BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devastation, rebuild trust, and rise in confidence so you can find your identity after marital betrayal. If you’re ready to rise above the heartbreak, trauma, and devastation to a place of hope and restoration - then you’re in the right place. Hey Beautiful, I’m Lisa, Warrior of God, Wife, Mom, “Gigi” to 5 really rockin grands and your Christian Trauma Coach. When I married my knight in shining armor, I was certain we were both happily in love. Everyone looked at us as the storybook couple. We were living the dream, or so I thought. Then the unimaginable happened. My world imploded. In an instant, my life, my marriage, my confidence was shattered into a million pieces when I discovered my husband was having an affair. The devastation was beyond words. “How could he do this to me?!” “Why?!” “Was this my fault?” “How will I ever get over this?” The questions swirled chaotically in my head. Meanwhile, my heart wondered if I would ever stop hurting, “Will this pain ever go away?” I felt lost, alone, and confused. I didn’t know where to turn or what to do. But I knew I needed a plan. I’ve been where you are Beautiful. I know the pain and devastation sexual betrayal brings into your life. I know the agony of having the one you love so dearly betray you at the deepest level. But I also know the hope and healing that awaits you. I know just how faithful God is to restore to an even BETTER YOU! The journey from devastation to restoration has not been easy, but God has held my hand, and even carried me at times along the way. He showed me the way to true healing, helped me develop a plan, and I rediscovered the beautiful woman He created me to be. I’ve learned that our pain, though it is great, has a greater purpose. My tragedy is now my triumph. And I have the greatest privilege of offering hope and healing to Christian Women who suffer enormous trauma and loss by the impact of marital betrayal. If you are ready to heal the devastation from betrayal, rebuild trust in yourself and others, learn proven techniques that will help you release the trauma that has you stuck, and rise in confidence as a Beautiful woman of God - this podcast is definitely for you! So, grab your favorite latte or a glass of wine, pull up a chair and focus on yourself for a few minutes. Let’s dive into what it really means to rise up from the ashes of betrayal and loss into a life you desire. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/lisajlimehouse/ Follow me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/LJLimehouse/ Join the Sisterhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/beautybeyondbetrayal
Episodes
What does true intimacy look like through God’s eyes—and how do we reclaim it after the devastation of betrayal?
In this powerful episode, I’m joined by my friend Michelle Castro, host of the Rip It Off Podcast, for a deeply honest conversation about biblical intimacy, sexual shame, and how to rebuild confidence after infidelity.
We unpack:
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What biblical intimacy actually is (and how it radically differs from the world’s vers...
You’ve been exposed. The affair… the pornography… the betrayal—it’s no longer hidden. But now what?
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm speaking directly to the unfaithful spouse whose sin has come to light. I walk you through 5 powerful steps to take full ownership of your betrayal—without blame, without excuses, and without delay.
Learn what not to do, what your spouse desperately needs from you, and how to take bold, ...
When betrayal shatters your heart, it’s easy to believe the lie that it also shattered your worth. But friend—your value was never based on his behavior. In today’s powerful episode, we dive into how to separate your worth from your husband’s betrayal and rediscover the identity God placed in you before the pain ever began.
You’ll learn: 🔹 Why your worth is rooted in Christ—not in what happened 🔹 5 biblical ways to untangle your ...
Exhausted after betrayal? You're not crazy—you're carrying trauma in your body.
In this episode, learn how infidelity impacts your sleep and health, the signs to look for, and simple, God-centered ways to begin healing.
Plus, join us inside Roadmap to Recovery Group Coaching Program for women, starting July 7. Space is limited!
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Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband thinking, “How did I end up apologizing for his betrayal?” That’s the silent trap of blame shifting and deflection—two emotional manipulation tactics that keep betrayed wives stuck in confusion, guilt, and shame.
In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I expose the truth behind statements like:
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“You pushed me to it”
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“You’re overreacting”
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“I wouldn’t have d...
Is it love—or control? In this powerful episode, I'm exposing 10 subtle yet devastating ways manipulation and coercive control show up after infidelity.
From spiritual guilt-tripping to emotional blackmail, learn how to recognize toxic patterns that keep you stuck, second-guessing, and silenced. If he only “behaves” when you threaten to leave or uses your faith to keep you from setting boundaries, it’s time to reclaim your voice.
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Are you constantly questioning your memory or feeling like you're "too sensitive" after your spouse's betrayal? You may be experiencing gaslighting—a subtle but powerful form of emotional manipulation that can keep you stuck in confusion, shame, and self-doubt.
In today’s episode, betrayal trauma expert Lisa Limehouse walks you through:
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What gaslighting actually is (and what it isn’t)
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The top 5 signs you're being gaslit aft...
