36:16):
What that is? A PSA? You should thank me. So
maybe take question clorox wipe and just dab your fake
tree and get some of that dust off of that.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
Who was the person that did the bed bug story here?
Because I have a bone to pick. Who did the
bed bug story in hotels?
Speaker 1 (36:30):
I believe that a writer, a journalist wrote the story.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Who delivered it?
Speaker 1 (36:36):
I found it?
Speaker 4 (36:37):
So that's your fault. Okay, your fault too, Scrooge. And
then the bed bugs I cannot tell you.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
I was in Salt Lake City.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
I would go to bed, I get into my bedwear,
which isn't much, and all I could think about was
the bedbug story that you put it, you put inside
my head, and all I could think about was that
I got a little itch on my kneecap.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
All of the sudden I thought, oh gosh, turn on
the lights, which couldn't find turn on the lights and
I'm looking, and didn't you tell me I've got to
peel up like the comforter and go under and look.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
Yeah, I couldn't do it. Why couldn't do it. I
don't want to.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Did you put your suitcases in the bathtub?
Speaker 3 (37:13):
I didn't do that, but I've put my clothes on,
went back to bed.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
I don't know why. When you say bedwear, I picture
you like Pinocchio's dad in a long nighty.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
No, it's not a long nighty.
Speaker 9 (37:24):
Now.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
Actually I started in sweatpants to sort of like decompress,
and then when it's time to go to bed, those
are removed and it's just a v neck very thin
tea because it got cold.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
No, I can very much picture it remember some reason.
I still.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
It's not sure. It's not that long. The point is,
you're in my head with that bedbug story.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Does this just information that you can choose to remember.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
I choose not to listen to not remember it. But
if you missed it, you could listen to it again
on the podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
The good news here is that it's mild. It's not
life threatening.
Speaker 4 (37:58):
Zach and Sherman Oaks. How are you, Zach good? How
are you doing well? So tell me what's going on
with your daughter?
Speaker 9 (38:06):
So, honestly, I just don't know how to handle the situation.
But she had a sleepover recently. She wanted one, so
I should should have no problems, you know, call some
of your friends that kind of thing. She invited them five girls, Okay,
two of them said yes and the other three said no.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Who said yes?
Speaker 9 (38:27):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (38:27):
And so she's dealing with the rejection of why they
said no, they can't come?
Speaker 1 (38:31):
Or is it like a scheduling thing?
Speaker 9 (38:33):
Honestly, it's I thought that initially, but I think it's
simply because I'm a guy. I'm a solo parent and
there's no mom here.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Oh and the parents didn't give them permission.
Speaker 9 (38:44):
Yeah, I don't. I don't think they feel comfortable with
their their daughters spending the night at the house because
I'm a single dad.
Speaker 12 (38:50):
How old are daughter nine?
Speaker 3 (38:53):
And why do you think they feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 9 (38:58):
I heard it through the grapevine, But it's because I'm
a guy, And I can only assume that it's because
I'm a guy and there's you know, tex girls, you know,
I mean, and they're young. I don't really know. I'm
I'm just kind of I feel absulted. I'm a little
bit upset about it.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
I could hear it in your voice. That's so I
could just give me chills, Like that's so sad that
that's what you're dealing with.
Speaker 9 (39:21):
Yeah, I don't. I just want her to have maybe
a normal childhood when it comes to these types of things,
so me being you know, soul custody type things. She
still sees her mom, but when it comes to these
types of things that I think she's going to be
doing it primarily at my house. So I don't want
this to be weird.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
What do you say?
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Okay, is there any female charactering you, a person in
your life, like I don't know, like a sister of
yours or that could come over and also be there
like that there is another.
Speaker 9 (39:52):
Yeah, actually I could probably do that. My sister is
similar ads.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
So I mean, I don't know what that makes the parents,
I don't even know who you had that conversation. That's
so awkward.
Speaker 5 (40:02):
You have to have the conversation head on with the
other parents.
Speaker 9 (40:06):
Yeah, yeah, And I don't know how to do that.
I feel like it needs to be done. And if
it does, how uncomfortable is that going to be?
Speaker 1 (40:15):
I mean, you just do it. You just be like, hey,
I I heard through the grape vine people were talking
or whatever that you guys have. You guys are feeling
a way that you know, I'm a single dad, and
I can assure you everything's going to be safe and whatever.
But if you, guys, if it makes you feel more comfortable,
my sister will be here as well. She will spend
the night and be in the room with the girls
or like or whatever. They'll sleep in the living room,
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like whatever you like will make the parents feel more comfortable.
Speaker 6 (40:38):
And say what you just said to us, you don't
want your daughter to miss out on the experience.
Speaker 3 (40:42):
For you being a single parent.
Speaker 4 (40:44):
Yeah, And then the other thing is move ahead with
the ones that can come and make it the most
amazing fun night.
Speaker 3 (40:50):
That's true because that word.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
The word will get around exactly.
Speaker 3 (40:55):
You mentioned that.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
Clearly, there's a grape vine, so word will get around
that it was a great sleepover. And you can only
control You can't control them, those other parents.
Speaker 3 (41:04):
True, you can't control.
Speaker 9 (41:05):
It doesn't bother you at all though that they're talking
about it, people talk.
Speaker 4 (41:12):
Yeah, no, I of course it would bother. Of course
it would bother. You're trying to do something great. You're
probably I don't know, maybe even trying to overcompensate in
a way, right, you want to make it better in
a way because it is just you and these are
the things that are in your on your mind, and
when you hear them, it reinforces wanting to do even more,
which is also not great. Yeah, so your number one
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priority is your daughter, and there are a couple of
girls that want to come enjoy it. Make it fantastic,
don't take it personally. Be aware, but don't take it personally,
which is hard to do and hard. Focus on the
focus on the fund that you can create for them.
But Zack, thanks for calling. I really appreciate your openness.
Speaker 9 (41:54):
You know.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I think it's a hard I think it's a hard
call to have publicly a little bit.
Speaker 9 (41:59):
Yeah, listen, I really appreciate that. I think that's what I'm.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Gonna do, all right, exactly, take care the thanks guys.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
All right, boy, is it when when anybody says to anyone,
don't take it personally, it's the hardest thing in the world.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Carter, good morning, good morning, Thanks for having me. It's
a pleasure to have you on.
Speaker 4 (42:23):
So your fiance missed your friends giving and you think
she did it on purpose?
Speaker 11 (42:31):
Yeah, like definitely, man.
Speaker 3 (42:33):
What makes you think that?
