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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the second date update Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Why are you not getting a call back after you
went on a date? We're going to find out this
morning with the second date update. Jeremy said he took
her out for dinner, nice dinner, had a good evening or.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
A good date.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Uh, and uh, she's not calling him back, and he
wants to know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Where'd you guys go to eat?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
J Alexanders?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay, which one did you go?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Tot?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh? A little? Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
All right, so Somerset is the mall in the Detroit area.
But I love Jay Alexanders, love me some Jay Alexanders.
And now you're not getting a call back.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah, I'm just very very confused.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
So you said that she was like great on the date,
like everything was going good, and then all of a sudden,
you guys say goodbye to each other.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Do you guys kiss goodbye? Or how do you guys
say goodbye to each other? And what do you say?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
No, we didn't kiss goodbye. We did a very very
like very lovely hug.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
I guess you could call it.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Okay, you know you don't want to go you don't
want to go too forward on the first date.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But okay, And did you guys meet on Hinge or
Bumble or one of those?
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, we met on Hinge. Okay, it's a good one
to meet people.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
By the way, I'm hearing a lot of positives on
Hinge lately, and some some real positives about I think
I think they've updated theirr inventory. I think I think
the inventory of singles is better on Hinge. Right now,
I'm the phone with us is Bethany, and she's agreed
to go on the radio with us. Hi, Bethany, Hi,
(01:39):
how's it going good, Bethany? Say hello to Jeremy.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Hello, Hi, Jeremy.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Hey, Bethany, A long time No here.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I know. Good to hear your voice.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
By the way, it sounds a little like you're embarrassed.
Were you not calling Jeremy on purpose?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Or oh no, no, you know, it's just a little
awkward to talk about.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
What's awkward about it? Sounded like you guys had a
good date. He was just he All he told us
was that you guys went to eat.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Well, yeah, we we met up. We went to Jay's
at Somerset, and I mean it was a nice state.
There were just things about about his vibe and his
personality that I didn't feel super compatible with. That kind
of rubbed me the wrong way. Like, well, he was
wearing he was wearing like a super expensive jacket and
(02:36):
like a really nice watch, and I could just tell
that he was super wealthy. And he talked a lot
on the date about how rich he was and how
wealthy his family was.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
He talked a lot about being rich. Yeah, that doesn't
sound like conversation though that you just like randomly bring
up what what?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
What? What was the what was the content of you
talking about this?
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Well, he was telling me about his job, and then
he was like he would show me his watch, and
then he'd be like, you should come see my apartment
at some point. You know, I have like a plasma
screen TV or whatever. It was just like a lot
of talking about material things and he seems very happy
about his wealth, which is great, but it just was
not my vibe.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
And then.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You know that was fine.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
But then after we ate, we walked around the mall
and we got into kind of the more expensive areas
and he he just really wanted to buy me stuff
and that was super generous, but I.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Just was not into that.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
I don't know, it's not my vibe.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Did he buy you anything?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Yeah? He bought me a couple of things and I
was I was like, thank you so much that you
did not need to do that, and he was like, no, no, no,
you need it, you need it.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Where do you Where did you buy her? What did
you buy her?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I bought her a couple of things from Louis.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Okay, he going crazy? Wait on the first date?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, I just this is this is all coming to.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
This is like hitting me from the side. I don't
I'm surprised that this is the reason why I'm not
getting a call back. Like I thought, it was a
really nice first date, like, I bought you a bunch
of things from Louis.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
As far as I'm upgraded with you?
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Okay, what did he say it? Again?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
As far as I'm concerned, I upgraded her?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, see you had me. I was thinking to myself, Oh,
it sounds like a nice guy. He seems very generous.
But did you just say you upgraded hers?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Kind of?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Right now, no, hot like, oh well, I just feel
and I know that we're gonna have the people that
are like, hey, I'm single, I would love to go
get a Louis or whatever. But I can see where
Bethany was very turned off by that, that attitude and
that behavior, like it's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You don't I think you don't want.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Somebody that is so in your face with all of
that stuff, and the comment about you upgrading her just
really that I'm good, that was it very nice, It
was very generous, and I think your intention, you know,
your heart was good. But I get it, like I
(05:35):
don't want to hear somebody talk about how much money
they have or tell me about how much money they're
a watch caught.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I don't care. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
I don't know if his heart was in a good
place because if he coming from a perspective of upgrading.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah, you're right, you're right. Listener, Alicia, what do you
want to say? Alicia?
