Episode 452: Fart Where? (Feat. Hard or Soft Show)

Tahoe and Loon, from the Hard or Soft Show, join the ladies of Lip Service this week for a wild episode! The guys open up about their kinks and fetishes, which include farting and nipple play, their craziest anal sex experiences, sex shows and more! Shouts to these guys for destigmatizing taboo conversations. Enjoy!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What clip service. I mean, Ye, I'm G. G.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Maguire and Illa h TV Kinglin.

Speaker 1 (00:09):
The first okay, the first first, and they are from
the podcast hard or Soft The Heart or.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
Soft the that's right, happy to be here?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Why or soft?

Speaker 4 (00:23):
It's a show that we talk about the things that
make men hard and the things that make men soft.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Okay, so is it your soft eerror?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
I think it's my heart ever at this point, but
it's hard down here because I'm actually more confident about
my sex skills.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
We're glad to hear that for you.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
I've had anxious, anxious moments when my ship wasn't all that.
I've had to eat pushy all night because she wouldn't
do it.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
It was black herd mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
The one time I'm gonna keep it roll with you.
The one time that it really with some ship was
it was a girl. She pressed me. She like left
a note on on my car. She was like her
baby father had died. I knew him, damn. And she
was like, well, you know what it is, you know
what I want. And that ship kind of like was
too aggressive for me. And I always looked at her like, yo,

(01:09):
you're mad aggressive, But I really want to. I ain't
gonna lie, so you like I liked her. I liked her.
The aggression was a lot, and so every time I
came around her it was kind of like and she
was like, yeah, you know, I want that. I'm like okay.
And so she came to the crib and I was
I was a rubber bandband.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Mand what did you have when she came to the crib?

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I probably was sweet pants, like I wasn't. I'm not
going to show up in the door with Do you
like that? No?

Speaker 1 (01:36):
I was just wondering what you were wearing, Like do
you do guys prepare? Do guys prepare? You know how
we're like, okay, it really matters, like what we're wearing.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
You don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
I'm about to get some box fit now for guys?

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Is that or good?

Speaker 4 (01:51):
Yeah? Or good time? All some basketball shorts? She want
you want her to look like you feel comfortable? You
know what I'm saying, Like you want her to be
able to see it but not look mad, horny, mat
overly aggressively like yeah, I'm about to funk something. You
don't want a woman to feel like that when you
walk do you.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Own pajamas or pajama pants or anything.

Speaker 4 (02:09):
I give it to my son, I can't. I don't
like I like sleeping like box beef.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
So no, okay, what about you in your own pajamas?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
I got to pay a lake of pajamas for Christmas
one time with that count.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
What about it? Do you have a robe?

Speaker 3 (02:24):
I had a robe, but somebody stolen Well, yeah, I
know exactly somebody a woman, y'all do that? She stole
my ship?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
Good to make her because I still robes from hotels,
not from men.

Speaker 4 (02:36):
Yo, it's disgusting. I went to my lady crib, opened
the draw. She has mad in my clothes that I've
never seen. I didn't even know she was taking.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
It, so she's like a klepto.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
She like takes it when she doesn't. It's not like
she wears it home. It's like she does goes shopping
when she's leaving and goes back to her crib.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Is it ever where you're like something's missing and you're
looking for something at night?

Speaker 4 (02:54):
No, my daughter does that.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, you just might as well forget it.

Speaker 4 (02:59):
I definitely want among ever right, and they always look
better than me in it too, So it is what
it is.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
Why do you think you're so much more confident now.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
I think confidence comes when you you're not worried about
being judging the more. I think, for one, for men,
finance is a big deal. So I'm a place in
my life where I'm comfortable, So I'm able. I got
to a point where you can't judge me. Other niggas
can't judge me. It doesn't bother me no more. What
another nigga going and say, because you can't hurt me
like that? Women like me, I think a lot of

(03:28):
things A lot of times. If you got enough, you know,
swag with the ladies, you can make certain decisions. Another
nigga ain't gonna be able to do that if he
only could get one chick. If you walk in and
you can almost get your choices, then you can make
different decisions. You can say I'm into this and that
you know what I'm saying, and you like it? You
like it. If you don't, you don't. It's another one
right over there, another nigga that don't have no choices.
He can't do that, and he won't do that, you

(03:49):
know what I'm saying. So I think that confidence comes
from a lot of that. You know, and then I'm
gonna I talk about SEXU all day, and I kind
of know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
So you guys have learned a lot, though from doing
the show, and you've done things that you never thought
you would do.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
What if I'm not done that anything I was going through?

Speaker 1 (04:03):
Oh yeah, is it something that you've talked about that
you still haven't done that you would want to try? Ah?

Speaker 4 (04:12):
They said you want to get farted in his mouth? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Can I listen? How you know why you spreading my business?

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Want somebody?

Speaker 4 (04:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:19):
So you know I ain't gonna front. I was watching
porn one day.

Speaker 1 (04:22):
It was on page like ninety.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
I was watching one day, and you know, like porn.
I'll be watching porn on a shuffle, so like I
might watch like, oh, this thumbnail looks nice, and I
clicked on this one thumbnail. It was like ass worship
and this young lady was like getting her ass and
I was like, oh damn, she got a fattle ass
and then she let one rip and I was like,
oh nah, kind of like that in yeah, so like

(04:46):
it's something I like to do. And whenever I tried,
the chicks don't got no gas. So it's like you
just don't.

Speaker 1 (04:50):
Say you've asked. You do not satisfyed with a quief.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
You need a fart, No, I need that she got
a vibe you.

Speaker 4 (04:57):
Wanted in his mouth.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
The particles in farts, I ain't think.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
I ain't think that far.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
I mean we eat ass right here?

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah, okay, so you've tasted my god, I definitely. Yeah,
there's no way you haven't. If you do that.

Speaker 4 (05:12):
If you got a girl with a bigger asses, sometimes
a little piece of tissue going to roll around and
you just keep going about it, I'm wrong looking.

Speaker 1 (05:20):
At speak from your I ain't going I've had, I've had.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
I ain't No ass was no tissue.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
It has to be an ass.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
But yeah, you don't go ship and then come in.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
However, had a moment where there was a piece of
tissue when he was eating my pussy. We spoke about this,
and I was scarred for life. I was very very
He didn't care, but I was very embarrassed. Sometimes if
you have a cheap tissue paper and ship stick ship
and you don't know because you're not looking, you know,
and he exactly, It's like it's like my pussy was

(05:58):
a nothilator at the time, you know, it'd be like
a little piece of.

Speaker 5 (06:05):
Paper and all.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
Chewed on it.

