Classic Interview with comedian Mo'Nique

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I congratulation. It's the Breakfast Club ten year anniversary and
years years at a breakfast club on your thing, ding
what you're doing and being honest with you. And they
had a job for ten years. Everything's gout you over there. Wow,
ten years, shout out to the best joining man. Hold on,

(00:22):
hold on, hold on, Damn y'all getting old. Y'all been
holding it down for ten years. Wow. Gjenf angela ye
and Charlottagne's a good man. Y'all being together longer than
some people have been married. I'm proud of y'all the
voice of the culture. Peace, love and uh let's go
to twenty congratulation. I'm telling you, hol yo, this is

(00:48):
your time to get it off your chest, whether you're
mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one oh
five one, we want to hear from you on the
Breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this yo? That's just job from Brooklyn.
What's up, broke? Get it off your chests? Yeah, I'm
blessed black and Holly Favor and I'll tell you right
now for me to get onto this line, it's been
about a year ready because I called about the same

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thing and I'm about to be twenty seven and malls. Okay,
what's up, broke, get you off your chests. Yeah, man,
I'm just saying right now ten years in a radio show.
I mean the radio show. You know what I mean.
It's just so it's a blessing, man. And I'll say
right now, I so luk y'all so much because y'all

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did so much for me t past few months. It
will be battling mental health and all. And I've just
been in a deep dog place and just listening to
y'all envy Ye, Charlomagne, y'all help so much for me.
And I can't think y'all so much. Man. Well, I mean,
if you listen to y'all every single day, I want

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you to get out that deep dark place. So I'm
glad that you're out of it. What helped you get
out of it? With you? Some therapy? What you do? Yeah,
I've seen some therapy, know, And you know I also
meditate as well. Abe what you do or sometimes she's
like you go to like your your own person tree
and all right, and you just meditate and you just
get like a lot of things out of your way
and just be so like to you like to yourself

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and just get these demons out of you. And I
woke on a bowl walk because I'm three builders up
this bowl walk and I just walked. I cleared my mind,
and I'm just happy that I'm just in the right
place for being for my sons and for my wife.
I'm glad to hear that my brother I got the
right people got there. You're gonna get one more thing
out the way. Um for like one of your best

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moments of the Breakfast Clubs. I've been listening to listen
to y'all so long. If I had the two one
of the best moments, it's hard to say. It's what
the Floyd. Maybe with the reading when Charlote made we're
not gonna go to hang up on him, I didn't go.
That's one of those moments that I look back on
and I cringe, like I ain't had to do that
to Floyd Mayweather, you know what I mean, regardless of

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how people feel about Floyd, because you know, after that happened,
it was a lot of people trying to justify to
me why it was fine, you know what I mean.
But no, just because you know you don't like a
person doesn't mean that it was the correct thing that
that wasn't right now. I didn't like that. Hello, who's
this yo? This is shell man. I called it a
long time ago. I told charlom Man, you don't like

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the Tushi side and all that because the toes and
all that. But I don't like my villain of Russian
But y'all from I'm originally from Hollom And I moved
down to North Carolina like a year and a half ago.
You know, I got a little store funk with my girl.
We've selling you furniture and appliances, so like to do that.
That's from around the way. We him that come help

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us move things like move on beds or washing machines.
That we called him a camera. He broken top spot,
broke the glass with a big ass brick. A couple
of days ago, somebody stole the trailer that we used
to do deliveries right from in front of the house.
That sucks, yo, This like this real out here man,
like in police. We called police. We got everything all

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camera and police ain't doing nothing. Mecklenburg County police is
not doing anything they ain't to do. They're still walking
out outside like the police one. They don't care about us. Man,
we young black. They just trying to clean up, clean
up the areas. I don't know. I'm sorry, y'all. That's
what this segment is for. It is called get it

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off your chests. You get the vent? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
being and God bless y'all. No respect to your anniversary
and all that, but a man, I'm still working. I'm
going to work right now, do the supply sprinklers. I
use my money to go buy things so we can
sell in the store. I don't even use my money
for nothing else. Like dude bobbing us like, did you
get any p PP? No, man, we young, we black,

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we we ain't. Ain't making no money over there. Damn.
I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry for that, brother, But
that's the game. No, that's that's the game. You know
what I'm saying. You're gonna have setbacks. It's gonna be
your obstacles, it's gonna be hurdles, but you gotta keep
it moving. Yeah, yes, definitely. Ain't got no choice, man,
we can. I ain't going back to back to where
I came from. I know that exactly. And you know

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damn well that back in the day, if you was
in the streets and you took a loss. Ain't nothing
you could do but take that out and keep it moving.
So you gotta treat the corporate world the same way. Absolutely,
get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five,
one oh five one. If you need to vent, hit
us up now. It's the breakfast club. Good morning. This
is your time to get it off your chest. Whether
you're man from you on the breakfast club. But you

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got something on your mind. Hello, who's this? Nick? What up? Man?
Getting in your chest? Nick? On it? You like rain
there in here? Help on the shelf, solo man, car?
What's up? Man? Okay? What part akin? What's happening? Aging much? Man?

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I'm standing up here in Columbia. I'm sorry, I'm standing
up here in Les. Take the tucky right nine? Okay, yeah,
I was. I was trying to get some advice, man,
because like I'm I've been standing up here since I
came home from prison. I was locked up for selling drugs.
But I wanted to change my life around, but I stayed.

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I came up here. The person that I came up
here with a family, but me and the person I'm
talking on more so, it's like I want to go
back home, but at stop, Caline ain't the place to be, like,
especially trying to get a good job like anyway. But
it's also hard from me up here because I ain't
got no financial support or nobody to help me out

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of no kind of for it. Well, it sounds to
me like you know, you already know you needed a
change of environment. So if you know, if you know,
you don't need to be an ach and you can
scratch that off the list. That's not that's not a
that's that's not a thing, right, Yeah, sure, so you
just gotta stay where you had and figure it out,
make it work. What is it? What is it that
you want to do? Like I've been, I've been working
since I've been up here. I'm working for the Shimp

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service right now, but I could get him. I'm gonna
be hired doing soon. But uh it's hard because like
I had rot y'all back a little while ago because
all right, my Winsfield and got broke. Uh it's like
other things that I've been helping to, you know, with
doing during this pandemic that's going on. But it's like

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I said, in this hard not having nobody there in
your formal for you. Well, listen, you're gonna be fine,
my brother. That just takes patience, all right, Yes, sir,
pushing brother, keep pushing, all right. Thank y'all, y'all. Good
day you too. Hello? Who's this? What's help y'all? This
is James Minnianapolis. What up? James? Get it up your chests? Brothers.
First of all, I want to congratulate y'all for teen

(07:35):
years man, a good content man, righteous and ratch. Thank
you Keny brothers. And I want to share my favorite
breast club moment. What's that? Other than the birdman situation?
The Beanie single situation was funny too, man. Why y'all
like to see people trying to traumatize me? I thought
that was pretty hilarious myself. It was cool, man, It

(07:58):
was cool. Charlomad buckle. He didn't buckle. I never buckle.
He showed didn't. You're right, he didn't. He stood his ground?
What is buckling? And yeah, thanks guys, man. I appreciate
y'all and my birthdays this weekend too. Oh man, enjoy
it man. I mean you can't where you're from. You
can't go anywhere right? Oh? No, man? Not in Indiana? Yeah,

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I wouldn't want to date you. Your birthday too close
to Christmas and you got a penis, but you know
that's the whole day because you're married. No, get that too, Yeah,
that that too married. You got people you know my type.
But until earlier more than they said, no, whoa day? Great? God?
Why do people gotta stress that? Don't right? Hello? Who's that? Hey?

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Institution from Texas? How y'all doing from Texas? We're part
of Texas, Dallas, Texas. So I have to listen on
the apps and I don't mind that at all with him.
Bumb ass cowboys are from I love Dallas. You know
I love my cowboys. Don't listen to NVA. Okay, So now,
since congratulations, I'm two years thank you. Now, since you

(09:06):
are an executive of my heart, I gotta hear you say, Lord,
have mercy. There's something about the way you say that,
darlay that drives me and saying I love it, and
I laugh every time. Boy Lord have mercy. I can't
believe you'd like to hear me say Lord, look at
with that man. That man married mamma. No, no, no,
oh no, I'm not learning with him. And I love

(09:28):
it when you say, I'm calling HR. I'm calling Hry.
You guys drives me in faith. And since you guys
don't be back until twenty twenty one, I needed to
hear I'm calling hr at Lord him mercy. Well. The
beauty of it is that we run a lot of
We run best of shows until January the fifth, so
you know, it gives people an opportunity to catch up

(09:50):
on Breakfast Club content they may have missed. Yeah, and
I love it. I'm still gonna listen. May had more
time for me, Lord him, Lord have mercy. Why are
you stressing me out? Early this morning? Got me repeating
that over and over the yeah for good morning, love
you too. Breakfast Club is back, back, back back with

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our best stuff interviews this morning. Everybody is DJ Envy
and Tela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
We got a special guest on the line right now.
His album is out right now. Yes, sir t Yo,
welcome some what's going on through Tip? I think you
haven't done it again? Man I with the Leeber album
heavy Man and and right now my favorite record on

(10:33):
the album's family Connect with with You and the Money.
I gotta say man, I was shot in surprise, and
I mean in the most pleasant ways. Man, I think
that that that's the song that you know what I
can undert say, that's a song I don't think hip
hop has ever seen before. I was thinking about that
when I was listening to it, I was like, has
there ever been a father's son rap duo? Well that

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both of them actually don't. We'll did it at one time,
didn't Will and Ja? Yeah, Will did it with Jay.
But what we also must take into consideration is my
other son actually produced actor. I didn't know that it
was a real family and fail that one. Yeah. Yeah,
did you have to pay them to did you have

(11:17):
to pay them to your Yeah? I paid them, I paid.
I paid. I would be mad if you didn't, I know.
I mean, you know nepotism, you know he did together?
Or did you send your verse over and then DEMONI
had to send his verse back? How did that work? No? Man?
You know the way actually happy broum the money. And

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I was sitting with Messiah is Messiah was like, yo,
let me let me let y'all hear something. So he
was just going through beach kind of like you know,
at the while, it probably was a time where I
had been been I'd been going away like out of
town for a second, and I came back and then
you know what I'm saying, kind of we sat down
at the studio and Messia you know, wanted basically as

