The Other Side of the Struggle (Healing from Betrayal Trauma)
Healing from betrayal trauma is no small feat! It takes a lot of work, time, and focus in order to do it. That's all great, but then there's the "HOW?" In this podcast, we will talk about Betrayal Trauma, my past with it, how I healed from it using Christian Scripture, and how you can do the same thing.
Episodes
Healing from betrayal trauma and reclaiming your joy starts here. Join me, Erin Anderson, in this transformative episode of "The Other Side of the Struggle" podcast as I unveil the exciting transition to our new "Boundary Boss Babes" podcast. Discover the empowering steps to achieve financial independence, especially for women navigating betrayal or abusive situations, and learn how creating person...
Ever wondered why you keep attracting narcissistic partners, despite the pain they inflict? Discover the hidden allure of narcissists and unmask their manipulative charm as we dissect the painful yet enlightening journey of betrayal trauma. Join me, Erin Anderson, as we unpack the complexities of healing from these toxic relationships and reclaiming your identity and joy. Learn how to identify the deceit behind their ...
Ready to reclaim your happiness and navigate the turbulent waters of betrayal trauma? This episode promises to equip you with transformative insights and practical advice from our incredible guest, Stephanie Wilden. Stephanie shares her moving personal journey through betrayal, offering unique and playful methods for finding peace—like the rejuvenating act of painting herself in mud and cleansing in the river. Her sto...
How can you transform betrayal trauma into a catalyst for personal and professional success? Join me, Erin Anderson, as I share my journey of overcoming betrayal and the powerful lessons learned along the way. In this episode, I’ll reveal the exciting transition of my focus to a new podcast aimed at empowering entrepreneurial women, while introducing my friend and mentee, Stephanie Wieldon, who will continue supportin...
What if your greatest ordeal became the key to your personal transformation? Join us as we sit down with Gloria Landano, the inspiring author of "Flourish in Captivity," who recounts her harrowing experience of being kidnapped in Colombia at 25. Held in darkness for 90 agonizing days, Gloria opens up about the psychological torment she endured and how the thought of her three-year-old daughter became her bea...
What if reclaiming your worth could transform your entire life? Join me, Erin Anderson, as we unravel the complexities of healing from betrayal trauma and setting boundaries with narcissistic partners. Hear the inspiring tale of my dear friend who rediscovered her value and escaped the clutches of an abusive relationship. This episode promises to guide you through recognizing your own worth and establishing the bounda...
Have you ever wondered how childhood experiences shape your quest for validation as an adult? Join me, Erin Anderson, as we journey through the intricate landscape of healing from betrayal trauma and the essential role validation plays in this process. We unravel Kalissa's poignant story to reveal how growing up with a narcissistic parent can condition one to seek approval from damaging sources, leading to a loss...
What if your deepest pain could become your greatest source of strength? Join Erin Anderson as she welcomes Heather Nilsen to discuss healing from betrayal trauma and how recognizing our divine identity can transform our lives. Heather shares exciting details about the upcoming Divine Daughter event in Layton, Utah, on August 3rd, 2024, a one-day retreat aimed at helping Christian women reconnect with their inherent w...
Can betrayal trauma really disrupt your ability to thrive in your daily life? Discover the transformative steps toward healing as I walk you through essential practices such as self-care, honesty, and setting boundaries. With a focus on the unique challenges women face while balancing family, career, and personal roles, we’ll uncover how crucial it is to carve out time for trauma recovery to prevent it from overshadow...
Curious about how unresolved trauma could be keeping money out of your reach? Join us as we welcome back the brilliant Bronwen, who unravels the deeply intertwined relationship between trauma and financial flow, especially for entrepreneurs. With her innovative "Moneymaker Trio" concept, Bronwen uses human design to shed light on how understanding and embracing your unique spiritual gifts can pave the path t...
Ever wondered how betrayal could shape your entrepreneurial journey? Join us as we unpack this profound topic . I will open up about my personal struggles and the unexpected ways my faith played a pivotal role in my recovery. I also talk about the notion that formal certifications are a must for success, urging us to lean into divine guidance and self-healing. Listen in as we explore the hidden impacts of betrayal tr...
How can you rebuild your life after the shattering experience of betrayal? This episode promises to provide answers as we explore the complex journey of healing from betrayal trauma. We start by unpacking the profound nature of unconditional love in its many forms, including universal, friendship, parental, and romantic love. Is love truly unconditional, or do relationships thrive on certain conditions? We'll hel...
What if understanding five simple love languages could revolutionize all your relationships—romantic and otherwise? Join me on this episode of "The Other Side of the Struggle" as we delve into the familiar yet ever-evolving concept of love languages—gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation, touch, and quality time. We'll explore how these love languages are not just for marriage but crucial for any ...
Have you ever felt the cathartic power of penning down your deepest fears and triumphs? Cheryl Bannerman certainly has, and she joins us to reveal how the art of writing became her sanctuary amidst the chaos of betrayal and abuse. In an intimate conversation, we traverse Cheryl's poignant journey, where journaling morphed from a simple act of expression to a transformative tool for healing. Her story is a vivid i...
Have you ever felt betrayed by someone close to you, only to realize you might also be betraying yourself by not setting boundaries? Discover how our relationships often mirror our self-treatment in our latest episode. We unpack the profound importance of forgiving ourselves for our mistakes, particularly in the realm of betrayal and self-betrayal. By closely examining our behaviors and self-talk, we explore how to im...
Have you ever felt like you're talking to a wall when trying to communicate with your partner? It's the dance of dialogue within marriage, where sometimes one partner leads with avoidance and the other is left stumbling. In our latest episode, we unravel the threads of spousal communication, casting a spotlight on the challenge of engaging with an avoidant partner and the frustration that ensues when the con...
Join me and trauma coach Tara Brown as we embark on a journey of healing that transcends typical self-help rhetoric. Our conversation weaves through the intimate process of trauma recovery, highlighting the crucial role of our entire nervous system alongside our mindset. Tara shares the dance of the four pillars of healing—physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual—and we discuss how neglecting any single one can disr...
Uncover the hidden layers of protective instincts as we dissect the complex reasons why women often stand as the unsolicited shield for men in their lives. We'll venture into the terrain of the 'nice guy' archetype and the paradox of men with addictions, which we humorously yet thoughtfully categorize as mild, medium, and jalapeno. Each holds its own set of unique challenges that can strain the fabric o...
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