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April 14, 2025 97 mins

Today on The Breakfast Club, Mel Robbins breaks down her ‘Let Them Theory’ and opens up about her career journey, the effects of AI and social media, and mental health. Plus, Charlamagne gives ‘Donkey of the Day’ to a suspect charged with terrorism after an arson attack on Governor Shapiro’s residence. Listen for more!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
Yo yo yo. Yes, is that what up?

Speaker 3 (00:08):
Onna?

Speaker 4 (00:08):
Roe?

Speaker 2 (00:08):
So good morning, Charlamagne to God, Peace to the planet.

Speaker 5 (00:11):
Is Monday?

Speaker 6 (00:14):
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (00:15):
How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, black and
holly favored. Happy to be here another day to serve
our beautiful listeners. What's happening?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
That's right? Good morning. Hopefully you had a great weekend.
How was your weekend?

Speaker 7 (00:24):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (00:24):
Mine was great. I chill with family. I just yeah,
I didn't do I didn't work all the way.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
You chilled?

Speaker 9 (00:31):
Yeah, chill. I had a curry weekend.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah. I had a very busy weekend. It started off
on Friday night, date night with the wife. I took
out to see Vibes Cartel.

Speaker 9 (00:40):
Oh you was in a mix?

Speaker 2 (00:41):
What what now? The Ball Clays, which is located in Brooklyn,
is where the Brooklyn Nets play with the Liberty plays.
It usually takes me by an hour to get there
from the crib. Right Friday night took me every bit
of two hours and forty five minutes to get there.
It was so many people out there was.

Speaker 9 (00:58):
It worth it. It looked like it.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
Well you know what it is, so you know, of
course it was worth it. I had a great time.
I don't know every single record, but my wife is
part Jamaican, so that is her thing, so she rocked
out the whole night. But when I mean they turned
Brooklyn into like Jamaica, Jamaica. They had like the jerk
chicken trucks outside of PC and Riches, They had the
jerk chicken trucks outside the library. They had the jerk

(01:22):
chicken trucks everywhere.

Speaker 6 (01:23):
You say, people in Houston know what the hell you're
talking about. Could you be a little bit more descriptive?

Speaker 2 (01:28):
I just said vibes, Cartels con. They don't know what
place the sell electronics. They don't sell piece of Richard Downtown.
I don't know, he don't know, but they it's an
electric spot. So they had jerk chicken spots everywhere. So
that was amazing. He brought out busting Rhymes on Friday.

Speaker 10 (01:43):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
He brought out Booju Bontown on Friday, so an amazing show. Great, great, great,
great show. And then Saturday, the professional soccer team that
plays in New York City that took my son to
the game, and he was able to start the game.
You know how in each city that you go push
a button to start the game, you ring the bell
or something like that. So he was able to push
the button to start the game. So it was a
big family fun weekend. So Salutor vibes Cartel in the

(02:06):
New York City Football Club for happening. It's had a
great time, great time this weekend.

Speaker 6 (02:09):
Who to everybody I saw in Baltimore?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
Man, I was in Baltimore, Maryland all weekend Justice Justice
Hometown for my daughter's a cheerleading competition.

Speaker 6 (02:17):
And right now I'm wearing a hoodie from Nick's Fish House.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
Okay, nick fish House is a spot I went to
in Baltimore.

Speaker 9 (02:23):
It was that good.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
You took the merch well, you know what they showed
me a lot of love, Salutor, Carley. You know, you
know when you being out of town, you know you
might hit people up and ask them where to go,
or you might go on Google and you see where
the best restaurants are. And I just went on Google,
and you know, nick Fish House came up and I
just went there.

Speaker 6 (02:39):
Just to go eat.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
And the owner there, Carly Man, dropping the clues BOMD
for Carley. She wasn't even there, but when she heard
I was there, they showed a lot of love to
me and my family. So thank you Carley, and thank
you everybody at Nick's Fish House. And they gave me
this hoodie to wear. So when people get me merched
the wear you know what I mean, I want to
support So yeah, I woard so lut Nick's Fish.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah. Well, today on the show, Mel Robbins will be
joining us.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Oh my god, I love Mel Robbins. Dropping the clues
bombs for Mel Robbins. I just did her podcast last week,
The Mel Robbins Podcast, one of the number one podcasts
in the country. And you know, she has a great
book out right now that I've been telling everybody is
a must read. If you have not read The Let
Them Theory, if you're not listening to the Let Them Theory.

Speaker 6 (03:20):
You need to.

Speaker 11 (03:21):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
It's described as a life changing tool that millions of
people can't stop talking about.

Speaker 6 (03:25):
And I guess I'm one of those millions of people.
That's right.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
So we're gonna pick kicking it with Mel Robbinson a
little bit. And then we got front page news Morgan
will be joining us so don't go anywhere. It's the
breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning. Everybody's DJ n V.
Jess Hilarry is Charlamagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club,
long the roster, filling in for jests.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
You know what else I realized about Baltimore and I
was just was here to talk about this. They really
do call everybody shorty in Baltimore. The guys hen calling
I ain't never heard. Maybe I ain't never paid no attention,
but when a man call you shorty, that's a little
and SA respect O R d y yoo.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
Charlote, what up?

Speaker 6 (03:59):
Uncle shawl up? Shawty?

Speaker 2 (04:01):
What he was talking about this?

Speaker 8 (04:03):
You know what they say that like how we just
say like yo, like it's just like their thing. Well,
but they don't say like shaw It's like shorty.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
It's like I don't care or actually, we gotta keeps
getting some front page news.

Speaker 6 (04:17):
Now.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
April nineteenth, the NBA playoffs be again. I don't know
what team you're rooting for. It looks like Cleveland looks
pretty good, and so there's OKC. But I'm going for
the Knicks, is what it is? All right?

Speaker 7 (04:28):
What up? Uggain?

Speaker 12 (04:29):
Hey, y'all, what up?

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Shan, what up?

Speaker 7 (04:31):
What up?

Speaker 12 (04:32):
Dummy?

Speaker 13 (04:32):
That's usually what it's, you know, the Baltimore L definitely,
And I don't know.

Speaker 12 (04:37):
That you put a T y a d y on.

Speaker 13 (04:39):
It's usually sure or low, which is like short for
shorty or little.

Speaker 12 (04:44):
But you know, I'm not gonna get too much into that,
just because speak more to that later. First step on
front page.

Speaker 13 (04:49):
President Trump is said to be in excellent health following
his annual check up on Friday. White House physician Sean
Barbella described Trump's neurological condition as robust and released on Sunday. Overall,
it said the seventy eight year old commander in chief
was found to be an excellent cognitive and physical health.
Barbella noted that Trump is six foot three and weighs

(05:12):
two hundred and twenty four pounds. He concluded by saying,
the President is fully fit to execute his duties in office.
And the President actually spoke to reporters on Sunday aboard
Air Force one, and here's what he had to say
in regards to his checkup.

Speaker 14 (05:26):
Sick a listen and perfect, and I took a cognitive
exam and I would challenge anybody here to beat host marks,
because I have a perfect mark.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Are you oppressed by that?

Speaker 12 (05:38):
Are you impressed by that? All right? So the president
is good, in good health.

Speaker 13 (05:42):
So the White House press, excuse me, white House physician says.

Speaker 12 (05:46):
In other news, let's talk tariffs.

Speaker 13 (05:48):
A top advisor to President Trump says the administration's tariffs
are working of Hearing on NBC's Meet the Press, Peter
Navarro pushed back against concerns the White House didn't have
a plan for implementing tariffs, saying they were issued with
a specific goal in mind. Let's take a listen to
what that goal is, Peter Navarro.

Speaker 15 (06:05):
So that's what we set knowing full well, knowing full
well that a lot.

Speaker 14 (06:09):
Of countries would come right to.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Us and want a bargain.

Speaker 12 (06:14):
We've got ninety deals in ninety days, possibly pending.

Speaker 13 (06:18):
Yeah, So we insisted the tariffs are working as designed
as and have already pushed many countries to come to
the negotiating table when it comes to the US now.
Navarro went on to say the Trump administration is working
to fix unfair trading practices that keep US goods out
of foreign markets. Navarro also insisted relationships, his relationship with
Elon Musk is great, despite the fact that they have

(06:40):
had that little exchange before where he called Musk or
where Musk called him a moron. On the other side
of the aisle, Senator Elizabeth Warren says President Trump's tariffs
are hurting the US economy. She made those comments on
CNN State of the Union, saying the uncertainty around how
the tariffs will be enforced is stopping company from actually
making investments in this country. Let's take a listen to

(07:03):
Senator Elizabeth Warren.

Speaker 16 (07:05):
Investors will not invest in the United States when Donald
Trump is playing red light green light with tariffs. And
it's entirely appropriate to have an investigation to make sure
that Donald Trump, donald Trump's family, donald Trump's inner circle
didn't get advanced information and trade on that information.

Speaker 13 (07:30):
So Warren, who serves on the Senate Banking Committee, also
renewed calls for an investigation. As you heard in the audio,
it's possible insider training, saying Trump may have committed a
crime by telling allies to buy stocks shortly before announcing
the tearff pause, and the announcement caused stock prices to
improve drastically. Excuse me to improve dramatically after days of

(07:50):
losses up.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Cannot commit crimes. He has presidential immunity. All he has
to do is say that it was some type of
official act and the Supreme Court will say, hey, it
wasn't a time that he committed. Why do we keep
back and like we forgot that he got granted presidential immunity.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
I don't know.

Speaker 12 (08:04):
The Supreme Court is seeming to take case by case, so.

Speaker 6 (08:07):
We will see.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
Please, So the time's working or not, because you know,
on one side they say they're working. On the other
side they say that not, but you know, numbers are everything.
Are they working?

Speaker 13 (08:16):
So when it comes to the numbers, I mean, prices
are up for us right now. But you know, that's
the whole point is that supposedly these countries are going
to be coming to the negotiating table to make sure
that trade is more fair in the United States as
well as wherever these countries are abroad.

Speaker 12 (08:32):
But the whole thing.

Speaker 13 (08:33):
Is supposedly we're not going to know until about ninety days.
But then again, he put the ninety day pause, so
it's hard to tell, to be honest, you know, we'll
see it's a waiting we'll see type of situation that
we're in right now regarding tariffs and also Morgan.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
I know you're probably gonna talk about it next hoile,
but you know, the Supreme Court told Donald Trump to
do something last week, which is bringing the brother back
from Maryland. And they told the Supreme Court SMD. Yeah, well,
well Trump State briefcad s MD.

Speaker 12 (09:01):
That's what they said at first. But you know, and
true Trump fashion, he has changed changed his mind. And
there's enough date on that.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
All right, we'll do that next hour. Everybody else, get
it off your chest eight hundred five eight five one
oh five one. If you need to vent phone lines
to why to open eight hundred five eight five one
oh five one is the Breakfast Club?

Speaker 17 (09:18):
Good morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to
get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
one five one. We want to hear from you on
the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Hello. Who's this go?

Speaker 18 (09:34):
Good morning dj MV. What's going on?

Speaker 11 (09:36):
Bro?

Speaker 18 (09:36):
This is you said by the Rose Evans.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Whatever you get it off your chest? Brother?

Speaker 1 (09:40):
Well, just why I want.

Speaker 18 (09:42):
To talk with Just give you some love, you know,
I show you, uh you posted on the pictures of
you and your son at the soccer master or whatever,
and you're always doing that. You know, I really love
seeing black file who peeked out over these kids. You know,
enough of us don't do that. And you know, I
myself happened to be the five, the three best sons

(10:02):
in the world. I feel like every father she'd feel
that way about about his son and his daughters.

Speaker 16 (10:07):
I know how.

Speaker 18 (10:08):
Charlemagne all the spending time with his daughters, you know,
everything they took it. That's that going on. You guys
never ever put your family seck. And I love to
appreciate that. Charlemagne. Yes, sir, he's my brother.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
How were you word?

Speaker 19 (10:26):
I was?

Speaker 18 (10:26):
You know, I was vibing, I was, I was out there.
You know, I had my eyes peeled. I never saw
that my brother. You know, we had the conversation on Friday.
You had to know about you watching my trailer, sir.

Speaker 6 (10:38):
Oh shoot to watch?

Speaker 18 (10:41):
Yes, sir, you missed show money on Instagram?

Speaker 6 (10:46):
Tag me in it real quick on igs, I can
find it quick.

Speaker 18 (10:48):
I can't. Okay, hold on, tag you right now.

Speaker 6 (10:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
My Instagram is see the god ce t A A
G follows.

Speaker 18 (10:57):
I know what you come on but a week.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
And I was just doing the shout out for those
who don't know so I can get some new follows.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
That's up.

Speaker 18 (11:03):
Okay, So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna I'm
I'm gonna tag you right.

Speaker 10 (11:06):
Now, but listen, tell them.

Speaker 18 (11:07):
All I want to do is picture to one of
your people. I know you too busy, a lot going on.
When you see it, you know what I'm I'm gonna
tag you right now though, but dj Envy, Yes, sir, bro,
I really really really want to know that. I really
appreciate how you out with the kids or whatever, and
how you are showing the young father how you can
be having all this going on at the end of

(11:27):
the day, Dad is your number one job, bro, Big
up on that.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
Absolutely have a great time doing it.

Speaker 18 (11:33):
To one last thing we released, Navidad.

Speaker 2 (11:37):
I don't know what that means, sir.

Speaker 6 (11:38):
You know what that means.

Speaker 2 (11:39):
I don't know what that means. Happy birthday to YouTube?

Speaker 18 (11:41):
So wrong? Is that long?

Speaker 1 (11:42):
What's up?

