The Heauxliloquy Podcast

The Heauxliloquy Podcast

The Heauxliloquy Podcast is a conversation that takes you outside the compressed box of what many know about sex. Some of the topics include kinks, condom usage, status disclosure, and past sexual experiences. Subscribe and join the conversation!

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May 23, 2026 • 88 mins

I invited my friend Nancey, who is also the host of Dreaming In Color, onto the podcast to discuss planned parenthood. Some of the topics discussed include personal journeys regarding whether or not to have kids, the impact of this decision on family members, and being the external parent and setting boundaries. Don't forget to subscribe to Dreaming In Color. Dreaming In Color is a podcast about Black people, dreams, and the lesson...

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In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss one night stands. Some of the topics discussed include our personal stories and how to set boundaries with casual sexual partners. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

What comes to mind when you hear the word “pleasure”? Looking to expand your toy knowledge beyond that bullet vibrator collecting dust in your drawer? There's always ...

April 25, 2026 • 50 mins

In this episode, I invited 7-times-award-winning creative Dr. Deonté Bolden onto the podcast to discuss online versus traditional dating. Some of the topics discussed include testing the waters early within the dating process, finding your scene for dating, and healing from a bad dating experience. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Dr. Deonté Bolden is an actor, writer, filmmaker, director, producer, playwright, and host...

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April 11, 2026 • 42 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend KP onto the podcast to discuss sending nudes. Some of the topics discussed include people feeling entitled to nudes, empowerment through nudes, and using nudes to gain attention. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

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Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com

Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vsZDm5

Vernon's IG: UrFavHeauxst (https://www.instagram.com/UrFavHeauxst/...

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Mark as Played
March 28, 2026 • 59 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to have a conversation about our personal experiences related to drinking in a segment we call Blame it on the Alcohol. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

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Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com

Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vsZDm5

Vernon's IG: UrFavHeauxst (https://www.instagram.com/UrFavHeauxst/)

Therapy w/ Vernon: https://www.psy...

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March 14, 2026 • 54 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow podcaster Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss rape culture. Some of the topics discussed include sexual assault of men, negative sexual experience that impacts sexual expression, and rape culture in porn. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

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Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com

Vernon's book: https://amzn.to/3vsZDm5

Vernon's IG: UrFavHeauxst (htt...

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Mark as Played
February 28, 2026 • 15 mins

The Heauxliloquy Podcast is a bi-weekly sex-positive podcast that discusses the variability of sexual expression. It provides a safe space for conversations related to sexuality. We dive deep into our individual perspectives and occasionally debate our differences. It is a space for understanding that we all have a different understanding of sexual expression and this is normal. The podcast places consent, empathy, and personal aut...

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Mark as Played
November 23, 2024 • 178 mins

Election Aftercare is all about coming together post-election to support each other, process our feelings, and heal as a community!

 

Election Aftercare

 

Welcome to our online event, Election Aftercare! Feeling stressed or overwhelmed after the recent election? Need a space to laugh and/or complain?

 

Join us for a relaxing session where we will discuss the impact of the 2024 election. Whether you're feeling anxious, angry, or jus...

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Mark as Played
June 22, 2024 • 84 mins

In this episode, I invited the Trans Deity Manny onto the podcast to discuss one night stands and sending nudes. Some of the topics discussed include setting clear boundaries for a one nighter, attending sex parties, body dysmorphia and nudes, and the sexualization of the body without consent. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Manny is your universal Trans Deity. He is a sex coach, workbook creator, and business doula. A...

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Mark as Played
June 15, 2024 • 38 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend Sharita onto the podcast to participate in a segment I call "Releasing the Load". The topic of this discussion is surrounding Reality TV love finding shows. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Sharita is here to help support you along your journey of self discovery and assist you with addressing past traumas while helping you with creating positive connections . She offers talk therapy,...

June 8, 2024 • 64 mins

In this episode, I invited the divine podcaster De'Vannon onto the podcast to have a love song dissection. De'Vannon's choices are "Different Kind of Love Song" by Cher and "It's Like That" by Mariah Carey and I chose "DFMU" by Ella Mai. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

De’Vannon Hubert is the author of Sex, Drugs, and Jesus, a memoir about his struggles with drug dealing, drug addiction, homelessness, serving in the Ar...

June 1, 2024 • 63 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend Sin onto the podcast to discuss preferences and gender. Some of the topics discussed include why do we, as a collective, care about what others do or say, using labels as identifiers, and gender expression. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Sin is a very talented person. They are a creative that is making space for themselves in the realm of acting, music, and modeling. You can connec...

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Mark as Played
May 25, 2024 • 59 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend and fellow Sex Coach Nicole onto the podcast to discuss mental health and relationships. Some of the topics discussed include how did we come into our sexuality, the mental health blocks we had to overcome to be sexually free, and whether we are overcoming something. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

What comes to mind when you hear the word “pleasure”? Looking to expand your toy know...

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May 18, 2024 • 63 mins

In this episode, I invited Edward Miskie onto the podcast to discuss preferences. Some of the topics discussed include preferences vs value vs fetish or kink, race play, and consensual non-consent and kink play. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Edward Miskie is a man of many talents. He is the author of "Cancer, Musical Theatre, & Other Chronic Illnesses", which you can purchase using the following link (https://www...

May 11, 2024 • 57 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend Shane onto the podcast to have a love song dissection. Shane's choice is "It's All Coming Back to Me Now" by Celine Dion and I chose "Too Good at Goodbyes" by Sam Smith. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy

Twitter: @Heauxliloquy (https://www.twitter.com/heauxliloquy)

Website: https://www.heauxliloquy.com

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May 4, 2024 • 53 mins

In this episode, I invited Life Coach and Kink Educator Wesley Toma onto the podcast to discuss mental health and relationships. Some of the topics discussed include the impact of trauma on a relationship, using kink as trauma therapy, and understanding triggers. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Wesley was born into a fairly religious family and was taught that sex and sexuality are not things you do or talk about until...

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April 27, 2024 • 68 mins

In this episode, I invited my friend Tyrell onto the podcast to discuss age ranges. Some of the topics discussed include the disconnect between younger and older men, mentoring vs being sexual, and how all age differences are not always based in predatory behavior. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/heauxliloquy

Twitter: @Heauxliloquy (https://www.twitter.com...

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April 20, 2024 • 72 mins

In this episode, I invited Michelle Shehkinah onto the podcast to discuss rape culture. Some of the topics discussed include consent, sexual violence within relationships and the queer community, toxic masculinity, and proposal culture. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Michelle Shekhinah is a mother and a survivor of familial sex trafficking that stemmed from her marriage. From her experience, she has become a provider ...

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April 13, 2024 • 66 mins

In this episode, I invited the Trans Deity Manny onto the podcast to discuss the concept of no fats, no fems, no old people. Some of the topics discussed include their experience with body neutrality and dissociating from the body, fatphobia in fashion and society's hatred of femininity and women. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

Manny is your universal Trans Deity. He is a sex coach, workbook creator, and business doul...

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Mark as Played
April 6, 2024 • 63 mins

In this episode, I invited the divine podcaster De'Vannon onto the podcast to discuss Black fetishization. Some of the topics discussed include mental health within the Black community, hypnotherapy, and trauma and negative energy. Subscribe today and join the conversation!

 

De’Vannon Hubert is the author of Sex, Drugs, and Jesus, a memoir about his struggles with drug dealing, drug addiction, homelessness, serving in the Armed Fo...


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