Toasted Lavender

Toasted Lavender

Toasted Lavender is made up of two queer couples with a mutual love for beer, history & queer culture. Each episode, Linsey, Alyx, Lisa & Kye dive into a different LGBTQIA+ focused topic, sharing their experiences and favorite beers along the way.

Episodes

November 28, 2022 81 mins

We're back with a companion episode for the LQ issue 3, released at the yART sale on 10/22/22.  Our interviews for this episode are focused around some of the wonderful art featured in this issue, so we hope you have a copy in front of you to follow along as you listen to the contributor's commentary.  If not, grab a copy at Lavender Vinyl, or contact us on Instagram for information about shipping locally or internationally! Cheers...

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Join us this week after the WNBA just made history! Linsey gives us a tour of the women's basketball - queer couples, Sheryl Swoopes, pay inequality, triple doubles and lots more. Don’t miss our new segment "Dear Queer", where we answer listener questions! Hit us up on Instagram if you’d like to submit a question. Cheers!

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September 12, 2022 30 mins

Join us for the pYARTy mini episode number three! This time we're joined by our longtime pal Sarah Langsdon - Head of Special Collections at Weber State University. We discuss the importance of preserving our stories and local history, the focus of her group's new project "Queering the Archives."  If you have ever wanted to read gay love letters from another generation, this may be your chance! Bonus Round:  how many times is the w...

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August 25, 2022 16 mins
"We're all just human and we all have to figure out how to live this life together." - Audrey It's PyARTy episode number 2! Join us as we chat with Audrey, the mastermind behind the yART sale. Topics include grassroots community and how it changes EVERYTHING, the B in the queer alphabet soup, and how to put your creativity to use. Plus, a very personal sneak peak into a column Audrey is writing about her own queer experience for th...
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August 4, 2022 19 mins

First up in our PyARTy People interviews is Devi Dickson! Join us as we celebrate Devi's legal name and gender being recognized by the government. We'll cover the process and emotions involved - both good and bad. Cheers, Queers! BONUS ALERT: Did you 'come say gay' with us at the yART sale? You might be featured in this episode!

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June 27, 2022 61 mins

Throw away those cringy notes you wrote when you were a teenager!  Shut up and listen when someone tries to tell you a hard thing!  Respect your children's privacy!  Hear our tips and advice for queer kids and parents of queer children.  Discover why the question "What is gay?" haunts Alyx, with a heaping spoonful of religious trauma brought to you by Linsey. Cheers!

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June 20, 2022 72 mins

Join the TL crew as we discuss pride icon and queen of disco, Donna Summer! We learn about her highs in music - spanning 4 different genres, her “wacky Christian phase” & dark pitter patter, and her reconciliation with the gay community. Take note of our pick for a Sunday night tune, a beer that reminds us of a childhood favorite, and best of all, hear the whole crew sing their favorite DS tunes. Get ready to add some Donna Summer ...

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June 13, 2022 71 mins

You knew it was coming! The theme for season three is Queer Joy and it’s June, so that means we have to discuss Pride! The crew dives into their most memorable Pride moments (for better or worse). Diversions include assless chaps and “Otter Daddy” parties, Queer as Folk and the L Word, Pride Jr., advice for first-timers, Lisa’s unfurling of the Library Square flags, and don’t forget to wear sunscreen. Cheers, queers!

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May 23, 2022 65 mins

Tune in as we discuss the Netflix series Heartstopper! We discuss our favorite characters and our not-so-favorite nostalgic moments. Alyx dubs tumblr the “twitter of emo’s” and Linsey retells a story from high school that was a little too familiar to a Heartstopper plot line. This is the crew’s first ever remote recording and they can’t stop singing about it (even if the words are wrong.) But really, this series has some of us feel...

