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Have you ever noticed how fear shows up in marriage? It’s not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes fear whispers. It looks like withholding how you really feel because you don’t want to be misunderstood. It appears as distance, when avoiding a hard conversation feels safer than being vulnerable. Fear builds walls—quietly, slowly, and over time.

But trust? Trust opens doors. Trust invites God to be the center. Trust turns t...

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Faith is more than a Sunday-morning declaration—it’s a daily walk. In this episode, we unpack what “living out your faith” really means, especially within marriage. Together, we’ll explore how to bring faith from words to action—in the way we speak, forgive, and serve each other every day.

If you’ve ever wondered what faith looks like in real life—not just in church, but in the quiet, ordinary moments of marriage—this co...

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Have you ever noticed how the way you see your spouse shapes the way you treat them? When you focus only on their flaws, your words can become sharp and your patience thin. But when you choose to see them through God’s eyes—through His love and grace—your heart softens, and your connection deepens. In this episode, we’re asking: Who do you say your spouse is?

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“Do you love me?” Jesus asked Peter this question three times by the fire—not because He doubted Peter’s heart, but because He wanted Peter to say it, to reaffirm it, to make it known. In marriage, that same question can linger unspoken: Do you love me? And, more importantly, how do I know? In this episode, we explore why reaffirming love through both words and actions matters—and how simple, intentional practices can de...

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Have you ever been in a conversation with your spouse where you walked away thinking, “They just don’t get me”? Or maybe you thought you were listening, only to realize later that you completely missed the heart of what they were really saying. Listening isn’t just about words—it’s about understanding the language of the heart. In this episode, you'll discover how to really listen to your spouse's heart. Alright, let's d...

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Have you ever gone through a season in marriage where things just felt… off? Maybe a little distant, a little disconnected, or just kind of stuck?

If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re kicking off our new Questions Jesus Asked series — exploring powerful questions from Scripture through the lens of marriage. Our first stop is John 5:6–8 (NIV), where Jesus looks at a man who had been stuck for 38 years and asks:...

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Even when there aren’t any “big” problems, couples can still feel a quiet distance. In this episode, we unpack three easily overlooked habits—certain patterns that act like barriers—that block couples from achieving a deeper connection in marriage. We’ve struggled with at least one of them ourselves, so if you recognize any of this, don’t be discouraged. Choose to take a step forward so you can enjoy a more exciting and ...

Do you ever feel like when you try to share your feelings with your spouse, it doesn’t land the way you intended? Maybe you’re simply trying to resolve an issue and be honest, but instead your spouse reacts defensively, gets upset, or feels attacked.

You don’t want to sweep things under the carpet—because you know that leads to resentment—but you also don’t want constant conflict. So, how do you express yourself in a ...

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If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage.

Curious to find out? Alright then, tune in to list...

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We all know that building a thriving marriage takes effort. And when we think about strengthening our relationships, we often jump straight to the “how-to” tips — more date nights, better communication, deeper intimacy.

But what if there’s something you need to stop doing first?

Over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to create the deeper connection and intimacy we long for, it’s not about doing more — it...

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Feel like you’re juggling a million things—kids, work, home life—and your marriage sometimes takes the backseat?

In this episode, you will discover ONE simple shift that can help strengthen your marriage starting today… even if you’re raising a family and don’t have a lot of time to spare.

It's something that has helped us grow in our relationship—even while parenting three children, living far from extended family, and ...

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Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage that seem to be pulling you and your spouse further apart? If so, you're not alone.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandingsq may be happening more often — and what you can do to change the narrative in your relationship.

Alright, let's dig in!

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Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.

Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode...

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Submission has picked up a lot of baggage over the years—and not all of it is biblical. In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the most common lies about submission in marriage, including the belief that it means passivity, weakness, or one-sided obedience.

It’s time to strip away the distortions, return to Scripture, and rediscover the freedom found in God’s original design.

Let’s do this.

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We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process.

Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!

We’ve both had to play that role at...

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Have you ever had a fight in your marriage so intense that you don’t even remember what started it—but you’ll never forget how it made you feel?

In this short but heartfelt anniversary episode, David and Ebun get vulnerable about one unforgettable moment in their marriage—the turning point that moved them from disconnection and conflict to intentional connection and deeper intimacy.

They also introduce the FREE 5-Day Cou...

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When we get married—and as the years go by—we bring expectations into the relationship. Some are spoken, others unspoken. But what happens when those expectations aren’t met?

Disappointment can quietly build up and create distance, especially when it happens repeatedly. But here’s the truth: how we respond to unmet expectations can either drive a wedge between us or open the door to deeper connection.

In this episode, w...

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Marriage isn’t built on grand gestures—it’s forged in the small, often overlooked moments.

In the chaos of daily life—between meetings, errands, sports practices, and parenting—true connection can feel like a luxury you can’t afford. But what if it didn’t take hours? What if just five minutes could shift the tone of your entire day?

In this episode, we’re sharing 5 quick ways to reconnect with your spouse—each under 5 m...

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Let’s talk about something often overlooked—but essential—for a healthy, thriving marriage: REST. Not just physical rest, but the kind that restores your mind, heart, and your connection with your spouse.

What if the closeness you’re craving isn’t about more time or better communication, but about learning to slow down together?

In a world that celebrates busyness, many couples are quietly running on empty—tired, disconn...