December 26, 2024 • 49 mins
We know what we shouldn’t say to our significant other but what SHOULD we be saying? RYAN'S ROSES - Out of Santa Clarita - She saw that her husband got an inappropriate photo from the 661. She thinks she knows who the photo is from…
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to You on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
So, Tanya, I think you I'm hearing you're you're having
fear of missing out? Is that what I'm hearing? You're
having a fomo episode.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, I actually don't really have fomo that much, but
I have really been feeling it lately because last week
we had Katie Perry in here and she was talking
about her lucky number and how she sees it everywhere
and one four one four three, yeah, and it made
me realize, like, I don't have a lucky number. One
(00:43):
of my girlfriends, her lucky number is eight. She books
every flight that she takes. I'll row eight because that's
like her lucky and I do that with my lucky number.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
I don't have one.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Score.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
By the way, there's nothing stopping you from making up
a lot, but I don't have.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Issue how to make it like there should be there
should be nine?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Why nine?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Well, that's how I made mine up. It's my birthdays
at thirty. First, I just added the three in the
one and that's four. And I did that when I
was about like seven years old.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I mean, it's not it's not a difficult exercise.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Well then couldn't also be eighteen. If my birthday's on the.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Saturn, mine's one O two seventh. It is, I do everything.
Every every seat is the one hundred and second of
zero point seventy.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Do you ever make a wish when you when the
when the clock is twenty.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Seven, I lay me down to sleep, Pray the Lord
my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake,
I pray the Lord my soul take one O two
seven good night. That's what I do. Do you still
say your prayer like that? And I was like, my
prayers a chance you got me too?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It's a bit dark if I die before I wake,
Like why my yeah, before I wait, you should not
be Yeah, my last thought before I sleep should not be.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
I think it's going to remix to yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah. I spend my time on one O two seven, uh,
every day and it's for twenty plus years, and it
feels like a lucky number to me, but like that's what.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I don't have, and like I really want it, but
I don't like eight and one nine nine doesn't feel
special to me.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Okay, when you think of.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
The numbers, what's the first thought that comes to you.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
That they're like, ooh, I like that one. Okay, then
maybe one? What's wrong with that cliche?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
I'm number one, number one one. It won't get you far.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Because I'm like the third child.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Great, I do love that this is your biggest crisis
right now. I know a lot of problems in the world.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
It's not a crisis. I just feel left out.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Like everybody has a lucky number and I just never
have had one, And like I'm you know.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It's gonna be fine, Tony.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Do you have the date you meant Robbie?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yes, is November fifth?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
There you go?
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Number five?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Eleven five?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Eleven five five is a good number?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Five's good? Is it better than three? Do you ever
play roulette? No?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, I do like my favorite numbers.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
There If you don't want to take our suggestions, no,
I like them. I like them. Why not eleven or
eleven five or one?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
One?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Five? Is that too much? That's too big? Like it is?
Because can it not be in the hundreds? Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
But remember I said I like the number one, And
if November is eleven, then maybe one is lucky.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
The lucky number will write itself one day time.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Taylor got her this week, I have to Yeah, Taylor
has thirteen.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Like, yeah, good morning Ashley in Los Angeles. How are
you doing good?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
We are I can't speak for everybody, but I think
we're fine. We're good. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Good.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
So you're calling us and uh, it's a call about
your current job. An issue there.
Speaker 7 (03:58):
Yeah, I'm hoping to get a little advice. So the
backstory is essentially, I started a new job last year.
It's been going great. I have a wonderful manager, a
great team. I've been very happy in this role. I
left my previous job because it was an extremely toxic
work environment with a really toxic manager. So I was
(04:21):
very happy to get away and land in this role
that I'm in now. My current manager very sadly announced
that she's leaving. My team were all really sad about it.
But she has this wonderful opportunity, and in a very weird,
crazy twist of events, my old toxic manager might be
hired into my current manager's role, so I might be
(04:44):
stuff back in. I know, it seems it's like unbelievable.
It seems like a little bit of a joke, like
it's not even real, And so I'm kind of in
a weird position, and I don't know if it's appropriate
for me to kind of advocating and you know, go
to HR or the director just to kind of give
them the heads up about what could possibly be, you know,
(05:08):
coming in.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, I don't know that you do it before. I
mean it kind of if something happens, then you sure
could go to HR with that report. But I don't
know that you should do anything before. I can't believe
your luck of now having this happen to you.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I know why I was the manager.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
Oh she I truly like in like my all my years,
like in working, She's the worst manager I ever had.
She was an authoritarian, micromanager. She like had no empathy,
she was indecisive, she was like inappropriate basically like any
bullet point that's under like what toxic leadership looks like.
(05:54):
It was her. We had the most turnover of every team.
I was unsure how she really was still manager at
the point that I left, and so was everybody else.
It was, you know, like a widely known thing and
that's why people left. And you know, this company that
I work for now has such opposite ideals. It's such
a great company. So I would be sad to leave it,
(06:15):
but I definitely would have to leave again because it
was it just put everyone that worked with her in
such a bad headspace.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
It's terrible.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
So I didn't know if I try to write it
out and then you know, just start looking, or if
I give the heads up. It's a tough, tough thing.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's a miserable thing. I'm thinking back. There were a
couple of people that I worked for over the years
that I don't I don't know if they were toxic
in that way, but they were very difficult on me
and was not it was it was not a pleasant experience. Yeah,
And I remember how excited I was when I found
(06:51):
out they were being transferred, and it just it just
changes your whole oh yeah, how and mentality and your
whole energy. So yeah, you know, you got to do
what's best for you. And if that's the start looking,
then maybe you got to do that. It's like, what's
what's the universe trying to tell you here by this
person coming back to your life, and how should you respond?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
And is it your place to tell your new company
about how toxic that might not come off the right way?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
No, And because you're new there. What if you just
say that you're too.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
New, you don't have like that that they don't have
that trust in you, per se. And let's say this
old manager has some like what's the word come to
Jesus moment and they totally are like a different manager
in this new role and then people don't believe your word.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Yeah, and maybe you've changed.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, so yeah, dual track it.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Maybe let's let's see how it goes. Well, you have
your eye open for something if you need to make
a move. But thank you for calling. I'm serving that situation.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
Thank you, guys. This is really helpful, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
You take care by hearing her voice, she's just like
a little hopeless ye, rock hard place, rock hard place,
scissors shot, just take it out of my head since
you told me that story. How's your day going so far? Well,
hopefully it hasn't gone that long, so hopefully it's just
shut off on the right foot, continue that way. I
(08:14):
was just looking at my schedule and I have a
dentist appointment later which I just had mine. That was
just getting the way I know every time I scheduled
my I'll be fine. I want to I want to
go do it and then just having a having a
doctor's or a dentist's appointment in the late afternoon in
LA takes the whole day.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
The pits and you book it six months in advance
that day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yeah, but matter, you have to do it, but it's amazing.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Like just appointments in Los Angeles because of distances and
traffic block off half a day.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I have a friend that takes one full day off
work and does all of her appointments, like dentist Guyino Dermatot,
like all the doctor's appointments.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I mean it may. I don't know if I could
do all of them in one day. My body couldn't
take it or my brain. But it's like you need to.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I'll do that on Fridays after like because we get
out of here a little bit early and I don't
stay like the full work day, and I will so
I do, like my nails, it's more like self care,
maybe all throwing a massage before I have to get
the kids from school, like I've tried to do as
much as account on Fridays.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So did you go to the dentist to get this mouthguard?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
I just went to the dentist and he's and he
was like, Sisney, your gums are receding so bad.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Are you wearing your mouthguard at night?
Speaker 5 (09:26):
And I was like, no, doctor Pima, I don't even
know where my mouthguard is right. Part doesn't even fit anymore,
all the things. And he's like, okay, you need to
get another one.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Ah whatever.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
So fine, I got a mouthguard, but I'm like, I
don't like wearing them because they're just so ugly and uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
You're supposed to wear a twenty four to seven. No,
you wear it at night after you brush your teeth,
you put it in, you pop it in.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
But the mouthguard is not for straightening your teeth back
out there, he says, for your gumlet.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
It's for grinding my teeth.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I grind my teeth that night, and that's where the
line and that's what's hap causing the receding of my gum.
But he's like, okay, I can do that on. I
can do the mouth guard for your bottom teeth. And
I was like, hmm, right, it seems a little you
got to wear it. I do have to wear it.
I have it now, and I would say I'm wearing
it like eighty percent of the time.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
I just forget, and then I just don't want to
put it on.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
You know, the mouth is a great thing. Yeah, and
it's got to be taken care of. And I know,
and when you're you know, in your teens and twenties,
it's I remember the dentist going, you have great teeth
and everything's perfect, and then you get into your thirties
and your forties and then they're like, hey, you know
you need to be doing all this. I mean, I
didn't floss every day and now I lost all the time.
(10:37):
I didn't floss every single day till like ten years ago.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
I'm with you, sa same bow.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
And also in addition to that, like the whole if
I don't like try to at least preserve what I have, Like,
the next option is getting gum trends surgery.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Yes, and it's the.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Worst, That's what I hear, because they either take it
from the roof of your mouth, graph it, or they
graph it from a donor.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
And I'm just like, no, you do not want gum surgery.
That should scare you enough.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You protect your mouth, you know, protect your mouth talk.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Let's see. Let mean yes, not talking.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Taping your mouth shut at night? Okay, that doesn't with
my grind. I think it would.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
Aially, let me Google. I don't know you, but let
me google.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Taping your mouth shut is not going to correct her
receding gum line.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
No, let me see.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
And I want your search to come from the Mayo Clinic.
I don't want it from some rogue website.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
In taking ourselves up to go to sleep anyway for
any cause.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Okay, so uh, there's not much research to support that
as of late. Okay, ever, but it does help with
teeth grinding and gum recession.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Oh this is this is the I'm not a doctor.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
This is Google.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Recently we talked about things that couples should never say
to each other, like just don't do it, but here
are things you should say to your significant other. I thought,
maybe it's good just to hear it. I would away.
I don't just do it at once, but follow it away,
you know, just out of the blue, these are great.
Excited about these out of the blue. You're sitting there,
maybe it's traffic, maybe it's in the car, maybe you're
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at the table, and you just stop everyone in their
tracks and you look into the eyes of your lever
and you say, I just love having you around. Oh
I do that and move on.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
Yeah, okay, this.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Is not a time for you to brag. Sorry, So
you do that one, all right? Fine, here's the next one.
I know you do. And I don't advocate this one
as much as the first one. But the second one,
less exciting for me is I want to know about
your day.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Yeah, I mean that's a given, don't we all say that?
Speaker 2 (12:45):
But do you really want to go through it all?
I do?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
And then finally, and this is a good one too.