Speaker 19 (11:43):
Long? Hey?

Speaker 18 (11:43):
Good morning, good morning? And listen they be Christen, they
be on you. I don't like that shit baby jumping you. Listen. Listen.
Your time is your time and listen. You don't want
mister right now, you want mister right thank you. I mean,
you know, I appreciate that.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
But Charlemagne, yes, sir, you said we gotta go use kay,
appreciate you.

Speaker 9 (12:09):
Anybody letting me say period you had to come on
city because.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
He was lett him go with.

Speaker 9 (12:14):
What he was saying.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
That Jesus bad.

Speaker 9 (12:16):
When I'm getting some love.

Speaker 2 (12:17):
Hello, who's this.

Speaker 12 (12:18):
In the vain?

Speaker 10 (12:19):
Blue?

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Then blue?

Speaker 11 (12:20):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (12:20):
Get it off your chest?

Speaker 20 (12:21):
Hey, I just wanted to give you all a shout
out real quick, uh, good morning every Monday. And I
just kind of want to touch on those terror that
you're uh a little too earlier with Donald Trump.

Speaker 10 (12:32):
I think it's important.

Speaker 20 (12:33):
Right now for what he's doing, uh, because a lot
of people are, you know, worried about the short term
uh prices increasing and things like that. But you're basically
in bed with the enemy. And if you ask anybody
with common ton if it's okay to be in bed
with the enemy, most people will tell you no. The
terariff against fault countries are basically to avoid China from

(12:56):
sending their product to the country to exploit trade.

Speaker 6 (13:00):
Agree with those countries, Listen.

Speaker 1 (13:02):
I hope that the long term, I hope there is
a long term plan to this and I hope it
does work out.

Speaker 6 (13:07):
I'm not sitting here rooting against it.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
But you know, when we talk about, you know, for
the moment people having some pain, you do realize those
moments can kill people, right, Like, people really can't afford
to livet Like, that's it effect that there's a great
I don't know if y'all watched Black Mirror, but I
watched the episode of Black Mirror yesterday that Tracy Ellis
rosses in.

Speaker 9 (13:24):
Is that the one that Ray was just sent well Easter.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
Ray is not in that episode, but because it's anthology series,
but Tracy Ellis ross is in it. And it's literally
an episode about how a person, about how a couple
cannot afford to live. That I'm not gonna tell you
no more than that, but that's literally what it's about.
Some people cannot afford to live, and they have to
make a choice on whether or not to stay alive
or die simply because they can't afford to live.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
Well, get it off your chest eight hundred five eight
five one oh five to one. If you need to VID,
hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
the Breakfast Club, right right?

Speaker 18 (13:58):
Ray, Yo, charlomne yamvy, what up are we lost?

Speaker 2 (14:02):
This is your time to get it off your chest.
I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear
from you on the breakfast club.

Speaker 18 (14:08):
Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what
it is we live. Hello.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Who's this yo?

Speaker 18 (14:13):
This is Chris Chris.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Get it off your chest, man, I want.

Speaker 10 (14:17):
To figure up Viob's cartel.

Speaker 12 (14:18):
Man.

Speaker 18 (14:18):
He came did his thing in Brooklyn.

Speaker 17 (14:20):
Man, that was nice.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
Man.

Speaker 18 (14:22):
I live in Florida, though, but man, I'm Jamaican and
just to see that, that's that's big for the culture.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
Man.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Oh you didn't go to the show, you just you
just check it in.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, cause that's big man, you know what
I'm saying, jamaking and just for the dance out community.

Speaker 10 (14:33):
Man, that's big.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Everybody came together, no incident, no problems. It was a
great show. He's gonna be out there soon.

Speaker 6 (14:40):
I think he's got a Miami concert.

Speaker 2 (14:41):
He got a Miami consent in Fort lauda Dale concert
coming up. So you definitely got to check that.

Speaker 18 (14:45):
Yeah, yeah, for sure, man, big off the vibe.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Actually it's April no May seventeenth, he'll be in Sunrise Florida.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
Yeah, definitely checking out great show. Hello, who's this Hey?

Speaker 21 (14:56):
Good morning?

Speaker 20 (14:57):
Did he say hey, Shaye?

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Get it off your chest?

Speaker 4 (15:00):
So this is a request for trova made. I'm requesting
that you stop giving black people donkey of the day.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
That's impossible, that would be that would be discrimination. Black
donkey today does not discriminate.

Speaker 4 (15:13):
Exactly, But that's what we do now. We've gotten rid
of THEE and I practices. So let's stop giving black
people donkey yesterday.

Speaker 6 (15:22):
That that would be stupid. Donkey today does not discriminate.

Speaker 1 (15:25):
Black people get donkey, White people get donkey, Asians get donkey.

Speaker 6 (15:28):
That's why we do. Guess what race it is?

Speaker 19 (15:30):
Like?

Speaker 7 (15:30):
No, Yeah, and I know.

Speaker 4 (15:34):
I feel like it shines a very negative spotlight on
black people. We've already got enough negativity on us. Why
do we have to spread will not weave? But why
do you have to spread to love and give it
to different races when there's enough foolery going on amongst
older communities.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
The fact that you even here's the thing, right, are
you going to stop talking about black people period? When
you when when when you see a trending topic and
it's somebody, uh, you know, getting jumped on social media
for whatever, are you gonna not chime in?

Speaker 4 (16:04):
Well, I really don't try me and anyway, oh you
really don't know.

Speaker 6 (16:07):
You have to stop. Period.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
That means that if you want me to stop giving
black people donkey today, then you can't ever speak uh
ill about black people in any way, shape or form,
even if they do something stupid that doesn't make no sense.

Speaker 4 (16:18):
Right, I don't do it, you know, I don't do
that online. Yeah, I don't speak negative about black people.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
I don't think it's I don't think it's speaking negative
to state the obvious. And and please don't make don't
make donkey today a race thing. Okay, Donkey to day
is about giving people the credit they deserve for being stupid.

Speaker 2 (16:34):
Well, thank you, Hello, who's this?

Speaker 21 (16:37):
Hey?

Speaker 6 (16:40):
What part of the A four three?

Speaker 21 (16:41):
You calling from from Georgetown? But I'm leaving the most call.

Speaker 6 (16:44):
Telling hey what you got? You got a little you
got a little boo out there.

Speaker 21 (16:47):
Don't do that. I've got a little job, a little.

Speaker 6 (16:49):
Job, okay, okay, okay, all right, So.

Speaker 21 (16:52):
Good morning, guys, good morning, good morning. Congratulated you on
your book speaking Johnny Kate plus a sophisticated version I
liked that for you.

Speaker 6 (17:04):
She said, what, thank you?

Speaker 21 (17:06):
It's John Kate plus a Charlamage.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
Like, huh, the book comes out tomorrow, real life, real family.

Speaker 7 (17:16):
But thank you.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
Have you got it yet?

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Well?

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Have you ordered it? Pre ordered?

Speaker 21 (17:18):
I got the other one, so I am going with this, Okay,
I got Charlemagne book. I didn't want to take a
gratulation on your podcast. I love you. I love that
for you, and I wanted to mention when you was
on college team and he is saying, you wanted to know,
like why you are so important and he said, it's

(17:38):
your time. That's why you're here. It is your season,
and I want you to bask in that. And you're welcome. Charlemagne.
A few months ago, I called him right before Christmas
and I told you guys that you know, my mom,
my sister, and my brother had died all with.

Speaker 18 (17:53):
Her four months.

Speaker 21 (17:54):
I forgot to mention that I went to therapy and
you were the reason why I went to therapy.

Speaker 6 (17:59):
Oh dope, man, that's dope. I'm glad that are you
still in there?

Speaker 21 (18:02):
You just went for a little bit, ran out, so
I'm not in there anymore, but I will go back.

Speaker 1 (18:09):
Well, listen, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org. That's my uh,
that's my that's my mental health nonprofit. And you know
we have opportunities for you to receive like free therapy
and free grief grief counseling.

Speaker 21 (18:22):
Okay, I'll do that.

Speaker 6 (18:23):
Yeah, go to Mentalwealth Alliance dot org.

Speaker 21 (18:25):
All right, I hope you guys have a great weed.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
You too, Sending you nothing but positive energy, loving like
get it off your chest.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Eight hundred five eight five one five one. Now we
got the latest lawn coming up.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
We do.

Speaker 8 (18:35):
You're honest, there's some trouble. There's already trouble here, but
try to start the pot.

Speaker 6 (18:41):
Girl Biling.

Speaker 9 (18:46):
Reheated it for the game.

Speaker 6 (18:47):
We did not.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
It never cooled off. Anybody that thinks it cools off
ain't paying attention.

Speaker 6 (18:50):
And you must be twelve.

Speaker 9 (18:52):
We're gonna talk about it, all right.

Speaker 6 (18:53):
That's like Tom and Jerry. That beef is up forever forever.

Speaker 9 (18:57):
I had to mute my tweets. I tweeted like is
this going to go on forever?

Speaker 2 (19:00):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (19:00):
It is.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
Oh, you don't know your history?

Speaker 9 (19:02):
I do you talk about it. We'll get into it, y'all.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
Save it all right, we'll get into that next it's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
Morning.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Everybody is ceej Envy, Jess, Hilarry, Charlamagne, the guy. We
are the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 7 (19:17):
Good morning.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
Let's get to the latest with Lauren.

Speaker 5 (19:20):
Lauren be coming a straight fast man.

Speaker 7 (19:23):
She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.

Speaker 9 (19:26):
I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.

Speaker 6 (19:29):
She'd be having the latest on it.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
That's the big law. The latest with Lauren la Rosa.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details, sometimes you
have a little bit everything.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
It's the latest on the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 19 (19:40):
Something.

Speaker 8 (19:42):
So Jau and fifty cent are going well, I would
say back and forth, but fifty cent hasn't fully responded
to Jarro yet. But he did respond to the fact
that ja Rul was on the Breakfast Club and we
had a conversation with him about fifty and a few things.

Speaker 9 (19:54):
Let's take a listen to Jarow and the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 11 (19:56):
You know, I see some of the things that he
gets involved in, fuse on something like like crow up money.

Speaker 9 (20:02):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 11 (20:03):
Like, when I see the things that he does, and
you know he did the Earth a million, I'm like.

Speaker 6 (20:08):
How do you feel about that?

Speaker 11 (20:09):
So, of course nobody likes all his goofies, but it's goofy,
you know what I'm saying. So I'm like, I'm not.
Preme said it best because I was hot, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
I was hot. I was I was ready to go nuclear.

Speaker 6 (20:20):
And you know, I say.

Speaker 11 (20:21):
I spoke to him anyway, and Prince said, y'all, he
said that. He said, you know, he said, here's you
gotta understand about who we are and what we are. Said,
we are masters of self defense. I said, because I'm not.
I'm I don't want to start trouble and make trouble
with people. But if we got to get into it
and make it, oh, I'll I'll put it to it
or I'll take it to the next you know. So

(20:43):
that's why I'm like, you know what, that is the
best description of what I am and who I am
as a man that I could ever think about.

Speaker 9 (20:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (20:52):
So, after the video started to make the rounds, fifty
Cent posted to his Instagram and then deleted it. It
was a screenshot at Jarrul sitting in a sea here
at the Breakfast Club, and the caption said the breakfast
club should be ashamed of themselves asking questions that perpetuate violence.
This fool has been getting ready to go what he
calls nuclear for twenty two years. Laugh oulout your man
and my runts right now. So after this raps, Yeah,

(21:17):
it's like you know the the Wayians be like smoking
on your homie.

Speaker 9 (21:21):
That.

Speaker 8 (21:22):
So then Jarroul got on Twitter or x and decided
to respond. He said he had a day off from tour,
so he had time and then he just started going off.
So he told fifty that until fifty does something to
the people that shot him, he can't trol no more
go hand to get business like a champ. He told
him the SMD. He called him the B word. He said,
he already ate your he already ate his lunch, so

(21:44):
shut up. They someone had said. Somebody responded to Jarrol
and said, just admit that you watch Power lmao, like
calling him a fan. Jarrol said, never seen one episode.
He's solid or where he is? He told fifty from
now on, his name is Booboo and that's what they
used to call because that's they used to call him
on the streets. But really it was booboo to fool.
He says that fifty cents from the streets from Brooklyn,

(22:06):
you boo boo from Queens. He says he called fifty
cent used car salesman. He brought the fact that he
used to be used car salesman. Everything you do is trash,
not one good music, one good album after that, trash, trash,
TV shows, trash everything. Some of these tweets is not
really tweeting. He says that he's gonna make.

Speaker 9 (22:31):
He just looked.

Speaker 8 (22:31):
He said fifty c in his garbage that he's trashed,
and people were responding to that, like, now you know
that ain't true. You know he didn't have some good
music and has some hits and yeah, so he's just
been going off on Twitter. Fifty has not responded to
this yet, but I'm sure he probably might. But he
did delete that first tweet, I mean that first Instagram post.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
It tickles me to watch the new generation, you know,
be intrigued by this, like we've been watching this forever.
This is Cowboys versus Redskins, This is Lakers versus versus
North Carolin, this is the Hatfield versus McCoy's.

Speaker 6 (23:00):
That's what Jo ruling.

Speaker 2 (23:01):
And it'll never end.

Speaker 6 (23:02):
It's never gonna end.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
It'll be ninety nine with canes going at each sitting each.

Speaker 6 (23:06):
Other with wheelchairs. This is just the case, like it's
a beef that will never end. And I understand it.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
If you know the history between them, you will completely understand.
And I ain't got time to sit here and give
y'all know history lessons.

