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you want. That's coming up lateras well. Yesterday we talked about gangs
briefly, tried not to. Iguess I don't know, but so that
sent me down a rabbit hole ofthe the top gangs. Okay, right,

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so these are notorious, top notoriousprison gangs. Wow, so whole
other subculture in prison. We hadour listeners ro Awsome yesterday. Someone was
saying they wouldn't be part of them. They're with the neighborhood. And he
was like, no, you're not, and then they proceeded to get killed
while they're in prison. So thefirst one they have is Latin Kings.

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I'm familiar with this name. Idon't know much about them, but I'm
familiar with the Latin Kings, theLatin They're known for being highly organized,
maybe the most organized gang out there, according to one report by police.
When you compare them to street gangslike the Bloods and Crips, no one

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compares to this organization. And theyeven have ranks, rules, procedures,
and fill out forms for disciplinary actionsand have counsels and hearings and titles.
Wow, okay, that is quiteorganized. Yes, but they went on
to say that make no mistake.They also want to sell drugs, murder

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people, and have control Nazi lowriders. That's a new one. Never heard
of this group. They're the fastestgrowing gang in the in the California prison
system, with over a thousand membersinside prison walls. They are often compared
to the Aryan Brotherhood, which apparentlypisses them off. They despise the Aryan

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Brotherhood, but they also want tobe seen as the bigger, batter,
more violent version of them, sothey're crazy violent according to this, particularly
towards black inmates. Okay, rightthe dead man ink? Okay? Have
you ever heard of these guys,gin Pie lindsay no. They basically offered

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to kill off people in prison formoney. That's literally their thing. They
originated in the Maryland Department of Correctionsin the nineties by Perry Roarc. He
was respected by members of the BlackGorilla Family, but when he tried to
join, they rejected him because he'san enterprising young man with the dream in
his heart and stars in his eyes. He started his own gang, adopting

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their philosophy of anti government and antiauthority. The gang really grew into their
roles beating the crap out of prisonstaff every chance they got. They also
took to beating up other inmates,and this somewhat naturally segued into doing murders
for other gangs, and of coursedrug dealing on the side for extra income.

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Screw you, guys, I'm gonnastart my own gang, right I
mean, if you're gonna be agang and you want to be the baddest
gang, just kill people. Yeahright. It really sends a message acrossed.
It definitely does. There's no identitycrisis when you were talking about branding
like that is we are who weare, right, Hey, don't mess
with them. Why, Well,they've been known to kill people. Okay,
don't mess with them. Why becausethat's all they do exactly the Mexican

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Mafia, I've heard of them.They are considered being the most active prison
gang in the US, four hundredmembers inside prison and another nine and ninety
on the outside. They make murdera way of life, both inside and
out. Their first killing took placeagainst one of its own members, who
is murdered for keeping drug dealing taxeswithout sharing with others. Members are expected

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to engage in rights to test theirloyalty to the gang, and the tests
are often murder. The punishment forfailure is murder. Members can also be
murdered for any four major quote sinsbecoming an informant, committing homosexual acts,

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acts of cowardice, and showing disrespectto other members of the gang. I
get you killed, huh? InSan Antonio, Texas. About ten percent
of the city's homicides are committed tobuy Mexican Mafia gang members. They also
are active in drug dealing and stuff, but that's mostly inside. So you
got like the Latin Kings, youhave MS thirteen. We haven't sid anything

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about MS three. That's just anotherMexican gang. That's like, I think
there's probably a lot of Mexican gangs. Yeah, that's that's like, you
know, that's what I'm getting there, right, You got the Mexican Mafia
as well, So like, what'sthe difference between all of them? Why
don't they all just band together andmake one giant group. Okay, they're
different. Uh. Number two probablythe one that we all we've heard of

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and it probably gets talked about inpop culture a lot. The Arian Brotherhood
ten thousand members both in and outin prison. The brand or AB is
a fearsome gang. The group makesup less than zero point one percent of
the prison population, but is responsibleto up to twenty five percent of the

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murders in the federal prison system.Besides being racist, they enjoy activities as
drug trafficking, extortion, inmate prostitution, and murder for hire. Their enemies
are the Black Gorilla Family and havebeen since the founding at San Quentin.
Fun fact, these people also hada brief alliance with Charles Manson. The

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alliance broke when the Aryan Brotherhood wasdisgusted by the murder of actress Sharon Tate.
That's how messed up Charles Manson was. Even the Arian Brotherhood was like,
no thanks, that's like when you'retoo drunk to be in Metallica,
Right right, right, Dave?Yeah? And then the last one.

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I didn't know this. This gang, the Nestra Family. It's a Chicago
gang originated in the prison system innorthern California. They have a constitution that
states the leader must reside in PelicanBay, Okay. The members must make
an actual blood oath to the group, vowing to never let women, drugs,

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or money interfere with gang activities.The group makes most of its money
distributing drugs and beating people up,specifically other drug dealers on the streets and
stealing their cash. Last forty years, they've killed about a thousand people and
they are known for their beatdowns.All right, then, and this is

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only seven you know there's more,right, you didn't mention the bloods of
the crips on that there list,probably because they ain't s anymore compared to
these guys. What's that gimpy McGeeof Tulsa. Right when you're talking about
the Costras, the Latin Kings,you know, the Mexican mafia, and

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we even you know them to murder, you know, I mean back in
the eighties, right, that's allit was bloods and crips, red and
blue. Right, Well that's whatwas being sung about, right, Skinheads,
Neo Nazis, stuff like that.But like when you're talking like these
guys, they're hanging people from bridgesskin So skinheads and Neo Nazis are not

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a gang there, They are abelief of people that can be in gangs.
That's more of the Aryan Brotherhood,isn't it. You are, Yes,
you are in that. And beingin the Aryan Brotherhood, there's no
like skinhead meeting. Right, Sure, you're in the Aryan Brotherhood and you
are also a skinhead potentially. Yeah, I don't know how that works out.
I'm just saying that. I'm justsaying that, like a neo Nazi

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is just a belief. The skinheadis a association with a belief. But
yeah, there are so many.It's crazy how many. And I guess
when you're in prison, you youI wonder how long you have to be
Is there a manual? Like howlong do you have to be going into
prison when you're like, all right, I gott to join a gang?
And is there a membership card?Like there is, but it's in the

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form of ink on your skin,right, or branding Hell's We didn't even
mention Hal's Angels. And I wouldeven MC gang fine line organized crime depending
on how you're talking about the onepercent. Yeah, just because you're an
MC doesn't mean you are an organizedcrime absolutely, but the FEDS would put

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some of those on the list,the rogues, the Mongols, the Hell's
Angels, well for sure, forsure, but night laws. I know
plenty of people that are in mcsthat don't do anything, and I don't
that's they just ride their motorcycle.They may meet, but they're not like

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doing things that mcs get the labelof doing right right right, That's where
that one percent comes in. Well, there's a club that's they are called
the one percent. No, whenit comes to the MC world, the
one percent means like you'll do likeninety nine percent of your riders are just
good fairweather riders or whatever. Youknow. The one percent is the ones

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that will go above and beyond thelaw to do whatever for the club,
right, and you're the one percent. Yeah, but they're if I'm not
mistaken, there is a an MCthat that's their thing. Like they are
known as those people. You understandwhat you're saying, but I can't remember
the name of them. They justthere was a bus just the other day

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of local MC that somebody got andthey had their cut and everything in the
shot. Organized crime is so fascinatingto me. It's so there's so much
organized crime out there. I wentdown a rabbit hole yesterday, not just
this, but even ones in thisarea, in the Oklahoma area. I

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would if I said the names,which I'm not going to active gangs in
this area, you'd go, I'venever heard of them. But if you
are someone who I guess works inpolice force, you would know who they
are, right, I'll be honest. Yesterday when he said the neighborhood,
I didn't know that what that was. I didn't know that that was a

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gang. Yeah, did you know, lindsay it may not be a gang.
Is you know it is a gang? Okay, it is a gang?
Okay, right, But that's whatI'm saying, like it's the ignorance.
I think society has to the numberof gangs out there and how many

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people. At what point do theyget clicked as a gang. I think
it's like five or more people?Is what makes a gang? Hmm?
Do you have to do an act? Yeah, that's my next question.
Commit a crime before you considered agang. A gang is a group of
three or more people who are organizedand share a common identity, often created

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fear or intimation. So the WetBandits were not a gang. Not enough
members. They needed at least onemore person to okay. Gang. Gangs
can be formal or informal, andmay be organized by race, ethnicity,
or politics. They often have commonname, symbols or signs, and members
may use their identify such as tattoos, clothing, hairstyles, or graffiti.

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Gangs may also have strong leadership andformalized rules. That's just a simple Google
search. So many texs it in. I have a friend in prison in
California. I'll talk to I talkedto him all the time. Let me
know if you have questions for him. They do a burn camp and put
out wildfires in the mountains. Idon't know how, but they have phones.

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But bro is always trying to hitme up now that they do.
Prisoners that are in good standing dogo out and work on work wildfires.
That is a common thing. Iused to be a skinhead. Neo Nazi
is a type a group of neoNazi wants nothing to do with ab especially
in prison. The difference is justbeliefs and duty. Okay, right,

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it's a belief So this person hashairnail, used to be a skinhead.
He used to be then I letit grow out? What changed? What
changed for you? Probably if?And how more? And this is probably
just me guessing. And we couldtalk to this guy at some point in
time. But you remember in Americanhistory acts, I was gonna say that

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his brother get out of prison inright, right, Well he was in
there, huge skinhead, huge racist, huge neo Nazi. Ed Norton's character
went to jail, met that funnylittle black guy, started working with them,
you know, and then realized,well these aren't bad people, you
know, And they got out andwas like, you know what, I
don't want to live this life anymore. It's full of nothing but hate and

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trouble. So let me just goahead and stay away from it while I
while I can, or whatever.And that may be this person's right.
No, I understand that, butI want to know what it was.
I'm curious to the yang. Yeah, did you go to jail? Did
you just wake up and have anepiphany one day? Did your dad beat
you with a stick until you weredone? You know, being a skinhead.

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There's a book and I forget thename of it, but it's about
I think he was in the AaronBrotherhood and he got out and he now
talks about why he did and andhow not healthy it was mentally. It's
a fascinating book. Same same withthe peckerwoods. They're not a part of

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AB woods are looked at as lowerlevel skins. See you just learned something.
Yeah, didn't know peckerwoods were athing. Huh. I thought that
was just a derogatory term for whitepeople. Uh huh, like cracker or
I didn't. I didn't assume associateit with Cracker. I associated with just
like as an insult from anyone.Right, I'm just being honest. Yeah,

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I think we I don't know ifwe're just ignorant or people don't want
to hear it, or they don'twant to talk about it, right,
And maybe those people that are indon't want people talking about I don't know.
Sure. Uh Peckerwood Southern US andMidland US offensive and used as an
insulting and contemptuous term for a ruralwhite Southerner. How about that? So

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you live out in the sticks inAlabama, whether you like it or not,
you're a Peckerwood. How about that? Huh? Okay? So do
their meetings? I don't understand myunderstanding of gangs and like how they work
like is basically what I've seen inmovies about the mafia, right, and

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what I've seen in television shows aboutMC's right. I'm assuming they have a
clubhouse, but I don't know ifgangs do right. No, they have
a trap house instand okay? Anddo they do they have do they have
like meetings like come to order?Right? I'm completely ignorant here. Yeah,

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I don't know, And I haveno desire to do field research.
I was gonna say, maybe youshould go one to cover. Nope,
come back with some hard hitting journalistsno, because here's here's the thing.
Here's the thing. I don't understandit. I don't want to be a
part of it. I'm not necessarilyclear that it's a great thing for everyone.
I don't know. But also I'mnot going to disrespect it, right,

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I'm just not. I have noidea why you joined. I have
no idea why you want to doit? What's up? Brother Corbyn Pierce
here doing some research on gangs inthe Tulsa area. Hello, my fellow
gang members? Do you mind ifI take along? What's up? What's
the skinny? I too? Ama pecker? Would hell? Maybe?

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I have no I have no interestin any of that. Yeah, about
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seven, five kmod blood in BurgerKing Meal fast food chain deeply upset and
concerned. So Tiffany Floyd took herfour year old daughter to Burger King in
Gettsville, New York drive through andfound that her daughter's happy meal was covered

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in blood. All she heard fromthe back was mom, I don't want
ketchup, and she looked back tosee blood all over her hamburger and her
toys. So she drove back andthe manager admitted that a cook apparently had
cut his hand and didn't bother changingout the food, just put it all

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in the bag and the manager allowedit to Yeah. The manager said that
they offered a refund. Tiffany calledher daughter's doctor, who advised blood tests
for over the next year. Shealso reported the incident to the local health
inspector. Burger King's corporate office promisedto cover all the medical expenses, but

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Tiffany says that's not enough. Huhwhat more? My daughter has not eaten
since this, and my anxiety isthrough the roof. She posted a video
on TikTok about the incident and showedthe packaging of the food and everything,
and the video has gone viral withalmost two million views. So she's looking

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for compensation. Yeah, it's thetop of you're getting the bills paid.
Probably feels a little Karen, feelsa little Karen. It's not on the
food, it's on the wrapper.None of this is okay. No,
But it's not like the kid ingestedit, right or does she even really
touch it? You open it upand it's like, I don't want to
ketchup. At least that's what Ipicked up from it, you know.

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So it sounds like she opened itup and saw it and was like,
eh, I didn't realize it's notokay. Like they the burg the burger
king in this instance, should beheld responsible, absolutely, but also they're
they're what more, they're doing theright thing? What more should they be
doing? They absolutely are doing theright thing. Should she be compensated?