(12:01):
the money and that kind of like let I hit this,
check this out for me, and were listening to his beats.
He kind of like, We're like, yeah, that's dope. That's dope, okay,
the money of yea, like, man, I won't that one,
And I said, man, I won't that one and one
of the records that I chose, And then I coincidentally
had to dip up out the studio to go do something.
And when I think by the time I came back,

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the money had and I already recorded the verse. I
was like trying to take this record from me. And
when I heard him do his verse when I came back,
I figured I didn't put my verse on here now,
so you know, ain't no confusion back who's gonna haead
his record? And so I got I got on it,

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and it was dope. Y'all had such a dope back
and forth door and It's like I'm sitting there thinking
on the song he's rapping about how you know you
all his daddy, but you don't want to you know,
you don't want your help. So I'm like, damn, what
was the process of this record then? Because it sounds
like y'all was coach you was coaching him on the
nah Bro like he did he did his verse by himself.
I did my verse by my every verse like we

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were never in the studio with one another while he
was recording that verses? Do you ever think you was
gonna be a professor? I see you're teaching at Clark
Atlanta University. Did you ever see that as everything that
you went through, I'm gonna be a professor that I'm
gonna be a teacher now? But I was a teacher
person in prison. I taught class and prison. Did you
you know what I'm saying? Yeah? Class? Did you teach

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a prisoner? What was it thinking that side the box?
I believe it would call a man? It was about
how do you I was. I was showing people how
to use the skills that they've already acquired on the streets,
how to use those skills and identify those skills and
purpose them for legitimate means. When they got back out

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on the students and they have the most something about
about the whole correctional system. Right, they don't take these
skills set that these brothers clearly have and help to
you to help to help them to direct think energy.
It's something positive right. Well, first of all, I mean
I think because that's the system is set up a
free label. It ain't really about rehabilitation. Now what are
you teaching in this class at the Clockland University? Is

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it the music industry is a business? Is an entrepreneurship? Yes, yes, yes,
all the hood. If they need to know that, we
could talk about it. But however, I think, nah, man,
it's the business of trap music. That's the course and
and basically we go over the business of trap music.
But the first course was about targeting the need for

(14:32):
the business of trap music. Any business is supplying demand,
profit and laws, right, But in order to supply or demand,
you got to you gotta recognize the need for the
demand of you know, like, why is this so important
in the first place? Do you think people forgot how
influential you were the trap music because you diversified your

(14:54):
portfolio so much. Yeah? Absolutely, I think the same thing
for hip hop that won't know do these lists. I
don't ever put myself on the list because it's so
many other people who dedicated their lives. The only jests
rapp to just do rep you know what I mean.
And I think that's that's kind of why they get
the consideration first. And I ain't got no problem with that.

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But but just no, any given moment, any given time,
I'm gonna remind you why, why why I am who
I am, and remind you that I do what I do.
All Right, we got more with TA when we come back.
It's the Breakfast Club. Come on now, we're kicking in
with Ti Charlomagne. Well, I saw you and I saw
you and Gez talking on the Expeditiously podcast and you

(15:37):
know you this is you both mentioned that Well, you
mentioned that you would love to sit down and have
a conversation with Gucci. Did anything come from and say,
I would love to, but I love to see the
people people assolated. You know, trap music would benefit greatly friendly,
you know what I'm saying. And once you and I
just as a marketing executive, I would say, once you

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so as many tickets as you can to the fight.
The only thing left to sell is tickets to the reunion,
you know, So did anything from that now? I mean
like it it was just conversation though it was never
like a plan, just conversation because I know that's what

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people a lot of people who follow the trap music
and who are inspired by the culture, who followed the culture,
you know what I mean, they recognize us as the architecture.
You tapped in with all the younging for this project too.
You got a Little Baby and Thug and forty two Doug.
You got wrapped to the on the interlude Tokyo Jet.
Was that intentional? A little Baby record hard too? Yeah?

(16:41):
I appreciate that, man. Yeah, I mean some of it
was and some of it wasn't. So the part were
you talking about like, you know, thugod and a Little
Baby and forty two Dug, you know, and minds. Yes,
that was intentional rhapsody. We just stumbled on that. I
reached out to him, just gave a cold call one day, like, hey,

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people to do spoken words about me? What would it
sound like? What would you say? So then she asked
me a few questions about the title of the album,
and she asked me, you know, to his souls I
sell a couple of sauls and overnight she did what
she heard. Wow, you know, and then as I heard her,
that's when I was like, you know what, I'm gonna
get old women to do this. You know what I mean.

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You got on there too doing a conclusion. That was
the huge, That was the biggest, That was the biggest
shop in surprise of my life. I never expected Asia
to do this, really and I was blown away. That
gotta be a proud papping moment. Just I mean, for real, bro,
Like for one, okay, Sodjia and I have you know, uh,

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for most of her life. I cannot say this, and
I'm very careful with my words, especially when speak about Daja. Okay,
so yeah, when she came into that point in her
life where, you know, kind of the transition favors in
your life, when that thing that girls do every month happens,

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when we get our pre I ain't see. I wasn't
gonna say that you did what I'm saying. I wasn't
gonna say that. But when you like, so when Dasia
made it to that point, I like, from that point forward,
we kind of hand spoken as much I ain't had
we didn't have as much of inability to, you know,
to speak freely to one another for whatever reason. And

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you know, over the past year we gained we gotten close,
and this is kind of like a testament of that,
you know what I'm saying, And especially with all of
the stuff that we go through over the past year. Um,
you know, with hyming gates, and every relationship would be tested.

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I don't care who was with your relationship with your mom,
relationship with your girl, with your wife, with you whoever,
every relationship, it would be tested. And and that test
is going to strengthen it or weaken it. And I
think the thing that that she and I went through
last year, that was our test you did, and we
took this serious steals, you know, and we got through it.

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She and now all we remained connected, you know what
I mean. She and now always had to understand it.
You know, we were speaking, We would you know, share
share our opinions with each other about what was going
on like in the media as it pertained that uh
and you know, She I were telling the man it
ain't it ain't not our job and really talk to
nobody and tell them what we feel about anything that

(19:44):
ain't not a job that when they think that, they'll
think it. So what you know? I was like, yeah,
all right, man, cool and to y'all, we appreciate you
for checking in the albums out right. Now it's the
Breakfast sir, it's topic time. The phone called eight hundred

(20:06):
five eight five one oh five. Want to join it
to the discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it morning.
Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We
are the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us,
we are talking about Eva. She was on Wendy Williams
shown she talked about her child and changing her child's
last name. Let's hear it. Sling changed her name this

(20:28):
past year. It was we went through a lot to
do it, but how much more before the actual process
is done? Well, the name change is illegal, so now
we have to go through the adoption process. And I
mean he's making a little bit easier for us acting
crazy in the public. Well, I guess Life Jennings seen
that and he didn't like that too much? Are you?
He said, I think this is so wack changing your

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daughter's last name from her father's to somebody else's, especially
when the father tries to see her. The daughter don't
have anything to do with their beef, and what kind
of man allows that ish piss meet off? So we're
asking eight hundred five five one oh five one is
it acceptable to change your child's last name? What do
you think, charl I mean, I got to know the
context of the situation. You know what I'm saying. If
you're doing it just out of spite, just because you

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don't like your baby daddy because he don't want to
be with you and you got a new man, now
that's whack. But I mean about if you got a
deadbeat daddy. What about it's a deadbeat daddy, the dad
is not around, the dad is not taking care of
the child. I have no problem with that whatsoever. By
the way, then the son of the daughter shouldn't want
to wear the name of a deadbeat. Yeah, I don't.
I don't know either situation. But you know, with with

(21:31):
with Kevin McCall, I mean, we all know Kevin McCall
has problems mentally, but it does seem like he is
trying to take care of his daughter. Seemed like he
goes to call I just don't know, Like I don't
know if he's abusive. I don't know, you know what
I mean. But in a situation if there is a
deadbeat dad, and I'm taking it away from that situation,
if the dad is not in the child's life and
he's not even helping no way whatsoever, no, I say,

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changed that name immediately. What do you think? Well? And
I just want to point out that we did have
this couple on from family or fiance and Jane Leshonda
and they had a similar situation. Listen to this now.
Another big issue is your children. So Leshanda, you have kids, Dre,
you don't have kids, but those are your daughters now.
And you guys are talking adoption, right, but without the

(22:12):
biological father's consent. From what I gathered from watching the episode,
the showmates to look like it's a concern to do
it without consent. My kid's father haven't been around in
four years. He was gone before Dre got here. So
that's where the adoption thing comes in. It's not like
we're trying to replace somebody. He's not an active father. Financially,
his presence isn't there. So she's changing her daughter's last
names too because the father is not in the children's life.

