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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Kiki, we need an update from a graveyard gate.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah, very disturbing. This extremely disturbing.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yeah, let's hit the uh. Let's hit the intro. Then
you can tell us. Okay, it's the tangent with the
breadshell giving.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You all the shit we couldn't talk about.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
On air, all right, So Kicky set it up here.
If the people didn't hear, if the people, if they
didn't hear, what happened on Mother's Day.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
So on Mother's Day, my sister went to visit our mom,
who has been buried in Lincoln Cemetery in Blue Island,
Illinois for over twenty years now. She's been there and
she has a pretty large headstone that we got for her,
and we go visit it like every birthday, every holiday.
And when she pulled up to go visit my mom
on Mother's Day, the headstone was not where it usually is.
(00:48):
So my sister freaked out, obviously, and then she looked
like to the left and it was kind of down
the way on top of another headstone. So you know,
you have some headstones to sit up and you have
some that are like flat.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
On the ground in the ground, so she was on
top of another.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Person's headstone, my mom's headstone on top of another person's
headstone that was flat in the ground, and it was
just every look, everything just looked displaced. There were other
headstones that had been pulled up and things that had
been moved. And so obviously my sister freaks out because
it's Mother's Day. She's there with the flowers to put
down and everything, and then the office was closed because
(01:22):
it's a holiday, and so she was like, nobody can call,
so she just had to like take the l we
weren't able to visit my mom on Mother's Day. Then
the next Monday, the next day, she calls, she complains,
lets them know, and they're like, oh my god. First
they acted clueless, like what are you talking about, Like
nothing has been moved, and she's like, so she's sending
the lady photos and videos that she took, and he's like,
(01:43):
oh my god, oh yeah, oh yeah, I know what happened.
It's our it's normal procedure sometime for us to move
headstones around, right, And my sister's like, but you don't
notify the family and you don't think to do whatever
you're gonna do before Mother's Day weekend. So and the ladies,
you know, that was on us. They should have definitely
put it back. I'm so sorry, And so my sister
(02:05):
hung up with her. We both finished our day at work,
and then we got off of work and we went
to go verify that it had been put back, and
it seems to be back in the right spot, but like,
who will really know, you know, it's a big yard,
and so it's back in a spot that looks to
be the right spot.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
However, there were.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Still other headstones displaced. One of them was turned over
like on its side. Another person's headstone was cracked down
the middle. And when we speak to them, they're just like, oh,
it's just normal procedure. We're just we have to do maintenance.
So sometimes we move them around. Yeah, we have to
do maintenance, we have to do constructions. It's all type
of reasons that we move them. But it should have
definitely been put back, and we apologize. I'm not okay
(02:43):
with that still right, And as I put it, I
put a video on social media. A lot of people
are chiming in saying it's absolutely not normal. They should
notify the family if they ever decide to do anything
with your headstone. And a lot of people are telling
me to contact an attorney, and other people have had
this happen. A few people I've watched my video and
they're like, oh my god, my family is in that
(03:03):
same cemetery.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I'm going to check.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, So, because, like I guess, you just assumed that whatever,
because you buy the space. Yes, so I guess you
just assume that whatever happens there is going to remain
like that. But think of all the people that I mean,
I've got relatives buried all over the country. I haven't
been to their grave sites and forever. Who knows, right,
I don't even know they're still there exactly. And I
guess a lot of you know, a lot of people don't.
I'm not a big gravesite girl. Some people go often
(03:29):
and camp out there. I'm not that girl. But my
sister is more of She goes frequently.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
And it's sad, but like you kind of have to
go now tore, like monitor what's being done with your
loved ones.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't think I have to go there to talk to,
you know, the people who have passed away. I used
to think I wanted to be buried, Now I don't.
I think I want to be cremated.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I was like, put me in a KFC chicken box
and put me on your fireplace.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Jason, you know time explosion date?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
What do you want?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Yeah, I'm a ja Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Yeah, Like I mean, I don't even know about that.