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Yeah, I don't know. Ithink definitely the I think they are doing
what they can with the covering themedical expenses for sure, and the refund
what more. Essentially that's all compensation. Yeah, that is, you know,
because even really they don't even haveto do that, do they.
There's no law that says Burger Kingin this case has to pay your medical
bills because there was blood on yourburger. Now you're right about that,

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but if you know you're in thewrong, it's the right thing to do,
right, Absolutely, that's the rightthing morally, Ethically, it's the
right thing to do legally. Theydon't have to though, they don't have
to refund your money exactly, Sothey're going more than what they should,
just based on morals, and thatthey could make the argument that there wasn't
blood on it when it left thereexactly. How do we know that's not

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your daughter's blood? Yeah, howdo you know? Well, I mean,
I would assume that they could checkthe daughter out and see that the
daughter's not bleeding. In they cancheck the employees out and see the I'm
just saying that I understand that.But but he didn't have to. But
they already did admit to their negligence. I understand that, but we've seen

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plenty of stories of people like there'sa frog in my salad, Sure right.
People make up s all the timewhen it comes to fast food restaurants.
Yeah, some of them just tryingto get a payday. It's just
trying to get a payday. Iam. I am glad that they did
admit to their negligence. That's awesome, But again, like, have is

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it that are they? That isit that important to like, oh,
we got to get it out rightaway where it's like, yes, have
you ever worked in a fast foodrestaurant? No? Yes, like I've
there's been plenty of times where theysay, will you pull up, it's
going to be a minute, canyou pull up? Yeah? And sure
you do that pull up and youwait, Yeah, that's what should have

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happened. So this cook could havegone and cleaned up his hand. But
if I'm trying to keep this joband it's my fifteenth time getting in trouble
and they said one more time,have you not meeting a ta time?
You're out right, and I gottafeed my kids because I'm not. I
don't have enough resources to get ajob that pays better than this, and
in the middle of a lunch rushor yeah rush, or just trying to

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get it out as quick as possible, even if there are you know,
two or three cars pulled up aheadbecause you know, they gotta wait for
fresh chicken or whatever, and ordidn't know they even were cut until after
the bag was gone. And alsoit's not like a blood bath on this
thing. It's a little bit ofblood on the perimeter of the of the
wrapper that's enough to send her overthe edge, right and warranted. But

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also it's not a lot of blood. It's easily missible, right, don't
agree. It would creep me outto sure, it should, but it
isn't a blood bath. It isn'tlike they were, you know, cutting
their finger and squeezing blood everywhere,like, which is what the story paints

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to be like. Also, ifyou're handing it back to someone, you
don't know if they if they hadopened it, if they touched it and
then licked their hand, and like, oh, you know what I mean,
Like I thought it was ketchup.Yeah, you know what I mean,
kitchup taste a lot like yeah,but also say yeah, but also
settle because you give your kids plentyof things to eat that probably are questionable.

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You let them play outside and puttheir hands in there, like,
settle down with it's just a littleKaren Mom jail for screwing daughter in the
ass. Ye. So there's thisgal. She's forty, her name's Jacqueline
Kazinski, and she was hanging pictureswith her kids, her three kids,

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at their home, right, andshe was using a drill to hang pictures,
which, okay, I'm more ofa hammer and nail kind of person,
but whatever, due velcro stip stressedstood right or the two sided tape.
Yeah, that's perfect. Yeah.So the twelve year old daughter was
walking by and the mom was like, hey, you ever get screwed in

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the ass before? And then that'swhen she took the drill and drilled a
screw into the girl's left butt cheek. Now, I didn't say in the
story who called the police, butsomebody called the police. The police come
out and they do their investigation,and they ended up taking her in for
felony child abuse. Wow, yeahfor going what the hell? I mean?

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She did screw a screw into herbutt cheek and it did stick in
there until she pulled it out soright, twelve right, twelve year old
girl? Yeah, wow, I'msure that's the first time anything like that's
happened. Sure, right, Sure, HOA calls cops on kids lemonade stand.
So this happens in Colorado. Weremembers of the Wilder Nest Homeowners Association

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called the sheriff to report children quoterunning an illegal lemonade stand in the neighborhood.
When deputies arrived, they asked thekids moved back a bit from the
roadway, but didn't find any quoteissues with their lemonade stand and where it
was located. But the drama wasn'tover. Those who reported the crime then
started yelling at the kids, accordingto deputies, claiming they were on private

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property. The deputies again found nolegal issue with what the kids are doing
because it was a shared HOA propertyarea and because the children's parents are a
part of the HOA, they hadthe right to be there. It's probably
like a community park or something likethat. Yeah, it seems that there's
like a lot of stories like thiswhere angry HOA people, you know,

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are yelling at these kids for justwhat trying to have fun, make some
extra money while they're at it.Yeah, I mean get all bent out
of shape and they're like, youdon't have a permit and blah blah blah
blah blah, you're not supposed tobe here. Find something better to do
with your wasting, pathetic life.Uh, I hear you. I don't
disagree. I think this is completelyinsane. Insane. I mean, this

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is the day of the Karens apparently, but the idea of calling like people
take their job really seriously and ifyou've never had a responsibility and I'm not
knocking it, but let's say youwere in the PTA and then your kids
have now graduated and gone, andyou're like, why I'm gonna be in
the HA because I need to havea sense that gives me a sense of

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responsibility. You might embrace that fully, right, A little abusive power there.
I don't know if it's abuse ofpower, you think. Again,
I think most of the time peoplethink they're doing the right thing. That
doesn't mean they are. They justthink they are. I'm it's my job.
I took an hay oath. Ohgood right, and they're just like

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trying to see it all the waythrough. I mean, also crazy,
Yes, why don't you get ahobby. You know the bottle airplanes or
smokespon. This is their hobby takingcare of our neighborhood. We've all bought
a house, We've invested in it, trying to keep it nice by the
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what lindsay. As for balls tothe Wall, Sports Canada has filed the

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formal appeal of the six point deductionlevied against their women's soccer team. This
all stemmed after her team staff memberwas caught flying a drone over a trained
session for New Zealand's national team.In their filing, Canada says the penalty
unfairly punishes the athletes for action theyhad no part in and goes far beyond
restoring fairness to the match against NewZealand. A hearing will happen later today,

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and a decision is expected at somepoint tomorrow afternoon. In case you
had any doubt, a strained calfwon't be stopping some owned bials from going
all out in the Olympic Gymnastics Finals, Biles is reportedly good to go at
full strength for all four of theevents she'll be competing in tonight. During
her warmups on Sunday, Biles tweakedher left calf, which had reportedly been

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an issue for a couple of weeks. For a bit, there was talk
that Team USA would be holding outbials from the uneven bars to give her
a break, but that talk hasbeen put to bed. The Americans are
heavy favorites to take the gold thisyear. I think you it might be
your last time, so because Ithink she's thirty one, yeah, something
like that, So she's nearing theend of her career. This could be

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the end. She's twenty seven,okay, but still older in gymnastics world.
That's old. Yeah, that's TomBrady old. And uh yeah it'll
be she hopefully won't get hurt,but it'll be amazing. Yeah, she's
fascinating to watch. Jason Tatum we'llsee some action tomorrow when the US men's
basketball team takes on South Sudan.Tatum's absence was notable on Sunday one team

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USA manhandled Serbia one ten to eightyfour. Coach Steve Kerr points out what
a challenge it can be when decidingwhich players play and which players sit when
they're all all stars in the NBA. Kerr also declined to say which player
would be sitting once Tatum is activatedto play. On Wednesday, and the
United States men's gymnastics team scored theirfirst Olympic medal since the two thousand and

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eight Games in Japan, where theyearned gold. Japan took the Golden Team
competition over rival China, and theAmerican men took the bronze. High Performance
director Brett McClure shed tears of joy, saying his team absolutely earned it and
that everyone did their job. Sothe guy the the pummel horse that it

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was the event that secured the metalfor them, and the guy that want
that did that sat on the sidelineswaiting for two hours, then took off
his glass like saw the build upwas like, all right, I guess
tell me. Took off his glassesand went and did it and got the
thing right. And here's the crazything. He suffers from a condition where

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his eyes are permanently dilated, sohe's like, I can't I don't need
to see the pummel horse, buthe can't see it when he does it.
Oh wow, yeah, amazing.Yes, And that's your balls to
the wall sports. I'm Lindsay inninety seven Camo, Good morning, It's

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to eight two, nine four five, Good morning, Lindsay, Good morning
Corbin. You want to be abadass like I was last year and face
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Go to kmod dot com and noodlewith the Tulsa Drillers. Good morning,
Gimbee, Well, good morning Corman. We're exactly one month away from
Rocklaholma twenty twenty four Labor Day weekendprior USA. Get your full lineup and
length tickets to the website there Buxkamodydot com. I found this article that
was posted from like nineteen fifty five, and it some teenagers are being interviewed

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and asked a question. And oneof the teenagers went on to do something
quite successful in their state. Andit's the question they were asked, is
what are the traits you look forin a spouse? All right, like
to get married? Right? Andso I'll read some of them. I'da

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bear. That's a woman's name,if you weren't sure. She likes to
ride horses. She said. Quote. I was looking for a boy with
a clean look, neat, agood Christian boy. I prefer that he
be of my faith, but itdoesn't matter so much. Good manners,
cheerful, not moody, be economical, know how to spend his money wisely,

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good health and good health in hisfamily. One that you can lean
on when something goes wrong, somebodyto encourage you. Okay, a lot
of those are really good. Yeah, yeah, accept the good was a
good cheer being cheery, cheerful,not moody. Yeah, not moody.
Everybody gets moody, doesn't matter whoyou are. I kind of liked the

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one of good health and good healthin his family. Hi, can I
see your medical records? Have ina free family history? When I heard
that. I was thinking, that'snot something I feel like that's not something
we typically look for anymore. Idon't know if we look for it ever.
Well, this is from nineteen fiftyfive, you said as a teenager.

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I'm just like, at some point, when were you ever told hey,
ask about their health? Yeah?Right, it's true. And what
by what does heart disease run inyour family? Yeah? Does cancer run
in your family? And what doesthat matter? I mean, you're nice,
but right, his great grandfather hadtuberculosis. And doesn't that make you

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a bit of a bitch, You'relike, I feel like it does.
By the women, though the menaren't gonna get away free on this one
either. Oh yeah, I liketo hear theirs. There's a movie called
Gatica and Uma Thurman is in it. I think Ethan Hawk and a couple
of films. Anyway, in themovie, it takes place in the future
and there are people of good statureand people have not And when you have

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a date, like you get ahair vollicle. They if you kiss them,
they swipe your lips and they doa DNA test to tell you about
their medical history. If they're goingto be good genetic specimen and the plot
is around this one kid who wearsglasses which is seen as a good thing
and him whatever. But yeah,that is not a trait that you go.

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Hey, I want to really curiousto what your medical history is.
I mean, she's fun, she'sreally smart, she's adventurous. But grandma
had arthritis, right right. See, let's go and do the women all
first. Emily Chofpeed. She lovesto play basketball. She wants a guy

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who is not conceited and is niceto everyone. Good looking, blue eyes,
five feet eight inches, blonde hair. I want them to be of
my religion. Likes to have fun, comical at times. I think a
lot of my family and his settledown and raised two children twins, boy
and a girl. Boy to playfootball and basketball, little girl to be

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a ballet dancer. She wants aspecific take a figure. She knows what
she wants. Yeah, blond hereand blue eyes. Who else wanted people
with blond here in blue eyes?Yeah right? Pat? This is also
we're still doing females, Pat.She likes to fried chicken. Here you

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are, you're in like this magazine? Like, what do you like to
do? Oh? Fried chicken myspecialty. He should be clean and neat,
dark hair, blue eyes, sixfeet or more, considered of other
people. Do his best to helpothers when they need it. Mentalbility is
what counts. She should have likesin common with me, sports and recreation.

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Four children. Should be a goodfamily. He should love his home
and stay with it and keep ittogether. Not go off places. Okay,
that feels like a wound, rightreal does dad go off? Yeah?
Exactly? Did dad run to thestore for cigarettes and not come back?

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No golf course for you, buddy, Nolan Colvileian. He likes to
hunt and eat gumbo. We're ontothe dudes. Nice. Sounds like a
good guy, right there. Yeah. She should be an eyeful, not
always looking sorry and droopy in theold trumpy bitch. Well educated, attend

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church regularly, good cook, beable to arrange your home, not put
too many useless things in it.Studied homeac and bookkeeping so she can keep
home accounts, no smoking and drinking, and help with things like the polio
drive right because that was the thing. Yeah, study home eck. Right,

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You could cook, you can clean, you can make a pillow.
You're the gap from a how toopen a box that wasn't too bad.
I think I mean some questionable things, but not too bad. Lewis Callahan
Junior. He likes to fish forbass. He says he wants a girl

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that is gay and happy, notall the time with a chip on her
shoulder. The people are happy withthe I'm only happy because I have a
chip on my shirt. Right,okay, Uh. If you love the
girl, you shouldn't let her religionstand in your way. It's good,
right, but a good family cannotexist without belonging to some church. Intelligent

(40:52):
but not overly smart, because shewould try to get a job. Yeah,
keep that bitch down right. Iwant her at home help with polio.

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Yeah, but get a job withyou. So why'd you get divorced?
She wanted to get a job.She's got a job at home making
me sandwiches. And then this guyJohn Vonish. He likes to play comic
and blackface musicals a different time.Sure, he wants a woman with high

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morals. That comes first, agirl of my faith, but not necessarily.
Then she must be good looking,be popular with folks wanting to be
around her. Jolly, no sadsack, cook good meals to keep me
strong, easy, to get alongwith broad minded, able to decorate a

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home, know something about nursing incase of an illness unless you wash your
hands. But here's the thing aboutJohn Veniche Vanoische. He went on to
be a state representative in the stateof Iowa, and someone found this article

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and thought it was interesting that hechose to promote that he liked to wear
a blackface while performing in mistral shows, which are like comedy musicals making fun
of black people from back in theday. So he publicly put this in
there, like uh huh, I'mvery proud of this, right right,
Again, it was a different time. Yes, if this was the eighties,

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I could see Whe're like, okay, yeah, but I mean this
is the fifties, right, fiftiesis what you said, So that was
acceptable at that point in time.The Truman signed the Declaration in Segregation in
forty eight, so it was wellknowing that, hey, we're trying to
stop this, right right, butyou know, those things take time.
He signed in forty eight. Thisis seven years later, fifty five sure,

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whatever anyway, and so then sopeople were criticizing him for that and
then but apparently he was a recipientof the Medal of Honor. In sixty
eight, he single handedly protected eighthundred residents of a historic Vietnam, a
Vietnamese village of Dong Lang, froman assault of over one hundred elite North

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Vietnamese soldiers. Wow. He thenbecame known as a tireless advocate for civil
rights and safe living and working conditionsfor migrant farm workers and laborers in his
home in Iowa. And then theyfound this thing, and he was seventy
at the time, Oh God,calling out for his expulsion from state history

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books and all these other things becauseof wanting to dress his black face.
I don't know of all that,because to Gimpey's point, that was a
different time. People can evolve ashe did. If he was truly,
you know, the racist that theymake him out to be because he played

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blackface, you know, in thesemusicals or whatever, he probably wouldn't have
saved an entire village of Vietnamese people. I mean, that is the story.
But he stopped one hundred elite Sothat may have a little more brevity
maybe so to it, but toyour points well taken. And so then

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that sent me down a rabbit holeof because that was as Gimpie said a
different time, And so I wentdown a rabbit hole on the history on
the age of consent and when youcould be married. Fun like when they
started that, When did they finallysay hey, yeah, heyy okay,
okay, you have to be eighteenseems like a better age. Sixteen,

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So you have to go back tolike with colonial America, like go back
to England, and how we adaptedsome of those laws, right and twelve
pretty much the phrase was within ageand twelve years old is when they pretty
much felt like that was okay.In fifteen seventy six, a law was

(45:22):
imposed most more severe punishments for ravishinga girl, for which the age of
consent was set at ten. Ohmy god. Yeah, so fastward into
America, and we adopted a lotof the English common law until state statutes
changed it. Right, And inDelaware, the age of consent was ten

(45:44):
years old in eighteen seventy one,and then it was lowered to seven years.
Oh god. Under eighteen seventy lawone law, the penalty for sex
with the girl below the age ofconsent was death. In eighteen eighty thirty
seven states got the rest together andchanged the consent to ten years old.

