April 10, 2025 • 47 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Thursday, almost to the end of a week that actually
looked like Los Angeles this week.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I looked up and I saw sky.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Yeah, sunshine, clouds or haze or marine.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I saw sky and I heard birds. I heard It's
been nice.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
It really has been all right. I was busy at
the printer this morning. Sisney was out there. I was
out there and that song ended, so I had to
come back.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I'm still dealing with it. It's super annoying. It'll print
me like.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Fing initializing, initializing and initialized already.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Well, the one that I was using was getting jammed,
and then I had to take the paper out.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
ID it's starting your day off like that? Yeah, you know,
speak of starting your day off. Something strange happened to
me this morning. I've been trying to grab an early workout.
Good for you, and in the interest of time, I
can't go home and shower, so I shower at the gym.
Yeah with that, well, I didn't realize it because no
one really has commented before on this. I guess I
(01:07):
make a lot of noises and moans when I'm soaping
ew in the shower?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Do you make noises when he shower?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Literally?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Zero make noises I moan when I eat.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Like if I'm eating a really good sushi meal, Like
I moan in the shower.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Ah okay, yeah, you probably wash your legs like.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
I make zero noise in the shower.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
No, I might even sing. I didn't even realize.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
So if I reached out and washed my knees and stuff,
I go, oh, like.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
That, you wash your knees.
Speaker 7 (01:42):
I do?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I have dairy clean knees shook scrub ye. Uh so.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
But the reason I bring this up is that there
was a guy another guy in the locker room, and
he's like, you all right in there.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I didn't know what to see.
Speaker 8 (01:57):
You had fallen and couldn't get up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
No, He's like, it's just because of the moaning. And
I was like, ah, yeah, I'm all right, you know,
I said, good bro. So I don't know if anybody
else makes noises when you lean over to clean yourself,
but you might and not realize it until that guy
the gym calls you out on it.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I think I just make like moan noises in life.
Sometimes you're sure to put your socks on like.
Speaker 8 (02:23):
Things like that.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Yeah, I do a lot in the workout class.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I sigh, A lot. Yeah that sounds like a negative thing.
That's sign. That's just life I've gotten. So what do
we got today?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
We've got a thousand dollars, start paying bills, got a
Ryan's Roads is coming shall we are very good? That's
the problem with my hair. I got ready at the
gym and I used their community gel.
Speaker 9 (02:49):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I mean it's not bad, it's not great good. I know.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
I always forget the deodorant and have to use the lesson.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Yeah, if you're coming straight from the gym, you get
what you get, like if you're at home with.
Speaker 8 (03:01):
Your hair dryer.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Community jail and jail is not. It's made it curly.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
No.
Speaker 8 (03:06):
I like it though.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
It's nice to have a little different.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Sarah, good morning. How you doing.
Speaker 10 (03:11):
Hi, good morning, I'm doing well. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
We are doing well. So you and your husband are
house hunting.
Speaker 10 (03:18):
Yes, we're so excited, but obviously a little stressed with
this housing market. My husband and I we got married
in November, so we're just really thrilled to start a
new life together and buy a house, which has been exciting,
really exciting, but the stressful part in where I need
you guys to kind of chime in for me, is
(03:40):
my husband is so insistent on a big backyard.
Speaker 8 (03:44):
Yes, we're mine.
Speaker 10 (03:46):
Well, we're looking in the La suburbs, and you know,
there's really just not a ton of houses out there
with like the big backyard that he's looking for. And
I don't really I don't really need a vard. I've
never really lived with one. So even though we're excited
to go see these houses, we end up fighting about
each one because it's just isn't matching his vision.
Speaker 11 (04:09):
Of a house.
Speaker 10 (04:10):
So I don't know what to do with this. You know,
it's already stressful enough, and then we're fighting about, you know,
the house on top of it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So did he grow up with the backyard? Is that
where it's coming from?
Speaker 9 (04:23):
I think so he did.
Speaker 10 (04:25):
And I wonder if it's like that's his picture of
like a perfect house. But he's lived in La long
enough to know that that's not super common.
Speaker 12 (04:35):
It's like a guy thing.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I think, it's like I need my land, like this
Lafe space.
Speaker 8 (04:41):
I get it.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
So if you can get a house that has a
like a big backyard, then it's almost like this, like
you've made it type of vibe.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You know, like, well, what.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Is the compromise to this? Do you see a path
to compromise?
Speaker 10 (04:55):
You know, I want I want to help him with
his dream house and my compromise. I'm willing to kind of,
especially with the housing market as it is, take something
that's kind of a right now, a newly married couple house.
But he's not really willing to compromise. So I don't
know how to start that conversation.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
You trick him, Oh, here's no, but it's not like well,
you guys know, like a lie or anything. You find
a house that you love that's got everything right. Maybe
it's turnkey and whatever, but yes, the yard is a
little bit smaller, but you take him to it and
you have him fall in love with the house, and
then maybe just by seeing the house, he's going to
compromise for the smaller backyard. But you have to you
(05:37):
have to physically get him to those houses. They can't
just be like on red Fin and you're showing him
in passing.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, I think you're going to win this one. I
don't see him falling on the sword for it.
Speaker 8 (05:46):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 10 (05:48):
Okay, okay, yeah, and you're right. We've been trading Redsin emails.
Speaker 9 (05:52):
So see when he keeps my vision.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yes, you need to get him there.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Don't even tell him what's happening to be like, hey, mate,
me for lunch tomorrow and at whatever place and then
go have lunch and then after lunch you go take
in the house.
Speaker 10 (06:04):
Thank you so much. I love this idea. I'm going
to do it.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Just this call makes me think I should call into
this show for advice sometimes. Why I don't know. I
just listening to you guys give advice. Y'all are all
on the same page on that. Thank you very much, Sarah,
Good luck and congratulations.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Take care. But bye, f R Crest. Can you guys
come here for Zach? Zach? Good morning. How you doing?
Hey you Ryan, I'm pretty good, Zach. Your girlfriend is
too competitive for you? Is that why you're calling?
Speaker 9 (06:36):
Yeah, she's It's it's pretty insane sometimes when we play
like video games together or whatever, like Mario Party or something,
she like smacks the control out of my hand. And
we thought about, you know, starting a sport.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Together, like what sport pickleball.
Speaker 9 (06:58):
Tennis, tennis, to particulous.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
The old school one yeah, yeah, but you know, I'm
a little too worried that she's gonna be very competitive.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And it could drive it could cause issues. I will
tell you.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
So.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I played a game of backgammon over the weekend and
I got beat twice. And I did not handle it well.
I didn't feel I didn't I didn't feel good after.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I was like bumbling. I was down on my.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
I stn't like I don't see anything. I just like
felt my whole body chemistry felt off because of it.
Schooled it twice and then has to say that's twice.
I'm like, yeah, I know I was here for both.
I got it, fine, move on or food, but like, hey,
you know it's uh, it's not.
Speaker 12 (07:41):
Well, make you feel better beating her?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Then?
Speaker 8 (07:44):
What that would make you feel good?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I was not even close. Like that's why I got like,
really beaten would be one thing. If I was beaten
twice and it was close. I don't know how to
play backgammon.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I guess, well, that's okay.
Speaker 12 (07:56):
You don't have to hear good at other things.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
A great cook, you're a good DJ.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yeah, we had a spinning competition.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I don't know how to play.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, so oh, Zach what do you do from here?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
I'm just should I talk to her and just let
her know, like, hey, you can't be too competitive.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I think competitive is fine, but hitting like your joystick
your seems like crossing the line, right, I mean, I
like a healthy competition, but why don't you just do
it in the spirit of this is fun, Like it's
fun for us to do.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Let's keep it fun, you.
Speaker 8 (08:37):
Know, I think?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
So, Yeah, I'm down to start this new sport with you,
but you have to promise that it's just not going
to get too competitive.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Almost be real and good luck.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Zach, thank you. I mean, I'm told that you can't
call him joysticks anymore.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I don't know, why not? Mark, Well, they used to
actually be sticks back in the day. Now they're controllers
without sticks, just buttons. Oh but no one's upset that
I said joystick. I don't think it's offensive. I just
think it's dated. Oh what so what I mean that
was and the nineties nostalgia's in. Yeah, it actually is
all right, but get my Atari five oh or my whatever.
(09:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
I mean fun competition is great. When it gets to
be like she's shoving him in the controller.
Speaker 8 (09:20):
I want to go back to why you really were
bummed that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
You because I'm like, wait, you think I would add
no shot at back camp.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I should be able to play backgammon. I don't know
how to play eat it though. I don't ask me. Tony,
you get competitive with Robbie.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
You know, I say no, but when we play games,
I get very heated.
Speaker 12 (09:41):
I think you're a competitive person, but I'm.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Also pretty like I'm better at him than most sport.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
That makes it much easier.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Yeahs most of the time.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
And do you say anything afterwards?
Speaker 12 (09:52):
No, but you play tennis growing up that was like
your sport.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Yeah, unfair advantage, but it's fine.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
My mother used to cut a around the mold of
the bread and the cheese and say it's all fine.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yep mine and I didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I didn't actually accept that. Yeah, I said, no, you
got to throw the piece of the slice out, mother.
If there's green on it or blue on.
Speaker 12 (10:12):
It, everything goes in the trash. In my opinion, So.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Here's what I found out. Can you still make a
sandwich with the rest of the bread? No, the entire
loaf is ruined. If you see anything the whole loaf.
Speaker 12 (10:21):
Yeah, because it's been contaminated by the mold.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
But whether there's mold on the first piece, you can
still eat the last.
Speaker 12 (10:27):
But that's he is touching the bag on the inside
and it's all up in there.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
Okay, what if it's not the very last piece of
the second to last piece.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
No, I'm just telling you what scientists say.
Speaker 11 (10:35):
Here.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
We can't argue with it. No, the answer is no
to any I mean, give me every scenario. No, I mean,
I gotta go. It's a weekend, all right, Yeah.
Speaker 12 (10:44):
Yes, we're there.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
What about cheese, Yes, you can't cut around the moldy cheese.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Yeah, because isn't cheese mold anyway?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Well, what is blue cheese? It's weird that I like it.
Parmesan's like so old.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
It's aged, but it's not moldy. And when ages, the
lactose goes away.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
That's true.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
That's why parmesan is very highly desired by those that
are lactose intolerance.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Okay, how about fruits and vegetables the mold can you
cut around it? Yeses, like my berries get.
Speaker 12 (11:14):
Mold, Like blueberry is moldy.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
By the way, you know, I go in so fast,
I don't even look and I eat one, then so
many mold you can you can cut around that? And
how about meat? Can you cut around the mold and meat?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
No, that's a gonner. No, please, don't even consider it.
Speaker 8 (11:31):
No.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
And if it smells and it has a funky smell,
that it's done.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Oh today's quote.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
All right, Once you grow up, you realize you don't
need to be crazy in love, Tanya, where are you
under the desk?
Speaker 2 (11:43):
You'ld be hearing this.
Speaker 8 (11:44):
I can still hear it.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
My charger fell out.
Speaker 6 (11:46):
Of my computer.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Once you grow up, you realize you don't want to
be crazy in love. You want to be calm in love.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
Well, you know you can be calm and crazy at
the same time.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I'm not finished with the quote crazy in love.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
You want to be calm in love, stable in love,
understood in love, safe in lost, Stage about reaching Yes
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Speaker 4 (12:19):
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Speaker 3 (13:03):
Let me grab Stacia. Stacia, Yes, good morning.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
How are you?
Speaker 13 (13:10):
Good morning?