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And the daughters actually want to change their last name
to her husband's name. He's the one that's taking care
of them and doing everything. And legally, if a woman
wants to change her children's last names, she either had
to get consent from the biological father, and he who
doesn't give consent, he can object to it, and then
she has to get a petition and then go to court,
and he can show up to court and say he

(22:54):
doesn't want that to happen, and then the judge has
to decide. So that's how it goes down legally. But
I do feel like, whoever is the father, If the
mother chooses to do that, and the father is causing
issues or he's not in the child's life or not
holding up his responsibilities, and he's not really your dad,
and the last name is Immiman, you definitely want to
change that. You don't want to walk around with dad
last name getting this gracious Hello, who's this? Hey? This

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is Karina from Jersey City. Hey, Karna from Jersey City.
Is it acceptable to change your child's last name? I
don't think it is, because at the end of the day,
that's that father's child. You get what I'm saying, Like,
a sepfather could come in and raise the kid, and
that's a fine, but it doesn't take away the fact
that that's the father's child. You got what I'm saying.
It's a legacy that kind of goes on. It's a

(23:39):
blood line. You know, you can always acknowledge a stepfather
for always doing the good and you know, give them
praise with the kid, but you can't take away the
main dad's last name. Okay, Hello, who's this Sheila from Jersey? Hey, mama,
Jersey's on a check in heavy. So what do you
think is it acceptable to change your child's last name? No?
I don't know with that. Okay, go ahead. I don't

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agree with that because no matter how much you don't
like your kid's dad, or no matter how crazy he
might ask, or no matter what he does, changes my
last name, it's not going to change the DNA. It's
not going to change who the father is. So you
have to get over that. And on top of that,
like you're you're salsifying an image of somebody that's not true,
Like that's not her dad. And if one day it
doesn't work out between you two, now he legally is

(24:25):
her dad and that's not really her dad, you know
what I mean, Like, it's just well, it's petty. It
doesn't make another other person your dad. They would have
to actually adopt the children, so that the kids aren't
adopted even if you're married, right then that's what I'm
talking about, Like the image that you're portraying to your children. Now,
what if your kids are like, I want to have
the same last name as you and my dad, you know,

(24:46):
the stepfather. Well, I mean that's a choice that they
have to make, and the two parents should come to
a you know, to a middle ground with that would
be their choice. But if they're not old enough to
make those type of decisions, just saying that, because whatever
the situation is, you know, like some kids they grow
up and they're told this is their death, this is
their dad, and that's what they think, you know, Like,

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so what if the biological father is absent from the
children's life. Um, I mean me personally, I don't agree
in that. My father was not was not in my
life either, and my mother still maintained our last name
as his. I mean, I guess I would be up
to the child when they grow up to decide if
they want to do that or not. I just wouldn't

(25:30):
do that. Hello, who's this just to spoom from Dayton, Ohio? Hey,
is it acceptable to change your child's last name? Um?
I think it just really depends on the circumstances. Okay.
And the reason why I say that is, you know,
my daughter, her father is not in her life. It's
never been in her life, which is fine, but she

(25:54):
still has his last name. And UM, I don't call
her like that about her dad. You know, she can
find out on her own, just like my mom told
me about my dad. But I don't think a name
defines a person. Now, if you have, you know, someone
new in your life and they you want to spend

(26:15):
the rest of their life with you, and you know,
you know, you and your kids are a packaged deal.
And if that dad is not, you know, in that
child's life, I don't see a problem with it being.
But you know, then you got these little baby moms,
you know, you got these you know, baby moms that
you know couldn't change the man's life with a child,

(26:36):
and um, you know, being used as a tactic to attack, right,
you know. So, Um, you know, a baby is not
a pond, you know, So whatever that child's name is
leave that baby alone. So you know, that's how I
think it is. Also like, as we always talk about

(26:56):
women taking the husband's name after marriage, I think for kids,
if you live in a house with the mom and
the stepfather and that's who you know is your dad
and you call him dad, you might want to have
the same last name. Hello, who's this? I didn't want
to make ane of the Lando, Florida good b. Is
it acceptable to change your child's last name? Brother? No? No, brother,

(27:17):
I don't think it is. Man. I wanted to share exchange.
I'm glad you got picked up. I actually had an
actual wife who tried to do that for me, and
I would like to use your good man If that's
okay with you all, that's the first name please, Okay, Okay,
I don't South Carolina. I already know you got you
a nice country as Yeah. Yeah, try to do that
to your boy. And I think that's painful and disrespectful

(27:39):
to a man. I don't think another might show anything
like that. Are you in your child's life? Are you
in your child's life? All right, my child life. I
love my kids very much. I'm a virgo and v or.
You know how we do love our kids, okay, to
take care of home. So what happened is she trying
to do it legally and then you blocked it. She
talked about trying to do it, and then she got
a lawyer to trying to do it, and you know,

(28:00):
kind of paid at their money out there. You know,
they dropped the whole thaing, Okay, all right, well, thank
you brother. So what's the more of the story, guys?
The morrow of the story is that every case is different, though,
and there's no one size fits all when it comes
to family. So I think whatever decision you make, it
always has to be in the best interests of your
children and not in your own selfish best interests. The
more of the story is, y'all better stop picking who

(28:23):
y'all mate with, like y'all rolling dice in the back
of a moving God damn pick up Trump. Okay, that's
y'all better stop doing all right, take care of your
kids exactly when you lay down with these When you
lay down with people, man, do you know think about
spending the rest of your life with this president because
you never know, this person might give you a disease
you can't get rid of. This person might give you
a baby, or better yet, you might grow to love
this person and be married to him the rest of

(28:43):
your life. Either way, that's all forever. Just pick the
right father when you're dealing with these people. Okay, with
our best stuff in more than everybody is DJ Envy,
Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club now,
you guys all, No, Monique stopped by the Breakfast Club
yesterday and we're getting it on today. So we're gonna

(29:03):
play that for you special guests to build it. Miss Monique.
Good morning, good morning morning, good morning morning. When Monique
walked in, I gave a hug. I wanted her to
know it's all love. Yes, he did my life. We
just here to have a conversation. That's all we're doing. Now,
what's going on today, Miss Mornique. A while ago, I
had to come out and I spoke in reference to

(29:24):
Netflix that we had to boy you know, I was
asking folks to stand with us as we boycott Netflix
for gender bias and color buy it correct, and we
were fighting for equality. And then I found out that
I had become Donkey of the day yes by Leonard,
and I gotta call you by your name, baby. Okay, okay, baby,
he's getting real special lenar, but we're gonna ok And

(29:48):
then I was called donkey of the day. And it
really caught me off guard because when I met this
brother some years ago, and I met a young man
that was full of humility and respect. And when I
got on an elevator, he actually held the door. I
remember like it was yesterday, and I said, oh, baby,
thank you, and he was just like that, yes, ma'am,

(30:10):
and Miss Monique, is a pleasure to meet you. And
we had a very beautiful exchange. And I said to
that brother, tell your mama that she raised you right,
and I said it was my mama and my grandma, yes, ma'am.
So I felt like this was as still as a
beautiful young brother making this way, but full of humility
and respect. Two we fast forward and I become dunkey

(30:34):
of the day. So I didn't want to have to
be here say. I didn't want to have anybody exchange
words that I may have said to him. So my
husband and I wanted to come on so we could
understand how I got titled donkey of the day. Why
did you give a donkey to day? Well, I think
it was due to the whole Netflix situation. You know,
when I heard you say that you know you wanted

(30:55):
us to boycott because of racial and gender bias, but
then you went on to mentioned two brothers and a woman,
So I said, maybe she should be more specific and
say black woman gender biased. But then, also just from
a business aspect, I wanted to know why did you
feel like, you know, you should have gotten whatever Chris
Rock got, whatever Day Chappelle got, or whatever Amy Schulman got,
because I feel like this is a what are you

(31:17):
doing for me right now? Type of a She didn
say what they got, she said she should have got
more than she was offered. And then Charlomagne you brought
up an old Netflix special as well, but that was
later on. But my point was like, this is a
what are you doing for me right now? Kind of interscure.
We all know Monique as a legend, but we also
know that those things, those deals that Netflix had given
out are based off recent stand up shows, recent shows,

(31:39):
recent concert recent arena's, recent tours like that. But I
just wanted to know why you felt like you deserved
that much. Daddy, would you like to start or would
you like for me, it didn't start with the offer
where the color bias and the disrespect transpired. It started
from when we had our initial conversation after Monique got
her reviews from the nights in which Benjamin and Caitlin,

(32:02):
who are representatives for Netflix, came out to see Monique
and which on two different nights they saw her get
a standing ovation, which subsequently gave them reviews of amazing
and great show. So when we're in the midst of
having the conversation prior to them giving the offer, we're

(32:23):
in the midst and he says, well, I want to
make it very clear that, you know, people speak about
Dave Chappelle, Amy Schumann, what they got. I want to
just make it clear, you know, so we can manage
expectations that everybody doesn't get those type of deal. Well,
when we're in the midst of that conversation, the phone disconnects.
We never reconvened, he never gets us back on, and

(32:44):
our attorney looks, calls me up and we speak and
we're like, well, that was strange. Are we're going to
get back on the phone or not. Because anybody who
does business knows that this is a key time in
whish to build the value of your client. Then we
came back with an offer that they allegedly had sent
over that our attorney and I had never received, and

(33:06):
then on that it was a certain time limit in
which we were supposed to respond what we had passed
the time limit because we never received it. When our
attorney had asked them to please resend the offer that
they had allegedly sent, it was clear that it had
never been sent in the first place. That's the second
red flag. When we get on the phone to discuss

(33:26):
the offer that they had then finally sent over. Initially
they didn't want to have the conversation until I expressed
to them it is very ironic that the call we
had was disconnected. We never reconvened. You became evasive, You
can't get on the phone. Now I have to express
what it's feeling like, which is gender biased, color biased.

(33:48):
And there's also an age issue that we didn't discuss
that's in there as well. So those three things are
what led to it. In conjunction with the fact that
the very items that he said did not translate for Monique,
which were her resume what she's done in terms of movies.
It didn't translate, but he said those were the things
that translated for Amy Schumer. So why is Amy resume

(34:11):
work and Monique does not? And they could not explain it. Well,
if he's just joining us, that's Sydney, that's Monique's managing husband,
if he just joining us, so you know the voices. Well,
for I don't think Amy Schuman is funny. That's number one.
But she did sell out fifty arenas around the world
and including MSG and HBO wanted her as well, so
she created a bidding war based on those stats. So
I assume that's the reason her number was at that place. Well,

(34:33):
I want to address something because you said I assume,
and then you also said Monique is a legend. That's
what you said, absolutely, right, And then when Robbie Prole
and Netflix also says Monique is a legend, correct, absolutely.
And you believe that Chris Rock is a legend as
I do as well, Yes, and you would say Dave

(34:54):
Chappelle is a legend, right, absolutely. What makes me a
different legend from Dave Chappelle and Chris Rock, Well, when
it comes to those that Netflix, specially, the fact that
Dave Feld did fifteen hundred Shoals. Prior to signing his
Netflix deal, Chris Rock was on tour with the Total
Blackout Tour, selling our shows arenas around the world before
they did it, and they learned him away from HBO.