Speaker 5 (06:08):
You definitely the guy with the paper on it.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Has it ever been bad enough where maybe like she
really didn't clean her ass properly and you had to
be like, yeah, non he slide out from under here.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
I will say no, not for me.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
I ain't gonna hold you, like if I'm so the
thing with me, I've I've come to the conclusion I'm
like some real freak nasty nigga. Okay, So you know,
once I got my personal interest and we situated, I
ain't gonna hold you coming home from the gym, like,
let me get that for you, get in the show
you no, no, no.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
No there you.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I ain't gonna lie. I ain't saying it wasn't no
line an somewhere I've gone.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
I've gone pretty far though, Like I remember a time
she caught her period while I was beating, and she
was like, on, let me go clean it up, and
I was like, nah, you ain't gonna clean it up
when no tissues get down there, and she went and
she started sucking it off. I ain't gonna when she
was finished, I kissed her, Okay, is that like.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
No, that's not snow that it tasts like pennies.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
I just.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
Like, we're kind of nasty, but we're not going all
the way. You never told me that.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
So you what about eating period?

Speaker 4 (07:21):
The woman watching on I've been there before, right, Yeah,
I suck suck, Yeah, I sucked it.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
A little bit of ketch on the glizzy.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
I'm not going no, what you don't put ketchup on you?

Speaker 5 (07:33):
She said.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah, I'm saying like I did it.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
I really don't like blood.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
Okay, what about with the tampa to the string, No,
that's I was, like I said, I was sucking the
tip up.

Speaker 4 (07:45):
I was sucking. Get that thing all the way in
and all that all I do is turn the lights off.
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
I just black out.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
But it's not I ain't gonna lie. I only have
like maybe twice.

Speaker 4 (07:57):
But y'all go though, like you gotta got it. I
want to know there's no drawing lines in Chicago.

Speaker 1 (08:08):
You know you just asked me that.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
You really want to know that. I just said, nothing
is wrong with eating ass, but nobody's eating no shipty
as Okay, that ain't sure.

Speaker 1 (08:22):
Just saying it's like an Albo and you guys do
ain'tal also, right, I try, you try.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
They don't be working out receiving or giving what.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
You mean, giving well toys, you know, but it don't
really it don't really be working for me, Like I
be so mad at him because he just be out
here just ain'tal in a way you know me. It
don't work for me, like it's too big. No, I'm
not saying that at all. I'm not selling dick on
this podcast. But my share a little curve, you know

(08:54):
what I'm saying. So they be having like technical got
the curve off like a.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
Skateboard round captain hook. It's good for okay, what would
it be good for? For squirting? You make your squirt
a lot?

Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah, I get that.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
Who knews.

Speaker 4 (09:19):
I gotta work now, I got to angle my.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
B You got to get there, you.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
Squirt squirrek, nothing like that.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
Now have you ever gotten shipp on your dick from anal?
That happens right all the time, damn, But I've never
had that happen to me. I mean, of course I
don't have a dick, but I've never I've never you know,
had anal sex and the guy thank god, because that
would be so embarrassed.

Speaker 4 (09:49):
I mean, my first experience, if I got a second,
if my first experience is pretty bad. What happened because
I knew she was into it, We was into it
at the time. But we was in the hotel and
I'm rocking her ship. Like first we in the I'm
in you know, regular, and then I'm like gonna put
it in there. So I threw it in there, crazy

(10:12):
in there, and she's like, I got a ship. And
I'm like a head funk that and she's like, no, seriously,
I got to sit. So we on the edge of
the best. She got a big old butt, So I'm
rocking her ship. She's like, no way, I got a ship.
I got a ship, and she's like, bucks me off.
But I like, I was falling, so I grabbed her
and we both fell off the bed and like she

(10:32):
landed on this ship while it was in it, and
when she landed, she tried to jump up on you.
It was everything. It was everything. It was the hotel.
It was like all.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
You didn't stop.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
I was cracking up, laughing, charge you for that up.

Speaker 4 (11:02):
It was team effort, but yeah, it was. It was embarrassing.
So I wasn't gonna let her do it byself.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
You are good. She wouldn't have jumped up and ran
to the bathroom. Would you have kept going?

Speaker 4 (11:11):
Depends on smell. See that's another thing. That's another reason.
Sight and smell is big for me. So smell of
pool definitely what they took me out, Like, I just
just got my thing.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
What breath?

Speaker 1 (11:23):
The amount? It depends on her diet.

Speaker 4 (11:27):
Was I remember the look of it and it wasn't good,
or maybe it was good because you know, vegans, y'all
got a different They got a different diet.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Diet really mean a lot with sex.

Speaker 4 (11:37):
But you already have accidents. When you do anal, you're
gonna have accidents. And the best thing you do is
to make her feel comfortable about it. You go clean
it up. You know, you don't make a you'll make
a fuss because then they won't want to do it again.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
That's kind of you.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
That's like responsible men gotta be responsible what they do.

Speaker 1 (11:52):
Yeah, that's very kind.

Speaker 3 (11:54):
Got to have sexual responsibility.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Now, you guys, we were talking about aggressive women, and
so I feel like guys always say they want a
woman who is going to be more like take charge
in the bedroom. But you guys are talking about women
who like are like take off the condom and things
like that, and me kind of telling you what to
do in the bedroom. How aggressive do you like a

(12:17):
woman to be?

Speaker 4 (12:18):
Like?

Speaker 1 (12:18):
What is the what would you say? There are some examples,
because some things it feels like might be too much.

Speaker 4 (12:25):
I don't like being choked me personally, Okay, I don't
like a woman and making me feel like we in competition.
But I will say like I'm a dominant god in
a bed like so I ain't really you ain't really
gonna be telling me to do much. I'm really like
a type. I think I'm more of a time. I'm
not really submissive god. We speaking about that in this
we show I'm not really a submissive god, but definitely
taking the dick definitely, Like.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
What about getting slap? You don't like? I was going
to ask that too.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
I ain't really know all that. You know, I've been
reading a lot when I was a kid. I ain't
slapping me, but I'll do it. I'll do it with
a woman. You know what I'm saying if she tells
me that's what she likes. But even that, that's kind
of weird. Because I don't really know how hard to
hit and all that. I don't want to take your
head off, you.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (13:09):
What about suffocated, I'm not with none of that.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
That's association. So you know when and when you are
about to orgasm, if you hold your breath, it intensivizes.

Speaker 4 (13:23):
I've never tried it, and I will try it, you
know what I'm saying. But just just hold your breath.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
Will let her cover your mouth and your nose just
in that moment when.

Speaker 4 (13:32):
So, would you like to put a belt around somebody's no, no.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
No, like that association to recover your mouth and your
nose from temporarily.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
Why y'all put my business out on the streets. I'm
just going with the right.

Speaker 1 (13:46):
Now you've gotten your breath taken from you.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
They tried that kind of thick though. They don't really.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
Like multiple women persons interest at the time, you know.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
But to answer your question, though, I was just actually
speaking about the same exact thing last night. So I
feel like like I'm a TOP as well, but I'm
like a different like I approach things kind of different.