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Ten states set the age of concentat twelve years old, and Delaware still
had the age of concent at seven. In California, early states forbade sexual
intercourse with females under the age often, following that English statute of fifteen
seventy six. In eighteen eighty nine, California statute was admitted to raise the
age to fourteen, and then wasraised to sixteen in eighteen ninety seven.

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In the late nineteenth century, asocial purity movement composed of Christian feminist reform
groups began advocating to raise the ageof concent to sixteen, with the goal
of raising it ultimately to eighteen.By nineteen twenty, twenty six states had
raised the age of concent to sixteen, twenty one states had the age of
consent at eighteen, and one statehad the age of concent at fourteen,

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and that was Georgia. Alaska becamethe forty ninth state in nineteen fifty nine
with the age of concent being sixteenyears Whwai became the fifty of state in
nineteen fifty nine, raising the ageof consent to fourteen, and Georgia raised
its age of consent from fourteen tosixteen in nineteen ninety five, and then
Hawaii did in two thousand and one. Colorado lowered its age of consent to

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fifteen and nineteen seventy one after itlowered the age of majority from twenty one
to eighteen. As of August first, twenty eighteen, the age of consent
in each state in the United Statesis either sixteen, seventeen, or eighteen
years old. Now underage marriage right. Circling back with that, I found
an article where did it go?Where? In the state of South Carolina

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in twenty eighteen, there were seventhousand underage I'm sorry child brides over twenty
year span. Wow, what yearwas that again? A twenty year span
starting in twenty eighteen. Okay,so back's almost twenty two thousand, right
late nine the yes, right,Nearly seven thousand underage girls, some as

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young as twelve and thirteen, wereallowed to wed older male males. Some
cases, the grooms were much older. In nineteen ninety seven, dozens of
South Carolina men in their forties,fifties, and sixties were allowed to marry
teenage girls who were not eighteen.In nineteen sixty two, a state law

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sets no minimum age for marriage aslong as the bride is pregnant. The
rule was designed to reduce the numberof babies born out of wedlock, because
that's important. Critics are obviously arguethat it allows older men to sexually exploit
younger brides who are just children.In some of these instances, in twenty

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as recently as twenty fourteen, afourteen year old girl was allowed to marry
a twenty seven year old man.In nineteen ninety seven, a sixteen year
old girl was allowed to marry asixty year old man. It's disgusting.
This is give me was saying theold time. This isn't the old time,
right, right? That is recent. In two thousand and two,

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records attained by a newspaper show thattwelve year old girl in the state married
a fourteen year old boy. ThoughI don't think that that's okay. I
have less issue with that, right, they're close in age, they're both
minors. It's not a thirty yearold guy trying to shack up with a
twelve year old girl who looks ata twelve year old or a ten year

(49:28):
old. Right, that's almost yourdaughter's age, right, she's nine but
yeah, but you get what I'msaying. I mean, we all have
kids or had kids at that age. Who looks at a ten year old
and says, yeah, i'd hitthat. Yes, petos right, and
it's accepted. It's like, okay, yeah, hey, you want to
bang my ten year old daughter?Here you go, here, you go

(49:50):
have her. She'll make a greathousekeeper. She's ten. Yeah, I
don't even know anything. Yeah,a ten year old can barely reach this
of let alone use it. Iknow thirty year olds that can barely consent
to doing things the right way.Uh. In Oklahoma, the marriage age
of consent is eighteen, but theage of consent is sixteen. Okay,

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So to be eighteen to get married, but the age of consent is sixteen.
Okay, So we can have sexfor two years and then finally get
married. Right. Parental consent,a person can marry at sixteen. A
person under sixteen may marry if orauthorized by the court. Okay, And
you got to go in front ofa judge and explain why you want to

(50:37):
marry this fourteen year old. Yes, And the fourteen year old has to
be like, yes, I lovehim. Yes. What judge has to
say okay, which was common likethat in a lot of states. That's
the way it was. You hadto go before a judge. It wasn't
a parental thing. You had togo before a judge right to decide that
the okay, this isn't a defensestatement. But back in like fifteen fifties,

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you only live to be fifty thirty, right, So tom a ticken.
Yeah, not that that's okay.But to raise the age of consent.
As recently as two thousand and one, some people sat in a room
were like, no, get yourleftist ideology out of here, get your

(51:22):
rightist ideology out whatever. Right,right. They had to convince people to
raise the age. And I don'tknow if I agree with Colorado or they're.
Look, they because the age ofyou know, eighteen to do some
of that stuff. So they'd loweredit because you're going to be eighteen anyway,
right, why not just make itall eighteen as well? Yeah,
even all across the board. Yeah, uh ah, yes, the old

(51:47):
she's old enough to bleed, she'sold enough to breed laws. Oh god,
uh love that. Corbyn's reading thisand we'll probably say his wife's the
breadwinner. Probably. I'm super proudof my wife being the breadwinner. The

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sketch Gilly and Keeves with Shane Gillishas a great sketch about them coming up
with the age of consent. Yeahsee, and it's it's hilarious. So
this life expectancy rising, so didthe age of consent? If that's the
rationale you'd like to go with,sure, right point that I made.
That's the only logic I can gettoo. People are living longer. They're

(52:27):
living longer, so we should maybebe more careful with it. Having sex
with the child. I'd like tothink that they're like, you know what,
this doesn't seem right. Sex withtwelve year old doesn't make sense,
or fourteen year old at all.Let's make it sixteen. It's creepy.
And watching Game of Thrones or Housea Dragon when they talk about you're like,
ah, even the incest thing,you're likely right, all right,

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we got to take a break.We'll be back. The Big Med Morning
Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show ninetyseven five D Good morning, It's the

(53:19):
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Can also text the MMS and thenwhat you want to say to eight two
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What is your name? Don?Don Sean? Sean? How are you,
buddy, I'm good Sean. Whodo you want to give? Clues?
Lindsey or Gimpi? Yippy Sean?Sixty seconds are on the clocktimer starts
after the first clue. Are youready? Yep? We's go oh okay.

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So this is a nineties hip hopgroup of gals named after seasonings.
You keep on your table, pushit no their other one? Then there
you go. Uh, as Iwalked through the valley the other shadow,
what death to take a look at? That's right? Uh. This is
jay Z's wife and this is thesong about Yes, this is the guy

(54:50):
who went from a name to asymbol. And this was uh nineties pop
singer Went Crazy had the conservatory conservatorshipon her and baby one more Time,
Baby, one more Time. Yeah, there you go. Uh, justin
Timberlake's band. And it's the oppositeof Hello Bye Bye bye. Uh.

(55:16):
This is Posh and Baby and abunch of other ones I can't remember.
Yes, this is uh seventies eightiesgroup Dude had a killer mustache. And
this is time time timetime seven.Yeah, it doesn't count time me and
stop seven Sean, Congratulations, that'spretty good. Hang on the line.

(55:36):
Okay, alright man, good morning, you're on the air. What is
your name? Ryan? Hey buddy, how are you? I'm good?
How are you? Seven is thenumber to beat man? Are you ready?
Oh we'll try here we go,all right. This is a very
flamboyant singer, usually opposite of BillyJoe. And this is yes, and

(56:02):
the song is something that you sendinto space rocketman. Yes, uh huh.
And this is Freddie Mercury's bands mostpopular Yes, uh this song.
The lead singer of this band diedlast year or the year before, and

(56:23):
they were traveling to lots of fairs. Uh. They have this type of
game for baseball and basketball and uh, somebody once told me that Matt Mouth
uh huh uh all start yes,yes, uh this is a from the

(56:45):
disco era. They were brothers andthere was a movie with John Travolta and
this was the Saturday Night No Differentsong. But yes, you have the
right band and okay, dead youare time time time I got three?

(57:08):
Yeah, not enough for the win, man, I'm so sorry, no
worries. I appreciate it. Thankyou, guys, I tell you you
won there. Uh Sean, butyou probably would finish the answer before I
even finished the question. Hang onthe line, so gimp can get your

(57:32):
now your stumble. This is theone shot on give me Yeah, well
you can tell by the way Iwalk. Man, no time to talk.
Barry Gibb and his brother and thisis the song that they used to
tell you to do CPR two.Yeah cool and come on track right.

(57:53):
I couldn't remember if that was theright one or not. Didn't they have
a couple of them in this OhYeah, I'm a Believer, probably the
most popular one from that movie.Yeah yeah, duo that recently broke up
and This is a song about afemale who goes through a lot of men.

(58:14):
She's a whore. Yeah, yeah, man eater haoll notes yeah,
all right, the record down movesme to ten, keeps Lindsey with eight,
keeps you six. If you're listeningto The Big Man Morning Show,
this is Tulsa's Morning shown. Goodmorning. It's the Big nine Morning Show.

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Four six oh kmode can also textBMMS and then what you want to
say to eight two nine four five. Let's see what game he Hasn't this
one right for? He says herethat the Biden administration rolls out new Ukrainian
aid. The administration announced yesterday thatthe US will soon send two hundredllion dollars

(59:10):
and air defenses and other weapons toUkraine as the country continues to beat off
the Russians. The administration has madea one point five billion dollar commitment to
support the country's military defenses over thelong term. Says here that text messages
show law enforcement raised concerns about Trumpattempt ninety minutes before. Messages obtained by

(59:35):
Republican Senator Chuck Grassley shows a localcounter sniper flagging concerns he saw someone park
near the vehicles and sit on apicnic table. Now, law enforcement took
a photo of the same man,who turned out to be mister Crooks,
and then sent it to round totheir colleagues about thirty minutes before Crooks took
the shot at Trump at the rally. For me, I need context on

(01:00:00):
what typically happened. What's the stand. Is it common for people to communicate
in group texts like hey, watchout for this, watch out for that,
we're swatching this? How many timesdo they do that? And it's
not like I just there's clearly amassive failure that's happened. Oh yeah,
But I also want to know isit normal? Right? I thought they
used walkie talkies, you know,so, because there was another one where

(01:00:22):
they talked to some I forget whoit was and they were like, we
never talked to anybody. Yeah,Well was that common? Is that sop?
I don't know. Yeah, there'sa lot going on here. Delta
Airlines is going to seek compensation fromMicrosoft and CrowdStrike. It's been reported that
the airline has hired a law firmto pursue damages due to the cyber outage

(01:00:45):
that begin on July nineteenth. Deltacanceled thousands of flights in the aftermath,
leaving travelers stranded. It's estimated themeltdown could cost the company hundreds of millions
of dollars. And then, lastly, here there's a lawsuit filed over classroom
bible mandate. The Oklahoma State Departmentof Education is being sued over the mandate
to include Bibles in the classroom.The lawsuit was filed by a concerned parent

(01:01:08):
in May's County, who argued thatthe state Superintendent Ryan Walters you know who
you are mandate fall violates the separationof church and state and infringes on Oklahoma's
religious freedoms. Old Ryan says thathis mandate will proceed despite legal challenge.

(01:01:29):
I think we all saw that thatwas gonna happen. Yeah, yeah,
nobody should be surprised by that.Gmusa added eight more medals on Monday and
continues to lead the overall standings atthe Paris Olympics. Americans have now won

(01:01:52):
twenty total medals, including three gold, eight silver, and nine bronze.
France's second in the standings was sixtyenoverall medals, followed by Japan and China
with twelve apiece metal. Events ontap for today include the women's gymnastics team
final, with Simone Biles going forher first goal of these games. And
the sabotage appears to be continuing inFrance as the twenty twenty four Olympics continue.

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French authorities say that on Sunday night, five telecom stations were hit in
an attack that shut down some services. Those same authorities also report that it
looks like sabotage in an operation thatlooks prepared. Elaborating on that point,
French Telecoms Federation General director Romaine Bonifontsaid, if it wasn't people who work

(01:02:36):
for us, it was people whohad information. The attack reportedly only affected
eleven thousand people and service was saidto be restored rather quickly. The Stars
and Stripes continued its domination in thepool yesterday. Katie Grimes and Ma Wyant
picked up silver and bronze medals inthe women's four hundred meter individual medley.
Luke Hobsen won the bronze and themen's two hundred meter freestyle, and Ryan

(01:02:59):
Murphy also caped to bronze medal inthe one hundred meter backstroke. The action
is continuing in the pool today withthree more metal events. American Caleb Dressel
will go for his second Golden Parisand the men's fifty meter freestyle, and
Team USA's men's soccer team wraps upthe group stage of Olympic play today against

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Guinea and Paris. The US issecond in the Group A standings after a
four to one win over New Zealandon Saturday and a three to zero lost
to France last Wednesday. The UScan advance to the quarterfinals with a win,
a draw and a New Zealand drawor lost to France or a New
Zealand loss. Guinea is zero totwo in Olympic play after losses to New

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Zealand and France last week. Didyou see the story about the women's swim
team impede in the pool. Oneof them said in ipe while I'm swimming.
The other one was like, IPin every pool I've ever been at.
Yeah, Katie Haff said, itsounds gross to outsiders, but because
there's so much chlorine in the pool, you don't even think about it.
Lily King said, IP in everysingle pool I've swam in. That's just

(01:04:04):
how it goes. I can actuallypee while I'm swimming, Colin Jones said,
you never want to swim through awarm patch. You're crop dusting everyone.
Everybody peas in the pool. Nomatter who you are or what pool
you're in, everybody peas in it. Still gross. Nope, I don't
do it. You don't do it. I don't do it. And how

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many people are in your home,live in your home? Five of this
four other people? When you hada pool pete in the pool, they
would you would watch them get out, go pee in the rocks, sure,
or pee on the fence. Andthey would tell their friends when they
we don't pee in our pool,get out and go pee in those rocks,
or go pee on the fence.Sure. Yeah, that's just the
rule. Well, good thing.Kids are rule followers. In Major League

(01:04:50):
Baseball, eight players are on themove as a part of a three team
deal prior to today's MLB trade deadline. The Cardinals will be acquiring starting pitcher
Eric Fetti and outsider or outfielder Tommyfam Will, while the LA Dodgers are
set to add super utility man TommyEdmund and reliever Michael Kopek. The Dodgers

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will be sending in fielder prospects AlexanderAlbertas, Jerald Perez and Miguel Vargas to
the White Sox and the deal alongwith a player to be named later or
cash. LA is also adding seventeenyear old right hander Oliver Gonzalez from Saint
Louis, while the Cards receive cashfrom Chicago and either cash or a player
to be named later from the Dodgers. And that's your balls to the Wall

(01:05:33):
Sports. I'm Lindsay on ninety sevento five km Ody. Good morning,

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We read the email. And thenwe try to give some advice, guidance,

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ideas, recommendations, things you shouldn'tdo, things you should do.
I don't know. It's an arrayof information. This one says during high
school, my best friend dated thisgirl. They were pretty serious, but
I always had a thing for her. I just turned thirty and freshly divorced.
This girl reached out to me onFacebook and we've been chatting. I

(01:07:00):
want to ask her out. AmI breaking bro code by not by dating?
I want to ask her out?Am I breaking bro code by not
dating? X'es? I'm still friendswith him, but he is remarried and
we see each other only during footballseason for fantasy football meetups. Yeah,

(01:07:23):
bro code? How long does brocode last? I didn't going to ask
if there's a statute of limitations onthat sort of thing, you know.
I don't know. I think Ithink personally it depends on like the bro
you know, like, are youstill like this person only speaks to him?
What what they say was like oncea year, yeahs football meetings or

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whatever. They're still bros? Arethey? Though they talk once a year,
they physically see each other once ayear and that's friendship though? Oh,
yes, acquaints more than anything.Yeah, So, like, I
think if you see the guy,if you see him every day, talk
to him at least three times aweek, then you got that bro code

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is still strong, right, Idon't. I don't know. I don't
know. I think there's a lotof factors into this to determine whether you
should or shouldn't move on a girlthat was his girlfriend in high school.
There's your key word. I amjust being honest. I don't know if

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I would remember. I don't knowif I can. Okay, my buddy
Heath, he dated a girl namedEmily Larson. That might be it.
I don't know if I remember anyof my other friend's girlfriend's names. Yeah,
I sure don't. My brother,I don't even know the names.