They may say something and it may actually be something
that they think you're going to not respond well to,
and you say this, I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Okay, but you can just say I appreciate you with
no context.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
You're fine. But I think it's like when when Michael
thinks he's going to get a response from you, that's
going to be a little pushback. You don't push back.
You say I appreciate you, and.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
That goes all around. By this, I add it to
a lot of people, co workers or whatever. I appreciate you,
like the effort that you did to get this done
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Christy, I love having you around.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
I love having you around.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
That's so nice.
Speaker 6 (13:26):
Mormon fuzzy.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
We have a quote today, Thursday's quote focusing on your
growth and saying no to people and situations that waste
your precious time and energy is actually top tier for
self care.
Speaker 6 (13:41):
Amen.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
I need to hear that again.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
It's a long one. Can you read it? So are
the backroom lights off?
Speaker 5 (13:49):
There?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Looks looks like it is. Yeah, ladies, you have it too,
very ambiyonce.
Speaker 6 (13:58):
Wow, big difference.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
There we go. Now we can see everybody in the
back room except for Medianna, who's always tucked in the corner.
Speaker 6 (14:07):
He's right there.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
They're just like a Claire, Yeah, there you are.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
What's up? Okay, let's get to this. Claire is on
the line and she has a question about a red flag. Claire,
good morning, and thank you for listening. So you have
a red flag question or issue with your fiance?
Speaker 8 (14:26):
Good morning, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:28):
So yeah, So we're getting married soon ish and I'm
stoked about it, and we're doing like bachelorette bachelor party stuff.
We're like planning or whatever. And my fiance has a
lot of female friends, like basically all female with a
female friends like sprinkled in there. And it's funny me
a bit like over the years, but not like a
crazy man. He's talked about, you know, we're getting married.
(14:49):
It's great. But now that we're getting married, he wants
to choose all his friends for his bachelor party. And
I think it's a little weird that, like it's all
his female friends. But and speaking to like my friends,
they're like, oh, that's sweet, you know, and that's not
a red flag. So what do you guys think?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I think it's actually a really good sign that he
has so many female friends, because they make for good
friends and they teach you a lot. Like I've got
only female friends sitting right here in this studio with me,
and there's there's a lot of benefit to that from
me my view. Has he dated all of these people? Yeah,
female friends, and have you met them?
Speaker 8 (15:29):
Yeah, I've met all of them and they're all great.
He's dated two of them, but but they're lovely.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
So you're fine with the ones he's dated. But I
don't think, just generally speaking, it's a red flag.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Tanya, Well, I didn't know that you were engaged to
be married, so it feels like we're a little far
down the path here. I said it was a red
flag because I just feel I personally would not enjoy uh,
my fiance having several females at his bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
That would, wouldn't you. I think it's a good thing
that he has great relationships with females.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Yeah, I love the females that he has as his
friends love him a lot. But I think I would
feel weird if they were going to his bachelor party.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I would.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
I don't think it would bug me. It wouldn't bug
me if that's their friend. I mean, if they've been
friends for years whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, So I don't think you should think too much
about this in the red flag.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Because she's having these feelings, and so that means that
she's having them and those are her feelings and they're valid.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
If the tables were turned and you had three best
guy friends and they were going to come to your
bachelorette party, would you want him causing a big scene?
Speaker 8 (16:44):
That's that's a really good point, because yeah, I do
have two guy friends that are coming that area.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
All right, Claire, Well, congratulations, the big excitement of a
wedding coming up, all the fun. Remember, you'll be with
them every single day for the rest of your life.
Speaker 6 (17:03):
That's how you chose.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Enjoy these days now, every single day, until death do
you part?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Every noise that they make, all of that.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
It's a long time.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Do people still say until death do we part?
Speaker 6 (17:23):
You can choose to have it said however you want.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Basically, you're going to die with the person.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
I took the whole thing.
Speaker 6 (17:31):
I took the thing out.
Speaker 5 (17:32):
If anybody objects to this matrimony or whatever, like how yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I invite you to get your opinion and objects.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I was like, I was kind of worried, like what
if someone does it's like such.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
A down or like even when it's said and nobody,
nobody speaks up, it's like.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Yeah, it's still a weird thing to do. I only
think they really do it in the movies.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Yeah, that's coming out?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Is that un object?
Speaker 9 (18:01):
Yes?
Speaker 8 (18:02):
I do.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I still love her and I'm here and I'll tell
the world now, please we need.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
To be together seen Todd movie speak now or forever
hold your piece? Yes, but yes, till death do you part?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
That's gonna come out of ours too.
Speaker 10 (18:22):
Well.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
You gotta tell me, because I was writing the whole script.
Speaker 6 (18:24):
No, I'll write it.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
I'll write it.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
You got to say it for as long as we
both are living or something like that.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Well, no, I'll decide how I want to say it. Well, yeah,
you a couple. I got a couple of things here.
Speaker 6 (18:38):
I gave the microphone.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
You too are going to die together?
Speaker 9 (18:42):
Okay, die number two while we're here. Anybody want to
stand up and argue this? Yeah, anybody object to any
of this?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
People in and I'll go round the room, take some
time of my speed and start the whole thing. I'll you,
guys sure you really want to do this?
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Are you sure? And I m give away some Disneyland
tickets to people who attend it to us to get
a little perking, I'll give jingle ball. I'll spike him in.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
There and at the very end and iHeart radio.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
With a dast card and an MGM Park Hotels day.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I mean time him come and packed with prizes.
Speaker 6 (19:25):
I love that problem.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, he'll break the icel. But it gets too serious
or downer, I'll break the ices.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
There's gonna be no downer.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Just up, Okay, just stop. That's right, Katie, Good morning.
How are you?
Speaker 11 (19:37):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (19:39):
We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue
with the guy you're dating, Yeah, what's the issue.
Speaker 11 (19:47):
So we've been seeing each other for like about five
months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like
I've met his family, he's met mine, Like we go
on dates like every week, like we see each other
all the time. But he and he told me he's
not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put
a label in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Why does he not want to put a labe? We
need to find out why. So if he's not seen
anybody and he wants to see you, what's the reason
he doesn't want to label it?
Speaker 11 (20:16):
So he was married before we met, and they've just
been divorced like a little over a year now, and
he was with her for like years and years before that.
So I just think that that's the reason.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened in
the past. Yeah, if you were to come over to
Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited and
she and Robbie were to host you and Katie he
were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,
this is Katie my What what would he say?
Speaker 11 (20:55):
I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I
want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,
and yeah, I feel like I would be awkward, like
what would he say, like that's why I'm calling because
I'm like.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly when
I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained to
introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at something
and I was like, this is so and so without
saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and I
was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson. But
(21:26):
there must be a reason why he doesn't want the label.
Maybe it is because he went through something in the
past and his fear of maybe going too fast or
his fear of your expectation is holding him back. It
may not be such a red flag. It may be
part of what he's his trauma.
Speaker 11 (21:45):
Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's
just I have to give it a little bit more time.
Speaker 6 (21:50):
How long happened to me?
Speaker 10 (21:52):
We've been We met.
Speaker 11 (21:53):
Like five months ago, so I mean it's still pretty new.
And yeah, we met for a friend, so it's not
like he was like on a dating like looking for anything.
You know, it was like a casual I.
Speaker 5 (22:03):
Feel like five months is an okay, time to yeah,
and get a label on it.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Though, can you do something that I don't love to do,
which is say, hey, can we talk about why? Just
talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so
that you can understand from his point of view what's
going on there.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
That's an interesting way to get into the conversation.
Speaker 11 (22:23):
Yeah. No, I definitely have to do that.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I don't like doing that myself, but I definitely advise
you do it. Okay, all right, well, good luck it out. Yeah.
I would give him a beat on this and benefit
of the doubt on it too, since he's been through
something it sounds like, all right.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Katie, Yeah, definitely, thanks so much.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Thank you very much. I mean, I have been in
that moment where I was not ready for labels.
Speaker 6 (22:47):
At five months into a thing already.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I don't know the timing. I can't remember that the calendar,
but I have been in that point where, like I say,
I wasn't quite sure where I was yet with myself.
So it's like and coming off of some thing, not
ready to call it anything yet. Now I could evolve
into something yet, but I happened that place where I'm
not ready yet, Tanya, I have not.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Been in that position in my life, but I have
been with somebody in that position. But I think it's
interesting because you know, they say love is patient. That's
the first thing that I love.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
They said it's blind.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Yeah, love is patient.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
So if it's meant to be able to wait, yeah, But.
Speaker 3 (23:24):
Also I think there's a there's a balance, right, you know,
like sometimes you might not meet somebody that's on the
same page as you, Like when Robbin and I met,
we were not on the same pace or the same page,
but we compromise and met in the middle in ways
that made us both feel comfortable.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
And I think that's kind of what you have to do.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
And you guys took the treadmill down to one point
z here on a one point incline. I mean, you guys,
really you took the speed down on your relationship a
little bit.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
We did in the beginning, and then I got to
a point where I was like, I don't want to
do this any this one point one on a one
point six point five with an incline exactly, And you
know what, he gave me the six point five on
an incline.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
And then something, I mean, you guys are really at
an incline. I like it. You're going right up that mountain,
right to the peak. Right, guys, this is fun and
anytime you have a relationship issue, we'd love to hear it.
I'm not quite sure how our advice all shakes out,
but we do try. I mean we do like we
do try kiss time for Ryan's roses. If you've been
(24:24):
waiting here it is so check it out. My husband
and I. This is the email had people over last weekend.
In the backyard. He and his friends were listening to
a soccer game on his phone. That's when his phone
announced to everyone that he'd received a photo from someone
in the six to six one. The photo was completely inappropriate,
(24:46):
and I think I know who it was from. That's Sabrina. Sabrina,
thank you for coming on in, Santa Clarita. Can you
tell us anyone about this inappropriate photo? What did you see?
Speaker 10 (24:58):
H Yeah, well, the phone was closer to us, and
so Fiery interrupted like the phone speaker to say, oh,
the phone number six six one, blah blah blah has
set you a photo. And I saw him looking for it.
He looked kind of panicked, but it was right in
(25:19):
front of me. So I picked it up, and I
saw a naked woman on the phone, so I just
set it down and I stood up and I went inside,
and once everyone was gone, he came to find me,
and he was like swearing up and down that it's
like just spam.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Okay, but you think you knew who it was? How
did you recognize the person?
Speaker 9 (25:46):
Well?
Speaker 10 (25:46):
It okay, So it was like a woman with dark hair,
but like her hair was covering half her face. But
it looked a lot like his coworker Melanie. And it
had a six six 's one area code, and she
lived in Palmdale, which is in the sixty sixth one.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Okay, okay, Tom Dale's sixty sixth one. Got it? Well,
how did your husband explain any of this or the
people around you how they react?