Speaker 8 (23:19):
Yeah, jo Rul started posting paperwork calling fifty cent a
rat like it was going and going and going and going.
I tweeted, I'm like, y'all, I love both of them,
white kick, that's just in Oh. I had to meet
my tweet the way that people were like, we don't
want it to end and it's not going I'm like.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Well, no, it's a never end. It's not going to end.
Like I said, there'll be ninety nine and wheelchairs and
canes going at each other. Dis and Eve.

Speaker 22 (23:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:41):
Well and from from never Mind, I was good, never mind,
it don't even matter, none of your business.

Speaker 6 (23:45):
It's not it's not well.

Speaker 1 (23:49):
But if you go watch the interview, all I'm gonna
say from fifty's perspective, when you feel like somebody tried
to take everything from you, everything, yeah, not just lively everything.

Speaker 6 (24:02):
Yeah, it's not goever it's a fevol.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
It's never well.

Speaker 8 (24:06):
Speaking of going up, Gail King is going to space today,
So as long as weather permits today, Gail King will
be going up into space at nine thirty am.

Speaker 9 (24:16):
But it's not just Gail King.

Speaker 8 (24:17):
This is actually the first all woman crew to lift
off in nearly six decades, and they'll be going up
via Blue Origin, which is owned by Eli Muh I'm sorry,
which is owned by Jeff Bezos. Now in this flight
you have Gail King, Katy Perry, Laurence Sanchez who is
the fiance of Jeff besos Aihabo Aman Nuegian, and Carrion Flynn.

Speaker 9 (24:40):
So they'll be headed up at nine thirty and there
will be a live.

Speaker 8 (24:42):
Stream that will be streaming this that I believe that
livestream portal opens around like eight am on various places
where you can watch them prior to and getting on
and taking off, and they'll be up there for some
time and then they'll come right back down.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
I've got there for a minute or something like that.

Speaker 8 (24:56):
Yeah, but then they have to before they go up
though it does have to be cleared of course weather
and all that stuff, so it's all depending. But I
don't know about y'all, but I was saying about this.
The dad just ask Charlotte, like, would y'all ever go
to space?

Speaker 6 (25:06):
Nope?

Speaker 2 (25:10):
Before I would have, But now I got six kids,
now I might.

Speaker 6 (25:14):
I ain't got no reason to be up there.

Speaker 2 (25:15):
I would love that, but I've done sky diving, I've
done all types of stupid stuff before, but not now.

Speaker 6 (25:20):
But the six kid Now, I saw something yesterday.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
I was reading this weekend about how they're building like
a space hotel that's gonna be for like four hundred guests,
and it's gonna have artificial gravity up there. And I'm like,
I have no reason to be up there. You know,
I'm cool. I like being on island, so I don't
need to be in space. Hell, I need to be
in space.

Speaker 8 (25:37):
I think it's just the excitement to say you experienced
it and to see what it is. And they'll actually
unbuckle and float in the capsule for about four minutes
while up.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
There, oh longer than a minute? Well what y'all? Wish
them the best of love, praying I.

Speaker 6 (25:47):
Wait to hear about it.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
Yeah, you didn't even show me.

Speaker 6 (25:49):
I don't need to experience that. I can smart people
learn from their own mistakes.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Whyse people learn from the mistakes of others, not saying
that they're making a mistake. I'm just saying that I
can learn and enjoy something watching somebody else.

Speaker 6 (25:59):
I'm fine watching them.

Speaker 8 (26:00):
Yeah, some people gotta walk and some people got to
sit down and watch. And I'm down and sit.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Down and watch. There's no business being in space, but
I wish him the best stuff. I'm not a thrill
seeker like that. Like life is, you know, hectic enough.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
I used to be, Like I said, I did the
sky diving thing, I do that zipping over the Safari.

Speaker 8 (26:20):
It's all crazy because I used to be a flight
aer sent it, but I would never do stuff like that, did.

Speaker 2 (26:23):
All that stupid stuff like I guess and plus I
got it.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
I got I deal with anxiety like I don't need
to be scaring myself. I don't even like going to
see horror movies to have them pay somebody to scare me.
For people that go on roller coasters for what I will.

Speaker 2 (26:36):
Yeah, I'm a roller That one jump out of plane
was everything. I wouldn't do it again, but it was everything,
just free floating in the sky like Superman.

Speaker 7 (26:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26:48):
Win you and you just just watching. Everything was beautiful.

Speaker 19 (26:51):
Man.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
Again, I was all the thrill I needed, guns pulled on,
needed and beat. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (26:57):
I've been through a lot over there.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
You don't need to know.

Speaker 6 (27:00):
I deserve everything I got. I deserve it all.

Speaker 9 (27:01):
Hereiot, you're going to be right here on the ground
to it and fill it.

Speaker 2 (27:04):
That's right, that's right, right, he gonna be in space.
That is the latest with Laura. Now when we come back,
we got front Page News and then author Mel Robbins
will be joining us. That don't go anywhere. It's the
Breakfast Club.

Speaker 23 (27:14):
Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club Morning.

Speaker 2 (27:17):
Everybody is DJ Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamage the guy. We
are to Breakfast Club. Layla Rosa is here. Let's get
in some front page news. Now, if you're an NBA fan,
the playoffs again. April nineteenth, all right, So April nineteenth
they have the playing tournament and then the playoffs begin.
So good luck to the New York Knicks out there.
All right? What up, Morgan?

Speaker 12 (27:37):
Hey, what's up? Al?

Speaker 13 (27:38):
So earlier in the show, we were talking about President
Trump and the Supreme Court, right, so he said he
will follow the Supreme Court order to return a Maryland
man who was wrongfully reported. Now. Last Thursday, the High
Court ruled that the government must facilitate the return of
Kilmar Abrego Garcia, who was supported by accident last month
to an El Salvador prison now. When asked about it
on Air Force One on Friday, Trump said he respects

(28:01):
the Supreme Court and that if the Supreme Court said
bring somebody back.

Speaker 12 (28:06):
That he would do it. Charlemagne.

Speaker 13 (28:08):
So, the State Department says, the Maryland man who was
wrongfully afforded to El Salvador is quote alive and secure.
Officials initially wouldn't get his whereabouts. On Saturday, but it
was revealed that Garcia is being held in a Now
Salvador in prison called the Terrorism Confinement Center, and later
lawyers for Garcia are US also asking the judge to

(28:28):
hold the Justice Apartment in contempt for failing to return
him to the US.

Speaker 12 (28:32):
So, right now, what the judge and what's surrounding.

Speaker 13 (28:36):
This case basically is they are trying to facilitate his return.
But they also said that that can't happen, you know,
as immediate as the courts would like.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
I saw that Friday, with twelve hours ago to Trump,
administration contends it has no duty to return the illegally
deported man to the US.

Speaker 6 (28:54):
That was literally twelve hours ago. Listen in the New
York Times.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
I saw him say that Friday, but hours ago they
said something totally different.

Speaker 13 (29:02):
I was going to say on Saturday. This is what
he said, that the man is alive and secure. I
know that the court has ruled that he is supposed
to provide or the administration excuse me, and the DOJ
is supposed to provide daily updates to the court, to
the judge in regards to Garcia, how they're facilitating getting
him back. So I should have an update again for

(29:23):
you tomorrow. I'm supposed to based on what the court ruled.
But you know, we will see again. We will see
with Trump, we will see. Switching gears to Pennsylvania. A
man is in custody and will face attempted murder and
arson charges following an early morning fire at the Pennsylvania
Governor's mansion.

Speaker 12 (29:39):
According to the Pennsylvania.

Speaker 13 (29:40):
State Police, firefighters responded to the Harrisburg residents of Shapiro
at about two am. Now, Jos Shapiro says his family
was home at the time, but we're able to escape unharmed.
Governor Josh Shapiro also said the violence needs to stop
and this action will not deter him.

Speaker 12 (29:56):
Let's take a listen to his comments.

Speaker 14 (29:58):
It's kind of violence is becoming far too common in
our society, and I don't give it damn if it's
coming from one particular side or the other. If this
individual was trying to deter me from doing my job
as your governor, rest assured, I will find a way
to work even harder than I was just yesterday.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
Yes Luther.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
Governor jos Shapiro man, great governor, great human. I hate
that happened to him and his family, and I don't
understand how that happened. Like that's the governor's mansion. How
did he even get onto property? Yeah, how did he
even get close enough to the house and even said
it on that that's scary.

Speaker 12 (30:35):
Shapiro did say that.

Speaker 13 (30:37):
He went on to say that the attack was targeted,
but a specific motive is not yet known of Pennsylvania
State Police, of course, say that the investigation is ongoing
and they believe it was an act of arson. So again,
I'll keep you posted as that story develops.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
Well, you know, keep this in mind, Governor Shapiro. The
reason they're targeting you is because you are a threat
to Luther. Governor Jos Shapiro, like you know, and it's
that you know, in twenty twenty eight he'd be a
prime candidate. But the Democratic brand is so whack that
it makes the great ones like Governor Joshuapiro, you know,
it chained them a little bit just because the brand

(31:11):
is so whack.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
Yeah, and you got to fix the security. Got to
make sure he's more security now, Like you said, he's
in the governor's mansion. There's no way in hell they
should have got that close.

Speaker 8 (31:18):
So right, they got on about the house, but it
shouldn't have been all right, all right, guys, And I
just wanted to touch on this story.

Speaker 13 (31:25):
There is a story that's been developing. I've been watching
this story, but I didn't want to rush to report
on it and just let some of the facts come out.
There's been a developing story out of Texas following a
stabbing death at a high school track meet. Carmelo Anthony,
with a k no relation to the basketball players that
I know of, was charged in a fatal stabbing of
seventeen year old Austin Metcalf at a track meet about

(31:48):
two weeks ago at Frisco's Id's Memorial High School. Now,
his family announced on Saturday that they had hired a
new attorney to represent Anthony. Anthony has no previous criminal
history and isn't likely to be considered a flight risk
since his family lives in Frisco. Now, local activists and
spokesperson for Anthony addressed the media to clear up some
rumors that this happened as a result of Metcalf bullying

(32:09):
Anthony and that the two knew each other prior to
this incident, which is not true. Let's take a listen
to spokesperson Dominique Alexander does.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
Disinformation that is going online is hurting this case and it.

Speaker 7 (32:27):
Has to stop.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
It has to stop, y'all.

Speaker 1 (32:31):
As we know it right now, Austin Metcalf and Carmela
Anthony did not know each other.

Speaker 6 (32:39):
They did not know each other. Let's stop it.

Speaker 13 (32:42):
So for the Frisco murder suspect Carmelo Anthony, he has
a bond reduction hearing scheduled for today. His attorney's planned
to ask the court to reduce his bond to one
million dollars. Now, Metcalf was laid to rest over the
weekend on Saturday. Let's take a listen to Austin Metcalf,
the father he will as he talks about his son.

Speaker 20 (33:02):
He stabbed my son in the heart and killed him.

Speaker 4 (33:04):
That's the extent of this.

Speaker 21 (33:06):
That's what it was over something so small, so trivial.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
He's a leader, you believe in God.

Speaker 20 (33:14):
He was a great kid, made me the proudest father
in the world.

Speaker 6 (33:20):
That's awesome.

Speaker 13 (33:22):
Yeah, So of course I will keep you guys posted
as to how this story develops. But again, as mentioned,
there is a bond reduction hearing today and there seems
to be quite the support for the suspect. There has
been a fundraiser. Give go has raised more than two
hundred and eighty five thousand dollars in regards to support

(33:42):
for his defense. So gifsing go also has fundraisers for
Kyle Rittenhouse and Daniel Penny, just to give you guys
some perspective on that. So it seems to be those
who are supporting the what's the word I would use,
less popular or those who just defense basically, I'll just say,
but yeah, so bringing things home to you guys in
New York really quickly. To wrap things up, the Central

(34:04):
Park five, also known as the Exonerated Five, got the
green light from a federal judge on Thursday to move
forward with a defamation lawsuit against President Trump.

Speaker 12 (34:11):
The five black and one Hispanic man.

Speaker 13 (34:13):
Were teenagers when they were arrested in nineteen eighty nine
for assault and rape of a white woman dragging in
New York City park. Trump took out a full page
newspaper ad calling for the return of the death penalty
following the incident. It of course took years before they
were all eventually freed and exonerated, and someone else confessed
to the crime and DNA evidence backed that up. That

(34:35):
didn't stop Trump from commenting on their case as recently
as twenty twenty four, even going as far as falsely
claiming the victim in the incident had been killed.

Speaker 12 (34:43):
So these guys.

Speaker 13 (34:44):
Are like, yeah, y'are you're not going to do that
to me, and they're going to move forward with that
case in regards to a defamation lawsuit against President Trump.
So we'll see what happens with that as well. But
that's your front page news y'all. Y'all can follow me
on socials at Morgan Media and for more our news coverage,
follow the Black Information Network at Black Information Network, download
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(35:05):
nnews dot com.

Speaker 12 (35:06):
Have you Monday, Let's make it a great.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Thank you, Morgan, Thank you all. Right now, when we
come back, Mel Robbins will be joining us. She has
a new book to Let Them Theory, and we're gonna
talk to her next And don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 18 (35:23):
Morning.

Speaker 2 (35:23):
Everybody is DJ Envy, just hilarious, Charlamage the guy we
are the Breakfast Club. La La Rosa is here as well,
and we got a special guest in the building. Ladies
and gentlemen, Meil Robbins.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
Welcome.

Speaker 22 (35:35):
Hey, it's good to see you. How you feeling morning,
I feel great? How are you doing?

