Thou Shalt Not Kill: A Podcast About Marriage
Never choosing divorce and staying married for 36 years is one thing, but we come from households with a combined total of 13 marriages between our parents. It’s safe to say we've seen it all and that's inspired us to help others avoid the many pitfalls we've seen and even experienced. Thou Shalt Not Kill speaks right to the heart of the challenges couples face. You’ve probably had battles and moments that if unaddressed could make or break your solemn partnership. Whether you’ve hit the wall or you think things can’t get any better, we've got you. We're honest, real, raw, and will undoubtedly entertain you. We'll teach you the tools you need to overcome challenges with both conventional and unconventional means; helping you get back to the “why” of your union. In our own words, “We never claim to be doctors or board-certified marriage counselors, but we did go to one in the first few years when we had “issues” and their advice was divorce. That didn’t work for us. That’s why we want to bring hope and light through the dark and rough times of life with your partner.” Let’s get your love affair with your spouse to a place where you’ve always known it would be. Starting with the first rule: Thou Shalt Not Kill. Hosted by your marriage veterans of 36 years, Scott & Anne Travis. We'd love to connect with you! Are there topics you'd like us to discuss or stories you'd like to share? Email us at thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thoushaltnotkill_podcast/ And join our Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thoushaltnotkill/ If you'd like to dive deeper, check out our private coaching group for couples and singles: www.resolutionscoachinggroup.com
Episodes
We said it ONE TIME in the last 37 years and NEVER have said it again.
Why ?
Because we can not go forward if we are looking for an EXIT !!
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Come with us and see what we've done to try and bulletproof our marriage.
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Thank you for listening!
You Can use this in your marriage as an opportunity to get closer and learn so much about your partner.
Come join us on this little exploration on the good and bad of Adversity.
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Thank you so much for joining us !!!
We discuss the divorce rates and some of the leading causes, some you may find interesting. looking at statistics and how they are manipulated to fit one's opinion or desired outcome, Divorce is so much more prevalent today rather that in the early days and WHY ??
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We have our own opinion and looking throughout history on divorce , its NOT supposed to be a common thing but we sometimes just use it as a ...
Compromise ... Its often looked at as there is a winner and a looser ..
Restructure your brain when it comes to a winner and loser in your marriage.
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We discuss the real-life compromises we do daily in our relationships and how it
does NOT need to be a win-or-lose battle.
Join us a s we walk though compromise in our daily lives.
Welcome !
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We had a little fun on this one and Anne tells about how she came up with
'being married that long . Its a fun light hearted approach to seeing that TIME together
really is the best way to know each other.
Thanks for listening
In this episode we talk a lot to the men and what it looks like for a Woman to
feel that they have a partner who understands what they want .
How can you communicate what you want in those times that you may
just need an ear to hear you .
Thanks for Listening \.
connected to and Help in life MORE than those that help us.
it's a fascinating concept, but think about it, I want to help
everyone that I love and want a deeper connection to. Whereas when we get help from others we may not feel the same way.
Let us remember that people are trying to love us and help us without expectations, We should accept help and love from those who sup...
Intimacy isn't just for the bedroom.
How does your partner view Intimacy?
There are many forms it takes, in this episode, we go over what can be considered
Intimate and discuss those intimacy killers .
I hope you enjoy and Thank you for all your support.
We jump back into the discussion on this and WHay can you do to get what you want ,
Im sure there are issues that you will not accept , But guess what .... Your partner has some thing they don't want to put up with , so the best way to figure this out is ....... Simple communication ..
Thanks for listening and the support ..
How intimidating is THAT ?!!
Having the Hard Conversations is very simple if you practice the little
conversations about the little things.
We go through some ways to make those "Hard" talks easier..
Thanks for listening and please reach out for any Questions or topics
Thoushaltnotkillpodcast@gmail.com
We talk about the ramifications and problems when we continue
to lie to our partner and HOW to stop the Lies>
Wake up and see that a Lie will NEVER get you what you
want I'm the long run ..
Thanks for joining us
I think its a catch all phrase for some to just not deal with the issue at hand , but
This last year we have really examined and dove deep into some longstanding
issues that Scott has been deal;ing with and Lo and behold there just might be something
with childhood Trauma...
Listen in and see if you agree, I guess an old dog can change their mind . LOL
This is a discussion on the difference between Righteous Anget and just being Bitchy,
We go into this episode explaining the difference and how we deal with BOTH Anger and Bitchyness...
It's not real hard to hold onto anger but there is a ,\line that once you cross it, you now have opened up a whole new issue.
Thanks for listening and Happy New Year !
Who likes that ?
When you are married it can happen and its not always good .
Scott and Anne talk about how you can avoid it and work through this very easy habit that we can all fall into ..
We point out some of the difficulties.. WE ARE NOT psychologists, psychiatrists, or any other Dr. We just have been around and seen relationships when one is a Narcissist and it usually isn't pretty.
We discuss Boundaries Again and you should have an open conversation about what you are willing to accept in your marriage and or your relationships.
This is a very easy discussion to have and does not need to be an all-out war.
Take the time to work on your relationship when things are good !!
just revisit what you are willing to give and take in your marriage,
In this Episode Scott and Anne talk about how NO ONE thought they could, would or should make it in their marriage .. Not Or Single one ..
But lets see and hear how they did and are making a great life filled with Joy, Love and all around Fun ..
This is a MUST-listen
EVERYTHING has issues, its how you attack the issue without labeling it easy or Hard...
Listen in and hear how we do it.
Thank you for all your support!
We all have our place in the decisions we make and the work that needs to be done to create AND keep a happy Marriage .
Just do the Work .....
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