Speaker 10 (26:17):
I mean he said he had no idea who this
like picture is or where it came from, the who
the number is.
Speaker 8 (26:26):
It's hard to.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Tell because of her hair covering her face. But like
he was, he was freaking out too much.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, his reaction was too over the top. He panicked, Okay,
all right, we got it. I mean, look naked full
are you thinking of who it is? It's in the
six sixth one. We've got all we need. Has he
ever been unfaithful to you in the past? I'm just curious.
Speaker 10 (26:48):
Uh no, no, yeah, he's like lied to me before,
like little stuff and I found stuff in his web
history but he and he like denies how it caught
there too.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
We are set, everything's in place to call. Sobrina's husband.
So here's the deal. Over the weekend barbecue and the
guys ringing out together, a photo comes in on his
phone or husband's phone from someone in the sixty six
to one, and it's a naked picture. It's a picture
of a naked woman. And she thinks she recognizes the
(27:23):
naked woman in the photo. The name of the woman
is Melanie, and Melanie lives in the sixty sixth one
in Palmdum. So she was saying, sprinted you were saying,
you're your husband's never cheated, but he's lied to you.
What does he lied to you about?
Speaker 10 (27:38):
Uh, it's just like little stuff like I found some
stuff in his web history and he denied knowing how
it's got there, which I don't that sort of thing
where he'll just like lie about little things like looking
on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Got it all right? Need you to say Ryan. You
my permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.
Speaker 10 (27:59):
Go ahead, Uh, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Okay, we're going to do that right now. And her
name is Melanie. Her name is Melanie. Thank you, Sabrina.
Good luck. We'll see we can find out. Be very quiet,
Sistany's calling now.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
Hello, Hi, can I speak to Tony please?
Speaker 4 (28:34):
This is Tony.
Speaker 10 (28:34):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
My name is Vicky. I'm calling from V's Flowers.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (28:40):
Good?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Great? You know we actually deliver all over Santa Clarita
parts of LA.
Speaker 5 (28:45):
We're right on McBean Parkway near the hospital and promoting
our new business. It's a free dozen red roses that
you can send to anybody that you'd like today.
Speaker 12 (28:55):
No, I'm okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (28:56):
Are you sure? They're absolutely free?
Speaker 5 (28:58):
Like, I don't need cash, I don't need credit card info,
I don't need anything. We can just start with the
name of the person you want to send them to
and a note.
Speaker 12 (29:07):
I mean, a three dozen roses, no credit cards, no
strings attached.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
Exactly.
Speaker 6 (29:13):
Do you live in the area?
Speaker 7 (29:16):
Yeah? I do.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
So we're just hoping that you like our arrangements and
then you come back as a customer one day.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
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Speaker 12 (29:24):
You just like you, just like Josie randomly.
Speaker 5 (29:28):
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to eighteen months and selected to receive promotional offers.
Speaker 12 (29:38):
Okay, I guess as long as it's free. No credit cards,
I guess, just send them to my wife.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Okay, why don't we start there?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
What's your wife's name, Sabrina?
Speaker 6 (29:51):
And what do you like to put on the note?
Speaker 5 (29:54):
Oh?
Speaker 12 (29:55):
Just put I love you dot dot dot always forever.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
Okay, all right, Tony, your voice is being broadcast on
the radio. I have your wife Sabrina, on the line,
and we are here together for this occasion to ask
you a couple of questions. Tony, if you don't mind,
your wife has real concern that something may be going
on with another woman. Can you talk about that at all?
(30:23):
You received a naked picture from a woman in Palmdale.
Does that sound familiar?
Speaker 12 (30:32):
Okay, I'm sorry? What the heck is going on right now?
Speaker 2 (30:36):
So your wife reached out to us here to call
you to find out who you might be sending roses to.
Did another woman cross your mind?
Speaker 13 (30:47):
No?
Speaker 12 (30:48):
My Sabrina is my wife.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
There's no other okay. And who's the woman just Carrie
when you're a barbecue with a friends the other day?
Who's the woman that sent the naked photo of herself
from the six six to one? I'm curious.
Speaker 12 (31:00):
Uh, we went over this, I thought, but I don't
know who that was, so I don't know what she's
trying to do.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
So m hm and the wrong number?
Speaker 6 (31:14):
How often do you send you pictures like that?
Speaker 12 (31:18):
That was the only time I've ever gotten a picture
from but your wife, and your wife recognizes Yeah, your
wife recognized the woman, Sabrina.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Do you want to tell him who you thought it was?
Speaker 10 (31:29):
Yeah? Is it Melanie? I just really need to know.
Speaker 8 (31:36):
Are you there?
Speaker 12 (31:36):
First of all, no, And second of all, I don't
think that we should be saying my coworkers' names on
the radio.
Speaker 8 (31:43):
Okay.
Speaker 10 (31:43):
Well, I'm really worried, and it doesn't seem like you're
it just it looked like Melanie to me.
Speaker 12 (31:51):
Right, Okay, it wasn't her. I don't know who it was,
so I don't know what else to'll tell you.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Is there something going on with you and Melanie radio?
Speaker 12 (32:05):
There's nothing going on with me and Melanie. The picture
was not Melanie. I don't know why this is happening
right now, but and.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Did you tell me when you saw this picture come in?
What was your reaction?
Speaker 12 (32:17):
I don't know. I mean it is a random naked
lady being texted to my phone, so I was kind
of shocked, but either blocked the number and uh, and
that's it.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
Okay, Well, Tony, thank you for coming on with us,
Thank you for answering the questions. Sabrina. You'll have to
listen to those responses and create your opinion. And I
don't know there's any more we can do.
Speaker 10 (32:43):
Yeah, I feel like we still need to do something
about it. So I'm gonna I'm gonna say, let's text
that phone number back together, and let's say hi Melanie
and text that person, and we will see how that
person responds.
Speaker 12 (33:01):
For I blocked the number. I blocked it, I deleted it.
I don't even know what that number was. So even
if I wanted to do that, which I would, I
don't even know the number.
Speaker 10 (33:12):
I know how to access block numbers, will unblock it,
and we will text the phone number. And if you
have nothing to hide, then you should be fine with it.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Okay, So we have a plan, too much work, Tony,
it's not who you say it is. If it is
somebody you know, then this is the response. See now
I'm concerned, Tony. I was starting to believe you. Now
I think that you're fighting this from your wife, trying
to cover something up. What gives.
Speaker 12 (33:42):
I don't think it's worth all this trouble, coluntor Radio is.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Because your wife. You're digging. Indeed, now we're hacking in
my phone.
Speaker 6 (33:53):
It shouldn't be an issue.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
It's not an issue trying to cover something up here, Tony,
it sounds like you are, Tony. Your wife thinks you cheating. No,
she's not being dramatic. You are blowing it off in
you're gas sliding, and you try to spin us all
right here. And Tony, if it is such an important
thing that you believe your wife should believe you, then
let her do this because she thinks you're cheating right
(34:16):
now she thinks that, so let her get all of
the things out of her head.
Speaker 12 (34:21):
Really have time for this right now.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Sorry, And I just want to say, be careful texting
these random numbers, because I had to have gotten a
weird photo sent to my phone that was just a
random weird.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I don't know who it was, where it came from,
and I just want to say, no, I don't.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Know, but it was.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
It was kind of a provocative photo and it was
sent to me and it was very weird out of nowhere.
And so just say, be careful texting that number because
if it is some sort of spam or scam, just
be careful.
Speaker 12 (34:50):
Yeah, I blocked it as spam and the numbers gone.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
I just I just don't know why you wouldn't open
up all of this to your wife if she thinks
you're cheating. So all right, well, good luck to both
of me. Thank you. He's definitely covering someone's not a scam.
He's like not letting her go. Look, which is That's it?
That's it. That's it. On air with Ryan Seacrest, going
(35:13):
back to Ryan's rose a few minutes ago. So here's
the deal. Sabrina and Tony together married. Tony got a
naked picture sent to him from a six six to
one area code. Sabrina saw it, Sprina thinks she recognized
a woman. Tony sends the flowers to his wife, but Sabrina,
his wife, still believes that this was a woman he
(35:35):
knew He says it was just an accident or a
mistake or spam or somebody didn't know. And I believe him,
I really believe him. He sent the flower to his wife,
he said it was a mistake. It wasn't for him.
I believed him until his wife said, Okay, we'll text
that number back and see if Melanie responds or not.
And he's like, no, no, no, we don't need to do that.
But if your wife thinks you're cheating, why wouldn't you
(35:57):
go to every and you're not guilty. Why you go
to every single length to let her have the peace
of mind in proof you're not. He won't let her.
He wont let fall.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Because if it's spam or scam, you don't want your
wife to Texas spam or scam number.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
And then the guy is in a situation where she
thinks he's cheating. She thinks she recognized the naked photo.
He says it was a mistake. She says, prove it.
He says I won't, and he can't. But he won't.
So now I want eighty this and I think he's lying.
Speaker 1 (36:28):
Yeah, I was believing his whole story up until that moment.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Well, let's get Jeremiah's point of view in Lawndale. Jeremiah,
good morning.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Hey, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (36:43):
I want to share a quote based on what we
just listened to, which is, once you crumble a piece
of paper, it can never be made the same again.
And I think this is kind of a great example
of this because you gotta trust your significant others. But
if he's lied in the past, and the fact that
(37:03):
he's a prayer to text a random spam number, that's
a huge red flag. Yep.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
So I love that.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
I think he's lying. I think he's covering it up.
Is he cheating, I don't know, but I think he's
getting photos from the woman she recognized you.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Can't put the toothpaste back in the tube.
Speaker 4 (37:21):
On why won't you text that person back? I get
random spam messages all the time and I love to,
you know, prank them a little bit.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Well, Jeremi, I appreciate a male's point of view on this.
Thank you for listening, Dave for calling Ryan's roses. Everybody's
always got an opinion, and thank you for sharing that
quote with us.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
I love that quote.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
It's a public service. It's a great quote. Same with
a toothpaste quote. Thank you, m fact is he lied right?
He lied before. It's a major issue. Remember she said
he's a liar, he covered stuff up.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
I know with him on this one.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
Like if I if Robbie tried to contact this person
that sent me the weird photo, I would say, please don't.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
It's a scam.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
That's because you know, and he doesn't believe you're cheating.
I know, but time you're missing. It would be different.
If Robbie thought you were cheating, you'd say, do whatever
you want.
Speaker 6 (38:17):
I'm telling you the truth.
Speaker 1 (38:19):
And then these scammers are scary, not scared of no scammer.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Let's get to this. Yesterday, Tony brought up this concept
of anniversaries. Okay, which do you celebrate? Do you go
for the first state anniversary? Is it the becoming exclusive anniversary? Engagement?
