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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Bachelor's here. That's why I bring that up here.
Joey Grazi day, Good morning, Joey.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Good morning everyone. How are you doing. We're doing great.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hold on, do you have a playlist of makeout songs?
I do not.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
That would be crazy though.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
If I was during the show, just like always had
music that was just playing during that time.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Yeah, you can pick the track.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
No, no, I let.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Music come as it comes to me. I don't really
have any playlists that are for that.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Tiny will share hers with you. That's fine, We give
you one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I could get some help.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
I give you some help stuff over here.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
So last time we saw each other it was on
New Year's Even Times Square, and this was before the
premiere of The Bachelor. Now it's out, and I'm seeing
people are falling for you, bro, not only down the show,
but like a nation.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
It's it's been crazy. I think that obviously, when I saw.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
You, it was still all an idea because I lived it,
but you didn't get the ability to see what everyone
was going to think or just to kind of obviously
relive it.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So a lot has happened.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I love that there's a lot of people that are
excited about the season, invested in it, happy with me
so far.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But yeah, you don't know. You'ven't seen how you I mean,
I know you know broad strokes of what happened, but
you haven't seen how it all gets edited together.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
No, I get.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I get to watch it with America, so I get
a little bit of a sneak peak sometimes each week.
But yeah, I'm watching it with everyone else, and like.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
You said, I lived it, so I got a good
idea what it's like. Yeah, how it ends up, but
it's different.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
What do you make of the reaction from Bachelor Nation
calling you like right at the top of the list
of the lookers.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Hey, man, I'll take that. Yea.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
If someone doesn't like that, I don't know what they like.
That's that's new for me. So I love it. It's
it's again. It's just exciting to see people say nice
things and they're invested in it. But uh, yeah, I
can't really. I don't think you can comment on that one.
I think you just have to say thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Joey gradated the Batcheler. Do people that you dated before this,
like in high school or in other chapters of your life,
do they reach out to you when this kind of
thing happens in your life.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yes, and no.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I think a lot of the like not as seriously
relationships I've reached out and said like they're happy for me,
and you know, people I haven't heard from since high
school or college definitely have reached out.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
The serious relationships.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I think they for the most part are just like
maybe ignoring that this is going on, because I had
like two real ones that I've had through my life.
But for the most part, people have been so kind
and grateful and just saying that they've seen the same
person they knew their whole life.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
So that's great to hear. That's great to see.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
That is next to you. She's engaged to be married,
but there were times when she considered going on this show.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
That's true, really is very very yeah, yeah, why didn't
you not?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
So one of my best friends was on The Bachelor
many years ago with Chris Souls, and so she was
like really pushing me to do it, like I think
you'd be so good. I think that you'd be open
to the process. And actually when I was like really
starting to think about it is when I started dating
my now fiance. So the timing was just kind of
like it was off.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Well it worked out for so that's all really hard. Yeah. Yeah,
it's a different process.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
But I tell everyone if you're open to it and
you feel like you could do it, that there's great
things that can come out of it.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Well, clearly he's got a See we need to size
up his energy right now, Joey Grassy the Bachelor.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
He's engaged.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
We're going to reach your body language here.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I mean, I think regardless of what the ending is,
what people always say. And I talked to guys that
have been on the batcher arette. I've talked to people
obviously from the show that I've done it with me too.
It's it's an experience that you you you kind of
have to look within through all this, you learn a
lot about yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
There's more than just the romance side.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's so special and uh yeah, everyone from the show
is great.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It just is an experience that's unlike any other.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Do you forget cameras are there your head you're mind? Yeah,
because like hear their cameras in here, I forget they're here.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I think it takes time, right, Like it's something that
I got to the point that it definitely it didn't
affect me. But I think back to when I was
on the batcherette, like mind night one, which Charity I
look like an idiot, like I was staring directly into
the camera. I'm sure I gave him absolutely no footage.
So it feels like a lot because the first time
you see the lights, the first time you see the
camera in your face, but then all of a sudden.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I always say, you don't notice the cameras when you
have a genuine connection.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I paid attention to that when I was on the
show as the Bachelor, was if I started feeling production
or like feeling camera, I wasn't into the person then,
because that that that takes away from you actually focus
on the person that you're talking to.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
So I use that as my example. Most of all,
let's get a break here.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
The Bachelor Monday's eight seven Central ABC streams on Hulu
the next day. I want to come back and talk
about what you're doing with your eyes because I don't know,
maybe I want to try it. Oh, Ryan wants a
tutorial on how you're using your eyes. It's like a
thing right now. It is, Yeah, you're talking about it,
is right. You have a little to Ryan. No, but
I want to do he I want him to teach
(04:53):
us his look, how he looks through the souls of
people and stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I don't know if I have any answers on that one.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Well, standby practice next practice. We're gonna re hurt by
coming back here in a second. Paying a bill in
the seven one four, I won a two point seven.