Speaker 8 (05:52):
Okay, guys, half jokingly, half seriously, give me his number.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Would you like something from Louis on the first day?
Speaker 8 (06:06):
I mean, that's extremely lattering. I can see how it
would make somebody feel uncomfortable, But also I feel like.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You have to express that Yeah, yeah, why did you
not just say this seems uncomfortable and I don't want
anything like why did you accept that whatever it was
at Louis.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
I was just nervous. I felt awkward. I didn't want
to call him out for it, and he seemed very
proud of his money, so I didn't want to like
criticize him on the thought, you know, typical, well, my god,
typical in what?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
In what way?
Speaker 3 (06:40):
A typical from a simple woman?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Wow?
Speaker 9 (06:45):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Yes, how much money does your family have? I would
like to know.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
I don't really want to public know how.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Much money does Jeremy's family have that he sat there
and was talking about how healthy did you.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Work for your dad?
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I don't really care to discuss those things. I just
I'm very fortunate and I thought things were going well.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I guess, okay, Brandy, what's up? It's Mojo in the
morning and second date update. What did you want to say?
Speaker 9 (07:15):
Hey, typically guys that display all of their wealth, they're
kind of douchebags deep down on the inside. I feel
like he's trying to like reeler in and sinker or whatever,
like he's gonna buy her love and affection and he
and turn into a douchebag like once he has.
Speaker 10 (07:34):
Her Beijing doctor douchebag.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No, I think that it doesn't come across good. Like
if this was that he took her out for dinner,
spend a lot of money on her, then said hey,
I want to buy you something.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Okay, cool, but.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
To yeah, there's something wrong with him.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
But to talk about how much money you have? Then
to say on the radio, just what he said.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
I know.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
That's how I started woman. Is that wanting Diary of
a mad Black Woman? Really Blair Underwood character, he was
wanting and don and he got crazy as soon as
he got it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Really, he's like then he become possessive.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
That's what when Brandy said he's he'll change once he
had that's pursing.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Up on it.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
That's what it was. What's up, Paul, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Good morning guys, what's going on? I just wanted to say,
I know this is an under hole, but after that
guy's comming about upgrading here, I just had to call
him and say that that guy's the A hole.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
That is actually true? This is not a second date
update that we're doing here right now. We have just
gotten into an episode of our Tuesday Morning features the
A hole. Yeah. I don't know about you, but what's
the most expensive thing that you did for a date,
have you? I think for me it was maybe appetizers
and dessert. By the way, speaking of that, when you
(08:55):
guys were at Alexander's, did you guys get the spinach
cheese dip?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Oh my god?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Okay? And the Reaxtra chips?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
What do you think I'm cheap? I would That's absolutely
what I bought. What's happening? How you doing, Royn?
Speaker 10 (09:14):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
What's going on?
Speaker 10 (09:17):
I hope this guy finds some a nice, beautiful gold
digger that takes him for half. Yeah, that's what he
sounds like. He needs.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You need to be.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
On that app that's got all the rich people on it.
Speaker 10 (09:29):
I mean, so that's apparently that's that's the only thing
he bring you to the table is money. So that
finding somebody that that's all they want.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Yeah, he needs to be on Uh raya, rayah? What
and what's up?
Speaker 9 (09:42):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
I got you check one too?
Speaker 9 (09:45):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I'm just wondering is it your money or is it
your daddy's money you're spending?
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I think this is so funny.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
It's family money. That's all you need to know.
Speaker 8 (09:55):
Okay, yeah, okay, So it sounds like it don't work.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
And so you don't need.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Okay, you have a little penis, all right, guys.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Expensive watch, little pisan, fancy watch.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
If you would like to take a guy out, I
would love to do some shopping with you. I'll see
you later this way
It's the second date update Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Why are you not getting a call back after you
went on a date? We're going to find out this
morning with the second date update. Jeremy said he took
her out for dinner, nice dinner, had a good evening or.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
A good date.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Uh, and uh, she's not calling him back, and he
wants to know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Where'd you guys go to eat?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
J Alexanders?