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Bless Black and Holly favorite. This is your first time
in this studio. You were here in twenty twenty one
when you had a high five Theory. Yes, yes, but
now millions of books later, number one podcast in the
world right now, everybody else.

Speaker 6 (35:53):
Relations It really feels like you've truly arrived. What do
you what do you think you know the success was
made all this new success.

Speaker 22 (36:02):
Happen, Well, you know it's not new success. Like what
you're seeing is the result of fifteen years of just boring,
grueling daily reps. Like That's what nobody wants to understand,
is that you can be successful. You can achieve anything
you want. You just have to be patient. You have
to get up out of bed every single day and

(36:23):
put one foot in front of the other. You got
to be willing to do the things you don't feel
like doing in the dark when nobody's watching and when
you think that it's not going to happen for you.
That is what it's about. It's about just consistent, small moves,
being patient. I mean, there were so many times where
I was just like, am I ever going to get
out of it? Is anyone ever gonna notice? Like am

(36:43):
I ever gonna get invited to the breakfast club? Like
one of the like when is somebody gone to notice.

Speaker 2 (36:50):
Your spot that you want it?

Speaker 11 (36:51):
Well?

Speaker 22 (36:51):
No, but seriously, like you kind of sit there because
I mean every one of us have had those moments,
whether you're putting out music or you're starting a YouTube
channel or you started a business, and it's so easy
to look around at what everybody else is doing and
think that you're losing some race in life. The real
game is with yourself. Can you keep going? Can you
say to yourself? And this is kind of how I

(37:12):
would keep myself going in those moments, I would say,
I refuse to believe that this is how the story ends.
I believe that at some point all of this work
is going to pay off. I don't have to know how.
I have to believe that it will. And if it
hasn't yet, it's not meant to yet. There's some lesson.
There's something I'm being held for that I don't know

(37:34):
what it is. But if I choose to believe in
this moment that things are going to get better, that
things are going to turn out for me, that all
this hard work is going to pay off, that trying
to be a better person is going to pay off,
at some point I will look back on my life
and say, oh, that's why it didn't happen. Then, Oh,
that's why it took longer. Oh that's why either you
weren't ready or God the universe was holding you for

(37:56):
a different moment. And so you know, a lot of
people ask me what is this moment about. I think
it's about fifteen years of ridiculously hard work becoming a
better person. I think it's about fifteen years of just
chipping away at getting out of debt and doing better
in my marriage, and being a better mother, and getting
control of my emotions and my mental health, chipping away

(38:17):
at building a business. And I truly believe that I
was being held for this moment like this one thousand
percent is my legacy.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Well, let me ask you a question, Malt. You talk
about the reps yep, for you, it worked out and
successful and great. What about that person that is just
not good? Right? That rap of that is not good?
Like trying that podcast person that is doing the podcast
that is just not good and everybody just stay good
good to anybody?

Speaker 22 (38:45):
Well, I don't I see, I don't believe that.

Speaker 2 (38:47):
But when do you stop? Because you're a sixty year
old rapper, like you know, I mean.

Speaker 22 (38:51):
Maybe why can't there be a ninety one ninety year
old one? See? Maybe what the rapping is for is
maybe it's not about rapping. Maybe there is something that
you're doing when you are wrapping and nobody's coming that
is teaching you a lesson about patience. Maybe what it's
doing is teaching you to believe in yourself when nobody

(39:11):
else does. And every time that you show up and
nobody's there, every time you post a video on your
YouTube channel that only your uncle and your son are
subscribed to, every time you post, you're basically saying, you
know what, screw the world. I believe in myself. I'm
doing this for myself and so for me when you
give the example of like the person who's a rappers

(39:33):
is terrible, just there's lots of people out there doing stuff.
They're just terrible. What I love is that they felt
called to do something. I don't care if they felt
called to do it because they wanted to make more money.
I mean, hell, I was working five six jobs back,
you know, fifteen years ago when we were eight hundred
thousand dollars in debt because I needed groceries on the table,
I needed gas in the tank. And so motivation to

(39:54):
be safe and to make money or because of your ambition.
That's a beautiful thing. But at some point you're going
to go, I'm I'm not that good at this, but
I believe and this is what I think is super
cool about life. Absolutely every experience that you have in
life is leading you somewhere and teaching you something. And
I'm gonna one of the reasons why I share so
much about what I've learned and the mistakes that I've made.

(40:16):
I'm like the villain and every book is because I'm stubborn,
Like it takes a sledgehammer from the universe for me
to wake the hell up and stop doing something like
I literally get so into my groove, whether it's drinking
too much or taking my stress out on my kids
or being a jealous, insecure friend that things have to
backfire for me to wake up and go, well, yes,

(40:37):
I better try something different.

Speaker 6 (40:39):
Well, that's what I want to Just set it up.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
About the book, man, there's some books that I believe
are must reads in life. Delecting Theory by mel Robbins
has been added to that must readless. My wife got
it for me a few weeks ago, and the book
is just essentially about how you have to stop wasting
your life on things that you can't control.

Speaker 6 (40:55):
When did you get to that revelus?

Speaker 22 (40:57):
Oh my god, fifty four I explained learner, you know,
And the funny thing is is I'm married to the
chillest dude on the plan. I mean, I'm married to
a man who is not only Buddhist, he is a
death dula. And like when you want to talk about
like a person, yeah that can just sit in stillness.
I'm like a tornado of emotion. And so I've always

(41:18):
wanted to let things go. I've always wanted to not
care what people think. I've never known how. And see,
when you're stressed, or you're easily offended like I used
to be, or you have a lot going on, it
is very hard to not get wrapped up and what
other people are thinking and doing. It's very hard to
not let what your kids are going through stress you out.

(41:40):
And so you know, I've been trying to do this forever.
I mean, this is not a new idea. The serenity
prayer is the let Them theory. In fact, you know,
I sat down with doctor Martin Luther King the third
and his wife and Andrea, and they both said, we write
about it in the let Them theory. They both reflect
on the fact that this concept that you have to
give up control in order to gain control, that your

(42:02):
power is in your response that this is part of
doctor Martin Luther King Junior's legacy, because your response is
what dictates who you are. It's not what's happening out there,
it's how you respond to it with your thoughts and
your actions and how you process your own emotions. And
so I did not know this until I was fifty

(42:24):
four years old. And you know for me personally the
power of these two words, because let them We've all
said let them in our lives a bazillion times. I mean,
there's a sermon circulating that's twenty years old.

Speaker 7 (42:36):
T D.

Speaker 22 (42:36):
Jakes doing this let them sermons. So this is a
concept that has been around since the beginning of time,
and that's why this is resonated. I'm not teaching you
something new. I'm reminding you of what you already know
to be true. And I'm handing you this tool so
you can snap out of this crap where we're constantly
worked up about what other people are doing to take
our power back.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
We got more with auth of mel Robbins when we
come back, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Good
morning morning. Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Hilarry Charlamagne,
the guy. We are the Breakfast Club Laura la Rosters
here as well. We're still kicking with mel Robbins.

Speaker 5 (43:08):
Lauren.

Speaker 8 (43:09):
You talk about managing other people a lot, and I've
never heard the term put like that, but you use
it to basically talk about how we're so what you're
talking about r now, we're worried about other people, but
also too, I think it's expectations of other people that
we're trying to we're making decisions based around that a lot.
When did you realize this whole scale of like managing
other people and learning when the clock out of that

(43:31):
job of trying to do that?

Speaker 22 (43:33):
Well, so what's going to happen is this? So when
you start using the let them theory, and it's so
easy to use the next time you're stressed out or
annoyed or frustrated, and it's always with other people, just
say let them. That's how you use it. Let them,
and you're gonna immediately feel peaceful. Your mom's in a
bad mood, letter be in a bad mood, some old
friend of yours is talking let them talk trash. Why
you're not allowing it? When you say let them, you

(43:56):
are reminding yourself there's one thing in life I can't
control it time, what other people say, do believe, feel,
and it's on my job to So when you start
saying let them, and you detach yourself from the responsibility
of having to manage somebody else, something interesting happens. You realize,
oh my god, I've lived my life in reserve reverse.
I actually live my life giving time and energy trying

(44:19):
to manage what other people think. I have kept myself
in a major or in a relationship, or in a
situation because I'm afraid to disappoint my parents or my friends.
I mean, how many people keep drinking or keep going
out at night when what they really want to do
is launch a business, and so they don't take the
weekends to work on the things that they want to

(44:40):
work on because they feel like they don't want to
disappoint their friends or people going to talk about them.
That's you giving power to other people. Like another way
that we give power to other people is we get
so focused on the headlines that we gaslight ourselves into
believing that you have no power. It's complete garbage. Of
course you have power. And so when you start saying
let them, it's sort of this revelation where you're like,

(45:01):
oh my god, I spend so much time and energy
worrying about other people. I spent so much time and
energy letting them stress me out.

Speaker 8 (45:09):
But is there a level of like when that becomes
easier versus harder? Because when you were just talking, I
thought about Michelle Obama in the podcast, one of the
podcasts she did this week, she was talking about how
she realized she was doing a lot for other people
not thinking about herself, and she started making decisions for herself.
So she's going place she wants to go and do
things she's like that don't and they think she's divorce
because of it. Yeah, but it's like, she's Michelle Obama,

(45:31):
so it's hard for her to like the noise is
so it's a lot louder for her well.

Speaker 22 (45:37):
Of course. But whether or not you pay attention to
that is within your control. Whether or not you look
at your phone, and we're all guilty of it, whether
you are Michelle Obama or you're just going into your
middle school, whether or not you give attention to the gossip,
you look for, the gossip, you mainline it, that is
within your control. If you say I can never ever

(45:59):
ever stop somebody from lying about me, from making up
stuff about me, from you know, saying whatever they're going
to say. So why on earth would I spend any
time and energy managing it? And then you go, let
me This is the second part of the theory. Once't
you say let them, let them think negative thoughts, let
them make up all kinds of crap, because if you
know you're not getting divorced, what do you care about

(46:19):
these idiots saying let me remind myself that I know
the truth. And when you know the truth about who
you are, you don't think about other people. When you
live your life in a way that makes you proud,
you don't think about other people.

Speaker 5 (46:35):
You tell me to read her.

Speaker 9 (46:36):
Book, and I was, and I already had the book
because I think Eddie had given it to us a minute.
And I was like, oh, I got the book, and for.

Speaker 22 (46:42):
You got it. It will change your damn. I'm telling
you it will change your life.

Speaker 2 (46:45):
Because but you have to get to that stage, yes,
because it's that stage.

Speaker 8 (46:51):
He think he was born that way, and I've.

Speaker 6 (46:57):
Never truly cared.

Speaker 11 (46:58):
Right.

Speaker 1 (46:58):
But then even when I thought of the care, I
realize things like the serenity prayer, a little simple thing
that you saw sitting in your grandmother's house. You realize
that is absolutely the true of God. Grammy just serenityed
the accept things I can not change, courage to change
the things I can, and.

Speaker 6 (47:09):
With them no difference.

Speaker 1 (47:10):
And the easiest way to let go of what you
can't control is just realizing you've never had control to
begin with.

Speaker 22 (47:16):
And here's another thing that's really important. That's why you're
gonna love it, is that what will start to happen
when you say let them is it's not that you're
allowing people to do bad things. They're already doing bad things.
You're recognizing that it's not your job to manage other people,
because this is a book that's about power and control
and peace. Then you say, let me remind myself how
I respond to things. Actually is where my power is.

(47:40):
So do I give this any time and energy or not?
Do I double down on just living my life in
a way that makes me proud of myself, which is
where your power is. And the thing that that also
changed me dramatically is I couldn't believe how much stress
I felt and how I was bracing all the time.

(48:01):
And when you start to say let them, and you
release that kind of obligation to make other people happy,
or to make everybody know that you're not divorced or
that everything's okay, or like, just let them think whatever
they want to think, and live your life in a
way that makes you proud. You're going to get all
this time and energy back. And what I love about

(48:22):
this is when you're less stressed and when you're not
bracing all the time. Because you know your boss is narcissistic,
so why on earth would you walk into work assuming
that that he's going to be anything other than what
it already has always been. Let them be who they are.

Speaker 6 (48:37):
I love the Managing Stress chapter.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
And in that chapter you say you can't control how
other adults behave and stressing about it diminishes your power.
You'll never reach the full potential of your life if
you continue to allow stupid things to rule people, to
drain your life force.

Speaker 2 (48:51):
Can you yes?

Speaker 24 (48:51):
Me?

Speaker 11 (48:52):
Yes?

Speaker 22 (48:52):
So the two most important resources that you have in
life time energy, That's what you got. How you spend
your time, where you put your energy, it actually determines
your experience of life. And that's why I say, if
you have this experience right now, where you're exhausted and
overwhelmed and nervous, and you're not like feeling like you
can ever have time for yourself or your goals. Just

(49:13):
start clicking. You're not the problem. The problem is all
this time and energy you spend dealing with other people,
and so let them is a boundary that you draw
where you start to recognize, Okay, I'm gonna let other
people think and feel and do and have their opinions,
and I'm gonna let them be disappointed. I'm gonna let
them misunderstand me, and I'm going to let me really

(49:34):
take that time and energy back and pour it into
working on myself and staying in my piece. And what
I've found is that when I'm less stressed, which i
am because I'm not allowing stupid stuff for other people
to stress me out, I'm actually a better person. I
make more money because I can use my brain instead

(49:55):
of being in fire or flight. I don't like vomit
on my kids. My emotions. Like I used to be
the kind of person that would come in at you know,
after work and yelling at everybody or mad at the
dog for crying out loud, and then I'd be like,
I'm sorry, it's a bad day at work, stressful day
at work with the dogs the book, you know, they
kind of do this and then they come back and
they're really nice because they literally dogs don't like punish

(50:19):
you for that. And it's so sad that I used
to leave the worst of me for the people I
cared about the most and then blame it on the
stress of the day.