It's Kiss FM. Thanks for being with us this morning.
I got a bunch of kiss music stacked up, lined up,
ready to go. Joy Graziday of the Bacheler. So when
does this thing all wrap up? When are we gonna
know whether you or who you ended up with?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, so you'll get an idea of how the season
ends at the end of March here. So we're working
our way.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
It's almost. It's almost to the final three women. Yep,
down to the final three women. It is flown by
so it's crazy.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But yeah, this this ended back before Thanksgiving time, so
I'd be lying if I said I wasn't ready for it.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
We'll get to the end.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Than Fantasy Sweets Night.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
When is that? That is going to be next week? Ryan?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
So you can say Fantasy Sweets next week? I got
my phone for that.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Ye next Monday, how nerve wracking is fantasy suites exactly
what you would expect, extremely nerve wracking.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
It's it's a situation that I always tried to obviously
come in with taking it as lightly as possible, like
not trying to put too much pressure on yourself. But
you understand that it's a very serious moment and something
where I think everyone knows a lot of Bacheler's in
the past have made some bigger mistakes. I tried as
much to keep it within those walls and not talk
too much about it because I think it's a private moment.
(06:11):
But also I always tell people like they think about
what happens in fancy suits, but the most important part
of fancy suites is it's your first time you get
uninterrupted time with no cameras like that is so important
to have that time when you get to see someone.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
And that's what I do. On what you do is
you talk to them, right, You talk to him for
a long period of time.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, beautiful conversation, beautiful every single one of them.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That's all you do. No, I can't speak on what
I do right because again, like I said, that is
for me and the person that.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
If I compliment your teeth, will you tell me? Yeah,
I appreciate a great tea.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Thank you. The youn brace is their beautiful thing.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
It's crazy, though, previous Bachelor like Bachelor and Bachelorette like
winners of the seasons have said if you combine all
the hours that they spent with the lead before they
got engaged, it was like twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah. I can't really do the math myself self, but
I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I do believe that when you get that alone time
and fancy suites, it might be about the same time
you've been with them for the entire show, Like it's
a very important time and people forget like there's something
serious at the end of the so you have to
talk through things. I always use that time to do
almost like a play by play of the whole experience,
like what did you feel at this moment?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
What did you feel at this moment.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Because you get the time to talk about it, but
it's in little spurts throughout the show, so when you
get that time to actually dive a little deeper, Like
I took advantage of that time because I was taking
this seriously and I wanted to make sure that I
knew everything I need to know about them, talk about
more harsh subjects you maybe don't feel comfortable to talk
about on camera, Like.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
There's a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah, yeah, well give me give me some insight on
your Yeah, that's always a fun conversation.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah, that's my exciting fantasy suits romantic I know the
Bachelor with so everybody keeps talking about the way you
look at the women on the show.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
So what do you do?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Are you smising? Are you squinting?
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Like what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Chin up? Eyes down? Bro?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I think for me, I used to be really bad
at it when I was growing up as a kid.
I used to I like, got into teaching tennis at
a really young age and was at a country club
and I was always told yeah, so cool, right, But
I mean but I was I was a kid, right,
So like when I was thirteen years old, I'm in
this country club atmosphere and I mumbled, I wasn't good
(08:29):
at holding attention and talking to people. So, like, I
really young figured out how important it was to actually
engage with people. And I don't know if that's affected
how I do things moving forward, but I realized that
I appreciate so much more when someone's actually actively listening,
looking at you, like feels like they're part of the conversation.
So I think it's translated into where I'm at now,
(08:50):
And I love that. People think it's all the gaze
or how I look at them, but I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I mean, that's happening.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I'm trying. I forgot that, Like, it's weird because I'm
looking at this and then they're here to connect to him.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
So but yeah, I love that people have commed on it.
I think it's a fun part of the season in general.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
But yeah, I'll take it. I'll take people like it.
People are into Joey Gate. Some people are gonna be
bummed if you end up with somebody here.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Hey again, I can't speak on that, right, No, no,
don't don't wait and.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
See, don't speak. We we've been through this before. We
will wait. We will see you know that they we'll
go back and say we knew it.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Tom is almost on the show. She knows the Joe,
she gets exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Bro. Thanks for coming Monday, so you can check it
out ABC and Hulu.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Good luck, appreciate it. I'm excited to see how this
all ends up. But I appreciate you guys having me here.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Now got
The Bachelor's here. That's why I bring that up here.