(35:14):
I understand what y'all are coming to the table with.
When I came to the table and I said, guys,
and I said it humbly, I'm gonnat decorate a comedian
a line. And I said that humbly. And then people,
some people said, oh, Monique is crazy till it was proven,
till everybody actually saw the numbers and said, well, I
guess she's right about that. And when you say this

(35:37):
is they what have you done for me lately? The
question is how much more do I have to do? Brother?
Because when you do a film called Almost Christmas, and
that film has a seventeen million dollar budget, but it
makes forty five million dollars. And then my sister Amy
Schuman does a film called Snatched, and that film makes

(35:58):
forty five million dollars, but it has a budget of
forty two million dollars. Now what's the profit on that?
I'm asking the question. You have made a lot more
profit than Amy. It was actually twenty five million dollar profit.
But that movie Amy did her Netflix deal before Snatched, No,
he said. Robbie Paul said that was what made him

(36:20):
also give it a deal because of the big movie
that she had coming out, right, and that's where we
had to check, well, yeah, coming out that was so.
But she did the Netflix deal before that movie came out. Well,
we actually talked to the vice president of Netflix, Leonard Leonard,
and what happens is when you're basing off of what
you're assuming and then you give me a title of
Donkey of the Day. Is your mother still alive? Yes? Man?

(36:43):
And you're from what city in South Carolina? South Carolina?
Monks Corner? And if I was to call your mother
or your grandmother, could they tell me stories of inequality
that they had to deal with? Absolutely? So, would your
mother be a donkey? No? Would your grandmother be a donkey? No?
I need you to explain how you gave me the title,
because you're not explaining it. You're going off of what

(37:03):
I assume. But because you're on that microphone, and when
we open up these microphones, we know just how powerful
our voices can be, don't we, Angela, Yes, we do,
and we know that what we say can become law,
correct Lanard, absolutely, So when we do that, we must
then explain it to our community because we know how
poisonous it can be when we put things out, but

(37:26):
we can't back it up. We just say it. We
have more with Monique when we come back, we got
to talk more Netflix or negotiations, and it gets more
awkward with her and Charlomagne. So keep a lot. This
the breakfast club of Morning Mording. Everybody is dj N
v Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the breakfast club.
Monique is here, Charlomagne. I think everything you're saying about
racial biases absolutely correct. Gender bias is absolutely correct. We

(37:49):
know that the black woman is unappreciated and undervalued and
a lot of different industries. But I think that when
it comes to this Netflix situation, it's very specific. I
think it's more of an individual thing than it is
a collective problem. Like can you can you can you can?
You honestly ask you is this? Can you say? If
it's an individual problem, how come that there are no

(38:11):
individuals of color who happen to be female comedians that
have had the multiple million dollar pay days with Netflix?
Because what happens with the black community, it's what have
you done lately? But when you are a white person
in this industry, it's you're only as good as your
last project. I thought it was drawing the amount of

(38:33):
people that will watch special. Do you think it's specific
to comedians, because I do know they've given out multimillion
dollar deals to Eva, Dubna, Shanda Rhymes. So you think
it's specific to the comedy industry, Well, I'll let you
answer it. What black female comedians got the multi million
dollars deal? But don't you think it's coming. I'm sure,
I'm sure. I'm sure Tiffany Hattris will be presented with

(38:53):
something if she hasn't already. Well, but we got to
speak about the sisters. That's done it. See when Wanda
Sykes is umber one hundred on Comedy Central's Top Comedians Ever,
number seventy, I'm sorry, daddy, number seventy on the top
one hundred ever. But they offered her two fifty. So
what do you say to that? Oh, you know, I
actually asked about that. I spoke to somebody on Netflix

(39:15):
and they offered that deal to want the Sykes before
this guy that does these stand up deals even got
in the position they offered this deal to her some
years ago. Does it seem strange that you always have
an answer when I'll finish, line keeps getting moved when
I say, name me one black female comedian that's got
the million dollar payday, I'm waiting to hear the answer, right,
So you think it's specific to comedians because I don't.

(39:37):
I don't know on Netflix any whatever that. But I
can't say and history name her? Well, I would ask
what what what black female comedian has sold out fifty
arenas around the world? Stairs four beautiful black female comedians
that we just got a Legends award. Her name is Samore,
her name is, her name is miss Lore, her name

(39:58):
is Monique. And when the Queens of he was on tour, see,
we made history. And I don't know if you've done
your homework, because we were the only female group, black
white Latin Asian to sell out consecutively around this country.
But you'll disregard that because you'll say, well, what did
you do yesterday? So you can't take it away. But
if I'm doing business and I'm basing it off doing

(40:19):
a deal with somebody who did this last year, as
opposed to doing it fifteen years ago, at twenty years ago,
whenever it was, wouldn't it make more sense to do
with the person who did it just a couple of
years ago. If you're doing business and you say, what's
Monique's resume? Now you're the businessman and you're looking at
that resume and everything on that resume says number one.
Everything one that resume says sell out. Now all of

(40:42):
a sudden, is it going to change? Businessman? Yeah, I
would say if I had to sign Kobe Bryant today,
I'm not gonna give Kobe Bryan one hundred million dollars Country. Well,
you're right, but his resume is amazing. The difference between
Kobe Bryant today and Monique today is when you're thirty
six in the game basketball, you don't lost your step.

(41:02):
When you are fifty years old in the game of comedy,
your season and if she had to come, if they
had to come to Netflix to your point, because you
make a very good point, and Monique had a stumble
like a forty year old or a thirty eight year
old Kobe Bryant who's got a rupture to chilles heel
that you got to bounce back from then it would

(41:23):
make sense, but it's you dropped fifty and still was
dropping buckets. What would you say because they watched two
standing ovations and two sold out clubs? You're absolutely right,
Brothers City. Let me ask you this, why not put
together a theater, our arena tour and sell that out
and then come back to the table a table But
it doesn't have to go to see My whole thing

(41:43):
is is that's something else we were talking about the
money offered, and my whole thing is as a businessman,
being a legend and all that doesn't necessarily matter. It's
what's what's who do people? I want to see? You
could be a legend and people love you, but if
you can't attract the people but to come to the
place to see you, or to come to Netflix to
watch you, it doesn't. It would be the question almost Christmas,

(42:10):
would you say that was a hit movie? Definitely a hint.
Would you say Bessie was a hit? Yes? Would you
say Prescious was a hit? Absolutely? So the question is,
so Monique, you didn't do nothing in twenty seventeen that
was on TV that we could see, So that means
you're irrelevant. I don't think anything. What happens is when
someone said to me, Monique, does it become disheartening when

(42:32):
it's your folks, it's understandable. I don't take offense. It's
understandable and not explain why when I have to sit
here and not defend, but explain to people that look
like me, Well, when did I become irrelevant? If that
was a movie I'll call almost Christmas? What in twenty sixteen.
It's just twenty eighteen, So now all of a sudden, Oh,

(42:54):
we don't know if people are gonna show up and
show out. Now. When I did a show called the
Bernie and Sid Show, I'll show you know those brothers,
two white brothers. And when I walked in there, Lenard,
I walked in with a preconceiving notion that I was
gonna have to defend myself because one is a strong
Trump supporter and the other is a Democrat. But I'm
thinking I'm gonna have to walk in and defend myself

(43:15):
with these white brothers. After five minutes of us talking,
they shut their showdown and they said, Monique, we're gonna
call this what this is. This is nothing but racism,
and we can't sit back and allow it and watch
it happen. So no, we're gonna tell our listeners two
boycott Netflix until they get it right, because you are
a legend and we have to honor and respect you.

(43:37):
And now those are my white brothers. Then I come
to my folks and I have to be donkey of
the day, which you still haven't explained, Leonard, and you're
gonna have to because when you make those type of
statements about your sister to our community, what you're saying
to the community is as black women, you're devalued. And
if you stand up and you make a stand and

(43:59):
you say we need equality and we have to say
what's right and what's fair. And then a brother that
looks like me from South Kolana says, you're the donkey
of the day. You have to explain that to our community.
I've explained it. I said that I think that you're
using racial and gender bias with your actual real issues.
The scruggle that the black women's going through in many

(44:20):
industries is a real issue, but you're using it to
focus on something that you're dealing with individually. Did you
just see Viola Davis come out and say pay her equally.
Did you just hear that? Absolutely? So when you have
us saying the same thing, we're saying, pay us equally,
you're saying, oh, Monique, this is an isolated situation. Well,
then what that says is you don't know the history

(44:41):
of this business that you're in, and you sit behind
this microphone and you try to be the guru of
black culture. I'm gonna need you to know the history
of us before you begin to label us. And once
you know the history, you know I'm not saying anything unique. Brother,
I just don understanderstand how you can justify making thirty
million dollars twenty team for a stand us. Second, when
you say justify thirteen millions, did you get a chance

(45:04):
to read what the offer was. I did read some
of it, Yes, well all of it. The key is
we got to read all of it because what Chris
Rock said a long time ago, if you want to
hire something from a black person, put it in a book.
This is not about comparing the definitive numbers as to
what Amy got and what David them got, because it's

(45:27):
married to what you just communicated. But when you ask
a comedian to take a half million dollars for two years.
You can't say any jokes. They don't want you to
do stand up for two years, and essentially they want
you to take a half a million dollars and lose

(45:49):
out on two million dollars of work that you would
have made on the road. Anyway, that right there, it
doesn't make sense how we have more with Monique when
we come back. Don't move just local morning morning. Everybody
is dj mv Angela, Ye, Charlomagne, the guy we are
the breakfast club. Monique is in the building, Charlomagne. He

(46:12):
just asked, did we make a counter offer? And that's
a very important question. I did see that they responded
to the counter offer and said they won't They regretfully
won't be able to do this deal. Hopefully you guys
can work together in the future. And that's the point
that we have to make to you, Lenard. But in
addition to that, my love, and this is in conjunction
with Roland Martin and John Mary putting out a rumor

(46:35):
that Monique was offered three million dollars and then didn't
have the decency as journalists to come back and say
we apologize for the misinformation. Because if you notice Monique's
keep Monique keeps producing receipts, and as crazy as this sounds,
this is a bigger picture than just Netflix because what

(46:56):
has happened was you've heard about Lee Daniels coming out
speaking in reference to how difficult Monique was and the
whole nine. We live in a culture in which the
ladies who are going up in the room saying hashtag
me too, and people are saying, well, you know, if
you're going up in the room at two o'clock in
the morning, you know you're about to get screwed, So

(47:17):
why did you go up there and do it? Or
what happens is they'll say to Monique, why didn't you
go promote a movie for lions Gate for free? Because
you know what they'll do to you. So now you're
in the damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
Because the women who go up in the room, the
reason why they go up in the room, they know
they're going to get screwed when they go up in
the room. They just don't know how bad they're going