Speaker 1 (14:11):
I don't know that we say top in our relationships.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
So top is really more so like a sexual dynamic
or like a relationship dynamic, you can say, because it
goes beyond sexual, you know. And I was talking to
a young lady last night and I was like, yo, like,
I'm a dominant nigga in every aspect of my life,
from work to relationships, friendships, family, whatever. That's what I do,
So I can't really help how I move like in
a relationship. However, though, if I fuck with you, like

(14:35):
if I fuck with you, you might lemonade right here
right we together. I'm gonna take care of you. But
the one the best thing you could do for your
shorty is make her feeling powered. So there will be
times we'll say, you know what, yo, you strong, you smart,
you intelligent, you know what to do. You got this.
We're gonna do whatever it is you want. You're gonna
call the shots tonight.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
So you tied up?

Speaker 3 (14:55):
Uh yeah, I've been tied up. But you know, but
even in a situation where she's calling shots is because
I'm a live her too, So I still feel like
I'm kind of calling shots.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
Did you enjoy it?

Speaker 3 (15:04):
Yeah? I enjoy making my feel happy, but.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
I'm not Besides that, you enjoy being tied up with it, okay,
because some guys are really nervous freaking.

Speaker 4 (15:13):
It's not my thing to some broke.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
From home depot. And you guys like toys, right, speaking
of the toys bought his gifts, Yeah, thank you, thank you.
We each got a nice little closing the dark that's
really special, that romantic because we know that's my favorite color.
And there's a gift card it's the Dark Roads. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
I love toys. Okay, that's one thing. I toy.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
If you have to give a record, Like let's say
somebody is listening and they've never used to, why.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
Did you just out your pocket?

Speaker 1 (15:54):
Just that was your pocket.

Speaker 4 (16:01):
You know what I'm saying. I like.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
What color is checked the colors it's checked off, whatever
your color is.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Why are you always doing this in front?

Speaker 4 (16:14):
Because I like toys. This is really one thing, and
I think more men should use toys.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
I don't think.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
I was doing their show about a month about a
month ago, right, so I had I'm talking about a
big old sack of toys, and I was just like
one after the next, and the next and the next.
I was amazed. So I'm I'm not actually surprised that
he's pulling them out of every podcast right now because
he has that. He had that when I was there.
It hasn't been used, Okay to make sure, but you

(16:44):
know what I'm saying, I feel like that was.

Speaker 4 (16:51):
This because you don't got to really hold it. You
just literally just put it on his ship and it's
just like there.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
A couple has never used toys before and they were
to start getting into it, what would you recommend to
them to kind of ease into it first?

Speaker 3 (17:04):
Well, you know, everybody's different, So like, save me. If
a dude is like me, right and he got the
same sensory that I have, I recommend getting some nipple plays.
I like like nipple play like O meto, so you
love your nimbles, play with Jesus Christ here breastfeeding.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
You know what's crazy is a lot of men love
that sensation, love it, but won't admit Yeah. So that's
the fact. We've had a couple of guys up here
who have said how much they really do like that,
and the other guys like, nope, nope, no for some
guys that don't make them come really fast. Okay, well,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (17:40):
It's about to sound man unusual, but actually bought me
my first pair of nipple toy you feel me, He's like,
not the ones that he gave me A hope not.

Speaker 1 (17:50):
But I'm saying you like I just.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
I like toys. I have a sponsor called They send
me all types of things. So I personally have used
so many different toys. Said I have a sex.

Speaker 1 (18:00):
Machine using those deals like yeah, yeah, So answer the
question would you recommend as a starter toy for a
couple who hasn't quite ventured into I.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
Think for men the best thing is a cock ring
most like, especially like what rabbit is. The reason I
like that is because it's visual for the woman, like
he could just have it on under his underwear and
when he when she when he undresses, it's there. She
sees it almost like nipple rings.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
Right, and it makes him stay hard.

Speaker 4 (18:30):
It makes and you should be throbbing. Have them that
she can control the vibrations. So for that, it doesn't
push him into it doesn't. They don't. It doesn't really
push because a lot of guys, especially black men, were

(18:51):
scared of doing too much. Being too freaky is like
it's it's it's not the thing. So doing something like
that it could kind of ease him in doing different.

Speaker 1 (19:00):
See and tell her you've messed with it with Like
the guys that you've messed with in Chicago, they have
any of them ever been like let me do this,
let me try to have any of them moved out
a sack of toys on you.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
I won't say nobody pulled out a sack of toys
because I got my own collection.

Speaker 5 (19:18):
But it depends on who they is.

Speaker 2 (19:21):
I don't just meet a nigga like what's up?

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Check out out? From the guys that you've dated, have
they ever been like, let's try this? Has that because
I've never had a guy want to use toys? I don't.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
Yeah, for sure, I done have a couple Okay, but
that's because I'm extra sexual too. If you're not really sexual,
they might just kind of limit how they move with you.
Like hey, I'm like, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (19:45):
So it's like, that's crazy how women will come down
to where a guy is at sexually. She will have
all of this other stuff that she's willing to do,
but if she know that his body, she would just
exist where he's at. Y'all will never really define the
find your own sexual experiences and you should, well.

Speaker 1 (20:04):
Not for me.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
It depends that might not be why I'm dealing with him.
So if I'm really just on that, I might just
want to handle some business with them, or you know,
just get some money.

Speaker 5 (20:14):
You know.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
So I ain't really worried about that, you know.

Speaker 1 (20:19):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (20:21):
Like you said, I don't just pop out the bag
on everybody though, a lot of times, here's I got
the dungeon like like.

Speaker 5 (20:36):
Like that, like that, here's what I have in my pocket.

Speaker 4 (20:39):
You got to read people. You can't just pop that
on everybody. That's not a vibe, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
It's hard there for guys to know how far you
can take it to because you know, a lot of
guys would act like they not with nothing. Don't you
think like a lot of guys that, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (20:57):
Women will judge a guy and really ruin his whole ship.
So we a lot of guys got to stay in
their masculinity because they scared of a woman judging them
and then taking it back. I remember a chick I
used to you know, we're talking about putting fingers in butts.
Me and her started sucking around. She on Twitter. Oh yeah,
he got a little booty. I had three in there.
I'm like, yo, that was not three, bro, it was

(21:20):
not No, it was two. We were doing it together.
We spoke about all this.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
He just tooted up, like some of about this word.
It's joining me.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
Doing a lot more.

Speaker 2 (21:37):
Let me ask you this, since we're talking about two
and three.