Obviously once you have a marriage, it's just a wedding anniversary, yes, right.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
But there are certain people that take it that extra
step of like the first time we kissed and the
first thing. It's like, there's there's five anniversaries.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Just because I celebrate those things. You don't have to
bring me back. There's a guy so by coincidence. This
was posted on Reddit yesterday and it's dividing the internet.
There's a guy that's been with his girlfriend for a year. Right, Okay,
they had an amazing, magical first date. They both called
it the best night of their lives.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
So fast forward five months later, he found out she
slept with her ex between their first and second dates,
so they were not exclusive, not cheating, that's not the issue.
But he still doesn't want to celebrate the anniversary of
the first date because it reminds him of what happened
between the first and the second date.
Speaker 1 (39:23):
Right.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
She says this show said that he's not forgiven her
and it's still hung up on it. Well, I I
blame her. I I do blame her. It would have
been so easy just to go from date one to
day two without that.
Speaker 5 (39:40):
Yeah, in a perfect world, for sure. But yeah, and
I can't I see his side a little bit. It's
tainted love.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
I'm not tainted love. This is their magical day. Stuff happened.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
But wait a minute. If that was the best night
of their lives, then why do you go back to
where you were where it wasn't the best thing?
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Because she probably had plans already set with this this
X of hers and she wasn't gonna bail because she
was like, this is two early early days, one date.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
So she went on it. She maybe accidentally had with
him and.
Speaker 13 (40:08):
Then accidentally fall on top of this saying if if
you say this was the best night of our lives,
you have that mutual magical moment together, then I feel
bad for him because he now has to celebrate the
second date is.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
The first day for him.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Yea, his heart's broken.
Speaker 6 (40:26):
If this happened to Michael.
Speaker 5 (40:27):
And if I found this out and it would ruin
the first date.
Speaker 2 (40:31):
You're correct, it would not.
Speaker 5 (40:33):
I would be like, it doesn't count from that date,
then it counts from when we picked up afterwards.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
I'm my second guess the whole relationship.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Note, Oh this is this is henhouse.
Speaker 2 (40:41):
You don't even know what that means?
Speaker 6 (40:42):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 3 (40:43):
I think that they should celebrate from that first day.
There's always great area.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
I just think it's.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
Appropriate to the gentleman that this happened to I'm on
your side, but we could go on in circles. Let's
get Grace and Fontana on the phone. Grace, good morning,
good morning. So explain this to me, So, your son's wife,
this is some wedding drama. I believe your son's wife
is a bridesmaid, but your son is not a groomsman.
Speaker 14 (41:13):
Correct, So let me back up the sorry. I none
of my friends have ever like done this fancy weddings
like Tanya is about to do and like Susany has done.
Speaker 2 (41:23):
So I've never been invited.
Speaker 14 (41:24):
To be a bridesmaid or anything.
Speaker 12 (41:26):
All my friends want to elope or do something like that.
Speaker 14 (41:30):
And of course I haven't gotten married like that, so
I don't know like.
Speaker 15 (41:34):
The procedure or how things work.
Speaker 14 (41:37):
So my son came to me. He was very upset
with his wife. One of her good friends is getting married.
Speaker 15 (41:43):
They know my sons but not they're not super closed.
Speaker 8 (41:47):
But she's really good.
Speaker 12 (41:48):
Friends with the wife.
Speaker 14 (41:50):
So the wife sent her a little thing, a little bouquet.
Would you be my bridesmad who's so inspripes to go?
Oh my god, this is so cool.
Speaker 15 (41:56):
So she's gonna walk down the aisle with somebody else,
And he was invited to be part of the grooms mess.
So it opened up the whole can of warms and
started saying like, oh, you know, why is she gonna
walk with somebody else on the Ohio and I'm I'm
the husband and they know she's married, So I don't
know if that's right wrong.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
Well, yeah, I'm gonna defer to the experts marriage counselor
here siciny, I don't think what would you do and
what's right and wrong?
Speaker 5 (42:23):
Well, you know, it's at the end of the day,
it comes down to the wife and the groom and
what they want for their wedding and if he has
more friends, more groomsmen, and it just was too many
to have your son in it.
Speaker 6 (42:35):
That's just what it is.
Speaker 5 (42:37):
Like I know for my wedding, I had my brother
and my sister, like my sister had her husband, like
I think they were all in it.
Speaker 2 (42:43):
But how many what do you call them bridal party people?
Speaker 5 (42:47):
I think I had about seven on each side. So
I had seven bridesmaids and my and Michael had and doesn't.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
Have to be it doesn't have to be even.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
But my point is, like my sister was the matron
of honor, but Adam her husban Been was not the
best man. So when they walk down the aisle, Jeanette
walked with the best man, right, you know what I mean?
So and it wasn't her husband and everyone knows like, okay,
it's not like it's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
So Grace, here's I don't know anything about weddings, but
I do have perspective because we've talked to a lot
of married people about their you know, issues getting married,
in the stress and all this stuff. It's their wedding.
It's not about anybody else, right, So whatever they the
couple want to do, it's okay, right, I mean, it's
(43:34):
it's for them, about them, and all this other stuff
is not for us or you or we to create
any issue about or overthink. Don't you agree?
Speaker 15 (43:45):
Okay, So what you're saying is even though they know
they're married and they're together, they don't have to be
in the wedding.
Speaker 8 (43:50):
To get correct correct.
Speaker 2 (43:52):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it were my wedding, yes.
Speaker 14 (43:56):
Okay, if you want to find it so quiet, do
you have an opinion?
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Well, because when I when I said my wedding, they
got scared.
Speaker 3 (44:04):
We got excited, our ears for excited. No, but I
think I think I feel the same way. It really
is about the bride and the groom and what they want,
and maybe maybe he might not be a groomsman, but
they might still have him walk down the aisle with her,
you know what I mean? Like, we have some family
(44:24):
members that aren't necessarily in our bridal party, but that
will still walk down the aisle because they're part of
our family, you know.
Speaker 2 (44:30):
And just to put you on the spot, are Siany
or I in the bridal party?
Speaker 1 (44:35):
You're you're hosting?
Speaker 2 (44:38):
On you?
Speaker 1 (44:38):
You're the efficient, You're.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
Like in the people?
Speaker 1 (44:41):
You stand? You stand in the middle.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
Are you altered? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (44:48):
Why do you pick it?
Speaker 2 (44:49):
I'm comfortable? What do you mean? Why do you pick
me stand? Because I don't care where I stand a couple?
Speaker 3 (44:57):
You know where you stand right in front of us
because you're I think he knows.
Speaker 6 (45:02):
I don't think he knows.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
It's about you and your people. Thank you for calling.
Make it about the couple. Let's not think twice about this.
Good luck and take good care. I do love the
relationship we have with anybody that will call us to
talk about something that intimate. Yeah, and personal, that's personal
to come to us with who we're not experts, nor
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do we really we never met race, But I do
love that relationship.
Speaker 6 (45:26):
That's a family drama right there.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
I stand between the brides people and the groom's people.
Speaker 3 (45:32):
Yes, you stand right in the middle. So basically you
are the this like the center. You are the centerpiece
and then the centerpiece.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
All right, let's let's start you a photo.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Was the last year at a wedding?
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Let's see, Well they're not they're no longer together. But yeah,
I was a friend's wedding a few years ago. All right,
so this was a fun little for the show exercise
that ABC, GPD, GPS whatever. It has roasted our Instagram feed.
Speaker 14 (46:05):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
So are you know the comedy roast that they've done.
Would you ever want someone to do.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
A roast like that for I don't think I could
handle it.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
I don't think that's I didn't say it seems like
I know.
Speaker 6 (46:17):
But it's so funny to watch. It's funny to be
at one.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Well, I'm still thinking of the Tom Brady roast that
was all over the place.
Speaker 10 (46:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
Yeah, there was a Kevin Hart one too.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Uh did I see I did see that one? That
was a good special. Yeah. Yeah, all right, so you
can basically it's very popular to do this. Right now,
ask chat GPT to roast your Instagram fee. What you
do is you upload a screenshot of your grid and
you ask it to just roast, and it does it instantly. Neat.
(46:52):
Would you like to read yours?
Speaker 6 (46:54):
All right?
Speaker 5 (46:56):
And here's here's my Your feet is a kaleidoscope of
colorful balloons, adorable kids, scenic getaways, and the occasional I'm
so relatable snap like a visit to the eye doctor,
because nothing says down to earth like keeping it real.
Between a trip to Greece and hosting a radio show
so sarcastic.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
With gosh, just get money, what about yours? Tanya between
the oversized dog treats an exaggerated facial expression, It's like
watching a rom com on fast forward. Honestly, this feed
has so much sunshine and positivity that it might as
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well come with the disclaimer viewing may cause unrealistic life expectations.
Speaker 5 (47:46):
I mean, look, Instagram is like the highlights of people's lives.
Speaker 2 (47:51):
Chat GPTs nailing.
Speaker 6 (47:53):
Me, oh man, it's so good.
Speaker 2 (47:56):
So here's mine. We put it up there for this
AI to spit back out. The quote roast for mine
for my Instagram says your Instagram is sprinkled with just
enough relatable moments. To remind everyone you're still a human
if humans regularly hung out with celebrities eightcurmet meals and
dress like they're hosting the Oscars every other day, I mean, really,
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I'll show you all. Stop posting food it's so good,
dressed like the Oscars every other.
Speaker 6 (48:32):
Day, that's how you picture you.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
Well, I'm right here in ahatt in the spine.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
But you don't post that. You need to post that.
Speaker 2 (48:41):
I don't want to post if it's gonna spit that
stuff back now tomorrow we shall do it to gain
and dare I say it? Tomorrow? It is finally Friday.
Speaker 14 (48:52):
Mine.
Speaker 2 (48:54):
Have a good Thursday, guys. Thanks for listening to On
Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and we'll
talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to You on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
So, Tanya, I think you I'm hearing you're you're having
fear of missing out? Is that what I'm hearing? You're
having a fomo episode.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, I actually don't really have fomo that much, but
I have really been feeling it lately because last week
we had Katie Perry in here and she was talking
about her lucky number and how she sees it everywhere
and one four one four three, yeah, and it made
me realize, like, I don't have a lucky number. One
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of my girlfriends, her lucky number is eight. She books
every flight that she takes. I'll row eight because that's
like her lucky and I do that with my lucky number.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
I don't have one.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Score.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
By the way, there's nothing stopping you from making up
a lot, but I don't have.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Issue how to make it like there should be there
should be nine?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Why nine?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
Well, that's how I made mine up. It's my birthdays
at thirty. First, I just added the three in the
one and that's four. And I did that when I
was about like seven years old.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
I mean, it's not it's not a difficult exercise.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Well then couldn't also be eighteen. If my birthday's on the.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Saturn, mine's one O two seventh. It is, I do everything.
