Two Become Family with Renzo and Monica Ortega

Two Become Family with Renzo and Monica Ortega

Renzo and Monica share stories, advice, and encouragement for everyday Catholics navigating the human side of a faith-filled marriage. They both bring a voice of joyful solidarity from their experience living in the trenches with a growing family. Their honesty and witness offer hope to couples who want to find confidence in their vocation to marriage through a candid and faithful discussion. Renzo and Monica Ortega are Catholic ministry leaders, podcast hosts, authors, and national speakers. Their latest title, Lovemaking: How to Talk about Sex with Your Spouse was published through Ave Maria Press. They host the popular marriage podcast Two Become Family and speak nationally for the St. John Paul II Foundation’s Together in Holiness conference series. Their testimonies of faith, marriage, and parenting have been featured by the National Catholic Register, the Knights of Columbus, and Augustine Institute. They are coauthors of the children’s devotional Go to Joseph for Children, and Renzo is also the author of the men’s devotional Go to Joseph: 10 Day Preparation for Consecration to St. Joseph.

Episodes

March 3, 2026 31 mins

This is part 3 of our Lenten series, where we’re walking with Catholic parents through the real struggles of family life during the season of repentance, mercy, and renewal.

Parenting often feels like a daily examination of conscience. We lose our temper. We forget a commitment. We say the wrong thing, again. Many Catholic parents quietly carry guilt and shame after these moments, fearing that repeated missteps mean they are failing...

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Why does parenting feel so overwhelming, even when we’re trying to do everything right? In this episode of Two Become Family, we explore how much of our stress, guilt, and burnout as parents comes from aiming at the wrong goal. When success is measured by calm children, good behavior, or having everything under control, everyday family life can quickly feel like failure.

“Changing Our Aim” invites Catholic parents to rediscover the ...

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February 17, 2026 27 mins

Parenting has a way of exposing our limits. The moments we lose our temper, feel overwhelmed by the noise, or realize we don’t have the patience we hoped we would can quickly turn into shame. In this episode, we begin our Lenten journey by reclaiming humility, not as self-condemnation, but as truth. Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself; it’s seeing yourself clearly and letting God meet you there.

We talk honestly about why paren...

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Getting married is more than planning a wedding — it’s preparing for a lifelong vocation.

In this episode, we walk engaged couples through the conversations and habits that build a strong, lasting marriage. From finances and family expectations to conflict resolution and shared life vision, we explore the practical and spiritual foundations every couple needs before saying “I do.”

We also discuss how to recognize the difference betwe...

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Living with PCOS can feel overwhelming, confusing, and deeply isolating, especially when you’re told to “just lose weight” or given unclear answers about fertility and hormones.

In this video, I share the non-expert guide to living with PCOS, from personal experience, research, and walking this journey alongside my spouse.

This is not medical advice, but an honest breakdown of what PCOS looks like in everyday life...

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Is marrying young too soon?

In this honest conversation, we tackle the 5 core questions every couple faces before tying the knot — from emotional readiness to financial responsibilities and future growth as individuals and partners. Whether you’re in a serious relationship or thinking about the future, this video helps you feel less alone in making such a big decision. 💍

🔥 What we cover in this episode:
Why ...

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Can Natural Family Planning actually damage a marriage?
Many couples quietly struggle with NFP — feeling disconnected, frustrated, or even resentful — and wonder if something is wrong with them, their marriage, or the Church’s teaching.

In this episode, we respond honestly and pastorally to five of the most common objections to Natural Family Planning and offer practical guidance for couples who want unity, intimacy, a...

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What does every married couple need to understand about sex—especially when conversations online say things like “men don’t need sex”?

In this episode, we unpack 5 essential truths about sex in marriage that are often misunderstood, oversimplified, or argued about without enough clarity. While it’s true that no one needs sex to physically survive, reducing sexual intimacy to something optional—or purely personal—can quietl...

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In this episode, we expose 5 modern lies about sex that are quietly destroying marriages, even Christian ones. We dig into why couples experience disconnection, resentment, and confusion around intimacy, not because they don’t love each other, but because they’ve absorbed cultural messages that distort the truth about sex, marriage, and the human person.

We’ll break open the myths many couples believe:

• that sex is mainly about indi...

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We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

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Story of All Stories by Emily Stimpson Chapman and Word on Fire


We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

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Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way from what we're doing re...

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We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

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Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way from what we're doing read and subscribe to our Substack: https://twobecomefamily.substack.c...

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We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

SUPPORT OUR APOSTOLATE
Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way from what we're doing read and subscribe to our Substack: https://twobecomefamily.substack.c...

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Mentioned in this episode: Inito Monitor use code MON15!

We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

SUPPORT OUR APOSTOLATE
Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way from what we're doing read and subsc...

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Buy Emily’s book: http://stpaulcenter.co/AroundtheCatholicTable use code Monica20 for a discount!

We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

SUPPORT OUR APOSTOLATE
Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way ...

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What are the top 6 reasons we don't give our kids smartphones or personal devices? In today's episode we lay them out and then we give you our *new* favorite alternative!

Check out the Gabb Phone 4 use code TWOBECOMEFAMILY at checkout!

Read "Anxious Generation" by Jonathan Haidt

Read "The Tech Exit" by Clare Morell

We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Jos...

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What are the best ways to resolve conflict in a marriage? In this episode we round out the previous list and give you the TOP 3 ways to revolutionize your conflict resolution. What do you think? Is our list accurate?

Mentioned in this episode: Inito Monitor use code MON15!

We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

SUP...

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We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Mentioned in this episode: Inito Monitor use code MON15!

Our other books
Go To Joseph: 10 Day Consecration to St. Joseph
Go To Joseph For Children

SUPPORT OUR APOSTOLATE
Thank you all for your ongoing support. We love what we do and pray that it is a blessing to you and your families. If you are benefitting in some way from what we're doing read and subsc...

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Who would give better advice when things aren't ideal in the bedroom? AI or a real Catholic couple? In this episode, we take on ChatGPT and see if AI can actually give good advice to couples who are struggling to connect in the bedroom. Can the authors of Lovemaking give better lovemaking advice?!

We wrote a Catholic sex book! Check it out: Order LOVEMAKING!  

Mentioned in this episode: Inito Monitor use code MON15!

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