(47:39):
to get screwed. If they don't go up in the room.
What happens This is why, again, Lenard, you've got to
be careful with your words because you called your sister
donkey of the day, but you didn't do your research,
and you pulled that poison out into our community. Was
out fully doing your research. And now as we sit here,

(48:02):
you have to almost backtrack your words. Well, when you
ask a question, did you counter offer? We put all
of it out there. We put the information out there.
So you were so ready to do good readio that
you didn't do your homework. And when you have a conversation,
you know a brother named Geral Kelly, absolutely, would you
consider him your friend? Absolutely? See I was on the

(48:23):
road with Jerel Kelly two weeks ago. Yeah, he called
me and he said, Monique I talked to uh Charlemagne
and he said, Man, you know I love Monique. I
wasn't doing nothing but making readio. I didn't see that
with Gerald Kelly, because what again, when you say, did

(48:44):
you counter offer? See, we did, and they said there
was no negotiations, you take it or leave it. But
had you done we didn't actually counter offer what they
said in the midst of our conversation. You've given us
something to you on. We're gonna come back and reflect
on it and we said, and I said to them,
trying to give them, how are you sure, because here's

(49:05):
the thing. We don't want to waste your time if
if it's not real. However, if it's real and we
can get something done, of course we would love to
do business with you. So y'all really didn't make a
counter offers. No, so what we're saying, They said it
was no negotiable as they were going to go back
to reflect on what we had discussed, and when they

(49:27):
came back, they said that we are based upon our discussion,
we decided not to make a counter offer in reference
to what it is that you're speaking in reference to
hopefully we can do business in the future and so forth.
Because what they were trying to emphasize to us that
a half a million dollars was a strong enough number

(49:48):
and other people that they considered equal to Monique, which
they did not name. They said, they've taken that number.
If you notice you're having a conversation with Nique, why
is it that Netflix won't have a conversation with people
because they can bank on people like Charlemagne. They can

(50:09):
bank on our brothers and sisters like Charlemagne that will
say we'll fight them. We'll fight them for you for
you don't have to fight is I'm still trying to
get you and brother Sydney to justify why you think
you deserved thirteen million dollars? Was there a bidding war
between platforms when you say, when you say justify, I'm
gonna put my resume on the table. That's all I'm

(50:30):
gonna have to do. Do you do the numbers and
ticket sales that Chris Rock does, that Dave Chappelle does
that day? If given the opportunities, why don't you answer
the question. See if given those opportunities, you're answering the
questions for yourself. We're not given the same opportunities. Brother,
But if you do your why can't you in Sydney
Garden book arena tours? Do they go I'm booked their tours?
Or do promoters book then? See what we're gonna do

(50:51):
right now is and what I'm not gonna do with
you now you want to play a tip for tech
And what you're saying is a black women's resume don't matter.
I'm not saying that to be trying to weaponize things
like the SUS two hundred and fifty thousand dollars and
she's considered one of the best. Or that was years
ago and they said that was they would never do
that now. And I literally heard just like a few

(51:13):
weeks ago. So you did talk about the situation with
Lee Daniels, and you talked about people saying that. Now
we've read some things also because you're here and our cousin,
so we left for you to speak on this. So
there are people that say that you didn't treat people well, yes,
and that they've had issues working with you and that
you're difficult. Yes. So let's address some of that because

(51:34):
Roland Martin brought it up when you guys spoke on Twitter. Yes,
and he talked about the Ebony magazine cover shoot that
you did with Chris Rock and Steve Harvey. Yes, and
he said that it was a nightmare because of you.
What happened at that shoot, Well, what happened if that
shoot was a check was thrown at one of our assistants,
and you don't throw anything at anyone and I had

(51:54):
a problem with that. See, they won't fill you in
on all that happened. So you had to let that
person know that's not how you do business. And that's unacceptable.
So I have no problem speaking on it. When they
said I mistreated people on almost Christmas, well we have
twenty interviews because we knew that they would say something
like that with the people that worked in the background professionals,

(52:15):
the lighting guys, the camera guys, when they all said
our experience with Monique was stella. What happens is you
hear the bullies speak out, but then the bullies run.
Because when those videos did come out, did rolland Martin
come back when the videos did come out? Just with
the three little videos, you heard nothing else? Did you?
Let's backtrack a little bit because with Will Packer, yes, okay,

(52:38):
so Will Packer and rolland Martin and you know a
lot of people have spoken out that have dealt with
you personally and said these things. But I haven't really
heard anybody say anything negative about Will Packer, about working
with Lee Daniels, and I haven't heard them say anything
negative about some of the people that they've worked it.
So why is it? Let me I can answer that.

(52:59):
That's a great question. And you know the guy Harvey Weinstein,
and he was able to do that for how many years? Decades?
And why do you think that was well. They were
working with a lot of people who felt like their
career would be in jeopardy if they spoke out. Do
you think this is a unique situation. Do you think
that people are fearful to speak out when they're mistreated?

(53:19):
Is it mistreatment of sexual assault? Money? We can't we
can't put out false equivalences about people. I understand what
is it between mistreatment and sexual Let me say its
levels to mistreatment. You're you're absolutely right, but mistreatment is mistreatment,
and you can't paint willing the same. This is the
same because based upon the information that you have, you

(53:44):
feel comfortable with it, because this is the world we
live in. If you keep hearing it, it seems as
if it's true. And the reason she had some difficulty
with one of the individuals who were the first ape
or something like them, she had walked into Monique's trailer
while she was undressed without knocking. And I don't know

(54:06):
if you know, but there was a letter that Steve
Harvey had written a while ago in reference to how
people just walk into his room. What happens is she's
the type of person that doesn't allow people to get disrespected,
and she's not going to have an issue with the
people that are the hourly wage folks. It's typically the

(54:28):
people who are the powerful one. She's not having no
beef with nobody. There were people that were getting their
fingers pointed in their face that happened to be black
women by white men on the set of Precious and
she said, I can't allow that to happen. Guy. So
what happens is you are forgetting that this is a
country that had slavery for hundreds of years. And when

(54:53):
do we start realizing that we are so conditioned to
normalize bad treatment when white men are able to say, hey, guys,
she's right, how does the black community not see it?
We have more with Monique when we come back. Don't move.
It's the breakfast club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ

(55:14):
Envy Angela yee. Charlomagne, the guy. We are the breakfast club.
We have Monique in the building still, Charlomagne. I want
to know about this though. Have you received other offers
from other screaming services? Let me say this because other
than that help with negotiations when you get come of
that black ball being put over my head. The offers
that come in from Netflix, they can come in low
like that because they know you've been blackball you know

(55:37):
what the word is about you. So we assume that
you're suffering and we can offer you whatever we want
to offer you. So the offers have come in even
lower than that. You got a Netflix special beforehand, though, right, well,
I didn't have a Netflix special. What happened was the
one and put it on there exactly. I didn't make
any deal with Netflix. So those shows just happened to

(55:57):
be on it. And they've been on there for a
long time. So someone would say, if this woman is
not bringing in any views, why, but we hold onto
the content. They've been on there for a minute, so
as well, I'm assuming so we don't get a report
on that. But as I sit here again and I
sit between my sister, Hi, I know you deal with inequality, Angela.

(56:20):
You're in the same business I'm in. But you'll look
at me and you'll say, well, I need you to
explain to me. They said you was a problem here
and a problem there. We all know when you don't
allow bullies to take place, and when you don't allow
yourself to get bullied, don't you get labeled? Yes? But
can I just for full disclosure. Please. There are definitely
people that I know that I've worked with you on

(56:42):
the Ebony shoot. Yes, and I've heard things. Well, they've
told me personally, people that were in the room, say
their names and if not, like I told Lenar before,
keep it on the playground. Well okay, So I saw
Alfred Edmond Jr. Who's the editor chief of Black Enterprise Magazine. Yes,
I saw that Amy Dubarbe, who was the editor in
chief of Ebony at the time of that shoot, who

(57:03):
was very excited to have you on the shoot. She
left a comment because he posted something about you and
the numbers and about your worth and how you are
the most decorated comedian, and she commented it was a
nightmare working with her and I would never want to
go through something like that again. I saw that comment
is still on his page. Now. I would love to
sit down and talk with that sister face to face

(57:24):
so she can tell me about the nightmare. Because what
they won't do is they won't fill it in. See,
they won't fill in. We were being arrogant and we
wanted to treat that woman as if we were doing
her a favor by putting her on the cover. As
my husband told me years ago, we don't disrespect anyone,
but we overrespect no one. And I want you to
look at me. I'm a big fat black woman. You're

(57:46):
not stop real talk. What big fat black woman has
to stands up and says this is not fair because
what the feeling is with some of our sisters and brothers. Monique,
you should be grateful you just got invited to the
part party because of the way you look. So for
anyone that says they ever had a problem with me,
bring them to the table, bring them to the table

(58:08):
and let's have a conversation. But what you'll find is
we'll speak about this woman when she can't see us.
We'll make comments. But we're the type of people that say,
let's have a conversation. And when you find out that
they're wrong, will you then speak up loudly for me
as you speak up for them. I absolutely, Let's says
the Mornique and brothers. And you don't ask you a question.

