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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This was a what a secret string you said, Tanya.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's called invisible string. It's a Taylor Swift song, and
it's all about like there was like an invisible string
kind of holding you together to this person for your
whole life. You didn't realize it until you met them.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So well, I guess that's part of what happened here
in the second date update. So, dear Ryan in siciny,
I need some answers because this date really felt like fate.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We met him bumble, but we actually were in the same.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
First grade class. Yeah, this is from John in Huntington Beach. Hey, John,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
How are you.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
I'm great? How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I'm doing well? John. This is it's like a sign.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Right, you realize that you guys crossed paths on bumble,
but we're actually kids together in first grade.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Yeah, it I mean in my mind, Yeah, it was
like fate for sure.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Do you remember her from first grade?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Oh? Yeah, I had the biggest crush on her in
first You had.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
A crush in first That's great, I mean didn't we
all Well, don't know if I knew what a crushed was.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
I had a crush in kindergarten. I get I get
it Johns everywhere. Well, John, what do we need to
know about what went wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:14):
So you meet, you go out, you go on a date,
you have history, and you guys are practically from the
same place, and now she wants to blow you off.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well so I mean okay, so yeah, we knew each
other in first grade and then my family ended up
buying a house in like a different part of town, right,
so I changed schools and districts and then never saw
her again and until now, I mean, like it in
my mind, it was like meant to be. So you know,
I was really excited. I took her to this gorgeous
(01:46):
restaurant with a great view, you know, uh, Pelican Grill
in Newport Beach. Yes, yeah, and I thought it went
really great, you know, but like I texted her to
go out again, and I got no response for like
twenty four hours mm hmm. So then you know, I
just kind of sent a question mark and she did
respond but was like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm I'm
(02:08):
super slammed right now. I don't think that'll work, but
thank you. And that was it. Like, no no indication
that you know, like how about this time or another
time or you know, I do want to go tell you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I mean, come on, you didn't get a sense of
anything that went wrong on the date.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
On the date itself, no, like it was it was
almost surreal like we we just kind of were comfortable
and hanging out together and and you know, I really
don't like, I didn't do anything that I that I
think was red flags or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I'm just looking at the Pelican grill on the website.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
M M, nice place. Bro looks like, uh, I love
that lamps on the tables. Those battery powered lamps popular,
the little lamp that sits there with the battery.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
A lot of restaurants have those.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Now, did you find that the tilla soup was any good?
That looks like a highlight to me.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Okay, I didn't have the soup, but I but the
food itself was fantastic.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Nice all right.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Well, what I'm trying to figure out like that seems
like a fun night, like at least a Hey, this
was great, great to connect with you again. Just not gonna,
you know, we should be friends something. It just seems strange.
Something obviously went wrong. John, We're gonna put you on hold,
and John, we're gonna find out at least try and
get her on the phone and talk to her while
you listening to find out what you did wrong or
(03:37):
what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
I should say, okay, that'd be great, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
It's with pleasure. Hold on one second. Do you guys
look at when you look at restaurants? Do you look
at the website photos or do you go to other
people's photos?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Depends. I'll probably start the website, but then I'll go
to Yelp, and then I.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Like going to Instagram and seeing photos that other people
tagged them in.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Okay, we'll do that during the break for Pelican Grill
coming up next, we're gonna try and get Kristin on
the line on air.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
On Air with Ryan.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Seacrest, John is on the phone. John goes on Bumble
and he meets Kristin. They realized that they were in
a first grade class together.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Small world. You would think that's the.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Greatest icebreaker above icebreakers out there. What a great first
date icebreaker. They go out on a first date. They
go out of Newport Pizza for dinner, nice place, you know, lamps,
battery lamps on the table, and then she blows them
off after one day. Can't figure out why John, nothing,
your jogging me memory, can't figure out anything in the
(04:48):
conversation happened.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Did you feel chemistry, bro?
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I felt like we were having some decent conversation, but
more than it was just like reminiscent, you know of.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Like was it natural? Was there a flow?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I think there was a flow. Yeah. I mean I
wouldn't be calling you guys if I thought that, you know,
I truly did anything wrong or did something that that
would offend her or anything, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
No, I got you all right.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Listen John here, I gotta get it before she hangs
up on me. She's on the online. Be very quiet,
let me grab her. Hold on one second, Kristen, how
are you?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Good, Thank you for holding on. Let me explain.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Ryan Seacrest here and Tany and Sistney. You're on Kiss FM,
Los Angeles. Thanks for coming on with us this morning. Okay,
So we're calling you about a guy named John that
you met on Bumble.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Apparently guys went on a date. Yeah, how is the date?