Speaker 19 (50:29):
That.

Speaker 22 (50:29):
By the way, when you use the let them theory,
you have control over whether or not this stuff gets
to you.

Speaker 2 (50:36):
Let me do it. I have a question. Yeah, in
chapter five, you say let them think bad thoughts about you, right.
The question with that is when a lot of people
sometimes especially on social media, right, nobody facts checks anymore.
But that could affect your reputation. That can affect your business.
That could affect the way that your kid's teachers look
at you, or business that comes outd of course, what

(50:57):
are you doing well?

Speaker 22 (50:58):
So here this is a very trick question because you're
talking about the PR and the media swirl. PR is
a little bit different in personal like, I think it's
really important to understand who you are, whether you're dealing
with rumors at a middle school or you're dealing with
rumors in your community, or you've got somebody in your
family trash talking you. In order to repair your reputation,

(51:20):
it is better to show than to tell. In my opinion,
you prove the truth based on how you show up
in life, not based on the words that come out
of your mouth. And if there is somebody spreading things
about you, the best way to handle it is to
go directly to that person and to ask them about it.
Because those kind of people, the people that gossip about you,

(51:41):
ultimately end up crumbling anyway, sure, because it always catches.

Speaker 11 (51:44):
Up with them.

Speaker 2 (51:44):
All Right, we got more with Meil Robbins when we
come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning Horning everybody
at ej Envy Jess, hilarious Charlamage. The guy we are
to Breakfast Club is still kicking it with Mel Robbins.
A new book, The Let Them Theory, is out right now.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Charlomagne, you know you were in the book you talk
about how you felt paralyzed by imposter syndrome, especially when
you were teaching. Yeah, the five second rule, I wonder
what's changed since then? Like, well, gives you the confidence
and authority now to feel like you can go out
here and teach to.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
Let them do.

Speaker 22 (52:12):
That's a great, great question. So you know how well,
First of all, impostor syndrome is deeply misunderstood. So imposter
syndrome does not mean that you don't belong in the
room you're in. Imposter syndrome means you actually want to
be in the room you're in, and there's skills or
there's experience that you need to gain in order to

(52:33):
dominate in that room. Imposter syndrome is actually not self doubt.

Speaker 9 (52:36):
It's ambition. And so explain that a bit because it's
always been said the other way.

Speaker 22 (52:40):
Yeah, and so if you really think about it, if
you walk into a room and you don't feel imposter syndrome,
it's because you don't want to be in that room.
You don't care what people think about you in that room.
If you walk into a room and you feel a
sense of imposter syndrome, it's because you care about what
people think about you in that room. It means you're
ambition and wants you to succeed in that room.

Speaker 15 (53:01):
I was like push to stay sharp, correct and also
like hey, I want to actually succeed around people like this,
which means what are the skills I need and what
I started to understand, and I think it explains a
lot about why I am who I.

Speaker 22 (53:16):
Am is that we're all the same. Everybody is dealing
with the same stuff. Yes, it's easier if you have
more money and more resources, but at the end of
the day, everybody's got a family member that they're worried about.
Everybody has ambition they're not tapping into. Everybody has things
that they want to pursue in their life, and they're
kind of letting themselves down a little bit. Everybody struggles
with a little bit of uncertainty and anxiety at times.

(53:38):
Everybody has hopes and dreams and feels a little discouraged
and overwhelmed. And when you start at a baseline that
people would love to thrive, and people thrive when they can,
and if they can't, I believe it's because they're discouraged,
or there's some skill building or some experience or you know,
some mentorship that's missing. That's it, but that you're built

(53:59):
to thrive. So when you really start at that baseline,
like you know, I make it a practice. By the way,
this is this is one thing that will change your
life when you go into a public bathroom. Two things.
I always leave the space better than when I found it.

Speaker 9 (54:12):
I always public bathroom.

Speaker 22 (54:15):
No, no, no, I literally that's why I don't go into
that stall. But no, just because if somebody like destroy
especially women, If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over
it and then they leave, that is a human being
that is so disconnected from the interconnection of the human experience.

(54:37):
You are leaving that for another person, and so making
sure that you don't leave your mess for another person,
making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter.
And then here's the second thing. If there is a
human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai
and say thank you. All like that right there is
a simple thing that will make you start to shake

(54:59):
out of that woe is me or that stress or
that overwhelm Let them know you appreciate and see what
they're doing, because it changes who you are. And then
you start to see all day long that there are
like you know, I can't look at you, i'mna cry.
People are just walking around disconnected. And the power of

(55:22):
starting to be the one that wakes people up. Hey,
you know I always get an ell or Hey, how
is everybody doing like it's shocking how we have gotten
so far away from that sense of community. And there's
actually research around this. They call it either weak ties.
I call them warm connections. Those people that you see
in the building every day, that you say hello to
the person that's walking the dog that you you know,

(55:44):
know the name of the dog in your neighborhood. These
relationships matter because they make you feel human again.

Speaker 9 (55:50):
Will you feel to impact from what you're doing with
your book and to let them theory, like you just
got emotional just not even just about your impact, but
just talking about just change in the world. How does
it make you feel like do you take a moment
just of gratitude and be like, because I saw all
the tattoos in the book, and I was like, that's
so fire. It's hard to make people like actually believe
something that's not tangible.

Speaker 22 (56:10):
One of the things that you know, for me, I
spent so many.

Speaker 25 (56:15):
Years like hating myself and feeling like I was a
really bad person. And when you get stuck in life,
it's easy to think you're the only one. And so
I'm just literally on a mission to share whatever I
could share and give people access just like you guys
give people access to incredible thinkers and experts and resources.

Speaker 22 (56:38):
You know, your work is reaching some way halfway around
the world that doesn't even have a toilet in your house,
And how incredible is that? And if I can save
anybody the headaches and the heartaches that I cause myself
for the people that I care about, because I didn't
know any better. I didn't know what the problem was.
I didn't know how to change myself. I didn't know
how to push through the emotion that is a life while.

Speaker 9 (57:00):
Why did you hate yourself though? Because you can't do
anything about what you don't know.

Speaker 22 (57:03):
Oh my god, we don't have time. I literally like
from the amount of cheating I did when I was little,
to the undiagnosed anxiety or the undiagnosed to SLEXI and
ADHD and how that created tremendous anxiety, to the way
that childhood trauma impacted me that I didn't even realize
was impacting me, Like it's just chronic. I just did
not think I was a bad person. And there's a

(57:24):
lot of people walking around that have a hundred times
more negative thoughts than they do positive ones, And a
lot of people develop a habit of being very self critical.
It's never enough, like you're never gonna make it, like
you're always so stupid. Why did you do that? Either
because that's how they were talked to when they were little,
or because it's this like almost protective thing that if

(57:45):
you beat yourself up first, you're gonna catch it before
other people do. And I got to a point, and
this is an important thing. The only thing you need
to make your life better is one decision. How I'm
living my life right now and how it feels no
longer works for me. All you need to know if
you can have the courage to say that to yourself,
you now have tipped the first domino because you've made

(58:06):
a decision that you want to change how your life feels.
You made a decision that you want to change how
it feels up here. And for me as a mom,
like your kids absorb the way that you treat yourself.
And so having two daughters that I started noticing, my god,
why are these beautiful young women picking themselves apart? Well
because I do. Why are they so hard on because
I was so hard on myself That's how they learn it,

(58:27):
And so I don't want them to do that to themselves.
And you know, the thing I was going to share
that's made a huge difference for me is that I
keep the impact front and center. And so we send
an email out five days a week. There's a person
on our team whose job is to assemble all of
the things that people are saying all over the world
about the books and podcasts, not about Mel, but about

(58:51):
what you learned. And I'll tell you every day there's
twenty to thirty of them. And just the other day
there was a person who talked about how he was
a step dad and the relationship ended and those step
kids were his life and he didn't want to be
here anymore. And somebody started to share the podcast with
him and he would go and take a walk every

(59:13):
morning and listen to the podcast, and it started to give
him a sense of hope. And now he uses the
let them theory. This is a person that actually works
in like a police operations control center. Never in a
million years would I think this is somebody that's listening
to the Mel Robins podcast or listening to this kind
of conversation. But it goes to prove that everybody wants
to do well. Everybody wants to thrive, and you know

(59:35):
when you're not doing well. You know when you're not thriving.
The problem for most of us is just kind of
feeling like I don't think this could change, And the
fact is, of course it can change. If you've ever
been happy in your life, you can be happy again.
If you've ever been proud of yourself, you can be
proud of yourself again. If you've ever forgiven somebody else,
you can learn to forgive yourself.

Speaker 1 (59:54):
And you know, also, God doesn't call it to qualify it.
He qualified the called and you've been called Mail Robin.

Speaker 22 (59:59):
I feel that.

Speaker 6 (01:00:00):
Love you man, I love you too.

Speaker 2 (01:00:01):
Wow. That's right. Well we appreciate you for joining us.

Speaker 6 (01:00:04):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
All right. Well it's Mel Robbins. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
Yes, it's one of those dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club.
Salute to Mel Robbins for pulling up in his time
for the Latest with Lauren.

Speaker 5 (01:00:14):
Lauren becoming a straight fast.

Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
She gets them.

Speaker 7 (01:00:18):
Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail.

Speaker 9 (01:00:20):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.

Speaker 6 (01:00:23):
She'd be having the latest on this.

Speaker 2 (01:00:27):
The Latest with Lauren la Rosa.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
Sometimes you have fact sometimes you have details, sometimes you
have a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
Every time, it's the latest on the breakfast club, talk
to me.

Speaker 8 (01:00:36):
So Coachella went down, and I will say I feel
like it was quiet around Coachella this year. You know
it's a big music festival, but there were certain moments
that definitely picked up. Cardi B performed. Missy Elliott actually
made her Coachella debuties. It's her first time at Coachella,
and she came out as a full Transformer and then
she shed the Transformer skin and she performed and people

(01:00:57):
just watching fans react because I don't know if they
never seen a Missy Elliott video or performance that I
don't think that they didn't know how she was coming,
she said, never.

Speaker 6 (01:01:05):
Seen that level of creativity?

Speaker 9 (01:01:07):
Yo, what it was crazy?

Speaker 8 (01:01:08):
Yeah, she's been preparing this set since November twenty twenty four,
she said when she revealed that she would be there,
that she was going to be doing something out of
this world, which is very on brand for Missy. So
she performed as well. Then you had Meg thee Stallion
that also performed.

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
Doesn't it feel good to see creative folks, young people,
the people that actually care about their craft?

Speaker 9 (01:01:29):
Oh over and above.

Speaker 6 (01:01:30):
They are about this stage performance.

Speaker 8 (01:01:32):
They online calling her a transformer misdemeanor Elliott now over
and above. When I say her set was fired, it
was fire from start to finish. But also Meg thee
Stallion had a really good set too, and she brought
out Sierra. She brought out Victoria Bonnet, but then she
surprised the crowd when she brought out Queen Latifa.

Speaker 1 (01:01:49):
The key, the key is not to be hot for
the moment. The key is to be timeless. That's the
moral of the story. The key is to be classic.
When you classic, you live forever.

Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Now.

Speaker 8 (01:01:59):
The the thing behind megde Stallion's stage was girl power.
So as I mentioned, she brought out Victoria Monet Sierra.
Did you know they had to do a performance and
she did goodies. It was a great especially because Megdae
Stallion really dances, so her Victoria Money Sierra. They got
busy on stage, but there were also some moments off
the stage at this year's Coachella as well too. Chris

(01:02:20):
Brown was a topic of conversation all weekend because there
was video of him hanging out with Tianna Taylor in
discussion with Tiana Taylor and video of him and Carucci
having a laugh. So people were like, oh wait, he's
good with all these people. So while we still upset people,
all you gotta learn to mind your business.

Speaker 9 (01:02:38):
And people have moved on. We should too.

Speaker 8 (01:02:40):
I know it's my job to mind the business and
talk about the business. Yours too, sir? Not really you
talking as well? Okay you finished?

Speaker 9 (01:02:48):
Are you done well?

Speaker 8 (01:02:49):
The moment with Tianna Taylor sparked interest in conversation because
there was the whole back of forth member and they
said that like that that was the reason why him
and Usher got.

Speaker 9 (01:02:56):
Into it and all those things.

Speaker 8 (01:02:58):
And I think in the video when you see it,
you could tell the brother and sister the like back
and forth and banter that they have. And then of
course in the video with Cruci, you know he's you know,
formally dated her. There's been some accusations there as well too.
They're laughing, joking, having a good time, and now that
people are flooding Crucci's commons talking about girl, go get
your man back.

Speaker 1 (01:03:15):
It's funny that we think we know these people because
these are the moments that we see them.

Speaker 18 (01:03:18):
We don't.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
They might have been talked. Yeah, you know what, I'm
saying they might have been communicated. This is just the
moments that we see. But we see these brief moments
ever so often. It's sway we know.

Speaker 9 (01:03:29):
These people one hundred percent. I think people do that.

Speaker 8 (01:03:31):
I mean there's celebrities ain't gonna see every moment, but
I do think it's something like this the conversation. You know,
they've been online arguing about people being able and not
being able to move on and all that good stuff.
But I will say the festival did look good this year,
and everybody else was there look good as well too.
Because Tianna Taylor, baby m she eats every year at
the festival. You saw Siana Taylor. I'm gonna show you her.

(01:03:52):
Let me show you t t and all black with
the stomach out. She never comes to play.