Speaker 11 (42:36):
Yeah, So last weekend I hosted a friend giving in
my new place, and it's we just moved in together,
me and my fiance, and it was like their significant
others and it was honestly like a great time. It
was fun catching up, good food, good hang like a
really good time. But the issue with my fiance is
that she had to work that day and couldn't be there,
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which like by itself, had me kind of upset. Like
on the weekend, she works at Target to make some
extra money and play support her for doing that, told
me to get it. She wouldn't get her ship covered
to be at my friends giving, and I'm pretty sure
she could have, like her friends ower some like shifts
and some favors, so it felt like she was just
blowing me off. And then the real kicker was after
(43:20):
her shift, she ended up going out with her coworkers
instead of heading home, so she like completely missed my
friends and like everybody I invited, She came home and
I was just cleaning up all the like the aftermath.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Basically, So, if all that's true, you're about to marry
this person and she's blowing you off, doesn't this feel strange?
Speaker 11 (43:41):
It so like we So that's the thing so he
talked about it and hashed it out, but she just
keeps like making up excuses. But like, I'm the most
upset I am is because I think she did this
on purpose to miss my friends giving, because she like
doesn't like my college friends and doesn't want anything to
do with them.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Okay, I get that that might be fair, But he's
not doing this on purpose because she wants to back
out of the marriage, is she?
Speaker 11 (44:04):
Well, I didn't think so, Like like I was talking about,
like like she doesn't like my college friends, but she's
blowing them off, But it's still important.
Speaker 10 (44:10):
To me because you know, at least that's interesting. I mean,
the conversation of compromise may need to happen before you
guys get married, because if you're into that and she's
not into that, it's important to you.
Speaker 4 (44:20):
It's a holiday that you want to spend with those people.
Then she needs to I guess, understand that in some
way or work through it. But this is a red
flag a little bit.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Do you think you're in your head a little bit
too much? Like it might have just been an oversight,
Like I don't think do you think she would really
go that far?
Speaker 11 (44:38):
But like, like she knew it was my friends giving,
she knew all my friends were there. It's our first
friends giving in our house. Like we just got engaged,
we're about to get married, and she goes off to
have get drunk with her friends instead of even like
say high to mine.
Speaker 3 (44:52):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
Well, maybe she's, you know, need to blow off steam,
she's busy, she's worried, whatever, But I think Carter, it's
important to you. It's important to your relationship. Do you
guys understand what the issues are. If she doesn't like
your friends, at least you'll know. And if she was
overwhelmed or busy or just needed a minute, you'll know.
But you got to talk through this one. Otherwise I'm
afraid that if you get married, stuff like this keeps
coming up.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
Yeah, you need to talk it through. And as you're
one too many Tequila's.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
Marriage counselor I just want to say those things, Carter,
good luck to you.
Speaker 11 (45:23):
No, no, no, I think you're right.
Speaker 7 (45:25):
Guys.
Speaker 11 (45:25):
We got to like really hatch it out because she
just needs making up excuses.
Speaker 12 (45:28):
And like and like telling lines.
Speaker 11 (45:29):
It feels like, man, so I just got to be
playing plank, Like ay, do you not like my friends
and do.
Speaker 12 (45:33):
You even want to be with me?
Speaker 9 (45:34):
Like?
Speaker 11 (45:34):
This is what it's going to have to be.
Speaker 4 (45:35):
We got to communicate, Okay, bro well, good luck, good
come to beltimate them.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
I don't know if that's the way to say it.
Speaker 1 (45:41):
I don't know. Yeah, that was intense.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
But or is she backing out?
Speaker 8 (45:47):
No?
Speaker 6 (45:47):
I think maybe she doesn't like the college friends she
called them.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
Yeah, she doesn't have college friends and trying to make
her friends. No, she doesn't like the college friends. And
then she went out with her girlfriends and then they
were drinking and she was probably venting to them, and
then they just got too drunk and they and she
made a mistake and she needs to apologize for that,
and they do need to talk about the whole college
friends situation.
Speaker 3 (46:07):
I would postpone the wedding for a year.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
It doesn't need to be postponed.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
That's what I would do.
Speaker 5 (46:12):
Guess what.
Speaker 1 (46:12):
The college friends are not going to be there forever.
They need to figure it out.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
On air on.
Speaker 2 (46:17):
Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (46:20):
One of two point seven Guess FM, let's go do
it for us.
Speaker 4 (46:23):
We're gonna roll out. I have a great weekend. I'll
talk to you this weekend on American Top forty, we'll
count down the forty bag songs of the USA as
we do Saturday and Sunday, and then Monday, we're back
with the Ryans Roses, Sissy's gonna take it for the
next hour here on Kiss FM.
Speaker 3 (46:38):
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tomorrow
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Sicity and her smart watcher.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Here my smart watch. Not even gonna say. My shacket
is everywhere. It's my you know, it's a shacket. That's
what you call these. It's like a shirt jacket.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Oh I thought it was a not so nice jacket.
You called a jacket shocket. I've never heard of a jacket.
Is a jacket something that is new and on trend?
Or is it something I should look for in the
new year.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
I think I kind of became a thing this this
past year.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Well, I'm in my sweatshirt stretcher swisshirt, in my sweatshirt.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
I'm in my uniform too.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm at my hoodie. Right, it's Friday.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
It's comfy Friday.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
It's sweatshirt hoodie Friday.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Uh huh.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Show anyway, last night.
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Oh before I went to sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Mm hmmm, this great idea to go caroling? No you
did not this holiday?
Speaker 5 (01:10):
Yes I did, Okay, so you haven't done.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
It's this idea from.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
It dawned on me that I heard somebody somewhere talking
about going caroling.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Now, what a good idea?
Speaker 6 (01:20):
You had, Ryan, Yeah, are you going to pass out
gluten free cookies?
Speaker 7 (01:23):
Too?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Took it to another level? Okay, uh huh was it
you Tania talking about going caroling?
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (01:28):
And we're gonna pass out gluten free cookies and we're
gonna wear matching sweaters.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
That's you Wi, not me. We you wi us we
that's you correct, I'm not doing that. Yes, So went
on Amazon last night and started searching for Christmas Caroler costumes.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Are you dressing up in old costumes?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
No, we're gonna wear ugly sweaters.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
We're doing well. I might. I'm probably gonna dress up
in something from you know.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Either year, like you and like the old time you
like back in the UK.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
Yes, before there was electricity, silent night.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I'm gonna grab a beard.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I'm gonna put on a fake beard, a top hat
and something plaid. And so here's what's gonna happen about
five o'clock on December twenty third.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Oh, you're this is actually happening.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Do you think I'm going through all of this and
playing the background music, because it's not. So I've got
to come up with my Christmas caroling name mm hmm.
And then I'm gonna have a Christmas Carol book. I'm
gonna have a candle, candles my top hat, and I'm
gonna sing we wish you a merry Christmas and to.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
My little niece, but she won't know it's me, right, candle.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Just like cute.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
That's very cute.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
I'm gonna take candles. That's a good idea.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
When I get inside, because obviously the family won't invite.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
The carolers in.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
We'll see how long it takes your to realize it's
Uncle Rye Rock.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I love that idea.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Is that great?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I think that's really cute.