Speaker 5 (13:11):
I'm how about yourself?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
We're doing great. So you have a question here?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
How do you say no to a bachelore rep party
when you don't even have the details yet?
Speaker 13 (13:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:21):
So so you just don't want to go?
Speaker 13 (13:26):
Okay, it's I mean, I'm I'm not okay. Let me
back out to my friend from where we're friends from
high school. She's getting married and it's like really nice
of her to invite me, but like we're not super close,
you know, like we don't talk all the time. We
don't like particularly like get together and like hang out.
(13:46):
I completely plan on going to her wedding, and I'm
really excited for that. I just don't feel like the
bachelorette party close and like the issue is that the
weekend is very open ended, like the mat of honor
or not like this Google form to everyone who was invited,
I was like, how much are you willing to spend?
(14:06):
How far are you willing to travel? What activities are
you interested in doing? And so it's like there's no
exact detail. So it's not like I can be like, oh,
you know.
Speaker 11 (14:17):
Such and such place is too far for me.
Speaker 13 (14:19):
To go, or I don't have the money for that,
or but really it's just like I don't know any
of your friends, and I feel very anxious about spending
a weekend with people that I don't know and spending
money that I don't particularly want to be spending. You know,
do you have to day?
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Now we got that all up.
Speaker 13 (14:37):
Yeah, I can't say that her person so much like
scale of one to ten, how much do you like
the person? I mean, I would sound like a sixth Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That's not much. That's failing great, well.
Speaker 6 (14:51):
Really sixty percent, that's just really great for diploma.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Yeah, maybe I was failing when I was in school.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
Okay, so let's say, do you have the day of seven.
Speaker 12 (15:02):
Do you have the dates already? No?
Speaker 13 (15:06):
No, no, They're like, when are you available?
Speaker 3 (15:09):
But if you if this person is a six, for
you don't care so much about all this stuff we're
talking about, just be navailable.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
You need to know so much if you don't care,
so you.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Just sit back, sit back, and let them all on
a planet and have a conflict. And then why once
you have the information, be like, oh, it looks like
I can't.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Go great word conflict, A conflict, You have a conflict.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Sit back. This person's a six. You're all this time
and energy, not need it.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
But you know what, you would have a great time
with all these strangers you never know.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
That's all right, Sit back.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
And just prep the text conflict, good luck, Thank you
for calling.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
If it's a six, why are you worried so much?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
If the person's a nine, then I get it you
should feel something more.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
But who cares even even eight?
Speaker 4 (15:59):
But bachelor parties are just so such a fun, free
for all experience. Like I planned my friends a couple
of years ago, and there was this one girl you
that didn't think like would come because they was the
same situation, and she ended up coming.
Speaker 12 (16:11):
She was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe this.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
You RVP.
Speaker 12 (16:13):
And then I was like, yeah, she's coming.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
Nobody knew her, and she was fantastic.
Speaker 8 (16:17):
We had a great time with.
Speaker 12 (16:17):
Her, So open mind.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I planned one too, I planned my sisters.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
It was fun.
Speaker 12 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm sure you didn't know everybody, but you probably
had a blast.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
No I knew ever before we do anything else. These
are TikTok trends, and some of them is sound ridiculous.
But the other thing is there we discover ridiculously sounding
things on TikTok sometimes that actually are helpful are remedies
you just didn't know about. And so here's a handful
that are circulating as most popular. And tell me what
(16:49):
you think. Uh, diaper rash cream. You may have that
at home system?
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Oh cons of am I having in my purse ring?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Right?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
You may?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
You may just carry that at all times.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Yes, so TikTok saying that it helps lock in moisture
and repair your skin barrier. So good for the skin.
What do you think would you put diaper rash cream
on your.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Yes, diaper rash like specific diper rash like the.
Speaker 9 (17:13):
A and D.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
No diaper rash expert.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
But but there's aquafor like, So you can use aquafor
like on the daily different, right, but you can also
use aquafor for like diaper situations.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
So the I would my pragmatic brain woul go if
it's safe for a baby's bombing.
Speaker 6 (17:27):
Rack, and it's safe for my face, me too, anywhere
on my body it's not safe.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Oh, it's not safe. It can really irritate your skin
and make your acne worse. That's that stood out to me.
Anything that's gonna make a ZiT worse, I'm out.
Speaker 6 (17:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
So another one of these TikTok trends that's circulating and
popular going barefoot everywhere. Proponents on TikTok insist it's natural
and good for your feet to walk everywhere out and
around in the wild barefoot. Some people are chopping off
the soles of their shoes to get into places that
requires shoes.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
It's like that Flintstone's car. Yeah, picture that car. They're
doing that with their shoes.
Speaker 6 (18:03):
But I do think this is probably good for you
because it's grounding.
Speaker 8 (18:05):
Yeah, is good.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
I saw a man walking barefoot on Ventura Boulevard the
other day and he was just living life.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'm like, wow, is it safe? It's not. You got
this is where athletes foot and fungus.
Speaker 8 (18:19):
Lives on something.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Cut your foot, open the glass. Yeah, little glass. I
was a little piece of green glass broken up somewhere. No, no,
not good. Don't go barefoot everywhere?
Speaker 9 (18:29):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
The oat zempic Weight loss drink.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Oh yeah, is everywhere?
Speaker 2 (18:37):
All right? Let me tell you what is is it?
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Drink consisting of half a cup of rolled oats, one
cup of water, line juice, and a sprinkle of cinnamon.
It claims to help people lose up to forty pounds
in two months.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Okay, well that's not safe.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
Is it safe to lose forty pounds in two months? Well,
some people might want to do it. It is safe
as a snack, but not as a meal replacement long term.
It's quite dangerous. Oh no, oh, you'll lose some.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
To me, what's bad in it? Oats? Fine water?
Speaker 4 (19:06):
Would be losing the forty pounds in two months? I
notice you lose that amount of weight.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Let's say you lost ten. I'd be down to try
if I lost ten, but in.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
Two months is a little bit more literally just healthy
replacing it? You're replacing the meal with.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Like the is not getting the scope of nutrients that
you would need. It's one hundred and forty calories, actually
one hundred and forty coss. Not an adequate meal replacement,
but if you are trying to cut down on calories
throughout the course of the day, it might keep you
full snacking on less bad things or like last night,
I was hungry. So last night I finished my dinner
and then I went into the fridge and I got berries,
(19:42):
and I didn't have any almond butter, so I made
my own. I crushed up with a spoon a bunch
of like almonds. I put it under paper towel and
crushed them all up and start them with coconut oil
because they didn't have almond butter. And I drizzled that
over berries. And I didn't need to do it, but
I wanted to do it. And maybe oats would have
been better than all of that late at night.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
But it's very good. Have you ever made Have you
ever done that? Anybody ever done that?
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Speaker 2 (20:40):
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are with Ryan's becrust.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Why don't two point seven kiss FM? It's time for
Ryan's roses. If you think something's going on behind your
back and you want peace of mind, that's what this is.
So Haley and Granada Hills reaches out and she goes
I don't know if I'm being paranoid, but my husband
came back from a work trip and I look down
and he had a pair of knee burns on his body.
(21:10):
Whoah burns on his body? Now, you don't get knee
burns on your body unless something has happened. I mean,
just to me, you normally get your knee burns, Tony.
Speaker 6 (21:25):
I mean sometimes if I jump after sunny like and
my knee burns, my knees run across the carpet. Yeah, yeah,
get rug burns.
Speaker 8 (21:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:34):
I don't get like knee burns, but I can understand like,
like my knees almost like getting bruised from being on
the ground so much with the kids.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
I think if you were to get down on this
floor and look at the like the exact spot and
where the knees burned, this is a problem.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
That's what she's saying. This is a problem.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
The guy went on a work trip. He's not running
around with his dog on his knees.
Speaker 6 (21:54):
Oh right, The work trip doesn't throw it a little.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
What does he do for work?
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Well, that's why she's here. So she just doesn't know.
Am I being paranoid or is something going on? But
he comes back with rugburns on his knees.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Knee burns.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Hayley, good morning, Thank you for reaching out. So I
agree with you. I don't think you've been paranoid. I
think this is a real issue. I mean, you to
get rugburn on your knees, that's pretty intense.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
What did he say that, like why they were.
Speaker 14 (22:21):
There, Well, he said he had a work trip in
Vegas and when he came home. He came home, he
like had no actual reasoning for it, Like I noticed it,
and he just goes, oh, that's so weird, huh. I
have no idea. And then a few minutes later he
comes back and he goes, oh, you know what, I think,
(22:41):
I know what it is. It was I had to
pack my suitcase and I had to kneel down on
the floor for a long time. And that's how I'm not.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
But kneeling down on the floor and rugburn are different actions.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
The red would go away after and we're both knees
equally as rugburned.
Speaker 14 (23:04):
Yes, absolutely, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
It's painful and to get there, you've got to it
takes a lot.
Speaker 14 (23:12):
Yeah, absolutely, So it just didn't That didn't make sense
to me at all. And I'm still trying to not
be so paranoid about it. But you know, like I
have just this history with like my dad, she did
on my mom and I'm pregnant and I just want
to make sure that I'm not just being but overemotional.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
There.
Speaker 12 (23:32):
It is the history.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
I don't think you've been paranoid, but we are going
to make the call to your husband here. Can you
hold on one second?
Speaker 14 (23:41):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
How long you've been married?
Speaker 14 (23:44):
Two years?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Hold tight?
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Ryan's rose is the call we're coming into that. We
need to get this Ryan's roses called done. Here's what
you should be thinking about. Haley's married two years, her
husband goes away on a work trip and he comes
back with rugburn on both his knees.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
It's questionable, it's not great. And what makes you such
an expert on rugburns?
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Just rug burns? I mean, I've had rugburns on the knee.
You're very aware of how I've.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Had I've had I've had rugburns. Haven't you had rugburns
on your back before?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Too? Like you just know they're painful.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
I think anybody that was, you know, growing up camping
like I out in the athletic, out in the wild.
You get a rugburn here and there, painful and it
stings too.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
You just don't eat. It takes a lot of friction
to get a rugburn. It's not a bruise. He said.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
It was pressing his knees while he's down packing. It's
not like I. I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
I don't get rugg Why do you do it all
the time I've packed my clothes after travel.
Speaker 8 (24:44):
Oh, I thought you.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
Got rugburns on your knees all the time in case
all the time, down on my knees and on the floor.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
I don't get rugburn from it. A mean, I packed
a lot of suitcases in my deck.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Put on a bench on your back, Haley.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
We're gonna call them. I don't think you've been paranoid?
What to find out? How got the rug burns? He
says it was because he was kneeling downpacking a suitcase.
I don't buy that a second.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
I just don't.
Speaker 14 (25:06):
Yeah, So could you.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Say, Ryan, you my permission to call, and then his name?
Speaker 14 (25:10):
Go ahead, Ryan, you absolutely have my permission to call Jared.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
So be very quiet.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
We are going to find out if he sends the
roses to you, or maybe he's thinking about someone else
and that gives us the information we need.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
We don't know, so good luck and here we go.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Hi is this Jared?
Speaker 13 (25:41):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (25:42):
My name is Rita.
Speaker 12 (25:42):
I'm calling from Paradise. Arrangements. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (25:47):
Good?
Speaker 8 (25:48):
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
We're actually in La based flower company deliver all over La,
even parts of OC. We're offering a promotion today if
you're interested. It's a free dozen red roses that you
can send to anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Oh, they're absolutely free.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
I don't need cash from you, credit card info or
anything like that. We're just trying to promote our business.
