Kevin's Big Announcement

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it's Mojo in the morning. This is going
to be a big topic here right now. This is
going to be a big conversation. And I did not
know he was going to come in and do this
this morning. During our pre show meeting, one of the
slots open for a conversation here on the show was
for cav and when we go around the room and

(00:22):
I'll talk about things that are going on in our lives.
keV said that he was ready to have a conversation,
a real conversation with the listeners that I think some
people kind of started already figuring out. And you already
told us that you've been kind of struggling and going
through some tough things in your personal life.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
But I'm going to give you the floor. Yeah, I
mean new studio, new vibes.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
Schrelle and I are no longer together, We are no
longer in a relationship, and we haven't been in a
relationship for a considerable amount of time, maybe since June
or July this year, so about five or six months.
It has been extremely difficult and obviously life changing. But
I'm at a point now where it needs to be communicated,

(01:08):
it needs to be said, and I still love Chharill.
Obviously I love Jana, but at this moment, a future
is not something that I'm interested in having.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
What can I ask you? And what can I not
ask you? Because I know the whole story?

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah, I mean, well, I mean ask what you want
and I'm gonna are you honest, and then if I
don't want to answer it, I'll tell you.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
Are you doing okay? Yeah? I think I think.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
You know, some days are the sun is shining brighter
than others, But I think consistently I felt better lately.
And when I say lately, I mean over the course
of two months.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Okay, how is Cherill doing?

Speaker 4 (01:45):
Charill? Is you know?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
I would say the same.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
We had a beautiful discussion last night because I told
her that I was thinking about bringing this to the
Aaron wanted to make sure that she was comfortable with it.
I didn't want her to be surprised. And we have
amazing listeners and people and our family who listen to
the show, and I didn't want to come and have
a conversation and she'd be blindsided by it. So outside
of us discussing that portion, we did a check in
because we still live together.

Speaker 5 (02:09):
Bro't like I know, Mojo, it was the whole story.
I don't know the whole story, but that was one
of my questions. Was And even when you just said
since June, I was like, oh my gosh, it's.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
Been a while.

Speaker 3 (02:23):
It's been a while just holding it in and having
to live with it. And I was talking to Colleen
and the Colleen he was like doing a chicken like
how are you. I'm like, do I got some real
life spit going on?

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:35):
And you know it's obviously you call the dog cav
I love you, I love Charrell.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
I'll do too.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
I'm sad to see you guys going through this, but
it is. It is, you know, real, And I knew
something was coming because as you told your buddies, your
guy friends. Yeah, you told us on the air about that,
and you had kind of been holding out because I
had asked you for a while. I feel honored that
you and Cherrelle respect Chelse and I so much that

(03:14):
you guys have shared with us. You know that your
struggles when you guys were going through some struggles. But
I also honestly felt so bad for you that you
on the radio. It's tough for us to do our
show and try to play like everything's great, and I
know that you haven't been great.

Speaker 5 (03:32):
I commend you because I mean from personal experience, it's
incredibly hard and I feel like you and I know
you're gonna disagree with me, but I feel like you
have been keV, the keV that we all know, and
you've brought the positivity to this show the entire time,
and that's so it's so hard to do when something's

(03:52):
going on behind the scenes.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
It has been a battle, it has been a struggle,
But I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason,
and I don't just apply that when the sun is shining,
like when it's storm And also everything is happening for
a reason, and we're so blessed in many other.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
Areas of our life.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
I get to wake up, I get to have an
incredible job, I get to have, you know, children and
family and the whole thing that I can't just focus
on the one thing that can be quote unquote a
blemish and allow it to tell the full story like
it made it point going through something like this isn't
a destination, this isn't the end. I'm passing through something,
there would be bumps and roads on the journey, so

(04:31):
to speak.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
But I love Schrell, like I said.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
And you know, it's just at a point where when
you don't protect your relationship there can be holes in it.
And I don't think we did a great job stewarding
our relationship throughout the course of it. And when you
ignore certain things and either discount it or put it
to the side, or don't appropriately give it the moment

