Secrets of Happily Ever After

Secrets of Happily Ever After

Have you ever wondered what makes the difference between those couples who absolutely LOVE to be together and the ones who merely tolorate each other in their old age? I always want to run up to the cute old couples who still hold hands while walking down the street and ask them all their secrets to relationship success. This podcast gives me the opportunity to do just that! I'm Monica Tanner, wife to a super hunky man, mom to 4 kids, weekly podcaster and relationship and intimacy expert/enthusiast. I help couples ditch the resentment and roommate syndrome and increase communication, connection and commitment, so they can write and live out their happily ever after love story.If that sounds like something you want, this podcast is absolutely for YOU! Each week, I'm teasing out the principles that keep couples hopelessly devoted and intoxicatingly in love with each other for a lifetime and beyond. I'm searching high and low for the secrets of happily ever after and sharing those secrets with you right here.New episodes release every Wednesday morning and I promise to keep them short and to the point. Sound marriage advice for couples who want to live happily ever after and achieve a truly intimate friendship, because an awesome marriage makes life so much sweeter. Let's get to it!

Episodes

May 8, 2024 9 mins

Feeling the pressure of life's relentless to-do list and summer bucket list?

In the finale episode of my third season, I'm revealing exactly how to ensure all of your relationships flourish, even when life throws chaos and overwhelm at you.  I'll teach you with my number one HACK to keep your calm and carry on, regardless of the hustle and bustle that may come your way. Get ready to fortify your bonds and s...

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Ever wonder how some couples seem to navigate the ebbs and flows of marriage with grace and a smile? 

This week, I'm chatting with Brian and Jen Goins from Family Life, who join us to share their 27 years of wisdom on building a relationship that thrives.  We discuss the everyday skills essential for cultivating both individuality and unity in marriage. This episode isn't just about the dos and don'ts—it&apo...

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Wondering what it takes to keep passion burning HOT  in the hustle of daily life?

Alex and Katie Dutton join me this week to share the sparks of truth behind their EveryLove adventure—a service that's rekindling the fire in marriages through creative date night packages and model-free lingerie.

They tell their story of entrepreneurship entwined with the commitment to nurturing a deep, intimate bond amidst t...

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Have you ever felt like your conversations with loved ones are getting a little dry?

This week's interview with Emmy Award-winner, Topaz Adizes shatters that pattern, unveiling "12 Questions for Love" to revolutionize our understanding of intimate dialogues. 

Topaz is known for his work on The { } And project and shares how carefully crafted questions can peel back the layers we often unintentionall...

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Ready to become the author of your own love story?

In this week's episode, I tackle the dreaded 'intimacy death traps,' dissecting the root causes that lead to disconnection and providing a comprehensive 5-step framework to navigate your way back to a fulfilling partnership. 

This isn't your run-of-the-mill relationship advice; it's a deep dive into taking responsibility, fostering judgmen...

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As a seasoned relationship coach and intimacy expert, I've seen firsthand how easily couples can fall into intimacy death traps, letting the initial spark of their relationship dim. But fear not! I'm here to arm you with the knowledge to identify these traps and the strategies to avoid them. 

This week's episode is for anyone hoping to breathe new life into their intimate relationship. I invite you to reflec...

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Have you ever wondered what it's like to trade in the hustle and bustle of city life for the compact serenity of an Airstream? 

Join me as I sit down with Caley Rose and Karl Walker, a Billboard charting singer-songwriter and a user experience designer, who did just that. Embarking on a life less ordinary, they've navigated the highs and lows of transforming a trailer into a home, all while keeping their relation...

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Today I'm serving up an episode that reveals how the team spirit of volleyball can spike the joy in your marriage. Imagine applying the same strategies that lead a volleyball team to victory to your own partnership; think encouragement, well-defined roles, and celebrating every win together. I'll share with you the secrets of a successful team—secrets that can transform your marriage into a partnership where gratitude is ...