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Fine?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Like fine? Why are you.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Calling me right now?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I'm gonna explain that in a second, but more importantly,
just forgive the intrusion here?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
What was not there for the date for you?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I feel like I need to know what's going on
me too.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
So the reason we're asking is, I believe John is
is stumped. I believe John, you know, went out with
you and thought everything was great and liked to you,
and now there's this, there's this disconnect.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Would that be accurate?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
So he called you to call me.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
So without saying it, yes, he did. He called me
to call you to find out why you're blowing him off.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Okay, okay, because I didn't jump at the opportunity to
go on a date with him, so they called you, guys,
So I.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Don't know, did you not jump at the opportunity? Did
you want to go out with him?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I didn't. Look it just it wasn't a great date
like we went to I mean, we went to a
very nice restaurant and then he just stared at the
water the whole time, like we barely Yeah, he didn't
talk to me, and we hadn't seen each other since
(07:27):
we were six, so we had a lot to talk about,
but he was just silent.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
So there was no real chemistry, chemistry, no, like.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
There was nothing, you know, actually I have. This is
so funny. My friends and I we we always check
up on each other when we go on first dates.
And let me see if I can. I'm just looking.
My friend took a photo. I'm just trying to find
know on my phone. Can I send you guys this photo?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yes, Tanya, what's yourself? You can text it.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
You can text us to four one two seven four one.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would have given her my number, but not on
the air.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Okay, I just sent it to you. So, my friend
Ashley took this photo of us on the date.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Look at it.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Look it just honestly says it all. If you look
at it, like.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Who gets the text mark?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
He's just looking at the waves.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
God, I see it now.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Ah, he's enjoying the view, which it is a tranquil view,
but he's he turned his whole chair.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
He turned his whole chair.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Yeah, it was just weird and all right, Well.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
So there wasn't marked that you guys would you were
in first grade together?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (08:58):
We were.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Now should you just tell him, hey, this is not
You're great to reconnect, but it's not gonna work out.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
I mean, I feel like me not responding to his
text messages, or.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Some would say that makes people just you know, creates anxiety.
So let me create an opportunity for all of this
to sort of wrap itself up. John is on the
line listening, as he did, ask us to call you,
And John, does that seem accurate that you just didn't
have any dialogue on the date and you were taken
(09:36):
aback by the tranquility of the water?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Hi, Kristin, Hello, So look, I was just I was
super nervous, all right. You know, you know I had
a huge crush crush on you in first grade, so
I just I couldn't believe we found each other again.
And I just I felt like I felt like it
was fate, you know, just give me another chance. I'm
(10:02):
telling you, I was nervous.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
That's the other thing, though, this fate thing. You said
that a few times that night.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Cringe. I think it's a little.
Speaker 5 (10:15):
Like I felt like you were saying it's fate and
you wanted to get married. I mean, there's fate, and
then there's just coincidence and it could have been.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
That, and then there's no second date, which it sounds
like it's the best option here.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
I mean, your chair is not even facing her. We're
looking at a.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Fat yeah picture of you on your date, which is weird.
But John, we're gonna just call it. I think Kristen
it would be safe to say that great to reconnect,
but it's not going to work out with John.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Well, let me just let me step in. I'm telling you,
I was just super nervous. I think I think I
could do better if you just give me another shot,
you know, like.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
No, no, that's that's that's sweet. But there was no connection.
And I haven't seen you since I was six years old.
And we're always going to have our memories in the
shadows class.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
But that's it, all right. Well, thank you Kristin for
your transparency or honesty and your time.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
And John, I think we have closure and that's the
best news of all today, and good luck to both
of you.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
I do not want them to go out. Actually again,
I am not. I did not feel comfortable. I didn't
like the fate. Fate, Fate, Fate freaks me out too,
Fate on it and that's wrong with it. You start
throwing words like fate around on a first dates, I
would like it.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
For me, It's not for me.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
I mean first grade, A long time ago, not fate,
it was She's right, they just were not a match.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
I got to know them for one minute. They were
not a match. I got a second update. There you go.
