Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole. We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action. Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face. You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men. If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you. You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness. This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain. The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone. You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you. This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men. There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances. You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry. And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality. This is not a “stretch goal” for you. This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living. And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

Episodes

September 30, 2025 2 mins
You may have read or heard advice given to men saying "Don't try to fix her" or they will mess up their marriage! Are you a brilliant problem solver who is facing a problem that you don't seem to be able to fix in your relationship?

In this episode I explain how our problem solving expertise can have us focused on the wrong things which then has us show up in a way that creates pressure and anxiety in the relationship instead of th...
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Has your wife asked for space? Are you wondering when and how it would be OK to initiate sex or some kind of intimacy again with her? Maybe you're currently walking on eggshells and feeling insecure and unsure of how you need to be around her and what this all means about the future of your relationship...

In this episode, I talk about why this situation is difficult to understand and navigate as well as giving advice to help you l...
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Want to know how to make your avoidant wife affectionate again? Does your wife spend all her time on her phone or with the kids or friends? Does it drive you mad, and when you address it she gets defensive?

In this episode I explain some details about why she's avoidant and why the way you are reacting to her is making it worse - plus what needs to happen for you to confidently lead her back into connection, fun, flirtation and aff...
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Have you ever been called controlling? Want to know how to lead your marriage without being controlling? Maybe you've been told you never listen or that you always make things about you....these are signs that you could be leading things better.

In this episode Steve and Dan discuss what they mean when they talk about learning how to lead a relationship with strong masculine energy and emotional strength, as well as how not to take...
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Do you want more passion in your relationship? Maybe you're missing the ease and fun of the early years and want to learn how to get it back again? Or maybe you've had some serious issues that knocked the wind out of your sails and you want to inflate them again...

In this episode, I talk about why more passion in your life and relationship requires you to be courageous and take action on what you believe and want from life.

In our ...
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When I say stop trying to show your woman your meatloaf, I'm not talking about what you think I am talking about (though there's some validity to that thought too).

In this episode I talk about why men doing work on themselves because of relationship crisis is an incredibly rewarding process...that you shouldn't share with your partner. Why??? Because until you've reached a certain level of security and unshakeable confidence in yo...
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September 7, 2025 4 mins
Has your wife said she wants her independence? Maybe she has said she missed out on her youth or that she loves you but is no longer in love with you...?

In this episode I talk about why this happens, what it means, what most of us men do in reaction to this situation, why that's the worst thing to do, and how to respond with strength and confidence.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, ...
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August 31, 2025 3 mins
Have you thought to yourself "I can't relax around my wife"? Maybe you followed that thought up with another such as "Maybe we're not right for each other" or "I might be happier with another partner". Sound familiar?

In this episode I talk about a common misconception that many men have about their role in marriage and how it stops them from being the emotional leader of the relationship (which also means they can't be the intimat...
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Do you wonder Why Your Confidence Disappears Around Your Wife? Are you successful and confident at work and around other people and other women?

In this episode I talk about the reason why so many very successful men have unsuccessful marriages with a lack of connection, trust, respect and passion keep rearing its ugly head in a way to common cycle.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, l...
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Ever wanted to know what healthy mature masculinity looks like? Many of us men have not grown up around a male role model who modelled grounded, unrattled, mature masculine energy.

In this episode I use a very well known story to explain what it looks like, what the immature, insecure, nervous, anxious, masculine looks and feels like and how to move towards being the version you want to live your life with going forward.

In our coac...
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Want to know how to stop the pain of your wife rejecting you? It's one of the most difficult to understand and deal with problems in marriage. I know it well from many years of personal experience in my 28 year marriage.

In this episode I talk about why it hurts so much, how to stop the pain, and how to get back to feeling truly confident and happy in yourself again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empow...
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Ouch..that title...the man your wife wants to have sex with is hard to read when sex is infrequent and you want more in your relationship or marriage.

In this episode I talk about 3 basic traits a man must master in himself first before he can create the type of sexual chemistry and frequency that most of the men we coach really want.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...
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Want to learn how to inspire your wife's sexual attraction to you again? Are you frustrated by the lack of affection and sexual desire in your marriage right now?

In this episode I talk through 6 things men do thinking they will increase the sex and intimacy in their marriage and why those are completely the wrong ways to approach this problem and resolve it for good.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empo...
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Do you wish you had a happier marriage? One where you return to the way you treated each other in the beginning again?

In this episode I talk about a famous saying that points directly to the heart of what we do in our coaching with men to help them lead the marriage back to happiness and connection and intimacy by first leading you to be a happier, more open, more passionate and loving man.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerf...
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Do you avoid initiating sex in your marriage? Would you like to learn how being confident initiating sex again with your wife is closer than you might think?

In this episode I explain why your urgent need for sex is part of the weird reaction you get from your wife when initiating and how you can learn to remove the obstacles that get in the way of the easy, fun sexual connection you used to enjoy together.

In our coaching, we help ...
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Are you suffering after marriage betrayal trauma? Do you wonder if you will ever be able to trust someone to be close to you again? Or maybe you wonder if you will ever regain your self confidence again?

In this episode I talk about what happens when you've experienced being betrayed in marriage or a long term relationship and how to respond in a way that will start to change how you feel about yourself and your future.

In our coach...
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Many of the men we coach in our community start by asking "How do I get my wife to want me again?" - it's a question I understand very well personally because I asked myself the same thing.

In this episode I talk about why the way we think attraction in long term relationships "should" work is wrong and how to think and act differently in a way that does change the energy in the relationship again by putting the focus in the right ...
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If you're struggling in an unhappy marriage wondering whether it's worth it to move on or to stay and work on it then this episode was created for you.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
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Are you a man in a sexless marriage? Are you feeling frustrated and thinking she's holding back intimacy from you? Maybe you've tried to get her to go to marriage counselling to discuss it...?

In this episode I talk about what we see in the men we coach that is essential to address before you try marriage counselling.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply beca...
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Has your wife said she feels uncomfortable around you? Or maybe she said she feels awkward or can't relax when you're home? Ouch!

In this episode I talk about why this is such a common issue that guys deal with in long term relationships and marriages and how you create it as well as how you can learn to lead the relationship back into closeness, affection and connection again.

Here is the link to the Confident Man Ranch Retreat th...
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