Every every seat is the one hundred and second of
zero point seventy.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Do you ever make a wish when you when the
when the clock is twenty.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Seven, I lay me down to sleep, Pray the Lord
my soul to keep. If I should die before I wake,
I pray the Lord my soul take one O two
seven good night. That's what I do. Do you still
say your prayer like that? And I was like, my
prayers a chance you got me too?
Speaker 1 (01:46):
No, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It's a bit dark if I die before I wake,
Like why my yeah, before I wait, you should not
be Yeah, my last thought before I sleep should not be.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
I think it's going to remix to yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah. I spend my time on one O two seven, uh,
every day and it's for twenty plus years, and it
feels like a lucky number to me, but like that's what.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I don't have, and like I really want it, but
I don't like eight and one nine nine doesn't feel
special to me.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Okay, when you think of.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
The numbers, what's the first thought that comes to you.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
That they're like, ooh, I like that one. Okay, then
maybe one? What's wrong with that cliche?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
I'm number one, number one one. It won't get you far.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Because I'm like the third child.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Great, I do love that this is your biggest crisis
right now. I know a lot of problems in the world.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
It's not a crisis. I just feel left out.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Like everybody has a lucky number and I just never
have had one, And like I'm you know.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It's gonna be fine, Tony.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Do you have the date you meant Robbie?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yes, is November fifth?
Speaker 2 (03:01):
There you go?
Speaker 6 (03:01):
Number five?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Eleven five?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Eleven five five is a good number?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Five's good? Is it better than three? Do you ever
play roulette? No?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yeah, I do like my favorite numbers.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
There If you don't want to take our suggestions, no,
I like them. I like them. Why not eleven or
eleven five or one?
Speaker 5 (03:21):
One?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Five? Is that too much? That's too big? Like it is?
Because can it not be in the hundreds? Oh?
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
But remember I said I like the number one, And
if November is eleven, then maybe one is lucky.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
The lucky number will write itself one day time.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
Taylor got her this week, I have to Yeah, Taylor
has thirteen.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Like, yeah, good morning Ashley in Los Angeles. How are
you doing good?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
We are I can't speak for everybody, but I think
we're fine. We're good. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Good.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
So you're calling us and uh, it's a call about
your current job. An issue there.
Speaker 7 (03:58):
Yeah, I'm hoping to get a little advice. So the
backstory is essentially, I started a new job last year.
It's been going great. I have a wonderful manager, a
great team. I've been very happy in this role. I
left my previous job because it was an extremely toxic
work environment with a really toxic manager. So I was
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very happy to get away and land in this role
that I'm in now. My current manager very sadly announced
that she's leaving. My team were all really sad about it.
But she has this wonderful opportunity, and in a very weird,
crazy twist of events, my old toxic manager might be
hired into my current manager's role, so I might be
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stuff back in. I know, it seems it's like unbelievable.
It seems like a little bit of a joke, like
it's not even real, And so I'm kind of in
a weird position, and I don't know if it's appropriate
for me to kind of advocating and you know, go
to HR or the director just to kind of give
them the heads up about what could possibly be, you know,
(05:08):
coming in.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yeah, I don't know that you do it before. I
mean it kind of if something happens, then you sure
could go to HR with that report. But I don't
know that you should do anything before. I can't believe
your luck of now having this happen to you.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I know why I was the manager.
Speaker 7 (05:32):
Oh she I truly like in like my all my years,
like in working, She's the worst manager I ever had.
She was an authoritarian, micromanager. She like had no empathy,
she was indecisive, she was like inappropriate basically like any
bullet point that's under like what toxic leadership looks like.
(05:54):
It was her. We had the most turnover of every team.
I was unsure how she really was still manager at
the point that I left, and so was everybody else.
It was, you know, like a widely known thing and
that's why people left. And you know, this company that
I work for now has such opposite ideals. It's such
a great company. So I would be sad to leave it,
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but I definitely would have to leave again because it
was it just put everyone that worked with her in
such a bad headspace.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
It's terrible.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
So I didn't know if I try to write it
out and then you know, just start looking, or if
I give the heads up. It's a tough, tough thing.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's a miserable thing. I'm thinking back. There were a
couple of people that I worked for over the years
that I don't I don't know if they were toxic
in that way, but they were very difficult on me
and was not it was it was not a pleasant experience. Yeah,
And I remember how excited I was when I found
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out they were being transferred, and it just it just
changes your whole oh yeah, how and mentality and your
whole energy. So yeah, you know, you got to do
what's best for you. And if that's the start looking,
then maybe you got to do that. It's like, what's
what's the universe trying to tell you here by this
person coming back to your life, and how should you respond?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
And is it your place to tell your new company
about how toxic that might not come off the right way?
Speaker 1 (07:19):
No, And because you're new there. What if you just
say that you're too.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
New, you don't have like that that they don't have
that trust in you, per se. And let's say this
old manager has some like what's the word come to
Jesus moment and they totally are like a different manager
in this new role and then people don't believe your word.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Yeah, and maybe you've changed.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, so yeah, dual track it.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Maybe let's let's see how it goes. Well, you have
your eye open for something if you need to make
a move. But thank you for calling. I'm serving that situation.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
Thank you, guys. This is really helpful, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
You take care by hearing her voice, she's just like
a little hopeless ye, rock hard place, rock hard place,
scissors shot, just take it out of my head since
you told me that story. How's your day going so far? Well,
hopefully it hasn't gone that long, so hopefully it's just
shut off on the right foot, continue that way. I
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was just looking at my schedule and I have a
dentist appointment later which I just had mine. That was
just getting the way I know every time I scheduled
my I'll be fine. I want to I want to
go do it and then just having a having a
doctor's or a dentist's appointment in the late afternoon in
LA takes the whole day.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
The pits and you book it six months in advance
that day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yeah, but matter, you have to do it, but it's amazing.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Like just appointments in Los Angeles because of distances and
traffic block off half a day.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I have a friend that takes one full day off
work and does all of her appointments, like dentist Guyino Dermatot,
like all the doctor's appointments.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
I mean it may. I don't know if I could
do all of them in one day. My body couldn't
take it or my brain. But it's like you need to.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I'll do that on Fridays after like because we get
out of here a little bit early and I don't
stay like the full work day, and I will so
I do, like my nails, it's more like self care,
maybe all throwing a massage before I have to get
the kids from school, like I've tried to do as
much as account on Fridays.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
So did you go to the dentist to get this mouthguard?
Speaker 5 (09:18):
I just went to the dentist and he's and he
was like, Sisney, your gums are receding so bad.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Are you wearing your mouthguard at night?
Speaker 5 (09:26):
And I was like, no, doctor Pima, I don't even
know where my mouthguard is right. Part doesn't even fit anymore,
all the things. And he's like, okay, you need to
get another one.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Ah whatever.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
So fine, I got a mouthguard, but I'm like, I
don't like wearing them because they're just so ugly and uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
You're supposed to wear a twenty four to seven. No,
you wear it at night after you brush your teeth,
you put it in, you pop it in.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
But the mouthguard is not for straightening your teeth back
out there, he says, for your gumlet.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
It's for grinding my teeth.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
I grind my teeth that night, and that's where the
line and that's what's hap causing the receding of my gum.
But he's like, okay, I can do that on. I
can do the mouth guard for your bottom teeth. And
I was like, hmm, right, it seems a little you
got to wear it. I do have to wear it.
I have it now, and I would say I'm wearing
it like eighty percent of the time.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
I just forget, and then I just don't want to
put it on.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
You know, the mouth is a great thing. Yeah, and
it's got to be taken care of. And I know,
and when you're you know, in your teens and twenties,
it's I remember the dentist going, you have great teeth
and everything's perfect, and then you get into your thirties
and your forties and then they're like, hey, you know
you need to be doing all this. I mean, I
didn't floss every day and now I lost all the time.
(10:37):
I didn't floss every single day till like ten years ago.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
I'm with you, sa same bow.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
And also in addition to that, like the whole if
I don't like try to at least preserve what I have, Like,
the next option is getting gum trends surgery.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Yes, and it's the.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Worst, That's what I hear, because they either take it
from the roof of your mouth, graph it, or they
graph it from a donor.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
And I'm just like, no, you do not want gum surgery.
That should scare you enough.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
You protect your mouth, you know, protect your mouth talk.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Let's see. Let mean yes, not talking.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Taping your mouth shut at night? Okay, that doesn't with
my grind. I think it would.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
Aially, let me Google. I don't know you, but let
me google.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Taping your mouth shut is not going to correct her
receding gum line.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
No, let me see.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
And I want your search to come from the Mayo Clinic.
I don't want it from some rogue website.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
In taking ourselves up to go to sleep anyway for
any cause.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Okay, so uh, there's not much research to support that
as of late. Okay, ever, but it does help with
teeth grinding and gum recession.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Oh this is this is the I'm not a doctor.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
This is Google.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Recently we talked about things that couples should never say
to each other, like just don't do it, but here
are things you should say to your significant other. I thought,
maybe it's good just to hear it. I would away.
I don't just do it at once, but follow it away,
you know, just out of the blue, these are great.
Excited about these out of the blue. You're sitting there,
maybe it's traffic, maybe it's in the car, maybe you're
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at the table, and you just stop everyone in their
tracks and you look into the eyes of your lever
and you say, I just love having you around. Oh
I do that and move on.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
Yeah, okay, this.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Is not a time for you to brag. Sorry, So
you do that one, all right? Fine, here's the next one.
I know you do. And I don't advocate this one
as much as the first one. But the second one,
less exciting for me is I want to know about
your day.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Yeah, I mean that's a given, don't we all say that?
Speaker 2 (12:45):
But do you really want to go through it all?
I do?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
And then finally, and this is a good one too.
They may say something and it may actually be something
that they think you're going to not respond well to,
and you say this, I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
Okay, but you can just say I appreciate you with
no context.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
You're fine. But I think it's like when when Michael
thinks he's going to get a response from you, that's
going to be a little pushback. You don't push back.
You say I appreciate you, and.
Speaker 5 (13:14):
That goes all around. By this, I add it to
a lot of people, co workers or whatever. I appreciate you,
like the effort that you did to get this done
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Christy, I love having you around.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
I love having you around.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
That's so nice.
Speaker 6 (13:26):
Mormon fuzzy.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
We have a quote today, Thursday's quote focusing on your
growth and saying no to people and situations that waste
your precious time and energy is actually top tier for
self care.
Speaker 6 (13:41):
Amen.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
I need to hear that again.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
It's a long one. Can you read it? So are
the backroom lights off?
Speaker 5 (13:49):
There?
