Raising Teens with Collett Smart
When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tots’ birthday parties, or on the sides of sports fields. It can feel like we have it (mostly) under control. Until our child gradually emerges into their teen years and so much changes! It is a unique time for both you and your child. Sometimes, everything you thought you knew goes out the window and you’re struggling to keep up. You look around and the village seems to have diminished. Raising Teens will be part of your support system – your village! There will be something here for everyone who cares for teens. Most importantly, this is your resource, so we want to hear from you – your challenges, your suggestions – you are part of this community. For more information, expert advice or to ask Collett a question, visit raisingteens.au. The information provided on this podcast is for general educational purposes only and does not take into account your personal situation. It is not a substitute for professional advice. We recommend you seek a medical or healthcare professional if you are seeking advice, diagnosis or treatment. Listen to more from our Hope Podcasts collection at hopepodcasts.com.au. And send the team a message via the Hope website, Hope 103.2’s app, Facebook or Instagram.
Episodes
Key Takeaways:
- Teens distancing from parents is a normal developmental phase as they seek independence.
- Parents should provide a "steady presence" and adapt to their teen's communication preferences.
- Emotional regulation and repair after conflicts are vital to maintaining trust.
- Giving teens some control over their choices within healthy boundaries can foster connection.
- Family connection, though on the teen's terms, remains c...
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Key Points:
- Understanding legal responsibilities is crucial when teens commence driving alone.
- Assessing a teen driver's experience and confidence helps gauge their readiness.
- Safety must be a priority, especially when younger siblings are passengers.
- The approach to driving should be gradual, with trust-building measures.
- Continuous communication about safe practices reinforces learning and responsibility.
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Dr. Arne Rubinstein is a leading expert on rites of passage and adolescent development. As the founder of the Rites of Passage Institute, Dr. Rubinstein is devoted to creating transformational experiences for teenagers and communities. With over 30 years of experience, including a decade and a half as an emergency medicine doctor, he has a profound understanding of human ...
Key Points:
- Encouraging teens to consider counseling should be a gentle process that respects their need for control and privacy.
- Parents should emphasise the confidentiality of counseling, reassuring teens that professionals will maintain their privacy while sharing critical concerns.
- Involving teens in the decision-making process, such as choosing a counselor, can increase their sense of ownership and reduce resistance.
- Buil...
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Key Points:
- The "invisible load" involves the mental and emotional planning needed to keep a family running smoothly, disproportionately handled by mothers.
- When recognised and verbalised, this load can be redistributed among the family, easing stress and fostering a more collaborative environment.
- Collett emphasises how engaging teens in managing this load fosters their independence and reduces pressure on parents.
- Small, str...
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Hannah Gair became a foster mum at 23, then had a son born with Fragile X syndrome. She's now raising three kids and knows firsthand the "pressure cooker" reality of supporting families with children with disabilities. In this conversation, Hannah shares practical strategies for raising teens with additional needs while st...
Key Takeaways:
- Predictability Matters: Building a predictable environment can significantly reduce stress for neurodivergent teens as they start a new school year.
- Collaborative Support Systems: Engage teens in their support planning, which increases their comfort and trust in their school environment.
- Focus on Emotional Regulation: Prioritise emotional well-being over academic performance to help teens cope with sensory overl...
Lisa Maltman brings sleep health education to thousands of Australian teens and parents. She reveals why 70% of teens aren't getting enough sleep, tackling technology designed to keep them scrolling, packed schedules treating sleep as leftover time, and sleep disorders mistaken for ADHD.
Collett and Lisa discuss the "Can't Sleep vs Won't Sleep" framework, social jet lag from weekend sleep-ins, and why tired teen drivers are as impa...
Collett Smart wraps up the year with one of her most honest episodes yet. After taking time away from the podcast, she's back to share what really happened during her break – and it's not the polished story you might expect.
In this vulnerable ep, Collett opens up about the reality of juggling her work as a psychologist, caring for elderly family members, and keeping her marriage strong after three decades together. She's ref...
Collett sits with the host of Troubleshooting (a podcast for the 20-35 year olds for all things technology) and discuss the social media ban which has come into effect recently.
Key Takeaways:
- Legislative Impact: Australia's new laws ban under 16-year-olds from accessing many social media platforms, intending to offer kids more time for childhood development away from digital distractions.
- Platform Responsibility: Th...
Key Takeaways:
- Parents should model emotional regulation and prioritize checking in on their own mental health to support their children effectively.
- Engage in open yet age-appropriate dialogues with children, allowing them to process their emotions and ask questions about the crisis.
- Limit media consumption to protect mental health, as repeated exposure to distressing news can exacerbate anxiety and fear.
- Maintain normalcy th...
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About the Guest:
Lyn Worsley is a renowned clinical psychologist and the director of the Resilience Centre. With nearly 30 years of experience, Lyn has contributed significantly to understanding an...
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Janet Evans and Jenni Woodhouse tackle adult parent-child relationships on "She Wasn't Born Yesterday" with Dr Jenny Brown, a family therapist with 35+ years helping Aussie families. Jenny shares game-changing strategies for staying curious instead of reactive during family conflicts, giving feedbac...
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About the Guest:
Dr. Jay-Lee Nair is an esteemed Australian sports psychologist with deep expertise in performance anxiety among young athletes. Residing in Singapore since 2012, she specializes in strategies to help high achievers and perfectionists thrive in competitive sports. Her impactful work in psychology and sports spans from her educational pursuits in the United States, where she earned Academic All American Honors while ...
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