Unlearn Everything ( Jason Wilson Interview)

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yo yo yo, Good morning Angelo, Ye good money v
Chola mine the guy piece to the plane. It is Tuesday, Yes,
it's tuesday. Hing is what's happening? How's everybody feeling out? Then?
How you guys doing? I'm blessed black and Holly favor man,

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God is good man. It's another dead life. Man. You
know you gotta send everybody positive energy, love and like
beat before another day. You woke up this morning, you're breathing,
might be a little under the weather, but you're still here. Okay,
so be happy now. Question now, have you got I
know I know we were talking about a long time
Anthony Ramos came up a month ago. Did you guys
see The Heights the movie? No? I didn't. I didn't

(01:16):
see it. Oh my goodness, that movie is good. Drop
a bomb for Anthony Ramos and nights. I just seen it. Yeah,
I seen it on on a plane ride and my
goodness it was. I watched it on the plane ride back.
And then my daughter who was taking acting classes, she's
really into acting. I watched it with her last night
and it was really really dope, like surprisingly like I

(01:38):
thought it. I knew it was good, but think now
critically acclaimed Mirandas and didn't see it. Well, I went
to the plane. He's great. I'm gonna tell you why,
because I'm not gonna lie when I seen a movie
and they're gonna they rapping and singing in the movie.

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The movie goes like Hamilton, Hamilton, but not in the
movie for him. That's a play. How are you talking about? Yeah?
But you know, and The Heights was a play first. Yes,
I know that as a full movie for two hours
and twenty minutes, there's no way that I thought it
was going to be that good. And keep me You've
never seen them musical, not in a movie for him,
not as a movie whiz yeah, as a kid. But

(02:21):
talking about yeah, those were kiddy movies. Those were kids.
Musicals are musical music. This was a grown up musical
and I love grown up I enjoyed it. Like West
Side Story, I didn't see West Side Story. It doesn't
surprise me that Lynn Manuel Miranda made something dope, and
that was before Hamilton, and that was a critically acclaimed
play before that happens. No, but I've seen it last

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yesterday on the plane and I just thought it was great.
So there's a couple of curses in there, but you know,
it was fine for my daughter, who was eight years old.
But we really enjoyed it. I really thought it was great.
Man good shout out to Anthony Man Brooklyn Zone. And
I think I think there was two hours and twenty minutes.
I was well entertained for two hours and twenty minutes
on that flight. Okay, So if you haven't seen The Heights,
like my guys in here to talk about it was

(03:04):
critically claim they haven't seen it, go watch it because
it's really really and The Woods is not a kiddy movie,
by the way. There's people getting killed in the Woods.
Have you ever guys. Ever seen this movie um called
The Hangover. I heard it's funny, it's a comedy. You
heard of it? Have you guys? Have you guys critically
acclaim you took all this issue? You know, I don't
think the Non Heights sadly wasn't critically somebody didn't. No,

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no, no no, not not the movie play. It was definitely
and that's why they ended up making it into a movie.
The movie didn't do well at the box office, and
they didn't get good reviews because they said that, but
they had they had issues with the fact that there
weren't any dark There weren't any dark skin um Latino
people in it, and it wasn't a good representation, and
they apologize for it and everything. So that was some

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of the issues that they had with it. It did
forty three point nine million at the box office. All right, Well,
let's get the show cracking front page news. What we're
talking about. Hello, we got a guest today, man, the
Good Brother, Jason Wilson from Detroit will be here this morning.
He has an organization called Union. You know, he's fourteen
years of experience in training and developing young black men.

(04:09):
You know, if you've seen online. You know, you see
the brother who teaches young black men how to deal
with their trauma through martial arts. That's mister Jason Wilson. Okay,
so he'll be here this morning. He's got a documentary
coming out that Lawrence Fishburn is doing about his life.
He got a couple of books out called Battle Cry
and Cry Like a Man, and he'll be here to
talk to us this morning. All right, Well, let's get
the show cracking front page news. What we're talking about, Well,

(04:31):
the Raiders coach John Gruden has resigned over these misogynistic
and homophobic emails. All right, we'll get into that next.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, everybody is DJ mvy
Angela yee Charlemagne the guy we are to Breakfast Club
is getting some front page news now. Monday Night football,
the Ravens beat the Coats thirty one twenty five. All right,

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Now at w NBA Finals is tomorrow, Chicago takes on
the Mercury Phoenix Mercury. The game is at PM two motto.
All right, what else we got you? Well, John Gruden
has resigned as head coach of the Las Vegas Raiders.
He said, I love the Raiders and do not want
to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players, coaches,
staff and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I never

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meant to hurt anyone. And the owner of the Las
Vegas Raiders actually accepted that resignation and so in the
meantime their assistant will be the interim head coach. So
there was a revelation about an email, initially that John
Gruden has sent out that contained some racist comments regarding
the head of the Players Association Association for the NFL,

(05:35):
Demorris Smith, and then they did an investigation and found
other emails. Now, this first email initially said Don Morris
Smith has ellipse the size of Michelin tires. He said
he Gruden said he wasn't a racist, But then The
New York Times reported that there were other emails that
were sent there were also unearthed as part of this investigation.
They said he used anti gay slurs. He referred to

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Roger Goodell, the NFL commissioner, as a something that runs
with Maggie yes, the gay sword that starts with the
F and the clueless anti football vagina. Also in an
email that Goodell shouldn't have pressured the Saint Louis Rams
coach at the time, Jeff Fisher, to draft queers, which
was a reference to Michael Sam, who was the first
openly gay player drafted by the NFL in twenty fourteen.

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There were also emails where he criticized the hiring of
women as referees and also the acceptance of players protesting
for racial justice during the national anthem. They also said
there were photos of topless women that he was exchanging,
including one of the cheerleaders. So those are some of
the things that they found in these emails. Yeah, I
mean the big lip thing, that's definitely a racist trope.

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But there's from gray area because you could say I
wasn't being racist. I just made a comment about the
size of his lips. But you know, the F word,
that's a gay slur. And you know, calling Michael Sam
the key word. That's not up for debate, is it.
It's pretty cut and dry. It's pretty clear. So he
has since resigned and the players have reacted. You know,
us as a team, we were like, yeah, coach, it

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was ten years ago. We love you, man, we got
your back. We're just trying to be there a support coach.
I know, it's a hard time for him. He told
this man learned from my mistake when we left that meeting.
We didn't take it as how it came out. So
he said he could see how. According to Las Vegas
quarterback Derek Carr, he said the team did rally around
growding after Friday's meeting and they acknowledged they could see
how the emails would offend and hurt that the words

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have caused you think, but you know what it is is.
Originally the email was from two thou eleven, but some
of these emails go up to I think twenty eighteen.
So it don't feel like Michael Sam was that long ago.
When it was the Michael Sama fourteen, I think, I
don't feel like that was that long ago. Yeah, that
was twenty fourteen. All right, Well that is your front

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page news, all right, get it off your chess eight
five eight five one o five one. If you need
to vent phone lines to wide open, hit this up now.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm
telling I'm telling you if this is your time to
get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed, one,

(08:07):
we want to hear from you. On the breakfast clause, Hello,
who's this? Indeed Colim for Hall been in Jordan. Let's up, broke,
get it off your chest, man. I just thought of
my own independence record company because we ain't got that
down here, like hey, Lina, Jordian dude and my wife
had gone crazy. Well you know why because back in
the day the Streets and Savannah cut their nose off

(08:28):
despite their face because the good brother Camouflage got murdered.
You know what I mean, Pure Pure Paint Records would
have definitely put the van on the map. And that's
why the hood got to stop cannibalizing its own because
sometimes you take out the same people that were sent
to help you. You're right about that, Uncle Charlotte. So
all I'm saying suit the Pure Paint Records man, r

(08:49):
ip Camouflage from good luck with your company. Brother, Thank y'all?
All right, bro? Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good if
your chest all right? Are you doing? Answer? They dj
mvy Charlomagne the GUARDI how you doing? Black? You know
I'm doing good? About God's graces. I wanted to call
in and somebody said in passing, you know, back when

(09:11):
everything was going on with Haiti. Why does America hate
Haiti so much? And I just wanted to you know,
gives you guys some sacks. Okay, you know everybody knows
that we were the first to take our freedom. You know,
they hate us for that. Yeah, we also when we
did so, you know, we offered freedom to any American
that can come over to Haiti who can make it.