I think you should maybe people just spread my ashes
or something, because, like we were talking about yesterday, I
don't know, what are you supposed to do if you're
like my great great like Polly's grandchildren, what the hell
they supposed to do with my urn? Like they never
knew me? Like, oh that's the clown DJ guy that
was you know, seven generations ago. They gotta be flying
space ships around by that point. What are they gonna do?
You know, what are they gonna do with? I spread
(04:26):
them out somewhere. I don't throw them out of an
airplane or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I'm gone, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
My mom is to say that a lot, like throw
her ashes like in the woods and stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
And I was seeing that was like kind of weird
because I was like, why would I do that? But
now I'm just exactly like, no one's gonna carry it
on more than likely. Yeah, I don't burry me, don't bury.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Me, Like, my mom wants to be buried with all
of or I guess cremated, and then she wants all
of the animals we've ever had their ashes mixed in
with hers. I know, no, it's very nice. Otherwise, I
don't know what. We've got a cabinet in our house
full of ashes of animals that we've owned, and I'm like,
I don't know what I would do with these otherwise.
I mean, I love these animals, but I can't move
this stuff around for the rest of my life. But
(05:03):
I don't like that.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I feel like you should tag like I know you
should tag like all the news outlets in the video.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Yeah, that's what I mean. Other people have already started
to do that. And there was a report that happened
on Mother's Day on the news from another cemetery that
wasn't far from this area. So I'm like, it's just
some funny business going on with cemeteries and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
It's giving vandals like you.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I watched that video, like it just looks like teenagers
are just running in there and just knocking things over.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
But they're so heavy.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But I'm only there's ones that are cracked and turned
ups like on its side.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. And if they
gotta do something, you know, from a maintenance standpoint, fine,
but then you got to respect that that's somebody's that's
that's somebody's final burying spot. Yeah, like you got to
put it back exactly how it was in case anybody
wants to come look at it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Especially on a holiday as big as Mother's Day. Like,
I can't believe. I just can't believe how you will
fumble that and not even to be like, oh, we
pay premium price, but we pay made a lot of
money for my mom's resting place. That cemetery had like
a great rating at the time. And where she's at,
like she's on a street view, like you just ride
back and wave at her.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
So like what you're doing?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
How do you not know that that area has been
messed with on such a big holiday.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Right, Like that's your like as if you're in a
cemetery you work in, that's like your job is to take.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Care of yes, yes, what kind of maintenance?
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Like it's a heavy stone that sits there if you
want to trim around it or whatever, keep it clean.
I don't know what kind of and people are saying
that that's not nice, it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Yes, well, if the headstone moves, then I kind of
got to wonder what's going on underneath the headstone, right,
Like why? Because I guess I felt like the headstone
staying there means that the land has not been disrupted.
But then once you start moving the headstones around, then
I kind of gotta wonder, like, well, you, I mean,
but you said that the rest of the of the
dirt wasn't disturbed.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
Yeah, the ground looked like it hadn't been messed with
it all. But another person in my comments section on
TikTok say you saw in time. If you had not
saw that, then they might have been going to like
either dig r dig her up and resell that plot
or put someone else on top of her. They were
like they they believe that because we caught it, they
weren't able to do that, but that was going to
(07:14):
be the next step.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
When they put it back, you're not even sure if
it's in the exact right place.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Right, Like I'm looking at old pictures trying to like verify. However,
the other headstones that were there with her have been
shifted to so.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's like I don't fucked up.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Yeah, my mama might be on top of George. I
don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, you just kind of assume that that's not going
to be messed with.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, you you should be able to assume that. But
I mean at least until like your kids, kids' grandkids die.