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I can't remember the names of thegirls my brother dated. Well, see,
I think that's a little different datingyour brother extra sure. No,
I'm just saying I don't remember mybrother the names of the girls my brother
dated, much less trying to rememberthe girlfriend names from high school that my
friend dated. Oh, I've gotone friend from high school that I still

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talk to, and I don't onlythink of one of his ex girlfriends from
high school Kirsten Kristen something like that. I couldn't tell you her last name.
I know I went over to herhouse once when I was in high
school and her parents offered me somepie. WHOA. I was just like,
go there to hang out here?Like, would you like some pie?

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Who offered it? The mom orthe dad? The mom did what?
The dad? Right? There's like, you're gonna want some of this
prey progressive family really pie? Thesex says bro code, what are you
fifteen? The other guy clearly movedon and you don't even see him that
much. People grow up and growapart. Do you man get that?

(01:10:00):
Another one? The bro is alreadymarried, so who cares. It's not
like it's been a month since theirrelationship ended. Does bro code into after
a month? Uh? No?I think it goes on a little bit
longer than that. This text,he's moved on, he's moved on.
The game is on another one.Go after her, and don't let a

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married man gate keep a single woman? Oif that's an interesting point too.
If you ask him and he says, no, that's weird that a married
man is like, don't date her? Right? Yeah? Hm? Whoof?
Yeah, that's it? That's init, or if he's like,

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hey, I don't even want heraround, right, I don't want her
at fantasy football, I don't wanther at her draft party. But that
is a possibility that yeah happened.You know. You get this guy,
it's with this old high school girlor whatever, and uh, hey,
we're going to go to Steve's house, you know, for barbecue. And
now Steve was like, oh man, and we date back in high school.

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Has got to relive all that andthen the what ifs, you know,
so I could see where there couldpossibly be some issue there. Just
Tex says, if all they didwas date for a little while back in
the day, then that's fine.Now if they were married and had a
little more history, I'd say,don't break the code. Wow, So
if they were married, that changes, I think. So, yeah,

(01:11:35):
okay, if he's married, thenthe bro code for that relationship ended.
He permanently gave up the possibility toget back together with her when he said
till death do us part, hepermally gave up on the possibility. Not
necessarily, people get forced. Peoplecheat all the time, right exactly.
People cheat all the time with pastflings. So yeah, yeah, for

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sure, the utopian world. Iagree that he permanently gave it up,
But go for it, dude,shoot your shot another one. It's been
more than five years, then brocode doesn't exist anymore. If he broke
up with her last month, thenthat's a no go. But if it's
been years, do it. Reasonableanswer, dude, you are over thirty.

(01:12:20):
He dated her in high school.Bro code is over nuclear answer.
Call her up, see if she'sdown. If things go well, see
if she's willing to do an EiffelTower with you and your bro that's a
sufficient peace offering. The friend hasa whole wife, I doubt will affect

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him in the slightest. Well,it's a good thing he doesn't have a
half wife. It's been a decadeplus since they were a thing. You
do you it's not an ex wifewho gives an f I have slept with
x'es of friends. I have sleptwith x'es of my depends on the level
of friends. You are. You'veslept with exes of your children? Oh?

(01:13:06):
Boys like okay, yeah, rightright, okay. I was like
cool your buddy, Yeah yeah,you're bros. Get the skinny from him.
She might not like fantasy football.Bro code is for dumbasses. Ask
her out, Why should you spendthe rest of your life wondering what could
have been just because your friend couldn'tmake it work with her? And it

(01:13:29):
was in high school, right,But at the same time, to to
say how long high school was inthat email, I didn't pick it up,
so I don't think it did.I just turned thirty, okay and
freshly divorced. So that was twelvethirteen, fourteen years ago right in high
school could have been the beginning ofhigh school exactly, or it could have

(01:13:51):
been the entire span of high school. They were high school sweetheart. Yeah,
but regardless, that was over adecade ago, right, right,
right, But likewise, people alsorekindle romances like we dated in high school.
So the mindset of like, oh, it's different, No, it's
people rekindle relationships for weird reasons,not that you would be the spark right

(01:14:12):
right to me? The question isbro code? Is bro code a thing?
I think for some people it is. Do we have a conversation,
like would you and I have tohave a conversation that bro code is a
thing between us? It's an unspokenthing. Man. Wait, it's always
been an unspoken then how could itbe for some people, for some people
that take it seriously, is whatI mean? Yeah, you just don't.

(01:14:38):
You don't talk about it. Iguess if you want to talk about
it, you can. But I'vealways understood it as a you know,
an unspoken rule. You don't bangmy ex and I won't bang your mom,
well unless unless it's been decades later. Decade, so like ten years
were in the clear, right,But what if they're married? They were
married once? Oh? Like no, I mean no, I mean once

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once you decided to get a divorce, I put her back on the market,
and ten years have to go by. I don't know about ten years.
Oh, if it can be less, maybe I wouldn't do it that
year. Honestly. Let's say,like you and your old lady been together
for a while, right, yeah, and then you guys separate and get
a divorce this year. We're almostin August, right, and then I
start hitting her up and the nextthing you know, we're dating in We'll

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just say November, right, like, you guys divorce this month, and
then I pick her up and starttaking her out in November. That ain't
right, That ain't right. Atall. I would even say probably like
November of next year. Probably wouldn'teven be right. Okay, you know,
you see what I'm saying. Thisis the problem with unspoken rules like
bro code, Like it's I'm notclear on the rules. It's a constant

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moving goalpost. Oh forget that.You either have boundaries or you don't.
Yeah, and to have somebody fromlike a whole high school thing is like
I haven't thought once about the insand outs or ifs, and that's of
high school. And they definitely haven'tplayed a part in my decision making to

(01:16:10):
my life anymore. No, andthey haven't for twenty twenty five, thirty
thirty forty long time. I meanI married someone I went to high school
with. His high school sweetheart wasmy very first ever friend. I've known
his high school sweetheart. I knewsince we were in preschool together. So

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I mean, I mean in herand I are still When they dated,
we were more of like acquaintances,and we are still acquaintances. How long
after they dated, did you guysdate three or four years? Okay,
so some time had passed by,not very much though, right, right,
But it's not like she scooped himup the next month. Oh no,

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you know, bro, this oneis interesting. I want to go
after I wouldn't want to go aftersomeone and I knew my friend had already
been romantic with. That's kind ofweird, Okay? Is that an insecurity
thing? You know, like she'sgonna compare you to him constantly or you're
constantly thinking that my waiter's been where? Okay, all right, I know

(01:17:16):
what I'm saying that that's weird tofocus on that, right, Yeah?
Yeah? How much time would itfor so for this person seventeen eight fib
how much time would have to goby for it not to be weird anymore?
They're not the same person they werein high school. No, exactly

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they aren't. They aren't, butthey also are. That's why you rekindle
relationships. No no, no,no, no, no, they aren't.
But you think that they That's thething. You think that this Broad
is the same Broad that was inhigh school. She's the exact same way,
when in all reality, maybe bitsand peace, but not all of

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it. Her bodies probably changed hada couple like I would hope, so
her mentality has changed, been raileda couple of times exactly by God,
knows who you know, not justyour friend, but maybe she went through
a hoe phase for like a coupleof years, right, and it's just
just banging anything. Jenny from Forrestcomp right exactly exactly, but you romanticize

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it and you want it to bethat exact same person you went to high
school with, because that's the personyou remember. We could even go down
a rabbit hole that psychologically, youthink it puts you back to that exactly
to what you were like at thatage, like if you were the star
quarterback and really popular and you datethat person because you think you're going back
to that life. During high school, my best friend dated this girl.

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They were pretty serious, but Ialways had a thing for I just turned
thirty and freshly divorced. This girlreached out to me on Facebook and we
have been chatting. I want toask her out. Am I breaking bro
code by not dating exes. I'mstill friends with him, but he's remarried
and we see each other during footballseason for fantasy football meetups. What do

(01:19:09):
you think, lindsay? I thinkhe should ask her out, and I
think during fantasy football maybe it won'twork out. Maybe he takes her out
and decides he's not interested after all, then he never has to say anything
at all. But if it worksout, I think his friend, his
bro, will be fine with itbecause, like he said in the email,
his friend is married and has acompletely different life that has nothing to

(01:19:33):
do with his high school girlfriend.So I think he's safe to ask her
out and go for it. Andhe could even tell him at fantasy football.
Dude, you'll never believe who reachedout to me and who I took
out on a date. Remember soand so he might not even remember her,
So I think he's safe. Gimbie, dude, you're not high school

(01:19:57):
anymore. You're a full ass adult, okay, So I think I think
you're safe to be honest with you. You talk to you this buddy of
yours once a year, a coupleof times a year during fantasy football,
and that's it. It's not likeyou hang out every week. It's not
like you see each other every week. It's not like you see each other
once a month. Well, sothere is no bro there anymore at all,

(01:20:20):
whatsoever. And it's not like you'reasking out his current ex wife.
This was a girlfriend in high school. Man, go for it if you
want to do it. Do it, fulfill that fantasy and have fun.
A couple of text I came in, what's wrong with being Eskimo brothers?
Get your wick wet? Yeah?My brother married a girl I dated in

(01:20:42):
high school. I always tell himhe has my sloppy seconds. She might
be crazy or toxic af and hasn'tchanged. That's the only reason I see
a married dude say no, nota bro code dude either is needed an
excuse to tell her no, oris buddy runs the fantasy football league and
he's worried he might get kicked outof fantasy league. People are pretty protective

(01:21:08):
of their fantasy football league, soI could definitely see that. Uh do
it, bro Eskimo Brothers, Arewe sure the bro remembers her last one?
You do risk bringing that other guyback together with her by bringing her
in your friend group. Maybe theysee each other and it all comes back.

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Uh, it's nothing, Burger.You're putting a You're giving a lot
of energy into what this guy thinks. Maybe maybe she doesn't remember him.
Have you asked her? That's theperson you're gonna have to deal with the
most anyway if you date her.I think if you felt like you had

(01:21:57):
to. You could tell him sonow it's an important phrase. Tell him
you're going to ask her out,not ask him. Let some other guy
run your life for you exactly,or just let it roll, man?
Why not just you getting all thisenergy and whether she's is he's going to
be mad or whatnot? Or they'llget redback together. She'll compare all these

(01:22:23):
and you might she might say no. She might say no, or go
on a date and not find youawesome because you're paranoid. Af I think
you're just putting way too much energyinto it. And as far as Broko
goes, I'm just not a believerin bro Code. You either have the

(01:22:45):
moral standards or you do not haszero to do with bro Either you don't
date the person you're friends with,or you wait a decade, just have
morals, do the right thing.I don't. Oh that's so hard.
Why is I gotta have some namelike bro Code to give it more honor.
You're not in a trench in WorldWar two leaving your buddy who shot.

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It's a banging a girl from highschool. Get over it, bro
Code. I'll never leave you.Man. Shut up? All right,
We got to take a break,We'll be back. You're listening to The
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been married for ten years. Wehave a seven and three year old.
I've always slept naked, but mywife says I can't sleep naked anymore.
I can't walk around the house naked. We have kids. It's weird and
creepy. Is there an age Ishould stop being naked around my children?
Which might be the funniest sentence eversaid on the show. You said the
kids were seven and three. Yeah, a lot of people slept naked until

(01:24:28):
they had kids, and I'm alot of people I'm sure didn't stop sleeping
naked, right, right. Ididn't have any weird friends growing up that
their parents were naked, like youknow what I mean? No, they
always seem to have some kind ofcovering on, right, whether it's T
shirt, and panties or you know, boxers or whatever the case is.