Speaker 8 (03:06):
You know, I gotta go run an errand Flora, Mom, Dad,
everybody gotta go get some more batteries for the equipment
and things, and.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I'll see you guys soon.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Well done.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
What a production.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I like it?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
But you know, the costumes on Amazon I'm not thrilled about.
But a Carol if you if you I didn't google,
I Amazon search.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
You can find everything there was Christmas.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Carol costumes of yither ye see either?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
How to smell that either? Okay, so what do you like?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I mean, there's there are some nice gowns and some
pants and top hats.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
With the plant clad like green and red like.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
A top, and you could see the funk rolling up
in that.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Do something like this, This is not bad.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Hello, Yeah, exactly, she's showing us Charles Dickens costumes.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
Yeah, with that, that's.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
And I guess Tanya, you should take credit for this
because it wouldn't have been in my subconscious if you
didn't bring it up that you and your team were.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Going to do it.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
I love that.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
Nothing makes me happier than to inspire thee Well either.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
Me, they're me either you. The candles are cute, though,
I'm going to bring that to my group.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
You know, if you can't find out Amazon, then just
go go through like a costume store.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
We hark if we harketh. All right, so we do
your horoscopes. Now, how is your day gonna look today?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Let's start it off.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Aries, examine your budget and look for areas that you
can trim.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
The fact Taurus, your head is full of clever ideas.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Gemini, you will deliver a persuasive pitch.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Cancer, mute your inner critic Leo today.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
You will cocoon in your.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Casa Virgo brain dump today and let the words flow freely.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Libra, make plans with friends for tonight.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Scorpio, order in and enjoy a mellow knight.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
Sagittarius, pop into an an indie store, and support a
small business.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Capricorn, someone's feeling flirtatious and vivacious. Aquarius. Today is the
day to make a bold move and five ses Today
is the day to finish that to do list.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So, Chania, you had a ping pong revelation.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Yes, okay, I don't know if Sissy and I told
you about this ping pong tournament that we were in
with the Dodgers.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
It's Clayton Kershaw's, like you may have mentioned that in passing.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Okay, So he.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Does this annual ping pong tournament and we played in it,
and my my boyfriend and my best friend Becca are
berry into ping pong and they always play each other,
like when we have taco Tuesdays and stuff. But I've
never really been good or into it, and ever since
this Kershaw challenge, I've been like I discovered I'm actually
kind of good at it, and now we're really like
(05:51):
into it as a couple. We're kind of like playing
ping pong all the time, and we're gonna have a
ping pong tournament, and we're gonna get other friends that
are like really good at ping pong, and we're gonna
do like a whole time, and I'm gonna make shorts.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
How's your serf?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
That's the only thing I'm not great at. I'm just
I'm a consistent player. The revelation that I had at
this ping pong tournament? Do you know who Zach King is?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Not Zach King of the Mighty Mighty ping Pongers.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
No, So he's like a very famous he makes these
like really cool videos on TikTok and Instagram.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
They're like kind of like magic.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Not the Mighty Mighty boss Tones, not that guy.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Oh no.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
But he was like really really into the game, like
he was pushing me and wanted me to practice really hard,
and I was kind of annoyed at first. I was
like I just don't to have some fun, right, But
it made me a better player, Like I wanted to
be better for him because he was actually really nice
and sweet and encouraging about it. And so it made
me realize, like that's how I want to be as
a partner in life, Like I want to be that
(06:48):
for somebody else, for my partner.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Well, that now there's a lot of great to this
ping pong tournament. Yeah, I understand that, and it's fun.
When I was a kid, we used to play a
lot more of it than I do now. But when
you google the videos of like pro pingpongers, I mean,
it's insane to watch them, how fast they go, I know.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
But it's more than ping pong.
Speaker 6 (07:07):
It was like this life revelation of like, I'm a
better player because my partner is encouraging me and pushing me,
and it was helping me, and I was like, oh
my gosh, I want to be that for my partner
in life. And I feel like I'm not quite there yet.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
But you're getting there.
Speaker 5 (07:24):
I hope to get there, all right.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
What we're saying is eventually we make it together for
a ping pong tourney.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Do you guys know it sounds like you only want
people that are good.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
You know that's true.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
You said that, you said other friends who are good
at ping ponger I like to play.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
I like to play, yeah, and I'd be up for that.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I'm not so sure. I don't know how good Robbie is.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I'm average, Yeah, I'm a good like out in the
first round person.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
I can't get my Sometimes I can ase my serve.
I mean I can get my serf pretty tight against
the top of the net.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
I didn't stand a chance at the Kershaw Challenge. I
played against like two Laker players. They were like their swings.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Across the table.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
I've lent hard people too. We want first round.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Oh, I'm terrified of performing sports in front of people
for anything like friends, Fine, but I would really I
get butterflies singing up playing in like a some of
these tournaments.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
But it was so fun because it was like Will
Ferrell was there and Ashton Kutcher was there, and it
was everybody was just.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Brad Pitt.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Coming up in a second your morning hack. Three things
you can say today to make people happy? Are you
spreading joy?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Siciny?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I try to sprinkle it as much as I can.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
I just packaged up y'all's gifts. Made me joyful to
be giving you something from the heart this year. Last
year for not so much from the heart. They were
gift cards. This is not a gift card. It's definitely
more me for you, for me, for you me you
(09:08):
you know, and something that's taken a long time to
get to. It's this stage for you. It's been years,
in some cases ten years.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Okay, I have ideas.
Speaker 5 (09:24):
I'm going to google something really quick.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
What are you going to google?
Speaker 9 (09:29):
Ten?
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Your anniversary gift?
Speaker 10 (09:31):
No?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
Like wooden?
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Are you guys would ten? I'm packing.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I'm going to home depot where the doers get it done,
and I'm getting some two by four and I'm painting
your name more aluminum.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
That's the decade long anniversary gift tradition.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
It's not tenure.
Speaker 3 (09:49):
What are you going to do with the wood this year?
Speaker 5 (09:53):
That's what I'm doing?
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Oh not ten? Sorry? What are you gonna do with
the ten?
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Yeah, it's our ten year anniversary.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
It's a tin bucket. It's sand Uh No, that's wrong.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
You'll see something that he's been growing.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
You'll see soon enough. Anyway, back to the morning hack.
Speaker 4 (10:14):
We do have the power to make somebody feel good,
feel happy. So here are three phrases guaranteed to instantly
brighten someone's day. One, you're having a conversation with somebody
and they're talking about something that they're really into, and
you say to them, tell me more about that, and
you do.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
It with that inflection yes, like you're interested to mean it.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Well, I mean look right, jot these down in your
hand and act like you mean it all right, next one,
you know what, you're making a difference. That was hard
for me to pull off subtly and not sound contrived,
but we could roll play it. Tanya, what are you
doing this holiday season for others?