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Looks looks like it is. Yeah, ladies, you have it too,
very ambiyonce.
Speaker 6 (13:58):
Wow, big difference.
Speaker 2 (14:00):
There we go. Now we can see everybody in the
back room except for Medianna, who's always tucked in the corner.
Speaker 6 (14:07):
He's right there.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
They're just like a Claire, Yeah, there you are.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
What's up? Okay, let's get to this. Claire is on
the line and she has a question about a red flag. Claire,
good morning, and thank you for listening. So you have
a red flag question or issue with your fiance?
Speaker 8 (14:26):
Good morning, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:28):
So yeah, So we're getting married soon ish and I'm
stoked about it, and we're doing like bachelorette bachelor party stuff.
We're like planning or whatever. And my fiance has a
lot of female friends, like basically all female with a
female friends like sprinkled in there. And it's funny me
a bit like over the years, but not like a
crazy man. He's talked about, you know, we're getting married.
(14:49):
It's great. But now that we're getting married, he wants
to choose all his friends for his bachelor party. And
I think it's a little weird that, like it's all
his female friends. But and speaking to like my friends,
they're like, oh, that's sweet, you know, and that's not
a red flag. So what do you guys think?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
I think it's actually a really good sign that he
has so many female friends, because they make for good
friends and they teach you a lot. Like I've got
only female friends sitting right here in this studio with me,
and there's there's a lot of benefit to that from
me my view. Has he dated all of these people? Yeah,
female friends, and have you met them?
Speaker 8 (15:29):
Yeah, I've met all of them and they're all great.
He's dated two of them, but but they're lovely.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
So you're fine with the ones he's dated. But I
don't think, just generally speaking, it's a red flag.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
Tanya, Well, I didn't know that you were engaged to
be married, so it feels like we're a little far
down the path here. I said it was a red
flag because I just feel I personally would not enjoy uh,
my fiance having several females at his bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
That would, wouldn't you. I think it's a good thing
that he has great relationships with females.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
Yeah, I love the females that he has as his
friends love him a lot. But I think I would
feel weird if they were going to his bachelor party.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I would.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
I don't think it would bug me. It wouldn't bug
me if that's their friend. I mean, if they've been
friends for years whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah, So I don't think you should think too much
about this in the red flag.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Because she's having these feelings, and so that means that
she's having them and those are her feelings and they're valid.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
If the tables were turned and you had three best
guy friends and they were going to come to your
bachelorette party, would you want him causing a big scene?
Speaker 8 (16:44):
That's that's a really good point, because yeah, I do
have two guy friends that are coming that area.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
All right, Claire, Well, congratulations, the big excitement of a
wedding coming up, all the fun. Remember, you'll be with
them every single day for the rest of your life.
Speaker 6 (17:03):
That's how you chose.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
Enjoy these days now, every single day, until death do
you part?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Every noise that they make, all of that.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
It's a long time.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Do people still say until death do we part?
Speaker 6 (17:23):
You can choose to have it said however you want.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Basically, you're going to die with the person.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
I took the whole thing.
Speaker 6 (17:31):
I took the thing out.
Speaker 5 (17:32):
If anybody objects to this matrimony or whatever, like how yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
I invite you to get your opinion and objects.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I was like, I was kind of worried, like what
if someone does it's like such.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
A down or like even when it's said and nobody,
nobody speaks up, it's like.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Yeah, it's still a weird thing to do. I only
think they really do it in the movies.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Yeah, that's coming out?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Is that un object?
Speaker 9 (18:01):
Yes?
Speaker 8 (18:02):
I do.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I still love her and I'm here and I'll tell
the world now, please we need.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
To be together seen Todd movie speak now or forever
hold your piece? Yes, but yes, till death do you part?
Speaker 1 (18:20):
That's gonna come out of ours too.
Speaker 10 (18:22):
Well.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
You gotta tell me, because I was writing the whole script.
Speaker 6 (18:24):
No, I'll write it.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
I'll write it.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
You got to say it for as long as we
both are living or something like that.
Speaker 1 (18:29):
Yeah, something like that.
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Well, no, I'll decide how I want to say it. Well, yeah,
you a couple. I got a couple of things here.
Speaker 6 (18:38):
I gave the microphone.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
You too are going to die together?
Speaker 9 (18:42):
Okay, die number two while we're here. Anybody want to
stand up and argue this? Yeah, anybody object to any
of this?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
People in and I'll go round the room, take some
time of my speed and start the whole thing. I'll you,
guys sure you really want to do this?
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Are you sure? And I m give away some Disneyland
tickets to people who attend it to us to get
a little perking, I'll give jingle ball. I'll spike him in.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
There and at the very end and iHeart radio.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
With a dast card and an MGM Park Hotels day.
Speaker 6 (19:23):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I mean time him come and packed with prizes.
Speaker 6 (19:25):
I love that problem.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, he'll break the icel. But it gets too serious
or downer, I'll break the ices.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
There's gonna be no downer.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Just up, Okay, just stop. That's right, Katie, Good morning.
How are you?
Speaker 11 (19:37):
I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2 (19:39):
We're doing all right? So you're calling about an issue
with the guy you're dating, Yeah, what's the issue.
Speaker 11 (19:47):
So we've been seeing each other for like about five
months now, and I think everything's going really well. Like
I've met his family, he's met mine, Like we go
on dates like every week, like we see each other
all the time. But he and he told me he's
not seeing anyone else, but he doesn't want to put
a label in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Why does he not want to put a labe? We
need to find out why. So if he's not seen
anybody and he wants to see you, what's the reason
he doesn't want to label it?
Speaker 11 (20:16):
So he was married before we met, and they've just
been divorced like a little over a year now, and
he was with her for like years and years before that.
So I just think that that's the reason.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
Why I scarred a little bit from whatever happened in
the past. Yeah, if you were to come over to
Tanya's house, I mean you would have been invited and
she and Robbie were to host you and Katie he
were to come and introduce you. He would say, Hi, Robbie, Tanya,
this is Katie my What what would he say?
Speaker 11 (20:55):
I don't know. See, that's the thing is, like I
want to be able to say this is my boyfriend,
and yeah, I feel like I would be awkward, like
what would he say, like that's why I'm calling because
I'm like.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I, well, maybe I learned this lesson very quickly when
I had a girlfriend, but I wasn't so trained to
introduce her as my girlfriend. And we were at something
and I was like, this is so and so without
saying this is my girlfriend so and so, and I
was corrected and understood. So I learned that lesson. But
(21:26):
there must be a reason why he doesn't want the label.
Maybe it is because he went through something in the
past and his fear of maybe going too fast or
his fear of your expectation is holding him back. It
may not be such a red flag. It may be
part of what he's his trauma.
Speaker 11 (21:45):
Yeah, no, definitely, I was thinking that, like, maybe it's
just I have to give it a little bit more time.
Speaker 6 (21:50):
How long happened to me?
Speaker 10 (21:52):
We've been We met.
Speaker 11 (21:53):
Like five months ago, so I mean it's still pretty new.
And yeah, we met for a friend, so it's not
like he was like on a dating like looking for anything.
You know, it was like a casual I.
Speaker 5 (22:03):
Feel like five months is an okay, time to yeah,
and get a label on it.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Though, can you do something that I don't love to do,
which is say, hey, can we talk about why? Just
talk and about why he doesn't want the label, so
that you can understand from his point of view what's
going on there.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
That's an interesting way to get into the conversation.
Speaker 11 (22:23):
Yeah. No, I definitely have to do that.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I don't like doing that myself, but I definitely advise
you do it. Okay, all right, well, good luck it out. Yeah.
I would give him a beat on this and benefit
of the doubt on it too, since he's been through
something it sounds like, all right.
Speaker 11 (22:38):
Katie, Yeah, definitely, thanks so much.
Speaker 2 (22:40):
Thank you very much. I mean, I have been in
that moment where I was not ready for labels.
Speaker 6 (22:47):
At five months into a thing already.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
I don't know the timing. I can't remember that the calendar,
but I have been in that point where, like I say,
I wasn't quite sure where I was yet with myself.
So it's like and coming off of some thing, not
ready to call it anything yet. Now I could evolve
into something yet, but I happened that place where I'm
not ready yet, Tanya, I have not.
Speaker 3 (23:08):
Been in that position in my life, but I have
been with somebody in that position. But I think it's
interesting because you know, they say love is patient. That's
the first thing that I love.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
They said it's blind.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Yeah, love is patient.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
So if it's meant to be able to wait, yeah, But.
Speaker 3 (23:24):
Also I think there's a there's a balance, right, you know,
like sometimes you might not meet somebody that's on the
same page as you, Like when Robbin and I met,
we were not on the same pace or the same page,
but we compromise and met in the middle in ways
that made us both feel comfortable.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
And I think that's kind of what you have to do.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
And you guys took the treadmill down to one point
z here on a one point incline. I mean, you guys,
really you took the speed down on your relationship a
little bit.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
We did in the beginning, and then I got to
a point where I was like, I don't want to
do this any this one point one on a one
point six point five with an incline exactly, And you
know what, he gave me the six point five on
an incline.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
And then something, I mean, you guys are really at
an incline. I like it. You're going right up that mountain,
right to the peak. Right, guys, this is fun and
anytime you have a relationship issue, we'd love to hear it.
I'm not quite sure how our advice all shakes out,
but we do try. I mean we do like we
do try kiss time for Ryan's roses. If you've been
(24:24):
waiting here it is so check it out. My husband
and I. This is the email had people over last weekend.
In the backyard. He and his friends were listening to
a soccer game on his phone. That's when his phone
announced to everyone that he'd received a photo from someone
in the six to six one. The photo was completely inappropriate,
(24:46):
and I think I know who it was from. That's Sabrina. Sabrina,
thank you for coming on in, Santa Clarita. Can you
tell us anyone about this inappropriate photo? What did you see?
Speaker 10 (24:58):
H Yeah, well, the phone was closer to us, and
so Fiery interrupted like the phone speaker to say, oh,
the phone number six six one, blah blah blah has
set you a photo. And I saw him looking for it.
He looked kind of panicked, but it was right in
(25:19):
front of me. So I picked it up, and I
saw a naked woman on the phone, so I just
set it down and I stood up and I went inside,
and once everyone was gone, he came to find me,
and he was like swearing up and down that it's
like just spam.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Okay, but you think you knew who it was? How
did you recognize the person?
Speaker 9 (25:46):
Well?
Speaker 10 (25:46):
It okay, So it was like a woman with dark hair,
but like her hair was covering half her face. But
it looked a lot like his coworker Melanie. And it
had a six six 's one area code, and she
lived in Palmdale, which is in the sixty sixth one.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
Okay, okay, Tom Dale's sixty sixth one. Got it? Well,
how did your husband explain any of this or the
people around you how they react?