This was a what a secret string you said, Tanya.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
It's called invisible string. It's a Taylor Swift song, and
it's all about like there was like an invisible string
kind of holding you together to this person for your
whole life. You didn't realize it until you met them.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So well, I guess that's part of what happened here
in the second date update. So, dear Ryan in siciny,
I need some answers because this date really felt like fate.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We met him bumble, but we actually were in the same.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
First grade class. Yeah, this is from John in Huntington Beach. Hey, John,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
How are you.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
I'm great? How are you?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I'm doing well? John. This is it's like a sign.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Right, you realize that you guys crossed paths on bumble,
but we're actually kids together in first grade.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Yeah, it I mean in my mind, Yeah, it was
like fate for sure.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Do you remember her from first grade?
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Oh? Yeah, I had the biggest crush on her in
first You had.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
A crush in first That's great, I mean didn't we
all Well, don't know if I knew what a crushed was.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
I had a crush in kindergarten. I get I get
it Johns everywhere. Well, John, what do we need to
know about what went wrong?
Speaker 3 (01:14):
So you meet, you go out, you go on a date,
you have history, and you guys are practically from the
same place, and now she wants to blow you off.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Well so I mean okay, so yeah, we knew each
other in first grade and then my family ended up
buying a house in like a different part of town, right,
so I changed schools and districts and then never saw
her again and until now, I mean, like it in
my mind, it was like meant to be. So you know,
I was really excited. I took her to this gorgeous
(01:46):
restaurant with a great view, you know, uh, Pelican Grill
in Newport Beach. Yes, yeah, and I thought it went
really great, you know, but like I texted her to
go out again, and I got no response for like
twenty four hours mm hmm. So then you know, I
just kind of sent a question mark and she did
respond but was like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm I'm
(02:08):
super slammed right now. I don't think that'll work, but
thank you. And that was it. Like, no no indication
that you know, like how about this time or another
time or you know, I do want to go tell you.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I mean, come on, you didn't get a sense of
anything that went wrong on the date.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
On the date itself, no, like it was it was
almost surreal like we we just kind of were comfortable
and hanging out together and and you know, I really
don't like, I didn't do anything that I that I
think was red flags or anything like that.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I'm just looking at the Pelican grill on the website.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
M M, nice place. Bro looks like, uh, I love
that lamps on the tables. Those battery powered lamps popular,
the little lamp that sits there with the battery.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
A lot of restaurants have those.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Now, did you find that the tilla soup was any good?
That looks like a highlight to me.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Okay, I didn't have the soup, but I but the
food itself was fantastic.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Nice all right.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Well, what I'm trying to figure out like that seems
like a fun night, like at least a Hey, this
was great, great to connect with you again. Just not gonna,
you know, we should be friends something. It just seems strange.
Something obviously went wrong. John, We're gonna put you on hold,
and John, we're gonna find out at least try and
get her on the phone and talk to her while
you listening to find out what you did wrong or
(03:37):
what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
I should say, okay, that'd be great, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
It's with pleasure. Hold on one second. Do you guys
look at when you look at restaurants? Do you look
at the website photos or do you go to other
people's photos?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Depends. I'll probably start the website, but then I'll go
to Yelp, and then I.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Like going to Instagram and seeing photos that other people
tagged them in.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Okay, we'll do that during the break for Pelican Grill
coming up next, we're gonna try and get Kristin on
the line on air.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
On Air with Ryan.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Seacrest, John is on the phone. John goes on Bumble
and he meets Kristin. They realized that they were in
a first grade class together.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Small world. You would think that's the.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Greatest icebreaker above icebreakers out there. What a great first
date icebreaker. They go out on a first date. They
go out of Newport Pizza for dinner, nice place, you know, lamps,
battery lamps on the table, and then she blows them
off after one day. Can't figure out why John, nothing,
your jogging me memory, can't figure out anything in the
(04:48):
conversation happened.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Did you feel chemistry, bro?
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
I felt like we were having some decent conversation, but
more than it was just like reminiscent, you know of.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Like was it natural? Was there a flow?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
I think there was a flow. Yeah. I mean I
wouldn't be calling you guys if I thought that, you know,
I truly did anything wrong or did something that that
would offend her or anything, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
No, I got you all right.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Listen John here, I gotta get it before she hangs
up on me. She's on the online. Be very quiet,
let me grab her. Hold on one second, Kristen, how
are you?