(04:56):
and the time that it deserves the attention that it deserves,
those things can those things can build and what you
once ignored can literally be the thing that kills you.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
For those that are just tuning in right now, have
just shared with us that he and Cherrell have broken up. Yeah,
you guys are friendly with each other, yes, I mean,
And that took some time too. It was a period
where I didn't want to look at her. It was
a period where she was, you know, super angry and
nasty with me. And we talked a little bit about

(05:27):
that last night as well. But you have to give
yourself time, and you have to give yourself the ability
to go through the thing and not try to fake
like it's okay, like and that's the thing for me,
especially like growing up in the church, like Easter, I
feel like sometimes we bypassed Good Friday and we'd be like, oh,
he resurrected, but like we forget like he died for

(05:49):
a while, and like there had to be turmoil, they
had to be confusion, like people who believed were you know,
they had to have those thoughts and those feelings. And
I feel like sometimes we get so caught up in.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
It'll be okay, it's okay that That is how I've
played out certain moments in my life where I've skipped
over feeling the pain, feeling the hurt, and if just
immediately went through.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't gonna be okay, it'll be it'll be fine.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
So I've given myself the opportunity to feel grief, to
feel pain, to give up a future that.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
I thought was mine.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
You know what I'm saying, Like we talking on the radio,
I'm at Lucidos, Like, yeah, picking out a ring bro there,
put it on her finger, like I'm at the point
where like the money about to get put down. And
then that's when we started to have you know, conversations,
and God bless Scherille that she's the type of person
that she is the honest woman, that she is a
stand up woman, that she is and it's not a
bad Charille situation. And I want to be so cognizant

(06:38):
of that because obviously I'm the one with the microphone,
so she can't tell her story, and I do not
want it to come off as though she is and
that she is an amazing woman, a great professional, a
phenomenal mother. And I love Sharill, but at this moment,
you know it can't be us. How about the the kids?

Speaker 1 (06:54):
How did Josiah and how I mean Journey, I know,
just celebrated her first birthday?

Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah, I mean Journal know what was going on? You
know what I'm saying, Like Journ still journ, still love Journ.
She Sherell said it last night like she'd be getting
mad because obviously Journy, well not obviously, but Journey is
still sleeping in the bed. And for a while I
wasn't sleeping in the bed. But I'm back now because
I paid for it in another bid was hurting my back.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
You guys, stop, stop, you gotta stop before you talking
about the kids for seconds, I want to go back
to that. Yeah, you guys are split up, but yet
you're still sleeping in the listen.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
I told her this last time, I'm paying for the
bed bro and we had a Journey room. It's so crazy.
Journey never slept in her room, but I have. The
bed was nice. But after a while, it's like my
back going too crazy. Right now, I need to get
back in the bed.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
It also works, and like you don't sleep with people
that you're actively fighting with. Home is just.

Speaker 5 (07:43):
Smashing okay because obviously he's he's old enough to be
very aware.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Yeah, it's it's difficult.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
But I think what I am very proud of myself
of doing throughout the course of his life is being
very open, being very honest, and not wanting to hide
what's happening in my life with him. And I think
when you set that type of habit, when you set
that type of precedent, when a huge, you know, breaking
news alert comes in, he's not, you know, super overwhelmed

(08:15):
by it because we have that relationship.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Now.

Speaker 3 (08:17):
Yes, he's hurt because again, this was a woman that
I was gonna marry. Yeah, we are planning our future
in our life and all of that.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
So it's a curve. Yeah, for sure. Man, she does
use bonus moment. No, you don't like that. She does.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
Actually, George wants to comment, and there's a lot of
people that do. And there's a lot of people that
you know. Listen, here's the thing, people also, and this
is something that's gonna come over time. You're gonna people
speculating and doing something. Please don't speculate anything, because I
will say this to you. Whatever is the reason why

(08:54):
these guys are doing this, I truly believe knowing them personally,
they are so smart. Both of you guys are so
smart and so well thought out. There's a reason why
you guys still are sleeping in the same bed and
not wanting, you know, to kill each other.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
And this may not like I said, And I told Sharro,
who knows what the future may hold. We may get
back together, but we need time to heal. And I
don't think that healing can happen, not if I have
anything to do with that.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Because you're talking about I like to set people up
and I've got I was about to say, dark meat.
This things agetting now. I love I love you, and
I love Charral and uh, you guys will never be
with anybody else because I won't allow it.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
What's up, George, how you doing? Hey?