(01:24:49):
I don't even remember going like stayingthe night at a friend's house and like
their mom wearing T shirt and pantiesor the dad wearing T shirt and pants,
like I don't remember that. Theyalways were pajama clothes right appropriately.
Oh, I I had a friend. His name was Mark, and this
was when I was like twelve,thirteen something like that. But I stayed

(01:25:11):
over to his house and now I'llnever forget waking up and uh, I
guess they their parents slept in likea it was it like a living room,
right, but it was the nextroom next to the little like a
den maybe even, I guess wouldbe a better word for it. But
but yeah, you know, coverall flopped over and there's his mama with
her pink, silky panties on.Yeah, do you like stay? How

(01:25:34):
long did yeah? How long didyou stand there? Long enough to just
be a little creepy? And thenleft? It was that night was the
last time stayed? How many glassesof water did you get up the floor
in the middle of the night?So yeah, but that was that was
that was that was that that wasthe only one that I can remember that,

(01:25:55):
you know, didn't have like pajamasof sorts on. You know,
I remember, like my mom,if she got up in the middle of
the night, she'd have a shirton and or underwear. You know what
I'm saying, that's your mom though, yeah, yeah, it's your mom.
It's difference. Well, it wasn'tlike she wasn't naked. Right now,
I do remember when I was hada buddy named Clay, and I

(01:26:16):
was over at his house and thisis when OJ was running from the police.
I'll never forget that, right,because the fleestion is where were you
at when OJ was running from thepolice? Right? And Clay's mom was
not attractive at all whatsoever? Right, But she was in the living room
on the treadmill watching the OJ chaserunning and her broad panties like that was

(01:26:44):
that she's standing there just on thetreadmill shogging. Oh all right, that
is weird. Yes, I thoughtthat was weird. And I turned around
because again, she was not anattractive woman, and I was just she
had a great personality. But she'slike, oh, look, oh,

(01:27:06):
Jay's riding from the pulleye And Iwas like, huh, how about that
was it coming for her to beon the treadmill? Yeah? Yeah?
And was it coming for was shealways in her bron panties when she ran?
I guess According to him, Yeah, this was the first time that
I had ever seen it and experiencedit, and I was like, and
like, they weren't they weren't sexybron panties, granny panties pulled up over

(01:27:28):
the belly button. Yeah, sexsays, dude, you're a weird.
Oh and your wife sounds like acheating hore. Someone says, keep your
bedroom door shut, put on boxersor underwear before you leave the bedroom.
Yeah, that makes the most sense, doesn't it. Put some clothes on
before you just go walking around hordor on it across the house. I

(01:27:51):
remember when my children were itty bittyand starting to take showers, but they
were like toddlers, and the questionwas when do you stop showering with them
if they wanted how to hop inthe shower with me or with my husband.
And someone had said, well,it's only weird if you make it

(01:28:13):
weird. Nakedness is own. Thatsounds like a predator thing. Yea.
That applies to so many things exceptthis. Yeah, right, You're only
offended if you choose to be offended. But to me, yeah, when
it involves children and nakedness, Ithink they don't know any better. If

(01:28:33):
you've got to put the boundary upright, Like you, you're around your
kids naked, not you just roll. You're just using nice as example.
And to you, that's fine,they're your kids. But if I showed
up to your house started stripping downand you're like, bro, what are
you doing? And I said,man, it's only weird if you make
it weird, that doesn't fly rightright, Listen to this text. Is

(01:28:57):
this a troll? It's not whata you are? But what age your
kids are one to three is fine, they won't remember it, But after
that stuff starts sticking being a responsibleparent. Don't traumatize your children. Dumb
ass for your statement. I hada childhood friend whose mother was an ex
Playboy centerfold. She had a plaquehanging on the wall that included a picture
on all her naked glory. Ispent a lot of time looking at that

(01:29:21):
plaque. I was ten. That'sawesome. My friend's dad would just wear
a T shirt. Franken Bean's alwaysdangling about ew. Yeah, tell me.
Okay, So you have a friend, your kid goes and stays the
night, and you're like, oh, how was it good? And then
they stay another night some other time, like how was it? It was?
Like, oh good? And thenanother one going they stay again,

(01:29:44):
they come home like how was itgood? But can I ask a question?
Yeah, why does dad not wearjust a T shirt? What are
you talking about? Well, Frank'sdad always he just wears a T shirt
and his penis and balls are hangingout all the time. You're never letting
your kid go back over there,right, I agree? Never? Never?
Reasonable answer? Sleep naked all youwant, Just teach the kid to

(01:30:06):
knock before entering your bedroom. Nuclearanswer, all naked all the time.
Tell everyone if they don't want tosee your naked, don't look another one.
I sleep naked, but put onshorts when I leave my room and
have cloths on, clothes on whenthe friends are over, like a loincloth.
That's it. Yeah, Uh,it's toga party all the time.

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What hill people choose to die onalways surprises me. But mister CPS officer,
I always walk around naked. Theyare used to it. Yeah,
right. Truth doesn't go well withthe cops. Yeah, uh, the
idea. Like I slept naked tillI don't know, pretty much till the
kids were walking around, when theystarted walking around, and even when we

(01:30:53):
had a baby in the room,I stop sleeping naked. It's just weird
to pick up your kid and you'renaked. Yeah for me, you can
do you right, But swimming,swimming, showering. I've stopped showering with
my girls. Yeah, oh yeah. We have a walk in shower where
you like walk in right. Seethere's no glassy like walk into it.

(01:31:15):
And they're never looking in my eyes. And so I'm like, geegee.
And it isn't that I'm uncomfortable justtalking about penises or whatever with you know,
like educating them, but it's justweird. It's just it's just weird.
I don't need my kids going toschool talking about penis. Where'd you

(01:31:41):
see a well, my dad's ah, So no more showering, right,
That's it was enough. When Idecided, I was like on the showering
thing listener. Email from a guywho's been married ten years. They have
a seven and three year old.I've always slept naked, but mine says
I can't sleep naked anymore. Ican't walk around the house naked. It's

(01:32:03):
weird and creepy. Is there anage I should stop being naked around my
children, Lindsey, Yes, stopbeing naked around your kids. It's done
and o'sober with they're seven and three. It's over so because now they're going
to start remembering what they see.So you can sleep naked for sure.

(01:32:24):
Just like someone text in, justlock your door when you get up,
throw your clothes on. You don'tneed to be naked around your children,
plain and simple. It's a funnysentence. Yeah, Jimmy, Yeah,
there's not much more I could addto that. I mean, I'm not
gonna sit here and be like,no, it's fine be naked naked around
your kids all you want. Nono therough, moly kids. So you're

(01:32:48):
traumatizing your kids, is what you'redoing. And they're going to forever have
the image of dad's wayne or burninto their head. Okay, Uh,
you shouldn't do that. The onesthree okay and the other one seven for
sure, they don't need to seethat. You can still sleep naked all
you want. I'm a big fanof kids aren't allowed in my room at

(01:33:11):
all. I feel the same way, whatsoever, even if I'm in there,
you know, knock on the doorwhatever. For that reason, you
don't know what's going on. Youdon't know if I'm naked. You don't
know if I'm masturbating vigorously. Youdon't know if i'd help the door shut
taking your mom to poundtown. I'mjust saying, you don't know what's going
on, so you don't just getto barge into my room like you own

(01:33:33):
the place. So yeah, sleepnaked all you want. Put some clothes
on, at least a pair ofboxers, at least boxers, you know,
whitey tidies. That's weird. That'sweird too, you know, so
bare minimum boxers or some Adam Sandlerbasketball shorts or something. A bathrobe.

(01:33:56):
A bathrobe is fine, that's acceptable. Kimodo kimono not so much, not
the dragon but the Japanese. Butno, if that's your robe, let
go for it. Yeah, butso's nice. They are nice, don't
get me wrong. That feels great, but it's there's still too short.
Can you be naked underneath it?Underneath the kimona a robe? You could
be naked underneath the robe as longas it's covered and tied off. Right,

(01:34:17):
nothing's escaping, nothing's escaping. Strongbreeze, sit down on a bend,
looks like somebody's getting choked out.I wear my robe around the house
all the time in the morning times, right, uh, and I'm naked
underneath it. The difference is Idon't have young children running around my house

(01:34:39):
either, you know. So I'llsit there on the couch in my robe
with my legs played open, playingvideo games and letting the boys breathe,
you know. But again, again, there's no small children running around my
house. I think we're missing onegiant, giant factor. Your wife's asking

(01:35:00):
you to stop. That should beenough. That should be your gauge,
Like your flag man. That shouldbe your gauge. That should be enough.
Like there'll be a time when they'regone. You can go back to
sleeping naked with your wrinkly balls andit'll be fine. But your wife's asking
that should be the biggest indicator.It is time. And I think if

(01:35:27):
you choose to be naked in yourhome, that's on you. That you
raise your kids any way you want, traumatize them or not. There are
other ways you're gonna cause therapy foryour children, besides you being naked in
your home, so that won't bethe only thing. But when guests are
over, specifically other children, Ithink you absolutely have to be clothed.
Somebody said this, which I thoughtwas interesting. It said, if my

(01:35:47):
kid stays the night somewhere and comeshome and tells me that their friend's dad
is uncut, then they aren't goingthere anymore, and I'm going to jail.
What You're gonna go beat their ass? That feels weird too, Yeah,
only if they're naked when you doit. Yeah, call the police
if you think a crime has beencommitted. You wouldn't beat up a naked

(01:36:08):
man, would you. I wouldabsolutely punish a naked man. Yeah,
absolutely, Oh yeah, give hima good huh. I feel like if
you're wearing I never said that.I feel like, if you're wearing jeans,
it might be I'm not sure whichside of the pant to kick,
but if you're not wearing pants,I know exactly where to kick. I'm

(01:36:30):
not saying I'm the best, butI've been known to crush a couple of
pinatas. Somebody texted and said,you're not naked till you're naked. With
shoes on, just saying, dude, truth, it feels so weird be
naked. I don't think feels weird. Naked with tennis shoes on feels weird.
It does. Why are you wearingtennis shoes if you're naked, go

(01:36:55):
You don't want to stub your toesavage The floor's dirty, right, No,
I don't want the bottom of myfeet touching this dirty floor. Sometimes
you need a little grip right whileyou're walking. And then this one question
for everyone who sleeps naked, whatis your plan if your house catches on
fire in the middle of the night. I don't understand this question. Leave

(01:37:18):
right your house is yes, that'shardly the biggest problem. Me being naked
in front of my burning home ishardly the biggest problem. Right, that's
burning, Yes, And and someone'sgonna help me, right right. The
neighbor comes out because your house isburning down, Give me a towel,

(01:37:38):
they're bringing me a blanket. Yeah, something. My robe is hanging close
enough to my bed that I canjust grab it and throw it on now
if I'm way out now now,if it's the during the day and you're
naked and the house is on fire, that's a whole other thing, right,
right, you have to wait forthe firefighters with their space blanket wrapped

(01:37:58):
in a luminum oil. I don'tknow about you. There's stuff lying around.
I would pull the blanket off mybed, like right, There's plenty
of options to choose from. I'mnot leaving my house in damn hysteria.
Oh and I'm naked, weird,grab a blanket when I pass a door.

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I don't know, this feels likea weird question to at least a
sock or something. You're in theshower, a new house couches on fire,
and you run out soaking wet.You're grabbing the towel. You see
plenty of people that jump out ofwindows when they're cheating on spouses. Grab

(01:38:40):
a blanket. I think the samething would apply if your house is on
fire. Right, all right,we gotta take a break. You gotta
you need some advice, you needsome help. Well, we're here,
we are here, We're here foryou. Show at kmod dot com.
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five kmo D. Good morning,It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine
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what you want to say to eightto nine, four or five. John
Elway came out in a podcast andsaid that his biggest regret was not signing
uh Josh Allen, Oh yeah whenhe had a chance to, and named
some of the other guys that he'ssigned, and the disappointment he thought he

(01:39:44):
was doing the right thing. Andsince Peyton Manning, how many quarterbacks do
you think the Broncos have had?When did he retire? Peyton AD two
thousand and it was like fourteen orsomething. Okay, I'll say they've had

(01:40:12):
twenty fifteen. Yeah, okay,twy fifteen so nine years ago. Okay,
so in nine years four? Yeah, that's the number that's sticking out
my head. I'll do one betterand say five. You guys are wrong.
It's like, what's him? Thirteen? Wow, they've had thirteen quarterback

(01:40:34):
installments in Denver, looking to bemore because they've got Bonnicks, they've got
this journeyman who's traveled around, andthen they've got the uh, the guy
Zach whatever from New England or wherethe Jets or whatever. That was thirteen
tries in nine years. That wouldn'tbe so bad. It was like thirteen

(01:41:00):
in thirteen years. That's one ayear. Also not good. But consistency
is super important. Well, they'rejust consistently bad. They have been.
Yeah, so they're still consistent.Yeah. To think that this is also
a rebuilding year. When they gotSean Payton, they were like, this
is it, We got it right. Nope, you're still in a rebuilding

(01:41:24):
year. Well. The US women'sbasketball team is off to a hot start
at the Olympics. The ladies blewout Japan one two to seventy six to

(01:41:45):
open group play yesterday. Asia Wilsontied for a game high twenty four points,
grabbed thirteen rebounds for a double double. Brianna Stewart sunk twenty two and
grabbed eight rebounds as Team USA scoredsixty four points in the paint. The
women are now fifty six to zeroin Olympic play and will forge ahead in
their quest for an eighth straight goldmedal when Group C continues against Belgium on

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Thursday. The NFL is handing downa punishment to a member of the Texans
defense. Houston defensive end Denico Autreyhas been suspended for six games for violation
of the NFL's policy on performance enhancingsubstances. Audrey said that he did not
intentionally violate the league's PED policy,but he will accept the punishment. The

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Texans signed Autry to a two year, twenty million dollar contract with ten million
dollars gearing teed Beck and March.The thirty four year old totaled a career
high fifty tackles and eleven and ahalf sacks while suiting up for the Tennessee
Titans last season, and the Brownsare hoping their star running back will hit
the practice field soon. General managerAndrew Berry told the media on Monday that

(01:42:54):
Nick Chubbs still has a little wayto go in his rehab from a knee
injury. Cleveland began training camp atthe Greenbrier in White Soul for springs last
week, and the four time probowler was seen running sprints. He started
camp on the pup list as herecovers from last September surgery. It was

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the same knee hurt while playing forGeorgia back in twenty fifteen. And that's
your balls to the wall sports.I'm Lindsay on ninety seven to five km
Ody, Good morning, it's theBig nine Morning Show nine one, eight

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Lindsay, Good morning Gimby, Hey, good morning Corbin. If you want
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(01:44:43):
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nothing sexual, and don't forget,we can and will pass on a
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oh kmod. You can also textBMMS and then what you want to say
to eight two nine four five.I saw this online yesterday. It's a
fantastic question. Worst dream dinner?Who are the three guests that would be

(01:45:13):
the worst dream dinner? Gotta havethree guests? Okay, Gilbert Godfried,
okay, because of his voice soirritating. Okay, I'm going with probably

(01:45:41):
fran Dresser because of her voice beingso irritating as well. Well, her
real voice isn't like that. Okay, I'm just giving you, is it
not? Okay, I'm gonna Westbecause he just irritates the hell out of

(01:46:02):
me. Okay. And his newwife, did they get married? No?
I thought they did. Okay,even if if they didn't, the
one that he tells what to wearand everything, and he'd probably be telling
her what to do the entire time, and that would irritate the hell out

(01:46:23):
of me. And I'd just lookat her and what are you doing?
It would oh, it'd be awful. Okay, kim Be. I'm assuming
I'm cooking this dinner. Sure right, sure, well, yeah, we
meet somewhere, But I'm assuming ifI'm having a dinner party, I'm cooking
the dinner and I'm having people comeover, sir. Number one for me

(01:46:44):
would be Gordon Ramsay, that sonof a bitch to sit there and criticize
everything. Just make him eat yourfood. Oh god, you donkey,
this is terrible. All right,well then show me how to do it.
No, yeah, I think thatwould be bad awesome, you know,
if he could just keep his mouthshut, right. And then there's
the mother of my oldest kids,you know, and you know, I

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then thinking of a third one there. I'm going to go ahead and say,
pull a name out of the sky, Hitler, because he's dead and
it would be very dull, boringconversation and probably smelling, and he's a
monster. I'm going with Elon Musk, his kid who he is disowned.