Joey Grazi day, Good morning, Joey.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Good morning everyone. How are you doing. We're doing great.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Hold on, do you have a playlist of makeout songs?
I do not.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
That would be crazy though.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
If I was during the show, just like always had
music that was just playing during that time.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Yeah, you can pick the track.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
No, no, I let.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Music come as it comes to me. I don't really
have any playlists that are for that.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Tiny will share hers with you. That's fine, We give
you one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I could get some help.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
I give you some help stuff over here.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
So last time we saw each other it was on
New Year's Even Times Square, and this was before the
premiere of The Bachelor. Now it's out, and I'm seeing
people are falling for you, bro, not only down the show,
but like a nation.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
It's it's been crazy. I think that obviously, when I saw.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
You, it was still all an idea because I lived it,
but you didn't get the ability to see what everyone
was going to think or just to kind of obviously
relive it.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So a lot has happened.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I love that there's a lot of people that are
excited about the season, invested in it, happy with me
so far.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
But yeah, you don't know. You'ven't seen how you I mean,
I know you know broad strokes of what happened, but
you haven't seen how it all gets edited together.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
No, I get.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
I get to watch it with America, so I get
a little bit of a sneak peak sometimes each week.
But yeah, I'm watching it with everyone else, and like.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
You said, I lived it, so I got a good
idea what it's like. Yeah, how it ends up, but
it's different.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
What do you make of the reaction from Bachelor Nation
calling you like right at the top of the list
of the lookers.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Hey, man, I'll take that. Yea.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
If someone doesn't like that, I don't know what they like.
That's that's new for me. So I love it. It's
it's again. It's just exciting to see people say nice
things and they're invested in it. But uh, yeah, I
can't really. I don't think you can comment on that one.
I think you just have to say thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Joey gradated the Batcheler. Do people that you dated before this,
like in high school or in other chapters of your life,
do they reach out to you when this kind of
thing happens in your life.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yes, and no.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
I think a lot of the like not as seriously
relationships I've reached out and said like they're happy for me,
and you know, people I haven't heard from since high
school or college definitely have reached out.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
The serious relationships.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I think they for the most part are just like
maybe ignoring that this is going on, because I had
like two real ones that I've had through my life.
But for the most part, people have been so kind
and grateful and just saying that they've seen the same
person they knew their whole life.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
So that's great to hear. That's great to see.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
That is next to you. She's engaged to be married,
but there were times when she considered going on this show.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
That's true, really is very very yeah, yeah, why didn't
you not?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
So one of my best friends was on The Bachelor
many years ago with Chris Souls, and so she was
like really pushing me to do it, like I think
you'd be so good. I think that you'd be open
to the process. And actually when I was like really
starting to think about it is when I started dating
my now fiance. So the timing was just kind of
like it was off.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Well it worked out for so that's all really hard. Yeah. Yeah,
it's a different process.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
But I tell everyone if you're open to it and
you feel like you could do it, that there's great
things that can come out of it.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Well, clearly he's got a See we need to size
up his energy right now, Joey Grassy the Bachelor.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
He's engaged.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
We're going to reach your body language here.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I mean, I think regardless of what the ending is,
what people always say. And I talked to guys that
have been on the batcher arette. I've talked to people
obviously from the show that I've done it with me too.
It's it's an experience that you you you kind of
have to look within through all this, you learn a
lot about yourself.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
There's more than just the romance side.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
That's so special and uh yeah, everyone from the show
is great.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It just is an experience that's unlike any other.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Do you forget cameras are there your head you're mind? Yeah,
because like hear their cameras in here, I forget they're here.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I think it takes time, right, Like it's something that
I got to the point that it definitely it didn't
affect me. But I think back to when I was
on the batcherette, like mind night one, which Charity I
look like an idiot, like I was staring directly into
the camera. I'm sure I gave him absolutely no footage.
So it feels like a lot because the first time
you see the lights, the first time you see the
camera in your face, but then all of a sudden.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
I always say, you don't notice the cameras when you
have a genuine connection.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I paid attention to that when I was on the
show as the Bachelor, was if I started feeling production
or like feeling camera, I wasn't into the person then,
because that that that takes away from you actually focus
on the person that you're talking to.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
So I use that as my example. Most of all,
let's get a break here.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
The Bachelor Monday's eight seven Central ABC streams on Hulu
the next day. I want to come back and talk
about what you're doing with your eyes because I don't know,
maybe I want to try it. Oh, Ryan wants a
tutorial on how you're using your eyes. It's like a
thing right now. It is, Yeah, you're talking about it,
is right. You have a little to Ryan. No, but
I want to do he I want him to teach
(04:53):
us his look, how he looks through the souls of
people and stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I don't know if I have any answers on that one.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Well, standby practice next practice. We're gonna re hurt by
coming back here in a second. Paying a bill in
the seven one four, I won a two point seven.