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A lot of people don't know that. France also came
back twenty twenty years later and basically demanded that we
give them back their property, i e. The slaves and uh,
they basically forced us to pay them one hundred and
fifty million francs, which is about twenty one billion, you
know dollars. Also, America also came to Haiti back in

(09:59):
nineteen four team and stole about five hundred thousand dollars
you know, so all of that was levied by America
City Bank. They took that five hundred did he even
put it towards the debt and basically stole a lot
of money from France. So I would also feel like
that it's grounds for you know, if they were ever

(10:21):
to give you know, reparations that they owe us money. Also,
you know a lot of Americans also don't know that
Haiti played a lot roles in America's history, like we
fought in the Civil War. We actually there was a
Haitian by the name of John Baptist point Do Stab

(10:44):
who founded Chicago. And also four Haitians flew with the
Tuskegee Airmen, you know. So the craziest thing is that
we asked France for reparations back to two thousand and
four and they essentially gave us the middle finger. You know,
they hate that we took our freedom first. Uh. We
played a lot of roles in america history and the

(11:08):
haters for it, well, thank you for the history. Lesson
for the history. Lesson, Brothers, get it off your chests.
Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If
you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the
breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. This is your
time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man

(11:29):
from you on the breakfast clubs, you got something on
your mind? Hello, who's this good? More than DJ Hanvy?
This court? You from Atlanta? Bro Get off your chests. Bro,
I just got a blend of y'all in Midklett a
little bit. I just need all of y'all in the
studio for a week, every last one of y'all. It's
like missing your cousins and your your favorite cousins. May's

(11:51):
given dNaM when you know, all y'all not there. So
I need all y'all diver like a week in the
studio together. Everybody's here right now? Oh oh bet bet
I'm gonna going and watching on YouTube when I get
off the juice. Yeah, I got you from Mersings down
here in Atlanta and Atlanta you need some juices, okay, juice?

(12:13):
All right? Right now? Hello? Who's this yo? We have
solved it's deading. Good morning guys. Yeah, what's up? So
I'm actually going to see air because I do night
shout out hers in so many Kansas. The thing is,
you gotta either have a vaccination card or a show
that you or negative, which I just think it's so

(12:35):
I don't mind taking a COVID test. But I just like,
why do you think that's stupid? They gave you two options.
You either got to have a car to be get
a negative test. What's wrong with that? That's the world
we live in now, right, But what stupid is I
don't mind taking a COVID test, right, negatived? But what
about the people who have a COVID test? You can
still get COVID. I don't understand what you're saying. I'm

(12:56):
saying I have to get a COVID test. Fun huh,
I don't care about that, right, what's I don't know?
Samonica right, she is vaccinated, but she could still have COVID.
I get. That's what you're saying is even if you're vaccinated,
you should still have to take a test, right, Okay,
I agree? So they don't you know you just got

(13:17):
okay yeah, most places, Yeah, most places, even when you
show your card, you still got to take a test. Man. No,
but well either way you get to see miss bob
do look at the bright side. I mean I don't.
But what about the first one they might have? Right?
She don't want to get COVID from a vaccinated person.
Now that's true too. Well, hopefully um Erica bod smudges

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the whole arena so that keeps the COVID up. Hello,
who's this? What's yo? Man? I heard this whole little Friday.
Somebody t had to hate on you, yo, And it's
crazy because if you're the same woman that was in
my DMS, Colia, you failed to mention that show? Are

(14:01):
you man? Like, excuse me? I don't hit my dms
and then blocked me when I don't want you because
black men don't. She like said, the girl that calls
up here trying to talk crazy about you was in
your DMS. I think this is the one because like
literally she said, yo, I'm like, she try to hit
me up and I'm like, yeah, chill, you know black No,

(14:23):
she you know what I mean. Next thing I know,
I'm blocked and I got I'm here in the cool
that I'm a can fish like it's two plus to
its full. I think it was her, like I said, man,
your body going backwards, like you couldn't have had me
what I was single or not? Like why she body? Why?
Why was she body shaming you? Thokay yo? She she
built like me. Okay, listen to me, I think so okay, Well,

(14:45):
salute to both of y'all. It wasn't mean now when
she called up here doing all that for no reason,
like barun talk about trifling, because you know what, I'm
in a relationship and you're still try to shot okay, right,
everybody knows mellow got a girl, all right, mellow, black
men don't cheat king exactly, black men don't get it
off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh

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five one. Now we got rumors on the way. Yes,
and how is Netflix responding to these demands to pull
down Dave Chappelle's special. We'll tell you what the co
CEO has to say. All right, we'll get into that next.
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The Breakfast Club's filling

(15:28):
the team. This is the rumor report with Angela Yee
on the Breakfast Club. Well, people are still torn on
how they feel about Dave Chappelle's special The Closer, but
a top Netflix executive co CEO Tes Surrondos says that
they are not going to pull down that special off
of Netflix. He told managers that some talent may join

(15:49):
third parties and calling for the show's ren movements, and
he said, we are not going to do that. And
so as much as people are saying pull it down,
pull it down, it's not gonna happen. He made some
statements about stand up comedy that I thought we were
really dopeful. Basically, I don't I'm paraphrasing it. We basically
said that's what stand up comedy is forced here to,

(16:10):
you know, push the limit. I just hope he feels
like that about everybody, not just Dave Chappelle. Yeah, I mean,
I also think that when it comes to comedy and
pushing the limit, that has to be like thoughtfulness and
purpose behind what you say, because some people just say
things for the sake of being shocking too. And if
it's not funny and it's not thoughtful, then it doesn't work.

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Even if it's funny and thoughtful, looking still a fan,
and I mean and it's still and it's still can
a fan. But I think that if it's based in something,
and it's gonna still be divisive, right, And Flay Munroe
was actually on Don Lemon and here's what you had
to say about Dave Chappelle. And I think that he
has opened up an opportunity for us to come to
the table and have real conversations done about this. The

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problem is we keep sitting disgrown through the angry people
with the fistballs up, and they face it with an
attitude to come to the table. If you come to
the table already with an attitude, you will never hear
what I'm saying, and I will never hear what you
saying if we don't take the time to have real
conversations with real people in the community that represent you
can't come with an already agenda, so we can let

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down the smoke screen between us and them, so that
would just be in us. He pretty much said that
we are so much more alike than we are different.
And I'm telling you you hear what you want to hear.
Drop on a clue bumps for Flame on the road.
That's why I love Flame. Flame is always down to
have a conversation of dialogues we can get to a
place of understanding. That's why Flames podcast is appropriately called
Laugh and Learn and it's available on the Black Affect

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I Heart Radio podcast network. Thank you all right, Now,
as far as there was some other people who were
speaking out in the family of Daphne, who is the
LGBTQ person that she that Dave Chappelle addresses in the closer,
He refers to Daphne who killed hself out under attack
for sticking up for Dave Chappelle over some of his

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earlier things that he had to say about the trans community.
Here is the actually what Dave Chappell had to say
on The Closer about Daphne. One of the coolest people
that I ever met was a transgender woman lived in
San Francisco. Daphne Dowarman is a name. I would do
eighteen shows in the Babe and she would be there,
a white trans woman, laughing loud and hard at everything

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I said, especially the trans jokes. And one night after
one of the shows I met up. Turns out it
was their dream to be a comedian and I was
a hero. It's very moving. I could not dislike somebody
that felt that way about me. We became fast friends.
And when I made that special Sticks and Stones, right
as it was coming out, I happened to be in

(18:32):
San Francisco and I wanted to do a show, but
I needed an opening that so I called her on
the phone and she was like, yeah, all right. In addition,
here is what Dave Chappelle had to say about Daphne
actually taking her own life. When Sticks and Stones came out,
a lot of people in the trans community were furious
with me, and the hardest thing for a person to
do is go against their tribe. But Daphne did that

(18:55):
for me. And when she did that, the trans community
dragged that bitch are all over Twitter. But six days
after that wonderful night, I described to you, my friend
Daphne killed herself. I don't know if it was them Dragon,
I don't know what's going on in her life, but
I bet Dragon her didn't help. This is a good conversation,

(19:16):
which man, and this walks to a really good conversation
because you know, you can't tell people how to react,
and you can't tell people you know what should and
shouldn't offend them. But I wonder if the folks who
are outraged know that their intentions are actually malicious. Dave
Chappelle's are not. So Dave said something his intention is
to be funny. You reply to Dave, but your intention
is actually to be hurtful because you feel Dave hurt you.

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Or what if that hurt you were projecting that you
took out on Dave and Daphne contributed to her taking
her life. Now, Daphne's sisters have since defended Dave Chappelle.
They said, Dave loved my sister and as an LGBTQ ally,
his entire set was begging to end this very situation.
And what He's saying to the LGBTQ family, is I

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see you? Do you see me? I'm morning my friend
in the best way I know. How can you see me?
Can you allow me that? And she called to set
a call to come together and according to you know
other messages, Becky, who his Daphne's sister, also said she
did not find his jokes real recruit, off coloring, off
putting anything. She thought his jokes were funny and Daphney

(20:20):
understood humor and comedy. She was not offended. Why would
her family be offended? So that is the family speaking out.
Have anyone from the trans community responded to you know,
possibly that rhetoric, you know, pushing Daphne over the edge
her being? You know? Now, I haven't seen. I haven't
seen people addressed that specifically. But I did see that

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Netflix has suspended three employees, and those three employees did
crash a meeting of its top executives, including and a
trans person who criticized the Dave Chappelle special terror Field,
a senior software engineer based in San Francisco, was among
those who were suspended for crashing this meeting and failed
identifies as queer and trans and had actually done a

(21:04):
series of posts on Twitter saying I work at Netflix.
Yesterday we launched another Chappelle special where he attacks the
trans community and at the very validity of transness, all
while trying to pit us against other marginalized groups. You're
going to hear a lot of talk about offense. We
are not offended. Being trans is actually pretty funny if
you're someone who actually knows about the subject matter and

(21:25):
goes on to discuss the reasons why she is offended. Now,
other people who were offended by this, TS Madison had
some things to say on social media. Now. TS Madison
has actually not seen the special, but here's what she
had to say. Bitch. What I said was I was
not watching it because I was exhausted with the conversations

