Practical Spirituality

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim explore the hidden harm behind the constant push for positivity in the spiritual and self-help worlds. They discuss how forced positivity can become a defense mechanism, blocking authentic connection and emotional healing.

Our hosts assess how covering up uncomfortable emotions with positive thinking doesn't make them go away; it simply buries them,...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim explore the human tendency to avoid and run away from emotional discomfort, offering an honest and compassionate look at how avoidance shapes personal growth. Kim openly shares her experience of being a "professional runner," setting the tone for a conversation that encourages understanding of the ways people try to escape from difficult emotions.
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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim explore the emotional struggle many people face—the pendulum swing between caring too much and shutting down completely. They reflect on how this imbalance can lead to emotional exhaustion, isolation, and burnout.

Kim shares her personal experience with over-caring and the frustration of trying to stop herself from feeling so deeply. Gareth offers insigh...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim explore the heavy weight of regret and how it can stay with us for years, replaying thoughts of what might have been. They offer a new perspective—what if regret isn’t punishment, but a form of redirection.

Through thoughtful reflection and personal stories, they unpack why regret lingers long after events have passed. That feeling of “if only” or “what ...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim introduce the concept of “reparenting ourselves,” an approach that may feel unfamiliar yet serves as a cornerstone of emotional healing and spiritual growth. They explain how unresolved childhood wounds can remain “frozen”, influencing our adult behavior, relationships, and emotional patterns until our inner children are recognized and healed.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim examine why we care so much about other people’s opinions. They delve into the psychological roots of this tendency, explaining how humans are wired from infancy to seek external validation for survival, creating neural pathways that can persist throughout adulthood. They assess how these patterns have intensified in the digital age, and the impact of social medi...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim challenge the popular belief that love can solve all relationship problems. They discuss how, despite genuine affection, relationships can still reach a breaking point when underlying issues—like toxicity, poor communication, or conflicting values—go unaddressed.

Drawing on personal experiences, Gareth and Kim highlight how societal expectations often pe...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality, Gareth and Kim explore why communication often breaks down, even when people believe they are speaking clearly. They explain how everyone operates from their own unique “map of the world,” shaped by personal experiences, backgrounds, and cultural influences. As a result, two people raised in the same household can still develop entirely different communication styles.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality, Gareth and Kim examine the universal experience of feeling invisible, exploring why people often feel unheard or unseen by others. They discuss various scenarios—from the middle child overshadowed by siblings to the partner in a long-term relationship who no longer feels appreciated—revealing how these situations can deeply affect self-confidence and self-worth.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim examine the stories we tell ourselves and how these narratives influence our lives. They discuss how childhood experiences and ingrained beliefs can shape decisions and relationships further on in our lives. By exploring the origins of these beliefs, they illustrate how questioning these narratives can lead to profound personal growth.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim explore the delicate balance between despair and hope. Through candid conversations, they look at what happens when a person hits low points, and examine how these moments can trigger spiritual awakenings and personal growth. Sharing personal stories and reflections, the discussion assesses how hope changes with time and according to each individual. 

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, hosts Gareth and Kim explore the concept of past lives and its influence on present-day experiences. They share personal stories, including how beliefs in reincarnation have guided their spiritual paths. Although concrete proof is elusive, they argue that intuitive faith in reincarnation can offer valuable insights into personal growth and everyday struggles.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, hosts Gareth and Kim explore the ways in which we experience fear and the role it plays in our personal journeys. They look at how fear can either paralyze people or push them toward personal growth. They encourage listeners to recognise fear as more than just a negative emotion to be avoided and show how confronting our fears can pave the way for resilience and empowerment.

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim delve into the complexities of motivation. They discuss how fear, trauma, and societal pressures can influence feelings of drive or stagnation, guiding listeners toward finding balance between intense motivation and the contentment that comes from inner peace.

Reflecting on their own experiences, Gareth and Kim confront the exhaustion caused by trying to...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim question long-held beliefs about love, challenging the misconceptions that often color people’s understanding. They explore the line between genuine love and idealized illusions, examining how culture, family, and society shape perceptions. Their discussion sheds light on how codependence or manipulation can often be disguised as love, encouraging listeners to re...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality, Gareth and Kim explore how developing self-trust can unlock hidden potential. They discuss how early conditioning often teaches people to doubt their instincts and rely on external validation. Through personal anecdotes, they challenge the idea of a “normal” path, and emphasize that each person’s journey toward self-trust is unique.

The hosts assess the shift from seeking exte...

In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim dive into the often misunderstood concept of living in the present. They challenge the idea that being present requires detaching from, or ignoring, all thought of the past and future. Instead, they redefine being present as an active practice of connecting with the mind, body, emotions, and soul, rather than simply avoiding distraction.

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In this episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast, Gareth and Kim shed light on the often-unnoticed emotional roots of burnout. They examine how childhood experiences, especially emotional neglect, can lay the groundwork for the feelings of isolation and exhaustion many adults eventually face.

Their discussion reveals the real cost of pursuing achievements without emotional regulation skills, and how this can lead to e...

This episode of the Practical Spirituality Podcast re-examines confrontation as a tool for personal growth rather than something to fear. The hosts show how early experiences shape responses to conflict and demonstrate that facing issues head-on can lead to positive transformation.

They discuss both the illuminating and painful aspects of conflict, and explore how avoiding conflict can often create underlying tension. By u...