Speaker 5 (21:42):
Do you feel like.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
It's a difference between the fingers and a deal though?
Like Pagan because some guys be like Pegan is just
like hell no, you ain't. But something's actually like being
you know, if they comfortable, you can do whatever.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
So the first time that I ever got my salad
toast right about as old as Jamaican lady shout out
to her. She we spoke about doing that before we
did that, and like, I better something you want to do? Yo,
fucking that was like me first breaking that glass, Like
all right, nigga, we hear you are freak out. So
she did it, and she's doing it, and she's doing

(22:17):
it and I ain't gonna lie. She tossed the finger
in there and I was like, no, I don't really
like that, you know what I mean? So I can't
really speak as far as like Dill do or anything
along the lines of that. But I just know me personally,
I ain't really open to anything going up there like that,
Like that ship not.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Pleasant, Okay, you just don't like the feel of it
or is it the idea of it?

Speaker 3 (22:35):
No, I didn't like the feeling Nigga she had some
claws on.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
Her and it was put on that. I'm sure I
don't really like hings in my butt.

Speaker 4 (22:45):
Yeah, I didn't. I was good on exploration. I'll do
anything like once you know what I'm saying, but the
fingers in there, it ain't. It just don't feel and
women don't really be knowing what they're doing. They just.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
But what are you supposed to do?

Speaker 4 (23:02):
I don't know, but whatever was done. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (23:11):
The clips that we got from their show with me
talking about and one of them is that like I
have a million views, insane.

Speaker 5 (23:18):
And I don't know.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
It was the one that when I said I want
to pay somebody. So it's crazy how men be like, Oh,
I ain't into that. I would never do that, but
that's the what we talked about. So many things we got.
I got four clips on their shows Instagram and the
one about Hagen got five hundred thousand views that above.
That's insanity. But anyway, so I did a little little demonstration,

(23:40):
you know, a little tip. You know, you go from
tongue to the finger, and if he likes that, then
maybe two. But you're not like, you know what I'm saying.
You can do a little early, you can do a
little come here. You gotta yeah, you gotta you know,
you gotta make it flow haaf for neess. You can't

(24:00):
just be all like you know, I'm gonna tell you,
y'all speaking from experience, I know men that if that
will like, if I a right, I'm gonna speak of
a specific person. There's a specific person that I've de
would in the past to where I would like, once
I knew that that's what he liked, I would not

(24:21):
do it because I knew he would ask for it, okay, right,
And it really got to the point where it was
it almost became a game for me, Like I was like,
I ain't gonna you know what I'm saying, I'm gonna
put my tongue down there, but I ain't gonna give
him no finger action.

Speaker 5 (24:33):
And then he literally would be like.

Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yo, he wouldn't say it like that, but you know,
grab your hand, yeah, so you yeah, like I would.
I would be you know, facing and like drinking his dick,
and then he would take my hand and put my
hand down there, like take my hand off of from
and then put my hand up.

Speaker 4 (24:51):
It's a lot in your brain, right With women, I
think that y'all close your eyes, wh y'all getting ate
out or whatever, because y'all putting y'allself in that move.
And it's the same thing with men. If I know
that you do it well and you there give me head,
I'm like, y and why didn't you like I'm waiting
for that now? And that was one of the reasons
why I never want to do it when I was younger.

(25:12):
I ain't gonna hold you. I didn't want to like
it that much like what I didn't want to like
it turned out. And then because with the next girl,
she's like, you know what kind of like.

Speaker 3 (25:27):
You know, you know what it is too to even
piggyback over what you said when you was like women, peggyback,
when you said, as women, you don't know how fun
you can take it. I can't speak for all men.
I ain't the post boy for niggas, but for me,
the number one thing I was scared of was like
somebody thinking I'm gay. So it's like certain like what
you said, Mashould, I wanted, like you want to do that?
But nah, niggas gonna think I'm gay? You feel me once,

(25:50):
I just got over the fear of Yo. Look nigga,
you in the Chicks, you know you in the Chicks.
The chicks on you in the Chicks?

Speaker 1 (25:56):
What the woman is want like nipple play so much?
But when did you discover that?

Speaker 4 (26:03):
Yo?

Speaker 3 (26:03):
It's that's a funny story. This girl I was dealing
with you, she wants to do that ship so bad.
She was like, Yo, we had just finished, Like, Yo,
can I ask you something? I'm like what. She goes,
you gotta promise you're gonna say yes. I said no.
She was like, can I lock your nipples? I said no.
She goes, I said that's gay. She goes, no, it's not.
I promise you're gonna like I said, yo, I said no,

(26:25):
I don't want to do it. Stop bothering. So I
go to sleep. Right, So you have like woken up
with some head like you woking up with fake you
fake like in a dream like damn.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
So I'm sleep so so I'm sleep.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
You feel me, and I'm like, damn, what the fuck
feel like this? I put my hand in my pitch
on the grab my head. Ain't no head down there,
so look she right here. I'm like, oh no, you
gotta stay right there.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Yo. Thing.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
A week later and I'm sending titty pictures on Snapchat,
all types of ship like, you know what I'm saying.
So she that was definitely the one thing that turned
me out. I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
So what was you doing while she was looking on them?

Speaker 3 (27:02):
I was sleep at first, and I woke up. I
started moaning and ship. Then I grabbed the head and
I'm massaging her while she's doing it. You know what
I'm saying that I'm playing with the whie. You know
what I mean. So I'm really sitting here like you
knew you was moaning. I was here with the Oh,

(27:23):
shut's tough. I was like, damn, I was.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
I was like, yeah, you keep going, don't stopping.

Speaker 3 (27:30):
I told you shut up.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
So now when you're with women, do you let them
know like I like this or how does that happen
for you?

Speaker 3 (27:38):
Andy? I literally asked you to do it like I
because I have to get it now, even when I
be jerking off, I'll be having to just like, Yeah,
the left one, I kid you, not like it's a
part of my right The right one he don't get
no love. The left one is man sensitive.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
So I just be saying it's the right one for me,
you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 4 (27:58):
Way more come up and do that.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
You know, when when my nipples are being played with,
I get more stimulation from the Like if I.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
Just flicked this ship, I'm gonna get wet. I got.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
Some other things that you've tried, you know after this podcast.

Speaker 3 (28:20):
Well, you know I've I've never tried to dom somebody.
It happened twice. The first time, it went pretty well
second time.

Speaker 1 (28:28):
How is that different than being a tap? Like, what's
the how do you do pretty much in the same round? Yeah,
so you were the dominant. So would you be dismissive?

Speaker 3 (28:35):
No, No, I can't be that strict. I don't. I ain't
gonna say never, but so you've been. But you know
the thing about it is the.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
Way you left your left nipples.

Speaker 3 (28:46):
Oh my god, I'm gonna put it on child support.
She got left I.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Would do it if she liked it. I'm into giving
my woman pleasure. So it's certain ship I would do
just because I know you like you know what I'm
saying like that, I think, like, so, if you want
to tie somebody, I think a lot of women one
of dom or one a top, So I would do
that just for them to get that experience. Only thing is,
and we're speaking about this this week, I don't think
I would derive pleasure from it, okay. And I think

(29:12):
that's literally the difference between if you're a top or bottom,
or a dom or a sub as if it can
make you nut, you know what I'm saying, Like, I
don't believe that if you flogging me or tying me
or doing shit like that, then I'm like, oh, like,
it's just not my thing. I'm gonna be like, you know,
I might laugh, you know what I'm saying, and fuck
up the whole move. So yeah, I dig that. Like

(29:34):
when she she did Velma, she came to my crib dresses, Velma.