(21:47):
wrapped around it. And I also said, you can't tell
people what to be offended by. I said, if you
mother got feel some type of way about anything that
you've seen or any whatever, and you feel something, bitch,
I stay scrap y'all beaches. We all on my page
with this damn transphobic as this is the rhetoric that
comes with it. I mean, how weet, How can we

(22:07):
get to a place of understanding though. We can't stay
in this space of just going back and forth with
each other, right, Like, it's got to be a conversation.
That's that's had to get everybody to a proper place
of understanding, because I don't think anybody's intention is to
see anybody harmed or want anybody harmed. Right right, Well,
you know the conversation is happening. I mean, that's something.
It's happening, But that's want to know what's the end goal, Like,

(22:28):
what's the place of understanding are we trying to get? There?
Were just all, you know, yelling and screaming at each other. Well,
we can continue to discuss this morning, but that is
your rumor report. All right, we got front page news. Next,
what we're talking about, Yes, are you planning to get
this booster shot? Well, there might be some more things
that are being cleared to make it more accessible for you,
all right, we'll get into that. Next is to Breakfast Club.
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(22:51):
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(23:13):
Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club.
Let's get some front page news and Monday night football
the Ravens beat the Colts thirty one twenty five. Now
what else are you talking about? You? Well? A TikTok
user name Brianna had some issues when her toddler actually
put her on Instagram live while she was taking a shower,
so her young daughter accidentally broadcaster. She said she gave

(23:35):
her tyler her cell phone to play a game while
she was in the shower. It was a preschool learning
game that she plays often. Next thing I know, she's
knocking on my door asking me to help her fix something.
I of course to her to come in so I
can help so she can keep playing. She hands me
the phone while I'm in the shower. I quickly realized
that my phone is broadcasting live on Instagram in my
hand while I'm in the shower. How many followers, yeah,

(23:56):
she said, no idea? How many people saw it? She said,
I deleted it so quick. I didn't see any of that,
so goodness gracious, And just to put it out there,
a lot of people are talking about this feature called
guided Access, which can restrict an iPhone to a single app,
So you guys can have that on there if you
let your child play with your cell phone. All right, now,
the United States is moving closer to clearing Maderner and

(24:19):
Johnson and Johnson for these COVID booster shots, and they're
saying panel is meeting this week to debate these extra doses,
and they're hoping that these booster shots will ensure a
long term and endurable protection against COVID. They said, even
with Delta, the current vaccines are holding up quite well
as far as hospitalization and severe disease. So more than

(24:40):
seven million Americans have gotten a boost of dose in
the US as of Saturday. And a Wisconsin parent is
suing the school district after their son came down with
COVID from sitting next to an unmasked classmate who was
infected with COVID. So the whau Keisha School District and
school board are defendants in the federal case. It's filed

(25:01):
on behalf of Shannon Jenten and other parents, and that
district is being bankrolled by a superpack that is started
by a local brewery owner. They are seeking an injunction
that would force the school district to implement safety recommendations
by the us CDC that was reduced the spread of
COVID nineteen. So it was another lawsuit that's been filed.
You know once Jared kids to have to sit next

(25:23):
to somebody who could potentially have COVID and then they
end up getting COVID. They want to make sure that
classmates have to wear masks. All right, and that is
your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.
Now when we come back, we got the founder and
CEO of Union, mister Jason Wilson. He trains and develops
young black men, teaches black men how to deal with

(25:44):
their trauma through Marshall Arts. He's got a documentary coming
out with Lawrence Fishburn about his life. You've seen him
on Doctor CNN, heard him on Joe Rogan The Today Show.
You're now you're about to listen to him on The
Breakfast Club. I love Jason Wilson. He spoke it my
mental welfax bot this past Sunday. All right, we'll get
into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

(26:12):
the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a
special guest joining us right now. Yes, Jason Wilson. He's
the found in CEO of Union. Okay. Jason has over
fourteen years of experience, you know, training and developing young
black men. You've probably seen his videos on Instagram where
he teaches, you know, young black men how to deal
with their trauma through martial arts. He's got two great
books out Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry. You've

(26:33):
probably heard him on the Joe Rogan podcast. You've seen
him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken my Mental Wealth,
expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the Breakfast Club.
Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning brother. How
are you all as well? Man? I love New York.
Love walking early in the morning here, especially late at night.
Give me time to really reflect and release things that

(26:54):
I need to let go of. You wrote a couple
of books, Cry Like a Man and now Battle Cry.
Why trying such a theme? It was imperative for me
that I learned how because my life well, I was
self destructive, pretty much about to lose my marriage and
my family, and I didn't know how to not only
express them, but to even process what I was feeling.
So I was only taught to express it through either

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fighting or really suppressing it. And as a result, Man
I lost it one day, man and demonstrall, be yelled
at my wife in the kitchen, hit a hole in
my refrigerator, and I just I had to make a change.
And when I saw my wife, I saw her go
from trusting me and loving me to her whole spirit
was torn down in front of me. And at that

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very moment, I realized I had a problem, and that
problem was I wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just
a masculine male, and I needed to learn how to
express the gamut of emotions that God has given me.
You know, more so than just being strong, a protector
and provider, I needed to express being a nurturer, express
being compassionate, loving, long suffer from you know, when Kobe

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Brian died in a helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others,
we didn't see a lot of pictures of him playing basketball.
We saw him operating as a nurturer, and then a
hashtag girl dad went viral through what men, but over
a million one point two million men posted pictures of
themselves loving their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists,
but we've allowed society to define us as men just

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by one adjective, which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine.
Can we talk about your background a little because this
is our first time meeting, So I know that you
have this youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want
to talk about you and how you started doing this work. Yes,
well I started actually was a popular DJ and Detroit
and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I

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was in rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So the
Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so we
would use as a Christian I would use the music
to counter what at the current time, what we would
call like gangster hip hop, and saw the negative impact
that was having on youth, and so we created music
to counter it. But we realized quickly that once the
music stopped, they still had to deal with the trauma.

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And so we're like wall and we need to stay
in their lives, we need to get into schools more so,
we went after our nonprofit status and in two thousand
and seven we received our first grant for mentoring through
the government and we haven't looked back since. And currently
we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young adults in
Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand square foot

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building due to the demand of the Cave of Adullum,
which is the Transformational Training Academy where I used martial
arts to help young boys navigate through their emotions instead
of succumbing to them. When did you get into martial arts?
It was that a way of channeling anger. Yeah, So
it was interesting when my good friend she was shot
and killed when I was in the eighth grade and

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we didn't have grief counsels or anyone come to our school,
and I didn't know how to process what I was feeling,
so I gravitated toward the jets. At the time, I
was twelve years old. But then I quickly realized if
I only process my anger by hitting things, whenever that
anger rise, I start hitting things and hitting people. And
so from that day on, because I have my father around.

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He was in the same city, but wasn't in my life.
I saw the sin Say as a father figure, and
I longed to have that affirmation and teach me how
to be a man. And it helped me with some
processing some of the training combat communication, which I talk
about in battlecry and fighting. If we're getting ready to fight,
I'm downloading all of your moves, your anger. If you

(30:35):
move on my jab or my kick, I'm seeing how
your defense is. I use that in communication with my wife.
I try to read the room. How is she feeling
to day? Is this a good time for me to
share with her how all of my emotions? Would it
overload her? And so instead of sometimes when you become
emotionally free, when you break free from emotional incarceration, we
can come home and unload too much on someone who

(30:58):
already had a heavy day. And I've learned to use
combat communication to excuse me. Read my wife, Read my son.
You know he's quiet today, what's going on with you?
Instead of yelling at him. Now I want to ask
you about for women who are dealing with a man
who may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that
he can improve his own communication. What advice do you

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have for women that have to deal with that? My
wife A lot of people ask her that because it
was all new for us, you know. And so the
first thing I would say is that we as men,
we not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned
to believe a man is, but also our women. And
we have to give our wives and our women the
grace and the space needed to do so, because you've
been also programmed to see a man a certain way.

