Sharing With An Ex

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojoe in the morning show. I want I want Kevin
to do this next one. Kevin might have the strangest
thing ever. And you might have heard this. Kevin has mentioned.
Kevin has mentioned that he and Charrelle are going their
separate ways, which breaks my heart because I love both
you guys, but also makes me realize I got a

(00:23):
ton of friends I want to set Charrell up with.
But we'll talk about relaxed by Charrelle or by me by.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Up.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
They tell me if you guys have a weirder breakup
relationship than these two guys. So you guys have been
going through a struggle for a period of time, right,
it's been like June, tell everybody you're sleeping arrangements.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
We sleep in the same beast. What do you think,
back to back.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
Because nothing's happening, rights happening?

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Okay, okay, open book.

Speaker 4 (01:02):
So like back to back, but to but but that's
it back, I mean totally separate.

Speaker 3 (01:06):
The bad journey's still in the bed. Journey has always
been like in the middle. So the sleeping arrangements having
changed since we were good, I guess, so to speak,
like nothing's changed. There was a period where I wasn't
sleeping in the bed, and then I got back in
the bed because the bed is more comfortable than the
other bed in the house, and then on the couch.
But I don't think that's weird, Like, is it weird

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that exit still share certain things?

Speaker 1 (01:29):
All right? I want to know eight four to four
Mojo Live. Eight four four sixty six five six '
five four eight is our telephone number. I want to
know who's still in the same bed. And yet you
guys are broken up, divorced, whatever it might be in
your case.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
We were in the same house for a long time,
but not.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
The same How quick How quick did you jump out
of the bed?

Speaker 3 (01:49):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:50):
Way before anybody even knew that there was an issue?

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, that's honestly how Josiah k Newle's issue. Okay, before
we started telling Josiah was going on, he was like
newson was going on, Like you're not sleeping in the bed,
Like that was a day giveaway?

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. My kids were always smart whenever Chelsea
and I were going through a struggle, because she would
be in the basement, so it should be fully in
the you know, downstairs. Yeah, but okay, so is it
weird though, Like when you go when you get like,
could you guys stole are good with each other talking
and all that stuff?

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Right, Yeah, a lot better now than what it has
been in the past, for sure.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
Okay, so when you go to bed at night, are
you like night?

Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:31):
Well we have two questions. What's the conversation like? But
also like, do you get to control GFTV in your room?

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Bruh? She she controlled the TV. She used to care
when I wanted to go to sleep. She has to
be mindful because I like putting on rain sounds. She
don't give a damn no more. She wants whatever she wants.
The volume is like it don't go below seventeen, like
she don't.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Are you doing the same when you wake up in
the morning?

Speaker 3 (02:54):
Then no, I'm very I'm very cautious.

Speaker 1 (02:56):
I still well.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
I went through a period where it was like lights
on in this bitch, I don't care what's going on.

Speaker 6 (03:00):
But I realized I.

Speaker 3 (03:01):
Was being petty. So I'll go back to my chivalrous
ways and try to crack the door or use my
phone light because I don't want to be that guy.
That's not who I am.

Speaker 7 (03:11):
Like, don't you want to move on at a certain point,
Like for me, it's not super weird if it's relatively new.
But this isn't super new. I would have want to
have moved on by Yeah, well, I mean I don't.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
I like to do things in the right time and
in the right spirit and in the right way. I
think when you rush certain things, you run from one
problem to the next. Just because you're running running away
doesn't always mean like you're running towards something, you're running
away from seth And in this situation, I knew our
least was up in January, so eventually we were gonna
move anyway. So I was like, let me just I
can thug it out. We both can thug it out,

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and just wait until what.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
Yeah, that says a lot about you guys, by the way,
you know, like at least it's this end at the
spectrum versus the other one.

Speaker 8 (03:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
I think it's houch for six months before I slept
brought it back the bag don't work.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Yeah, Jay, what do you think of this?