It's something we do about once a month, and you
can send them to anybody that you'd like and they
can receive them by lunchtime today.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
What's the catch.
Speaker 12 (26:17):
Refers to friends and family.
Speaker 4 (26:18):
If you like our arrangements, come back as a customer
one day, leave a Yelp review any of those things.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
That's it. Yep, yeah, sure. You don't need a credit card, right, Nope,
I do not.
Speaker 12 (26:32):
We can start with the name of the person you
want to send to.
Speaker 5 (26:36):
All right, fine, So her name is Terry.
Speaker 12 (26:40):
Okay A T E R R E.
Speaker 5 (26:45):
T E R I T E.
Speaker 4 (26:47):
R I okay, And what would you like to put
on the card for Terry.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
Let's do so. We make a great team.
Speaker 12 (26:58):
We make a eight team.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Jared, your voice is being on the radio. Can you
tell us who Terry is and the team you're talking about?
Got your wife, Haley on the phone. This is the
question that's on her mind. Thank you for staying on
with this. Who is Terry?
Speaker 5 (27:14):
You gotta be kidding me.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Your wife is on the line.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
Yeah, Terry is my supervisor.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And what else is Terry to you?
Speaker 5 (27:27):
That's it?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
You're gonna send her roses. Terry Roses will make a
great team. Just supervisor. That's it.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
Don't tell me what the hell is going on.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
Yeah, well, look, I'm gonna tell you what's going on.
Haley is concerned. She thinks you're cheating on her. You
come back from a Vegas work trip with rugburn on
both knees. Takes a lot of friction to have rugburn.
So were you with Terry?
Speaker 5 (27:53):
No, Terry's like sixty years old. My wife knows that.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Well, who were you with in Las Vegas?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
This is ridiculous. I've already discussed this with my wife.
Speaker 14 (28:09):
There's that doesn't make any sense, Jared. It still doesn't
make sense. Nobody thinks that your excuse is real. Nobody
gets rug burned from packing the suitcase. It just doesn't happen.
You're lying, and I just want to know what it is.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Okay, Okay, listen, The real reason is that I got
I got into a fight with Paul. That that is
the reason.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
On your knees?
Speaker 14 (28:35):
What Paul?
Speaker 11 (28:37):
Who?
Speaker 5 (28:39):
I said something I shouldn't have and he shoved me
as I was walking away and I landed on my knees.
That's burned from that?
Speaker 14 (28:48):
Like what you weren't wearing pants or what what I did?
Like that doesn't make any sense?
Speaker 5 (28:53):
No, no, no no, they were just really thin and
they ripped. And why didn't.
Speaker 14 (28:59):
Oh, hey, if this was true, why didn't you just
like say that that doesn't This still doesn't make sense
to me. Why do you just tell me?
Speaker 5 (29:08):
Because Paul is technically he's above me, and I didn't
want you to think I was putting my job at
risk by you know, frash talking to him or mouthing
off to him, so I just didn't say anything.
Speaker 14 (29:20):
Okay, Well then what about what about where are those pants?
I didn't see any rippants from like your trip coming
back in the suitcase?
Speaker 15 (29:26):
Like what happened to them?
Speaker 5 (29:28):
Because I threw him out? I didn't even bring him home?
Like what.
Speaker 14 (29:32):
That's no, I don't this is not adding up. This
is still you're actually just making me more upset because
it is.
Speaker 5 (29:41):
Not because you're paranoid. You're a paranoid.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Oh my god, I think, Jared, why your mind goes
to this and why you don't have security in your marriage?
Speaker 14 (29:53):
Well he should know. I've told him. You know, dare
you know my dad?
Speaker 15 (29:58):
You know my mom?
Speaker 14 (29:58):
He left us. It has created like the biggest rift
in our family. And you knew that I had a
trust issue with this kind of stuff. And what you're thinking,
I don't know, because you're lying to me right now.
I can tell you're lying to me. This just doesn't
that that doesn't make sense, Like how someone could push
(30:20):
you and you fall and you get a rugburn. That
still doesn't add up to me, Jared, I just don't
know what else to say, Like, I don't I don't trust,
I don't trust your answer.
Speaker 15 (30:35):
I don't know how.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
To calm you or to make you feel more secure.
Speaker 14 (30:42):
Well, if you would actually tell me what the truth
is like honestly, I don't even care if you are
cheating on me. I just want to know. At this point,
I'm just fed up with all the lying and everyone
lying to me. And I really really need someone to
just tell me the truth. So can you please just
tell me the truth?
Speaker 5 (30:58):
That is the truth. I love you. I am asked
at Terry is sixty years old. I've been working with
her for what six years? Seven years now? There's no
that's not true that I'm not with Terry someone else. No,
I'm not with anybody else. I'm with you, Haley. I
am with my wife.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
Hey, look, Hailey, we're gonna let you go. I got it.
It doesn't add up to me either. And you know
your husband, if he's not telling the truth, you've got
to continue to chip away at what's happening here, what
he's covering up. And good luck to you, Hailey. All right,
at a lot of observations on that one. We'll come
back eight hundred and five to one or two seven.
(31:41):
Follow this for a second. In your relationship, do you
ever have that insecurity? And then you start second guessing
your partner's being honest or faithful, And then you start
thinking maybe being paranoid and reading into things too much.
But then that paranoia it may not be paranoia. It
maybe actually the fact something's going on. But do you
trust yourself to think it's not paranoia. Do you follow
(32:03):
your heart and try and investigate it? What do you do?
Because we can't create the narratives, we can be paranoid.
It's a trap to fall into. I don't think Haley,
who thought she might have been being paranoid, it was
being paranoid. Her husband is lying. So the dude goes
away on a work trip. He comes back with rugburn
on both knees.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
Lies it.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
The first questioning from his wife says that he was
down on his knee, pack in his suitcase and got
the rugburn. Then we get him on for Ryan's Rose.
He goes, okay, but I lied about that. Truth is
I got into a fight with Paul.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Why didn't you just tell your wife?
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I guess Paul's a manager at work and they go
to a physical fight. First of all, we didn't even
pursue that. I know you did a physical fight with
somebody at work to your manager.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
We say, like, hemouthed off to him, and then Paul
got mad and pushed it.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Then he dragged him across the casino. No, yeah, you
got rugburn.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
On his knees. Dude, like, what's that so true?
Speaker 8 (33:00):
Tell your wife that?
Speaker 2 (33:01):
So he's lying.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you. I think he's I
think he's cheating. Oh, he's lying.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
I think he's cheating.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
And she also, to her credit, good on Haley, She's like, dude,
you're I know you're lying.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Let me She said that.
Speaker 12 (33:16):
She's like, right, I can tell when you're lying.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
I can tell you're lying. I can tell when you're lying.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
And she was right. He sounded like a liar. He
sent the roses to Terry, we make a great team,
so that that's somebody that he works with, supervisor. I
don't know if it's Terry's cheating with, but somebody like
you don't get rug burns on your knees.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
And he technically lied three times because the first time
she asked him he said, I don't know, I don't know.
I have no idea, And then he came back and
gave it the suitcase story.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Lizabeth, we're in a bubble here where we all like
are listening together. What'd you hear?
Speaker 15 (33:52):
Yeah, I'm right there with you. I just hear lie
after lie after lie. Like first, like you said, he
just denying everything, had no idea what happened. Then he
was on his knees packing his suitcase, Like who does that?
Speaker 5 (34:05):
And then.
Speaker 15 (34:07):
Like getting in a fight, even if you were pushed
onto your knees, like you'd get rugburns if you were
on your knees for a while. You know, I think
he's absolutely sleeping with the boss sixty years old or not,
or maybe sleeping with the guy that supposedly pushed him
to the ground.
Speaker 8 (34:23):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
So let's say Haley gets to the bottom of it.
What does she do?
Speaker 5 (34:27):
Now?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
What do you doing?
Speaker 9 (34:28):
She needs, she.
Speaker 15 (34:29):
Needs to figure out what she wants in life, and
she honestly needs to go to therapy. If she has
trusted she's like this, she's clearly drawn to the wrong
type of people. She definitely doesn't even need this stress.
Speaker 8 (34:39):
She's pregnant.
Speaker 12 (34:42):
The trust issues are not going to go away.
Speaker 11 (34:45):
No, she's got to work on it.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
And she's got those issues from you know, her parents,
right her dad trauma.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
All right, Well that's called Ryan's Roses. Lizabeth, thank you
very much for listening to it. With Ryan's Crest, Ryan's
Seacrest with you Sis and Tanya in the back room
is one of my favorite parts. You can't tell I'm
boring them or they just really relaxed listening to the show.
Speaker 12 (35:11):
It's not either's doing nothing back there.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Why no, they're busy every time, and I put up
to be fair, You're right, I just throw the microphone
on and they're actually like answering phones and pulling up
computer screens and getting us preparation for something like, for example,
thank you for getting Josh on hold back room, and Josh,
thank you for thinking that.
Speaker 11 (35:31):
How are you, Josh, I'm doing okay. Thank you for
taking a call. A big fan of the show.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Thanks bro, I appreciate that. So you're can you need
some advice or guidance about your girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (35:41):
I do.
Speaker 11 (35:42):
Yeah, So my girlfriend just moved across the country to
live with me. We've been dating for aunt nine months.
We went on vacation, we did a long distance thing,
we visited, and honestly, I mean, I hate the strong word,
but I guess I strongly disliked the way things are
living with her right now.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
And you'd like you now live together and you don't
like living with her.
Speaker 11 (36:05):
Correct, Yeah, So there's some circumstances though, I mean, and
I kind of just need your advice and and see
if you've heard of somebody having this issue. Before, but
it's been about three months and she's she's currently she's
still looking for a job and doesn't have a car,
so it's just always in the house. And it's tough
because if we had our own support groups and we're
(36:26):
in our own cities, that would be different. But she
moved out here for me, and it's just it's no breaks.
It's one hundred percent of us. She's always the apartment,
doesn't really clean up after herself sometimes too, which is
kind of frustrating. It's just basically we moved in together
and and since she's not working and it's never out
of the house, I'm.
Speaker 2 (36:43):
Just you can't stand we're kind of in a rough
patch here. Yeah, is this like a different person from
who you thought she was?
Speaker 11 (36:50):
I mean, I wouldn't say totally different, but I mean
I didn't expect that she would live this way. I
think the job thing is really was holding us back here,
and you know, at least have a conversation about go ahead, sorry.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Is no Is it about her not having something of
her own to go do? Or is it about her
just being around too often? Try and figure out what's
at the route?
Speaker 11 (37:14):
Sure? So, I mean I do like her a lot.
I want us to work out, But I think it's
just a rough patch. I mean, I think it's more.
I think things would be different if she had her own,
her own job and had stuff to do out here.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Sure, did she move from her place to yours?
Speaker 5 (37:31):
Correct?
Speaker 11 (37:31):
Yeah, she moved to the apartment.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Now she moved across the country.
Speaker 11 (37:36):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
Yeah, bron, you got to come have a little patience.
In the words of guns and Roses, wow, rock guns,
And I think I had a lot of patience.
Speaker 11 (37:50):
Yeah, I mean it's in about three months and and
but every time I pick up the topic, it just
kind of leads to her feeling bad and done her.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
Luck, but trying to find a job or something to do.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
Maybe you got it's going to do some more things.
Out of the house, go for a hike, get out,
do a picnic, you know, pic Like, maybe you guys
are just on top of each other because you're not
getting out of the house.
Speaker 8 (38:17):
No.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
I think what I'm Josh, what I'm trying to feel
for both of you, is it's not fair to evaluate
this until she finds her her purpose, her navigation, her job.