Speaker 11 (10:58):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (10:58):
Well, every year I donate.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
We adopt families through my church, so I go on
buy a bunch of gifts for a specific family.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
It's great, you're making a difference.
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (11:07):
And the last one is and this is heavy, and
this is big, but it's you changed my life.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Oh wow, tubs just role play.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
Oh okay, go ahead, talk about how.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
I changed your life.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Oh I thought you were going to say I changed
your life.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
You are to work here and be in his presents.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
What were you doing before this job?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah? He was a history major.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
Was a history major. Oh it's great now you really
love your work?
Speaker 9 (11:40):
Right?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Absolutely changed my life? Oh so thanks, come on, that's
too heavy.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
How does it feel?
Speaker 9 (11:45):
It was great?
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Yeah, but you know it's not. The role plane didn't
work so well.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Today's quote most people need love and acceptance much more
than they need advice.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
So shut it, shut it hard.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
I feel like you added that last part.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
Shut in and hug it.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
If you just got here, It's time for another kiss,
MIAs giving call love doing this. So Sis Tanya, we
got an email from Eddie Sanchez of Bellflower. He told
me all about his sister. So let me get Eddie
on the phone here. Eddie, thank you very much for listening.
Thank you for sending us this email about your sister.
Speaker 9 (12:25):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Yeah, of course we appreciate that.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
So I was thinking we'll call her now, we'll surprise
her and I've got a whole bunch of stuff for her.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Okay, let's get her on the line.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
So Eddie Sanchez here of Bellflower, nominating Diana of Compton,
his sister.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Okay, here we go, Eddie. Okay, Hello, Hi is Diana there?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Hi?
Speaker 12 (12:53):
Yes, this is her.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
Hi Diana.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
It's Ryan Seacrest calling from one of two point seven
Kiss FM on the air with you.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
How are are you?
Speaker 1 (13:01):
I'm fine?
Speaker 9 (13:02):
Thank you great.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
We're just calling everybody that we think is listening and
just wishing them a merry Christmas.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
So merry Christmas, Yay, Merry Christmas Holidays.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
All right, you have a great day.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Wait, wait, don't hang up.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
Hold on, hold on, there's more.
Speaker 4 (13:17):
So I've got Eddie, your brother, on the line.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Oh, let me tell you.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Eddie sent me an email. I'm going to read it
to you, he says. Dear Ryan, Sistey and Tanya, my sister.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
That's you. Diana is the most selfless person I know.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
She has always been so supportive, especially when I came
out to her this year. She blessed my husband and
I by being a surrogate for our baby.
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Despite having six kids of her own, she has never
asked for anything, but is always giving as much as
she can. I can't think of anyone more deserving than
her and her family. Please Ryan, help her out. She's
an amazing person, so we believe him. We do believe
you're an amazing person. And we just love the support
(14:12):
that your brother and the support you have together, the
bond you have together.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
And you're Hi. Hi there. You're a family of eight,
Is that right?
Speaker 9 (14:22):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Groceries must be an enormous bill.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Oh yeah, my teenagers say they eat a lot.
Speaker 4 (14:33):
So how about one thousand dollars to spend at grocery outlet,
bargain market over on rosecrans for you?
Speaker 12 (14:40):
That would be awesome.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
Okay, we're going to set that up.
Speaker 4 (14:44):
We're also going to send you eight tickets to six
Flags Magic Mountain for some funky.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
How's Isaiah? How's Isaiah doing? How old is he?
Speaker 6 (14:55):
Now?
Speaker 1 (14:57):
He's fourteen.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
There's no bigger Kendrick Lamar fan than Isaiah.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
Oh I heard he loves.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
So you gotta do me a favor. I'm going to
give you four tickets to see Kendrick Lamar. You got
to surprise him with those.
Speaker 1 (15:11):
No's a massive.
Speaker 12 (15:15):
Oh he's gonna go ahead, sane.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
Yeah. Well, then there's the younger kids.
Speaker 4 (15:21):
So I got five hundred bucks to spend at Pixie
Toys over there on Atlantic for the other kids.
Speaker 12 (15:27):
Oh, thanks, so we got.
Speaker 4 (15:30):
I'm also thinking about just keeping them busy and sending
a Nintendo Switch with money for the games and the
extra controllers.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
If that's cool with you too.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
Oh oh oh no, man, I mean eight people in
that family, six kids.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
You need a break. You need a break.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
You need a weekend at the Terranea resortant spat in
Rancho Palace Verdus.
Speaker 9 (15:59):
I've been there.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
It's that place is like a dream.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, you need that weekend. I'm gonna give that to
you as well, see, I've never heard of it, but
I'm gonna look it up. You're gonna look it up.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
You're gonna love it.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Oh oh, and look click on the spot because I'm
sending you five hundred bucks in spat treatments.
Speaker 3 (16:16):
To Oh man, So I think Eddie, did we miss anything?
Speaker 12 (16:25):
I think you got it all. Say that's something.
Speaker 13 (16:29):
More than you knows so much.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Well, it's a celebration of the love you guys have.
And just to close it out in case I forgot something,
I'm gonna send a thousand dollars in cash to you on.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Top of it.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
Oh man, I'm going to help you out a lot things.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
Well, Eddie, we love you, and Diana, we love it,
appreciate you.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Merry Christmas, thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (17:01):
Likewise, all right.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Go tell the kids about all the good stuff coming.
Speaker 12 (17:07):
I'm gonna tell when they get old.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Ye wait till Christmas.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
I couldn't wait to tell Isaiah about the Kendrick.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Na did she could wrap up a little thing in
her kid under the tree.
Speaker 13 (17:19):
Oh my gosh, come on, Oh yeah, it's be like
the most epic. They're going to forget that one.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Big hugs to you and Merry Christmas edding, Diana, thank you.
Speaker 5 (17:30):
Thanks very Christmas.
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Hold on one second. I get so excited to do these.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
It just warms my heart.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
So we just had Eddie and Diana, and she's got
six kids. She's got a five year old, a seven
year old, a nine year old, a twelve year old,
a fourteen year old, and a sixteen year old. I
read it to a friend of mine the other day.
He was picking up food at the same place I
was picking up food and he walks out and he
just says, how are you? I said, great, said how
are you? He goes exhausted, and he had this look
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on his face. I said, why, what is it? He goes, Ryan,
let me just give you one word of advice. Don't
have kids. Oh come on, that's what he said, don't
have kids.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
How many does he have?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Six? I am?
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I said, well, maybe I just won't have six kids,
because please don't. And the look on his face was
like he might die tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
You know, that's just a bad, busy day and it
happens us.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
He looked like he wanted to move in with me.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
But on Christmas morning, Christmas morning, when all six of
those kids are opening up gifts, and there's chaos in
the house and all of that that is true love.