It's Kiss FM. Thanks for being with us this morning.
I got a bunch of kiss music stacked up, lined up,
ready to go. Joy Graziday of the Bacheler. So when
does this thing all wrap up? When are we gonna
know whether you or who you ended up with?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Yeah, so you'll get an idea of how the season
ends at the end of March here. So we're working
our way.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
It's almost. It's almost to the final three women. Yep,
down to the final three women. It is flown by
so it's crazy.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But yeah, this this ended back before Thanksgiving time, so
I'd be lying if I said I wasn't ready for it.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
We'll get to the end.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Than Fantasy Sweets Night.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
When is that? That is going to be next week? Ryan?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
So you can say Fantasy Sweets next week? I got
my phone for that.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Ye next Monday, how nerve wracking is fantasy suites exactly
what you would expect, extremely nerve wracking.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
It's it's a situation that I always tried to obviously
come in with taking it as lightly as possible, like
not trying to put too much pressure on yourself. But
you understand that it's a very serious moment and something
where I think everyone knows a lot of Bacheler's in
the past have made some bigger mistakes. I tried as
much to keep it within those walls and not talk
too much about it because I think it's a private moment.
(06:11):
But also I always tell people like they think about
what happens in fancy suits, but the most important part
of fancy suites is it's your first time you get
uninterrupted time with no cameras like that is so important
to have that time when you get to see someone.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
And that's what I do. On what you do is
you talk to them, right, You talk to him for
a long period of time.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Yeah, beautiful conversation, beautiful every single one of them.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
That's all you do. No, I can't speak on what
I do right because again, like I said, that is
for me and the person that.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
If I compliment your teeth, will you tell me? Yeah,
I appreciate a great tea.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Thank you. The youn brace is their beautiful thing.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
It's crazy, though, previous Bachelor like Bachelor and Bachelorette like
winners of the seasons have said if you combine all
the hours that they spent with the lead before they
got engaged, it was like twenty four hours.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah. I can't really do the math myself self, but
I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I do believe that when you get that alone time
and fancy suites, it might be about the same time
you've been with them for the entire show, Like it's
a very important time and people forget like there's something
serious at the end of the so you have to
talk through things. I always use that time to do
almost like a play by play of the whole experience,
like what did you feel at this moment?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
What did you feel at this moment.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Because you get the time to talk about it, but
it's in little spurts throughout the show, so when you
get that time to actually dive a little deeper, Like
I took advantage of that time because I was taking
this seriously and I wanted to make sure that I
knew everything I need to know about them, talk about
more harsh subjects you maybe don't feel comfortable to talk
about on camera, Like.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
There's a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah, yeah, well give me give me some insight on
your Yeah, that's always a fun conversation.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah, that's my exciting fantasy suits romantic I know the
Bachelor with so everybody keeps talking about the way you
look at the women on the show.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
So what do you do?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Are you smising? Are you squinting?
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Like what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Chin up? Eyes down? Bro?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:06):
I think for me, I used to be really bad
at it when I was growing up as a kid.
I used to I like, got into teaching tennis at
a really young age and was at a country club
and I was always told yeah, so cool, right, But
I mean but I was I was a kid, right,
So like when I was thirteen years old, I'm in
this country club atmosphere and I mumbled, I wasn't good
(08:29):
at holding attention and talking to people. So, like, I
really young figured out how important it was to actually
engage with people. And I don't know if that's affected
how I do things moving forward, but I realized that
I appreciate so much more when someone's actually actively listening,
looking at you, like feels like they're part of the conversation.
So I think it's translated into where I'm at now,
(08:50):
And I love that. People think it's all the gaze
or how I look at them, but I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
I mean, that's happening.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I'm trying. I forgot that, Like, it's weird because I'm
looking at this and then they're here to connect to him.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
So but yeah, I love that people have commed on it.
I think it's a fun part of the season in general.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
But yeah, I'll take it. I'll take people like it.
People are into Joey Gate. Some people are gonna be
bummed if you end up with somebody here.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Hey again, I can't speak on that, right, No, no,
don't don't wait and.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
See, don't speak. We we've been through this before. We
will wait. We will see you know that they we'll
go back and say we knew it.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Tom is almost on the show. She knows the Joe,
she gets exactly.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Bro. Thanks for coming Monday, so you can check it
out ABC and Hulu.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
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