Speaker 5 (29:37):
What is something that.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
Again that will make you sof What is something that
a woman has done, not will do, but has done
that instantly made you like, nah, this ain't it shorty?

Speaker 3 (29:47):
Oh shit?

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Literally, I like the way he kicked it.

Speaker 3 (29:52):
Oh man, Nah, you go first. I gotta I gotta
put this together, something together.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
I would say, hygiene is big. Like I've dated women
with big butts and they bend over in the middle
of their buttes and lotion like the outside, Like I
know that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
Wait, the middle of the butt isn't but the outside is.

Speaker 4 (30:12):
So it's like right there.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
But big butts chafe also, so you're sure it wasn't
just the color of the skin and not that.

Speaker 4 (30:21):
It was Well, I got lotion for it. I mean,
I got what's interesting that.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
You don't mind a girl having some ship in her.

Speaker 4 (30:30):
I'm very visual. I'm very visual and I'm very I
like audio and I like video. So if I see
it and it just it could turn me off. I'm
just But like I said, I did go get oil
and rubbed it down and all that.

Speaker 3 (30:46):
So for me, I don't like when women get embarrassed.
So like if like you know what, I got it
one like one thing that I love. Back to farting again.
I like when I hit it from the bag like
that ship fought when I pull it, so I'll be
like playing making music and ship.

Speaker 4 (30:59):
I like, you know, you.

Speaker 1 (31:01):
Know when you pull that and put it back in.
Sometimes that gets air traffed.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
I love a little you know basing that.

Speaker 1 (31:08):
Has that ever happened to you? Ladies, like you ever
got the air and your stomach hurts until it has happened.
That's happened to me. It happened to me, and I
felt like it was a little excessive, So the nerd
and me went and googled, and basically what happens is
as a woman, when we are being pleasured or we
feel pleasure, our muscle relaxes and we uh, we kind

(31:31):
of open up in a way to let you in, right,
So then once you're out, we have to close back
and then that's the that's not a lot of ship though.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
You don't run, Do you know that you're not supposed to?

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Women get embarrassed? Yeah, because the air gets it does hurt,
like when the air gets trapped, blowing the box from
blows in the box.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
Google it. Make sure that nigga don't do that ship
I've heard that you can.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
And also make sure you don't suck on it too hard. Yeah, yeah,
because that is the worst for sure.

Speaker 4 (32:08):
Tell me, I'm just letting me do whatever, y'all ladies
have me thinking like I was doing something for all
my life and I did not know what the I
was doing. I did not know where the hood was,
I didn't know what the head, what the clip was.
I'm sitting there just in the pussy going crazy because
that's what I see him porn. Why would y'all let

(32:29):
me do that? I'm doing this for?

Speaker 1 (32:30):
You?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
Would me?

Speaker 1 (32:34):
Personally? I am going to give instructions. I want to
not like, do it like this, do it like that.
But when you're doing something that I don't feel pleasure in,
I will voice that up.

Speaker 5 (32:46):
Having if you do it like.

Speaker 1 (32:49):
What you're doing, When you're doing something that I like,
I'll encourage that, like.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
Oh yes, you can tell me to go faster, you
can tell me go slower. Oh do it that what
he was doing look the inside. Give it to me
in a sensual way that makes me feel like I'm
actually winning.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
You know what I'm saying, Like.

Speaker 4 (33:09):
Why are you sitting there and allowing me to move
out the right spot?

Speaker 1 (33:12):
Ladies, it's okay to tell him that he's doing something
that you don't like. Tell me that, because sometimes you
shift and they think it's because you like it. Yeah,
and it's really not like it. Yeah, we want you
to stop.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
Now.

Speaker 1 (33:24):
Let me ask you this. You talked about watching porn.
Some people will say that porn is detrimental to sex
because it makes you have like this unrealistic, realistic idea idea, Yeah,
what you should be doing? What do you think of that?
What do you think about watching porn and the impact
that it's had on you in the bedroom as far
as what you do and how you please a woman.

Speaker 3 (33:44):
I feel like when I was younger, porn was definitely
like a blueprint or format for me to like run
off with. Once I'm old and I have some common sense,
I started speaking to women, I started getting feedback, I
started trying to perfect my craft, and you know, and
I started going from that. So, like I will say, like,
if you don't really have no idea of self or
like sexual awareness and you just going based off porn,

(34:04):
your sex life is going to be by suita, Like
it's really gonna be in the toilet, you know what
I mean. So I could definitely see how porn for
the most part, has definitely negatively impacted well sex amongst
you know, all of us men don't really talk to
women that much. You know I'm being honest, Like, oh,
do you think it's a joke? Like as you you
ask tell you in there, how many chicks are you?

Speaker 4 (34:23):
Ask? Yo?

Speaker 3 (34:24):
Do you leave his a? What are you content? What
could I have done better? What did you like? What
do you don't like these questions?

Speaker 1 (34:28):
That's podcasts like ours and yours are very important and
like people like to be like, oh, every time I
turn around, somebody talking about sex. Get to turn off
the microphones. But every day we'll do every day is
something that is It's like, you know, have food in
a sense where there's not a lot of birds and
the bees conversations you know, with the youth, and there's
not a lot of you know, interesting conversations with that

(34:51):
you're having with your partner because some people just be
scared to speak up. And then you come to you know,
places like lip service and harder soft, and then you
can hear from the aanswerspective, from the women's perspective, and
we really do be teaching.

Speaker 4 (35:03):
I think that the reason why I love our show
part of me is because men don't talk about sex.
Women have lingerie parties, women talk to each other about
a lot of different shit. And it was okay. And
I don't know obviously that y'all haven't had that for
the you know, for generation. This is something that just
this generation kind of has done, made it more Maybe
in the last twenty years, women are able to speak

(35:23):
about the experiences more normal, But niggas, it's still taboo
for niggas to say anything about failure, anything about anxiety,
anything about like what do I do. I've had people
email me and say, Yo, your show has helped my relationship.
We've been married for seventeen years and the things that
we're doing now is like it's blown out out the water,

(35:45):
Like we're happier than we've ever been sexually. Because I
didn't even know I could have these type of conversations.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
And that's great. I love when people come up to
us and we'll be like, I listened to me and
my husband or me and my girlfriend. We listen to
your show all the time, and it really does help us.
Like people that I would never think would listen to
lip service really come up to me and would be like,
you not listen to your podcast lip Service. I'd be like, what, But.