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Okay, which one did you go?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Tot?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Oh? A little? Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
All right, so Somerset is the mall in the Detroit area.
But I love Jay Alexanders, love me some Jay Alexanders.
And now you're not getting a call back.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Yeah, I'm just very very confused.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
So you said that she was like great on the date,
like everything was going good, and then all of a sudden,
you guys say goodbye to each other.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Do you guys kiss goodbye? Or how do you guys
say goodbye to each other? And what do you say?
Speaker 3 (00:56):
No, we didn't kiss goodbye. We did a very very
like very lovely hug.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
I guess you could call it.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Okay, you know you don't want to go you don't
want to go too forward on the first date.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
But okay, And did you guys meet on Hinge or
Bumble or one of those?
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, we met on Hinge. Okay, it's a good one
to meet people.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
By the way, I'm hearing a lot of positives on
Hinge lately, and some some real positives about I think
I think they've updated theirr inventory. I think I think
the inventory of singles is better on Hinge. Right now,
I'm the phone with us is Bethany, and she's agreed
to go on the radio with us. Hi, Bethany, Hi,
(01:39):
how's it going good, Bethany? Say hello to Jeremy.
Speaker 5 (01:45):
Hello, Hi, Jeremy.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Hey, Bethany, A long time No here.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I know. Good to hear your voice.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
By the way, it sounds a little like you're embarrassed.
Were you not calling Jeremy on purpose?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Or oh no, no, you know, it's just a little
awkward to talk about.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
What's awkward about it? Sounded like you guys had a
good date. He was just he All he told us
was that you guys went to eat.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Well, yeah, we we met up. We went to Jay's
at Somerset, and I mean it was a nice state.
There were just things about about his vibe and his
personality that I didn't feel super compatible with. That kind
of rubbed me the wrong way. Like, well, he was
wearing he was wearing like a super expensive jacket and
(02:36):
like a really nice watch, and I could just tell
that he was super wealthy. And he talked a lot
on the date about how rich he was and how
wealthy his family was.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
He talked a lot about being rich. Yeah, that doesn't
sound like conversation though that you just like randomly bring
up what what?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
What? What was the what was the content of you
talking about this?
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Well, he was telling me about his job, and then
he was like he would show me his watch, and
then he'd be like, you should come see my apartment
at some point. You know, I have like a plasma
screen TV or whatever. It was just like a lot
of talking about material things and he seems very happy
about his wealth, which is great, but it just was
not my vibe.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
And then.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
You know that was fine.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
But then after we ate, we walked around the mall
and we got into kind of the more expensive areas
and he he just really wanted to buy me stuff
and that was super generous, but I.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Just was not into that.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
I don't know, it's not my vibe.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Did he buy you anything?
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Yeah? He bought me a couple of things and I
was I was like, thank you so much that you
did not need to do that, and he was like, no, no, no,
you need it, you need it.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Where do you Where did you buy her? What did
you buy her?
Speaker 3 (04:06):
I bought her a couple of things from Louis.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Okay, he going crazy? Wait on the first date?
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, I just this is this is all coming to.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
This is like hitting me from the side. I don't
I'm surprised that this is the reason why I'm not
getting a call back. Like I thought, it was a
really nice first date, like, I bought you a bunch
of things from Louis.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
As far as I'm upgraded with you?
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Okay, what did he say it? Again?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
As far as I'm concerned, I upgraded her?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, see you had me. I was thinking to myself, Oh,
it sounds like a nice guy. He seems very generous.
But did you just say you upgraded hers?
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Kind of?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
Right now, no, hot like, oh well, I just feel
and I know that we're gonna have the people that
are like, hey, I'm single, I would love to go
get a Louis or whatever. But I can see where
Bethany was very turned off by that, that attitude and
that behavior, like it's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You don't I think you don't want.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
Somebody that is so in your face with all of
that stuff, and the comment about you upgrading her just
really that I'm good, that was it very nice, It
was very generous, and I think your intention, you know,
your heart was good. But I get it, like I
(05:35):
don't want to hear somebody talk about how much money
they have or tell me about how much money they're
a watch caught.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
I don't care. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
I don't know if his heart was in a good
place because if he coming from a perspective of upgrading.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Yeah, you're right, you're right. Listener, Alicia, what do you
want to say? Alicia?