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My wife had never seen a man crying to me,
you know. And so that's number one, is to unlearn
what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively
dismiss your husband or your significant other's emotion. When he
come to you, he's trying to open up, he's trying
to become comprehensive and whole. The worst thing a woman
could do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can

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I come back to that When you see that door opening,
like okay, cool, he's allowing me access to that heart.
And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what
she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or
your significant other's heart, like it's your girlfriend. Be slow
to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also

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need to know how to allow your wife to help
you through that process. Can you break down what is
emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental
prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and
his true heart from the world to keep him from
hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional

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incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this.
There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose
to stay in there, and because we have to face
or acknowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that we
don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there.
And a lot of good men and a tide of
being bad guys, even myself, Man, I ever suppressed all

(33:04):
of my emotions, you know, and because that's what I
was taught. And because of that, I didn't even they
not only know how to love my wife and my children, bro,
I didn't know how to love myself. And that self
hate caused me not to really be available for my wife.
And as I share it at the Mental Wealth Expo,
she had five miscarriages, and I was checked out. I

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didn't know how to express the hurt or anything. To
this day, it bothers me because we should say we
had five miscarriages. No, I say she had and I
should have been there, but I was emotionally checked out.
But now it's it's truly a blessing to be able
to drop my guard with the woman who really holds
my heart with care. All Right, we got more with
Jason Wilson when we come back, dute more. It's the

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breakfast club, Good morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast Club. We're still
talking with Jason Wilson, Charlemagne. The things you see in
regards of your wife so relatable. And it's the same
reason I got myself together too, because you know, I
didn't want to be like my pops, and you know,
I saw the pain my pops called my mom, you

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know what I mean. And I saw how you know,
them getting divorce affected the family. So why are so
many men just comfortable with saying, you know what, Yeah,
I'm married, but I'm gonna still cheating. I'm still have
a whole other family out here, another girl like, why
is that okay? You think that something's it's affeckless attempt
for affirmation and so you know, again we taught you

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know masculinity as well being a man that's having multiple women.
My father told me I was going to him proud saying, hey, Dad,
I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why the
hell you want to do that? When I come front
of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,
you only got one girlfriend. If it one day, you
gonna understand. Hey, And I told my dad. I told him,

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I said, I don't want to end up like you.
You're broke. You're still having to cut hair, Dad in
your sixties because you've had three marriages that failed because
you couldn't have any sexual self control. But when I
allowed my father developed Parkinson's, I finally was able to
get a relationship with him because he couldn't go anywhere.
So when we finally sat and talked, he shared with
me the pain of growing up and feeling lacking in

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so many areas he was called to preach. He told guy,
there's nowhere on earth I'm gonna do that because he
came up in the sixties, when the cops cracked down
on the pimps in Detroit, many of them became pastors.
So he said, the last thing I'm gonna do is
be one of these guys. But because of that, he
never really knew how to express what he was going
through and what he felt. And that's why sharing battle

(35:33):
cry too. As where we are now as men, we
got to go back and reach and help our fathers
learn how to process what they're dealing with. So you
gotta think my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great
great grandfather. My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and
then after his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by
the police to ensure that none of them would ever

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feel like they're equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida.
I saw that trauma transferred throughout general ration through our generation,
and until I allowed my dad that freedom to be human,
I didn't hear him say he loved me until thirty
seven years of age. I told my dad, and it
didn't make sense to me at the time. He's landing

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his bed and the Holy Spirit told me, he says,
tell your father, thank him for being a great dad.
That doesn't make sense to me. But what my father
needed was affirmation. So I leanked over to him while
he was landing his bed and I said, I said, Dad,
I said, thank you for being a great dad. So
I was walking out and I heard him like getting

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heavy in his breath, and I turned around and I
saw the strongest man in my life. Crime he finally
had a release, and this is a tough one. So
I went back over to him. I held his hands
and I kissed him on his forehead and he wouldn't
let me go, and he says, son, he says, I
love you. And that there it removed so many shackles

(36:59):
off of me and freed me to really live from
my heart instead of my fears, instead of trying to
live up to this limited definition of what a man is.
Now I can be a comprehensive man, which is a
man who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive,
a man who can boldly but freely live from his
heart instead of his fears. How important is it for

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men to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know,
I thought about this after the mental wealth export, because
a lot of stuff came up for me when we
was on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's
why the tids came, because it's like, just listening to
you tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA,
I'm like, damn, oh, I didn't. I didn't get that
the way I wanted to growing up from my father.
So even just hearing it from another black man at

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your respect is like whoa, it gets your emotional or
whether we realize that or not, we do that all
the time. That's why we gonna get the cars because
we want other men to give us affirmation. Yeah, like
I said, it's a feckless attempt for affirmation. Even with women.
You know, it's like we call you trophy wives and
all this other foolishness you would create. You're not meant
to be objects, you know what I'm saying it. But

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it's when we objectify women that a lot. When I
saw that evil, that's what allowed me to break free
from pornography because again, to have this right in front
of you where you feel you can have control over
the most beautiful woman in the world. I didn't know
how to really give a woman my heart, But when
I allowed myself to be free, I started cherishing women

(38:26):
for who they are, even their superior qualities, not that
equal qualities. Because my wife runs our nonprofit. If it
wasn't for her, I look at the stuff we do now,
that's because I allowed my wife to operate in the
fullness of who she is. Right, I don't need you
to be just at home with my children. God has
created you to lead this organization, this ministry, and then

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eventually I hope she gets her own health center. The
goal for us to even be healed, brother, and I
was sharing this at the ex Bowl, for us to
heal this black men. I want us to heal so
we can finally decrease what's going on the side of us,
so that our sisters can finally unload the weight and
emotional pain that they've been in doing for decades. Now.

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As far as affirmation, it's so important, especially with our boys.
You know, I remember I had one kid when I
piloted the cave of a dullum. The principle introduced me
to this young man by all negative descriptions. I took
that young man and for twenty four weeks affirmed and
poured into him, taught him how to meditate, release the anger,

(39:30):
the frustration, and it actually the hurt of not having
a father there. He smoked about two blunts a week.
This was an eighth grader. His great point average was
point eight. Within twenty four weeks, his whole life change
and he graduated because I affirmed him in who he was,
even the young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster.

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I saw someone who could negotiate, whose wives, who's clever?
They saw someone anger. I saw a young man who
would fight against injustice, who would think kids who are bullied.
That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are,
and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud
of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we
need to affirm each other that way. And then more so,

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as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was
on his podcast, we're so quick to just deflect it
or just here, you're the man too. I love what
you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother,
because you're doing some great things. And I want you
to really embrace who you are as a man. And
that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm
thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear, because

(40:36):
what causes men to really drift away. You want to
feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if
you don't work as hard as you do in the community,
in your home. How do you expect those in your
home to give you the accolades that you desire when
you're working twice as hard for those who don't even
live with you. Right? You said something so powerful yesterday
at the Mental welfect Bo when Max Ball asked you,

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what's the definitely of a man? How do you define
a man? Yeah? I said nothing. You can't define. Once
you allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything
and everything you have to be at any given moment.
That's the goal of a man. That's comprehensive manner. I
want to be able to morph between transformers and everything
that I need to be for to complish my mission

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here on earth, for my family, for you, for my sister,
my brother, my brother, And that's the goal. Once you
allow yourself to be defined, you've just cut off your potential.
And so I tell people to live I was telling
to me, and live from what we long for instead
of what we lack. We tend to blame my father's
for not being there what we didn't have, And now

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we bring that stuff to the present. We allow our
trauma to time travel living the present so you can
fully be there. And that's the key. Man. If you
only feel as a man that you're only a protector
and provider, how you're going to be there for your family?
How can you have a relationship with your wife? And
you're only you can only manifest two attributes, You're extremely limited.

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A friend of mine compared it to that crayon boxes,
the ones of eight and the ones of sixty four.
As men, we take out three crayons out the one
of eight, and we said, we're gonna stay in that
that area because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the
most I created us to exude all sixty four and
even more now move We got more with Jason Wilson.
When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club, Morning Morning.

(42:23):
Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy. We
are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Yea.
You also have a documentary that you've been working on, right, Yes,
can you tell us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting.
I signed with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a
gypsy to do a documentary film on my work with
boys in the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to

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Sundance and so we're waiting to hear back from them,
but it's supposed to release next year and we're really excited.
You get to see them follow four of my boys,
and you see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then
you see it broken and it's so powerful, it's beautiful.
How do you black and brown people learn to stop
wearing trauma as if it's a bad honor, acknowledge that

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it's nothing good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot.
There's nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mother and
not being able to say how you doing my brother,
how you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I
guess just the pain that we've been through. I mean,
we look at it as like, you know, especially I

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love hip hop. I came up in the culture. We
brag about getting shot. We don't brag about living in
a good neighborhood. We brag about being in the roughest neighborhood.
And so until we recognize that this isn't how it's
supposed to be. Yes, trauma will happen to all of us,
but it's not the Black experience as we always say.
You know, just as trauma can be passed down through

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our generation, so can healing. But we first have to
renew our minds. We have to allow. For me, it
took for me to ask the most how to break me,
break away my stubborn will, the evil in my heart.
I didn't want to be his light to the world,
to help those who in darkness see And so until
I allowed him to break me, I wasn't able to

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see that all that I've been through, the stuff that,
even for my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to
stay there. So when traumatizing things happen, we have to
let go and keep moving forward. But a lot of
us we stay there because we fear moving forward because
of something else traumatizing may happen. And so as a
Black people, we got to start living from what we

(44:35):
desire and hear the good that's in here. We love
each other man, we do, we just have to learn
how to express it. And there's nothing weak or docile
about telling you I love you, telling you I love
you and who you are. I'm proud of you. I
need help. I'm hurting. Just because something is wrong with
me doesn't mean something is wrong with me. So when

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we get to that place where we understand, okay, we
can break through what we've been through, that's when you
see us rise together. My final question, you know, as
your profile raises, how did your wife feel about all
these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they called me.
They called me that them on Instagram. Oh man, I

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um um. My wife and I have a very like
transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said,
you know, but this is a funny story. One day
I met Halle Berry, right, and I took a video
from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into
modeling at the time, and so I called the cart
I say I met Holly Berry. She's like really, where

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was she at? And I told her at this conference.
So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh,
so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was
like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and
my wife called back and she says, are you okay?
Because you know, Holly Barry is was like attractive like

(46:02):
our generations lean a horn. But my wife was like,
are you okay? Because I know she's beautiful and I
know you know you together, You' good. I'm like, yeah,
I'm good and we both laughed about it. But the
beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at
my wife, I said, dang, you look better than her.
You see what I'm saying, and so and so when

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she knows my wife, she affirms me man and I
fight it. I'm still growing, bro, I don't like dan,
how do you what? You? She had touched my face
all gent. I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's
why I'm cringing because I'm thinking when my father told
me I wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress
my face and then tell me I'm beautiful and she

(46:47):
loves me. And as a man, you look in your mirror,
you see your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't
buffing up, you ain't smart enough. What can any of
these women give me? Man? What's a night of sex?
I'm gonna I'm gonna give away everything in our god
just to have a moment with a woman. That's not
peace to me, that's chaos. I ain't got time to
have three cell phones, and I don't. I don't have

(47:07):
an energy for that. We're chasing a sense of worthiness
that we can't get from another woman. That's that's feeding
your ego. Being with your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah,
it's it's it's she's a part of me, man, and
so you know, Yeah, they're flirt you can see them.
They look at you. But I don't have an available look.
You know a lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity.
Y'all look available. You look like they can holler at you.