Speaker 4 (36:07):
I have a question for you. You started this. I
want to say Candy started her Candy Corded Nights. I
remember that I was in at Atlanta. What made you
have the balls to do this fifteen years ago? With
twelve thirteen years ago when you was on Serious, because
that was taboo, Like what made you think?

Speaker 1 (36:23):
When I first started this, it was how long ago
was it I started lip Service? It was longer than that.
It was probably about seventeen years ago. But it started
off as a segment. It was called slutted Out, And
it's so funny because Pinky has her study vegan restaurant,
but slutted Out was basically like about women sletting out

(36:43):
the men. You know what I'm saying. And so the
way I started it, it wasn't celebrities. It was like a receptionist.
It was an attorney. It was like different everyday women
with day holes, just talking about like sex, because I
think the main thing was that all women, no matter
what line of working, and like everybody's and so for

(37:05):
it was very education. And when I was on Serious,
it was a lot of men that listened because I
was on a station that was a hip hop station,
and there's a lot of truck drivers that used to
listen back then. And a lot of truck drivers are men,
and so a lot of the guys were really tuning
into that segment because they were like, this is amazing,
Like we're learning a lot. We don't get to hear
this anywhere else. And then it turned into sirious being like,

(37:26):
we want to give you your own show. And so
that's when I ended up doing lip Service. It went
from a segment on the Morning show with Cipher Sounds
to having my own show because they were like, it's
doing so well, we want to just give you a
whole entire show about it.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
Shout that's.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Really yeah. And I think people think we started the
podcast like and that was, but it really was a
show before that. And then I remember like a lot
of people would tell me like when are you going
to bring lip Service back? Because even Nicki Minaj when
she came on The Breakfast Club, she was like, I
missed when you had lipservice and you would like have
fun and talk about things, and I was like, I
miss it too. But I was when I started The
Breakfast Club. I was so focused on trying to make

(38:08):
that show, like I wasn't trying to do anything else.
I was just really focused on that because we wanted
that to be successful first. And then once that was cool,
I was like, all right, now it's time to be starting.
And we started with August Alsina. That was our first
yeah that we did. And shout out to August because
he has his skincare products line now and I love
to see how happy he is in life after everything that.

Speaker 4 (38:29):
He's been there. It's amazing to see. To piggyback on
what you're saying. There's so many people that act like
this is taboo, These conversations are taboo, but they go
home and try to shoot. And that's that's the thing.
Like everybody does this ship you know what I'm saying,
And that's what I'm saying. Guys. I know y'all gonna
be like, oh, these niggas, But I bet you if
you went and went and got you a cock ring

(38:51):
and just put it on it, it's not no crazy shit.
You ain't gonna play with nobody's bud. You ain't got
to do nothing.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
You don't even got to get anyone at first.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
Regular you want to see ains and ship you.

Speaker 3 (39:11):
I don't have a problem with the cock ring, but
just don't put no dicks out of your pocket, like,
just don't.

Speaker 4 (39:14):
Do that's one of each pocket each.

Speaker 3 (39:18):
That's not no regular ship.

Speaker 4 (39:20):
Listen to your don't know and now I got one too?
What's the problem?

Speaker 3 (39:23):
Mind is natural? I didn't get that off amazon.

Speaker 4 (39:26):
Ever been double penetrated? No?

Speaker 1 (39:28):
Are you scared of I don't like things in my
butt though, just like similarly now like my but do
do a but blog or not? So if that's the case,
then yes, I've been double penetrated.

Speaker 4 (39:39):
Have you ever had beads? Pop? Pop pop? I don't
like the beads, ain't I don't like at a time
one and one out. That's the thing I don't like.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Guys, use antal beads too.

Speaker 5 (39:50):
Yeah, I tried to beats, wasn't I never.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (39:59):
Sorry guys. I had a prior engagement and I missed
last week's episode with Lisa Ann. But shout out to
Lisa Ann because I always credit her for the tips
that she gave us that got me back into ANAL
because I had took a hiatus away from ANAL and
I kind of felt like I didn't really I was
scared to dive back into it because I didn't really
feel like I knew what I was doing, and Lisa

(40:20):
Ann gave us some tips. And that was when I
tried the beads. The beads wasn't for me. But the
butt plugs that the size are ones, Yeah, that's yeah,
I got. I got like two or three different Yeah.
They always say if you want to try in on
the butt plugs, the other way to go to get
yourself prepared. And and she also told us to use
silicon lube silicon based loub versus water based loop.

Speaker 4 (40:40):
I told your butler, Yeah, you did tell me that.
How long your buttlug? Do you walk around? Do you
go like places with it?

Speaker 5 (40:47):
No?

Speaker 4 (40:48):
I know somebody that went to work and would sit
at work with you.

Speaker 1 (40:52):
I'm not doing that.

Speaker 3 (40:53):
I'm not doing that.

Speaker 5 (40:56):
Wow, but I'll put it on to pregame.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's a notch because it's a nice surprise when he
been you over and that ship. You know what I'm saying,
Like it came off. I had somebody call up my
show and tell me that she does that, like she
keeps it in at work all day. You know I can't.
I fell asleep and it was and it was uncomfortable,

(41:28):
and you know, it was uncomfortable. It wasn't the plug
being inserted. That was uncomfortable. It was the stopper part
that was my butt cheeks was like squeezing it and
that was uncomfortable.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Okay, yeah, I had to bend over and she had
one in and it had my face on it.

Speaker 1 (41:42):
It had your face.

Speaker 4 (41:45):
That was nice.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
She really cared.

Speaker 4 (41:48):
I would have rather her face on.

Speaker 1 (41:49):
Yeah, to see yourself my head, my face is right there,
would make my pressure.

Speaker 4 (41:59):
Someone.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
No, I don't do anything that's not that's.

Speaker 4 (42:12):
Do y'all feel funny about a guy when he likes
to do butt things Because women told me that they
like that. That's what I started.

Speaker 1 (42:19):
I know when I was younger. I remember a girl
I went to school with told me that every guy
she's ever been with, she's like put her fingers in
his butt. And she was like, they all like that,
even if they tell you that they don't or whatever.
She was like, if you just but I've never had
a guy want me to well, never express to me
like that he wants me to do that. And I
also feel like I would be too scared to try

(42:39):
it because some guys would be like, So my theory
and I'm experienced, right. My theory is there are some
men that I just know from their energy that I'm
not going to try them like that period. And even
if I go to like put my head down there
and I'm stucking the balls and I really hit the
taint and you know what I'm saying, and I try

(43:00):
to see it and know they'll be like, you know
what I'm saying. So yeah, back up, back to the ball,
raise up. And then I'm not I'm not just sticking
my finger, as much as I would want to, I'm
not just gonna go finger first. I'm gonna go face first.
Does that do anything for you or is it just
the power? It's the power, Okay, it's the power that

(43:22):
it gives me because it's the power, and it's the
it's I'm a pleaser, and and guys that like it
really like it. So the fact that I know that
I'm pleasing my partner and a point because you can't
like half like it, like it's no, no, no, no, no,
you don't like it. Yeah, there's no either you like

(43:43):
a little finger or you don't.