(01:47:36):
They'll just be bigger and back andforth. Yeah. And then Nathan Lane
from Birdcage. YEA, yeah,that feels good. I'm pretty I'm pretty
happy with that. That's uncomfortable alot of drama happening there. Nathan lane,

(01:47:59):
trying to put in some common relief. Yeah, uncomfortable for sure.
Aaron is waiting, Hello, Aaron, how are you? I'm living in
a dream? Best man on itsshow? Sir? What do you have
for Ustford to tell the truth?If y'all it's best one song for the
rest of your life? What wouldit be? One song for the rest

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of your life? Hmm? Okay? What would yours be? Aaron?
Uh? I think it would beMy love by? Uh Hoby Cooper?
Okay, all right, Gimby,I'm sorry, Lindsay, probably would you

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Houston? I want to dance withsomeone somebody, okay, Gimby? South
Side of Heaven from Ryan Bingham BeachBoys. Only God knows right? All
right, brother, I heard oneof those? Are you okay? Was

(01:49:03):
there an accident? No, Iwent out over a ball. She's a
nice lady eron. All right,have a good one. Thanks for talking
to us. Uh. Who's inyour nightmare? Blunt rotation? Oh?

(01:49:25):
Okay, nightmare blunt rotation? Okay, Snoop Dogg. Couldn't keep up?
Okay? Mmm, Willie Nelson becauseI couldn't keep up, And she's your

(01:49:45):
chong because I couldn't keep up GIMPInobody. I don't have a scenario where
that. Okay, you're thinking reverseengineering, right right right? Nightmare rotation
the mother of my oldest kids andseveral extra and her mom as cool as

(01:50:10):
hell. I'll give her that,but uh yeah, we're just gonna keep
them bitches out of my rotation.Charles Manson, Zoey da Chanel, your
beef with her cracks me up.And Lindsey because Lindsay would try to be

(01:50:34):
friends with both of them. Youknow, Manson is just misunderstood. Man.
No, I I've seen you inwork girl. He's dead though,
so about him showing up? Willit else? It ain't smoking anymore?
So through uh, somebody put ourarmy hammer. Hannibal Lecter and Jeffrey Dahmer

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right because they apparently eight humans.But if you're cooking the meal then or
you're going to a steakhouse, they'renot going to be eating humans. I
wouldn't go to one of their dinnerparties for sure, yo, yeah,
oh yeah, yeah yeah. JeffreyDahmer, you want to come over for

(01:51:24):
dinner? I'm good. I gottaI gotta wash my front yard. Well,
and to be fair, one ofthose is a completely fictional individual,
true, and one of them isjust a hearsay the other one really know
for sure. Yeah, I'm aboutto buy this might be the best to

(01:51:45):
tell the truth. Ever, I'mabout to buy new pots and pants and
want any fan I want any fancyrecommendations. Lindsey m boy, oh boy,
oh boy, I love I boughtHexclad, the one that Gordon Ramsey
uses. That's not cheap. Theyare not cheap. I bought them a

(01:52:08):
couple of years ago for Father's Dayand for Kevin. And they are heavy,
but god are they amazing. Youcan use the steel wool to clean
them. They can go on theoven, they can go on the dishwasher
that you can use. They're they'reThey're damn awesome. Best pans I've ever

(01:52:31):
owned in my life. They're amazing. What what piece did he like?
How many three pans? The smaller, the medium than then the bigger size
one. And they're damn good.And if I could afford the pots,
I probably would get the pots toat least one of them, Like,

(01:52:53):
damn, the pans are awesome,Camby, damn the pan, whicheverone speaks
to you. I don't know sabout pots and pans. Will it cook
my food? Sure? All right? Good enough for me? Does it
hold water? Yes? Perfect?I'm using the same pots and pans that

(01:53:15):
I've had for twenty years, fifteenyears, something like it a long time.
I'm not brand loyal. I wouldlove to have ex Claden. I
just get nervous spending that much moneyon stuff. So it depends on what
you're doing. That's all I got. I usually go to Walmart or Sam's

(01:53:42):
Club or Costco and look and gothose look okay, and that's that,
and try not to spend over onehundred dollars on a set seven hundred dollars
for twelve pots and pans. Theex Claden, Yeah, it's not cheap.
It's not cheap, but buy itright or buy it twice. Everybody's

(01:54:03):
got their reasons on why you wouldbuy inexpensive for sure? What's wrong with
Zoe Dashonel Corman? What isn't wrongwith Zoe Dashanel? What isn't wrong with
her? I don't think she's allright. I don't think she's a nice
girl. I'm sure she's fantastic.Yeah, sure, she's a lot of

(01:54:24):
fun. What could be put ona burger that absolutely ruins it for you,
Lindsey. You know I I don'treally like and I know people are
gonna argue with me and think I'mcrazy, But I don't really like bacon

(01:54:44):
on my burgers. It doesn't necessarilyruin it for me. But I'm not
a fan of bacon on my burgers. Why I like, I love bacon,
Don't get me wrong. You don'tget to take that stance. I
would rather eat bacon plan. I'lleat bacon on my sandwiches, but I
don't like it on my burgers forsome reason. So the same question,

(01:55:05):
I feel like I like to tastemore of the meat itself than the bacon.
I like more of the beef flavorthan the bacon flavor. But I
guess mustard would probably ruin it evenmore than bacon for me. There mustard

(01:55:29):
GIMPI pubes. Well, definitely,I'm gonna go out and add to the
question. Then food item. Oh, no, cabbage. I think cabbage
on a hamburger would be weird.You know. So growing up, when

(01:55:54):
my parents would make burgers, theywould dice onions and green peppers and put
them in the burgers. And soit's the only time I've ever seen it
is when my parents would do that, and maybe that's where my hatred for
green peppers is rooted in part ofthat. So green peppers, absolutely,

(01:56:17):
I would You wouldn't put a sliceof green pepper on top of a burger,
but in it whatever. Uh yeah, fried okra okra which I've seen
fried okra on. I'm not hatingthat green pepper idea though, because I'm
mince up onions and put them inmy meat for the burgers. We think

(01:56:38):
that green pepper would add a littlebit of zest to it. I'm like,
oh, that sounds good. I'mtrying to I'm trying to figure out
why they did the green pepper becausegreen pepper to meat doesn't have a lot
of flavor. I know you don'tlike green peppers. It's got flavor,
then why I put it in.I think the red and the yellow and
the orange peppers have more flavor thanthe green pepper. But I'm just wondering
if maybe they did it too maybemake it no, maybe to thicken it

(01:57:01):
or make it more. It's nota binding agent, yeah, it's not.
Yeah. I don't have a logicalanswer for you. And every time
I brought it up, they toldme to shut up. So see your
food. Would you rather find Roseannenaked in your kitchen cooking bacon or wake

(01:57:26):
up to Ron Jeremy fully clothed,licking your toes. I would rather find
Roseanne naked in my kitchen cooking bacon, and she could be singing the national
anthem for all I care than towake up to Ron Jeremy licking my toes.
Hell, no, gimmey. I'mwith lendsay on that one man.

(01:57:50):
That's just weird and creepy, toomuscousie for me. At least with a
naked Roseanna might getting a meal outof the deal. Yeah, I have
a boundary of toe licking, evenwith my wife. Like, no,
I don't want my toes licked.That's the end of the world for me.

(01:58:14):
That will be the hill I willstand on. So yeah, Okay,
we're all parents now. Sadly you'velost all your dads. If you
could have one brief conversation with yourdad, what is the one thing you'd
ask or say with your new parentalperspective. I wouldn't ask for parental advice.

(01:58:38):
I wouldn't I would ask him toactually play piano for me. I
would. I there was a songthat he used to play on the piano,
and I would do anything to hearit again, just so I could
record him playing it. GIMPI.I would probably say, you or one

(01:59:00):
hundred percent right, and I'm sorry. I would ask him why he put
green peppers in the burgers. Weall want to know it was your mother's
idea. Sure, I mean,I'm sorry, it's pretty good. I

(01:59:24):
have you seen your grandchildren? Idon't know. I don't I don't know
what I would say. It's beena long time. Yeah, I can't
think of an answer that makes sense. I just want to I would just
want to talk to him, right, just to talk. Yeah, thank

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you, Lindsey. I expected moreout of your your out of you,
Chef Corbyn. This is I'd alsolike to have a really nice car,
but I don't want to spend Idon't want to foul dollar car payment.
I don't want to spend that muchfor a pot and pan. Me it
feels like one of those things thatis a unless you cook every day,

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and you cook gourmet meals every day, and I think I personally, for
me, think any pan would workjust fine. Right, you feel like
you're cooking a gourmet meal with thosehex clads, I'm telling you, and
the cleanup is super easy. Butthe one thing I do like about they
are so they are heavy, andthat's what bothers me about them, because
they are heavy. But at thesame time, sometimes you know how pans

(02:00:34):
will get uneven when they when youtake them from stove to water, and
you know you're not supposed to putwater on them right away. You're just
let them cool down and then theyget on even when you put them back
on the stove. You don't haveto worry about that. With hex clad
It's like you can't do anything wrongwith that. What's the number to call?
I have no idea, no idea. Text This is not me.

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I've said this, but texts tasteall the same. No, they don't,
they don't, they don't. We'vetested some other things before. We
couldn't gladly do a bell. Imean, we are the number one show
and we know how to make magic, so I'm for it. We can
do a bell pepper. I willbe the I'll be the cutter. I'm
not the answers they all suck.I'm for it. You get a red,

(02:01:20):
a yellow, and a grain blindtaste test, see if you can
figure out which one is which color. I think that's brilliant because I don't
think you'd be able to tell.I don't think you could get the difference
between them. We did it withskittles. I had an epiphoty last night.
Corbyn. Please tell me when yousay make sure the dishwasher is loaded,

(02:01:42):
right, you mean forks, spoons, knives to be separated in the
dishwasher. I mean there there isa way, if you read the manual
to load the dishwasher a certain way. And it isn't just forks, spoons,
knives. Certain things are supposed togo in certain spots. Right,
Cups go on top, let's goon bottom, Dildos go in the middle.

(02:02:02):
But that saying comes from an interviewwith an ex girlfriend that she says
I berated her on how to loadthe dishwasher for it from fifteen years ago,
right, yeah, a long timeago. That interview happened with her.
But yeah, no, there isa certain way you're supposed to put
stuff in the dishwasher. Are youa knives down or knives up person?

(02:02:25):
Lindsay knives down? Are you aforks up or forks down person. Yeah,
I don't know if there's a rightway to do that. Don't either,
But I just when he said separate, I don't do that. Like
all the forks on one spot,I don't do that. That's a little
over the top. Now, I'llgladly make sure the light switches are in
the same order, but the utensilsare just willy nilly however, and I

(02:02:51):
won't like if two spoons are spooning, Yeah, I'll fix that. Oh
yeah, yeah, because that's howthey don't get cleaned. Yeah. Yeah,
So like there's got to be someseparation. I'm more like I'm more
of a dictator when it comes togetting stuff in. Like I can get
a lot of stuff into a dishwasher, right, but it has zero to

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do with this has to go onthe top. It's more of efficiency of
getting as you know, utilizing asmuch as I can and still making sure
everything gets cleaning correct. Yeah.Yeah. Uh. Cooking instructions say microwave,
oven or air fryer. What areyou picking? Oh all right,
that's a good one to end on. So you're cooking something, let's just
say a slice. You're warming upa slice of pizza, but the instructions

(02:03:33):
say microwave, oven or air fryWhich one are you picking? If it's
a slice of pizza oven, okay, kim be air fryer. Air fry
does a pretty good job. Andit's faster chicken nuggy frozen chicken nuggies.
Air fryer, air fer air fryer. Right, yeah, all day French

(02:03:54):
fries air fryer, air fryer.Air fryer really is a superior you know,
utensil dude. I was at TarSam's Club and they had a one
twenty nine dollars deal on a Itwas pretty big. But the doors open
up and it is a toaster ofan air fryer. I don't know,
testicular cancer tester like it had likesome other thing. It did for like

(02:04:16):
a hundred bucks. That's not ano, a bad deal at all,
I know. Do you remember thebrand? Sure like a ninja. Yeah,
that sounds good. I don't knowidea. I was just like,
oh, that's a lot of moneyI don't want to spend on right now.
All right, we got to takea break. We'll be back.
More of a Big Man Morning Showis next ninety kmod Good morning. It's

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the big Man Morning Show nine one, eight four six, oh KMOD can
also text mmm and then what youwant to say to eight two nine four
five, just to clean up acouple of things that are left. And
apparently this year in the NFL,during the first and second half of the

(02:05:13):
game, they will have to provideteams will have to both teams will have
to provide an NFL coach, ahead coach to speak with the broadcast team.
Okay, now they do this inbaseball, they do it in basketball
and stuff like that, so theywill This makes sense for them to do
it. I can't imagine they're goingto get any inside. Previously it was

(02:05:34):
just on the way into the lockerroom, like at halftime. That was
all they had to do. Butnow they got to do first half of
the game, second half of thegame. At some point they've got to
put on a headset. Oh andthe announcers can talk to them down on
the field, yes, okay,or the sideline reporter has to get to
interview there. Got you. Ithought you were talking like they had to

(02:05:55):
sit up in the boothe no,no, no, no, and talking.
I'm like, well, they're notgoing to get their job done now.
They sit up. No. Duringbaseball games, they put on they
have like headset and he the manager, stays in the dugout and they just
ask him some questions okay, andtakes up two minutes or something. And
that's just for fodder on the airor whatever. In the NBA, if
I remember correctly, what they dois during a commerce they pre roll it,

(02:06:17):
so they do in the commercial break, and so when they come back,
it looks like they're like, hey, coach, what are the BUZZBA.
He's like, we're just team.We're just trying to play his team.
Give as much of kansa team likesomething like that. So I imagine
you're gonna get a lot of insight, like we've got to be better on
all phases of the game. Wejust got to play another sixty minutes and
give it all we got, right, you know, just not executing the

(02:06:38):
way the game plan. If wecan just stick to the game plan and
you know, this plan goes forthe game. So I can't imagine you're
gonna get a lot of insight oranything like that, but I think it'll
be cool. I've always said theyshould sell a premium package that I can
buy, like the Chiefs broadcast andI get to hear the headset, right,

(02:07:00):
which would you pay for the season? Five hundred? You don't even
spend close to that for a gameif you go to a game, yeah,
parking, food, drink tickets.Yeah, so for the season,
every game, potentially playoffs, superBowl two if your team's good enough.