(58:29):
Let's just talk numbers. If you put your numbers up
against the Amy Schumers, the Chris Rocks to Dave Chappeld
and I'm talking about selling out arenas all over the world.
How can you justify getting a huge payday like them
when you're saying that you're going to offer her one
twenty six of what Amy Schumer got, and you're referring
to Monique as a legend, and you're seeing her performance

(58:51):
and you see the people standing up for at the
end of the show. Have you read the reviews to
the net flick special for Amy Schumer? I don't think
Amy's funny. You don't got it. You don't got Amy
got me blocked that this is the part, Daddy, and
we gotta wrap up the show. But when we did

(59:11):
sell out this fifty arenas around the world and MSG
a few times an HBO's pressure, that did great. And
this was all in twenty SI. Here's what brother leonarda saying,
Like this year, another show comes and they become number
one and not the breakfast Club. And then let a
host come in here that's been doing it for maybe
five years less than you, and then they get paid

(59:32):
twenty six times more than you. Then you come back
and have a conversation with us, because right, that's all
because what happens is when you sit here and you say,
make it make sense, Well, we don't have to because
again and if you do have to make it make sense,
especially if you're calling on people to boy, we made
things like we made it make bias because we're saying,

(59:53):
here's the resumes, guys at conjunction with that, the only
thing we're saying is if, hypothetically speaking, it in thirteen million, Charlemagne,
we're saying, is how come there's not. They're saying to
the community that it's not one black woman that is
a veteran comedian out there to day that is worth

(01:00:13):
a seven figure number. So what would have been a
respectable number from this Monique answering? Let me, let me
give you a respectable number for Monique, something that would
supersede what she would have made in two years, and

(01:00:34):
at the very least, which she would have made two
years to be able to take to two years off
that they're contractually asking her to do, to not be
able to tell jokes, You would not take a deal
because they're gonna give you a lump summer cash that's
going to castrate you out of three fourths of your income.
Do you understand what I'm saying? So the deal didn't

(01:00:56):
include the two years and didn't have that you couldn't
tell jokes. If I would have taken a deal for
five hundred thousand dollars Angela, what position with that I
put the babies that's coming after you. No, the deal
is foul. The deal is absolutely positively foul. Nobody says
the deal is right. But you know, they know Monique's reputation.
As far as what people are rumored to say, it
does matter. They know that the networks are not necessarily

(01:01:20):
giving her the money and giving her less. They know
what it is. So why would I give as a
business person obscene number when I know she can't get
it anywhere else. It's foul, but it's business. But if
you saying, Monique, it is foul, and you all right?
So if we know it's right and we know it's foul,
then what do we do? We do it on our own.
That's just like talking to Steve Harvey and brother Steve

(01:01:42):
Harvey says, MO, I know you're right, and I know
you're not lying, but could you have done it another way?
You know, what's the suggestion? What's the other thing? I
don't want you to do? Do it? We do do
it on our own, but we still got to speak up.
I think the problem started with you coming out and
comparing yourself of the Chris Rock Dan Chappelle and why.
And I think because because because there's no way that

(01:02:06):
you can justify getting that amount of money that they've got.
Not to you, I've gotten more than five hundred thousand. Yes,
and I've said that one. Well, here's what I'll say. No,
that's not what y'all know. What y'all were saying was
y'all should have got the same amount Rock chapellin let me,
let me, let me get that. Let me answer that, Daddy.
What I said was, if I'm considered a legend like
my brothers, then why would I get what legends get?

(01:02:28):
Because that is exactly what I said. Because their resume recently,
you can just move it on paper. We're gonna listen, Lenard,
We're gonna let you hold on to that. But what
I will say to you is, and to all the
black women and women of color that is listening, when
you hear this brother's voice come over the air, and
I'm gonna apologize like about what I'm getting ready to say.

(01:02:48):
He does not have a value on black women and
women of color. How can you say I'm gonna say that,
but years ago, I'm gonna held the donna tell you
what I think that's contradictory. I'm gonna tell you why
I said it. Because what happens is when you leave
a place called Monk Monk's Corner, South Carolina, and you
come to a big city named New York, and then

(01:03:09):
you change your name to Shalomann. Well, when you were there,
you become Shaloman the God. Now, I don't know if
you took the same principles that your mama and your
grandmamma gave you in Monk's Corner and you bought it
to Manhattan, New York. Because the brother I did meet
on that elevator, I meant a brother that was full
of principle, and I meant a brother who would not

(01:03:29):
call a sister a donkey of a day unless he
knew all the information and he could back up his statements.
But as we sit here and we did this interview,
you begin to ask questions that you should have asked
before you make the statement. So what questions? But y'all
really don't have any answer. I have not justified why
you feel like you should have gotten that money, should

(01:03:51):
have got that we're not back. And here's the thing,
brothers and sisters that get it the way that they
get it, and we get it the way that we
get it. And it's not an argument. I respect your decision.
I respect your no no, because you're entitled to it. Okay, well,
thank you for joining us, miss Monique. When we come back,

(01:04:13):
we have donkey of the day, So don't go anywhere.
It's the breakfast club. Good morning, you get day you are,
I'm gonna fatten all that around your They want this
man to Doden Blowers man. They waited for Charlemagne. They

(01:04:36):
had to make a judgment who was gonna be on
the donkey of the day. They chose you because the
breakfast club bitch, who's donkey of the day to day?
Yeah talk here to day goes to a young man
named Fine Trelle Antonio o'bates. Okay, he's thirty one years
old and resides in Los Angeles via Memphis, and he's
a rapper, a rapper that I never heard of until
this weekend. And if the first time you are hearing

(01:04:58):
about a person is because they're RECEI even dunk here today,
just know that probably is never a good thing. Now.
His rap name is nuke Bizzle. Bring any bells for you, envy?
No anybody out there bumping that new nuke Bizzle drum
that's hot in your parts? Okay, Okay, well nuke Bizzle,
ladies and gentlemen. It is just the latest in a
long line of people who are going to jail for

(01:05:18):
unemployment fraud this year. And now, I know we've been
keeping track of all the COVID nineteen cases in America
this year, but we also need to be keeping track
of all the unemployment for aud cases that have been happening. Okay, See,
this is what I don't understand about the folks that
are defraud people under the carezact. Y'all do realize what
y'all doing is a crime? Right? This is not the
blessing you've been praying for. All right? You know how

(01:05:40):
we say everything happens for a reason, very true, But
sometimes that reason is simply because you made a poor choice.
And nuke Bizzle absolutely made a poor choice, a couple
poor choices. See. Nuke Bizzle was arrested after applying for
more than one point two million in jobless benefits and
using stolen identities in the scheme to fraudulently obtain unemployment

(01:06:04):
insurance beneficial. Now, I'm gonna be honest with you. I
have to applaud this man for aiming high. Give them
a little round of applause, just a little bit. That's it.
Stop stop, stop, Okay. See here's the thing. All of
you who have participated in unemployment fraud. You're going to jail. Okay,
doesn't matter if you got one million to ten thousand,
they're coming for you. I'm telling you, doesn't matter if
you got that money and bought a Bentley or got

(01:06:25):
that money and bought a single wide trailer. You're going
to jail. They coming to lock your ass up at
some point. So if you're going to take a penitentiary chance,
your might as well shoot for the moon. And that's
what nuke Bissel did with this one point two million
dollars that he applied for. Now, Nuke Bisile couldn't just
be content with getting this money. No, oh, not in
this era. Okay, in this era, to crime is an

(01:06:47):
official until you get on social media and alert to
fatis about it. Okay. FBI stands for Facebook, Instagram and
because of you fools, y'all, y'all need for digital validation
because are you fools? Incessant desire for lights and retweets?
Y'all make defends jobs so easy. Okay, But it wasn't

(01:07:09):
just social media in the Internet that got Nu Bizzle
jammed up. See Nu Bizzle, as I told y'all is
a rapper. I repeat, nw Bizzle is a rapper. Let's
go to CBSLA for the report. Police. The Department of
Justice says a rapper who bragged in a music video
about getting rich from an unemployment scam is now facing

(01:07:29):
federal charges. According to a criminal complaint, thirty one year
old Fontrelle Antonio Baines exploited the Pandemic Unemployment Assistance provision
of the Federal Coronavirus Act. He applied for more than
one point two million dollars and jobless benefits, Federal officials
say right now. He lives in Hollywood Hills, and in
a video he bragged He's going to get stacks of

(01:07:51):
these while holding up envelopes from edd. A second man
in the video raps quote, you got to sell cocaine.
I just file a claim. If convicted, Dane's faces up
to twenty two years in Federal present. Those are some bars. Yes,
what God and Aaron McGruder have the same sense of humor.

(01:08:12):
This is why we need the Boondocks back. But I
often wonder if the Bondocks uh well, when the Boondocks
comes back, how would they compete when the most absurd
things that usually are reserved for storylines on the Bondocks
are actually happening in real life. Okay, this guy Nuke
Bizzle applied for one point two million and unemployment benefits,

(01:08:33):
blatant unemployment fraud, and then turned around and made a
song about it. Yeah, it's a song called e ed
d nw Bizzle feature. In fact, whither would you like
to hear it? Hear how they got rich Oba to

(01:09:00):
end up building a CPA. You got a Sycalcaine. I
can defoul the claim rest comment straight to the flame
I'm doing. He said, you bugging no swater than you
ain't eaty of these scales, And then that you heard
about i'd be so heavy to certify. Get on the
working out twenty fat clais it for a while while
I trying my life, and I gotta admit it, I
saw out a head in a minute. Really to tell

(01:09:21):
me I can wait on it el for twenty Damn,
did you hurt better than did it turn into a scale?
I was just tucking the sale now that way, don't
urge you. Now, I kind of like this on like
that too, I told I s I like that, So yeah,
I kind of like this. Yeah, that's the problem, grown
grown up, grown as adults who know better saying it

(01:09:43):
like songs like this, girdri at work hand, what you say,
Uncle Ruggets and our dre at work one more time,
Uncle Ruggets for the people in the back, and our
gdre at work hand. Kids. I'm so sorry. I am
so sorry, kids. I'm so sorry that we made y'all
believe you really had to be living the things you
rapped about. I wish more rappers told y'all that they

(01:10:06):
were just performing and they was just trying to make
some money. All right. There was a period in my
life where I really wanted and loved when my rappers
were doing the things they were talking about. But that
was ignorant of me. Okay, if rappers actually did just
thirty percent, just thirty percent of what they rapped about doing,
they would all be in prison a debt. Okay, this
new generation didn't get the memo that majority of these

(01:10:28):
rappers was all cat. Now they're busy trying to lead
two lives, trying to serve two masters. They want to
rap and live a life of crime, and when you
try to do both, you end up like Nuke Bizzle okay,
facing three federal charges and if convicted of all these charges,
Baines Nuke Bizzle will face the statutory maximum sentence of

(01:10:50):
twenty two years in federal prison. Y'all still like the song,
so I don't happen to do it. This song is good,
that New Bizzle. We're not gonna play guests? What race
this is? Please? Let me mind giving New Pizzle the
biggest here he ha, he ha, You stupid mother? Are
you dumb? Are they white? I have one question? Where

(01:11:13):
is Fat Whizzle? If Fat Whizzle was featured on this song?
Did Fat Whizz? Are you trying to get someone else arrested?
Inquiring minds? Well, oh, I'm trying to get them arrested.
For Get the song that's got over a million views
on YouTube, and forget that one point two million dollars
and uh and and unemployment fraud that they tried to get.
I'm trying to get them arrested. The rich off d

(01:11:37):
D all right now and our fre at work. All right, well,
thank you for that donkey of the day. How'd you
get the song Fat Wizard? I don't know if fat
wizard he's getting low right back? You got anything you
want to say? Oh my goodness? All right, thank you

(01:11:59):
for that stain it. Don't pop up now talking about
they were talking about you on the Breakfast Club. Now
you get low, stay low to lead all your social
media pages and everything. That's right, all right, We got
more coming up next. We're a breakfast club the relationship advice,
need personal advice, just need real advice. Call up man

(01:12:19):
for asking morning. Everybody's DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
We are the breakfast Club. It's time for asking ye Hello,
who's this? Yo? This cookie? Cookie cookie from out of Florida,
Brown County. I know you're talking about as Charlomagne. I
don't know what you're talking about. What's up? All right? Cookie?