Speaker 5 (43:44):
You like a little tongue or you don't, And that's okay.

Speaker 1 (43:47):
But yeah, I'm not just gonna try any man. I
just I know better. Now we started this up with
You're talking about an experience and not being able to
get hurd and eat it pussy, you know for our nights. Now,
what was it that like you were just you said
you were anxious?

Speaker 4 (44:03):
Man. I remember I did a play party. Now we
throw play parties. We have a big community of you know,
very free thinking, open people. You know. We got to
do the Discord and stuff like that, and we started
doing parties. And one of our parties I had, I
think it was my birthday party, right, and I had
like an experience with like thirteen women, Like literally they

(44:24):
hung me up on a chain naked bro and they
had him spinning like a Boston Market chicken and makipples
and they had like the vampire gloves scene. But yeah,
they had me fucked up.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
But you've seen it.

Speaker 3 (44:38):
I was right there.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
You were there while he was naked spinning. Yeah, didn't
feel crazy like I say, he took.

Speaker 3 (44:47):
Honestly, when you being on this show, we kind of
I mean, I kind of want to say, like I
kind of seen it all, Like it ain't really too
much you could throw me. It's going to shock me
there on my friends spending like a fucking chandele lid
against dick Lick.

Speaker 1 (44:59):
Okay, okay, So honestly.

Speaker 4 (45:00):
We've been past that were not obviously we are heterosexual.
But at the end of the day, I've seen a
lot of my female friends at the parties. I've seen
them getting the shit, but we've so they had their Yeah,
so they have like a contraption with chains and then

(45:23):
they tie you up, like is that a playpar We
have maybe eighty one hundred people there and it was
two floors. It was like a chacuzzie there all that
people's fucking the chacoozi. People fucking all over the room.
And they came to me and it was like, we
are surprised for you. And they came over to me
and they strung me up and a bunch of women
came over to me and We're all over my body

(45:44):
doing all types of things and I couldn't move, And yeah,
it was it was pretty intense.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
Did you orgasm?

Speaker 4 (45:50):
No? I think I was just too sense. We overlooked
at that point, and I think I was since we
overload for the rest of the night because we wind
up having the orgy with maybe twenty people there. And
this girl, she's giving me crazy head, and she just
kept hopping and I wanted your Her body was crazy
and I wanted to do somewhere, but I wind up

(46:10):
just eating pussy like the rest of the night. And
then some other guy came and bent over in front
of me. I'm eating somebody pussy. I look up. She's
bent between my legs looking at me like, I just.

Speaker 3 (46:24):
Think you couldn't fuck me.

Speaker 1 (46:25):
I'm just like that was some cup play on your
part then, and another guy was backing her, so you
were just witnessing.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
It was indirectly.

Speaker 4 (46:39):
Becauseism right, I didn't derive pleasure from that.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
That's I think that's party the nigga steal a doub
he was about to get.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
That's basically.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
Kind of like you couldn't do it.

Speaker 4 (46:51):
I wish I could, but I don't think a cook
can't do it, So I think, yeah, they can.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
But I'm saying this is particular instance. He didn't steal
her from you. It's just she was like I tried.

Speaker 4 (47:03):
She tried to ask, So is.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
It a woman's fault if you can't get hearted? But
it was more on you, It wasn't on her.

Speaker 3 (47:10):
No, your body Sometimes, yeah, I don't think it's ever
really a woman's fault. It'd just be sometimes sometimes that.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
Make us feel like, what did we not do?

Speaker 3 (47:17):
I ain't gonna from one time I had a no call,
no show, and I was like, come on bro, all
days my nigga, like, I done brought this chicken gift?

Speaker 4 (47:26):
You feel me?

Speaker 3 (47:26):
I ain't get no box? Yeah, I'm like file against
the box.

Speaker 4 (47:29):
You pull up with the gift where they're.

Speaker 3 (47:30):
Like I look so down. I'm like, yeah, yeah, you
feel me take it off. I pull it out my
shoes and I'm just like, isn't me. I'm like, nah, man,
does that not happen to you? I have a no call,
no show.

Speaker 1 (47:42):
I'm trying to think I've ever been with a guy
who couldn't get hard.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
Not one time.

Speaker 1 (47:47):
I honestly, at the top of my head, I can't.
I can think of a time when a guy wasn't
all the way hard. It was like it happened to
me what happened to me?

Speaker 5 (48:00):
Because I had to think about it.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
He was hard and then he wasn't, or he was
semi heart and it never got all the way. So
you know how when you like almost there and you
try to put it.

Speaker 5 (48:09):
In any way.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
It was that situation and that's my worst in the moment,
you know, But in hindsight, there was a conversation and
he was intimidated.

Speaker 4 (48:22):
It happens.

Speaker 1 (48:23):
He said that, like, I like, I wanted you for
so long, and when I finally had you, I just
was so intimidated, like I didn't want to under delivered.
I just couldn't even bring myself.

Speaker 4 (48:33):
Did you give him another chance?

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Well?

Speaker 1 (48:34):
I told him that I would, but it never happened. Damn,
it's always so he definitely that happened. Yeah, then what's
crazy is I ran into him, not very recent but
within the past, like I don't know, a year or so,
and we had a conversation about it. He was like,
I still owe you a and I'm like, yeahself.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
Without paid, it's not gonna for the ladies.

Speaker 1 (49:01):
You ever had a problem where you just couldn't get
wet for it? Man, Like that ain't happening. I mean, yeah,
I think if guys not doing no for play, because
sometimes guys will like when they're used to being with you,
they think they could just stick it in and they
don't have to do anything, and that's a little something.

Speaker 4 (49:18):
Yeah, but you never had like you just had something
on your mind. It just like you had situations works.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
I had times where I had to really focus right
and I think about what.

Speaker 2 (49:31):
Yeah, that's the thing, just think about it.

Speaker 1 (49:33):
I think it takes between men and women is guys
be trying not to come and we be trying to come.

Speaker 4 (49:38):
That is the thing.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
Yeah, we'll be trying to make sure that we come.
And if you do any little thing, it can mess
it up. It's not our fault. It takes us longer.
And I think that women, well, I don't know about
all women, but like for me, consistency is good. So
like if we're almost there and it's like a rhythm
and then you break that rhythm, that's.

Speaker 4 (49:59):
I hate the fact that y'all. First of all, why
is it taking you so long? I'm in this one position,
you like, stay right there. I'm trying to stay right here.
My shoulders is burning.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
We don't know right there, you don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (50:14):
I don't know what I'm hitting.

Speaker 1 (50:16):
Listen. It's not great for us either because we were
rather we want it. We want it just as bad
as you.

Speaker 5 (50:20):
Want to get into it.