But I'm still here and thriving, So I don't understand
why they would think, like you can go look at
the records and see like, oh, this lady died in
two thousand, or this lady died in ninety nine, like
we probably shouldn't mess with her just yet.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
She still got kids coming over.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
But like if she died in nineteen forty eight, everybody
might be gone.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Well we were talking about that yesterday too. It's like,
I mean, I'm sure if you look at the fine
print on all this stuff, they probably have a right
in one hundred years or ninety nine years or something
like I don't excavate and resell the land or whatever,
because like you know, when you think about it, like
the example I used yesterday was my grandparents mausoleum. I mean,
there will be there will be a generation that never
knew them, right, I mean, PAULI never knew them, you know,
(08:20):
and like her kids will never know them. And obviously
you hope that you know, somebody cares. But at the
same time, at what point do you say, nobody's gonna
know if we just throw all that stuff away and
sell the same you know spot in the mausoleum again. Yeah,
I'm sure there's something in the fine print about how
it's a lease and not in you know, you don't
own it to you lease it or something messed up
like that.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
Yeah, there's certain jobs where you need to have a
bedside manner and you cannot slack, especially like the way
that they told my dad that my nana died at
the nursing home was insane, like so nonchalant, rude.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Oh nobody told you yet, like it was, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
And so there's certain jobs you really need to care
for people's family.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
It can't be moved people, you can't. You gotta like
you can slack.
Speaker 5 (09:02):
At some jobs, but not when you're doing something that
important with people's love.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Once, bless you do any of you want to be buried?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I thought I did no anymore. I wanted to be
a tree.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
At one point, I know you can do that like
grandmother willow.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Oh, I thought you wanted me to wear you like
a diamond.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Oh okay, well we could split me up. I guess
if we're doing it at that point.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I mean, you're going to be wearing me like a diamond,
but on a Cuban link. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. At
the rate we're going, i'll be their way before you.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But I don't know. I feel tired, so we'll see.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Yeah. Well, it doesn't like it doesn't get any better.
If I thought I was tired of thirty two, I'm
tired of forty two. I'm tired of damn it. I'm
more tired. But it's messed up. And I hope that
you get to the bottom of that and they don't
mess with Maybe the fact that you uncovered it means
they won't screw with it anymore, but who knows.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
I hope, and I will definitely be keeping an eye
on it. But I just feel bad for those other
families who may not have people coming to visit them.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
So I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, and I want to put you a ring camera
on that headstone if they come around and get on
there and go.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Hey, hey, hey, I think that might be the move put.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
A ring camera on a headstone and somebody comes and
be like no, no, no, yes, you're not going to
do it. Not happening.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
So they make them waterproof, like you know what I mean. Yeah,
they Oh my.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
God, that's yeah, it'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
They make it on bad or you can run it
on bad do that. Yeah, and I'm gonna talk to them. Yeah,
I can't wait.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
They mess with the wrong one.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
They really did, because I got all the time like
this is never in the content for me. So I'm
going to figure this out.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Lawyer. She's got the platform, she's got several platforms, she
got the interest.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Oh yeah, you know me.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I'm not trying to get in the wrong side of
Kiki No, otherwise I get blown up on TikTok.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
You already know from the shower, yes, wherever I need
to do it.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, I'm waiting for a shower snap food just one
day where you accidentally go live.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
In that thing episode.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
It does happen all the time, Like I'll be trying
to like swipe and it'll go to my camera and
I'll just seeing me and I'm like, oh, like this
is what Big Timsey.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
And then I'll just hurry up and flip it back.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
But yeah, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
We'll do it from the Friend Show radio.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
No, no, a little shopping on their.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Account. Hey, my car is full right now.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I've seen it myself.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
Ye what all have you guys ordered from the TikTok shop?
Because I haven't gone to the dark side yet.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I've never ordered one thing, and I don't need. I
don't need to start because I feel like it would
be addicting. I've got this shower.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Brush, did you, girl? Yes?
Speaker 4 (11:41):
It is worth it. At first, I was like, I
don't know what I'm doing. I'm not doing it hard enough.
It's not cleaning good. At a I figured it out
and now I deep clean my shower. I feel like
it's the best thing ever. You was so satisfying just
watching the dirt come out, and that's ogre.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
I hate cleaning the shower in the oven And it
was like, fifteen bucks.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Do you do the shower every time you're in it?
