To My Sisters

In this powerful and moving conversation, we sit down with the ever-so-joyful Simply Sayo to discuss her personal experience living with sickle cell and how she has used her sister’s story to raise awareness and spread joy. We talk about the realities of navigating chronic illness, the power of storytelling, and what true advocacy looks like within the Black community. This episode is a reminder of how strength, softness, and ...

In this episode, the sisters dive into the rise and fall of women who built platforms by echoing red pill talking points and male validation culture. Why did it resonate with so many? What happens when the performance no longer serves them? And what does it reveal about the pressures women face to be chosen rather than whole? This is a candid conversation on identity, internalised misogyny, healing, and what it truly means to recla...

Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters review 2025 so far, and share their biggest lessons on self-care, mindset, and spirituality. They also discuss what locking in can look like no matter how your year has started.

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Hey sisters! On this week’s episode, your resident online sisters unpack the rise of the “feel-good” gospel and ask: Has the pursuit of self-healing overshadowed the pursuit of holiness? Together, we explore the tension between comfort and conviction, self-care and spiritual depth. How do we balance healing our hearts while staying rooted in faith? Join us as we reclaim true transformation that goes beyond surface-level peace to de...

This week, we’re taking a look at the comparison trap that’s louder than ever in 2025. We see everyone’s highlight reels—but how do we keep our feet grounded when the pressure to “win” feels constant? Together, we explore tools to protect our peace, embrace our unique journeys, and remind ourselves that true success is personal, not a competition. Let’s break free from social media’s illusions and build roots that hold strong.

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The sisters are pulling back the curtain this week 👀 — we’re unpacking the real cost of the “soft life.” From overpriced facials to the ever-growing list of hygiene must-haves, is self-care becoming another trap? We’re questioning whether we’re prioritising rest or just repackaging hustle under a prettier name. Let’s talk maintenance, marketing, and the pressure to present perfection in a world where wellness is big business..

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On this week’s episode, the sisters are diving into the rise of women who are choosing themselves, delaying motherhood, or opting out of parenthood altogether. Whether it’s to pursue purpose, protect peace, or simply honour personal choice, we explore the societal pressures, unspoken judgments, and growing freedom to define womanhood on our own terms.

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Sisters, it’s time for a life detox! 🧘🏾‍♀️ In this episode, we’re unpacking how to let go of the people, habits, and environments that are draining your energy and no longer align with the woman you're becoming. From decluttering your space to releasing emotional baggage — we’re doing the work together. 

Whether it’s past friendships, toxic patterns, or just some serious overthinking, we’re learning how to say goodbye wit...

In this episode, we catch you up on life lately, and ask the provocative question: Do Men Hate Women? We unpack the deeper truths behind settling, attraction, and preferences in modern relationships. We explore the complex tension between societal standards and personal desires and we also confront the uncomfortable reality of Christian women giving God bad PR when marriage is presented as a life of suffering rather than partn...

We’ve never been more ‘connected’—so why do so many of us still feel lonely? 😞 From social media to the decline of deep friendships, we’re unpacking why modern women feel so isolated and how to build meaningful sisterhood in a world full of surface-level connections.

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Sisters, why do we feel so guilty for saying NO? 😩 It’s time to unlearn people-pleasing and start setting boundaries that protect our peace—without feeling bad about it. In this episode, we break down why women struggle to enforce limits, how to communicate them clearly, and why saying ‘no’ isn’t being difficult—it’s self-respect.

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You worked hard, hit your goals, and achieved the success you dreamed of—but why do you still feel unfulfilled? In this episode, we unpack the hidden cost of ambition, why external wins won’t fix deep insecurities, and how to prioritize peace over validation.

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Hustle culture wasn’t built for women. From societal pressures to biological differences, we explore why women work differently, the impact of cycle-syncing, and whether we should be ‘leaning in’ or redefining success on our own terms.

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Weddings are beautiful—but is the pressure to have a ‘perfect’ day costing us too much? From family expectations to social media-fueled wedding inflation, we’re breaking down why so many couples overspend and how to plan a wedding that aligns with your values and long-term financial goals.

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Sisters, it’s time to take back our power! Society often teaches women to prioritize romantic relationships above all else—but what happens when we decenter men and focus on our own joy, ambition, and purpose? In this episode, we’re unpacking the subconscious ways we seek male validation and how shifting the focus back to ourselves impacts friendships, careers, and self-worth.

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Be that girl, they said. Glow up, level up, do more, be more. But what’s the real cost of self-improvement culture? In this episode, the ladies are breaking down the hidden struggles behind the ‘that girl’ persona—from burnout and hyper-productivity to the pressure of perfection. Let’s get honest about balancing ambition with grace, building a life that’s sustainable, and letting go of the illusion of having it all together

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For too long, Black women have been told to be strong—but where’s the space for softness? In this conversation, the ladies challenge the myth that gentleness equals weakness and explores how we can embrace both strength and softness in our faith, friendships, and self-love.

We’re unpacking the real meaning of being a ‘strong Black woman’ and how we can create spaces where softness isn’t just allowed, but celebrated.

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In this heartfelt episode of To My Sisters, we’re joined by the amazing Juiceee whose story is as moving as it is inspiring. 🌍✨

Juiceee takes us on her journey of leaving the States to start anew in the UK, where she’s been fearlessly chasing her career dreams and opening her heart to finding love. Along the way, she’s faced unimaginable loss and grief - but through it all, she’s remained a beacon of light, determined to put sm...

We love our families, but let’s be real - some of us are fighting battles that didn’t start with us. In this episode, the sisters get vulnerable about the weight of childhood wounds, the pressure of hustle culture, and the emotional toll of being the ‘strong Black woman.’ But sis, we’re not meant to just survive - we’re meant to thrive. It’s time to heal, rewrite your family’s story, and build a future free from cycles that no long...