Then you can make a decision. Then you can decide
if you guys work, but that's going to take some
fair evaluation moment.
Speaker 12 (38:35):
That's going to take some time.
Speaker 6 (38:36):
He can help her, he can, he can help her
try to get a job and focus and talk about
it and encourage her.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
A little more, just a little more time, patience.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
If again, I'm trying to be on both sides of this,
I do think you can evaluate this only when it's
fair to evaluate this.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
I know this is not what you want to hear.
I can tell the job thing.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
Is one thing, but I think the conversation about her
messing is and all that that can be fixed right now,
you know, sure, can we can have a conversation about that,
be like, hey, we got to clean up a little
bit more.
Speaker 11 (39:09):
I mean, how long is long enough to wait?
Speaker 9 (39:11):
Though?
Speaker 6 (39:12):
How long has it been?
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Well?
Speaker 8 (39:13):
How much do you love?
Speaker 11 (39:15):
Three months? And I like her a lot?
Speaker 3 (39:16):
But well I like her a lot, careful with that
L word, not the other one.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
And she hears that.
Speaker 11 (39:27):
It's three months now here.
Speaker 7 (39:28):
So.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
You heard what we think? Good luck?
Speaker 8 (39:32):
Good luck?
Speaker 2 (39:33):
And see I can't figure if he just isn't.
Speaker 4 (39:36):
Into it, he's not into it.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
If he said I like her a lot, well, bro,
if you love her, just wait and let's evaluate in
a minute.
Speaker 12 (39:43):
He's having what is it? Buyers are more than this?
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Sounds like he was he was not happy with our guidance,
you like, get rit of her. Yeah, he was looking
for one of us to say, oh, bro, yeah, you're right,
it's sorry, all right, Oh but let's have a picnic anyway.
That sounds nice.
Speaker 8 (40:06):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
All right, Sis, So what's going on with your flowers
being stolen?
Speaker 8 (40:12):
Well, there is.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
And I mean I don't know her name.
Speaker 4 (40:16):
Even if I did, I don't think I would say it,
But there is a woman in my neighborhood. She seems
like a very nice woman. And I have seen her
on a walk. I see her walks all the time.
But you know, like with all the rain, we've gotten
so many flowers. Yes, yes, and they're blooming everywhere, and
they look so beautiful, vibrant, vibrant.
Speaker 12 (40:36):
Everyone's lawns look so nice.
Speaker 4 (40:39):
And so I noticed the other day that she was
on her walk and she had a bunch of like
she was holding a bunch of flowers like in her hand.
Speaker 12 (40:47):
And I didn't think anything of it.
Speaker 4 (40:49):
Then the next day, or maybe it was a few
days later, I saw her again on her walk and
actually saw her clipping flowers.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
With a clipper, with a clippers.
Speaker 4 (40:58):
She premeditated the clip, yes, and then I saw it
again on my camera, like my ring camera. She actually
clipped them from my She took some lavender from my
front lawn.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Is abundant and it's sealing.
Speaker 8 (41:15):
You know, it's fine, it is.
Speaker 3 (41:17):
It is what principal. So I mean, let's just talk
principle here. She's taking your beauty, your your flowers, your garden,
your landscaping.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
Like what if it were your tomatoes?
Speaker 3 (41:26):
I beat like, whoa, I don't get so many tomatoes
all the time, so it can't take my tomatoes lavender?
Speaker 4 (41:29):
Really no different, fine, I know, but I just think
it's like it's essentially.
Speaker 12 (41:35):
It's yeah, trespassing and stealing.
Speaker 4 (41:38):
I just feel like I think she's doing what we
all have thought of wanting to do, because I'm almost
like Yolo else me either not on their own.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
You all thought about it.
Speaker 3 (41:49):
No, I've thought about going into people's bathrooms and ping.
But I don't.
Speaker 4 (41:52):
I don't, but I know, I you know, I drive
the same path to go pick up the kids from
school every day, and I passed.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
By always into their yard.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
But I passed by so many overflown bushes onto what
it is the street? You know, would they would they
really miss all these hydranges. I'm like, no, I could
go there and just clip a few. And I'm like,
I'm kind of thinking this lady's got a good But to.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
This lady you seemingly nice.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
All you had to do is knock on Systney's door
and she would more than likely give you a.
Speaker 6 (42:20):
Pair of clippers in a back wants to be bothered.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No one wants to knock, no for anything, Because you're
a knock. You think somebody's wrong, Like yeah, you're hit
the floor and hide.
Speaker 6 (42:29):
Yes, yes, I I don't really care.
Speaker 4 (42:32):
Because like the lavender is like kind of like at
the bottom, but like I have a rose bush that's
kind of closer to my front doors, Like what's going
to stop her from coming?
Speaker 3 (42:39):
Like, oh my, I think we shouldn't take a sign
that says no trespassing and put it everywhere and she'll
know who she is no trespassing or clipping herbs.
Speaker 8 (42:47):
I just think it was kind of funny.
Speaker 3 (42:49):
I think it is trespassing, but uh, now I know
not to knock on your door for something.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Aybody knock on your door recently?
Speaker 6 (42:57):
No, nobody knocks on the door.
Speaker 3 (43:00):
On the doors anymore. No, No, all right, well to
a woman listening? If it is serendipitous, Systey's not home
right now, so clear.
Speaker 8 (43:07):
On air with Ryan Seacret, let me.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Jump to Bellflower for a second. Jessica, good morning in Bellflower.
How are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (43:16):
Good morning, I'm good at doing well.
Speaker 3 (43:19):
Thank you. So is it true you're getting back with
your ex?
Speaker 7 (43:24):
Yes, I'm getting back with my ex. We were together
for We've been together for eight years, so we broke up.
Speaker 8 (43:30):
For one And.
Speaker 2 (43:33):
What are you worried about getting back with your ex?
Speaker 7 (43:37):
I don't know. I'm just worried about, like what if
he was I just want to know if he was
dating other people.
Speaker 15 (43:43):
But I don't know why I should ask him.
Speaker 7 (43:45):
What do you guys think I should do?
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Why are you getting back with your ex?
Speaker 10 (43:51):
Because he's working on him.
Speaker 7 (43:52):
So we had broken up because he was so toxic.
He wouldn't let me out with with my friends or
anything like that. So I told him he had to
fix himself, you know, like where.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Is he made progress working on himself to fix himself
or stuff like that.
Speaker 11 (44:04):
He said he's.
Speaker 7 (44:05):
Gonna trust me now that I could go out.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 15 (44:07):
I guess you just have some securities with himself.
Speaker 12 (44:10):
How long has it been.
Speaker 9 (44:13):
For what?
Speaker 2 (44:13):
Since you guys have been broken.
Speaker 5 (44:15):
Up for a year?
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Do you believe his words or do you need to
see action?
Speaker 15 (44:23):
I think I need to see actions, honestly.
Speaker 7 (44:25):
But do you guys think I should ask him if
he was dating someone else?
Speaker 2 (44:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (44:29):
Or what was he doing in the breakup?
Speaker 2 (44:33):
In the break ahead?
Speaker 3 (44:36):
So you want to know if he saw someone else
when you were officially broken up in that year, I mean.
Speaker 8 (44:40):
Kind of like for safety reasons, you kind.
Speaker 7 (44:41):
Of need to know, yeah, because you just never know,
like what if we're all somewhere one day and then
out of a you know, some crazy groages goes up
to us.
Speaker 9 (44:49):
You know, I don't know, I'm.
Speaker 2 (44:50):
A different safety But yes, okay, Tanya, go.
Speaker 6 (44:52):
Ahead, Okay. So this is what I did, and I
think I think it was the path at least resistance.
I wanted to know and I wanted to know details,
But after that I did not bring it up again.
I did not want to keep bringing it up. I
didn't want to keep holding it over his head. It
was a fresh start. When we decided to get back together,
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it was this is a fresh start. I'm not gonna
because I was I when I asked him about it,
I was so fixated on it, and that was like
going down a toxic path.
Speaker 8 (45:23):
So I asked.
Speaker 6 (45:25):
I wanted to know. And then after I found out
and he told me everything, I said, that's it. We're
moving on. This is a fresh start, and that's it.
You can't keep holding it over their head because that's
what I was.
Speaker 2 (45:35):
Doing for a little bit.
Speaker 9 (45:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (45:38):
Right now, I feel like I'm going crazy just thinking
about it.
Speaker 6 (45:40):
You know, if you don't know, then it's going to
eat at you cause you so it's.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Fair to ask.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
You got to decide how you're going to handle it
if he says yes. And I also think if you're
getting back together with him, give him the benefit of
the doubt and let him show you he's changed.
Speaker 2 (45:53):
Let's go.
Speaker 5 (45:55):
Let's go.
Speaker 7 (45:55):
Heay, thank you, guys, that's what I wanted to do.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
Go for it, prepared for the answer of yes and
how you're going to respond to that. But let's see, bro,
you you said you made it yourself better and you've improved.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
Let's see that. Let's go play ball.
Speaker 7 (46:10):
Yeah right, all right, thank you guys so much.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
So I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 8 (46:13):
You good luck.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
See it's easy to say that, but I if i'm Abigail, oh,
I'm not ready.
Speaker 12 (46:19):
Here, yeah, careful what you wish for?
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Because then a ready oh, I wouldn't be ready. I
would what if he's.
Speaker 12 (46:24):
Like, yeah, I hooked up with twenty girls.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
I don't think i'd want to ask that question. Sinn'ty.
Speaker 12 (46:30):
I'm with you. I almost am like ignorance is bliss, bliss.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 6 (46:34):
There's really two sides of the fence with it, because
I'm with her, because it would eat at me if
I didn't ask and I didn't know, it would just
but to.
Speaker 4 (46:40):
Me it was just more is like if we're gonna
get back together, then fresh start from there.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
I don't need to turn the page.
Speaker 12 (46:47):
Yeah, I don't need to know what happened, and he.
Speaker 4 (46:49):
Doesn't know what need to happen with me, because then
I don't want to share my side.
Speaker 3 (46:52):
Ah, exactly, Abigail, I'm no, no, no, we gave her I
think of advice.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Hopefully she still listening on air with a Ryan Seacrest,
Why don't you point seven Kiss FM Tomorrow we shall
do it again, and dare I say it?
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Tomorrow is finally Friday, Right, I have a good Thursday, guy.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
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From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Thursday, almost to the end of a week that actually
looked like Los Angeles this week.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I looked up and I saw sky.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Yeah, sunshine, clouds or haze or marine.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
I saw sky and I heard birds. I heard It's
been nice.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
It really has been all right. I was busy at
the printer this morning. Sisney was out there. I was
out there and that song ended, so I had to
come back.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I'm still dealing with it. It's super annoying. It'll print
me like.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Fing initializing, initializing and initialized already.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Well, the one that I was using was getting jammed,
and then I had to take the paper out.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
ID it's starting your day off like that? Yeah, you know,
speak of starting your day off. Something strange happened to
me this morning. I've been trying to grab an early workout.
Good for you, and in the interest of time, I
can't go home and shower, so I shower at the gym.
Yeah with that, well, I didn't realize it because no
one really has commented before on this. I guess I
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make a lot of noises and moans when I'm soaping
ew in the shower?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Do you make noises when he shower?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Literally?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Zero make noises I moan when I eat.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Like if I'm eating a really good sushi meal, Like
I moan in the shower.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Ah okay, yeah, you probably wash your legs like.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
I make zero noise in the shower.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
No, I might even sing. I didn't even realize.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
So if I reached out and washed my knees and stuff,
I go, oh, like.
