Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts

Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts

Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, and notifications about special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].

Episodes

July 17, 2025 11 mins

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When we get married—and as the years go by—we bring expectations into the relationship. Some are spoken, others unspoken. But what happens when those expectations aren’t met?

Disappointment can quietly build up and create distance, especially when it happens repeatedly. But here’s the truth: how we respond to unmet expectations can either drive a wedge between us or open the door to deeper connection.

In this episode, w...

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Marriage isn’t built on grand gestures—it’s forged in the small, often overlooked moments.

In the chaos of daily life—between meetings, errands, sports practices, and parenting—true connection can feel like a luxury you can’t afford. But what if it didn’t take hours? What if just five minutes could shift the tone of your entire day?

In this episode, we’re sharing 5 quick ways to reconnect with your spouse—each under 5 m...

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Let’s talk about something often overlooked—but essential—for a healthy, thriving marriage: REST. Not just physical rest, but the kind that restores your mind, heart, and your connection with your spouse.

What if the closeness you’re craving isn’t about more time or better communication, but about learning to slow down together?

In a world that celebrates busyness, many couples are quietly running on empty—tired, disconn...

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Men’s Mental Health: You Are Not Alone

“I can’t hide myself I don’t expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it’s like to be a man It’s a lonely road, and they don’t care about what you know It’s not about how you feel but what you provide inside that home.” — Dax, “To Be a Man”

This is the chorus of Dax’s song “To Be a Man”—and I know some husbands out there can really relate. The pressure. The silence. The weight...

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Feeling like your needs aren’t being met in your marriage? Wondering if love is starting to feel one-sided? You’re not alone—and you need a P.L.A.N.

Marriage was designed to reflect God’s love. But what happens when you feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to respond when your spouse isn’t meeting your emotional or relational needs—not with bitterness or shutdown, but...

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Big shifts in marriage don’t usually come from big, dramatic turning points—they’re built through small, intentional moments, day by day.

In this episode, we explore one powerful (and often overlooked) habit that can deepen emotional closeness, rebuild connection, and strengthen your friendship in marriage: studying your spouse.

"What does it mean to S.T.U.D.Y my spouse?" We’ll walk through a simple, memorable framework ...

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You’ve probably said it—or at least thought it: “Once things calm down... once I get that promotion... once the timing feels right, then we'll reconnect."

It’s so easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time to connect with your spouse. But here’s the truth: waiting might be hurting your marriage more than helping it.

In this episode, we’re unpacking 4 powerful reasons why you shouldn’t delay meaningful co...

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It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We’ll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and m...

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Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be.

If you’re feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you’re not alone. 

Today’s episode is for the couples holding on by a thread…

The ones still showing up even when it’s hard…and anyone who needs a reminder that hope is still possible.

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Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about.

Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a few things husbands often wish their wives would stop doing—not because they’re try...

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Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most.

That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples:

“4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.”

We’re talking about those small, everyday moments—things that might make her feel u...

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There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.”

But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered?

In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage.

Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the heat of the moment—without thought or care—can slowly erode emotional safety, trust, ...

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What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn’t arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we’re unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions.

You know the ones: “They should know what I need.” “If they really cared, they’d act differently.” “I already know how they’ll respond, so why bother?”

Sound familiar? Yeah, I’ve been there too.

But here’s the truth: ...

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When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen?

In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage.

Whether you’ve been married for 5 months or 5 years, these questions will help you go beyond surface talk and truly show your spouse that yo...

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Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we’re diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved.

Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in marriage, here’s your gentle reminder: showing love doesn’t have to be complicated to b...

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The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That’s why in today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse.

Because let’s be real—sometimes, it’s not just what we say, but how we say it that makes or breaks a conversation. So why...

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Have you ever avoided a difficult conversation with your spouse, hoping to keep the peace, only to feel the tension build up over time? You’re not alone. It might feel easier in the moment, but unresolved issues can lead to frustration, distance, and even resentment in the long run.

Even though difficult conversations sometimes come up in marriage, how we handle them makes all the difference. A tough discussion can eith...

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**This is the continuation of Episode 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!)**   When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection ...
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Hi friend!   Have you been praying for your spouse to change for many years? You’ve fasted,  held vigils, and prayed fervently

and despite all your prayers there has been no change. And you’re wondering, “Is God going to change my spouse?” In this episode, you will discover why prayers are not enough to save your marriage.

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Are you in a place in your marriage where you’re feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you’re just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation?

If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions  to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 que...

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