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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Who's getting that donky, that donkey that don't don't don't
don't donky other.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Day right here.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
To the breakfast club.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bitch, you can call me the donkey of the day,
but like I mean no harm.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
You know, donkey today for Tuesday, August twenty if it
goes to a woman from Minnesota named Veronica Gas. Now,
if you know anything about your uncle Charlotte, and you
know I got a few screws loose.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You also know that, yes, shut up.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
You also know that I'm a big proponent of doing
everything I have to do in order to get those
screws tightened. Okay, I'm a huge mental health advocate. Yes,
I encourage people, especially black men, to go to therapy.
Are just to get on some type of healing journey.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
One form of therapy that is great for those of
us in relationships is couple's therapy. Dropping the clues bombs
for couples therapy. Okay, what is couple's therapy exactly?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
It's simple.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
Couple therapy is a form of psychotherapy that can help
you and your partner improve your relationship. All right, if
you are having relationship difficulties, you can see couples therapy
to help you build your relationship. Psychologists say couples therapy
you can address a wide range of relationship issues and
including recurring conflicts, feelings of disconnection, and a fair issues related.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
To sex are just difficulties do to stress. Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
If you and your partner are going through a rough patch,
couple's therapy can help you work on your relationship. Your
therapist can help you express your feelings, discuss issues with
your partner, and resolve conflicts.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
All right. Couples therapy is good, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
It can help increased understanding and respect, affection and intimacy
between you and your.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Partner, which can help you be happier together.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I'm just saying this for those who don't know, because
a lot of times we hear the phrase couple's therapy
but don't know what it is. Okay, It's more than
just you and your significant other getting up and going
to see the lady.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
They also got the same types of couple's therapy that
you can get in one on one sessions like CBT, right,
cognitive behavioral therapy, emotionally focused therapy. So I'm all for it, Okay.
I believe that it can be a major key to
a healthy relationship. Hell, as I talk, I'm like, shoot,
why not go do a couple sessions with the wife
my damn self, Not because anything is wrong, but because
we want everything to keep going right. Okay, It's like,
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don't wait until the doctor that you're sick to change
your diet. Don't wait until you look down and can
no longer see your penis to start working out.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Let's do preventive maintenance now.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, you know, because you know you might get to
a point where it's a little too late. Now, this
happens in real life. You stop drinking when your living
is already done. Some people are obese, and you know
they have the massive heart attack and died too late
to start eating, eating right and exercise and then and
that's what I feel happened in the case of Veronica Gas. Okay,
see Veronica and our boyfriend. They were off to see
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the wizard. By wizard, I mean therapists. Okay, they were
on the way the couple's therapy, and they had an
argument that morning. And I'm gonna tell you right now,
I'm about to gas. Like you, this is another example
of why women are the problem. See this man wanted
to go see the lady with his woman, Veronica. He
was trying to make it work. She's arguing with him
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in the morning. They are on the way to go
see the wizard. They are on the way to couple's therapy.
I'm not making this up. They're on the way to
see the wizard. Veronica stops in the middle of the
lane and forced her boyfriend to exit the car because
she decided right there and there, she didn't even want
to go see the lady. She just wanted to break
up with him, so he did as asked.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
He got out the car.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
And when he got out the car and passed the
front of the car to walk to the sidewalk, the
pair made eye contact.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
So guess what she decided to do.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Hit him, Hit the damn gas, hit the gas, and
then hit him.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Came.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
They was just arguing and she decided she wanted to
break up, so she asked him to get out the car, so.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
He got out the car.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
The argument stand from somewhere though.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
See victim blaming. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
To journalists trying to get to the bottom of it
all I.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Hear is victim blaming.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Okay, the man rolled over the hood of the car
and shattered the window.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
And then hold on, it gets worse.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
He better pay for it.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Veronica lies the police and tells.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Police she didn't see her boyfriend, but then eventually admitted
to police that she hit.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Him on purpose. Damn, mind you, they only been together
for a year. They were shacking up. That's right. Now,
you got your mouth open. Now you're on the man.
Speaker 6 (04:04):
I can't believe that you said only a year. That's
twelve months of her life.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
How old is she?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Thirty?
Speaker 5 (04:10):
He tried to take the best years of her thirties.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
They were shacking up, living together for a year, and
they already in therapy, and she already tried to kill him.
Now she facing second degree assault, criminal vehicular operation, bodily harm,
gross negligence, and domestic assault.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
All that for a year relationship.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I mean, damn, is that even enough time to really
ruin a woman's pH balance? Now, I'm not the highest
grade of weed in the dispensary, but I've been around
long enough to know that Ayanla couldn't fix this life. Okay,
this man was in a relationship with a toxic crusader. Okay,
if y'all in therapy. She tried to kill you already
and it's only been a year, then you shouldn't be
going to therapy. You should be packing your stuff up
and going home, or if she's living with you, send
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her home.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Either way, y'all shouldn't be living with each.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Other because if you're in a relationship and all you
do is cry, you need to stop and ask yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Are you dating a human? Are an onion?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay? Now I'm gonna close with this. Couple's therapy won't
work if you haven't addressed your individual issues. Sometimes individual
issues can overshadow relationship problems. Okay, unresolved trauma, personal mental
health issues, addiction, you know, daddy issues, mommy issues. They
can and will have a huge impact on a partnership,
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and couple's therapy will be less effective if these underlying
issues are not addressed. The reason couple's therapy wouldn't have
worked for Veronica and her Man is simple. It's because
Veronica actually needed an exorcism. Please give Veronica gas the
sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
You won't oh the day, Oh the day, Ye.