Speaker 6 (01:40):
That, you wash your knees.
Speaker 7 (01:42):
I do?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I have dairy clean knees shook scrub ye. Uh so.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
But the reason I bring this up is that there
was a guy another guy in the locker room, and
he's like, you all right in there.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I didn't know what to see.
Speaker 8 (01:57):
You had fallen and couldn't get up.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
No, He's like, it's just because of the moaning. And
I was like, ah, yeah, I'm all right, you know,
I said, good bro. So I don't know if anybody
else makes noises when you lean over to clean yourself,
but you might and not realize it until that guy
the gym calls you out on it.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
I think I just make like moan noises in life.
Sometimes you're sure to put your socks on like.
Speaker 8 (02:23):
Things like that.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Yeah, I do a lot in the workout class.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I sigh, A lot. Yeah that sounds like a negative thing.
That's sign. That's just life I've gotten. So what do
we got today?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
We've got a thousand dollars, start paying bills, got a
Ryan's Roads is coming shall we are very good? That's
the problem with my hair. I got ready at the
gym and I used their community gel.
Speaker 9 (02:49):
Oh.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
I mean it's not bad, it's not great good. I know.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
I always forget the deodorant and have to use the lesson.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Yeah, if you're coming straight from the gym, you get
what you get, like if you're at home with.
Speaker 8 (03:01):
Your hair dryer.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Community jail and jail is not. It's made it curly.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
No.
Speaker 8 (03:06):
I like it though.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
It's nice to have a little different.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Sarah, good morning. How you doing.
Speaker 10 (03:11):
Hi, good morning, I'm doing well. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
We are doing well. So you and your husband are
house hunting.
Speaker 10 (03:18):
Yes, we're so excited, but obviously a little stressed with
this housing market. My husband and I we got married
in November, so we're just really thrilled to start a
new life together and buy a house, which has been exciting,
really exciting, but the stressful part in where I need
you guys to kind of chime in for me, is
(03:40):
my husband is so insistent on a big backyard.
Speaker 8 (03:44):
Yes, we're mine.
Speaker 10 (03:46):
Well, we're looking in the La suburbs, and you know,
there's really just not a ton of houses out there
with like the big backyard that he's looking for. And
I don't really I don't really need a vard. I've
never really lived with one. So even though we're excited
to go see these houses, we end up fighting about
each one because it's just isn't matching his vision.
Speaker 11 (04:09):
Of a house.
Speaker 10 (04:10):
So I don't know what to do with this. You know,
it's already stressful enough, and then we're fighting about, you know,
the house on top of it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
So did he grow up with the backyard? Is that
where it's coming from?
Speaker 9 (04:23):
I think so he did.
Speaker 10 (04:25):
And I wonder if it's like that's his picture of
like a perfect house. But he's lived in La long
enough to know that that's not super common.
Speaker 12 (04:35):
It's like a guy thing.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
I think, it's like I need my land, like this
Lafe space.
Speaker 8 (04:41):
I get it.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
So if you can get a house that has a
like a big backyard, then it's almost like this, like
you've made it type of vibe.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
You know, like, well, what.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Is the compromise to this? Do you see a path
to compromise?
Speaker 10 (04:55):
You know, I want I want to help him with
his dream house and my compromise. I'm willing to kind of,
especially with the housing market as it is, take something
that's kind of a right now, a newly married couple house.
But he's not really willing to compromise. So I don't
know how to start that conversation.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
You trick him, Oh, here's no, but it's not like well,
you guys know, like a lie or anything. You find
a house that you love that's got everything right. Maybe
it's turnkey and whatever, but yes, the yard is a
little bit smaller, but you take him to it and
you have him fall in love with the house, and
then maybe just by seeing the house, he's going to
compromise for the smaller backyard. But you have to you
(05:37):
have to physically get him to those houses. They can't
just be like on red Fin and you're showing him
in passing.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, I think you're going to win this one. I
don't see him falling on the sword for it.
Speaker 8 (05:46):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 10 (05:48):
Okay, okay, yeah, and you're right. We've been trading Redsin emails.
Speaker 9 (05:52):
So see when he keeps my vision.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yes, you need to get him there.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Don't even tell him what's happening to be like, hey, mate,
me for lunch tomorrow and at whatever place and then
go have lunch and then after lunch you go take
in the house.
Speaker 10 (06:04):
Thank you so much. I love this idea. I'm going
to do it.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Just this call makes me think I should call into
this show for advice sometimes. Why I don't know. I
just listening to you guys give advice. Y'all are all
on the same page on that. Thank you very much, Sarah,
Good luck and congratulations.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Take care. But bye, f R Crest. Can you guys
come here for Zach? Zach? Good morning. How you doing?
Hey you Ryan, I'm pretty good, Zach. Your girlfriend is
too competitive for you? Is that why you're calling?
Speaker 9 (06:36):
Yeah, she's It's it's pretty insane sometimes when we play
like video games together or whatever, like Mario Party or something,
she like smacks the control out of my hand. And
we thought about, you know, starting a sport.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Together, like what sport pickleball.
Speaker 9 (06:58):
Tennis, tennis, to particulous.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
The old school one yeah, yeah, but you know, I'm
a little too worried that she's gonna be very competitive.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And it could drive it could cause issues. I will
tell you.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
So.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
I played a game of backgammon over the weekend and
I got beat twice. And I did not handle it well.
I didn't feel I didn't I didn't feel good after.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
I was like bumbling. I was down on my.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
I stn't like I don't see anything. I just like
felt my whole body chemistry felt off because of it.
Schooled it twice and then has to say that's twice.
I'm like, yeah, I know I was here for both.
I got it, fine, move on or food, but like, hey,
you know it's uh, it's not.
Speaker 12 (07:41):
Well, make you feel better beating her?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Then?
Speaker 8 (07:44):
What that would make you feel good?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I was not even close. Like that's why I got like,
really beaten would be one thing. If I was beaten
twice and it was close. I don't know how to
play backgammon.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I guess, well, that's okay.
Speaker 12 (07:56):
You don't have to hear good at other things.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
A great cook, you're a good DJ.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yeah, we had a spinning competition.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I don't know how to play.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah, so oh, Zach what do you do from here?
Speaker 9 (08:18):
I'm just should I talk to her and just let
her know, like, hey, you can't be too competitive.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
I think competitive is fine, but hitting like your joystick
your seems like crossing the line, right, I mean, I
like a healthy competition, but why don't you just do
it in the spirit of this is fun, Like it's
fun for us to do.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
Let's keep it fun, you.
Speaker 8 (08:37):
Know, I think?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
So, Yeah, I'm down to start this new sport with you,
but you have to promise that it's just not going
to get too competitive.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Almost be real and good luck.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Zach, thank you. I mean, I'm told that you can't
call him joysticks anymore.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I don't know, why not? Mark, Well, they used to
actually be sticks back in the day. Now they're controllers
without sticks, just buttons. Oh but no one's upset that
I said joystick. I don't think it's offensive. I just
think it's dated. Oh what so what I mean that
was and the nineties nostalgia's in. Yeah, it actually is
all right, but get my Atari five oh or my whatever.
(09:12):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
I mean fun competition is great. When it gets to
be like she's shoving him in the controller.
Speaker 8 (09:20):
I want to go back to why you really were
bummed that.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
You because I'm like, wait, you think I would add
no shot at back camp.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I should be able to play backgammon. I don't know
how to play eat it though. I don't ask me. Tony,
you get competitive with Robbie.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
You know, I say no, but when we play games,
I get very heated.
Speaker 12 (09:41):
I think you're a competitive person, but I'm.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Also pretty like I'm better at him than most sport.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
That makes it much easier.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Yeahs most of the time.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
And do you say anything afterwards?
Speaker 12 (09:52):
No, but you play tennis growing up that was like
your sport.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Yeah, unfair advantage, but it's fine.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
My mother used to cut a around the mold of
the bread and the cheese and say it's all fine.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yep mine and I didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
I didn't actually accept that. Yeah, I said, no, you
got to throw the piece of the slice out, mother.
If there's green on it or blue on.
Speaker 12 (10:12):
It, everything goes in the trash. In my opinion, So.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Here's what I found out. Can you still make a
sandwich with the rest of the bread? No, the entire
loaf is ruined. If you see anything the whole loaf.
Speaker 12 (10:21):
Yeah, because it's been contaminated by the mold.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
But whether there's mold on the first piece, you can
still eat the last.
Speaker 12 (10:27):
But that's he is touching the bag on the inside
and it's all up in there.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
Okay, what if it's not the very last piece of
the second to last piece.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
No, I'm just telling you what scientists say.
Speaker 11 (10:35):
Here.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
We can't argue with it. No, the answer is no
to any I mean, give me every scenario. No, I mean,
I gotta go. It's a weekend, all right, Yeah.
Speaker 12 (10:44):
Yes, we're there.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
What about cheese, Yes, you can't cut around the moldy cheese.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Yeah, because isn't cheese mold anyway?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Well, what is blue cheese? It's weird that I like it.
Parmesan's like so old.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
It's aged, but it's not moldy. And when ages, the
lactose goes away.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
That's true.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
That's why parmesan is very highly desired by those that
are lactose intolerance.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Okay, how about fruits and vegetables the mold can you
cut around it? Yeses, like my berries get.
Speaker 12 (11:14):
Mold, Like blueberry is moldy.
Speaker 3 (11:17):
By the way, you know, I go in so fast,
I don't even look and I eat one, then so
many mold you can you can cut around that? And
how about meat? Can you cut around the mold and meat?
Speaker 2 (11:29):
No, that's a gonner. No, please, don't even consider it.
Speaker 8 (11:31):
No.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
And if it smells and it has a funky smell,
that it's done.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Oh today's quote.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
All right, Once you grow up, you realize you don't
need to be crazy in love, Tanya, where are you
under the desk?
Speaker 2 (11:43):
You'ld be hearing this.
Speaker 8 (11:44):
I can still hear it.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
My charger fell out.
Speaker 6 (11:46):
Of my computer.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Once you grow up, you realize you don't want to
be crazy in love. You want to be calm in love.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
Well, you know you can be calm and crazy at
the same time.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I'm not finished with the quote crazy in love.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
You want to be calm in love, stable in love,
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Speaker 3 (13:03):
Let me grab Stacia. Stacia, Yes, good morning.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
How are you?
Speaker 13 (13:10):
Good morning?
Speaker 5 (13:11):
I'm how about yourself?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
We're doing great. So you have a question here?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
How do you say no to a bachelore rep party
when you don't even have the details yet?
Speaker 13 (13:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:21):
So so you just don't want to go?
Speaker 13 (13:26):
Okay, it's I mean, I'm I'm not okay. Let me
back out to my friend from where we're friends from
high school. She's getting married and it's like really nice
of her to invite me, but like we're not super close,
you know, like we don't talk all the time. We
don't like particularly like get together and like hang out.
(13:46):
I completely plan on going to her wedding, and I'm
really excited for that. I just don't feel like the
bachelorette party close and like the issue is that the
weekend is very open ended, like the mat of honor
or not like this Google form to everyone who was invited,
I was like, how much are you willing to spend?
(14:06):
How far are you willing to travel? What activities are
you interested in doing? And so it's like there's no
exact detail. So it's not like I can be like, oh,
you know.
Speaker 11 (14:17):
Such and such place is too far for me.
