Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

The Goodguys2Greatmen podcast helps "good guys" get what they want from their relationships without being called needy or an a-hole. We will teach you how to be a courageous, confident and unapologetic man of action. Learn how to boldly create the life, love and wealth you deserve…with a big grin on your face. You can tell the difference between a good guy and a great man.Both are kind men. They are sensitive, caring and deeply passionate men. If you’re a good guy you are usually settling for good enough in your life and your relationships. You feel like you’re living below your full capability and it has been eating at you. You may be overly focused on being liked and keeping everyone else happy. You might feel very little control in your current situation and in creating your long term happiness. This keeps you slightly agitated, frustrated and uncertain. The great man inside you lives his life with confident, clear-headed intention and he takes decisive action. You know what you want and you consciously push the edge of your comfort zone. You feel like you have many options and you believe you are the master of your own destiny. You feel steady in your emotions and you aren’t attached to certain outcomes or what others think of you. This keeps you mostly peaceful, happy and pleased with who you are.Here’s the thing about these two men. There is just one very small shift you must make to become a man who creates his own peace, happiness self-respect.You must believe in yourself. You must believe in your own masculine value and power to create your own circumstances. You must believe that you deserve to create a vision of your life so powerful it makes you want to cry. And you must believe that if you just take some very small steps, consistently, you WILL make your vision a reality. This is not a “stretch goal” for you. This is the life you are SUPPOSED to be living. And we will teach you, step-by-step, how to reclaim your confidence, declare your vision and take positive action to make it a reality in a shockingly short time. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/goodguys2greatmen-podcast--4650431/support.

Episodes

November 20, 2025 10 mins
Are you frustrated because your wife never initiates sex? Was your marriage fun, flirty, passionate and full of intimacy and now it's dull, boring and the only time you get passionate is when you're trying to prove to each other that you're right and they're wrong?

In this episode I talk about how women tell us they HAVE been initiating sex, they just do it in different ways to the way men do - I also explain what those ways are and...
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If you've heard that your wife doesn't feel connected you may be racking your brains trying to answer the question how do I create intimacy with her again?

In this episode I answer this question in a recent series of Q&A videos Dan and I made for questions our Men's Roundtable members posted in the group. 

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you'...
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It's the cold, painful truth that we don't want to hear - you trained your wife to treat you the way she does right now - so the question is...how do you like the way your wife treats you at the moment?

In this episode I talk about this in more detail, again using horses (women are a lot like horses), which isn't a bad thing when it comes to both understanding them and relating with them better.

In our coaching, we help men get a po...
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November 11, 2025 3 mins
Has your wife said that you only want her for sex? What reaction do you have to that statement? Is it true? I know there's definitely some truth in it for most of us guys, but it's definitely not the whole truth.

In this episode, I answer the question posed to us in one of our group coaching calls around this topic and how to navigate it and lead the marriage back to intimacy, passion and yes...sex!

In our coaching, we help men get ...
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Are you in a marriage where the passion has stalled? Would you like to learn how to build sexual tension with your wife? Would you like to become unashamedly confident in your ability to lead the intimate part of your relationship?

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust ...
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Arguing in a relationship can be a misguided attempt to get attention, and a more secure approach is to openly express the need for connection rather than provoking conflict. Arguing can be a way to get attention, even if it's negative, rather than feeling disconnected and ignored.

Acknowledging sabotaging behavior, even to your partner, is a crucial step towards authenticity and trust in a relationship. Arguing to get attention ca...
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Why is it hard to have the connection and intimacy that you want in your relationship? Most of us are never taught how to understand creating intimate connections with other people. We often approach things with urgency or from a place of frustration and a desperate need to fix it NOW!

In this episode I talk about the coaching we do with men using horses to teach them how to become masterful in removing the blockages that keep peop...
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Do you want a better life and relationship? What about more respect appreciation confidence sex & money? What if I said I could guarantee that you will have those things in your future - would you be interested in learning more?