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Poor poor poor man.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Now you feel bad for him after you said, what
did he do?
Speaker 6 (06:01):
After he got hit by a car for you to kate, No,
I feel bad for him because he got paid for
that one shield? Wowe, because why are they arguing?
Speaker 5 (06:09):
See who was arguing about?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Doesn't matter he got she ran him over with a car,
clearly something she did.
Speaker 5 (06:15):
How do you know that though? How can you just imply.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
That you know?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
If there's a guy listening right now and they were
think about kicking it to you, they have to think. Damn,
I wonder if Lauren would hit.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Me with a car and I might want to be
in a relationship with that.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
You want everything about me to get she would? Don't
play with her? Because why to get that mad? You
hit somebody with a car? What were they arguing about?
He had to have a baby on the way?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
All right? I want to play a game. Yes, let's
play a game up?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (06:40):
What racing?
Speaker 2 (06:44):
All right?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
A woman from Minnesota from.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
A town called Ottertail Ottertail Okay, She was arrested after
she struck her boyfriend with her car while the pair
was on their way to couple's therapy.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Dj MVY guess what races?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
It's a tough one. The reason I'm thinking it's tough
because Lauren said, this is what she would do.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
I didn't say that. I just feel for my sins.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
But she's from Delaware.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
She's from Delaware. Always keep that in mind.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
When Delaware address whoa white white Laura and l Rossa,
a woman was arrested Veronica after she struck her boyfriend
with her car water pairs on.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Their way to couple's therapy. Laura Lrosa guess what right
she is?
Speaker 6 (07:26):
At first I was thinking maybe she's Puerto Rican white
Puerto Rican.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
It just seemed a bit like she reacted really fascially extensively,
like you know what I.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
Mean, like glad to know about perto Ricans.
Speaker 6 (07:39):
From the in the Bronx, she's an ottertail Minnesota, you said, yes,
I stayed there as a flight attendant.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
I feel like not ottertail, but in Minnesota. I feel
like she could be a sister, just maybe a.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Little like light skin. Why light skin?
Speaker 3 (07:57):
She say, what's on your mind? Lauren, don't stut a
goat like this?
Speaker 6 (08:00):
She caught her feelings, real fasting feelings, just light skin
like this that's so long and.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
Feelings to because he toxic. He went trolling me in.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
The comments, me and you against the light skin, which
is you.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
Don't feel like there's an emotional difference between.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
The two of y'all know, I just get called that
on mine.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Okay, all right, well I'm just you know that's how
I feel.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
You think the light skin black.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Wow, the light skin black.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
We need to drink.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
You just threw something that just can't be black. Light
skin black, light skin. Yeah, we need to we need.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
I just lynched, like.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Listen, one of you was correct, when of you was wrong?
Dj n B. You are absolutely positively correct.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
She's the light skin cousin, not skin.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
She's white lord waiting people this morning.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Go stop man, hurt you.
Speaker 6 (09:01):
I don't even deal with like skinning from I had
like point five of them. Y'all be doing too much
skin man hurt too. I had like a point a
point five of a light skin man.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
It was too much. My light skin. Guy's got to
act dark skin lorn.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
If you don't want to hear him, say no more,
you stand on that. Damn it.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I witch shout to my light skin brothers out there.
I don't know what she did, yo, envy yo.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
At the car show, I walked up on envy to
say bye. He had.
Speaker 6 (09:25):
It was like a crusade. It was like thirty dominic
kid like, I'm like, yo, don't mind as well. I
had merch in here like it was a p It
was crazy. They were all taking one picture.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
There was not pack a p P.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
There was no ten it's a Brigada base it with
light skink.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
It was just black yo yellow tan claim. We have
to break that. We had to go to therapy about
because no men, you go therapy together.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
But why this time there was no d E I
in that photo. Y'all needed some d E I like
y'all needed a brown skin friend.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Shoot black and black.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
Now, y'all don't don't you don't you because when they
in my comments, you yeah, my under arms it'd be
braided like bow wow hair.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
So this whole show is probably problematic. He said, light
skinned man looked like pit bulls, and you saying you
just don't watch.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
I didn't like them.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
And when a time coming, you're about to look like
sugar cookies.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
I enjoy your warm sugar cookie.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Don't what, Wendy, that's the best.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Don't do that, just jump in please no, wait, wait
when we come back. Eight hundred and five eighty five on.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Why people look like sugar cookies.
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