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I consciously make sure I don't look available. I don't
look like you know. I practice with my sister. You know,
we're talking. I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay,
so I do this. Okay, I take my ring off,

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but I'm not. I'm talking, but it's respectfully. How are
you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this?
So how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that.
I'm like, how are you doing? Press A pleasure to
meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What are
you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm calling
my wife. I'm telling you right now, taking that ring
off and then having the conversation not make you less available.

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But but but but the look is the spirit is
the vibe. And that's why I tell my brothers. One
of my friends standing back in the day, amaze women
beyonly man, I'm trying to be faithful. I said, you
look like you want them too, And he started laughing.
And we was in the gym, and I said, look
at you. He was like, I get it, Doug. You're
coming here every day with great sweat faces. And so

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you know, and and and that's my my thing. I
just you know, Um, I love our women. I do.
And they need a man who doesn't want to get
between their legs just to talk to him and affirm
them to hear from just a man who just wants
to affirm you for who you are, not because I'm
you beautiful, I'm trying to hog light you. Man. These
women would just you know, I just you know. That's

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why I say, Man, when we can get healed, keep
doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta continue
to do what we do. But when we can get healed,
we gotta sit down and open the space for our
sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna start seeing transformation.
When we both can truly find that and get that
heal and we desire and our families become whole, then

(49:22):
our communities to change, and then you got the world. Yeah,
I'm so extra grateful for like the men in my
life who do affirm me and have positive things to
say to me, and it's not for any reason other
than they really feel that way, and I don't feel
anything crazy from them. I know their families, I know
their wives and significant others, and it's completely comfortable. And

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I'm so appreciative all the time of people that are like, yo, Angela,
you really doing your thing. I'm so proud of you.
I'm gonna come support like it means a lot to me. Yes,
And that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people
feel like men and women can't have these relationships where
there's nothing going on. And if you could take a
picture with somebody like he trying to holler and you're like, dude,
come on, just because he's a man doesn't mean that

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that's what it is, just because somebody can affirm you,
but people sometimes are scared to even do that. Yeah,
but the more men who who model it, the more
men feel comfortable and say, Okay, this is what a
man is, you know, and that's what our women need,
you know, even at the union. Just affirm and love them.
I got you. Don't worry about that. I ain't trying
to holight you. They need brothers, They need men in

(50:27):
their lives that they feel that they got their back,
you know. And then ain't always wanting something, you know.
And so I went I did what is it called
virtual reality. I was at this conference and they they
put put me in a headset where I saw through
the eyes of a woman at work, and it showed
how many like advances men were making to this woman

(50:49):
throughout the day and from the handshake to just having conversation.
I'm like, damn it, can you just just respect me
as a woman, affirm me just as a woman instead
of just trying to get between my legs, you know.
And so I'm glad you have men like that. I
try to make myself available for the women in my
life the same way, you know, and it's so needed

(51:10):
as men that again, as long as we're seeking affirmation
in the wrong places. And that's what I did for
the longest would never truly respect our women for the queens,
the jewels, the gifts that they truly are true to
use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy.
I you know, I got too many women that call
me any brother uncle because I really wear that as
a badge of honor, like you know, I want to

(51:32):
be there for them in that way. And I'm glad
they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it.
And we need women like when my mother when my
when my mother passed, man, I needed a nurturer. I
needed to allow older women and my wife access to
my heart in that way, you know. And so and
I don't need women sisters trying to holight me. I

(51:52):
need a sister. Sometimes women who pray for me, man,
ain't trying to holler praying for me, and they say,
we know what you're doing. We got you. I feel invigorated,
you know, I'm ready to go. And my wife doesn't
mind it, man, And so you know again it's it's
our minds need to be renewed so that we can
truly live from the good in our hearts. His name

(52:13):
is Jason Wilson. Giving me your Twitters and Instagrams and
all that good stuff. My handle throughout all social media
is mister Jason O. Wilson. That's m R J A
S O N. The letter O W I L S
O N. And I want to thank you for doing
the Mental Wealth Expert yesterday. I couldn't even have done
an event like that and not have you there, because
you're such a leader in this space, man, and you

(52:34):
inspire me and you make me want to be a
better man every time I hear you speak, ary time
I read your books, seeing you on Instagram, everything, So
I just I thank God for your existence. Brother, thank
you feeling this mutual thank you and it was really
powerful yesterday and I look forward to being at the
next one. Brother, Yes, sir, thank you. Finally, Jason Wilson
is the Breakfast Club. Listen It's well. Lila is speaking

(53:14):
for the first time about her divorce. She was on
with Angie Martinez and she explained about keeping it private
for a while, how it made her fail. Here's what
she said. I still had my moments, but for the
most part, I can't talk about it now and laugh
about it and find, you know, the humor in it all.
Otherwise I'll be a basket case. Were you really bad?
I was bad because it was public. I was bad

(53:34):
because there were other people involved. That was bad because
there were allegations. It was it got bad. And then
you know, I'm not a person that ever put my
business on social media. I'm not a person whoever I've
never spoke the first time I spoke about But you're
my friend and I'm comfortable. But it's like, you know,
so many times you do want to say, oh you
guys really want to know what happened. You want to
hear from me, but you hold it in and it's like,
oh Li is doing good, she looked good on a Gramm.

(53:55):
It's like, nah, that shopped me really hard. Oh la la.
And then in addition to that, she also talked about
her post that she does on Instagram and where her
DM's looking like I am in a new phase and
chatter in my life like I didn't think at this
phase I would be entering into being signal. And so
now I got to readjust so I can't be out
here look at it crazy. I'm trying to get some

(54:18):
DMS popping. I'm trying to see what's going on. I
could only imagine what is happening. In las ms right now?
Can you tell me one thing they don't tell the person.
I can pull dms up with friends of mine and
it's the same message in each one of our dms
from a person like what are you just copy and past?
I thought you was somebody's super high profile too. Traveling

(54:39):
include bonflatz Leasy is a group chat favor, meaning that
if you're in a group chat with like guys, you'll
see a la la picture float across the group chat
timeline a lot. She's definitely a group chat favorite. All right, Well,
that's good. She waited till she was more comfortable to
speak about it to actually do it, and then she

(54:59):
did it in a s environment with Angie. So I
think that's great. And I have to be honest, I'm
a snitch. I do be telling her? Who be posting
her in the group chat? You be posting la la. Oh.
You can't tell other people stuff that happens in the
group text. That's against policy. And from what she said though,
she my friends being a text like Delicias after she

(55:20):
said she told you and Angie she's a you know,
trying to figure out Delia's after and we see some
people tell all right now, let's talk about Superman. John Kent,
the son of the original Superman Clark Kent, and journalist
Lois Lane, is turned out to be bisexual. So according
to the writer Tom Taylor, he said, it's not a gimmick.

(55:40):
When I was off at this job, I thought, well,
if we're going to have a new Superman for the
DC universe, it feels like a missed opportunity to have
another straight white savior. And he said, we don't want
this to be DC Comics creates new queer Superman. We
want this to be Superman finds himself, becomes Superman, and
then comes out. And I think that's a really important distinction. Now,
according to Tell, the reactions have been mostly positive. He said,

(56:01):
I'm seeing tweets of people saying they burst into tears
when they read the news that they wished that Superman
was this when they were growing up, that they could
see themselves. People are saying, for the first time ever,
they're seeing themselves in Superman, something they never thought was possible.
So he's a supertop of super Bottom does not say,
but he's bisexual. When your comments as a kid, did
they have any sexuality in the comics, anybody dating man

(56:23):
woman and woman, I mean Superman with David Lewis, Lane
Clark Kent. No, you meant like LGBTQ relationship. Yeah, yes,
there was what's the what's the young lady that? Uh?
Players on? Thor's her name? The character test the Thompson players.
I can't remember her name right now. And it was
always rooms that Deadpool dead Pool was bisexual, which you'll

(56:46):
probably explored in future comics. So yeah, it's not a scratch.
It's not like the things that they're doing now scratches sknew,
But yes, it's it's characters. I'm a Marvel guy, I'm
not a DC guy, but there's characters in the Marvel
universe that have been LGBTQ historically. All right, now, let's
talk about being offended by labels. Demi Levado is saying
that the label alien is offensive when referring to extraterrestrials.

