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Speaker 1 (00:01):
National Tour is about to go crazy? Say, did you
want to show on camy ls you outside of what's up? Man?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
If y'all got a ticket, how at you boy? Or
at least put it on Instagram? Why I want to
see that thing? What?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Good morning, Adrian? This morning? Okay?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
How is jeepus his son moving around in that we
he's thinking about scissors rump. Hey man, he's act to
see daddy. Yeah, all right, So kids just here with
us were crushing on you everybody. We're trying to get
some folks together. So this is an ex you're talking about, right,
So what's going on?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Baby?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So I've been in the middle of a breakup with
this guy, Nathan. You know, we were together for like
two years, and kind of early in the relationship I
wanted a dog, so we got a dog, and you know,
now that we've broken up, he wants shared custody of
the dog, and I just kind of want this to
be over. You know, I'm willing to give him a
(01:02):
weekend or something, but I just don't want this to
be a back and forth. We're broken up, Like, I
don't want to have to continue to talk to this person.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I mean, in the man's defense. I mean, he has
been there the whole time too, so I mean you
don't think he got any claim to it, that is true.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I mean, yes, we were in a relationship together when
we got the dog, but we got the dog at
my insistence, like I wanted a dog. I obviously thought
that we were going to, you know, go the long way.
But if we weren't, that the dog would be mine.
And that is the current situation now. I would just
prefer for it to remain that way.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
So what is his argument, Just that he's attached.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
Then, yeah, he's attached, you know, like the dog is hours.
But frankly, I feel like I was doing most of
the work anyway, and I'm sick and tired of dealing
with all of his crap. And yeah, not the dog's crap,
but Nathan's crap. Right, I kind of want to be
done with this.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, You've got not an unordinary issue, you right, when
couples get together like, oh we're not ready for kids,
let's do a sample puppy or a sample kiddie.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
To start whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I guess, you know, and then you know, obviously people,
you know, you treat your pets like kids and then
it's hard to like, you know, when the relationship is over.
So let's see what Nate has to say about it,
and then hopefully we can.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Help you resolve it. Babe, no custody battle over to Pump.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I mean at least they're just talking about it.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
That is true. All right, let's figure it out. Coming
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Speaker 1 (02:26):
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Speaker 5 (02:33):
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Speaker 2 (02:37):
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Speaker 3 (02:43):
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Speaker 2 (02:44):
What's up? Hey, giz here? Hello?
Speaker 3 (02:46):
So Kendra hit us up.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
There's a small issue with a shared pet in this
relationship that apparently has come to an end and now
they're trying to share custody. But Kendra's like, man, I
don't want to drag this on any like, I just
want to be done with it, and he's being insistent.
I'm trying to be cool, but you know, what would
we do? And I was like, girl, like, we got
(03:08):
to talk to him and see what the deal is.
So we're getting your guy on here, Nate, for Kendra
to see if we can help them figure it out,
you know, because that's really it all It boils down to,
y'all just got to talk right, and I know sometimes
that just leads to arguing and it gets dragged out.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
So let's see if we can help and be in
the middle. So, Nate, what's up to sona babe?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Nathan? Did you bits? He man? What up with a
b Yeah? Good morning, good morning. How are you?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
We're blessed doing So.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
We got into a conversation with Kendra this morning about
what you two are kind of dealing with as far
as the end of your relationship apparently, and there's a
little poachy involved.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Yeah, yeah, we heard, bro. But while you keeping on
the dog, Bro, while you being patty with me being petty,
hold on, let me let me set the record street man.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
I know, being her got our own little problems, but
I just want to see my puff man.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
My asking for too much in that situation.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
But at the same time, like it makes things dragon
if you understand what that means.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
So let me let me, let me let you talk
to Kendra about it.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
So Kendra, Yeah, So Nate's here and he's you know,
obviously reiterating what you were saying that he's got an
attachment to the dog, and you know, essentially he doesn't
want to give that up.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
I don't know what might have happened between us to
where the trust.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Is lost, but you know, that's my boy, and I just.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
Want to see him healthy, Kendraer, That's all I'm looking for.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I mean, it's kind of insane to me that you're
saying you don't know whether thus was lost, But like,
why can't you apologize for all of the lies that
you've told me, all the things that you said you
would do that you didn't do. There are all these
issues that we got going on, Like I would just
rather be done with that.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
You don't get where I'm coming from. You don't feel
how I'm trying to get us past this point. And
I still say us.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
So it's not really just about the dog like you
are trying to hold on essentially to figure it out,
is what it sounds like what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
I mean, I feel like I'm getting a lot of excuses.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Well hold on, let me see that's my fate right there.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Let me let me say it.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Man.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
We done talked about moving forward, knowing that we're building
ourselves up as people. I just feel like I haven't
been given a full chance to do that and yet
I've made my mistakes, but I'm so real real love, Kendra.
I just don't want to see something fall apart that
don't need to fall apart.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
He keeps saying that I'm not giving him grace, and
I feel like I've given him plenty of grace. We've
had this discussion a number of times, and it's always
excusive and never an apology. What am I supposed to
do with that?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
So what I'm hearing is nobody's saying what they need
to say. If you guys sit down and talk it out,
you get your apologies, like it would be your time
to kind of step up and be like, I know
that I added to this or whatever the case may be.
Exactly So am I correct in thinking maybe that you
guys aren't really officially done because Nate's using the dog
to keep you around. You're saying you want apologies like
(05:50):
there's stuff to clear up.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Yeah, this has been going on for a couple of months.
I'm willing to listen, but he has to be able
to actually apologize.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Nate, she just gave you an olive branch. Take your brother,
She definitely did.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
I mean, I guess I have to come down from
that that ego trip and yeah, and tell her not
what she needs to hear, but you know what she
deserves to do.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
So this relationship might not be done, puppies, Mommy and
Daddy might be getting together back together. We don't know,
but definitely communication is key, and you guys have to
say the correct things to each other, stop hiding behind
wanting play dates with the pup or like whatever it is,
and really speak to each other like you care about
one another, and maybe things will change.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Absolutely, say which whole chest, Nate, the whole chest?
Speaker 5 (06:35):
I guess I really haven't figured out the right words.
I do still real I guess I just need the
moment to show her that.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
Let me tell you what the words are, Nate. I'm
sorry that's been right there. You guys had like apology
like fourteen times. But Kendra, you played a part in
that too. It takes two to make something go wrong.
So hopefully you two can sit down maybe this weekend
whatever and figure it out and maybe you're not done.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Maybe you are, though that could be the other thing.
We'll see.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Hey, Hella, not both of them sitting there just on
the edge. Wait, don't the other one to go ahead
and be like, I love.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Your bad Well, let me know what happens after you
guys get a chance to sit down and really talk
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Speaker 3 (07:21):
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