(02:07:24):
Yeah, that seems awesome. I'mfor it so far as like because there's
blackouts restrictions and we don't get likeNiners games like that, But like why
why why would you want to listento what the coach has to say?
What I mean, I get tohear them talk about you know, Patrick

(02:07:44):
has to play better, or thingslike that. NASCAR does this. You
can you can buy headset to hearyour team's headsets, hear them talk to
the driver, okay, right,bitch them out for whatever they're doing,
whatever them whatever, Okay, Okay, that makes sense. Then they'll never
go for it. They're never goingto give away cross trot turkey, you
know, sphincter eight eight, fourto two, your mama's a whoreor on

(02:08:07):
three, right, We're never goingto get to hear that stuff, right,
But I think that would be prettyawesome. For the fan experience and
you get to hear, like ifyou start recognizing some of the calls,
you'll go, oh, my gosh, this is going to be an awesome
play, kind of like when youplay Madden or College Fool or whatever and
you're like, oh, I knowwhat the play is going to be.
You get excited. I don't know, we'll see how that plays out some

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other stuff. Sinead O'Connor the announcedthe cause of death. We talked about
before that she struggled with dependency issuesand things like that, so we all
speculated. But it turns out shedied of a combination of chronic obstructive pulmonary
disease asthma, according to the deathcertificate. Okay, so they didn't treat

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her singing her death as suspicious toconfirm missus O'Connor died of natural causes.
All right, I'm glad we gotthat cleared. She was fifty six,
so no issue. Apparently that's notthat far away for either one of us.
Settled down, Settled down. Richardsimmons housekeeper has done an interview about

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why he was staying out of thepublic eye and what she thinks caused his
death. Okay, which is aninteresting move to make. She began working
and live with him in nineteen eightyseven, and this is her first interview
that she's ever done, and thereason she said she wanted to do it
was to celebrate him. He alwayscelebrated everyone else. So apparently he was

(02:09:50):
having knee probly reason he stay outpublic. Guys having knee problems and he
couldn't jump and move around as fluidly, and he felt like people needed if
he was motivating people, he neededto make people see those things, and
if he couldn't do it, hefelt like he wouldn't be able to motivate
people. That may I could seeI could see him thinking that, she

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says when when she found him,he was his hands were clenched, which
she says is indicative of a heartattack, and she knows because she had
a heart attack and her hands clenchedwith that. I don't know if any
of that's true. Yeah, it'sjust speculation on her part. Yeah,
definitely a correlation for sure, ButI don't know if that's exactly the way

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it happens when we have a heartattack. And it's just her word that
we have to go by on allof it. Yeah, she could have
been keeping him prisoner for all weknow. She said that I want people
to celebrate Richard. He died happy. When I saw him, he looked
peaceful, but his hands were baldin to fists. That's why I know

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it was a heart attack. Ihad a heart attack a few years ago,
and my hands did the same thing, she says. She says she
showed up to work for Richard Simmonsin nineteen eighty six through an agency.
I showed up in here and hesays to me, where are your clothes?
Where is your big suitcase, ofwhich I responded with, I just
bring the little suitcase because I onlyI'm gonna try this for a few weeks.

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If you don't like me, oryou don't like my cooking, then
I can I can't work here.And he says, come in. You're
never going to leave. You're gonnabeat. We're gonna beat together until I
die. Eh. Sure enough.That's probably the only relationship you think I
really had, right, I don'tknow, But if I said that to
anyone, agree it sounds insanely.I mean, I guess that's what's marriage

(02:11:48):
like. Okay, we're gonna betogether we could only stay together and you
can't leave until one of us isdead. Uh. She says that Richard
Simmons was her companion and they werea platonic couple. They lived together,
traveled together. He frequented Italy alot. Apparently they ate every meal together.

(02:12:11):
They exercised, He left notes forher all over the house under her
pillow. They joked they had arelationship. Yeah, platonic relationship. That's
straight up a relationship now, well, platonic. They say they didn't have
sex, but I would like tothink that he was stipping the maid.
I don't think that was his bag. Man. No. I was looking

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around like did he ever have arelationship because he never really made anything public
about it, right, And andshe was with him in the eighties,
like eighty seven is what you said, right, And that was like at
the I don't want to say atthe height of his career, right,
but that was like when sweating tothe oldies was huge, Right. So
I found like the only thing Icould find was like this guy named Daniel
Holt that he it was, youknow, speculated that he had a relationship.

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And I guess Daniel Holt is someSwiss a porn star or whatever.
That's interesting. Sure, some peopledon't need an intimate relationship, right,
which I'm not built that way,right, I need some sort of intimate

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relationship. But he didn't have children, right. I don't know the story
on his parents, but he didn'thave so it makes sense that this person
was his person. Right. Anda lot of people who have maids for
long periods of time are people thatlive in their home to help them develop
a tight friendship. Oh yeah,sure, not everybody treats them like they're

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the help, even though they wantto come best friends. Yes. Yeah,
it's just like when you work together, you develop relationships with people,
right, But to be in yourhouse is a whole other thing. When
in terms of working together a brother, Yes, I didn't know that.

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Yeah, he says of her thatshe was incredibly loyal and a great friend
to him. Okay, but alsothey were police were treating it as not.
I wanted to make sure. Yeah, wouldn't surprise me then if they
had that type of a friendship,if he did leave her money absolutely together
since eighty seven. Yeah, andshe came with one small suitcase. Well,

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I think it was more of likeI'm not being intrusive. I don't
know if this is going to workout right now, not like I just
have my my goods tied up inthis handkerchief tied to a stick, right
right right, all right, wegot to take a break. We'll be
back. Tulsa's Morning Show is comingright back on the Morning show, Tulsa's
Rock Station D Good morning, It'sthe Big nind Morning Show. Nine one,

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eight, four, six, ohkmot can also text be in a
mass and then what you want tosay? Two eight, two, nine,
four or five? Lindsey, what'dyou learn today? Uh, there's
a new Balance sneaker only available inthe parent in the Olympics and Paris.
And there's also a sneaker called OldBalance that was made exclusively for President Biden.

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And I also learned that corbyin wouldn'tgive a good pounding to a naked
man, gimpy. What'd you learntoday? A learn there is a reason
why you don't buy used furniture.I also learn if she's old enough to
breathe, she's old enough to breed. I learned that Lindsay likes the meats.
And I also learn some of youfreaks are waiting for your house to

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catch on fire so you can runinto the street and naked and not look
like a creeper. Corbyn saying,make sure that dishwasher is loaded right,
it's easy. Stop tracking my cycle. Givy Maddy, But can I get
a call? You are with theone time my name? Now? What

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the hell you lay down me?No? Make a noise INTERRPASSWORDR new messages.
The Big Mad Morning Show would liketo take a minute to thank troops
from Oklahoma and all over the UnitedStates. These soldiers have sacrifice. Give
the Big Mad Morning Show before youthe back like the total douchebags that they

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are total douchebag baggy, total incompletedouchebag. We honor and respect you.
We honor and respect you. Wehonor and respect you. DoD Blass rock
and Roll. I blessed Tulsa.We try boys. So I found this

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article where they talked to a stripper, Yeah, and why she became a
stripper, And they asked her abunch of questions. It's really fascinating,
and they asked how she got startedand she says that she was a waitress
at a restaurant. Saw an adin the paper for a cocktail waitress at
a strip club. Went in forthe interview and the manager said she was

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too pretty to be a waitress andthat she should dance, and I told
him to go fuck himself. Okay. Then I figured I couldn't judge it
if I didn't try it, soI gave it a go. It's super
fun. I'm outgoing and I don'thave anybody image issues. It's been great.

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Asked what her stripper name was andhow she chose it, she said
Vanessa. Okay, good stripper name. She says it's easy to say pretty.
Customers think it's sexy and I likev names okay. Asked can you
change your name randomly? She saidsome clubs, yes, some clubs know.
My club puts you in a computerbecause you have so many girls.

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We have over seven thousand on theroster. Wow. So you can never
change it, so you'd be youbetter like what you pick. Some small
clubs you can change it, right. Yeah, you don't want to be
like I'm looking for cinnamon well cinnamonone or cinnamon two well cinnamon toast crunch,
she said. The interview question isis it disadvantageous to change it due

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to repeat client tell or do theynot care what you decide to call yourself.
She says, it is. Ialways choose a name that is believable
and easy to pronounce over a loudmusic cuts down on the what's your real
name bullshit, and as your customersget to know you, they basically fall
quote in love with your character.It can also screw you up if they

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come to the bouncers or DJ askingfor you and you're using another name than
usual. That makes sense, consistencyof the lie, right. What is
your song? Your go to song? I like rock music, so usually
counting bodies like sheep to the rhythmof the war drums, which is a
perfect circle song for those who don'tknow. Okay, so you know she's

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gonna be up there for at leastten minutes. Not what I expected,
No, she said that. No. How much do you charge lap dance
twenty dollars, three for one hundreddollars, Mini VIP two hundred and fifty
dollars for half hour, five hundreddollars for a full hour. What are
you doing in that VIP area?Yeah, and she says, because the

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guy's like three for sixty. Shesays, it's in a different area,
different room. Is three for onehundred because it's semi private, so gotcha
makes sense? Three lap dances andmild conversation, says, the question is
what's the shampoo, champagne, shampoon, champagne room? Really like, she

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says, boring, mostly conversation.Other times I have witnessed over her more
than just a dance. California stripclubs have gone downhill, literally low key
brothels. In Nevada, it's strictlydancing. Extras do occur, but not
as rampant as they do in Californiaclubs. No idea, I had no
clue. What's the largest tip youever received? I once did a ten

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hour VIP which I ended up gettingten thousand, five hundred and thirty two
dollars for Wow. It was fromone guy back in six but that total
came from the price per hour.I would say, just tip, maybe
fifteen hundred dollars on top of theasked price, so you had to pay
the price and then also she gota tip. Of course, what happens

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in a ten hour VIP? Greatfollow up question, Yes, she says,
in my case nothing. The danceI offer is in VIP as literally
exactly the same as on the floor. It's just for an extended period of
time, and I'll usually try toget you very drunk. This guy was
a businessman who didn't speak much Englishand was loaded. We danced, we

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talked as much as we could.I had bouncer bring us a deck of
cards. He was nice. Ihad fun. Good guy. We played
Monopoly. What did you buy withyour ten g's? She set a car.
I bought a little Hyundai. Idon't need anything fancy. Okay.
What's the most money you've seen rain? Another great question? Yeah, she

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said over two thousand dollars. Themost I've ever had rain on me personally
was five hundred. You want tosee some crazy shit throw two g's in
ones on a stage. Girls willdive for that shit like seagulls. Doubt
it. It's a funny line,right, that is you can picture it.

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How much do you tip out tothe DJ, bartenders, et cetera
after a shift? What percent ofthe money you make it a night do
you actually take home? My currentclub the price this follows house fee fifty
dollars weekday nights, sixty dollars weekad night. So that's what they pay
to the club. No matter what. Let them dance there. Yeah,
DJ gets ten percent of gross,okay, ten dollars minimum. House bomb

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gets seven dollars minimum. Funny moneycash out ten percent. So that means
they have to pay the fifty dollarsplus ten percent right to the house.
Wow. So you're losing money justwalking in there. You got to pay
the DJ. You gotta pay youknow, the club, just to dance
there plus ten percent. Right.So if you make no money, like

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you don't make anything, you stillhave to pay sixty seven dollars wow to
dance. Wow. We don't tipbartenders or anything, but any waitress or
bartender who sends me to a customer, I give them ten percent of what
I got at that table, whetherit's one dance or one hour. Okay,
that makes sense. Yeah, whatis a house mom? Because I

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didn't know what that was. Ina strip club, usually a late thirties
to fifties lady who they stay inthe dressing room. They provide supplies,
food, tampons, aspirin, perfume, sort of like your own little mini
Walgreens. They also hold your keysand assess if you're too drunk to drive
home. Okay, it's basically amanager, a mom, yeah, like

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a mother, right, being motherly? How much do you make per year?
So it's hard to say. Iwould estimate anywhere between fifty to seventy
thousand dollars. That's working two tothree days a week, five to six
hour shifts. That ain't bad,I guess in three days a week ain't
bad. No. Uh, doyou guys? Do guys ever stand a
chance hooking up with strippers at night? This is a great question. This

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is the whole reason we're even goingto I'm even bringing this up. This
is so fascinating. She said.There are four types of strippers. Party
girls. They don't give a fuckif they make money. They just want
to get. These girls high probability. They're both very young or very stupid,
or both. If you've got thecocaine, they're coming home with you.
Number two the means to an indgirl, this is myself. Maybe

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they're in school or saving for business, et cetera. These girls are business
women and there's usually a less thana five percent chance. Okay, yeah,
because they're in it for the money. Yeah. Three, the girls
who this is their chosen permanent career, they tend to be a little older,
and are generally pretty smart, butnot mixing business in real life.
Again, not much of a chanceto go home with them. They just

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happen to get stuck into this lifeand made a career out of it.
Right, Yeah, have their boundariesand that's that, right, Right,
probably started off as a party girlkind of realized, hey, there's good
money here, I'm gonna go aheadand continue doing this, or didn't and
just got into it as I justwant to make money. And then right,
you know, the breaking the ideathat strippers are insane and partiers and

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they only want to get high.Yeah. And then the last one here
the girls who do it because theyfeel they have no other choice, usually
bad self esteem, financial hardships,drug problems, high probability of getting with
one of these, all these typeswhere this person dances one and four of
the most common types, so thepartier and the girl with the low self
esteem. As for tips to getwith them by a dance, don't say

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you know how the game works,and don't have to pay, and you
don't have to pay for dances bythe girl drink and a dance, and
it goes a lot further. Don'tbe creepy That's all I can say about
that, as I have never encountereda customer I felt compelled to go home
with. Do you ever get anemotional attachment to your customers? No,
because it isn't me who likes them. It's my character and they don't really

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know me. I'm not myself atwork. I'm a different person. Yeah,
you got to switch it on.Yeah, like you got to become
somebody else. That makes sense.Have you ran across sketchy customers? Oh?
Yeah? Without sounding like a racistship bag, it's always Indian from
India, guys. I once hada guy pay me to pee in a

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beer bottle for five hundred dollars.I had the DJ do it. The
guy drank it, ioled at himbecause he drink the DJ's p No shocker,
this customer was Indian. What thefuck you drank DJ piss? How
funny is that? I guess,I mean it doesn't. You don't know

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piss is piss is piss, andit's not like a female's piss tastes you
know, sweeter or more floural thana man's piss. I don't know me.
I don't know me either. Girlfriendof mine used to bartend at Oh
Cloud nine or I don't know ifit was that one or night trips,
But when she bartended there, shehad a guy that would come in there

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all the time and ask the girlsand her shoot. He would offer them
five hundred bucks to go pee ina glass so he could drink it the
fun. She never did it,but there were girls who do it.
Why not, why said, Idon't understand. Why not? I said,
why not? It's five hundred bucks. It's a piss Who cares.
I'll piss in a jar for youfor five hundred bucks. I don't care.