(57:10):
Now we can flash back to a previous interview where
she actually addressed this, w kid, you please clear up
this fan theory that you have an unreleased song titled Aliens.
I do not have a song called the Aliens I wish.
Yeah it sounds cool, but it would be called ets. Yeah,
my fans should know that I do not call them
aliens because alien is a derogatory term for anything that's

(57:34):
even extraterrestrials, which is why I call them ats. Did
she have a conversation with an alien that he said
he was offended or she said that they were offended
by that term? The WOKEE gotta get some sleep, man,
because when you don't get no sleep, you just be
mad tied, and you just be saying silly stuff man, like, Yes,
you're right, And we don't know what beings from other
planets want to be called. We've identified a whole potential

(57:55):
population of beings with words I'm sure they don't use
to identify themselves, and now we're trying to convince ourselves
that they are offended by words that we made up
to call them. So we can't call aliens aliens anymore.
I don't know. I wonder if it's because people are offended,
actual people who I'm offended by your phone going off
every morning at eight o'clock. Well, get my parking situation, right, um,

(58:17):
But I wonder if it's because the term alien is offensive.
I'm referring to people who are coming from other countries,
like that's an offensive term. So I wonder if she
just thinks the term alien. I don't know, but we
terrestrials want to be called. We're calling them extraterrestrials. We
didn't even know if that's their name. We've made all
of these terms up to describe a bunch of beings
we've we've never encountered. What can I call it? I

(58:37):
thought you have. I've seen them before, so you haven't counted.
I didn't call them by their name. I just saw
I saw sauce before and I woke up with it.
You call them one who was standing over me. I
called it a flying saucer because that's the term they
gave us to describe it. So what can we call?
Can we call them aliens? Go? We go? What you
call them? Me? To you? What do we leave me alone?
By the way, the character is Valkyrie from Marvel. That's
who Testa Thompson play Valkyrie? Okay? Val and Loki. Loki

(59:01):
is bisexual too. I don't know if you watched Loki
on Disney Plus. Well, that is your room of reports.
The bottom line is, you can't call aliens. Don't call
me your bottom Okay, I hope you referred to super
Are you giving your donkey too? Um? John Grew? John
Grew needs to come to the front of congregation aka Supercracker.

(59:22):
We need to have a conversation. Okay, all right, we'll
get into that next breakfast club. Good morning, So breakfast club,
your mornings will never be the same. Angela here, don't
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(59:45):
restrictions apply. Don't be out here acting like a donkey.
It's time for Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy.
I could take it if you feel I deserve it.
Ain't no big deal. I know Charlotmagny got grow out,
funny sleep say out his mouth. You gotta say something
you may not agree with. Doesn't mean he's getting that donkey.
That donkey that don't don't don't, don't don't donkey other

(01:00:07):
day right to breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me
the donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm. Yeah,
donk you today for Tuesday, October twelfth. Gold to former
Raiders coach John Gruden. If you haven't heard, John Gruden
has resigned as head coach of the Raiders after homophobic,
misogynistic emails that he wrote between twenty ten and twenty

(01:00:28):
eighteen have come out. Let's go to ESPN for the report.
John Gruden resigned after The New York Times reported he
frequently used misogynistic and anti gay language and numerous emails
before he was hired as coach of the Raiders in
two eighteen. According to The Times, Gruden sent the emails
to Bruce Allen, then the president of the Washington Football team,
and others during a seven year period that began in

(01:00:49):
two thousand eleven. The NFL sent the Raiders additional Gruden
emails to review after the first, which Gruden had been
asked about, which included the racial troupe about NFLPA executive
director Demorris Smith that surfaced last week. Gruden was employed
by ESPN as the lead analyst for Monday Night Football
at the time that he sent these emails, which are
now under review. The comments are clearly repugnant under any circumstance,

(01:01:13):
ESPN said in a statement. Gruden released the following statement,
I quote, I resigned as the head coach of the
Las Vegas Raiders. I love the Raiders and do not
want to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players,
coaching staff, and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I
never meant to hurt anyone. This is a teachable moment.
It's a teachable moment because life is interesting. Life is

(01:01:33):
just something you simply can't run from. Because who you
truly are in the dark will always come to light.
It always does. This is why I subscribe to one
of John Wooden's most famous quotes, be more concerned with
your character than your reputation, because your character is what
you really are. Why your reputation is merely what others
think you are. People be so caught up in the
reputation of others. There's so many people out here who

(01:01:56):
present well, who have these reputations of being nice, genuine people.
When he is damn moving like the John Grudens of
the world behind the scenes, it's nothing you know to
even take personal. Okay, he makes joke using racist tropes,
He uses gay slurs to refer to homosexuals. Makes you
think what he really thought about Carl Nazer Is that
a pronounce cars last name who came out a gay

(01:02:16):
before the start of the season. Okay, he played for
Gruden and the Raiders. I would love to see the
emails about that move, all right. Gruden doesn't like the
emergence of female refs. See the problem with guys like
Gruden is he's not just the biggest he is actively
against the advancement of marginalized communities. Okay, John Gruden said
Goodell shouldn't have pressured Jeff Fisher to draft Michael sam

(01:02:38):
who was, you know, openly gay man. So to mean
he's against the gay man prospering, all right, he doesn't.
He doesn't want that gay man to eat. In my interpretation,
According to the emails, Gruden denounced the emergence of female referees. Therefore,
he doesn't think that a woman's place, you know, it's
on the sidelines. Like, what other reason would he have
to be against that? No other than she's a woman,
you know. Gruden also wrote in his emails that Eric

(01:02:59):
re former all Pro defensive backs should be fired for
protesting during the national anthem. So you don't care about
police brutality against black people either. Gruden also criticized the
bill that would have forced Dinner Redskins to change their
name in twenty fifteen. So let's look at the list
gay people, women, indigenous people, black people, America. We've seen

(01:03:21):
this movie before. This is what I mean when I
say we have to have a decratification of this country.
All right. The problem is you can change systems, but
you can't change people's minds. But these are the kinds
of crack ass crackers that are in positions of power
all throughout America. And the problem is there is white
people listening to me right now who heard all those
things John John Gruden said and did, And they are

(01:03:42):
more mad at me using the word cracker to describe
John Gruden than they are of all the things John
Gruden putting those emails that make him a cracker ass cracker.
And you know why, because you probably a cracker ass
cracker too, all right. Crackers a word. It's a word
used to describe racist biggots, derived from the slave masters
who used to crack whips on the back of the end.
Go back and watch episode one of the Gods Honest

(01:04:02):
Truth if my Late Night Talks show on Comedy Central,
it's titled de Gratification. You can stream it on Paramount Plus,
watch on demand, whatever. But we discuss how the denotification
of Germany could apply here in America. Wouldn't be a
permanent solution because once again, you can't change people's minds,
but it's a step in the right direction to real healing,
and that is what is happening right now. See, the

(01:04:25):
universe is trying to heal itself. I truly believe that.
And you can't heal what you don't reveal. So whatever
you truly are will be revealed because the universe is
flushing things out and bringing things to the forefront. That's why,
once again, you should focus on character, not reputation, because
character is who you really are. Reputation is who people

(01:04:46):
think you are, and reputation can be created, okay, through
smoking mirass. That's why I don't believe anything I hear
or see about people, because folks present one way in
person and be like John Gruden behind the scenes, and
some people's presentation might be horrible, but in real life
they're the nicest, most genuine people. Okay, So just sit
back it's a lot of people that we misjudged who

(01:05:07):
we said with trash, who are about to be revealed.
It's really great humans, and it's a lot of people
who present as really great human humans who will be
revealed as trash. John Gruden is just the first of many.
Because if we don't deracify America, the universe will do
it for us. Please give John Gruden the biggest he
are Just sit back, you ship back and watch the

(01:05:30):
reveal clock as clock. Okay, okay, okay, alright. A matter
of fact, why didn't I let Chelsea hand look, give
John Cruden the biggest he harms he he haw. That
is way too much, Dan manthy Criffin, you get it
on this too. Please give this giant jar male the
biggest he reiterate. All right, all right, you've been getting

(01:05:58):
hit a lot recently, man patting your head and men
rom forty three many pause, but don't believe no more.
M all right, all right, let's hopen up the phone lines.
Let's slander the breakfast club. You know we do this
once every once a weekend. We allow people to open
up the phone lines. And if you have a problem
with the breakfast club, me e or Charlemagne, you can

(01:06:20):
tell us what your problem is eight hundred five eight
five one on five one phone lines or wide open
whatever your problem is with us. Three. This is when
we open up the phone lines and allow you to
just say what your problem is. It's slander the breakfast club, right,
do it right now? The number again, it's eight hundred
five eight five one on five one. Something that you
don't like about Charlemagne, ye or myself. You gotta start

(01:06:41):
with me, all right, me ye or Charlemagne. There you go.
I'll put you in the middle of me. You're on
the bottom. Yes, yes, yes, nope, yes, call us now?
Is the breakfast Lug, Good morning the breakfast club, because
the club humble with slaming the breakfast clubs? Sit down?