Speaker 5 (05:27):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Good, Thank you for holding on. Let me explain.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Ryan Seacrest here and Tany and Sistney. You're on Kiss FM,
Los Angeles. Thanks for coming on with us this morning. Okay,
So we're calling you about a guy named John that
you met on Bumble.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Apparently guys went on a date. Yeah, how is the date?
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Fine?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Like fine? Why are you.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Calling me right now?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I'm gonna explain that in a second, but more importantly,
just forgive the intrusion here?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
What was not there for the date for you?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I feel like I need to know what's going on
me too.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
So the reason we're asking is, I believe John is
is stumped. I believe John, you know, went out with
you and thought everything was great and liked to you,
and now there's this, there's this disconnect.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Would that be accurate?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
So he called you to call me.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
So without saying it, yes, he did. He called me
to call you to find out why you're blowing him off.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Okay, okay, because I didn't jump at the opportunity to
go on a date with him, so they called you, guys,
So I.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Don't know, did you not jump at the opportunity? Did
you want to go out with him?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I didn't. Look it just it wasn't a great date
like we went to I mean, we went to a
very nice restaurant and then he just stared at the
water the whole time, like we barely Yeah, he didn't
talk to me, and we hadn't seen each other since
(07:27):
we were six, so we had a lot to talk about,
but he was just silent.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
So there was no real chemistry, chemistry, no, like.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
There was nothing, you know, actually I have. This is
so funny. My friends and I we we always check
up on each other when we go on first dates.
And let me see if I can. I'm just looking.
My friend took a photo. I'm just trying to find
know on my phone. Can I send you guys this photo?
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yes, Tanya, what's yourself? You can text it.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
You can text us to four one two seven four one.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I would have given her my number, but not on
the air.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Okay, I just sent it to you. So, my friend
Ashley took this photo of us on the date.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Look at it.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
Look it just honestly says it all. If you look
at it, like.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Who gets the text mark?
Speaker 5 (08:34):
He's just looking at the waves.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
God, I see it now.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
Ah, he's enjoying the view, which it is a tranquil view,
but he's he turned his whole chair.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
He turned his whole chair.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Yeah, it was just weird and all right, Well.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
So there wasn't marked that you guys would you were
in first grade together?
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (08:58):
We were.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Now should you just tell him, hey, this is not
You're great to reconnect, but it's not gonna work out.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
I mean, I feel like me not responding to his
text messages, or.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Some would say that makes people just you know, creates anxiety.
So let me create an opportunity for all of this
to sort of wrap itself up. John is on the
line listening, as he did, ask us to call you,
And John, does that seem accurate that you just didn't
have any dialogue on the date and you were taken
(09:36):
aback by the tranquility of the water?
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Hi, Kristin, Hello, So look, I was just I was
super nervous, all right. You know, you know I had
a huge crush crush on you in first grade, so
I just I couldn't believe we found each other again.
And I just I felt like I felt like it
was fate, you know, just give me another chance. I'm
(10:02):
telling you, I was nervous.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
That's the other thing, though, this fate thing. You said
that a few times that night.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Cringe. I think it's a little.
Speaker 5 (10:15):
Like I felt like you were saying it's fate and
you wanted to get married. I mean, there's fate, and
then there's just coincidence and it could have been.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
That, and then there's no second date, which it sounds
like it's the best option here.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
I mean, your chair is not even facing her. We're
looking at a.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
Fat yeah picture of you on your date, which is weird.
But John, we're gonna just call it. I think Kristen
it would be safe to say that great to reconnect,
but it's not going to work out with John.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Well, let me just let me step in. I'm telling you,
I was just super nervous. I think I think I
could do better if you just give me another shot,
you know, like.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
No, no, that's that's that's sweet. But there was no connection.
And I haven't seen you since I was six years old.
And we're always going to have our memories in the
shadows class.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
But that's it, all right. Well, thank you Kristin for
your transparency or honesty and your time.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
And John, I think we have closure and that's the
best news of all today, and good luck to both
of you.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
I do not want them to go out. Actually again,
I am not. I did not feel comfortable. I didn't
like the fate. Fate, Fate, Fate freaks me out too,
Fate on it and that's wrong with it. You start
throwing words like fate around on a first dates, I
would like it.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
For me, It's not for me.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
I mean first grade, A long time ago, not fate,
it was She's right, they just were not a match.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
I got to know them for one minute. They were
not a match. I got a second update. There you go.
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!