Speaker 4 (18:40):
There could be chaos with one. I want to do
a second date update. If you have ever dated, or
you are dating, listen to this. I'm Maya and Ben
I's reaching out for some help here. So Maya says
she met this guy at church and she said, oh,
by the way, I went to we had my nieces baptism.
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And you ever made the mistake in church when you're
reading out loud from the hymnal that you read the
part that's not supposed to be read?
Speaker 1 (19:13):
Do you like read too much?
Speaker 3 (19:15):
Well, I read the part you're.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
Supposed to fill in the blank, but I read the
fill in the blank part. You ever make a mistake?
And then I got Then I got nervous to speak
to read too loud in the church. I get my
anxiety when I'm reading from the hymnal out loud.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
It happens.
Speaker 6 (19:29):
I got asked to read at temple last weekend, and
I've never been more nervous or stressed in my life.
Speaker 4 (19:37):
I too, I have like weird anxiety when it comes
to reading out loud in church. Yeah, so I kind
of follow along, like I'm mumble the first first couple
of beats and then follow the people next to me. Anyway, So,
so she meets this guy at church and they started
talking in the lobby after the service. One day, he
was on his own, She says, he invited me to
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get coffee and it was great. Changed numbers and it
was so nice. He has now blown me off. I
don't know what wrong. So my good morning, Maya, thanks for.
Speaker 13 (20:06):
Calling, good morning, thanks for having me pleasure.
Speaker 4 (20:10):
So all right, you meet a church, you see each
other in the lobby. It's a good time to say
a load of people. You probably timed it right. And
then you guys go and you hang out outside of church.
You say that you want to go get coffee, and
you guys had a nice chat just once. Did you
only go out once?
Speaker 9 (20:27):
Yes?
Speaker 13 (20:28):
Yeah, we just want out for coffee one.
Speaker 4 (20:30):
Time, easy conversation, I thought, So, yeah, exchange numbers. And
what has happened since? What kind of the electronic communication
has happened since?
Speaker 14 (20:43):
Nothing?
Speaker 13 (20:44):
So yeah, we both go to church, you know, in
the Church of the Valley and van nice and since
her coffee, Tait, it's like been radio silence for days.
And so finally on Wednesday, I texted him and I said,
you know, I had a great time on Sunday, like
maybe we could get some lunch after the service this weekend,
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and he said, sorry, I don't think that's going to work.
Thank you. Though there was like no, you know, maybe
next Sunday or you know, I would have I would
love to, but I can't. Like nothing, it was just like, nope,
not it's gonna happen.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Plus, you guys are going to see Teller inevitably at church,
so it's a little strange that he would shut it
down so rigidly. And there's nothing that strikes you.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That was at the coffee that was like a weird moment.
Speaker 13 (21:36):
No, no, I everything seemed to be going really well.
But now I feel like I can't go to my church.
So I've been going to Little Brown Church in Studio City.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
Oh I love that.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So you moved your you move locations.
Speaker 13 (21:50):
They're they're affiliated, so it's not like but yeah, I've
been going to a different location because I'm nervous, like
I don't know what it. Yeah, I'm like I don't
want to run into him and it'd be awkward until
I know, like what's going on.
Speaker 4 (22:06):
Well, listen, do you want us to get into Maybe
the Lord is involved here. Maybe the Lord does not
want you guys to run into each other.
Speaker 13 (22:16):
You know, I just I feel like we hit it
off so well and like and we go to the
same church and it's like, you know, like it just
seemed so perfect.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Like it could be a big misunderstanding and then we
could be helping.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
Well, let's try and clear it up.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
Right, I'm just saying, if there's another power at work here,
we're going to get involved with your permission.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Right, please, A little brown are just so cute. Maybe
you're just meant to be there.
Speaker 4 (22:39):
But again, sometimes you're driven down the path because the
universe wants you to be down that path and not
cross paths with somebody. But we'll we'll meddle my hang
on one second. This guy's name is Ashton, So find
out if we can get Ashton on the line. See
why Ashton blew off Maya and I might as going
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to another.
Speaker 2 (22:59):
Church on a on air with Ryan Seacrest On Air
with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
We got him. So we're in the middle of a
second date update. Maya met Ashton at church. They mingled
in the lobby post the eleven o'clock service, I think,
and they went out for coffee afterwards. Good conversation, she said.
The conversation went well and she liked him. They exchanged numbers,
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and now he doesn't want to hang out with her again,
kind of like shut her down. So she's actually going
to a different location to go to church for the
moment because she doesn't want the awkwardness of running into him.
And she doesn't know why she got pushed away by
him when everything seemed to be going well. So maya
have him on the line. You very quiet, don't say anything.
We're going to try and find out what's going on. Okay, Ashton,
(23:57):
thanks for holding on, bro.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
I appreciate you coming on.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Just so you're aware your voice is being broadcast on
the radio right now. I've got Sisney and Tanya with
me here, and we're calling about a woman named Maya
that you met at church.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Does that sound familiar? Oh yeah, fantastic. How tell me
about Maya? So what's she like.
Speaker 12 (24:20):
Maya? Is it? Okay?
Speaker 9 (24:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (24:23):
So Maya's a very sweet girl. We go to the
same church, well, kind of friends from far and we
went on a date recently. How'd that go, it went
really well. We had a lovely time. I really think
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she's wonderful. She's got these amazing eyes, just beautiful.
Speaker 10 (24:47):
Laugh.
Speaker 12 (24:47):
I had a great time with her.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Yeah, nice, Well, forgive our prying here. But so if
things went well and you had a great time with her,
do you have plans to see her anymore?
Speaker 12 (25:02):
I mean, I'm sure I'll run into her at church, but.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Yeah, are you making an effort to see her again?
Speaker 12 (25:12):
Are you? Are you asking on her behalf?
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Yes?
Speaker 12 (25:19):
Okay, I have to say, well, it's none of my business,
but I don't think we're a good match.
Speaker 3 (25:27):
Why is that on her behalf?
Speaker 12 (25:30):
She has a bit of a checkered past?
Speaker 5 (25:35):
What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (25:37):
What does that mean?
Speaker 12 (25:41):
You know, that's her business. It's not my place to
expose her on the radio.
Speaker 4 (25:46):
Understood that, okay? But so there's something about her past
that made you feel uncomfortable. Yeah, and you didn't know
about this. But by the way, if it's in her past,
what's the big deal?
Speaker 1 (25:59):
So what she just like some bad things?
Speaker 9 (26:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (26:04):
Like I googled her, you know, uh, and so came
up black.
Speaker 4 (26:14):
Okay, well, hold on for a second, as we have
Maya on the phone here, may Are you listening to
this here? Can you hear Ashton?
Speaker 12 (26:21):
Yes? I can.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
We don't want you to say anything that makes you uncomfortable.