Speaker 6 (01:03:58):
Yes, I'm still be lying about not working out. I
ain't after I.

Speaker 9 (01:04:02):
Don't know what she do, but baby, when I get
the money signing.

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
You got the genetics though, miss Nikkis You get that
from miss nikkis.

Speaker 9 (01:04:11):
Amazing?

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:04:13):
So that's that's your recap of coach.

Speaker 6 (01:04:16):
Okay, well, thank you, Lorden. You're welcome for after the hour.

Speaker 1 (01:04:19):
We got donkey today and I need Cody Palmer of Harrisburg,
Pennsylvania to come to the front of the congregation.

Speaker 6 (01:04:24):
We like to have a word with him. It's the
breakfast club.

Speaker 23 (01:04:26):
You're checking out. The breakfast club. You charge some donkey
to day is just started.

Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
Charlotte Man ready day. I never read them donkey other day?
What is it? Say it again, Arla, I'm a bunk.
Yes you are.

Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
That, Charlotte Vane the same, Yes donkey today for Monday,
April fourteenth, go to thirty eight year old Cody Palmer
of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Now, if you haven't heard, Cody is
the suspect who's been arrested in charge with terrorism because
of an arson attack on Pennsylvania Governor josh Shapiro's residence
over the weekend as Joshapiro's and.

Speaker 6 (01:05:10):
His family slept.

Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
Now, Governor Joshapiro is Jewish, and this incident happened on
the first night to pass over. Well, I don't know
if this incident was a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing.
But let's go to six ABC Philadelphia for the report Polease.

Speaker 26 (01:05:22):
Governor jos Shapiro described himself as emotional but not fearful.
Outside the Governor's residence in Harrisburg Sunday afternoon. This after
state police say thirty eight year old Cody Bamber of
Harrisburg set the state dining room on fire overnight. New
video shows the destruction where Shapiro and his family celebrated
passover just hours before on Saturday night.

Speaker 14 (01:05:45):
This kind of violence is becoming far too common in
our society, and I don't give it damn if it's
coming from one particular side or the other, and it
has to stop.

Speaker 26 (01:05:56):
Police say it's clear Bomber had a plan and moved quickly.
They say he was inside the home less than a
minute and used homemade devices what sources described to ABC
News as a Molotov cocktail. Sources tell ABC News Bomber
is a mechanic who expressed disdain for Democrats, primarily related
to financial issues. They're also not ruling out Shapiro's Jewish

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faith as a motivating factor.

Speaker 6 (01:06:21):
Now, I'm not the highest grade of weed in the dispensary.

Speaker 1 (01:06:23):
But when somebody asked me, do I think this was
a Jewish thing or a Democrat thing, I'm gonna say
a combination of both. Okay, when you look at the
timing of the incident first day of passover, and the
fact Governor you know, Shapiro is a high profile Jewish man.
If you are anti Semitic and you're looking to make
a statement, you're looking to make a splash, he's your guy.
But what I want us to pay attention to is

(01:06:43):
how America has gone completely backwards.

Speaker 6 (01:06:47):
In a lot of ways.

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
I don't even know if we've gone backwards or if
a lot of these races cancer cells were just laying
dormant in the body of America. They were just in hibernation, okay,
And they were just in a hibernation like state, and
now they've been started in slumber because of the current
political climate in this country. You don't get me wrong,
it's always existing, okay. But man, what happened to Governor
Shapiro and his family could happen to anybody who was

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a member of a marginalized group. In twenty twenty five,
doctor Martin Luther King Junior said it best, an injustice
anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere, and this was
a complete injustice. And those words couldn't be more fitting
because one of the first times I heard about something
like this happening was when it happened to doctor Martin
Luther King Junior. January thirty of nineteen fifty six. Martin
Luther King Junior's wife and child were inside when his

(01:07:33):
home was firebombed. All prais is due to God. Neither
of them were harmed. Okay, Malcolm X. February fourteenth, nineteen
sixty five, his house was firebombed. He had his wife
and four daughters in the house. By the way, to
all the simple minded digital d heads out there, I
am not comparing Governor Shaperio to doctor MLK Jr.

Speaker 6 (01:07:50):
And Malcolm X.

Speaker 1 (01:07:51):
I'm just telling you that when you hear certain stories,
when you see certain images, especially horrific things like somebody
fire bombing your house, setting your house on fire while
you're in there with your family, if you have any
type of empathy, it sticks with you and you say
to yourself, I pray that never happens to me and
my family.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
And you thought that those things were.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
Just things of the past, but no, when you see
them still happening to folks in twenty twenty five, it's
just a reminder that potentially it could happen to you.

Speaker 11 (01:08:20):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:08:21):
I don't know how Cody got this close to the
governor's mansion. I mean, it's the damn governor's mansion. There
should never be a breach of security there. But I'm
starting to believe when it comes to guarding elected officials,
Pennsylvania has the worst security ever. I mean, that's what
Donald Trump almost got clipped. And now with thirty eight
year old kid can jump the governess and he's trust
of ball.

Speaker 6 (01:08:38):
He's not a kid? What am I saying?

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
And now a thirty eight year old man can jump
the governor's mansion and actually start a fire with homemade
devices and get away before he's ultimately caught. Now, Cody
Obama's mother said that Cody suffers from mental illness and
he was off his medication.

Speaker 6 (01:08:55):
Listen, you know, I overstand.

Speaker 1 (01:08:57):
Okay, mental health issues are serious and require compassion, but
that doesn't excuse actions that endanger lives and threaten public safety. Okay,
he can get all the help he needs in somebody's prison, Okay,
because we have to make examples of people like this,
I also feel like discrimination is a form of mental illness.
To hate someone because of what their race is, their
religion is, their gender is, their sexuality is. If you

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hate people because of what they are. You are mentally ill.
And I don't want to see anyone being attacked or
being the target of potential violence because of what they are. Okay,
their race, their faith, their political party. Do we not
understand that diversity is what truly makes America great? And
by the way, if you don't like somebody's politics, well
get in the.

Speaker 6 (01:09:38):
Politics yourself and challenge them.

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Okay, are support the politicians you like and help them
defeat the politicians you don't. That's how things are done
in a civilized country. But unfortunately this country has always
lied to itself about being civilized. Please give Cody Palmer
of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania the biggest he hull.

Speaker 6 (01:10:03):
Sad, Yes, very sad.

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
Now we had Meil Robins here last hour, Lauren lrossa
great convo.

Speaker 6 (01:10:08):
Did you learn anything I did? How long?

Speaker 3 (01:10:11):
Goo?

Speaker 6 (01:10:11):
Did I tell you to read the lect them Theory?

Speaker 9 (01:10:13):
I got the book you told me about probably two
months ago?

Speaker 6 (01:10:16):
That long?

Speaker 9 (01:10:16):
A month ago? Yeah, it was a minute ago. Yes,
just in conversation you were be like, you need to
read to let them theory.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
Yes, I am recommending this book to everybody. And you
know what I would like to do right now, I
would like to open up the phone lines and talk
to people who have already applied to let them theory
to their life. I want to know how they're applying
to let them theory to their life and uh.

Speaker 6 (01:10:38):
Yeah, that's it. How How into what?

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:10:42):
How into what have you applied to let them theory
to your life? Where do you think you need to
apply that in your life?

Speaker 9 (01:10:48):
Lauren is new levels and new devils.

Speaker 8 (01:10:50):
This there's a lot of critiques that happen when people
think that they can just you know, you put your
art out there, okay, And I'm having to quiet noise
and just let people feel how they feel and do
they do because I know what I do. What I do, well,
that's what I'm having to apply to let them And
with you, I'll be having to let you a lot
because I'm gonna smack you if not.

Speaker 6 (01:11:10):
You know, you know you need to start telling the
people the truth.

Speaker 9 (01:11:14):
What's the truth?

Speaker 6 (01:11:14):
How much you love me?

Speaker 8 (01:11:16):
I do love you, but I'll be having to let you.
We have to let people we love all the time.
Back of your wife, because I'm sure she'd be want
to smack you too.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
You're gonna stop making the people think I'm not a
nice person.

Speaker 9 (01:11:26):
What a time they're nice. They just don't believe them.
You know what you need to do?

Speaker 2 (01:11:30):
Let them that's right, that's right, and that's exactly what
I let them do.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
Okay one eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
Call us right now. Tell us how you are applying
Mel Robbins to let them theory to your life.

Speaker 6 (01:11:41):
It's the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 2 (01:11:43):
The Breakfast Club. It's topic times.

Speaker 23 (01:11:52):
Call eight hundred five five five one to join in
to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
Yes's the world's mos Dangerous Morning Short Breakfast Club. Charlamagne
the God, Lauren LaRosa, DJ NB and just Hilarius are out.

Speaker 6 (01:12:04):
Today and we're talking Mail Robbins, the lect the theory.
You know, Mail was here.

Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
Last hour that this wasn't That wasn't her first time
on the Breakfast Club either. She came on to the
Breakfast Club back in twenty twenty one when she was
promoting Yes, the high five rule when you wake up
in the morning and you give yourself a high five
in the mirror every morning. But we're talking Mail Robins,
the left them theory, Lauren LaRosa high five habit, high
five habit. There you go, Lauren Lroossa, how are you

(01:12:30):
using the left them theory in your life?

Speaker 8 (01:12:32):
Letting people just, you know, have their opinions about me?
And it's a lot of opinions now, you know, especially
sitting up here with y'all. You've done this for a
long time.

Speaker 1 (01:12:39):
Every day, but you getting comb to it and you
realize you do have to use the lect them theory
when it comes to that because we are public servants
and we're getting on this radio every day and we're
doing a service for the public, and the public is
allowed to have their opinions about it.

Speaker 8 (01:12:53):
And I also think too, what you realize when you
look into the let them theory is that you can't
control how people feel.

Speaker 2 (01:12:58):
Nope.

Speaker 8 (01:12:58):
Like if you take everything and that some one says
about you and try to create like here's a guideline
of what I should be doing, you could do all
of that and it could still feel that way. So
you got to just know what your goal is and
level up or or sit still depend on what you
want to do because you can't control none of that.

Speaker 6 (01:13:12):
Why do we forget things that we learned in our
ground my house.

Speaker 9 (01:13:15):
When we was kids, because life hits you like.

Speaker 6 (01:13:17):
The serenity prayer.

Speaker 1 (01:13:18):
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I
cannot change, the courage the change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference. You know, when
you absolutely positively will relinquish all control, when you realize
you don't have any We don't control nothing. All we
do is wake up in the morning, pray, do our affirmations,
and go out into the world.

Speaker 6 (01:13:37):
And we are a subject to whatever the world brings
us that day.

Speaker 9 (01:13:40):
Easier said than done for a lot of people.

Speaker 6 (01:13:43):
Well you better do it. Let's go to the phone lines.

Speaker 2 (01:13:45):
Who's this, It's free Free.

Speaker 6 (01:13:47):
What's happening to my brother?

Speaker 10 (01:13:48):
What's going on?

Speaker 18 (01:13:49):
Man?

Speaker 6 (01:13:50):
How are you applying to let them theory to your life?

Speaker 7 (01:13:52):
King?

Speaker 10 (01:13:52):
Well, first off, I didn't even know that it was
called the left them theory. I just about three years ago.
I mean, let's this sister, keep a gangster about thirty
seven thirty five years in my life. I'll just a
complete piece of you know, you know what I'm saying,
All that the other drugs, you know, wildish ye, crazy
and everything that comes with the dead friends and the

(01:14:13):
guy that I and about three years ago I met this,
this wonderful woman. Man, this this queen, my beautiful black queen.
Shot out to you. Baby, I'm a white boy, you
know what I'm saying. Uh, But and she she did.
She helped me let everything go, from family members of
my dead friends that I was helping that I can't

(01:14:34):
help no more, from people from your back and your
path that you say you never let you'll never let go,
you know, till death. You know what I'm saying, patted,
it's all that you know, and I just had to
figure out that I can do nothing for it. And
if I don't move forward, I'm going to continue living
on this demon time. I mean, my girlfriend before my wife,

(01:14:55):
was a stripper. Excuse my language.

Speaker 2 (01:14:57):
Damn, there's a lot of you.

Speaker 6 (01:14:59):
So you are so you you're.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
A white man who met a black woman, and the
black woman changed your life totally.

Speaker 10 (01:15:04):
No dog, black chicken on whole life, man, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:15:06):
But okay, yes, this one changed your life.

Speaker 10 (01:15:11):
Yeah, I mean, she just he's just you know, and
I guess since I was looking since listening to you
this morning, now I know that it's thought the you know,
the let it go. You know, I just had to
let everything from my past go, and now I have
peaceful nights, no more Nightmared. You know what I'm saying.
It's just a whole change of life. In three years,

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I got a beautiful news, six week old baby. I
got two beautiful step sons that are in my world.

Speaker 18 (01:15:40):
You know.

Speaker 6 (01:15:41):
Okay, Well, thank you for calling my brother. I don't
know if that was to let them there.

Speaker 8 (01:15:45):
I think what he was trying to say is is
that once he whatever was bothering him from his past,
maybe whatever he was, he had to learn to let
them or let that just be.

Speaker 11 (01:15:53):
Well.

Speaker 6 (01:15:54):
Yeah, detachment, Yeah, detachment.

Speaker 8 (01:15:57):
Male's story was like that, Like when she decided to
detach from everything she she sat from, she was able
to like level up in.

Speaker 6 (01:16:02):
That's successful, that's true. Good morning. Who's this?

Speaker 10 (01:16:05):
Good morning?

Speaker 18 (01:16:05):
This is Kimberly.