(01:12:41):
What's good? What's your question for? Easy? Okay? My question
is um, me and my husband we wrapped like we
spit bars like we really got bars man, But we
were up there in age. We've been spitting for a
long time. We're thirty two and we're just wondering if
we should keep trying. Are you any good? You want
to hear me? Go yeah, go ahead, Let's let's hear something. Cookie,

(01:13:03):
all right, you can't speak up with low key now.
You don't know me. Yeah, you may see me, but
you can never beat me, and you can never beat me.
In the hip pop paddle tune this you'll see me
full better scadd or so if I have at the paddle,
I swim through the river, meaning I could make it
through whatever like them quivered any time I sit, Ryan said,
your man, I know my highs. Cookie black time a man.

(01:13:29):
I love the comedy rap y'all. You really made me
laugh the comedy rappers dope, this is ask he ain't
ain't What do you think? Tell Cookie? A couple of
things here? Have you made any type of progress with
your career as a rapper? Um? I performed a couple
of places. I mean I UM performed at a hard
rock a while ago. Um it was big well at
the time I was working there. But we feel like

(01:13:49):
an employee time show and I won both times. I
won both times though, Yeah, I performed at a few places,
you know, locally and stuff like that. So it's like
that He've been real cookie. Have you been going really
really hard to pursue your dream? Been trying? Yes? Um,
you know, get knocked down the cup times. You know.
We went to an event in Orlando and it was like, oh,

(01:14:12):
you know, people not really check for older rappers right now.
I'm like, yo, but I've been doing this for so
long and it just so happened as some opportunities are
coming out right now. You know where you can you know,
this artist showcase and this artist showcase. And have you
been recording music in the studio anywhere? Though? Yes, you

(01:14:33):
can go on the Instagram. Grew in the payment LLC
man just tell her she sucks and to get a job.
I just want to say, I don't I don't think
that being in your thirties is a reason to not
pursue your career as far as being an artist, if
you're really great at it and if you go really
hard at it, you know what I'm saying. I think
sometimes people want things to happen and they do a
showcase here and there, but they're not going super hard

(01:14:55):
because people who really want to be in this industry,
have to really live, breathe sleep it like, do everything
they can to make it happen. So that's why I
was asking you, are you doing everything that you can?
Have you been going really hard or is it something
that you've been doing kind of you know, here and there,
but not really pursuing. Yeah, I've been trying to go hard.
I've really been trying to abhorse. You know what. My age, Um,

(01:15:17):
you know, I eventually had children and stuff like that,
but um, I still I think I'm still got bars.
I'm still ready to put in the workout tell me
and saying I fuck no, I don't suck man. You
do learn a trade, you know what I'm saying. Do
you have a job there, you go get another one.
I just don't want you to use agent as an excuse.
We know a artist right now that's putting out his

(01:15:39):
first ever album. He's in his forties, you know what
I'm saying. So I don't think that's ever good exactly.
Even the white man in the room say, but he's
good because you're talking about jail. Yeah good. So what
I'm saying is you're saying I'm not good. Seven minutes
out of this conversation. All right, well, listen, give everybody
in your Instagram. Everybody, everybody is gonna weigh in and

(01:16:01):
go and look at your music that you have posted
and let you know what they think. This is a
great opportunity for you to get some feedback. That's right,
Give them your Instagram because so people can go tell
you the truth. Is it Crow Entertainment, g R either
W entertainment, l L speed Man. I love you though,
I love y'all. I listened to it every morning. I'm
hurt right now though, Charlomagne. But it's so well I

(01:16:22):
don't think you can judge it just based off of
that no music, So you know he hasn't heard no music,
he just heard. What do you think of that freestyle
you just heard from her view? What do you think
of it? What you just heard from her? I was
listening listening, y'allo. Foolish, Wasn't it? What you wonna waste

(01:16:43):
her time for the next three or four years trying
to bed I just had a day off day, okay, sure,
Cookie the black Widow, all right, okay, okay, let's keep
it going, ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one
on five one. If you need relationship if ice hit
this up now, it's the breakfast Smokeal Morning had some

(01:17:05):
real advice with Angela Ye. It's ask Ye holding. Everybody
is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the God. We are
the breakfast club. We're in the middle of ask ye Hello,
who's this misty? Yes? Hey, what's your question for you? Okay?
So my question was like, what am I supposed to do?

(01:17:27):
It's like my boyfriend, she's sneaking to watch porn. I
don't have a problem with him watching it. It's just
getting weird that he's sneaking to watch it because he
doesn't know whether or not you have a problem with it.
Did you tell him, like, I know you're watching porn?
It's fine. I mean we've had the discussion about it,
like I have him like we have a problem with
sex or something, but he's like, no, we don't have

(01:17:49):
a problem with sex or anything. And it's like I'm
being open minded about stuff, but I don't know. He
keeps asking for like three sing stuff like that or
whatever too. Well, yeah, and you don't want to do it?
Three cent? Where you do? Are you open to it?
I'm okay? With it. I guess I've never done it.
So well, obviously that's not gonna happen anytime soon because

(01:18:10):
we are all quarantined and you know, so that's a
whole other story. But first of all, maybe part of
the fund for him watching porn is him sneaking to
do it. That's what is that not strange or like,
is that normal? How'd you catch him? I'm just curious,
how'd you catch him? Okay, we're supposed to have sex
or whatever, but then I felt sweet. But then when
I woke up, I'm like, okay, maybe I should go

(01:18:31):
back to sweet because you are most finished. So oh
when you when you woke up and you seen him
on a computer, he was sitting there watching porn. He
was on his phone and it was on you. That's
the weirdest thing to me, Like like he was repose.
He didn't want to wake you up. I'm okay with
him waking me up, though, but he didn't know that.
Did you tell him next time waking me up? I'm
you know, I'm fine, but I don't know. I just

(01:18:54):
kind of like got up and went to the bathroom
because I'm like, this is weird. This's the second time
I call him doing this, and I don't you know
what it sounds like, y'all just need to have a
conversation because you're not saying anything to him, and then
he's not saying anything to you about it, and then
now you do think it's weird, so he probably can
sense that you think it's weird. So it's kind of
like a lack of communication. That's what's causing you, guys

(01:19:15):
to not come together on this when you could just
simply wake up and be like, oh, you're watching porn.
What you're watching? Let me see? Okay, I guess, And
you know what can be fun sometimes if you don't
mind doing this is watching porn together. I mean, like,
I'm not as experienced as he is sexually, and like
recently he got me like this Tory thing and I'm

(01:19:35):
just like, I'm not okay with these like traffic down
there because like robot or whatever. So I was like,
I don't know, Well, maybe he is nervous to bring
things up to you because he doesn't want you to
think that he's weird. Okay, I'll try to have that conversation.
I guess. I don't know, And I see it feels
like you want to be more open minded about things

(01:19:57):
and that, but you're right now, you're not in that place.
Like you're uncertain about a lot of things. Like you said,
you're not as experienced as he is, so you take
it slow. And I always tell people, don't do anything
that you're not comfortable with. So if you truly are
not comfortable with something, don't do it and let him
know that you're not comfortable. And if there are things
that you want to try, don't be ashamed to try them.

(01:20:18):
So those are the two things that I would say
when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, Okay, because like,
I really like them. I've tried to have a part
of this conversation before and then it went into this
whole spiral conversation about like insecurity and all this extra
drunk and I'm just like, what the is going on? Yeah,
you never do something just to please the other person

(01:20:40):
if you're not comfortable with it, because that does cause
resentment sometimes and then that does tend to spiral out
of control. But if in your mind you're like I
would like to try this, then you should try it.
It's just and remember it's completely up to you. It's
fine for you to not want to do a threesome.
It's fine for you to not want to use that
toy if you don't feel like it. But it's also

(01:21:01):
fine for you to say, Okay, I'm down to experiment.
Don't worry about other people's judgments of you. It is
your body, your choice to do whatever you want. And
even with those things like whenever I gave him the
stuff I wanted to try, he just kept calling me
like a freakrow or whatever. And then I'm like, Okay,
maybe I shouldn't tell him the stuff that I'm into
if he thinks he's too outrageous. But then you, what
do you what are you into? Yeah? Any wants to

(01:21:22):
know what are you into? Curiousy? Oh gosh, Okay, So
I kind of like the whole domps and this one
thing like if we can switch rolls and stuff, and
he's not okay with a lot of them, and I
guess I grew up on the pill side of life,
but I was kind of trying to see if he
will be okay with like, you know, pegging terribly. Oh yeah, okay,

(01:21:47):
Now pegging is yeah, pegging might be a little serious.
That's not light. You want to put him on a
least to that covert. I mean, he put me on
the weeks before. Okay, I'm gonna pass. I'll take the leash.
I'll take the leash for okay. What I would recommend, Missy, though,

(01:22:08):
is before you go straight to the peggang you have
you ever put a finger there? Yes, that's the thing,
got it got you? Okay, So so maybe that's something
you guys will graduate to eventually. Yeah, but that's my
thing though. If he brings up the butt play but
think it's weird, will be talking about it. I'm just like,

(01:22:30):
what's going on? You know what. I'm a and missy,
and I'm gonna be honest with you. A lot of
times guys like to do things, but they don't like
to discuss the things they like to do because they
feel like it's weird. So you have to kind of
just do it without dressing. Don't rate that man, but
I don't know that. But like, you can feel it
out and start doing something and he might like it,
but he doesn't want to discuss that he liked it.