But you just heard Ashton comment about I don't know
what it is in your past that he's referring to,
but something made him uneasy.
Speaker 12 (26:35):
Uh yeah, I.
Speaker 13 (26:37):
Mean he must have done more than just google me.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
Oh but is there anything you want to share with
us about what we're talking about?
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Oh?
Speaker 12 (26:48):
Yeah, I use one of those background check sites. I
use it quite a bit.
Speaker 4 (26:54):
What happened in your past that he's so concerned about
and can't get over?
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I mean he can.
Speaker 13 (27:00):
You can go ahead and say, oh, okay, so you
were arrested. I was, Yeah, public intoxication in college and
we got the charges dropped, but apparently it still shows
up on those.
Speaker 12 (27:14):
Types of sites. Okay, and you were also evicted.
Speaker 14 (27:21):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 13 (27:22):
It was around the same time, and in fact, that's
actually one of the reasons why I go to church
every weekend. You know, I turned my life around, and
I was in a really dark place in twenty seventeen
and I don't want to go back there.
Speaker 4 (27:35):
So a while ago, and sounds like she's moved on
and how about forgiveness.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
Yeah, and I feel like all of this she probably
would have just told you if you would have asked
her about her past.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Right, And it sounds like she's in a totally different space.
Speaker 12 (27:49):
Brou Yeah, Yeah, I know I should have asked, and
I know I should have brought this up. I just
it felt strange to do that, to admit that I
looked you up.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
So maybe stop looking people up. This is going to start.
You know, you don't keep doing this with everybody.
Speaker 12 (28:09):
Okay, I've been How do I say I've been burned before?
You know, to protect you.
Speaker 4 (28:17):
But look, Maya's making real effort to it sounds like
make this something that was completely in the past and
will always be in the past, and grow as a
person today and in the future. And that's where you met.
You met at the place where she's trying to be
a better person, right, You met at a church service.
And so I I mean, I'm not going to tell
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you what you should do because it's your dating life,
but you now have a full picture of what Maya
did and where she is now. Is there any interest
there or is this something you can't get past?
Speaker 3 (28:49):
Ashton?
Speaker 9 (28:51):
No?
Speaker 12 (28:53):
I mean, yeah, I think that would be cool to
go out again.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
I'm going to need them in.
Speaker 13 (29:00):
Yeah, I think I'm going to need a minute on that.
Speaker 9 (29:02):
You.
Speaker 12 (29:03):
I don't really love.
Speaker 13 (29:04):
The background thing, and I don't love the judging us
about my past. Yeah, you know, knowing me where I
am now, it's just like, you know, maybe we can
talk on Sunday.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
I want to be around and judge.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Yeah, yeah, I'm with you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
All right, our work is done, Ashton Maya.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
Thank you very much for both being candid with us,
and I wish you guys the best of luck.
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Ashton, lay off the background checks. It's like, just start
having conversations with these women, Like, don't you don't need
to jump into the background check stuff. Maybe do that
once you maybe see red flags, but have conversations with
them first.
Speaker 12 (29:43):
That's a good point.
Speaker 4 (29:45):
Yeah, all right, guys, thank you very much for coming on.
Speaker 3 (29:47):
Good luck. I feel like she's going to be uncomfortable
no matter Yeah, because.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
She doesn't trust him A feeling judged.
Speaker 4 (29:55):
Feel judge. It's like, once you feel that, it's hard
to go back to not feeling. So that was not great.
All right, one A two point seven kiss FM. See
christ with you that's called a second date update. We
do those every once in a while, no telling how
they're going to turn out something. All right, let me
grab Isabelle. Here Isabelle. How you doing in Norwalk?
Speaker 14 (30:20):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
How are you, Isabelle?
Speaker 4 (30:22):
We're doing well too. Thank you for asking. So there's
an issue with the guy you're seeing.
Speaker 14 (30:29):
Yeah, So I started seeing this guy about three months
ago and everything's been good. But about two months in
he did tell me that he loved me, and I
don't know, personally, I felt like that was too soon
and I just didn't want to say it back.
Speaker 3 (30:46):
And so I run out it.
Speaker 4 (30:48):
All we want to do in this world is be loved.
Yet the second we meet someone that says it too
fast or totally turned.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
Off, No, it doesn't have to be that way.
Speaker 4 (30:57):
But I see what you mean is about because I
have been on different sides of this. I've said it
like because it felt like the thing to say in
a moment, and then I've said it and you know,
I meant it but didn't mean it. But John, I
used to when I was younger. It was so deliberate,
and then as time goes on, you kind of use
it more loosely. I'm just telling it.
Speaker 5 (31:19):
I should be backwards.
Speaker 3 (31:22):
Sorry, you don't live in these shoes.
Speaker 4 (31:25):
But you use it a little more loosely than you
did because it was so precious at the beginning, and
it was so first time at the beginning.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
It's still precious every time.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
It's precious.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
But you under said, I'm saying like when you're like
for me, I've been unmarried, so I've fallen in love
multiple times, and I feel like you say it sooner
as those times go by. Is about why is it
that you aren't saying it back?
Speaker 12 (31:54):
I honestly, I don't know.
Speaker 14 (31:56):
I think it's just kind of I haven't felt it
and I don't want to say it if I'm not ready, right,
But that's okay.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
He don't you totally okay? Unless it made you? Did
it did? What's the right word? Did it turn you off?
Speaker 14 (32:15):
I kind of did, not entirely, but it did kind of,
I guess scare me.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
Did it make you feel like, oh gosh, maybe I
shouldn't be so open, Maybe I shouldn't be so comfortable.
Maybe I should I'm going to hold back a little bit, yeah, just.
Speaker 14 (32:32):
A bit, because I do kind of have that guard.
So it did.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It did kind of make me.
Speaker 14 (32:38):
Put my guard up and make me a little scared
to just open up and be be that.
Speaker 4 (32:45):
Like, just open with him, And do you feel comfortable
that he said it to you, and you can keep
your guard up for a little bit to see if
it is, yes, exact same for you at some point,
because I think it's it's totally fine for you to
feel that way, and if it continues to feel more
that way than the other way, you know it's not
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a match.
Speaker 14 (33:09):
Yeah, I get I'm a little nervous that he is
going to resent me for not saying it back.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
Well, don't say it because you're worried about him resenting.
Speaker 6 (33:19):
Yeah, I'm not going to I said I love you
to my boyfriend a month before he said it to me.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I said it after the first date.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
Oh yeah, drunk, So speaking of using it loosely and
right away. So it's about I think this is okay,
and this happens. This happens more often than not, where
one person says and the other person's like, oh I'm
not sure yet. Yeah, So take your time with it,
don't worry about him resenting. And again, if those things happen,
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this is not the guy for you. It nets itself out,
it will It is about we love you.