Speaker 6 (01:16:06):
Hey Kimberly, how are you?

Speaker 18 (01:16:08):
I'm okay in yourself?

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
Guys, Blessed Black and Holly Favored. We're talking about mel
Robbins electing theory this morning, and we're asking people, how
have you applied to electing theory to your life?

Speaker 27 (01:16:17):
Easy change the number and cut them all off.

Speaker 6 (01:16:22):
That is part of it.

Speaker 28 (01:16:23):
Yes, yes, so I have a brother that had a stroke,
and I also have an eighteen year old son that
thinks life is sweet.

Speaker 21 (01:16:32):
So you know what I do, change my number and
cut them off.

Speaker 6 (01:16:35):
Damn did you you wait until he turned eighteen on
the dock?

Speaker 11 (01:16:38):
Uh?

Speaker 21 (01:16:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 27 (01:16:39):
He even got mad with me because I didn't call
him for a sixteen birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:16:43):
Listen, man, when you pray to God to take negativity
out your life, he's not swinging at spirits. He's swinging
at people and things that are the embodiment of that negativity.

Speaker 6 (01:16:52):
And sometimes it's she close family.

Speaker 21 (01:16:55):
And it's so true because I end up don't have
my two brothers.

Speaker 18 (01:16:59):
I lost my mother. After I lost my mother.

Speaker 21 (01:17:01):
I don't talk to my two brothers now my son.

Speaker 6 (01:17:04):
So damn, Okay, we'll have a great day.

Speaker 19 (01:17:11):
Us.

Speaker 8 (01:17:12):
Okay, we'll have a great day. That she lost her,
she ain't got nobody. Just have great day.

Speaker 1 (01:17:17):
But she made a choice. It's not like she said
she made the choice to cut them off. I'm saying,
it's not like they died or something. I went to Like,
she made a choice. And so you know what, I
got a letter.

Speaker 8 (01:17:26):
People are really moving variables in our life, Like you
don't have to have certain people in your life and everything.
So the first two callers, it's all about people, and yes,
you can just totally just not deal with those people.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Because, as I've been saying, this is my whole life.
When you pray to God to take negativity out your life,
he's not gonna.

Speaker 6 (01:17:44):
Be swinging at things. He's gonna be swinging at people.

Speaker 8 (01:17:47):
God, there's a man in this room that won't leave
my wig alone. Please remove all the evil.

Speaker 7 (01:17:51):
You need to remove the wig.

Speaker 1 (01:17:53):
If you remove the wig, you remove I feel.

Speaker 8 (01:17:58):
It's a tricker eat that you spoke about the Bible.
I feel it every day. Please remove the demons in
the spirits.

Speaker 1 (01:18:03):
Call us right now one hundred and five and five
one oh five one. Tell us how to let them.
Theory have been applied to your life. It's the Breakfast
Club's say.

Speaker 23 (01:18:16):
If y'all talking about it, you know we talking about it.
It's to times called eight hundred five eight five one
five one to join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Yes, it's the world's most dangerous morning show, The Breakfast Club.
Charlamagne to God, Lauren Loo says here, Jess hilarious, and
dj Enva out right now, but we're talking Meil Robins
to let them theory.

Speaker 6 (01:18:36):
You know, Meil was here last hour with us. And
if you don't know what the Left.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Them theory is, it is a mindset tool that encourages
you to stop trying to control or change others thoughts
and behaviors. Instead, you focus on your own peace and
well being by accepting that others are free to make
their own choices. Meil Robbins put it in a book
called The Lect Them Theory. It came out at the
end of December. It's sold I think damn near four

(01:19:00):
million copies in eighteen weeks. And you know, people are
either applying to let them theory to their life or
realizing they've already applied it, but now they have the
language to know what to call it. So let's go
to the phone lines. Good morning, who's this? This is
Crystal Peace, Crystal, how are you?

Speaker 28 (01:19:17):
I'm blessed?

Speaker 27 (01:19:18):
How are you?

Speaker 24 (01:19:18):
King?

Speaker 6 (01:19:19):
Blessed?

Speaker 1 (01:19:19):
Black and Holly Favorite were talking to let them theory
this morning. How have you applied to let them theory
your life?

Speaker 6 (01:19:24):
Crystal?

Speaker 28 (01:19:25):
Well, I have applied to let them theory to my
life to survive being an entrepreneur.

Speaker 21 (01:19:31):
I just put my job.

Speaker 28 (01:19:33):
In tealth care to focus on, like being a serial entrepreneur.
I went from songwriter to screenwriter, and you know, there's
a lot of discouraging things out here, but I let
them doubt me. I let them do things from out
on the internet to try to make it seem like
they're doing things and they're not. I try to let

(01:19:53):
all my haters, you know, let them tear down, because
nothing they do is going to prosper anyway. Yes, sure,
and I just try to stay proud. You know, I
have other businesses too. But it's interesting because the more
you the more people let you down, you know, because
people will tell you, oh, I could do this for you,
I got you. The more I become that for myself.

(01:20:15):
So I have to literally figure out what I'm not
getting and do it for myself because everybody who surrounds
you are in their own world and it feels like
they don't care. Like people don't serve anymore. People don't
want to serve you as an assistant. They want to
be the star. So it's like, even if I get

(01:20:36):
an assistant there, they're probably not going to be loyal,
you know, because everybody's so focused on themselves. So I
just let everybody around me do them. And I wake
up in the morning and I give myself a plan
and I try to just stick to the plan and
talk to myself throughout the day, you know, just saying them.

Speaker 1 (01:20:53):
Man, you are absolutely right. You don't want to tell
you something about social media. The reason you should absolutely
let people talk about you on social media.

Speaker 6 (01:20:59):
And you know this.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
I talked about this when I was on Mail's podcast,
Mail Robins podcast.

Speaker 6 (01:21:05):
The algorithm don't know the difference.

Speaker 1 (01:21:07):
So you got a bunch of people that might be
online talking bad about you, but then you'll have some
people that are supporting you as well. And all our
algorithm knows it that your name is being mentioned. That's it,
So it works for you anyway. It's still your benefit anyway, right, Charlamayne.

Speaker 28 (01:21:23):
While we're on the top of the books, and you
love books, can we get like a booklist from you,
because I'm trying to buy a bunch of books that
are healthy for mental health and all that. So I
just want to ask you that.

Speaker 10 (01:21:33):
Because I'm in my book.

Speaker 6 (01:21:36):
Yeah, I try not to.

Speaker 28 (01:21:38):
I'm trying not to go to social media first thing
every morning now, so as a part of my new
entrepreneur life and screenwriting and film.

Speaker 21 (01:21:44):
I'm trying to be myself.

Speaker 1 (01:21:46):
With Well, I'm gonna recommend you two books right now,
Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holliday and The Unapologetic Guy,
The Black Mental Health by doctor Rita Walker.

Speaker 15 (01:21:56):
Got it?

Speaker 18 (01:21:56):
Oh?

Speaker 27 (01:21:56):
Thank you?

Speaker 6 (01:21:57):
Yes, ma'am, all right, thank.

Speaker 21 (01:21:59):
You so much for y'all love and y'all goodness.

Speaker 1 (01:22:01):
Absolutely, Let's take it one more, ritt, Let's take one more.

Speaker 6 (01:22:05):
Let's take one more. Good morning.

Speaker 7 (01:22:06):
Who's this April Peace?

Speaker 6 (01:22:08):
April?

Speaker 7 (01:22:09):
How how are you?

Speaker 6 (01:22:10):
Where are you calling from?

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
From Atlanta at l We're gonna be in Atlanta on
April twenty sixth for the third annual Black Effect Podcast Festivals.
To go, get your tickets if you haven't gotten them already.

Speaker 6 (01:22:20):
Sarah J. Robins will be on that stage doing her
Woman of All podcast live. Okay, but we're here to talk.

Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
We're here to talk about Melton Robbinson The Left the
theory right now, how have you applied it to your life?

Speaker 7 (01:22:31):
So?

Speaker 27 (01:22:31):
I haven't read the book, but I did hear one
of her podcasts, so I became familiar with the let
them theory and applying that for myself a lot of
people out feel have slept on me and you know,
just kind of treating me a certain type of way.
And I let them by continuing to be myself, showing

(01:22:52):
up with love and light, and they eventually some of
them have turned around and see the deep down that
I'm just moving the way that I am and that's
how I am, So they kind of change their perspective
by just me being myself.

Speaker 23 (01:23:07):
I let them have.

Speaker 27 (01:23:08):
Their feelings and whatever for whatever reason, and I'm just
letting them see them and I'm continuing to move the
way that I do.

Speaker 6 (01:23:17):
That's all you can do. Have a great day, Yes, well,
thank y'all. And that's literally what the lefting theory is.

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
It's literally a mindset to that encourages you to stop
trying to control or change other people's thoughts and behaviors.

Speaker 9 (01:23:31):
That can't.

Speaker 2 (01:23:32):
You can't. Can't you can't.

Speaker 6 (01:23:33):
You cannot control other people. I tell y'all all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
And we wake up every single day and all we're
trying to do is avoid crazy. And that crazy usually
comes in the form of other people.

Speaker 9 (01:23:44):
I thought you're bout saying it usually comes from Florida.

Speaker 1 (01:23:47):
It does, though, but we love Florida. We like going
to Miami, we like going to Disney World. We know,
so it's still the same thing. But listen, go out
there and get mel Robbins the let them theory.

Speaker 6 (01:23:58):
She don't need me to promote her book.

Speaker 1 (01:23:59):
This book is, you know, selling like crack in the eighties,
but it is a fantastic read and it's one of
those books that I'm recommending to everybody.

Speaker 9 (01:24:07):
You really are You told me about it way before
we even know she was coming up here.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
Because sometimes you know, we forget, Like to me, you
just need these simple reminders, like I always tell we
talk about the serenity prayer all the time, right, and
we know what the serenity prayer is, but sometimes we
forget that and we just need to be reminded that
we're not in control of anything. So just let people
be who they are.

Speaker 8 (01:24:27):
You think were getting better because you yell at us
all the time, us, me, Jess, all the producers.

Speaker 9 (01:24:31):
You think we're getting better.

Speaker 6 (01:24:32):
No, that's why I'm gonna keep yelling at y'all.

Speaker 12 (01:24:33):
Oh you just like to.

Speaker 8 (01:24:36):
Yell talk about Tell people I'm not a mean but
you really just old and be yelling.

Speaker 2 (01:24:40):
Like I've told you that.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
I think you got better. Okay, Jess needs work. NV
definitely needs work. It's still a little bit. I'm just saying,
y'all care a little bit too.

Speaker 6 (01:24:55):
Much about the opinions of other people. That's all. Okay,
that's all.

Speaker 9 (01:24:59):
So me and my edges we gonna be chilling.

Speaker 6 (01:25:01):
We got the latest with Lauren coming up.

Speaker 9 (01:25:02):
We do what you got vibes Cartel.

Speaker 8 (01:25:05):
He made history, he did it, the big return back
to New York after twenty years. There are some big moments,
including the fact that Drake gifted him this like ovo
chain is one of two only him and him and
Drake have it. And I got all the details about everything,
how long it took to make it. I got all
the details.

Speaker 6 (01:25:20):
So hold on, it's only two chains change. Yeah, so
it's well, tell me, I tell me when we come back.
It's the latest with Lauren. When we come back to
the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 2 (01:25:27):
The Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (01:25:31):
That's right, it is the Breakfast Club, the world's most
dangerous morning showing.

Speaker 6 (01:25:34):
Now it's time for the latest with Lauren.

Speaker 5 (01:25:36):
Lauren be coming straight fast man.

Speaker 2 (01:25:39):
She gets him.

Speaker 7 (01:25:40):
Somebody that knows, somebody gets the detail.

Speaker 9 (01:25:42):
I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.

Speaker 6 (01:25:45):
She'd be having.

Speaker 2 (01:25:46):
The latest on the lawn is the latest with Lauren
la Rosa.

Speaker 6 (01:25:50):
Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you
have a little bit of everything.

Speaker 2 (01:25:54):
It's the latest on the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (01:25:56):
Talk to me what we got ll Cool Bay Vibes,
Cartel World Boss.

Speaker 8 (01:26:01):
He returned to New York and he did his big
US return. So this was his first US headlining show
in over twenty years. So there were some pretty big
moments out of the show. So he came out to
his remix that he did to Acons Locked Up, which
of course was very my mental after everything and he's
been through, and the crowd just embraced him.

Speaker 9 (01:26:22):
Crazy.

Speaker 8 (01:26:24):
Bill wo actually is calling this show like the opening
night alone, because you know it was sold out. Crazy right,
they're calling this show one of the most memorable nights
of live music in the Boroughs storied history.

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
I mean, listen, people were's your vibes Cartel and you know,
after meeting him, I can understand why people enjoy him
the way that he did.

Speaker 8 (01:26:42):
I was telling people that all weekend, like he is
very personal, he's super funny, like I see the Star
and a lot of times it's hard to pickle on
that with certain artists. Let's take a listen to him
in the ACM moment when he walked out on stage.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
I think Jamaica should narrate everything. I'm not gonna lie.
I thought about that the other day out that some
airport and they had it and making a narrating calling
people you know what I'm saying the gate, Oh my god,
that was so amazing. Now bonding Kay three Kate Tree.

Speaker 6 (01:27:11):
Out like yo, Jamaica narrate everything well.