Speaker 4 (09:41):
I just want to tell Kevin, I'm sorry what happened, brother,
but you're a great guy. I've been listening to you
guys for over twenty years and since you got on
the air. Kevin, you have a great personality. This time
will pass and guy will bless you tempo and your
children will be perfect as well.

Speaker 2 (09:54):
Man, I appreciate that. George, thank you, Thanks buddy. What's
up Rachel?

Speaker 6 (09:58):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (09:58):
How are you?

Speaker 7 (10:00):
Good morning guys.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Good morning morning.

Speaker 7 (10:02):
So I just wanted to say, you know, I know
it's not easy to share your lives on the radio,
and I know none of you know me from Adam,
but after years of listening to you guys, we've grown
really close to one another. I feel and I'm just
sending love and you know, prayers take Kevin and it'll
be okay. Everything happens for a reason, like you said,
and what's meant to be will be.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 7 (10:25):
Yeah, absolutely, Rachel, thank.

Speaker 2 (10:28):
You for the call. We appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (10:29):
This is so nice when you get you know, our
listeners that will come to us, and they've done in
every every single one of us has gone through struggles
in our lives and they come to us and help
us out, you know, through this, and I think you
being able to talk about it will be a great
therapeutic lift for you, you know, being able to know that
you're not having a like tiptoe through things.

Speaker 2 (10:51):
Yeah, Vinnie, Yes, sir, what's going on? Vinnie? Hi?

Speaker 6 (10:58):
No, mo Joe. You always say my wrong every time
I call him?

Speaker 2 (11:01):
What is your name is? Denny?

Speaker 6 (11:03):
Denny?

Speaker 2 (11:07):
Denny like the restaurant?

Speaker 6 (11:09):
Yeah, you call me Vinnie, Lenny, I call you, I
call you.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
What's written on my screen here right now is that's
what it says, nye.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
You guys got to watch It's Lenny.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
That that I didn't get it, But lady Denny, what's
going on?

Speaker 2 (11:25):
Denny?

Speaker 8 (11:27):
Hey?

Speaker 6 (11:27):
Man, I knew something was wrong, you know, for a
couple of weeks. Oh, I'll say about three weeks right now.
There's something wrong was going on with Sharil and Kevin,
and Uh, I was like, man, I wanted to type
in and the Kevin because sometimes he answered my text. So, uh,
when I taxed in nine five years or and I said, man,
something he was going Sharrell because I said, I mean, yeah,
didn't never talk about it. So I was like, then

(11:50):
yesterday I even went on the app and listen over
to what he was talking about his friends going out there.
I said, yeah, I'm going off, I'm going off, and
I yeah.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
But Denny makes correctly go ahead, Denny, yes.

Speaker 6 (12:05):
Yeah, yeah. And one thing, Manu, Man, I always I'm
in and out with my uh my daughter's mother for
like fifteen years. Man, Man, never don't catch in your ticket.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
Kit Man.

Speaker 6 (12:20):
Yeah, she's going through something right now. You just had
a baby and y'all just doing you know, you're probably
don't a fans of her feelings right now and all
that kind of stuff. It all happens, man, It all
moves out later down the road.

Speaker 1 (12:34):
So he didn't discount or he didn't put aside that
that that he and Cherrelle don't still love each other.
And by the way, again, don't speculate, don't speculate anything.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
That's the thing.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
But I don't I don't think that Kevin Cherrelle are
the two types of people that will never have, you know,
a relationship with each other. And I'm not saying it's
sexual or whatever. I'm saying. You guys, you guys are
are you guys have been meant to be with each
other for a very long time.

Speaker 2 (13:03):
No, that's facts.