Speaker 3 (33:55):
So thank you for calling you. Take good care? All right?
Speaker 7 (34:00):
Up?
Speaker 3 (34:01):
So how long did it take Robbie to say it
after you said it?
Speaker 5 (34:03):
About a month? What's on brand for our relationship though?
Speaker 2 (34:12):
If I'm being honest, My God on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
All right, so I've never heard of Christmas treat syndrome,
but Sicany's walking around saying, hey, do you have a stuff?
He knows, Hey, are you sneezing? Like no, but my
dog is my dog Christmas tree.
Speaker 5 (34:33):
That's the whole thing, right.
Speaker 4 (34:34):
George's got the sneezes right now? So what is Christmas
treat syndrome? And is it different than being allergic to
pine or something like that exactly?
Speaker 1 (34:44):
So maybe it could just be a fancy name that
decided to make up this year just so we can
all be at the edge of our stools. But either way,
it's these invisible allergens that lurk inside of our real
or fake Christmas trees.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
So yay, it's the.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Most wonderful time of the year.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
Don't you have a fake flocked one? Or is it
a real flocked one.
Speaker 1 (35:08):
It's a real flocked tree. I have a real silver
tip tree, and I don't necessarily I'm experiencing any of this,
so okay, but maybe some people do. And it's if
you're having watery eyes, sneezing coffee, or itchy skin. Even
it's like, man, I can affect your skin or feel
(35:30):
like asthma is aggravated. So if you already have asthma
and it's now aggravated or intensified around this time of
year and you're like, why is it, it could be
because of the Christmas tree.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
Okay, so now you have it out.
Speaker 1 (35:43):
They're saying dust, insect droppings, pesticide, mold, and varying types
of pollen might be to blame. So that's where I
think the fake Christmas tree comes into play. Because it's
stored away all year.
Speaker 4 (35:57):
The fake seems more dangerous to me that catch all
kinds of crun over the course of the air where
they get a freshy in there.
Speaker 1 (36:03):
That's what I'm saying. It's like who knows where you're
storing that puppy, and then you have a little who
knows what being built up in little crevices of that
fake Christmas.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
I got to call you Scrooge the rest of the morning.
Thanks for that report to haunt us?
Speaker 1 (36:16):
What that is? A PSA? You should thank me. So
maybe take question clorox wipe and just dab your fake
tree and get some of that dust off of that.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
Who was the person that did the bed bug story here?
Because I have a bone to pick. Who did the
bed bug story in hotels?
Speaker 1 (36:30):
I believe that a writer, a journalist wrote the story.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Who delivered it?
Speaker 1 (36:36):
I found it?
Speaker 4 (36:37):
So that's your fault. Okay, your fault too, Scrooge. And
then the bed bugs I cannot tell you.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
I was in Salt Lake City.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
I would go to bed, I get into my bedwear,
which isn't much, and all I could think about was
the bedbug story that you put it, you put inside
my head, and all I could think about was that
I got a little itch on my kneecap.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
All of the sudden I thought, oh gosh, turn on
the lights, which couldn't find turn on the lights and
I'm looking, and didn't you tell me I've got to
peel up like the comforter and go under and look.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
Yeah, I couldn't do it. Why couldn't do it. I
don't want to.
Speaker 1 (37:11):
Did you put your suitcases in the bathtub?
Speaker 3 (37:13):
I didn't do that, but I've put my clothes on,
went back to bed.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
I don't know why. When you say bedwear, I picture
you like Pinocchio's dad in a long nighty.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
No, it's not a long nighty.
Speaker 9 (37:24):
Now.
Speaker 4 (37:24):
Actually I started in sweatpants to sort of like decompress,
and then when it's time to go to bed, those
are removed and it's just a v neck very thin
tea because it got cold.
Speaker 1 (37:35):
No, I can very much picture it remember some reason.
I still.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
It's not sure. It's not that long. The point is,
you're in my head with that bedbug story.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Does this just information that you can choose to remember.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
I choose not to listen to not remember it. But
if you missed it, you could listen to it again
on the podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
The good news here is that it's mild. It's not
life threatening.
Speaker 4 (37:58):
Zach and Sherman Oaks. How are you, Zach good? How
are you doing well? So tell me what's going on
with your daughter?
Speaker 9 (38:06):
So, honestly, I just don't know how to handle the situation.
But she had a sleepover recently. She wanted one, so
I should should have no problems, you know, call some
of your friends that kind of thing. She invited them five girls, Okay,
two of them said yes and the other three said no.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Who said yes?
Speaker 9 (38:27):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (38:27):
And so she's dealing with the rejection of why they
said no, they can't come?
Speaker 1 (38:31):
Or is it like a scheduling thing?
Speaker 9 (38:33):
Honestly, it's I thought that initially, but I think it's
simply because I'm a guy. I'm a solo parent and
there's no mom here.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Oh and the parents didn't give them permission.
Speaker 9 (38:44):
Yeah, I don't. I don't think they feel comfortable with
their their daughters spending the night at the house because
I'm a single dad.
Speaker 12 (38:50):
How old are daughter nine?
Speaker 3 (38:53):
And why do you think they feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 9 (38:58):
I heard it through the grapevine, But it's because I'm
a guy, And I can only assume that it's because
I'm a guy and there's you know, tex girls, you know,
I mean, and they're young. I don't really know. I'm
I'm just kind of I feel absulted. I'm a little
bit upset about it.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
I could hear it in your voice. That's so I
could just give me chills, Like that's so sad that
that's what you're dealing with.
Speaker 9 (39:21):
Yeah, I don't. I just want her to have maybe
a normal childhood when it comes to these types of things,
so me being you know, soul custody type things. She
still sees her mom, but when it comes to these
types of things that I think she's going to be
doing it primarily at my house. So I don't want
this to be weird.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
What do you say?
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Okay, is there any female charactering you, a person in
your life, like I don't know, like a sister of
yours or that could come over and also be there
like that there is another.
Speaker 9 (39:52):
Yeah, actually I could probably do that. My sister is
similar ads.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
So I mean, I don't know what that makes the parents,
I don't even know who you had that conversation. That's
so awkward.
Speaker 5 (40:02):
You have to have the conversation head on with the
other parents.
Speaker 9 (40:06):
Yeah, yeah, And I don't know how to do that.
I feel like it needs to be done. And if
it does, how uncomfortable is that going to be?
Speaker 1 (40:15):
I mean, you just do it. You just be like, hey,
I I heard through the grape vine people were talking
or whatever that you guys have. You guys are feeling
a way that you know, I'm a single dad, and
I can assure you everything's going to be safe and whatever.
But if you, guys, if it makes you feel more comfortable,
my sister will be here as well. She will spend
the night and be in the room with the girls
or like or whatever. They'll sleep in the living room,
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like whatever you like will make the parents feel more comfortable.