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Could your marriage become stronger if you considered divorce as a viable option? 

Today, I'm chatting with relationship coach Sharon Pope, as we uncover the paradoxical notion that acknowledging the possibility of divorce can actually reinforce a marriage. 
We delve into the power of choice and how it can lead to a more intentional and fulfilling partnership. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importan...

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How many times have you said something like, we'll work on our marriage when... the kids get a little older, our business is more successful or we have more money/time? 

I'm here to share why this approach may cost you more than you think. This heartfelt episode peels back the layers on the myth that there's a "right time" to focus on your spouse and kids, revealing how this mindset can lead to emo...

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Unlock the secret ingredients to a lasting and loving relationship with Dr. Sara Nassarzadeh's profound insights. 

In this episode, we explore the six foundational elements that she believes are crucial for a flourishing partnership. From the allure of mutual attraction to the depth of shared vision, our conversation navigates the intricate dance of love, compassion, and daily loving behaviors. Dr. Sara's groundb...

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Do you ever feel like you're juggling too many hats, trying to be the perfect businessperson, parent, and romantic partner all at once? 

In this episode, I'm unpacking the art of transitioning between the demands of work, the responsibilities of parenting, and the pleasures of romance with your partner. We explore the nuances of adapting to each role without losing your sense of self or the spark in your relation...

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Ever found yourself let down after a holiday or special occasion? You're not alone. 

In this epsiode, I'm chatting with my friends Greg and Rachel Denning of Extraordinary Family Life. Together, we confront the perils of high expectations that holidays like Valentine's Day and anniversaries can bring. 

We talk about how communication acts as the cornerstone of a thriving relationship. We share perso...

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Ready to reshape your view on Valentine's Day and turn it into a day you both actually enjoy?

Let's stop dropping hints and creating resentment from unmet expectations with some honest, heart-to-heart communication. This episode is all about replacing those last-minute scrambles with meaningful traditions and understanding.

I'll walk you through the exact steps to engage in those crucial conversat...

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Have you ever wondered about the secret ingredients that make a partner irresistible?

In this week's episode, I'm interviewing Kimberly Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper International, who shares not only her professional expertise but also her personal story.  You'll hear how Kimberly's family history of divorce and reconciliation sets the stage for the transformative work she's passionate about and ...

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Ever found yourself caught in a tangle of misunderstandings with your partner, where every comment feels like a dig?

I'm pulling back the curtain on the silent saboteur known as negative sentiment override. Learn how this mental habit can erode the very foundations of our relationships and some strategies to overcome it. We'll talk about the art of positive sentiment override, where the benefit of the doubt beco...

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In this episode, I'm thrilled to introduce life coach, Julie Balkman, as we chat about the secrets of long-lasting love and romance.

Join us as we discuss cultivating a love that endures through the years. We cover the importance of choosing a partner who values introspection and personal growth and moving beyond the superficiality of the dating scene to foster authentic, meaningful connections. This c...
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Are you ready to supercharge your relationship in 2024?

In this episode, I'm sharing a game-changing lesson from my own experiences in 2023 that I'm carrying forward to make this year the best yet!

After examining the last year to understand what worked and what didn't, and embracing the lessons learned from challenging moments, I'm sharing with you a practice that will help ALL couples build ...

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Discover the secrets to maintaining both a successful business and a thriving marriage with Couplepreneurs founders Kyle and Ariel Tresch.

On the heels of National Divorce Day, we're talking about how to foster unity, respect differences, and collaborate effectively to create a legacy of love and achievement.

We discuss maintaining a clear and heartfelt dialogue with your significant other amidst the demands...

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Ever feel like your happiness is being held hostage to someone else's behavior?

You're about to discover how to liberate it.

Today's episode touches on 3 disempowering thought patterns that are making you miserable and how to break them so you can experience more joy and intimacy.

1. The 'if-then' cycle, that pesky thought pattern that tricks us into believing our joy depends on...

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