Speaker 8 (05:52):
Okay, guys, half jokingly, half seriously, give me his number.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Would you like something from Louis on the first day?
Speaker 8 (06:06):
I mean, that's extremely lattering. I can see how it
would make somebody feel uncomfortable, But also I feel like.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You have to express that Yeah, yeah, why did you
not just say this seems uncomfortable and I don't want
anything like why did you accept that whatever it was
at Louis.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
I was just nervous. I felt awkward. I didn't want
to call him out for it, and he seemed very
proud of his money, so I didn't want to like
criticize him on the thought, you know, typical, well, my god,
typical in what?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
In what way?
Speaker 3 (06:40):
A typical from a simple woman?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Wow?
Speaker 9 (06:45):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Yes, how much money does your family have? I would
like to know.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
I don't really want to public know how.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Much money does Jeremy's family have that he sat there
and was talking about how healthy did you.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Work for your dad?
Speaker 4 (07:03):
I don't really care to discuss those things. I just
I'm very fortunate and I thought things were going well.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I guess, okay, Brandy, what's up? It's Mojo in the
morning and second date update. What did you want to say?
Speaker 9 (07:15):
Hey, typically guys that display all of their wealth, they're
kind of douchebags deep down on the inside. I feel
like he's trying to like reeler in and sinker or whatever,
like he's gonna buy her love and affection and he
and turn into a douchebag like once he has.
Speaker 10 (07:34):
Her Beijing doctor douchebag.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
No, I think that it doesn't come across good. Like
if this was that he took her out for dinner,
spend a lot of money on her, then said hey,
I want to buy you something.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Okay, cool, but.
Speaker 9 (07:47):
To yeah, there's something wrong with him.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
But to talk about how much money you have? Then
to say on the radio, just what he said.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
I know.
Speaker 7 (07:57):
That's how I started woman. Is that wanting Diary of
a mad Black Woman? Really Blair Underwood character, he was
wanting and don and he got crazy as soon as
he got it.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Really, he's like then he become possessive.
Speaker 7 (08:11):
That's what when Brandy said he's he'll change once he
had that's pursing.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
Up on it.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
That's what it was. What's up, Paul, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Good morning guys, what's going on? I just wanted to say,
I know this is an under hole, but after that
guy's comming about upgrading here, I just had to call
him and say that that guy's the A hole.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
That is actually true? This is not a second date
update that we're doing here right now. We have just
gotten into an episode of our Tuesday Morning features the
A hole. Yeah. I don't know about you, but what's
the most expensive thing that you did for a date,
have you? I think for me it was maybe appetizers
and dessert. By the way, speaking of that, when you
(08:55):
guys were at Alexander's, did you guys get the spinach
cheese dip?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Oh my god?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Okay? And the Reaxtra chips?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
What do you think I'm cheap? I would That's absolutely
what I bought. What's happening? How you doing, Royn?
Speaker 10 (09:14):
I'm good?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
What's going on?
Speaker 10 (09:17):
I hope this guy finds some a nice, beautiful gold
digger that takes him for half. Yeah, that's what he
sounds like. He needs.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
You need to be.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
On that app that's got all the rich people on it.
Speaker 10 (09:29):
I mean, so that's apparently that's that's the only thing
he bring you to the table is money. So that
finding somebody that that's all they want.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
Yeah, he needs to be on Uh raya, rayah? What
and what's up?
Speaker 9 (09:42):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (09:43):
I got you check one too?
Speaker 9 (09:45):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
I'm just wondering is it your money or is it
your daddy's money you're spending?
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I think this is so funny.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
It's family money. That's all you need to know.
Speaker 8 (09:55):
Okay, yeah, okay, So it sounds like it don't work.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
And so you don't need.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Okay, you have a little penis, all right, guys.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Expensive watch, little pisan, fancy watch.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
If you would like to take a guy out, I
would love to do some shopping with you. I'll see
you later this way
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