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April 16, 2022 74 mins
Listening to our Jackie Shane episode is the closest to Jesus Christ you will ever get…but really, tune in to hear Lil Jackie Shane's incredible story, with most of the retelling quoted straight from her words. A true queer pioneer, the Nashvillian found her home in Canada, where her light shone brighter than many US citizens ever knew - from being kidnapped by the mob to Etta James and Jimi Hendrix. Heads up, you'll find out about...
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April 4, 2022 39 mins

Uh oh…Kye really took it too far this time, but its Alyx's fault.  Welcome back to part 2 of our Purple Rain discussion!  Think you can guess our favorite songs from the movie? It's probably not that difficult.  Somehow, a line is drawn directly between Daft Punk and one song in particular from Purple Rain. Also, allow us to plug the Lavender Queer Spring Edition one last time before print.  Cheers!

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March 21, 2022 66 mins

In this episode we discover a beer that reminds Alyx of her grandpa’s basement…in a good way! If you haven’t seen Purple Rain the movie, it might be a good time to check it out, come back, and listen to us break down the Kid’s behavior patterns. We dig into the Minnetonka Lake scene, how ‘I Would Die 4 U’ originated, how not to say Apollonia (amongst other names,) and discover Prince’s sneaky way of getting his freak on with his cr...

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Look, it’s kinda been a long time coming - the Toasted Lavender crew embraces the stereotypes.  Listen in to our discussion about art, queer creativity, and a very special pandemic project that benefits our community’s queer artists.  Big shout out this week to Friar Tuck’s Barbershop for providing Alyx’s queer joy!

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February 21, 2022 66 mins

Pay it no mind…we’re talking about Marsha P. Johnson today, or that was the plan at least.  Kye leads the way as we discuss queer representation and the question of “Who owns the narrative?”.  Turns out, we’re not the people who get to tell Marsha’s story, and we’re ok with that.  Instead, please join us as we figure out moments that brought us our own Queer Joy™.  Stick around for the outro because we make a special mention of our...

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December 20, 2021 71 mins

Welcome to our discussion about the holiday traditions of our youth and how they impacted the way we celebrate as adults. We break down our typical stocking haul, favorite Xmas movies and music, and explore the idea of buying your spouse a vehicle as a gift without their knowledge.  The Toasted Lavender crew try to figure out their boundaries during the holiday season.  Highlights include homemade pajamas, Christmas puzzles, and a ...

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December 13, 2021 80 mins

In this episode we learn what it means to finally find your person, and the importance of expressing who you truly are. We are so thankful that Eden and Devi could join us during the stressful holiday season and share their story! Learn about our new favorite mantra:  Pants, Jeans, T-Shirt or button up.  Trigger warning: we discuss sexual trauma at about 8:30 through the end of this episode.  We hope you all enjoy your holiday seas...

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December 3, 2021 77 mins

We’re so excited to bring you a special interview episode with our pals Taylor Knuth and Sean Bishop of Ogden. We asked them to share their story and answer a few holiday related questions, but mostly we discussed Ogden’s Marshall N. White Center and how you can help by educating yourself and showing up for your community. Go ahead and count how many times we mention Polly Pocket in this episode, it’s more than you think. Big thank...

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November 22, 2021 104 mins

In part 2 of our exploration of queer icon Prince, we explore three more albums: Dirty Mind, Controversy, and 1999. Can you guess who on the crew didn’t know that 1999 didn’t debut in the year of its namesake? Learn about Lisa’s affinity for breathy moans and what caused her to remember that she had an invisible friend as a child. Alyx is out to lunch while we dig into a problematic and incesty Prince song. Someone tells Mick Jagge...

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November 15, 2021 72 mins

Alyx decides to lay it down on a very special subject, with guest appearances by Elton John, Harry Styles, David Bowie, and Billy Porter. We dive headfirst into the life and art of Prince Rogers Nelson; The Purple One; The Artist Formerly Known as Prince.  Join us as we discuss a very problematic banger, a disco paint party, and Rick James’ stupid opinion.  Special thanks to cantaloupe and watermelon farmers around the world. ATTEN...

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October 31, 2021 93 mins

Happy Halloween! Celebrate the spooky season with the TL crew as we share all our Halloween favorites! From candy & costumes, to movies and memories from Halloween’s past. Keep your ears peeled for: what candy makes Alyx flip off Lisa, a killer car named Christine & why we’re setting up a tinder account for Linsey. Cheers!

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