Speaker 13 (14:19):
To go, or I don't have the money for that,
or but really it's just like I don't know any
of your friends, and I feel very anxious about spending
a weekend with people that I don't know and spending
money that I don't particularly want to be spending. You know,
do you have to day?
Speaker 2 (14:36):
Now we got that all up.
Speaker 13 (14:37):
Yeah, I can't say that her person so much like
scale of one to ten, how much do you like
the person? I mean, I would sound like a sixth Okay.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
That's not much. That's failing great, well.
Speaker 6 (14:51):
Really sixty percent, that's just really great for diploma.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Yeah, maybe I was failing when I was in school.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
Okay, so let's say, do you have the day of seven.
Speaker 12 (15:02):
Do you have the dates already? No?
Speaker 13 (15:06):
No, no, They're like, when are you available?
Speaker 3 (15:09):
But if you if this person is a six, for
you don't care so much about all this stuff we're
talking about, just be navailable.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
You need to know so much if you don't care,
so you.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Just sit back, sit back, and let them all on
a planet and have a conflict. And then why once
you have the information, be like, oh, it looks like
I can't.
Speaker 3 (15:27):
Go great word conflict, A conflict, You have a conflict.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Sit back. This person's a six. You're all this time
and energy, not need it.
Speaker 4 (15:37):
But you know what, you would have a great time
with all these strangers you never know.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
That's all right, Sit back.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
And just prep the text conflict, good luck, Thank you
for calling.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
If it's a six, why are you worried so much?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
If the person's a nine, then I get it you
should feel something more.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
But who cares even even eight?
Speaker 4 (15:59):
But bachelor parties are just so such a fun, free
for all experience. Like I planned my friends a couple
of years ago, and there was this one girl you
that didn't think like would come because they was the
same situation, and she ended up coming.
Speaker 12 (16:11):
She was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe this.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
You RVP.
Speaker 12 (16:13):
And then I was like, yeah, she's coming.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
Nobody knew her, and she was fantastic.
Speaker 8 (16:17):
We had a great time with.
Speaker 12 (16:17):
Her, So open mind.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I planned one too, I planned my sisters.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
It was fun.
Speaker 12 (16:24):
Yeah, I'm sure you didn't know everybody, but you probably
had a blast.
Speaker 3 (16:26):
No I knew ever before we do anything else. These
are TikTok trends, and some of them is sound ridiculous.
But the other thing is there we discover ridiculously sounding
things on TikTok sometimes that actually are helpful are remedies
you just didn't know about. And so here's a handful
that are circulating as most popular. And tell me what
(16:49):
you think. Uh, diaper rash cream. You may have that
at home system?
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Oh cons of am I having in my purse ring?
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Right?
Speaker 9 (16:57):
You may?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
You may just carry that at all times.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Yes, so TikTok saying that it helps lock in moisture
and repair your skin barrier. So good for the skin.
What do you think would you put diaper rash cream
on your.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
Yes, diaper rash like specific diper rash like the.
Speaker 9 (17:13):
A and D.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
No diaper rash expert.
Speaker 4 (17:16):
But but there's aquafor like, So you can use aquafor
like on the daily different, right, but you can also
use aquafor for like diaper situations.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
So the I would my pragmatic brain woul go if
it's safe for a baby's bombing.
Speaker 6 (17:27):
Rack, and it's safe for my face, me too, anywhere
on my body it's not safe.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
Oh, it's not safe. It can really irritate your skin
and make your acne worse. That's that stood out to me.
Anything that's gonna make a ZiT worse, I'm out.
Speaker 6 (17:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
So another one of these TikTok trends that's circulating and
popular going barefoot everywhere. Proponents on TikTok insist it's natural
and good for your feet to walk everywhere out and
around in the wild barefoot. Some people are chopping off
the soles of their shoes to get into places that
requires shoes.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
It's like that Flintstone's car. Yeah, picture that car. They're
doing that with their shoes.
Speaker 6 (18:03):
But I do think this is probably good for you
because it's grounding.
Speaker 8 (18:05):
Yeah, is good.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
I saw a man walking barefoot on Ventura Boulevard the
other day and he was just living life.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'm like, wow, is it safe? It's not. You got
this is where athletes foot and fungus.
Speaker 8 (18:19):
Lives on something.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Cut your foot, open the glass. Yeah, little glass. I
was a little piece of green glass broken up somewhere. No, no,
not good. Don't go barefoot everywhere?
Speaker 9 (18:29):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
The oat zempic Weight loss drink.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Oh yeah, is everywhere?
Speaker 2 (18:37):
All right? Let me tell you what is is it?
Speaker 3 (18:38):
Drink consisting of half a cup of rolled oats, one
cup of water, line juice, and a sprinkle of cinnamon.
It claims to help people lose up to forty pounds
in two months.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Okay, well that's not safe.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
Is it safe to lose forty pounds in two months? Well,
some people might want to do it. It is safe
as a snack, but not as a meal replacement long term.
It's quite dangerous. Oh no, oh, you'll lose some.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
To me, what's bad in it? Oats? Fine water?
Speaker 4 (19:06):
Would be losing the forty pounds in two months? I
notice you lose that amount of weight.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Let's say you lost ten. I'd be down to try
if I lost ten, but in.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
Two months is a little bit more literally just healthy
replacing it? You're replacing the meal with.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Like the is not getting the scope of nutrients that
you would need. It's one hundred and forty calories, actually
one hundred and forty coss. Not an adequate meal replacement,
but if you are trying to cut down on calories
throughout the course of the day, it might keep you
full snacking on less bad things or like last night,
I was hungry. So last night I finished my dinner
and then I went into the fridge and I got berries,
(19:42):
and I didn't have any almond butter, so I made
my own. I crushed up with a spoon a bunch
of like almonds. I put it under paper towel and
crushed them all up and start them with coconut oil
because they didn't have almond butter. And I drizzled that
over berries. And I didn't need to do it, but
I wanted to do it. And maybe oats would have
been better than all of that late at night.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
But it's very good. Have you ever made Have you
ever done that? Anybody ever done that?
Speaker 3 (20:03):
If you don't have like a butter, like a enough butter,
take the rush it up and stirring cocon oil.
Speaker 12 (20:08):
Topsize is oats every day here, it's impressive.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
So those are TikTok trends that are popular and circulating
right now.
Speaker 2 (20:15):
Olive oil in your ears.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
The olive oil is supposed to soften the wax and
make it easier to clean out. It is safe, but
be careful. Don't put too much olive oil in your ears.
That could cause an issue in your brain.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
I've always been curious about the when they do the
candle and like they suck out.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
I've done that all the wax.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Yeah, do that regularly because we've hadphones in all the
time for this show.
Speaker 12 (20:37):
Well, I have an abrasion in my ear right now,
so I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (20:40):
Hold Yeah, you're all gets your aqua for it? On
are with Ryan's becrust.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Why don't two point seven kiss FM? It's time for
Ryan's roses. If you think something's going on behind your
back and you want peace of mind, that's what this is.
So Haley and Granada Hills reaches out and she goes
I don't know if I'm being paranoid, but my husband
came back from a work trip and I look down
and he had a pair of knee burns on his body.
(21:10):
Whoah burns on his body? Now, you don't get knee
burns on your body unless something has happened. I mean,
just to me, you normally get your knee burns, Tony.
Speaker 6 (21:25):
I mean sometimes if I jump after sunny like and
my knee burns, my knees run across the carpet. Yeah, yeah,
get rug burns.
Speaker 8 (21:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:34):
I don't get like knee burns, but I can understand like,
like my knees almost like getting bruised from being on
the ground so much with the kids.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
I think if you were to get down on this
floor and look at the like the exact spot and
where the knees burned, this is a problem.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
That's what she's saying. This is a problem.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
The guy went on a work trip. He's not running
around with his dog on his knees.
Speaker 6 (21:54):
Oh right, The work trip doesn't throw it a little.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
What does he do for work?
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Well, that's why she's here. So she just doesn't know.
Am I being paranoid or is something going on? But
he comes back with rugburns on his knees.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Knee burns.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
Hayley, good morning, Thank you for reaching out. So I
agree with you. I don't think you've been paranoid. I
think this is a real issue. I mean, you to
get rugburn on your knees, that's pretty intense.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
What did he say that, like why they were.
Speaker 14 (22:21):
There, Well, he said he had a work trip in
Vegas and when he came home. He came home, he
like had no actual reasoning for it, Like I noticed it,
and he just goes, oh, that's so weird, huh. I
have no idea. And then a few minutes later he
comes back and he goes, oh, you know what, I think,
(22:41):
I know what it is. It was I had to
pack my suitcase and I had to kneel down on
the floor for a long time. And that's how I'm not.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
But kneeling down on the floor and rugburn are different actions.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's true.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
The red would go away after and we're both knees
equally as rugburned.
Speaker 14 (23:04):
Yes, absolutely, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
It's painful and to get there, you've got to it
takes a lot.
Speaker 14 (23:12):
Yeah, absolutely, So it just didn't That didn't make sense
to me at all. And I'm still trying to not
be so paranoid about it. But you know, like I
have just this history with like my dad, she did
on my mom and I'm pregnant and I just want
to make sure that I'm not just being but overemotional.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
There.
Speaker 12 (23:32):
It is the history.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
I don't think you've been paranoid, but we are going
to make the call to your husband here. Can you
hold on one second?
Speaker 14 (23:41):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
How long you've been married?
Speaker 14 (23:44):
Two years?
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Hold tight?
Speaker 3 (23:46):
Ryan's rose is the call we're coming into that. We
need to get this Ryan's roses called done. Here's what
you should be thinking about. Haley's married two years, her
husband goes away on a work trip and he comes
back with rugburn on both his knees.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
It's questionable, it's not great. And what makes you such
an expert on rugburns?
Speaker 2 (24:05):
Just rug burns? I mean, I've had rugburns on the knee.
You're very aware of how I've.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Had I've had I've had rugburns. Haven't you had rugburns
on your back before?
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Too? Like you just know they're painful.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
I think anybody that was, you know, growing up camping
like I out in the athletic, out in the wild.
You get a rugburn here and there, painful and it
stings too.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
You just don't eat. It takes a lot of friction
to get a rugburn. It's not a bruise. He said.
Speaker 3 (24:34):
It was pressing his knees while he's down packing. It's
not like I. I do it all the time.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
I don't get rugg Why do you do it all
the time I've packed my clothes after travel.
Speaker 8 (24:44):
Oh, I thought you.
Speaker 4 (24:44):
Got rugburns on your knees all the time in case
all the time, down on my knees and on the floor.
Speaker 3 (24:48):
I don't get rugburn from it. A mean, I packed
a lot of suitcases in my deck.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Put on a bench on your back, Haley.
Speaker 3 (24:57):
We're gonna call them. I don't think you've been paranoid?
What to find out? How got the rug burns? He
says it was because he was kneeling downpacking a suitcase.
I don't buy that a second.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
I just don't.
Speaker 14 (25:06):
Yeah, So could you.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Say, Ryan, you my permission to call, and then his name?
Speaker 14 (25:10):
Go ahead, Ryan, you absolutely have my permission to call Jared.
Speaker 2 (25:16):
So be very quiet.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
We are going to find out if he sends the
roses to you, or maybe he's thinking about someone else
and that gives us the information we need.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
We don't know, so good luck and here we go.
Speaker 5 (25:37):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
Hi is this Jared?
Speaker 13 (25:41):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (25:42):
My name is Rita.
Speaker 12 (25:42):
I'm calling from Paradise. Arrangements. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (25:47):
Good?