(01:07:06):
Her daughter, Hello, who's this yo? Dave? What's up? Dave?
What up? Doe? What up? Do? What up? Man? I
got I got some from Angela. Ye, man, I think
the whole world ready to hear it is? We're her man,
that man she always worried about somebody else, belated until
with her relationship with her man, that he must be death.

(01:07:28):
She talks about her man all the time. He's asleep
right now. Actually, oh for real, man, yo, Man, No, okay, okay, yeah,
I think people's been waiting to hear that. You always
look somebody out business. I had to get to my tips.
I don't never hear about dor relationship. Well you gotta
listen to a little harder, sir. Hello, who's this? Gee? Gee?
What's up? Man? Slander the breakfast club? What's good? Man?

(01:07:51):
Breakfast club? What up? Bro? Charlom Magne, Yes, sir, he's happening. King,
not a much man, and I ain't get a slender y'all. Man,
I love a breakfast club. Man. That's well, thank you, King.
We appreciate you. Man. So sure, Hello, who's this? You
know this? Rob Caper? Up? I'm not gonna try to
pronounce your name. What's up? Man? Stand at the breakfast club? Brother?

(01:08:12):
All right? I love the show. I just want to
I want to give Charlotte man to guard the donkey
to David. That's that's how we could do. But ahead go.
It's on you, sir, okay, so on you because you
always talking about deep run to fide, but you want
to go on their talking about the Jesus Christ. So
how could you free our people? You know? If you
I'm corrupted vocabinary, So that's one of the says. Uh,

(01:08:35):
you know, you gotta straighten that out so he could
be really liberated. My brother, let me ask you a question,
why why why are you assuming that when I say
Jesus Christ? Why are you assuming Jesus's white? Why? Why
is yours? I'm not I'm not a stuman Jesus a
spike because I know that Jesus kim from sir ROPAs,
who is white, so be a Greek, a Greek un

(01:08:56):
scept so I'm not assuman that I know that Jesus
kim from the white mind. Does hold on? Do you
think Jesus white? Jesus North? You think Jesus white? I
didn't think Jesus isn't blind men white? Is he is white?
I said, surround, you gotta do your you gotta do
a proper history research whether it comes to knowledge. My brother, hey,

(01:09:20):
de cratify your mind, my brother, de colonize your brain.
My brother Jesus is black. My brother Jesus is a
black mind. My brother, Hello, who's this Dinysia Slands at
the breakfast club. So I really want to get on
you and Charlemagne because y'all don't know the difference between
wrath and ethnicity. Always getting on you about being Dominican.

(01:09:43):
You can, I'm not Dominican. I'm black. Yeah, you're black,
but you can. There's something as black Dominicans because brain
is based off your journey being tech in perfection and
your hair touched her. But ethnicity that's based off like tripo, affiliation, diligence,
and traditions. A particular du identified myself as black, identified

(01:10:04):
myself as black. My mama black black, and I'm black. Yeah,
I know, I know you said that. In this roomains
always like oh no, but they're Dominican. But you can't
black and Dominican. It's not like you're not black and
you're you can't be you. I don't know that racist
based on your did you say your hair texture and
you're well, your your field cool characteristics like your skin color.

(01:10:26):
What about when you wear white jeans after labor day?
Does that make you Dominican? That makes you Dominican? Mama, No,
I'm not domnicaated. I wear white why I don't wear
white jeans at all? But I don't care about wearing
white beings after labor day. Well, because like Michael Cole's bags.
What do you? What does that mean? Whoa? Whoa whoa?
This guy is crazy. This guy is crazy. This guy
is crazy. Is this guy not crazy? Why my crazy

(01:10:49):
guy is crazy? Man? All right? Jesus Christy slaying at
the Breakfast Club eight hundred five five five one. You
want to sland to the Breakfast Club. Call us now
as the breakfast Club, the body the Breakfast Club, humble
with slacking the breakfast class down? Hello? Who's this? This

(01:11:15):
is Sean whatever envy? What's up? Bro? How you doing?
Who's gonna get this smoke? First? You go? Whatever? You
whoever you want to give it to. I want to
give it to Charlottemagne. You know now that he's getting money,
he want to put that black make up for him. Man,
let's take it back to the Wendy ms. You have
fifteen shades of black, Charlottegagne. Come on now, who told
you I'm getting money? We all know you're getting money.

(01:11:36):
It ain't true. Don't tell them, don't spread them. Live
y'all all getting my Angela? You next, you're ready, Angela?
I'm ready. I don't like how I met you the
first time on loan forty fifth on the telephone poll.
You want to ji for me? Commerce? You you understand
saying advertiving good here? You already got good here. You
don't need no JI from me. He's talking about your billboard.
That's that's all. No, you know what I came on

(01:11:58):
every way I see, I'm like old. That's it with
ye the first time I'm showing you know, just for me.
You didn't mean that. You just seen a build. Bull
ahead continued. Okay, anything else, you're boring me, anything else.
If you ain't like how youre going to really represent
our liation brothers like that, you know what I mean?
If you're gonna be on a real weird time out
of change, you know what I mean? If you're going

(01:12:18):
out way to tie not to change that was like
five years ago, bro, like where you ast like you
got out of something. I don't know. Jesus Christ, Hello,
who's this this rooney? I want to slender ye goad
go yeah, give us some logic. Year. I'm tired of
every time somebody come on the show you're talking about well,
I feel like you always feel like something you use

(01:12:41):
that logic, young ladies, beautiful self. I don't have feelings
on they use logic. That's right, Okay, goodbye. I feel
like that's a terrible idea. Hello, that's a good conversation. Logic,
which one is? It should be logic of a feelings
and feelings of a logic. That's a good conversation. I
want to spend all three, y'all. Go all right, let's

(01:13:02):
start off for you. Um he did good on the first,
kind of like a young Diddy kiss and he's kind
of more for starting to hit all right, keep going?
What version did you do? Kiss? Ahead? Go oh Charlemagne
and heavy? Man, I'm tired of this textual tension between y'all.
My time, y'all has the text is gonna be so trash,

(01:13:23):
y'all building up. I'm gonna be y'all get it in man,
y'all got that's gonna be like the Detox album. Okay,
you can't now that's funny. That's that was hilarious. That
was that's the best one of the day so far. Hello,

(01:13:46):
who's this club? Wrepperas club Wrappers Club? It's Freddy for Annapolis, Mandy.
I gotta tell you, man, you gotta stop usually in
words so freely, man, what a I use the A word.
Don't you use the times you be talking about it
and you'd be using it, man, I think would be
a good idea if anytime you use it, you know,

(01:14:08):
pay yourself for fine and didn't take that money that
you accumulate from using the word so much and donated
to a charity. You're right, I'm trying not to use it.
But here's the thing, man, I use it in this
proper context. I don't use it as a term of endemic.
I use it. And when i'd be like these this boy,
well you know, he just use it again. How much
should that fine be? I don't know, ma'am. Maybe a thousand.

(01:14:29):
Let me tell you how my brain works. In my mind,
whenever I use cracker, it off sets the N word.
Thank you. He right, though, I gotta stop using that word. Hello, Hello,
Hey Slater the breakfast clab Mama. All right, so this
one for Charlomane. Listen, I'm a cancer. I rock with

(01:14:51):
you every day. Okay, Yes, man, When you see that
when I say what I didn't hear it? Script eight
script and straight straight strip street and you add a
cake to it, your phone is breaking up. Your phone
is making me upset. But I'm from Monkst corner of
South Carolina. You know what I'm saying. I don't. I'm

(01:15:12):
not gonna blame it on South Carolina, but I do
feel like straight screech, scrump scrimp. That's just how we talk.
All right, Well, slander the Breakfast Club eight ondred five
eight five one on five one. If you slander the
Breakfast Club, we do that once a week where you
can just call us up and let us know what
you think about it. Now you've got rooms on the way, yes,
And let's talk about being offended. Who was offended by

(01:15:34):
Kim Kardashian's monologue on SNL. All right, we'll get into
that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club.
This is the rumor report with Angela years well. Michael
Jordan was on NBC Today's Show and Craig Melvin asked

(01:15:56):
him if he's concerned about the NBA's COVID vaccine protocols.
And here is what Michael Jordan had to say in response,
Are you at all concerned about the protocols? Not at all.
I am total in unison with the league, and I
think everybody you know it's been speaking about the vaccinations,
and you know, I'm a firm believer in science, you know,

(01:16:17):
and I'm gonna stick with that and hopefully everybody ad
buys by whatever the league sets the rules, and you know,
I think that, you know, once everybody buys, we're gonna
be fine. I mean, what would be different from last year?
Last hit? They got through it. It was traveling, they
was playing home games in away games, Like, what would
be different without an audience was two years ago the

(01:16:40):
season before. Huh? But were they at full capacity? I
don't think. I don't know if they were full some
of them were, not all of the not all of them. Yeah.
And then I think it also coincides whatever their restrictions
are in the city that you're into. So if the
city is saying you can't come in here if you're
not vaccinated, you have to buye by that. It was
like that last season though. The vaccine was rolled out