Speaker 8 (04:08):
It's not weird because all right, I'm in the same position.
Me and my ex are still talking. Yes, we do
sleep together, but it's because the relationship was toxic but
at the same time we still love each other. I
know that she could change for me, so for that,

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I know, aside from the sexualness, but she could actually
like she's actually a wonderful person.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
So you're actually, you guys are not only sleeping in
the same bed. You guys are sleeping in the same bed.
If you're saying that, yeah, wow, Leo, what's up, it's
mojo in the morning?

Speaker 5 (04:45):
I uh, yeah, No.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
I just wanted to say that me and my ex
did like the same thing that Kevin and Cherrell are doing,
where we lived together for like a year after we
had our son, and we were just like you know
when you're when you're with someone for that long. We
were together for a few years. We're very codependent and
so we just kind of gradually started living separately and
tried to like figure out how to co parent and

(05:09):
be less dependent.

Speaker 5 (05:10):
But yeah, it was like.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
It wasn't as silly as I like the bed like
Kevin is saying sometimes.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
No, No, it was like the same like we had before,
but we just did it as friends, like platonically, you know.

Speaker 7 (05:24):
I mean, I totally get that, especially with the kids,
and I think keV that makes a lot of sense
for you too. But like if I am angry at
somebody or they've hurt me, I don't.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Want to sleep next to you. Yeah, like I said,
that's how it's started, right, I wasn't in the bed,
and then you get to a certain point where I
don't want to be ruled by pain, And that's what
was happening, Bella, what's up?

Speaker 5 (05:47):
Hello, Hi, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
What's going on?

Speaker 5 (05:52):
So my parents have worked when I was two. My
dad did not leave the home until I was sixteen.
And that's how I O little sister, Oh wow, oh wow, wow.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
You and your sister.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
Well, my older sister and I are two years apart,
but my younger sister, she was seven and a half,
almost eight years different. So they tried to make it
work so many times.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
Fella, great question. Was it a holiday or something like?
Did Christmas bring them together for a night of passion
or alcohol?

Speaker 5 (06:32):
I think just showers brought them.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Together, and they even do showers.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I can't say, yeah, that's.

Speaker 1 (06:40):
Amazing, Lara, Lara, Lara, what's up? I can't say say
what's going on?

Speaker 2 (06:46):
Laura?

Speaker 6 (06:48):
So in Missouri I had to wait ninety days, so
I had filed for my divorce and I told my
ex he could stay there. Well, he's started to be
in a jerk, and come March, three months later, my
divorce got finalized. So you're still in the house. Well
since he became such an a hole, I was like, yeah, you.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Leave by wow. So in Missouri they make you wait
how many days?

Speaker 6 (07:16):
Ninety days, but that's.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Ninety days until they can officially make a divorce. Doesn't
mean you have to stay in the same bedroom, though.
I think they have that everywhere. I think that's kind
of a deal most places.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
But wait, so I mean, speaking of showers and stuff like,
are you are you like careful and covered up when
you're changing power and or what's that situation?

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Nothing has changed on both of our hands like that.
So you guys walk around naked in front of each other.
I mean we really walk around naked like that in
the first place. But yeah, a little bit of that.

Speaker 8 (07:47):
With the door open.

Speaker 3 (07:49):
Oh things are the same, but you know things are different,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Like that?

Speaker 7 (07:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
All right, well, okay, squabble up.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
But he doesn't know what to say from now on.

Speaker 4 (08:06):
That's what he's gonna say.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
What a squabble up me is that what it is,
all right, So did you call it a squabble? Oh
I want I kind of figure that was that, but
I thought it was something cooler than that. So that's
the squad. Well you got you guys, you you and
you and Schirell are great, both great people.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
That's my dog, all right. Yeff the best dressed male
voice on Mojo in the Morning, and honestly that's not
saying much.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
This is Mojo in the Morning.