Speaker 10 (26:17):
I mean he said he had no idea who this
like picture is or where it came from, the who
the number is.
Speaker 8 (26:26):
It's hard to.
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Tell because of her hair covering her face. But like
he was, he was freaking out too much.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, his reaction was too over the top. He panicked, Okay,
all right, we got it. I mean, look naked full
are you thinking of who it is? It's in the
six sixth one. We've got all we need. Has he
ever been unfaithful to you in the past? I'm just curious.
Speaker 10 (26:48):
Uh no, no, yeah, he's like lied to me before,
like little stuff and I found stuff in his web
history but he and he like denies how it caught
there too.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
We are set, everything's in place to call. Sobrina's husband.
So here's the deal. Over the weekend barbecue and the
guys ringing out together, a photo comes in on his
phone or husband's phone from someone in the sixty six
to one, and it's a naked picture. It's a picture
of a naked woman. And she thinks she recognizes the
(27:23):
naked woman in the photo. The name of the woman
is Melanie, and Melanie lives in the sixty sixth one
in Palmdum. So she was saying, sprinted you were saying,
you're your husband's never cheated, but he's lied to you.
What does he lied to you about?
Speaker 10 (27:38):
Uh, it's just like little stuff like I found some
stuff in his web history and he denied knowing how
it's got there, which I don't that sort of thing
where he'll just like lie about little things like looking
on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Got it all right? Need you to say Ryan. You
my permission to call, and then his name on Kiss FM.
Speaker 10 (27:59):
Go ahead, Uh, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Okay, we're going to do that right now. And her
name is Melanie. Her name is Melanie. Thank you, Sabrina.
Good luck. We'll see we can find out. Be very quiet,
Sistany's calling now.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
Hello, Hi, can I speak to Tony please?
Speaker 4 (28:34):
This is Tony.
Speaker 10 (28:34):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (28:35):
My name is Vicky. I'm calling from V's Flowers.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 9 (28:40):
Good?
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Great? You know we actually deliver all over Santa Clarita
parts of LA.
Speaker 5 (28:45):
We're right on McBean Parkway near the hospital and promoting
our new business. It's a free dozen red roses that
you can send to anybody that you'd like today.
Speaker 12 (28:55):
No, I'm okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (28:56):
Are you sure? They're absolutely free?
Speaker 5 (28:58):
Like, I don't need cash, I don't need credit card info,
I don't need anything. We can just start with the
name of the person you want to send them to
and a note.
Speaker 12 (29:07):
I mean, a three dozen roses, no credit cards, no
strings attached.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
Exactly.
Speaker 6 (29:13):
Do you live in the area?
Speaker 7 (29:16):
Yeah? I do.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
So we're just hoping that you like our arrangements and
then you come back as a customer one day.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
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Speaker 12 (29:24):
You just like you, just like Josie randomly.
Speaker 5 (29:28):
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to eighteen months and selected to receive promotional offers.
Speaker 12 (29:38):
Okay, I guess as long as it's free. No credit cards,
I guess, just send them to my wife.
Speaker 6 (29:45):
Okay, why don't we start there?
Speaker 1 (29:46):
What's your wife's name, Sabrina?
Speaker 6 (29:51):
And what do you like to put on the note?
Speaker 5 (29:54):
Oh?
Speaker 12 (29:55):
Just put I love you dot dot dot always forever.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
Okay, all right, Tony, your voice is being broadcast on
the radio. I have your wife Sabrina, on the line,
and we are here together for this occasion to ask
you a couple of questions. Tony, if you don't mind,
your wife has real concern that something may be going
on with another woman. Can you talk about that at all?
(30:23):
You received a naked picture from a woman in Palmdale.
Does that sound familiar?
Speaker 12 (30:32):
Okay, I'm sorry? What the heck is going on right now?
Speaker 2 (30:36):
So your wife reached out to us here to call
you to find out who you might be sending roses to.
Did another woman cross your mind?
Speaker 13 (30:47):
No?
Speaker 12 (30:48):
My Sabrina is my wife.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
There's no other okay. And who's the woman just Carrie
when you're a barbecue with a friends the other day?
Who's the woman that sent the naked photo of herself
from the six six to one? I'm curious.
Speaker 12 (31:00):
Uh, we went over this, I thought, but I don't
know who that was, so I don't know what she's
trying to do.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
So m hm and the wrong number?
Speaker 6 (31:14):
How often do you send you pictures like that?
Speaker 12 (31:18):
That was the only time I've ever gotten a picture
from but your wife, and your wife recognizes Yeah, your
wife recognized the woman, Sabrina.
Speaker 2 (31:26):
Do you want to tell him who you thought it was?
Speaker 10 (31:29):
Yeah? Is it Melanie? I just really need to know.
Speaker 8 (31:36):
Are you there?
Speaker 12 (31:36):
First of all, no, And second of all, I don't
think that we should be saying my coworkers' names on
the radio.
Speaker 8 (31:43):
Okay.
Speaker 10 (31:43):
Well, I'm really worried, and it doesn't seem like you're
it just it looked like Melanie to me.
Speaker 12 (31:51):
Right, Okay, it wasn't her. I don't know who it was,
so I don't know what else to'll tell you.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
Is there something going on with you and Melanie radio?
Speaker 12 (32:05):
There's nothing going on with me and Melanie. The picture
was not Melanie. I don't know why this is happening
right now, but and.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Did you tell me when you saw this picture come in?
What was your reaction?
Speaker 12 (32:17):
I don't know. I mean it is a random naked
lady being texted to my phone, so I was kind
of shocked, but either blocked the number and uh, and
that's it.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
Okay, Well, Tony, thank you for coming on with us,
Thank you for answering the questions. Sabrina. You'll have to
listen to those responses and create your opinion. And I
don't know there's any more we can do.
Speaker 10 (32:43):
Yeah, I feel like we still need to do something
about it. So I'm gonna I'm gonna say, let's text
that phone number back together, and let's say hi Melanie
and text that person, and we will see how that
person responds.
Speaker 12 (33:01):
For I blocked the number. I blocked it, I deleted it.
I don't even know what that number was. So even
if I wanted to do that, which I would, I
don't even know the number.
Speaker 10 (33:12):
I know how to access block numbers, will unblock it,
and we will text the phone number. And if you
have nothing to hide, then you should be fine with it.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Okay, So we have a plan, too much work, Tony,
it's not who you say it is. If it is
somebody you know, then this is the response. See now
I'm concerned, Tony. I was starting to believe you. Now
I think that you're fighting this from your wife, trying
to cover something up. What gives.
Speaker 12 (33:42):
I don't think it's worth all this trouble, coluntor Radio is.
Speaker 2 (33:46):
Because your wife. You're digging. Indeed, now we're hacking in
my phone.
Speaker 6 (33:53):
It shouldn't be an issue.
Speaker 2 (33:54):
It's not an issue trying to cover something up here, Tony,
it sounds like you are, Tony. Your wife thinks you cheating. No,
she's not being dramatic. You are blowing it off in
you're gas sliding, and you try to spin us all
right here. And Tony, if it is such an important
thing that you believe your wife should believe you, then
let her do this because she thinks you're cheating right
(34:16):
now she thinks that, so let her get all of
the things out of her head.
Speaker 12 (34:21):
Really have time for this right now.
Speaker 3 (34:23):
Sorry, And I just want to say, be careful texting
these random numbers, because I had to have gotten a
weird photo sent to my phone that was just a
random weird.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I don't know who it was, where it came from,
and I just want to say, no, I don't.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Know, but it was.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
It was kind of a provocative photo and it was
sent to me and it was very weird out of nowhere.
And so just say, be careful texting that number because
if it is some sort of spam or scam, just
be careful.
Speaker 12 (34:50):
Yeah, I blocked it as spam and the numbers gone.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
I just I just don't know why you wouldn't open
up all of this to your wife if she thinks
you're cheating. So all right, well, good luck to both
of me. Thank you. He's definitely covering someone's not a scam.
He's like not letting her go. Look, which is That's it?
That's it. That's it. On air with Ryan Seacrest, going
(35:13):
back to Ryan's rose a few minutes ago. So here's
the deal. Sabrina and Tony together married. Tony got a
naked picture sent to him from a six six to
one area code. Sabrina saw it, Sprina thinks she recognized
a woman. Tony sends the flowers to his wife, but Sabrina,
his wife, still believes that this was a woman he
(35:35):
knew He says it was just an accident or a
mistake or spam or somebody didn't know. And I believe him,
I really believe him. He sent the flower to his wife,
he said it was a mistake. It wasn't for him.
I believed him until his wife said, Okay, we'll text
that number back and see if Melanie responds or not.
And he's like, no, no, no, we don't need to do that.
But if your wife thinks you're cheating, why wouldn't you
(35:57):
go to every and you're not guilty. Why you go
to every single length to let her have the peace
of mind in proof you're not. He won't let her.
He wont let fall.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Because if it's spam or scam, you don't want your
wife to Texas spam or scam number.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
And then the guy is in a situation where she
thinks he's cheating. She thinks she recognized the naked photo.
He says it was a mistake. She says, prove it.
He says I won't, and he can't. But he won't.
So now I want eighty this and I think he's lying.
Speaker 1 (36:28):
Yeah, I was believing his whole story up until that moment.
Speaker 2 (36:32):
Well, let's get Jeremiah's point of view in Lawndale. Jeremiah,
good morning.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Hey, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 2 (36:41):
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (36:43):
I want to share a quote based on what we
just listened to, which is, once you crumble a piece
of paper, it can never be made the same again.
And I think this is kind of a great example
of this because you gotta trust your significant others. But
if he's lied in the past, and the fact that
(37:03):
he's a prayer to text a random spam number, that's
a huge red flag. Yep.
Speaker 1 (37:10):
So I love that.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
I think he's lying. I think he's covering it up.
Is he cheating, I don't know, but I think he's
getting photos from the woman she recognized you.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
Can't put the toothpaste back in the tube.
Speaker 4 (37:21):
On why won't you text that person back? I get
random spam messages all the time and I love to,
you know, prank them a little bit.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Well, Jeremi, I appreciate a male's point of view on this.
Thank you for listening, Dave for calling Ryan's roses. Everybody's
always got an opinion, and thank you for sharing that
quote with us.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
I love that quote.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
It's a public service. It's a great quote. Same with
a toothpaste quote. Thank you, m fact is he lied right?
He lied before. It's a major issue. Remember she said
he's a liar, he covered stuff up.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
I know with him on this one.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
Like if I if Robbie tried to contact this person
that sent me the weird photo, I would say, please don't.
Speaker 1 (38:05):
It's a scam.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
That's because you know, and he doesn't believe you're cheating.
I know, but time you're missing. It would be different.