Speaker 8 (25:48):
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (25:48):
We're actually in La based flower company deliver all over La,
even parts of OC. We're offering a promotion today if
you're interested. It's a free dozen red roses that you
can send to anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Oh, they're absolutely free.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
I don't need cash from you, credit card info or
anything like that. We're just trying to promote our business.
It's something we do about once a month, and you
can send them to anybody that you'd like and they
can receive them by lunchtime today.
Speaker 5 (26:15):
What's the catch.
Speaker 12 (26:17):
Refers to friends and family.
Speaker 4 (26:18):
If you like our arrangements, come back as a customer
one day, leave a Yelp review any of those things.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
That's it. Yep, yeah, sure. You don't need a credit card, right, Nope,
I do not.
Speaker 12 (26:32):
We can start with the name of the person you
want to send to.
Speaker 5 (26:36):
All right, fine, So her name is Terry.
Speaker 12 (26:40):
Okay A T E R R E.
Speaker 5 (26:45):
T E R I T E.
Speaker 4 (26:47):
R I okay, And what would you like to put
on the card for Terry.
Speaker 5 (26:54):
Let's do so. We make a great team.
Speaker 12 (26:58):
We make a eight team.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Jared, your voice is being on the radio. Can you
tell us who Terry is and the team you're talking about?
Got your wife, Haley on the phone. This is the
question that's on her mind. Thank you for staying on
with this. Who is Terry?
Speaker 5 (27:14):
You gotta be kidding me.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Your wife is on the line.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
Yeah, Terry is my supervisor.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And what else is Terry to you?
Speaker 5 (27:27):
That's it?
Speaker 2 (27:28):
That's it.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
You're gonna send her roses. Terry Roses will make a
great team. Just supervisor. That's it.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
Don't tell me what the hell is going on.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
Yeah, well, look, I'm gonna tell you what's going on.
Haley is concerned. She thinks you're cheating on her. You
come back from a Vegas work trip with rugburn on
both knees. Takes a lot of friction to have rugburn.
So were you with Terry?
Speaker 5 (27:53):
No, Terry's like sixty years old. My wife knows that.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Well, who were you with in Las Vegas?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
This is ridiculous. I've already discussed this with my wife.
Speaker 14 (28:09):
There's that doesn't make any sense, Jared. It still doesn't
make sense. Nobody thinks that your excuse is real. Nobody
gets rug burned from packing the suitcase. It just doesn't happen.
You're lying, and I just want to know what it is.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
Okay, Okay, listen, The real reason is that I got
I got into a fight with Paul. That that is
the reason.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
On your knees?
Speaker 14 (28:35):
What Paul?
Speaker 11 (28:37):
Who?
Speaker 5 (28:39):
I said something I shouldn't have and he shoved me
as I was walking away and I landed on my knees.
That's burned from that?
Speaker 14 (28:48):
Like what you weren't wearing pants or what what I did?
Like that doesn't make any sense?
Speaker 5 (28:53):
No, no, no no, they were just really thin and
they ripped. And why didn't.
Speaker 14 (28:59):
Oh, hey, if this was true, why didn't you just
like say that that doesn't This still doesn't make sense
to me. Why do you just tell me?
Speaker 5 (29:08):
Because Paul is technically he's above me, and I didn't
want you to think I was putting my job at
risk by you know, frash talking to him or mouthing
off to him, so I just didn't say anything.
Speaker 14 (29:20):
Okay, Well then what about what about where are those pants?
I didn't see any rippants from like your trip coming
back in the suitcase?
Speaker 15 (29:26):
Like what happened to them?
Speaker 5 (29:28):
Because I threw him out? I didn't even bring him home?
Like what.
Speaker 14 (29:32):
That's no, I don't this is not adding up. This
is still you're actually just making me more upset because
it is.
Speaker 5 (29:41):
Not because you're paranoid. You're a paranoid.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Oh my god, I think, Jared, why your mind goes
to this and why you don't have security in your marriage?
Speaker 14 (29:53):
Well he should know. I've told him. You know, dare
you know my dad?
Speaker 15 (29:58):
You know my mom?
Speaker 14 (29:58):
He left us. It has created like the biggest rift
in our family. And you knew that I had a
trust issue with this kind of stuff. And what you're thinking,
I don't know, because you're lying to me right now.
I can tell you're lying to me. This just doesn't
that that doesn't make sense, Like how someone could push
(30:20):
you and you fall and you get a rugburn. That
still doesn't add up to me, Jared, I just don't
know what else to say, Like, I don't I don't trust,
I don't trust your answer.
Speaker 15 (30:35):
I don't know how.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
To calm you or to make you feel more secure.
Speaker 14 (30:42):
Well, if you would actually tell me what the truth
is like honestly, I don't even care if you are
cheating on me. I just want to know. At this point,
I'm just fed up with all the lying and everyone
lying to me. And I really really need someone to
just tell me the truth. So can you please just
tell me the truth?
Speaker 5 (30:58):
That is the truth. I love you. I am asked
at Terry is sixty years old. I've been working with
her for what six years? Seven years now? There's no
that's not true that I'm not with Terry someone else. No,
I'm not with anybody else. I'm with you, Haley. I
am with my wife.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
Hey, look, Hailey, we're gonna let you go. I got it.
It doesn't add up to me either. And you know
your husband, if he's not telling the truth, you've got
to continue to chip away at what's happening here, what
he's covering up. And good luck to you, Hailey. All right,
at a lot of observations on that one. We'll come
back eight hundred and five to one or two seven.
(31:41):
Follow this for a second. In your relationship, do you
ever have that insecurity? And then you start second guessing
your partner's being honest or faithful, And then you start
thinking maybe being paranoid and reading into things too much.
But then that paranoia it may not be paranoia. It
maybe actually the fact something's going on. But do you
trust yourself to think it's not paranoia. Do you follow
(32:03):
your heart and try and investigate it? What do you do?
Because we can't create the narratives, we can be paranoid.
It's a trap to fall into. I don't think Haley,
who thought she might have been being paranoid, it was
being paranoid. Her husband is lying. So the dude goes
away on a work trip. He comes back with rugburn
on both knees.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
Lies it.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
The first questioning from his wife says that he was
down on his knee, pack in his suitcase and got
the rugburn. Then we get him on for Ryan's Rose.
He goes, okay, but I lied about that. Truth is
I got into a fight with Paul.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Why didn't you just tell your wife?
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I guess Paul's a manager at work and they go
to a physical fight. First of all, we didn't even
pursue that. I know you did a physical fight with
somebody at work to your manager.
Speaker 4 (32:47):
We say, like, hemouthed off to him, and then Paul
got mad and pushed it.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Then he dragged him across the casino. No, yeah, you
got rugburn.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
On his knees. Dude, like, what's that so true?
Speaker 8 (33:00):
Tell your wife that?
Speaker 2 (33:01):
So he's lying.
Speaker 3 (33:02):
I'm gonna I'm gonna tell you. I think he's I
think he's cheating. Oh, he's lying.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
I think he's cheating.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
And she also, to her credit, good on Haley, She's like, dude,
you're I know you're lying.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Let me She said that.
Speaker 12 (33:16):
She's like, right, I can tell when you're lying.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
I can tell you're lying. I can tell when you're lying.
Speaker 3 (33:23):
And she was right. He sounded like a liar. He
sent the roses to Terry, we make a great team,
so that that's somebody that he works with, supervisor. I
don't know if it's Terry's cheating with, but somebody like
you don't get rug burns on your knees.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
And he technically lied three times because the first time
she asked him he said, I don't know, I don't know.
I have no idea, And then he came back and
gave it the suitcase story.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Lizabeth, we're in a bubble here where we all like
are listening together. What'd you hear?
Speaker 15 (33:52):
Yeah, I'm right there with you. I just hear lie
after lie after lie. Like first, like you said, he
just denying everything, had no idea what happened. Then he
was on his knees packing his suitcase, Like who does that?
Speaker 5 (34:05):
And then.
Speaker 15 (34:07):
Like getting in a fight, even if you were pushed
onto your knees, like you'd get rugburns if you were
on your knees for a while. You know, I think
he's absolutely sleeping with the boss sixty years old or not,
or maybe sleeping with the guy that supposedly pushed him
to the ground.
Speaker 8 (34:23):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
So let's say Haley gets to the bottom of it.
What does she do?
Speaker 5 (34:27):
Now?
Speaker 2 (34:27):
What do you doing?
Speaker 9 (34:28):
She needs, she.
Speaker 15 (34:29):
Needs to figure out what she wants in life, and
she honestly needs to go to therapy. If she has
trusted she's like this, she's clearly drawn to the wrong
type of people. She definitely doesn't even need this stress.
Speaker 8 (34:39):
She's pregnant.
Speaker 12 (34:42):
The trust issues are not going to go away.
Speaker 11 (34:45):
No, she's got to work on it.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
And she's got those issues from you know, her parents,
right her dad trauma.
Speaker 3 (34:51):
All right, Well that's called Ryan's Roses. Lizabeth, thank you
very much for listening to it. With Ryan's Crest, Ryan's
Seacrest with you Sis and Tanya in the back room
is one of my favorite parts. You can't tell I'm
boring them or they just really relaxed listening to the show.
Speaker 12 (35:11):
It's not either's doing nothing back there.
Speaker 3 (35:13):
Why no, they're busy every time, and I put up
to be fair, You're right, I just throw the microphone
on and they're actually like answering phones and pulling up
computer screens and getting us preparation for something like, for example,
thank you for getting Josh on hold back room, and Josh,
thank you for thinking that.
Speaker 11 (35:31):
How are you, Josh, I'm doing okay. Thank you for
taking a call. A big fan of the show.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Thanks bro, I appreciate that. So you're can you need
some advice or guidance about your girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (35:41):
I do.
Speaker 11 (35:42):
Yeah, So my girlfriend just moved across the country to
live with me. We've been dating for aunt nine months.
We went on vacation, we did a long distance thing,
we visited, and honestly, I mean, I hate the strong word,
but I guess I strongly disliked the way things are
living with her right now.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
And you'd like you now live together and you don't
like living with her.
Speaker 11 (36:05):
Correct, Yeah, So there's some circumstances though, I mean, and
I kind of just need your advice and and see
if you've heard of somebody having this issue. Before, but
it's been about three months and she's she's currently she's
still looking for a job and doesn't have a car,
so it's just always in the house. And it's tough
because if we had our own support groups and we're
(36:26):
in our own cities, that would be different. But she
moved out here for me, and it's just it's no breaks.
It's one hundred percent of us. She's always the apartment,
doesn't really clean up after herself sometimes too, which is
kind of frustrating. It's just basically we moved in together
and and since she's not working and it's never out
of the house, I'm.
Speaker 2 (36:43):
Just you can't stand we're kind of in a rough
patch here. Yeah, is this like a different person from
who you thought she was?
Speaker 11 (36:50):
I mean, I wouldn't say totally different, but I mean
I didn't expect that she would live this way. I
think the job thing is really was holding us back here,
and you know, at least have a conversation about go ahead, sorry.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Is no Is it about her not having something of
her own to go do? Or is it about her
just being around too often? Try and figure out what's
at the route?
Speaker 11 (37:14):
Sure? So, I mean I do like her a lot.
I want us to work out, But I think it's
just a rough patch. I mean, I think it's more.
I think things would be different if she had her own,
her own job and had stuff to do out here.
Speaker 2 (37:26):
Sure, did she move from her place to yours?
Speaker 5 (37:31):
Correct?
Speaker 11 (37:31):
Yeah, she moved to the apartment.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Now she moved across the country.
Speaker 11 (37:36):
Correct.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
Yeah, bron, you got to come have a little patience.