(01:17:01):
last season because I remember at the Barclays you had
to get a COVID test and then at a certain
point in time you had to be vaccinated. Yeah, you
have to go to some of the I think Atlanta too,
you had to have the COVID test before you walk
into the arena as well. Now, was Michael talking about
players just now or was he talking about just overall?
He's talking about players because he's saying whatever the leader. Okay, okay,
all right, yeah he's talking about players. Okay, that's different,

(01:17:22):
all right now. Kim Kardashian the the monologue that she
gave on SNL offended Nicole Brown's sister, and Tanya Brown,
who is a sister of Nicole Brown, said she thought
that they were in poor taste and that Nicole's death
should not be portrayed as a joke. Here's what she said.
You know, my father was and still is such an

(01:17:43):
influence and inspiration to me, and I credit him with
really opening up my eyes to racial injustice. It's because
of him that I met my first black person. You
want to take a stab in the dark at who
it was. I know, it's sort of weird to remember
the first black person you met, But O J doesn't
leave a mark or several or none at all. I

(01:18:04):
still don't know. Now. Tanya Brown says that these jokes
were beyond inappropriate and insensitive, and she's wondering how much
the Kardashians actually cared about Nicole because Chris Jenna was
one of Nicole's close friends. Yeah, I wondered. I wondered,
you know, did that hurt more because it's coming from
Kim and Kim and you know, the families were close.
Because comedian has been making OJ Simpson jokes for ever,

(01:18:25):
everybody making it's probably different when you know the person
and they supposedly were friends with the person. So she
feels like, even though she knows Kim didn't write it,
she should have pushed back and refused to do that
particular joke. That is one of those things about those
jokes tho. And I even realized that with the surviving
R Kelly situation, Like, you know, we all made jokes
about R Kelly, but you don't realize there's actual victims

(01:18:47):
of all. Even when you're making jokes about OJ and
fans hurts them as well. Of course people will kill
so I get it. Yeah, And I'm sure it's the
worst when it's somebody you know personally and you're like, damn,
you was at the house, you know, so hurt more? Yeah?
All right. Now, Kanye has put his Wyoming ranch up
for sale. The list price is eleven million dollars he
initially purchases for fourteen point five million, and they said

(01:19:10):
it's a forty five acre Monster Lake property with eight
lodging units, two freshwater lakes, a restaurant and events center,
and meeting facilities and barns for eleven million dollars. Not bad.
And I think he has others owl he's losing. I'm saying,
not bad. If you want to buy it, that's a
lot for eleven million dollars. It comes with all that.
So he wants to leave Wyoming Now, I think he

(01:19:31):
also has other properties. There's one of his ranch properties,
so that one is on the market. We don't know
if he's leaving and selling everything yet, all right, now,
former judge duty bailiff Peter Petrie Hawkins Bird and he's
saying that he's upset because he's not reprising his role
in the spinoff series Justice Judy. He said that he

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told the outlet that he was excluded from the new series,
but he caught wind of the new project when she
made the announcement in twenty twenty. During an apparent on
The Ellen Show, he said, my assumption is if you
were going on to do something else, that you were
at least going to ask me if I wanted to
have the opportunity to audition for the role. They never
discussed the new show during their time filming the twenty
fifth and final season, so he was on there with

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her for twenty five seasons. He said he didn't have
time to think about or ask about Judy Justice because
after filming wrapped up, he had to focus on his wife,
who's also a veteran show producer, who was scheduled to
have brain surgery, and he revealed that he did reach
out to Judy Shinlan and she told him that he
was not being asked to come along on the project.
He said, I didn't inquire as to why that's her choice,

(01:20:35):
but she did inform me that fundamentally I was priced
out as a new bailiff on her new show. My
salary would have been too much, but he would have
liked the opportunity to have accepted a lower salary if possible.
Tiger is cooperating with authorities. His ex is saying that
he got physical and she posted some alleged injuries. Cameron
Swanson is her name. She came over to his home

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around three am after he told her not to, and
she was at his front door shout at the top
of her lungs. According to a source, they said Tiger
and other family members in his home felt that she
appeared to be under the influence. He led her inside
to talk to yell and continue, they said. Cameron claims
Tiger put his hands on her during the argument. Afterward,
her mother came to pick her up and then she
called the cops to report the alleged incident. So she

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did also post a video showing these injuries. She said
she is standing up for herself and he is cooperating
with authorities right now, so we'll keep you updated on that,
all right. Teraji has been talking about launching her music career.
She has a new feel good EP and she's been
working on that, so it's a surprise for people. But

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as you know, her new season of her Facebook watch
series has just kicked off and one of the people
on there was Megan the Stallion. So here's what Meghan
the Stallion had to say about her Boo partisan Fontaine.
My boyfriend does make me very happy. He definitely takes
care of me emotionally. He makes my brain feel good,

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my heart feel good. That's, you know, a big thing
for me because I used to be so into the
physical right. But he moves me, he inspires me. We
just feel like a real team. Okay, you can watch
an entire episode of Peace of Mind with Tagie on
Facebook Watch and that is your rumor report. All right,
shout out to Revolt. We'll see you guys tomorrow. Everybody

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Slash Breakfast Club, j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne the guy.
We are the Breakfast Club again. Don't forget my car show.
It's three weeks away, super duper excited in Detroit. That
is October thirty. So if you want to take the
kids trick or treating, or maybe you're fearful of what

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we're gonna have it the day before, so would it
be cars? It'll be candy for the kids. It'll be
amusement rides, carnival games, kids fibing under a free and
then in December will be in Miami. That's twelve twelve,
so bring the kids out. It's family fun day, so
you could bring the family out, safe environment and we
just have fun. Just gonna be dressed up as a
you know, folloween Ye, yep, I'm gonna be dressed up.
My kids are gonna be dressed up. What are you

(01:23:24):
gonna come as? I don't know. I don't want to
say yet. I don't say yet, so you already know. Yep.
Is it a car? No, I'm not gonna dress us
a car. But yeah, I will be dressed up for Halloween.
So I can't wait to see you guys, all right.
And also I want to tell everybody just be careful
out there. I mean, you know, it's getting close to
the holiday season and I see robberies up, people getting

(01:23:48):
robbed and assaulted up. Just be careful out there. You
sell a candy man? Did canny man is fake? You?
I saw yesterday? Did they caught some of those people?
I get one guy, didn't you never leave? Yeah? They
believe it was flip child. They believe that there's a
gang in New York City if you're from out of town.
But this is all over the place that they were
just robbing people going to the hot spots, the clubs,

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the restaurants and waiting for people to walk out, and
you know, trying to take their watches and rings and
phones and all that. So just be extra careful if
you see something, call the police. See something, say something,
But they are out there. This is robbery season. Just
be extra careful. When you go into your crib, your house,
just look over your shoulder to look for paul cars.
Just be extra careful out there. I mean, I've never

(01:24:30):
seen the city like this. The city's bad. The hell
you mean You've been in since the eighties and it's bad.
This is this is one of them. Not even just
people get robbed like you seeing you seeing like yesterday,
I've seen a lady push a three year old on
the floor. I've seen somebody trying to push some money
in front of a train and somebody cut somebody in
the face. Like it's c yeah, and I think it's
because of social media too, But you're right. I was.

(01:24:50):
I was having a conversation with an older white home
in your mind, and um I said that. I was like, man,
I said, your New York look like it did in
the early two thousands, late nineties. She said, no, this
is like how it wasn't the sixty seventies. I was like, well,
it wasn't around. I'll take your word for it, man,
but it's bad out there, so just be careful. And
it's and it's because people starving. It's literally because of
the economy. I'm telling you. Then PPM, then PPM, then PPP.

(01:25:14):
Loans gone, the unemployment gone, the holiday season about to
be upon us, everything looking like a lake for people
who need eat. Yeah. And the dude that they caught yesterday,
he's from the Bronx, of course, because the craziest people
in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, yes,
so all right, Well when we come back, positive noticed
the Breakfast Club go Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

(01:25:37):
Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club,
Yes we are, and shout out to everybody that was
calling in today. One person that was talking about the
sexual attention between Envy and Charlottage. He said, by the
time y'all have sex. It's going to be trash. That
has to be such a disappointment if you wait for
years and years and years and hold out and then

(01:25:59):
you finally have sex with someone and it's not what
you thought it was. I think it's scranged that people
um think about me and envy having sex. Me and
iv ain't thinking about that. No, you know what I'm saying.
Just just because you tell your brother you love him
and you value them and you appreciate them, don't mean
you wanted to sleep with him. Jesus Christ, people get
your names out the gutter. Also, sleute to Jason Wilson,

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you know what I mean. Jason Wilson, the author of
Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry, just a great
brother man. Follow him on Instagram and Twitter at mister
Jason Wilson. He's got a documentary coming out produced by
Lawrence Fishburn about his life. He's just a really really
good brother man who's really out here, you know, helping
the people, helping the community, especially in Detroit, Like I
mean his organization Union, you know, he's he's helped over

(01:26:44):
ten thousand young black men, you know, deal with their
trauma through Marshal Larch. So really, hell yeah, Detroit, get
his number because maybe he got some young men that
he wants to give, you know, look to getting the
car show free and just you know he would love that.
Ask you can ask Ty Royce any of him about
Jay and Jason absolutely demand sleute to Jason Wilson. So
I'm happy you pulled up this morning. All right, Well

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