If Robbie thought you were cheating, you'd say, do whatever
you want.
Speaker 6 (38:17):
I'm telling you the truth.
Speaker 1 (38:19):
And then these scammers are scary, not scared of no scammer.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Let's get to this. Yesterday, Tony brought up this concept
of anniversaries. Okay, which do you celebrate? Do you go
for the first state anniversary? Is it the becoming exclusive anniversary? Engagement?
Obviously once you have a marriage, it's just a wedding anniversary, yes, right.
Speaker 1 (38:41):
But there are certain people that take it that extra
step of like the first time we kissed and the
first thing. It's like, there's there's five anniversaries.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Just because I celebrate those things. You don't have to
bring me back. There's a guy so by coincidence. This
was posted on Reddit yesterday and it's dividing the internet.
There's a guy that's been with his girlfriend for a year. Right, Okay,
they had an amazing, magical first date. They both called
it the best night of their lives.
Speaker 1 (39:06):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
So fast forward five months later, he found out she
slept with her ex between their first and second dates,
so they were not exclusive, not cheating, that's not the issue.
But he still doesn't want to celebrate the anniversary of
the first date because it reminds him of what happened
between the first and the second date.
Speaker 1 (39:23):
Right.
Speaker 2 (39:24):
She says this show said that he's not forgiven her
and it's still hung up on it. Well, I I
blame her. I I do blame her. It would have
been so easy just to go from date one to
day two without that.
Speaker 5 (39:40):
Yeah, in a perfect world, for sure. But yeah, and
I can't I see his side a little bit. It's
tainted love.
Speaker 3 (39:47):
I'm not tainted love. This is their magical day. Stuff happened.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
But wait a minute. If that was the best night
of their lives, then why do you go back to
where you were where it wasn't the best thing?
Speaker 3 (39:57):
Because she probably had plans already set with this this
X of hers and she wasn't gonna bail because she
was like, this is two early early days, one date.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
So she went on it. She maybe accidentally had with
him and.
Speaker 13 (40:08):
Then accidentally fall on top of this saying if if
you say this was the best night of our lives,
you have that mutual magical moment together, then I feel
bad for him because he now has to celebrate the
second date is.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
The first day for him.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Yea, his heart's broken.
Speaker 6 (40:26):
If this happened to Michael.
Speaker 5 (40:27):
And if I found this out and it would ruin
the first date.
Speaker 2 (40:31):
You're correct, it would not.
Speaker 5 (40:33):
I would be like, it doesn't count from that date,
then it counts from when we picked up afterwards.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
I'm my second guess the whole relationship.
Speaker 1 (40:38):
Note, Oh this is this is henhouse.
Speaker 2 (40:41):
You don't even know what that means?
Speaker 6 (40:42):
Yes, I do.
Speaker 3 (40:43):
I think that they should celebrate from that first day.
There's always great area.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
I just think it's.
Speaker 2 (40:49):
Appropriate to the gentleman that this happened to I'm on
your side, but we could go on in circles. Let's
get Grace and Fontana on the phone. Grace, good morning,
good morning. So explain this to me, So, your son's wife,
this is some wedding drama. I believe your son's wife
is a bridesmaid, but your son is not a groomsman.
Speaker 14 (41:13):
Correct, So let me back up the sorry. I none
of my friends have ever like done this fancy weddings
like Tanya is about to do and like Susany has done.
Speaker 2 (41:23):
So I've never been invited.
Speaker 14 (41:24):
To be a bridesmaid or anything.
Speaker 12 (41:26):
All my friends want to elope or do something like that.
Speaker 14 (41:30):
And of course I haven't gotten married like that, so
I don't know like.
Speaker 15 (41:34):
The procedure or how things work.
Speaker 14 (41:37):
So my son came to me. He was very upset
with his wife. One of her good friends is getting married.
Speaker 15 (41:43):
They know my sons but not they're not super closed.
Speaker 8 (41:47):
But she's really good.
Speaker 12 (41:48):
Friends with the wife.
Speaker 14 (41:50):
So the wife sent her a little thing, a little bouquet.
Would you be my bridesmad who's so inspripes to go?
Oh my god, this is so cool.
Speaker 15 (41:56):
So she's gonna walk down the aisle with somebody else,
And he was invited to be part of the grooms mess.
So it opened up the whole can of warms and
started saying like, oh, you know, why is she gonna
walk with somebody else on the Ohio and I'm I'm
the husband and they know she's married, So I don't
know if that's right wrong.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
Well, yeah, I'm gonna defer to the experts marriage counselor
here siciny, I don't think what would you do and
what's right and wrong?
Speaker 5 (42:23):
Well, you know, it's at the end of the day,
it comes down to the wife and the groom and
what they want for their wedding and if he has
more friends, more groomsmen, and it just was too many
to have your son in it.
Speaker 6 (42:35):
That's just what it is.
Speaker 5 (42:37):
Like I know for my wedding, I had my brother
and my sister, like my sister had her husband, like
I think they were all in it.
Speaker 2 (42:43):
But how many what do you call them bridal party people?
Speaker 5 (42:47):
I think I had about seven on each side. So
I had seven bridesmaids and my and Michael had and doesn't.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
Have to be it doesn't have to be even.
Speaker 5 (42:55):
But my point is, like my sister was the matron
of honor, but Adam her husban Been was not the
best man. So when they walk down the aisle, Jeanette
walked with the best man, right, you know what I mean?
So and it wasn't her husband and everyone knows like, okay,
it's not like it's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
So Grace, here's I don't know anything about weddings, but
I do have perspective because we've talked to a lot
of married people about their you know, issues getting married,
in the stress and all this stuff. It's their wedding.
It's not about anybody else, right, So whatever they the
couple want to do, it's okay, right, I mean, it's
(43:34):
it's for them, about them, and all this other stuff
is not for us or you or we to create
any issue about or overthink. Don't you agree?
Speaker 15 (43:45):
Okay, So what you're saying is even though they know
they're married and they're together, they don't have to be
in the wedding.
Speaker 8 (43:50):
To get correct correct.
Speaker 2 (43:52):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If it were my wedding, yes.
Speaker 14 (43:56):
Okay, if you want to find it so quiet, do
you have an opinion?
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Well, because when I when I said my wedding, they
got scared.
Speaker 3 (44:04):
We got excited, our ears for excited. No, but I
think I think I feel the same way. It really
is about the bride and the groom and what they want,
and maybe maybe he might not be a groomsman, but
they might still have him walk down the aisle with her,
you know what I mean? Like, we have some family
(44:24):
members that aren't necessarily in our bridal party, but that
will still walk down the aisle because they're part of
our family, you know.
Speaker 2 (44:30):
And just to put you on the spot, are Siany
or I in the bridal party?
Speaker 1 (44:35):
You're you're hosting?
Speaker 2 (44:38):
On you?
Speaker 1 (44:38):
You're the efficient, You're.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
Like in the people?
Speaker 1 (44:41):
You stand? You stand in the middle.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
Are you altered? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (44:48):
Why do you pick it?
Speaker 2 (44:49):
I'm comfortable? What do you mean? Why do you pick
me stand? Because I don't care where I stand a couple?
Speaker 3 (44:57):
You know where you stand right in front of us
because you're I think he knows.
Speaker 6 (45:02):
I don't think he knows.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
It's about you and your people. Thank you for calling.
Make it about the couple. Let's not think twice about this.
Good luck and take good care. I do love the
relationship we have with anybody that will call us to
talk about something that intimate. Yeah, and personal, that's personal
to come to us with who we're not experts, nor
(45:24):
do we really we never met race, But I do
love that relationship.
Speaker 6 (45:26):
That's a family drama right there.
Speaker 2 (45:29):
I stand between the brides people and the groom's people.
Speaker 3 (45:32):
Yes, you stand right in the middle. So basically you
are the this like the center. You are the centerpiece
and then the centerpiece.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
All right, let's let's start you a photo.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Was the last year at a wedding?
Speaker 2 (45:48):
Let's see, Well they're not they're no longer together. But yeah,
I was a friend's wedding a few years ago. All right,
so this was a fun little for the show exercise
that ABC, GPD, GPS whatever. It has roasted our Instagram feed.
Speaker 14 (46:05):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (46:06):
So are you know the comedy roast that they've done.
Would you ever want someone to do.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
A roast like that for I don't think I could
handle it.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
I don't think that's I didn't say it seems like
I know.
Speaker 6 (46:17):
But it's so funny to watch. It's funny to be
at one.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Well, I'm still thinking of the Tom Brady roast that
was all over the place.
Speaker 10 (46:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:25):
Yeah, there was a Kevin Hart one too.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
Uh did I see I did see that one? That
was a good special. Yeah. Yeah, all right, so you
can basically it's very popular to do this. Right now,
ask chat GPT to roast your Instagram fee. What you
do is you upload a screenshot of your grid and
you ask it to just roast, and it does it instantly. Neat.
(46:52):
Would you like to read yours?
Speaker 6 (46:54):
All right?
Speaker 5 (46:56):
And here's here's my Your feet is a kaleidoscope of
colorful balloons, adorable kids, scenic getaways, and the occasional I'm
so relatable snap like a visit to the eye doctor,
because nothing says down to earth like keeping it real.
Between a trip to Greece and hosting a radio show
so sarcastic.
Speaker 3 (47:17):
With gosh, just get money, what about yours? Tanya between
the oversized dog treats an exaggerated facial expression, It's like
watching a rom com on fast forward. Honestly, this feed
has so much sunshine and positivity that it might as
(47:38):
well come with the disclaimer viewing may cause unrealistic life expectations.
Speaker 5 (47:46):
I mean, look, Instagram is like the highlights of people's lives.
Speaker 2 (47:51):
Chat GPTs nailing.
Speaker 6 (47:53):
Me, oh man, it's so good.
Speaker 2 (47:56):
So here's mine. We put it up there for this
AI to spit back out. The quote roast for mine
for my Instagram says your Instagram is sprinkled with just
enough relatable moments. To remind everyone you're still a human
if humans regularly hung out with celebrities eightcurmet meals and
dress like they're hosting the Oscars every other day, I mean, really,
(48:26):
I'll show you all. Stop posting food it's so good,
dressed like the Oscars every other.
Speaker 6 (48:32):
Day, that's how you picture you.
Speaker 2 (48:35):
Well, I'm right here in ahatt in the spine.
Speaker 1 (48:37):
But you don't post that. You need to post that.
Speaker 2 (48:41):
I don't want to post if it's gonna spit that
stuff back now tomorrow we shall do it to gain
and dare I say it? Tomorrow? It is finally Friday.
Speaker 14 (48:52):
Mine.
Speaker 2 (48:54):
Have a good Thursday, guys. Thanks for listening to On
Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and we'll
talk to you again tomorrow
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