Speaker 8 (01:27:15):
Also throughout the night he brought out some different people.
Of course, Little Kim hit the stage. One of the
night's neo shin see a fab Spice. Of course he
can't come and not bring the dance tall Queen Spice.
He performed Summertime Clock's Fever, the Brooklyn Anthem. When he
did the Brooklyn Anthem, he actually put on a Brooklyn
Next jersey, but he had it on back wheres he
had to like fix the jersey or whatever. But he

(01:27:37):
also did his song Mama, and he brought his mom
out when he did it, he goes down on one knee.
It was just a good moment, you know, because the
song talks about everything they've been through and what they
don't have to go through no more. And she's carressing
him and they're in front of all these people. But
there was a moment during the show where he got
so emotional he couldn't finish a song. He was performing
his song God is the Greatest and he broke down.

Speaker 9 (01:27:57):
Let's take a listen.

Speaker 7 (01:28:01):
Time.

Speaker 3 (01:28:06):
M Mmm, does listen solo?

Speaker 20 (01:28:17):
Does I mean enough?

Speaker 24 (01:28:19):
One night man be Us I watched God dis I
did listen? So does I mean like man bet Us watch?

Speaker 1 (01:28:36):
I mean, can you imagine, you know, you've been in
prison for thirteen years, thinking that you're never gonna see
you know, the freedom again, right, and then you actually
get freed.

Speaker 6 (01:28:45):
Of course, absolutely.

Speaker 8 (01:28:47):
Get free, and you sell out two back to back
shows at the Bark Place and the nineteen thousand people
it's with that stadium hole. Cardi B was also in attendance.
DJ Envy went with his wife Gia. Now you know
who also was there in tears. Safari Sofari was there
in tears. He said, you know, Vibes is his his hero.
Seeing him on stage in that big return.

Speaker 9 (01:29:06):
Made him.

Speaker 8 (01:29:10):
Why would you make me laugh? It was a really
emotional moment for Safari. But yeah, so shout out to Vibes.

Speaker 6 (01:29:16):
I saw people kill the Safari for that.

Speaker 1 (01:29:17):
But Joe Safari has always shown and expressed his love
for Vibes Cartel.

Speaker 9 (01:29:21):
So why you laugh?

Speaker 6 (01:29:23):
But I was thinking about something that happened last week
when Bobbs was here, I know. So that's what I
was laughing that.

Speaker 8 (01:29:30):
I think, I know if we wanted to share it,
I'm okay. So another moment that happened. Vibes Cartel was
gifted these Ovio chains from Drake. They were like a surprise,
special gift from Vibes to Drake. Now I spoke to
Alex Moss's team. Alex Moss is the jeweler who created
these chains with Drake, and from what I'm told, it
took seven months to make. Drake came up with the

(01:29:51):
idea and brought it to Alex to bring it to
life because he wanted to, you know, give Vibes a
big welcome home gift. Drake was involved in the process
of customizing the Joy from the beginning. Alex most of
his team work with Drake a lot, so he trusts
Alex created vision in his taste when it comes to
taking the lead.

Speaker 6 (01:30:06):
Why would Vibes want an owl.

Speaker 8 (01:30:08):
Vibes is a he's a huge supporter of Drake. He
back to him and the Kendrick Lamar. They talked a
lot about Drake.

Speaker 6 (01:30:13):
Oh they got to do with the owl? Will continue?

Speaker 9 (01:30:15):
It's like you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:30:16):
Continue?

Speaker 8 (01:30:17):
So it's a fourteen character yellow gold they have. They
have like some camo on it and printed in it
and diamonds because you know the whole Vibes the general
what else. There's so many details. Drake really took a
time on this. There's only two created. There's one for
Vibes Cartel and one for Drake himself.

Speaker 22 (01:30:37):
Drake.

Speaker 1 (01:30:37):
Actually, yeah, now why is Vibes the only other person
with that type of owl?

Speaker 6 (01:30:42):
What about Chumps? What about forty? It's party, it's pream
and baka. They would like a new owl.

Speaker 9 (01:30:50):
It's something special for the world. Boss. Wow, don't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:30:53):
Why can't they have an owl? Nobody else has?

Speaker 9 (01:30:56):
They probably do you all in their owl business? You
want WOMBOO?

Speaker 1 (01:30:59):
No I don't. And it's like why just him and Drake? Okay,
I'm trying to figure this out, Like what's the connection.

Speaker 8 (01:31:04):
He's a huge icon that he looks up to but yeah,
so it was a good gift. I tried to get
the price in but they ain't doing all that. They
said it's priceless. So shout out to Drake on that
gift because that one super virus well and it's a
great ol. Now as we wrap up, can I do
one of the clips that we had really quick? I
also wanted to answer the question a lot of you
guys are trying to figure out why Joe Tacopino, who

(01:31:25):
is now representing Wendy on the personal attorney side, was
denied the ability to go to dinner with Wendy. I
feel like some people thought that this was a retaliation
thing from her conservativeship. Well, Joe Tacopina called in to
talk to us exclusively today to explain it.

Speaker 9 (01:31:36):
Let's take a listen.

Speaker 19 (01:31:38):
There may have been a motivating factor to Superna Morcy
canceling that dinner, which could have included the fact that
I was there. So the lesson they want to do,
guys is see me inside that quarto. I'm not going
to be gentle about how one is being treated as
far as that dinner one be. Myself and Alys were
supposed to have dinner that night, last minute. Literally, as

(01:32:01):
Wendy was rested and ready to leave her room, she
was told she couldn't go by Supreme Marty because Alice
was testifying the next day to hear it, so therefore
she couldn't see Wendy in person that night. So if
the whole point was they couldn't get together the night
before her testimony, as if somehow Wendy would influence out
the testimony, which is ridiculous, It wouldn't really make sense

(01:32:25):
to cancel that dinner because they could have just been
on the phone. Well, I don't know if they knew
I was going to be at that dinner. It just
seems highly coincidental.

Speaker 8 (01:32:34):
Baby, they got Wendy in a choke code over there,
don't they. They're trying to show her something. We also,
real quick we also asked them to about the money
because we were trying to figure out. You know, Wendy's
been saying that Sabrina uses her money to hire these
high powate attorneys and blah blah blahlah blah. So I
was like, well, wait, so Sabrina's letting her pay you
because if they don't want you there, they ain't gonna
let the money flow, and he said that that has

(01:32:54):
did Sabrina's not paying him. Wendy's families, actually you know,
and him are taking care of that, but he didn't
want to go into it. He said that that's something
between him and the family. He's not worried about the
money right now. He's just trying to make sure Wendy Street.

Speaker 6 (01:33:05):
I'm sure we'll hear more on the Latest with Lauren podcasts.

Speaker 9 (01:33:08):
Oh period.

Speaker 8 (01:33:09):
You know, some of these clips is going right on
over there. And I told y'all in today's episode that
we would have Joe call in. So I hope you
guys have enjoyed the bounce between the two platforms, and
we do got some more exclusive clips from our conversation
with Joe Takapina that will be on tomorrow morning's episode
of the Latest with Lauren le Rosa the podcast.

Speaker 1 (01:33:23):
Make sure you subscribe to The Latest with Laura la
Rosso on The Black Effect iHeartRadio podcast Network. And speaking
of that, we have the third annual Black Effect Podcast
Festival happening Saturday, April twenty sixth.

Speaker 6 (01:33:34):
In Atlanta at Pullman Yards.

Speaker 1 (01:33:36):
Go get your tickets at Black Effect dot Com Slash
Podcast Festival. Some of your favorite podcasts are going to
be on that stage. Tanking j Valentine will be on
there with the R and B Money podcast SATA Jake
Roberts will be on there with the Woman of.

Speaker 6 (01:33:47):
Alved podcast, plus a whole lot more.

Speaker 1 (01:33:49):
So go to Black Effect dot Com Slash Podcast Festival
to get you tickets, and the People's Choice mixed with
DJMB is up next.

Speaker 2 (01:33:56):
You're checking out the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 1 (01:33:58):
Yes, it's the World's most Dangerous More than You're to
Breakfast Club Charlamagne and God Lauren LaRosa. DJ Envy is gone,
he had to go out doing some book trapping and
just his son's born day is the day Ashton?

Speaker 7 (01:34:10):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:34:10):
Yeah today? Yeah, think yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:34:13):
Ashtons turned thirteen today, So happy born Day to Ashton.
I'm sure Jess is doing a lot of great things
for him down in Baltimore. And salute to Baltimore. I
was in Baltimore all weekend for my daughter's cheerleading tournament.
Man had a great time in Baltimore. I want to
salute Carly at Nick's Fishhouse. Man, Carlely, thank you for
the love that you showed me and my wife at

(01:34:34):
Nick's Fishhouse this past weekend.

Speaker 6 (01:34:36):
You see I'm rocking the Knicks Fish House merchandise.

Speaker 9 (01:34:39):
Big merch.

Speaker 18 (01:34:41):
Oh.

Speaker 9 (01:34:41):
I like the back of that. Yes, that's fire.

Speaker 6 (01:34:43):
They asked me if I wanted a hoodie.

Speaker 1 (01:34:45):
I'm like, hell yeah, you know, because I show love
to people who show love to me.

Speaker 6 (01:34:48):
So Cary, thank you for the love this weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:34:50):
Thank you for the merch and just the hospitality y'all
showed us at Knicks Fish House.

Speaker 6 (01:34:56):
You got something going on, DR.

Speaker 8 (01:34:58):
I mean, we got a lot going on the podcast here.
Please continue to download it on everywhere you get podcasts
audio to eye heart app. You can also now watch it.
It is a delayed watch. You'll be on my body,
but I like that though. Every day after the audio,
so twenty four hours after the audio you can watch it.

Speaker 9 (01:35:13):
But I do post clips the day of on my
social media.

Speaker 6 (01:35:16):
Post the video twenty four hours after the audio.

Speaker 9 (01:35:18):
In full, but I post social media clips day of.

Speaker 8 (01:35:20):
We're working on it because at first it was forty eight,
so you know it should be day off.

Speaker 9 (01:35:24):
We're working on it.

Speaker 6 (01:35:25):
But what you're going to the d.

Speaker 8 (01:35:26):
Off for, I'm going to DR because it is the
HBCU Black Alumni weekend, and you know, whenever something that
and it's HBCU.

Speaker 9 (01:35:33):
They bring me out to have a good time.

Speaker 6 (01:35:34):
About you going for a BBL.

Speaker 1 (01:35:36):
I'm like, come on, I don't even have enough weight
on my battle because something's happened like that. You know people,
you know you're getting a little love out here in
these streets, and all of a sudden, now you want
to have plantic surgery like yo.

Speaker 9 (01:35:44):
Chill now go to BBM.

Speaker 6 (01:35:46):
No, I'm not. You don't have to do that at all.

Speaker 1 (01:35:48):
You don't have to tell me because I'm not going
there for making sure. Okay, I heard you saying the initials.
I wasn't paying attention. It was HBCU.

Speaker 8 (01:35:54):
Yes, not bb I know you ain't graduate from nowhere
because you even talking about That's right, HBCU Black Alumni Weekend,
May twenty second through the twenty seventh.

Speaker 9 (01:36:02):
I will be there. Memorial Day getaway dot com. Let
them know.

Speaker 8 (01:36:05):
I check out. You can select who referred you. Lauren
LaRosa referred you, and come out have a good time
with me. Bring your friends.

Speaker 9 (01:36:11):
It's gonna be good, all.

Speaker 1 (01:36:12):
Right, So yes, go check that out. Join Lauren LaRosa
Memorial Day Weekend in the d R. When we come back.
We got the positive note. It's the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 6 (01:36:20):
Yep, it's the.

Speaker 1 (01:36:20):
World No Danger, It's born to show The Breakfast Club,
Charlamage God, Lauren LaRosa, DJ Envy. He's out doing some
book trapping. His new book comes out tomorrow, Real Life,
Real Family, him and his wife Da Casey. So you'll
see them out in about doing a pr thing.

Speaker 6 (01:36:35):
What did he say he was going to do?

Speaker 9 (01:36:36):
I believe like Good Day in New York Americas. Uh huh.

Speaker 8 (01:36:40):
They've been doing some podcasts. I know they did, then
they did. I don't know if I can say which
one they did. It is some podcasts too, like it down.

Speaker 6 (01:36:46):
All right, Well, you'll see them out and about.

Speaker 1 (01:36:48):
And Jesse Larius Ashton's her son is born Dare the
day he turns thirteen.

Speaker 6 (01:36:53):
So I've be born day to Ashton Man.

Speaker 1 (01:36:55):
And we got to thank the Mighty Mail Robbins for
pulling up her new book to let them theories available
everywhere you buy books now. It's so damn near four
million copies in eighteen weeks.

Speaker 9 (01:37:05):
That's power.

Speaker 6 (01:37:06):
You know how crazy that that is?

Speaker 9 (01:37:07):
That's power that is.

Speaker 8 (01:37:10):
That is so like people have to go get a
book or go and find it and pay for it
and download it.

Speaker 9 (01:37:16):
That's like having to go buy a CD.

Speaker 1 (01:37:17):
Yes, so salute to Meil Robbins. I actually did her podcast.
It came out last week. I did it back in March,
but it came out last week. Man, So you know,
go check me out on the Meil Robins podcast. And
make sure you go check out Meil Robbins on the
Breakfast Club, whether it's the Breakfast Club podcast, our Breakfast
Club YouTube page available right now. Actually, and my positive

(01:37:37):
note is a quote from Meil Robbins. Mel Robbins once said,
start before you're already.

Speaker 6 (01:37:42):
Don't prepare.

Speaker 1 (01:37:42):
Begin You are one decision away from a completely different life,
and your feelings don't matter.

Speaker 6 (01:37:47):
The only thing that matters is what you do. Have
a blessed day.

Speaker 12 (01:37:51):
Breakfast Club, bitch is you don't finish for y'all done.

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