The Master Slave Lifestyle.com Podcast

The Master Slave Lifestyle.com Podcast

Explore the reality of Master/slave relationships, kink, and consensual BDSM. Through in-depth interviews and honest conversations, we reveal the lives, challenges, and growth of people embracing power exchange — from Masters and slaves who have lived together for decades to those overcoming shame to live a life true to themselves. We go beyond the surface to explore the emotional, psychological, and spiritual layers of this lifestyle. Hosted by Master Phil — coach and educator on lasting M/s dynamics — and downloaded over 100,000 times worldwide. New to M/s? Start with our free guide, built on years of conversations, coaching, and lived experience from Masters and slaves around the world. Download it at MasterSlaveLifestyle.com/guide. Safe. Seen. Sure. And Uniquely Yours.

Episodes

October 16, 2025 43 mins

What does it take to create and lead a thriving Master/slave household while integrating deep personal growth? In this episode, Master Celiste shares her journey from slave to becoming a covered Leather Master and leading the 12-member House of the Kinky Misfits. She discusses how shadow work shaped her early years, why clarity in language and contracts is critical, and how compassion and humanity can strengthen power exchange lead...

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In part two of our conversation, Master Spot opens up about life inside his household — from managing multiple slaves across continents to balancing protocol, care, and responsibility as a Master. You’ll hear how Spot structures 24/7 power exchange with long-distance slaves, why protocol is the “flesh and bone” of his relationships, and how he balances strictness with compassion.

This episode also explores what it means to grow int...

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Ever wondered how someone moves from curious submissive to leading their own household?

In this special part 1 episode, Spot shares his journey through the Master/slave lifestyle — from his first online dynamic and becoming an owned slave to founding the House of Spot as a Dominant. You’ll hear how he balanced love and long-term commitment, vetted potential partners, and embraced abundance, energy, and intentionality to create a un...

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In this Light & Shadow episode, I explore the key role of the King archetype in the Master, and what it takes for a Master to transcend mere dominance to embody the greatness of a King.

I will cover the virtues, responsibilities, and the nuanced balance required for a Master to lead, inspire, and nurture along with attributes—purpose-driven leadership, resilience, and authentic integrity—to forge a Master who is revered and res...

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The podcast is back!

In this interview, I sit down with Barclay or Leather Edge, an amazing voice in the leather and kink community. Barclay is deeply respected worldwide for his insights into Kink and authentic power exchange. He hosts his own popular podcast, where he shares reflections and guidance on navigating the kink lifestyle. In this episode, we dive into his life and 30 year journey into kink and discuss the importance o...

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In this episode, I explore the archetype of the 'Lover' in BDSM relationships. While the word 'Lover' often conjures up images of passion and romance, in BDSM, it encompasses so much more: empathy, connection, innocent energy, vulnerability, and ego.

But the Lover archetype isn’t all light. It also has a shadow side—the Addict, the Disconnector, the Nihilist. Together, we’ll explore these dimensions and challenge the stereotypes ...

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Dive into the story of Michael. This episode takes you on his extraordinary journey through the complex world of FinDom (Financial Domination). Find out about Michael and his story as a submissive who later transitioned into a Dominant within the FindDom community, only to confront and overcome the alluring, addictive nature of this facet of the power exchange scene. And how now, in the end, he is discovering his authentic self.

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In this episode, I peel back the layers to uncover the often overlooked aspect of the Master/slave dynamic – the Master as a Lover.

When we think of the Lover, our minds instinctively turn to thoughts of sex. However, within the realm of BDSM, particularly Master/slave relationships, the Lover archetype takes on a deeper meaning. It becomes a conduit for connection, a bridge between desires and the profound need for authentic human...

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In this episode, we sit down with the enigmatic Sir Kaiju, delving into the journey that led him from the realm of submission to the commanding world of dominance and as an expert fister. The episode includes an informed primer on the intimate art of fisting without the influence of drugs, the importance of mindset in opening up to this unique experience, and how dominance intertwines with this visceral act, and why Sir Kaiju fi...

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In this episode, we navigate the intricate dynamics of a BDSM slave, viewing their journey through the lens of the magician. Including the importance of openness to training and how critical growth and reflection are in order for a slave to be successful. Join me as we unravel the "Safety Officer" concept within, a guardian that protects and potentially obstructs our desires.

We'll dive deep into the shadows cast by the Magician a...

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In this thought-provoking episode, I embark on a deeply personal journey with Nate, who shares their remarkable story of self-discovery and acceptance.

Raised in a staunchly religious and conservative environment, Nate grappled with a secret, a truth about themselves that they were initially afraid to confront.

Join me as I explore the moments of realisation, the weight of a conservative upbringing, and the profound spiritual ...

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September 1, 2023 23 mins
In this thought-provoking episode, we peel back the curtains on the enigmatic interplay between the Master and the archetype of the Magician.   We cover how this can make the Master unique with the ability to transform the slave to new levels of submission, but also, when in the shadow, can turn the Master into an unfeeling manipulator who cares nothing for his slave.  

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August 4, 2023 39 mins

Find out the importance of the role of slave as a warrior and how it helps the slave to serve well and to give up on materialism for the greater good of serving a Master. But also how in the shadow it can lead to a slave to destroy themselves.

The warrior, often associated with courage, strength, and purpose, has long captivated our imaginations through epic tales and cinematic portrayals. But what happens when we explore the warri...

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Step into the alluring world of Master Richard, a realm where power, desire, and unyielding dominance intertwine. 

Master Richard’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of self-realization. Discover the pivotal moment when he embraced his true nature as a Master and embarked on an extraordinary path of self-discovery.

Delve into the captivating stories and intimate reflections as Master Richard shares the trials and t...

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Join us in this thought-provoking episode of Master/slave Lifestyle as we explore the intriguing world of archetypes and delve into the warrior archetype in particular. In our exploration, we shed light on the profound connection between the warrior archetype and the role of a BDSM Master.

Discover the essence of the warrior archetype as the embodiment of action, power, and purpose. We examine how the archetype represents integrity...

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Discover the captivating story of slave Charles, a man who, after 66 years, defied the societal pressure to discover his true slave self at the age of 66. This episode takes you on an unforgettable exploration of charles' life, his struggle with identity, and his courageous decision to embrace his authentic self as a slave.

I delve into the depths of slave charles' experiences, unearthing the challenges he faced in acknowledging an...

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In this episode, I speak with a Master and Kink researcher - Dr Richard Sprott, about Kink identity. We delve into power exchange, community building, headspace, and the relationship between kink and sex. With 13 different dimensions and 4 super dimensions to explore, the episode offers a comprehensive look at what makes up the rich tapestry of kink identity and how this relates to Masters and slaves.

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Discover a Master’s journey from a performer to a Sacred Kink 24/7 Master. I explore the depths of sacred kink and how it works, and how the Master and slave found each other and pushed through their fears and boundaries, and how they live 24/7 without living with each other.  And how you could start to use sacred kink yourself.

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Listen to the fantastic story of Boss Benjaman and his Alpha Switch Alex talking about their polyamorous Master/slave household. They discuss the actual reality of the lifestyle, what they have done to make it successful, and the issues they have faced.

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In this episode, we speak to Thumper (from Denying Thumper) and find out about chastity and orgasm denial. We talk about why it can be such a turnon, how one experiences prolonged chastity and orgasm denial and the mindset needed for it. And why it can be such as joy to the person. Finally, find out how how to choose your first cock cage/chastity belt and how to go more serious and deeper into chastity.

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