Islamic Life Coach School Podcast

Today we unpack the hidden cost of enmeshment and chart a clear path to attunement, we break down how enmeshment shows up in families and partnerships...oversharing, emotional fusion, control, and the chronic belief that your harmony depends on keeping everyone else regulated. Then we contrast that with attunement: staying connected and compassionate without losing your internal reference point. You’ll hear a practical walk‑through...

In this episode we explore what changes when you stop assigning fault for a single day and give your nervous system a kinder job....learning instead of litigating.

We look at why blame feels noble, promising justice, control, and safety, yet slowly turns into armor that becomes a prison. You’ll hear how outward accusation often rebounds as inward self-criticism, and why your brain can’t cleanly separate the tone it uses on...

If your mind feels loud and your body feels far away, this conversation offers a way home. We dive into the real meaning of embodied living, bringing attention to inner sensations, honoring subtle emotional signals, and learning when to switch to the outer world so you can heal from stress, make clearer decisions, and deepen your worship.

We start with the simplest anchors: thirst, hunger, tiredness, and the quiet signals ...

What if the mind’s “savings plan” is quietly bankrupting your future? We unpack the false economy of victimhood...the way the primal brain seeks comfort, avoids pain, and conserves energy by recycling old stories and calling them wins. From “I can’t lose weight” to “I’ll never get promoted” to “I was betrayed; I can’t move on,” we trace how these narratives deliver quick relief while costing health, intimacy, confidence, and possib...

We dive deep into equanimity as a practical, learnable skill for Muslim women who want to stop snapping, start choosing, and carry calm into chaos without numbing their hearts. Instead of trying to “feel calm first,” we flip the sequence: stabilize your actions while your emotions vary, train your nervous system with small, repeatable choices, and let your inner state catch up to your consistent behavior.

We unpack the dif...

What if the fastest way to your goals is to slow down first? We unpack a filtered approach to productivity that keeps your peace intact while you do big, meaningful work...at home, in your career, and in your worship.

We begin by separating self-worth from achievement so your ambition runs on clean fuel, not self-defense. Then we embrace the 50/50 nature of life: joy and frustration, ease and difficulty, all baked into the...

Contempt sneaks into our closest relationships disguised as righteousness. We don't think we're feeling superior...we simply believe we're right. What makes this emotion particularly dangerous is that it requires two specific ingredients to flourish: a shared history and a presumption of equality. This explains why we rarely feel contempt for strangers or children, but frequently harbor it toward partners, close fami...

Comparison is hardwired into our brains...not as a flaw, but as an evolutionary survival strategy. While this instinct once helped our ancestors find belonging and detect threats, today it often manifests as scrolling through Instagram and measuring ourselves against impossible standards.

Recently I found myself questioning the competitive framework that pits people against each other. This moment sparked a deeper explorat...

Reaching my 250th podcast episode feels monumental, and I couldn't think of a more fitting topic to mark this milestone than vulnerability...specifically, how to wield it as the powerful asset it truly is.

Vulnerability... being emotionally transparent can create deeper connections and resolve conflicts more effectively, not all vulnerability leads to healing. The missing piece in most conversations about vulnerabilit...

In this transformative episode, we explore the powerful practice of "future self-training" - showing up as what you want, not what you currently have.

When you make dua with conviction and then live as if it's already unfolding, you're practicing the highest form of trust in Allah's wisdom and timing. The gap between asking and embodying is precisely where many prayers feel unanswered – not because Allah has...

What if the key to spiritual growth isn't destroying your ego, but reclaiming it? Drawing from Islamic wisdom and modern psychology, this episode explores how microscopic shifts in daily habits can transform your relationship with yourself and others.

We often swing between two extremes...completely erasing ourselves or defensively overcompensating. Neither serves us well. Through practical examples, I share how small...

Ego reclamation might sound contradictory to Islamic spiritual teachings, yet for Muslim women, it represents a critical step toward mental health and authentic faith. This episode challenges conventional wisdom about ego work by introducing a revolutionary concept: ego as a tool that can be picked up when needed and put down when not.

Drawing from Islamic spiritual tradition, we explore the three states of nafs (ego) - th...

Breaking free from childhood conditioning that equates speaking up with danger or rejection, this episode explores the transformative power of "healthy defiance" - a balanced approach to standing firm while maintaining respect for others and honoring your faith.

When raised with unquestioned obedience, many Muslim women develop patterns that persist into adulthood: anxiety during minor disagreements, compulsive o...

Defiance carries complex meanings in our tradition. While Islam emphasizes submission to Allah and respect for authority, it simultaneously commands us to stand firm for justice, even against ourselves or loved ones. This tension creates a profound question: when does saying "no" honor your faith rather than contradict it?

Through exploring both Quranic guidance and prophetic teachings, we discover that healthy d...

Drawing inspiration from Ousama Alshurafa's teachings and book "The Afterlife Manual," this episode explores a powerful paradigm shift: recognizing that worldly causes (asbab) are not true agents of change or benefit, but rather veils through which Allah works His decree. Money doesn't benefit us with Allah's permission... rather, Allah benefits us through money. Medicine doesn't heal us...Allah heals ...

Have you ever considered that what was missing from your childhood might be the key to your healing journey? This episode explores the powerful concept of your "invisible life curriculum"  the lessons we absorb not through what was present in our upbringing, but through what was absent.

I share a transformative three-step process to help you identify patterns, connect them to what was missing in your past, and begin the he...

Have you been carrying the weight of "spiritual excellence" that feels more like perfection than peace? 

This episode reveals how this beautiful Islamic teaching has been distorted through cultural lenses into perfectionism, people-pleasing, and emotional suppression. This misapplication has created generations of Muslims, especially women, who confuse being spiritually elevated with being emotionally suppressed....

What happens when something sacred to you is threatened or violated? That fire you feel rising within has a name – ghayra – and it's not just a male attribute as commonly misunderstood. It's a divine quality we all possess.

Ghayra transcends simple translation, encompassing protective jealousy, righteous indignation, and a fierce level of care for what's sacred. For too many Muslim women, this powerful emoti...

What if your attention, not your time or money, is actually your most precious resource? This groundbreaking episode explores the neuroscience behind our focus and reveals why the currency of attention shapes everything in our lives.

Our brains physically change based on what we pay attention to. When we focus on chaos and problems, we strengthen neural pathways for reactivity. When we attend to healing and joy, those circ...