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But that's weird, man. Peoplewant to drink a shit? What
the fuck? Hey, if anylistener wants to give me one hundred dollars
to piss in a cup, Iwill gladly do it for you, no
skin off my back. I guessmaybe the only reason would be, like,
it's a gateway thing. What doyou mean, said, well,
pissing a cup? Sitting in acup? Yeah, Well, they're like
five hundred dollars. They're like,hey, well you give me your underwear

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for five hundred dollars. And thenit's like, well, now you're on
the hook, right right, right? Yeah, shit, that money so
easy. Yeah, five hundred dollarsyou just peel on my face. Yeah,
jeopardizing your morales is a slippery slopeexactly. Uh. How about Arabs
and Asians? Do you have badexperiences with them? Because she was talking
about Indians, Dot not feather right. Yeah, Asians are hitting miss.

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I'm nearly five tens, so sometimesI'm a little too tall for them,
even though I'm thin. But theones that I do get, especially Japanese,
always very sweet and respectful. ArabsI have no problem with. I
just had five guys from Dubai herelast week and are super generous and nice.
Anyone ever get touchy? When Igive a dance, I outline the
rules immediately, even before I acceptpayment. I always say, okay,

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you could touch my sides, mylegs, and my butt if you're gentle.
No boobs are downstairs, all right? I get them to agree and
get the money up front. Youget one strike. The first time someone
breaks the rules, I say quote, I know it's exciting, but remember
you can't do that. Second time, I walk out, no questions,
I take your money and I leave. Wow, you got your warning.

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Yeah, I gave you the rulesand I gave you a warning. Yeah,
why not just walk away? Itmakes sense. I've never been in
a strip club where you can touch. No, no at all. That's
always been the rule, right,you know it's as far as I know,
you know, no touching the dancersat all, whatsoever. The only
time that i've is when they engage, so like the stripper like grabs your

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hands and puts them somewhere and it'sokay. Then yeah, But even then,
like they'll say no wandering, orthe bouncer will come over and go
no wandering. Right, keep yourhand on the yes. Yeah. Do
you find it hard to tell themen to back off when they start to
come on too strong with the situationchange if they had a large amount of
money? Her answer, nope.This is a business. You have to

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know your boundaries and stick to them. I do not give a shit if
they like me or not, orare much money they have. My rule
is I make the rules. Ihave totally squished a guy's cheeks and yelled
no in his face. I havehit someone with a shoe. I've slapped
someone. I have stopped and lookedin their eyes and said, deadpan,
Now, what made you think thatwas Okay, what's your logic here,

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I've always had the upper hand.You have to and no, money isn't
worth it to me. My dignityis priceless. Girls who break boundaries for
money disgust me. I'm sure there'sa lot of them that do, though.
Yeah, it's a money's a drugman. Yeah. Is it okay
for a guy to get a lapdance if he's wearing thin sweatpants and no
underwear, because there are people thatdo that. Yeah, they go to

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the strip club with barely anything on, or like a pair of like slacks
no underwear on. Yes, thisperson I was just said, a figure.
If you're rubbing your giner on somebody, that would be the best to
rub your giner on, as opposedto like very abrasive like denim or corduroy
or something. Oh like you're doingthem a favor, right, Yeah,
okay, okay, I'm trying tohelp you. Absolutely not. I will

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not do the dance. I suspectedthat. If I suspect this, and
if I figure it out during,I stop the dance. No refunds.
It's not sanitary, you say,like questionable, No, it's it's interesting.
Have you ever made a guy ejaculatinghis pants just by giving him a
lap dance. Her response is Ihave had a guy do that against my

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will, which resulted in a firmslap to the face. I'm sure she
says that it's not sanitary because ofa guy not wearing underwear but and thin
pants, because the bodily fluid wouldseep through the pants. Yeah, but
you could rub your face right rightright if she does that. And also,

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I mean, like, who's tosay that it's any more sanitary than
the pants that you're wearing right now? Exactly? Yeah, Yeah, you
don't know if I've got underwear onunderneath the ye this bitch, the pants
are coming in right, she said, I had a guide a sudden face.

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Are you saying that you don't rubyour butt on dudes erect junk?
That's the question from the interviewer.This is not generally a part of my
dance unless it is in VIP,and even then it's limited. What are
the weirdest customers that you've had.Ballbuster guys, the vomit fetish guy,
the one who wants physical abuse mainlyare weird. But nothing is weird to

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me anymore. He's just vombing onme. Oh god, no, fuck
or squish my ball? Fuck?Man. Do girls ever talk about their
clients afterwards or make fun of them? Oh? Yeah, of course,
dress room talk is gold. Ohyeah, sage that any work? Yeah?

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What is the craziest thing you've seenhappen at a club? I've seen
a dad come in, wrap hisjacket around his daughter and carry her out.
Yeah. No, daughter of mine'sgonna work here. I've seen two
girls sixty nine on a pole atCasta Diablo in Portland, which is a
filthy town. I could never doit. I didn't know if I was

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impressed or horrified. I've seen adouble ended dildo show at Centerfold in San
Francisco. I thought it was bullshit, but I saw it in real life
and bolted. I've seen a girlkick a customer in the face and sad
to say, I've seen a guyattempt to rape a dancer. Wow.
That raping of dancers doesn't surprise meany. Oh guys, yeah, they
just they think they're inferior. Theycan't they can't control themselves. The sixty

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nine ing on a pole I'm interestedin. They were both on the pole.
One's like this way one's facing east, the others facing west, and
are they spinning around while they're sixtynine? And each talent right? I
would I would like to see that. I know the Strip club. It's
pretty famous and it's known for beingcrazy, pretty raunchy. Yes, so

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I don't know how the double thingworked in sixty nine. I don't know
about all that, but Centerfolds inSan Francisco. Of course, be careful,
this is their answer. Be careful. That place is a shithole.
Girls charge up to two hundred dollarsfor one dance because you can do whatever
you want to them for those threeminutes. Won't do shit about it if
you complain either. It's a totalracket. Do whatever you want. So

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if you want to, you know, slap them around, you can do
that. Check their oil, youcan do that. I don't know.
Wow, you can do the question, follow up question, you can whatever,
as in, whatever you want.But three minutes is kind of short,
hence why this is a racket.It's a great place for dirty girls.
You can really make bank in thereif you're a hooker. Sadly,

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if you're like me, you won'tmake shit. Wow, Okay, I
mean I knew centerfolds had like weirdthings that happened but I was never aware
of, like that there was afree for all. Was the girl carried
out by her father, a customeror a dancer? Dancer right off the
stage. I've got to say,like, if I walked into an establishment

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and saw my daughter up there,I'd probably do the same thing. Well,
I don't know. I don't know, because I don't want to see
my daughter. I'd more than likelyprobably just turn around and leave and then
talk to her later after that.That's what I would, You know what
I mean. I don't wanna,don't worry about embarrassinger or whatever it is,
but I mean I get it,do what you do. I just
don't want to see it. Youknow. I can't even fucking look at

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my daughter's TikTok or fucking Snapchat accountwithout being like, get out of here.
Yeah, you know what I mean? I agree. You use the
words dirty and filthy describe a club. What exactly do you mean? Uh?
Dirty usually refers to a club witha lot of extras aka prostitution services,
breastlicking, hj's, BJ's, fullsex. Some of these clubs even

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have live sex shows. You canusually tell when a girl is up for
these activities by the way she talksto you. Also, many will rub
your dick over your pants while talking. That's never happened to me. A
little over the pants, handy,I've never had my penis rubbed in the
strip club. Mmm. Nope.And ninety percent of the time they wear
their hair up for logistical reasons.Yeah, that's because they're given. Yeah.

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Are there usually fights between strippers?Not usually? But I did see
a girl hide in the hallway waittill another girl walked by, snatched her
by extensions, and tossed her onthe ground, proceeding to punch her in
the face. I stepped over themand went about my business. Do you
have a history of substance abuse?Nope. I came from an upper middle

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class family and really, honestly prettynormal. I drink and smoke cigarettes,
but only do these things at work. Why spend money on booze when I
can get it at work for free? And drugs just don't appeal to me.
I respect my body. It's interestingyou say you came from an upper
middle class family. Are class distinctionsvisible among the dancers to you? In
my opinion, yes, generally,The fourth type tends to be from a

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situation with little or no opportunity.The first type either tends to be rebelling
against daddy or again from a badsituation. Second and third descriptions are mixed.
What's the process of getting a jobat a strip club? The parts
for you, lindsay, this ishow you get a job as a stripper.
Do your makeup and hair, selecta nice two piece outfit, Call

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the club, ask about audition times, Drive to the club, ask for
the manager, wait between five tosixty minutes for them to appear. Dance
on a side stage for thirty seconds. They then tell you yes or no
if you're cute enough to be hired. They don't give a fuck about your
personality. No club asks you anythingbesides aside from the occasional if you have

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danced before, which makes sense.They're in it for looks. Yeah you
pretty? Are you pretty? Andcan you look like you have some rhythm?
You after dancing like a lane?I bet you if you got nice
enough right, they let you doit. You never know right but over
They're trying to appeal to the message. They're not niching. That's fun.

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How long do you attend and stayin this career. Uh, I say
fifty percent of my money every night, regardless of whether it's a good or
night or a bad night. I'mhappily married, so my husband and I
are saving up to start a businessof her own, probably two more years.
How does your husband deal with youbeing a dancer. My husband is
a model, so we always saywe have essentially the same job. When

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he does a shoot with a femalemodel, they have to act intimate,
et cetera. For me, Iact like I'm interested. I just do
it topless. I also do notallow touching of any bikini area, even
the boobs, so limiting the contactworks well. His only request is that
I take a shower before bed afterwork, which I totally understand and have
no issue complying with that. Fuckyes, yeah, I don't mean you

(02:38:43):
leave that steaky ass shit in thegarage. Absolutely don't bring your glitter filled
candy snots into our bed. Youuse the guest shower before you come in
here. I don't even want tosee your gear bag. Oh right,
oh god, some new clothes forwork today? You want to see?
Do they have a shower in theclub? Can you use that? Before

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coming home and then shower again,so you don't bring the smell to our
house at all. Do any ofyour friends or family know your profession.
I'm very out with it. Everyoneknows. I have a single dad,
and he basically told me if Iwas okay with it, respecting my own
boundaries and not keeping myself up atnight, he was cool with it.

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My friends most were great, andthe ones who got judgy got kicked to
the curb. Okay, is itsafe to date a non crazy stripper?
There's a such thing. Yes,Honestly, I am very happily married,
totally normal outside the club I leavework at I leave work, and mentally

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stable. Most girls I associate withme are like me. But I'm very
careful whom I make friends with atwork. This is interesting. If she
tells you upfront what she does likefirst date, this is a good sign.
They try and hide it run Okay, So if they disclose to you
and you're trying to date, thenlike, hey, I'm a stripper,
just see you know, then that'sapparently a good thing. Okay, this

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is another good part. What isthe best way of go about asking out
a stripper? I would simply saysomething like, I've really enjoyed talking to
you and was wondering if you're opposedto making friends in the club, because
if not, I'd love to hangout sometime. Mm hmm. It's an
interesting way to put it, right. Don't say take you out to dinner
or anything like that. We hearall night dudes who want to take us

(02:40:31):
to dinner or save us or something. Make it very casual. Don't make
it seem like you're asking her ona date. You can set that up
once you actually meet up with her. So I've always felt that like dancers
and bartenders, it's just off limits, just bad because they get enough for
that shit from every swinging deck thatwalks into the door, you know what

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I mean. So I'm like,I'm I know, I'm nothing special,
so I'm not even gonna fuck withit. If you can go for it,
have fun, but I just assumeleave them alone because they get that
all the time. Anyway. Ionly dated one bartender, and uh,
I was just a customer and whatever. She would start conversations and I was

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like, oh whatever, she's juststarting conversations. Yeah, and then she
would say things, hey, comeback later. I was like, Okay,
and so she knew. I mean, you tend to tell bar you
know, bartenders, things that youwouldn't normally tell strangers. And and so
she knew about my life and whatwas going on with me. And she

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always was the engager. She wasalways the one like, hey, do
you want to go eat something?Like I never because I didn't well I'm
usually pretty oblivious to that stuff.But two, I always like you.
I was like, I'm in yourworld, right, I'm not going to
sit here and be like, hey, try to run your game them.
Yeah, that's probably the best wayto go about it. Yeah. And
she wasn't like she didn't drink whenshe was a bar She didn't. She

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didn't drink, right, and sowell off all those good things. Yeah,
that's the only time. But I'mwith you. I'm not asking no
no, no, no, no, no no no. Reverse like girls
and male bartenders, that's like awhole other thing. Well yeah, because
I mean male's just gonna take sure. Why not you got tits and a

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pulse? Okay, right, you'rethe second or third one I've had this
week, right right? Yeah?Yeah, And I remember telling people with
that girl that worked at the bar. People are like ah. She she
doesn't talk or date or even hangout with people outside of the bar.

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And so once you know the rules, you're you're even a little more free.
I think you're like, ah okay, yeah, no chance, So
might as well just fucking be whoI am, a total funk up right,
And if she happens to like it, then good for you. Good
for you. Uh okay, conversationwith a strip of yeah, fascinating,
right, I love stuff like that, learn about just get to hear.

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And then when they're good, questionstoo and not like have you ever given
her nxttrek? Right? How manyhandies do you do? It? Yeah?
And the person being interviewed has tobe a good interviewee, like to
be able to give response like aI pissed in a bottle, made someone
they drink it, like yeah,okay, open, Yeah. You guys

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have a fantastic week. Last patioparty of the year is next week,
so I'll tell you more about thatlater. Bye bye,