In this episode I explain how the men we coach are guaranteed to create the future they really want through the process that we take them through.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset ...
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Want to create more safety and attraction in your marriage? We teach men why women find strength both threatening, at the same time as being something that makes them feel safe and attracted to you.

In this episode, I talk about the gift of masculine strength that is yours to give to other people in any situation as well as what it provides for them and for you going forward.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset t...
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Are you ever confused why your wife or partner says to you "You don't listen!"? Especially because you DO listen!!! So what does she mean when she says this? And what is she really needing from you?

In this episode, I talk about one way I found to help me become a better listener by helping me become more present when I am listening. People can tell the difference when you're listening and being with them - really being with them -...
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Are you in a sexless marriage? Are you contemplating divorce? Are you looking for another option to try before you make the choice?

In this episode, I explain why women (yes even married women) are attracted to the guy who is happily divorced and how you can bring that bad-boy energy into your life and give her something different to respond to.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love ...
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Are you looking for advice that will help you become more sexually satisfied in your marriage or long-term relationship? It's thought by many people that the sex-filled initial honeymoon period of relationships always wears off...but that doesn't have to be true.

In this episode, I explain the difference between a needy hummingbird man and a calm, confident, mountain lion man. Getting this is key to learning how to lead your relati...
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Emotionally detach from your partner during separation by focusing on self-care and activities that "light you up" rather than obsessing over their thoughts and actions.

Healing Separation Strategies Implement a "healing separation" with structured activities like scheduled talks, dates, therapy sessions, and learning opportunities to actively work on reconnecting.

Ineffective Separation Practices Avoid ineffective separations where ...
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Outcome dependence in relationships stems from immature and insecure behavior, driven by a burning desire for specific results or reactions, leading to controlling and sabotaging actions. Achieving outcome independence requires recognizing immature behavior and developing inner security, maturity, and self-reliance regarding personal happiness.

Transitioning from outcome dependence to independence fosters generosity, calmness, and a...
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Want to know how to show love and affection without being needy? Maybe you've heard your wife ask for space or say she's feeling smothered and you're not sure how to give space while also continuing to lead the romance part of your marriage?

In this episode, I talk about why this is so hard, how many men come at this problem with the wrong mindset and attitude and what you can do to move things forward towards a more connected, aff...
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You've heard us say it before - we believe that a passionate marriage needs a man to lead it. Now before you start with your "yeah but..."s what we're really talking about here is that to keep the passion and attraction alive in a long-term relationship or marriage, a man must find his way to growing into his full masculinity - he must become a whole, integrated, initiated man.

In this episode, I talk about this more and explain how...
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You may have read or heard advice given to men saying "Don't try to fix her" or they will mess up their marriage! Are you a brilliant problem solver who is facing a problem that you don't seem to be able to fix in your relationship?

In this episode I explain how our problem solving expertise can have us focused on the wrong things which then has us show up in a way that creates pressure and anxiety in the relationship instead of th...
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Has your wife asked for space? Are you wondering when and how it would be OK to initiate sex or some kind of intimacy again with her? Maybe you're currently walking on eggshells and feeling insecure and unsure of how you need to be around her and what this all means about the future of your relationship...

In this episode, I talk about why this situation is difficult to understand and navigate as well as giving advice to help you l...
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Want to know how to make your avoidant wife affectionate again? Does your wife spend all her time on her phone or with the kids or friends? Does it drive you mad, and when you address it she gets defensive?

In this episode I explain some details about why she's avoidant and why the way you are reacting to her is making it worse - plus what needs to happen for you to confidently lead her back into connection, fun, flirtation and aff...
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Have you ever been called controlling? Want to know how to lead your marriage without being controlling? Maybe you've been told you never listen or that you always make things about you....these are signs that you could be leading things better.

In this episode Steve and Dan discuss what they mean when they talk about learning how to lead a relationship with strong masculine energy and emotional strength, as well as how not to take...
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