(01:22:51):
So obviously, if he doesn't want to do it, he'll
let you know he doesn't want to do it. But
if you just approach it and bring it and they like, hey,
let's go in the heat of the moment, and he
with it, then there you go. But sometimes having that
discussion makes people feel a little weird. Okay, I'm gonna
have the hell um like golf conversation. I don't want
to have you like first time at breakfast or whatever,

(01:23:13):
but I'm trying to see how I can bring it
up during the day or whatever, because I'm just like, yo,
I'm okay with you waking me up for sex. You've
done it before, like well he didn't know camp for sex,
but like or whatever. So it's just like, yo, I
feel like you gotta be fine. This is a great
time to have these discussions while y'all learning the house
to get it. Ain't got nowhere else to go. We
gotta get this quarantine over because y'all boards hell. Tell him,

(01:23:36):
tell him he shook and ain't no such thing as
half ass crooks, and by that, tell them stop letting,
letting you put half your fingers ass and tell them
you want all in nothing, all right, tell them grow up, definitely,
Thank you guys. All right, missy, good luck. It's funny
if you do stuff like that. You can't even Please
don't give the young man no nicknames either, though you'll

(01:23:56):
be hitting him in about your peg. The Stallion can't
call a wrong man peg the Stallion, what all right?
Ask ye eight hundred five A five one oh five
one to keep a lot? This to Breakfast Club, Good morning,
whatever y'all is, dj MB Hey, I'm a gobody name
of Charlomagne the Guy, and we just want to say
happy holidays from all three of us, all three of
y'all the Breakfast Club. Baby, ask Charlomagne a d J

(01:24:26):
n V any pick it up, pick it up, it up.
It's time to ask C and E morning. Everybody is
cj envy Angela yee, Charlomagne the Guy. We are the
Breakfast Club. Good morning. It's time for ask C and E.
Now Angela Ye is on vacation, so I asked C
an E. All right, if you got relationship advice questions,

(01:24:47):
or you just have questions about life in general, we
can help you. Hello, who's this? All right? This is anonymous?
Anonymous from the d all right brother, what's what's your
question for C and E? Okay, I've been dating the
a Spanish woman I'm actually African American and she's been
working with me. But she switched shifts after we dated
for two years and knew each other for three and

(01:25:07):
went to morning shift. I'm on night shift now. She
found the friend that's actually her race, probably like three
months ago. They went out of town, spent the weekend,
had a great time. We still talk every day. She
initiate the text. She texted me to call me one
night crying. Her stomach was hurting. She still relies on me,
but she don't want to see me outside of work.

(01:25:28):
So is there any test I couldn't get her back. Well,
I'm just waiting for him to mess up further on.
You said that she's of another race, So I'm you're black, right,
I'm black. I'm the second guy she ever been with
and the first black guy she ever been with besides
her husband. Okay, yeah, she said I wasted her time

(01:25:49):
because of her culture. They date for three or four
months and they get married. We dated for two years
and nothing happened. Okay, Well, you know I'm all full
black and brown relations. But my advice to you is
get you a black back woman. You know what I'm saying,
Get you a queen. You know, you know you did
the Spanish thing. It didn't work out clearly, you know
she's moved on. Um, I think it's time for you
to move on. To get your assistance now, I would say,

(01:26:10):
I would say, fine, somebody that you love, obviously you
have feelings for her, and you know why didn't you
marry her? Why? Why didn't you just say you know what?
This is something I want to do well at black
women far as like marriage, but I do have black
women trained. Bye bye, bye, hang up. I want to talk.
I don't want to talk to to the more. I
don't talk to you. I don't want to talk to you.
I don't want to talk to you. I don't want

(01:26:31):
to talk to you anymore because you tell me you're
not attracted to black women. You know what I'm saying,
like black women are not good enough to marry? What
color is your mama? You know what I'm saying, Like
what kind of household do you come from? I guess
I could asking those questions, but I don't care. I
don't care to have to come. I wanted I wanted
to know. I wanted to know why, why would like why?
Why was it deeply roooted it like his mother's black. Like,
what's the problem that he doesn't have sisters? Grandma's answer,

(01:26:52):
none of that. I don't I don't care for these selves.
Hating the gross black women. I don't care. I don't
care for black women to marry them. Get thee beat
it by Hello, who's this? Yeah? Whatever? See what's happening
the man? What's up? Brother? What's your question for? Cne? Man?
So check us? All right? So, um me and my
baby mama. You know what I'm saying, the mother of

(01:27:14):
my child, beautiful woman. As a man, you know what
I'm saying. We all make mistakes, um boy, you know
back of twenty back in twenty seventeen, you know, I
made a mistake that you know cost me. You know
a lot of the mistrust that she's happened over the
past few years. Um. But you know, as a man,
you know, when you lost somebody, you're gonna do you
got to do to make things work out right? Well, Uh,

(01:27:37):
you know I've been doing that, you know, just kind
of you know, doing the you know, the romantic things
that a man should be, you know, buy her nice purses,
take her out the nice dinners, do things like that,
but Michael Cole, I no, no, Mike, No, Michael Cole
is my brother. It's more like more like, okay, okay,
you know what I'm saying, so so you know what
I'm saying, so you don't hand them up inness. You

(01:27:57):
know what I'm saying. But you know, something kind of
something kind of happened, you know. I guess like for everybody,
you know, kind of things kind of like just turn
for the worst, you know. Uh, you know, I came
home along one day from work and the doorlocks was changed,
and uh, I thought that was my weird and I
was like, yo, you know the doorlock has changed like
this something more like you need to talk about something,

(01:28:18):
and she basically was like acting like real like nahant,
like she don't know what I'm talking about? Yo, King,
Get to the point, King, call is that is that
I'm still paying for her rank while we're not together
no more right, And it's to the point where I
feel like it's it's it's in my best interest to
move on. But I really love her. I bought a ring.

(01:28:40):
I wanted to propose to her. We have two kids together.
You're trying to make it work, but it seems like
everything that I do. When it comes to paying her bills,
doing all of these nice things, it ain't really adding up.
Let me let me tell you first of all, that's
that's your first mistake. You can't buy somebody's love. You
can't buy somebody's trusting. That's what you seem like you're
trying to do. You're throwing money in there. You're buying bags,
buying shoes. You probably said this in an argument while

(01:29:02):
I'm buying you everything you want. That doesn't work. To
really get back into into her good graces, you have
to prove that you're not that person anymore. It's not
a man about buying anything. It's not about buying shoes
or buying bags or taking out to dinner. It's redating
and re establishing that trust, like the little things like
you know, have conversations. Open up your phone to her

(01:29:22):
to say, hey, look this is my phone code. I
would you know, I would never jeopardize my relationship anymore.
Let her start having that trust in you. Does she
have your code for your phone? Yeah? Absolutely? All right,
Well those are the things that you need to do.
Make sure she has the code to your Instagram. Let
her know, let her be comfortable with you going out
and feeling like I would never do this if you
go out with your boys. Hey, baby, you want to
come with me like make her feel comfortable. Let look,

(01:29:43):
I'm not that person anymore. I made a mistake. I apologize,
I'm sorry. I'll do anything that I have to do
to make sure that that you can start trusting me again.
But it's not gonna start what you trying to buy
love because when you try to buy love, exactly what
happens is she realizes that you're doing it. She keeps
accepting it and just using you for that, and you
know she's still not whatever's to the point whatever, It's
to the point where you're doing all of that, but um,

(01:30:07):
it's to the point where it's like, you know, there's
really no romantis, you know, romantis saism in the whole situation. Man,
she don't trust you because you're a Cheatah, bro, she
don't trust you because you're a cheating You put yourself
in that position. Okay, So the best apology is change behavior,
so she'll grow trust for you when you show her
that you ain't cheating no more. And I understand what

(01:30:29):
it's talking about, but f all that buy her everything too,
So change your behavior and ball out, all right, you
gotta do both. It's crazy. It's crazy though that happened
in twenty seventeen. It's twenty twenty, right, And that's the
problem too. What you gotta wreck because you're still cheating.
You can't tell somebody how to how to feel. Like
a lot of guys they said, like, I ain't cheating
the year. That doesn't mean she don't steal that. Bro,

(01:30:50):
he's still cheating. You're still cheating. Tell the truth. Let'ten
tell the truth between us. Tell the truth, my brother.
Tell the truth. I bought a ring. I bought a
ring my brother, So you know that something. So I
don't ask you that have you cheated since she cheated? Absolutely,
promise to God? Not promise to God? All right, good
because God know if you lying, and if you lying,

(01:31:11):
He's not gonna bless you what you want. That's the problem.
That's the problem that I'm handing right now is that
it's the fact that I'm working my ass off for it.
I ain't you know, I give her an answer. She
trying to take a mile, Well that's give her that mile, yes,
because any way, the same way you took that poem
poem from another woman. Your man should be able to
take that mile, So give her that mile and be
willing to go the extra mile for Okay, change your

(01:31:32):
behavior and ball out. But before you ball out, you
have to get to the side where you understand what
you did wrong and apologize. You just can't bawl out
because it'll be for nothing. Then when you get to
that point, then you boil out. Where enough? Where's the
point where enoughers enough? If I'm doing all of that
and I get we needed bro, you cheated, You ain't
no problem you did. Yeah, there's no time no time

(01:31:54):
limit when she can get over it. You did what's wrong?
You can't say okay, well I be still briething. Yes,
you think you just can't have unprotected sex with a
girl three years ago and they come back to her
and think she don't trust you. It's your fault. Okay.
Like Belie Yoga said, step up, have a blest day,

(01:32:14):
Have a blessed day, brother, good luck as cne eight
hundred five eight five one O five one. So don't move.
It's to breakfast slogan Morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy
Angela Yee Charlemagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
Now leave us on a positive note. Hey, listen man.
My positive notice simply this, people demand freedom of speech

(01:32:35):
as a compensation for the freedom of thought, which they
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