Have you experienced betrayal and now feel confused, emotionally shattered, or even manipulated?
This episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal dives deep into the connection between betrayal trauma and emotional abuse in Christian marriages.
You’ll learn the top 3 signs of emotional abuse, biblical truth about how God views it, and how to begin your healing journey.
If you’re ready to stop the cycle, set boundaries, and heal deeply with G...
“Am I just being too sensitive… or has my husband really betrayed me?”
If you’ve found yourself stuck in confusion, questioning your reality, or trying to make sense of the pain you’re feeling after discovering lies, pornography use, emotional affairs, or infidelity — this episode is for you.
In today’s episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I’m unpacking: 💔 What betrayal really is (and the different forms it can take) 🧠 How to know ...
Today, we're diving into a topic that often confuses and even hurts the betrayed spouse — the idea that the unfaithful partner might go through something called “affair detox.” It’s real. It’s painful. And it’s important to understand — not to excuse behavior, but to better navigate the healing process.
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You’ve just found out about the affair or addiction. Your world has flipped upside down — and all you have are questions.
You’re not alone. There are 8 questions that are the most common (and most painful) ones I hear from Christian women and couples trying to figure out what to do next after betrayal.
Today, my husband, Britt and I are bringing you Part 2 where we are finishing the last 4 questions most couples ask after betrayal....
Today, we’re diving deep into a powerful topic that isn’t talked about enough but can absolutely block your healing after betrayal...
It’s called enmeshment — and if it’s not dealt with, it can leave you feeling stuck, exhausted, and disconnected from your true identity in Christ.
But don’t worry — today, I’m going to show you how to recognize it, break free, and move toward true restoration — both personally and in your marriage...
I hear this time and time again... “Does an emotional affair hurt just as much as a physical one?”
In today's episode, we’re going to explore what each type of betrayal truly involves, why both are so painful and destructive, and what your next best steps are to begin your healing journey—body, mind, and spirit.
So, if you’ve been left questioning your worth, your marriage, and your next move… Beautiful, lean in. You’re in the righ...
- Have you ever been told to “just move on” after betrayal?
- Or maybe you’ve said it to yourself in an attempt to survive the pain?
Today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm exposing the hidden dangers of rug-sweeping after infidelity — and why trying to bypass the healing process can actually destroy your marriage.
You’ll learn:
💔 Why skipping the healing process keeps you stuck in emotional and spiritual crisis ⚠️ T...
Do intrusive thoughts keep hijacking your mind after betrayal?
You’re not crazy, and you’re certainly not alone. In today's episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I am helping you uncover what intrusive thoughts really are, why they happen after infidelity, and how to stop them once and for all through a God-centered approach.
You’ll discover: 💭 The top 3 reasons intrusive thoughts take over your mind 🧠 How betrayal tra...
In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, we're diving deep into a question so many Christian women ask after betrayal: Why did he cheat?
We’ll unpack 5 common myths society tells us about infidelity—and reveal the 5 deeper, hidden heart wounds that are often at the root of unfaithfulness.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the real reasons behind betrayal so you can begin to heal God’s way.
We also share...
If you’ve recently discovered infidelity, an affair, or your spouse’s struggle with sexual addiction, you may be asking the hard questions no one talks about out loud.
In this powerful episode, Lisa and BrittLimehouse—Christian marriage coaches and founders of Marriage Redesigned—walk you through the top 7 questions couples ask after betrayal, including the one question most betrayed wives feel too afraid to voice:
👉 Will he ever ...
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your husband feeling...confused? Especially after the betrayal.
Maybe even questioning what really happened —or wondering if you’re the one who’s losing it?
You find yourself second-guessing your memory...your emotions...even your sanity — especially after the betrayal.
If that sounds familiar, you may be dealing with something called...gaslighting.
And in today’s episode — we’re g...
D-Day. The day everything changed. The day I discovered my husband was having an affair.
For me, it was a random weekday — ordinary in every way... until it wasn’t.
I remember the moment I saw the truth staring back at me — a message, a phone call, a slip-up. It felt like time slowed down. My heart pounded so hard I could hear it in my ears. My knees buckled. I felt sick. And in that split second, my entire reality shattered.
Maybe...
The pain of his betrayal feels unbearable, doesn’t it? Like a weight pressing down on your chest, stealing your breath, shattering your sense of security, trust, and identity. You might be wondering:
“Will I ever stop hurting?” “Why does it feel like I’m breaking into a million pieces?”
Sweet friend, I want you to know that this pain you're feeling is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign that something sacred was violated. And deny...
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