Speaker 6 (40:38):
And say what you just said to us, you don't
want your daughter to miss out on the experience.
Speaker 3 (40:42):
For you being a single parent.
Speaker 4 (40:44):
Yeah, And then the other thing is move ahead with
the ones that can come and make it the most
amazing fun night.
Speaker 3 (40:50):
That's true because that word.
Speaker 1 (40:52):
The word will get around exactly.
Speaker 3 (40:55):
You mentioned that.
Speaker 4 (40:56):
Clearly, there's a grape vine, so word will get around
that it was a great sleepover. And you can only
control You can't control them, those other parents.
Speaker 3 (41:04):
True, you can't control.
Speaker 9 (41:05):
It doesn't bother you at all though that they're talking
about it, people talk.
Speaker 4 (41:12):
Yeah, no, I of course it would bother. Of course
it would bother. You're trying to do something great. You're
probably I don't know, maybe even trying to overcompensate in
a way, right, you want to make it better in
a way because it is just you and these are
the things that are in your on your mind, and
when you hear them, it reinforces wanting to do even more,
which is also not great. Yeah, so your number one
(41:32):
priority is your daughter, and there are a couple of
girls that want to come enjoy it. Make it fantastic,
don't take it personally. Be aware, but don't take it personally,
which is hard to do and hard. Focus on the
focus on the fund that you can create for them.
But Zack, thanks for calling. I really appreciate your openness.
Speaker 9 (41:54):
You know.
Speaker 4 (41:54):
I think it's a hard I think it's a hard
call to have publicly a little bit.
Speaker 9 (41:59):
Yeah, listen, I really appreciate that. I think that's what I'm.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Gonna do, all right, exactly, take care the thanks guys.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
All right, boy, is it when when anybody says to anyone,
don't take it personally, it's the hardest thing in the world.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Carter, good morning, good morning, Thanks for having me. It's
a pleasure to have you on.
Speaker 4 (42:23):
So your fiance missed your friends giving and you think
she did it on purpose?
Speaker 11 (42:31):
Yeah, like definitely, man.
Speaker 3 (42:33):
What makes you think that?
Speaker 11 (42:36):
Yeah, So last weekend I hosted a friend giving in
my new place, and it's we just moved in together,
me and my fiance, and it was like their significant
others and it was honestly like a great time. It
was fun catching up, good food, good hang like a
really good time. But the issue with my fiance is
that she had to work that day and couldn't be there,
(42:58):
which like by itself, had me kind of upset. Like
on the weekend, she works at Target to make some
extra money and play support her for doing that, told
me to get it. She wouldn't get her ship covered
to be at my friends giving, and I'm pretty sure
she could have, like her friends ower some like shifts
and some favors, so it felt like she was just
blowing me off. And then the real kicker was after
(43:20):
her shift, she ended up going out with her coworkers
instead of heading home, so she like completely missed my
friends and like everybody I invited, She came home and
I was just cleaning up all the like the aftermath.
Speaker 4 (43:29):
Basically, So, if all that's true, you're about to marry
this person and she's blowing you off, doesn't this feel strange?
Speaker 11 (43:41):
It so like we So that's the thing so he
talked about it and hashed it out, but she just
keeps like making up excuses. But like, I'm the most
upset I am is because I think she did this
on purpose to miss my friends giving, because she like
doesn't like my college friends and doesn't want anything to
do with them.
Speaker 4 (43:57):
Okay, I get that that might be fair, But he's
not doing this on purpose because she wants to back
out of the marriage, is she?
Speaker 11 (44:04):
Well, I didn't think so, Like like I was talking about,
like like she doesn't like my college friends, but she's
blowing them off, But it's still important.
Speaker 10 (44:10):
To me because you know, at least that's interesting. I mean,
the conversation of compromise may need to happen before you
guys get married, because if you're into that and she's
not into that, it's important to you.
Speaker 4 (44:20):
It's a holiday that you want to spend with those people.
Then she needs to I guess, understand that in some
way or work through it. But this is a red
flag a little bit.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Do you think you're in your head a little bit
too much? Like it might have just been an oversight,
Like I don't think do you think she would really
go that far?
Speaker 11 (44:38):
But like, like she knew it was my friends giving,
she knew all my friends were there. It's our first
friends giving in our house. Like we just got engaged,
we're about to get married, and she goes off to
have get drunk with her friends instead of even like
say high to mine.
Speaker 3 (44:52):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (44:52):
Well, maybe she's, you know, need to blow off steam,
she's busy, she's worried, whatever, But I think Carter, it's
important to you. It's important to your relationship. Do you
guys understand what the issues are. If she doesn't like
your friends, at least you'll know. And if she was
overwhelmed or busy or just needed a minute, you'll know.
But you got to talk through this one. Otherwise I'm
afraid that if you get married, stuff like this keeps
coming up.
Speaker 1 (45:11):
Yeah, you need to talk it through. And as you're
one too many Tequila's.
Speaker 4 (45:17):
Marriage counselor I just want to say those things, Carter,
good luck to you.
Speaker 11 (45:23):
No, no, no, I think you're right.
Speaker 7 (45:25):
Guys.
Speaker 11 (45:25):
We got to like really hatch it out because she
just needs making up excuses.
Speaker 12 (45:28):
And like and like telling lines.
Speaker 11 (45:29):
It feels like, man, so I just got to be
playing plank, Like ay, do you not like my friends
and do.
Speaker 12 (45:33):
You even want to be with me?
Speaker 9 (45:34):
Like?
Speaker 11 (45:34):
This is what it's going to have to be.
Speaker 4 (45:35):
We got to communicate, Okay, bro well, good luck, good
come to beltimate them.
Speaker 3 (45:40):
I don't know if that's the way to say it.
Speaker 1 (45:41):
I don't know. Yeah, that was intense.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
But or is she backing out?
Speaker 8 (45:47):
No?
Speaker 6 (45:47):
I think maybe she doesn't like the college friends she
called them.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
Yeah, she doesn't have college friends and trying to make
her friends. No, she doesn't like the college friends. And
then she went out with her girlfriends and then they
were drinking and she was probably venting to them, and
then they just got too drunk and they and she
made a mistake and she needs to apologize for that,
and they do need to talk about the whole college
friends situation.
Speaker 3 (46:07):
I would postpone the wedding for a year.
Speaker 1 (46:09):
It doesn't need to be postponed.
Speaker 3 (46:11):
That's what I would do.
Speaker 5 (46:12):
Guess what.
Speaker 1 (46:12):
The college friends are not going to be there forever.
They need to figure it out.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
On air on.
Speaker 2 (46:17):
Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (46:20):
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it for us.
Speaker 4 (46:23):
We're gonna roll out. I have a great weekend. I'll
talk to you this weekend on American Top forty, we'll
count down the forty bag songs of the USA as
we do Saturday and Sunday, and then Monday, we're back
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