Speaker 3 (50:21):
Man plans in here for the last eighteen minutes, I
don't turn off the TV. Now you lost to nothing.

Speaker 1 (50:26):
Speaking of time, ME like that. Realistic time frames go
as far as for what like a sexual from beginning
to end play because you included, because you're not, I'm
gonna beat it up all night and we don't want to.
It's twenty three minutes, I mean twenty three minutes.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
Play and all that I mean, but good random number.

Speaker 3 (50:46):
So it's only two scenarios. Do I got work or
do I not got worked? If I got worked seventeen minutes.
If I'm off today, you get a call.

Speaker 4 (50:54):
Forty five Okay, that's true, forty four that's true.

Speaker 1 (50:56):
Or if it's at night before.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
You go to bed, oh you're getting six.

Speaker 4 (51:02):
Sex sucks morning.

Speaker 1 (51:07):
I like nicetime. I like to go to sleep after.
I don't care what time of day it is.

Speaker 4 (51:12):
I think one pm sex is amazing.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
I can tell you what I'm not doing, though I'm
not waking up and making them ass.

Speaker 5 (51:19):
That's a nighttime.

Speaker 4 (51:21):
You can't.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I do not as morning b ass that you just
slept in all that as man, my titty sweat up.
Other than I can imagine what's happening in your ass.
Craig overnight put in my face down the shower.

Speaker 5 (51:40):
Then you know it's a different story.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
But it depends on the person if you're really into
the person.

Speaker 4 (51:45):
Y'all.

Speaker 2 (51:45):
Wake up, y'all, it's seven in the morning. You just
want to wake them up to sucking in the morning.

Speaker 1 (51:56):
But you don't want no morning.

Speaker 5 (51:57):
Ass is not a morning.

Speaker 1 (52:01):
To each his own.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
If we wake up, you can have me for a
hot baby. Just I'll beat them brown.

Speaker 2 (52:07):
You know what my pet peeve is and some women
like it, but I hate it. It turned me off
if it touched me.

Speaker 5 (52:12):
Get the off me.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
I hate sweat. Okay, sweat drip on me.

Speaker 5 (52:19):
It's like whatever.

Speaker 1 (52:21):
I don't really like sweaty sweat like, but it's nice
to have guys that are.

Speaker 5 (52:28):
Especially if they on top of you and.

Speaker 4 (52:32):
Drew on you. Drool is different from I drew the
my chick air one time. She was like, the reason
it just came out.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
The reason why I was because you can't control sweat,
you an adult. While you out here, I was knocking
it down and she was I was over her and
I just drooled and she.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Just went right in her She's like, Okay, that's gross.

Speaker 4 (52:59):
I see that.

Speaker 1 (53:00):
To me, that just shows how excited you are.

Speaker 5 (53:03):
That won't bother me.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
You just have something coming my eye recently.

Speaker 5 (53:05):
I want to kill this nigga.

Speaker 1 (53:08):
Your lashes on, I ain't have no lashes on glasses.

Speaker 5 (53:12):
We have every single pair of my glass prescription.

Speaker 4 (53:15):
I need to see you know what's crazy? Though I
wouldn't say this, I know we gotta leave soon. Women
get mad when a god don't come. Y'all really be
bothered when a dude don't. I don't be thinking about
that ship like I don't. I want you to do
like that's I just want you to know. If I
don't know, I'm good. But if y'all don't not, it's

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a rare y'all be bothered.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
It's a rare thing that a god doesn't come right.
I don't know. I don't know about getting mad. But
if I'm sucking your dick for too long and I love,
I stopped. So if I'm sucking for too long and
that's the purpose is for you to come and you don't,
I'm like, I don't like you. Guys, hold back on
that and have.

Speaker 5 (53:57):
Purpose. Just let it out already.

Speaker 4 (54:00):
Actually love. When the woman want to suck.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
For hours, nobody wants hours I don't know about hours,
but I want to continue to dick. But if I
get to the point where I feel like you not
coming on purpose, like come on, I'm pulling out all.

Speaker 4 (54:17):
Is not coming on purpose, trying to hold back.

Speaker 1 (54:21):
You want me to keep doing it like edging but
not mastered. So don't edge while I'm talking. You did right,
get it up with yea.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
In three minutes, move.

Speaker 5 (54:32):
On on it and then it's gonna be.

Speaker 4 (54:36):
For sports. So has a problem.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
You like to waste chicks time, that's your problem, right.

Speaker 1 (54:41):
We don't like these straight at.

Speaker 3 (54:50):
Uh yeah, they nice to look at It will always
be for her job, No, but I wan't want I've
seen one that was I'm not offering, but I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
They told me got pretty feet, so I'm yeah, because
I got the because I got the bone poking out,
or in a comment.

Speaker 5 (55:09):
Like that onion, I'm like, God, give it to me.

Speaker 4 (55:12):
I like to do foot jobs.

Speaker 3 (55:15):
Yeah, I saw one that was she wanted to do
it on the show.

Speaker 5 (55:17):
Actually all right, okay, foot fetish.

Speaker 1 (55:24):
And he was telling me that, he was telling us,
yeah that he.

Speaker 5 (55:28):
Get foot jobs.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
He got one done in the car outside the Barklays no,
not as primary.

Speaker 4 (55:34):
What was the logistics in that? How did she was
in the car so she went sideways on him.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
I was at the club one time and a guy
next to me, the girl sitting in the Christmas was
giving him a foot job while he was in the club.
I was like, all right, I didn't mean like he was.
It was like it was my homeboy, And I was like,
what do you knew him?

Speaker 4 (55:54):
Yeah, that man was out in the regular club.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
It was a girl sitting across from him. She we
were all together and he was getting her. He had
his pants on that. But listen, you guys, the heart
are so we appreciate y'all for coming through. Honestly, I'm
glad that we were able to make this. This collab happened. Yes,

(56:18):
you Knowlla also has her podcast on the way give
It to Say It. That's the name, So who going
say it? So me and I'm gonna say it period.
So we're gonna put up in Chicago, you know me
and about to be on that. So when you guys
are in Chicago to you got to make sure you
come to see her her story vibe. That's why these

(56:40):
teens are front and her outfit in Chicago.

Speaker 4 (56:47):
Mm hmm, definitely.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
I know you got the ladies you want to buy.
He's in the relationship. Actually she's engaged. You can't do nothing, no,
but he can buy his woman. Yeah, okay, all right,
and I got that stuff too. Okay, I haven't been
in women's stuff. It's about to be tricking, you know, yeh,
tricking season the summer.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
Suns.

Speaker 3 (57:10):
I don't go the winter and the suns catch me
a Memorial Day.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
All right, But we appreciate you all for coming through
so much, like we had a good time. I seen
him Brooklyn, and thanks for give I had. I know
my gloves and that's it's my glowing the dark nails. Okay,
all right, it's list service service