In the words of guns and Roses, wow, rock guns,
And I think I had a lot of patience.
Speaker 11 (37:50):
Yeah, I mean it's in about three months and and
but every time I pick up the topic, it just
kind of leads to her feeling bad and done her.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
Luck, but trying to find a job or something to do.
Speaker 4 (38:02):
Maybe you got it's going to do some more things.
Out of the house, go for a hike, get out,
do a picnic, you know, pic Like, maybe you guys
are just on top of each other because you're not
getting out of the house.
Speaker 8 (38:17):
No.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
I think what I'm Josh, what I'm trying to feel
for both of you, is it's not fair to evaluate
this until she finds her her purpose, her navigation, her job.
Then you can make a decision. Then you can decide
if you guys work, but that's going to take some
fair evaluation moment.
Speaker 12 (38:35):
That's going to take some time.
Speaker 6 (38:36):
He can help her, he can, he can help her
try to get a job and focus and talk about
it and encourage her.
Speaker 2 (38:42):
A little more, just a little more time, patience.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
If again, I'm trying to be on both sides of this,
I do think you can evaluate this only when it's
fair to evaluate this.
Speaker 2 (38:53):
I know this is not what you want to hear.
I can tell the job thing.
Speaker 4 (38:57):
Is one thing, but I think the conversation about her
messing is and all that that can be fixed right now,
you know, sure, can we can have a conversation about that,
be like, hey, we got to clean up a little
bit more.
Speaker 11 (39:09):
I mean, how long is long enough to wait?
Speaker 9 (39:11):
Though?
Speaker 6 (39:12):
How long has it been?
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Well?
Speaker 8 (39:13):
How much do you love?
Speaker 11 (39:15):
Three months? And I like her a lot?
Speaker 3 (39:16):
But well I like her a lot, careful with that
L word, not the other one.
Speaker 2 (39:22):
And she hears that.
Speaker 11 (39:27):
It's three months now here.
Speaker 7 (39:28):
So.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
You heard what we think? Good luck?
Speaker 8 (39:32):
Good luck?
Speaker 2 (39:33):
And see I can't figure if he just isn't.
Speaker 4 (39:36):
Into it, he's not into it.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
If he said I like her a lot, well, bro,
if you love her, just wait and let's evaluate in
a minute.
Speaker 12 (39:43):
He's having what is it? Buyers are more than this?
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Sounds like he was he was not happy with our guidance,
you like, get rit of her. Yeah, he was looking
for one of us to say, oh, bro, yeah, you're right,
it's sorry, all right, Oh but let's have a picnic anyway.
That sounds nice.
Speaker 8 (40:06):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (40:09):
All right, Sis, So what's going on with your flowers
being stolen?
Speaker 8 (40:12):
Well, there is.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
And I mean I don't know her name.
Speaker 4 (40:16):
Even if I did, I don't think I would say it,
But there is a woman in my neighborhood. She seems
like a very nice woman. And I have seen her
on a walk. I see her walks all the time.
But you know, like with all the rain, we've gotten
so many flowers. Yes, yes, and they're blooming everywhere, and
they look so beautiful, vibrant, vibrant.
Speaker 12 (40:36):
Everyone's lawns look so nice.
Speaker 4 (40:39):
And so I noticed the other day that she was
on her walk and she had a bunch of like
she was holding a bunch of flowers like in her hand.
Speaker 12 (40:47):
And I didn't think anything of it.
Speaker 4 (40:49):
Then the next day, or maybe it was a few
days later, I saw her again on her walk and
actually saw her clipping flowers.
Speaker 2 (40:55):
With a clipper, with a clippers.
Speaker 4 (40:58):
She premeditated the clip, yes, and then I saw it
again on my camera, like my ring camera. She actually
clipped them from my She took some lavender from my
front lawn.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Is abundant and it's sealing.
Speaker 8 (41:15):
You know, it's fine, it is.
Speaker 3 (41:17):
It is what principal. So I mean, let's just talk
principle here. She's taking your beauty, your your flowers, your garden,
your landscaping.
Speaker 2 (41:24):
Like what if it were your tomatoes?
Speaker 3 (41:26):
I beat like, whoa, I don't get so many tomatoes
all the time, so it can't take my tomatoes lavender?
Speaker 4 (41:29):
Really no different, fine, I know, but I just think
it's like it's essentially.
Speaker 12 (41:35):
It's yeah, trespassing and stealing.
Speaker 4 (41:38):
I just feel like I think she's doing what we
all have thought of wanting to do, because I'm almost
like Yolo else me either not on their own.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
You all thought about it.
Speaker 3 (41:49):
No, I've thought about going into people's bathrooms and ping.
But I don't.
Speaker 4 (41:52):
I don't, but I know, I you know, I drive
the same path to go pick up the kids from
school every day, and I passed.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
By always into their yard.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
But I passed by so many overflown bushes onto what
it is the street? You know, would they would they
really miss all these hydranges. I'm like, no, I could
go there and just clip a few. And I'm like,
I'm kind of thinking this lady's got a good But to.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
This lady you seemingly nice.
Speaker 3 (42:16):
All you had to do is knock on Systney's door
and she would more than likely give you a.
Speaker 6 (42:20):
Pair of clippers in a back wants to be bothered.
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No one wants to knock, no for anything, Because you're
a knock. You think somebody's wrong, Like yeah, you're hit
the floor and hide.
Speaker 6 (42:29):
Yes, yes, I I don't really care.
Speaker 4 (42:32):
Because like the lavender is like kind of like at
the bottom, but like I have a rose bush that's
kind of closer to my front doors, Like what's going
to stop her from coming?
Speaker 3 (42:39):
Like, oh my, I think we shouldn't take a sign
that says no trespassing and put it everywhere and she'll
know who she is no trespassing or clipping herbs.
Speaker 8 (42:47):
I just think it was kind of funny.
Speaker 3 (42:49):
I think it is trespassing, but uh, now I know
not to knock on your door for something.
Speaker 2 (42:56):
Aybody knock on your door recently?
Speaker 6 (42:57):
No, nobody knocks on the door.
Speaker 3 (43:00):
On the doors anymore. No, No, all right, well to
a woman listening? If it is serendipitous, Systey's not home
right now, so clear.
Speaker 8 (43:07):
On air with Ryan Seacret, let me.
Speaker 3 (43:11):
Jump to Bellflower for a second. Jessica, good morning in Bellflower.
How are you feeling?
Speaker 2 (43:16):
Good morning, I'm good at doing well.
Speaker 3 (43:19):
Thank you. So is it true you're getting back with
your ex?
Speaker 7 (43:24):
Yes, I'm getting back with my ex. We were together
for We've been together for eight years, so we broke up.
Speaker 8 (43:30):
For one And.
Speaker 2 (43:33):
What are you worried about getting back with your ex?
Speaker 7 (43:37):
I don't know. I'm just worried about, like what if
he was I just want to know if he was
dating other people.
Speaker 15 (43:43):
But I don't know why I should ask him.
Speaker 7 (43:45):
What do you guys think I should do?
Speaker 2 (43:47):
Why are you getting back with your ex?
Speaker 10 (43:51):
Because he's working on him.
Speaker 7 (43:52):
So we had broken up because he was so toxic.
He wouldn't let me out with with my friends or
anything like that. So I told him he had to
fix himself, you know, like where.
Speaker 3 (44:00):
Is he made progress working on himself to fix himself
or stuff like that.
Speaker 11 (44:04):
He said he's.
Speaker 7 (44:05):
Gonna trust me now that I could go out.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 15 (44:07):
I guess you just have some securities with himself.
Speaker 12 (44:10):
How long has it been.
Speaker 9 (44:13):
For what?
Speaker 2 (44:13):
Since you guys have been broken.
Speaker 5 (44:15):
Up for a year?
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Do you believe his words or do you need to
see action?
Speaker 15 (44:23):
I think I need to see actions, honestly.
Speaker 7 (44:25):
But do you guys think I should ask him if
he was dating someone else?
Speaker 2 (44:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (44:29):
Or what was he doing in the breakup?
Speaker 2 (44:33):
In the break ahead?
Speaker 3 (44:36):
So you want to know if he saw someone else
when you were officially broken up in that year, I mean.
Speaker 8 (44:40):
Kind of like for safety reasons, you kind.
Speaker 7 (44:41):
Of need to know, yeah, because you just never know,
like what if we're all somewhere one day and then
out of a you know, some crazy groages goes up
to us.
Speaker 9 (44:49):
You know, I don't know, I'm.
Speaker 2 (44:50):
A different safety But yes, okay, Tanya, go.
Speaker 6 (44:52):
Ahead, Okay. So this is what I did, and I
think I think it was the path at least resistance.
I wanted to know and I wanted to know details,
But after that I did not bring it up again.
I did not want to keep bringing it up. I
didn't want to keep holding it over his head. It
was a fresh start. When we decided to get back together,
(45:14):
it was this is a fresh start. I'm not gonna
because I was I when I asked him about it,
I was so fixated on it, and that was like
going down a toxic path.
Speaker 8 (45:23):
So I asked.
Speaker 6 (45:25):
I wanted to know. And then after I found out
and he told me everything, I said, that's it. We're
moving on. This is a fresh start, and that's it.
You can't keep holding it over their head because that's
what I was.
Speaker 2 (45:35):
Doing for a little bit.
Speaker 9 (45:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (45:38):
Right now, I feel like I'm going crazy just thinking
about it.
Speaker 6 (45:40):
You know, if you don't know, then it's going to
eat at you cause you so it's.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
Fair to ask.
Speaker 3 (45:45):
You got to decide how you're going to handle it
if he says yes. And I also think if you're
getting back together with him, give him the benefit of
the doubt and let him show you he's changed.
Speaker 2 (45:53):
Let's go.
Speaker 5 (45:55):
Let's go.
Speaker 7 (45:55):
Heay, thank you, guys, that's what I wanted to do.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
Go for it, prepared for the answer of yes and
how you're going to respond to that. But let's see, bro,
you you said you made it yourself better and you've improved.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
Let's see that. Let's go play ball.
Speaker 7 (46:10):
Yeah right, all right, thank you guys so much.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
So I'm gonna ask.
Speaker 8 (46:13):
You good luck.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
See it's easy to say that, but I if i'm Abigail, oh,
I'm not ready.
Speaker 12 (46:19):
Here, yeah, careful what you wish for?
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Because then a ready oh, I wouldn't be ready. I
would what if he's.
Speaker 12 (46:24):
Like, yeah, I hooked up with twenty girls.
Speaker 2 (46:26):
I don't think i'd want to ask that question. Sinn'ty.
Speaker 12 (46:30):
I'm with you. I almost am like ignorance is bliss, bliss.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 6 (46:34):
There's really two sides of the fence with it, because
I'm with her, because it would eat at me if
I didn't ask and I didn't know, it would just
but to.
Speaker 4 (46:40):
Me it was just more is like if we're gonna
get back together, then fresh start from there.
Speaker 2 (46:44):
I don't need to turn the page.
Speaker 12 (46:47):
Yeah, I don't need to know what happened, and he.
Speaker 4 (46:49):
Doesn't know what need to happen with me, because then
I don't want to share my side.
Speaker 3 (46:52):
Ah, exactly, Abigail, I'm no, no, no, we gave her I
think of advice.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Hopefully she still listening on air with a Ryan Seacrest,
Why don't you point seven Kiss FM Tomorrow we shall
do it again, and dare I say it?
Speaker 3 (47:17):
Tomorrow is finally Friday, Right, I have a good Thursday, guy.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
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