Speaker 3 (13:04):
Yeah, And one thing that that Denny mentioned that I
want to kind of kind of dig in a little bit,
is you know, I'm glad for that push with the
conversation we had yesterday because another thing that I would
hate to have happen is I start saying things on
the radio that contradict the thought that I'm going to

(13:25):
propose to this woman.

Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
And I can't have like this double sided version of
me that comes off and I'm saying things that come
from a single mouth. But at the same time, I
have this persona that I'm in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (13:37):
Doesn't make sense to Yeah, and it's not.

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Annika. Hi, guys, I you're going through something similar right now.

Speaker 8 (13:47):
I am.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
Hey, keV, I, like the last caller.

Speaker 8 (13:53):
Speculated something was going on a while back, but I've
done that with all of your relationship.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
To you guys for way too many years.

Speaker 8 (14:02):
I speculated it with Shannon as well. But so yeah,
I kind of figured something was going on. But since
towards the beginning of this year, I've actually been going
through a divorce after ten years together. We also have
two young kids we have. Our oldest is going to
be four tomorrow and our youngest just turned one in August,

(14:25):
So it was it was about right after we had
him that things just started kind of crumbling. And it
was the same thing. No one's fault, there was no
sides really, it just ten years together. We got together
when I was twenty, we were both very young, then
had we grew and had two kids, and things grew apart,

(14:46):
and it's been very difficult, but it takes time, like
you said, and it's definitely that grieving, and what I've
found is like you will grieve those firsts for a bit,
like the first first birthdays, first anniversaries that come up,
but also like you, we actually lived in the same
house for the first few months after the divorce was

(15:09):
discussed and agreed upon, and slept in the same bed
for a few months before he found a place came
about to because I kept the house and he moved
out and kept our business that we had together.

Speaker 6 (15:25):
So yeah, we.

Speaker 8 (15:25):
Slept, we slept in the same bed, nothing happened, And
now I actually are technically isn't finalized until early next year,
but we're both dating new people, and I'm in a
very happy relationship and people are like.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
That you moved on very fast.

Speaker 8 (15:42):
But as far as my relationship, at least like it took,
it was a while coming sort of thing, like there
was nothing there for a bit.

Speaker 6 (15:51):
So.

Speaker 8 (15:51):
But when it first came up, I actually messaged Shannon
and was like does it get better?

Speaker 2 (15:57):
Wow?

Speaker 8 (15:58):
Like I message Shannon, I was like, my like, I'm
going through a divorce like this just happened, Like does
it get better?

Speaker 2 (16:06):
Can I tell you something.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
One of the reasons why the show is the way
that the show is is for that is you guys
are looking towards us or feel comfort enough with us
to be able to go in message like you did Shannon,
and then you feel comfortable enough to call Cavin tell
him it's going to get better. And that's the beauty
of being able to do this radio show. And that's

(16:27):
why I think that Kevin being able to just bring
this up right now and to have you give him
a little bit of help will be something even better
for him.

Speaker 5 (16:37):
And I'm here for the other stage of life where
you need one of those go out nights and say
f the babies.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
But I with you and thank you so much. We
appreciate that. Yeah, guys, I have a great one. Do
us a favor.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Don't get married fast. Don't seriously. I see these people
that do that and they go run off and they
go get me take it, take some time, take some
time for you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And for you and Cherrelle.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
I love you guys so much.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
I want nothing but the best for you guys, and
I think our listeners do too. You should see by
the way the messages are just so positive. I mean
they're so positive. Let me ask you this question real quick.

Speaker 3 (17:22):
If Sorell is interesting, you mind if we come on
the Weed on podcasts.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
I would love it. I've been waiting. I'll talk to it.
I actually wanted the exclusive, but I sold it all.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Ready to advertise this morning. You were like, wait, really,
I'm sure you want to do this.

Speaker 1 (17:36):
Actually, I think it would be perfect because I because
one of the things that Chelsea and I have never
had it easy.

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Marriage is not easy. Relationships are not easy.

Speaker 1 (17:45):
And to be quite honest with you, this what we're
doing right now and doing this whole thing is way
easier than being in a relationship.

Speaker 7 (17:52):
So