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Clean it?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Not every time, because I.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Use a squeegee on the glass every single time.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
You do my glass is that's why?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Because it'll build up and then it's harder to get off,
So I squeegee every single time.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Yeah, that's hard to get off.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Oh, you guys don't do that.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
I don't have a I don't hear.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I don't have yeh.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
I'm poor, Yeah, but I do. Sure you're tidying in
the in the shower, No, because.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
It would be harder to clean it, you know, if
you stay you longer.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Yeah, no, I would do the same thing.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, I don't have glass. I'm poor.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I got a dusty, crusty curtain.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah, you don't have to clean that, right. Maybe it's
better to be poor than less to clean.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Jason that you do the TikTok shot too.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
I got the body glaze. What the hell is that
smells so good?
Speaker 3 (12:50):
It's like, uh like what like balm, but you like
rub it on your skin like hydrates.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
But it works for like my crusty elbows, and it
smells so good. I put it on like three times
a day.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
And I just bought some freeze dried candy.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Oh my gosh, to Maura.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Gen Z all my sister and her friends.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Etho.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I got all the vitamins. I ordered all my vitamins from.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
You trust it.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Yeah. A dude named Carl sending you vitamins, like in
a brown paper.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Bag, got my collagen peptids. You know what I'm saying. College, Yeah,
vitamin multi vitamins and like the D three and the
K twelve whatever it was supposed to be taken.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I ordered Justice.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
It's always from.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Some things for Ashland a water bottle, Gatorade water bottle
and nothing to help them learn how to write a
little booklet.
Speaker 5 (13:39):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Clothing, I ordered a Lightning McQueen T shirt influenced.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yes, yeah, man, I don't need No, I don't need it. No, No,
you don't see the ad scrolling.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
You just get like, oh man, that looks.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
For twelve dollars right free ship.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I've had a few phases where I got like into eBay.
This is in the day, but like that was a
problem because you know, I don't know, I would start
buying crap I didn't need, and then I didn't want
to lose the auction, you know what I mean, because
you know how like you's like you bid on oh god,
by now you did. Wow, this is years ago, but
that I was on eBay buying crap and it's just
(14:17):
like it's so addicting. I was checking it all the time,
seeing if I got out bid or whatever, like yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
But then there was a It was like, uh, you'd
have to watch out for it sometimes because like you
would bid on something and then because you could put
like a max bid. But I felt like the person
selling it would have someone else bid, like like a
fake right, like oh bit again, wow, like someone like Fred,
Like Fred would be like, oh let me bit again, yeah,
and then they'll just keep racking it up.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I was like, this is fun. Yeah, I didn't. It
was just I found that I was buying crap just
to win it. I just wanted to win, like, oh
this costs real money. Fuck never mind. And then this
ship would show up. But I'm like, what is this?
What am I going to do with this? All right, Well,
I'm sorry for your situation.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
Thank you, But that was a great idea you gave me.
To thank you for that.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah, so get on the TikTok shop by yourself, a
little camera and get some body glaze while you're on there,
and you'll smell great and you'll be on top of
everything at the at the gravesite of clean clean moms.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
I do I can use that.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I learned so.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Much, just tied it all together. I'm very sorry for
your loss about Chris Martin.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
You know that's gonna be tough for me. I might
need a day off of two.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Yeah, same, okay, Ben, Yeah, you don't even know what
this is. He didn't know. Now we can talk all
the ship we want right now. I ain't even never
heard of this. Oh boy, that would be something he
(15:50):
would cry. He would cry.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Well, he would roast us back, is what he would do.
At the end. We would all all get bodied.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yes, you don't talk, you Ben, You don't talk, you there,
mister Bennett.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Then waiting your watch, waiting where he goes off at
him at the party.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you don't talk, you Ben. All right,
there's the change. Have a good day.
All right, Kiki, we need an update from a graveyard gate.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah, very disturbing. This extremely disturbing.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yeah, let's hit the uh. Let's hit the intro. Then
you can tell us. Okay, it's the tangent with the
breadshell giving.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
You all the shit we couldn't talk about.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
On air, all right, So Kicky set it up here.
If the people didn't hear, if the people, if they
didn't hear, what happened on Mother's Day.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
So on Mother's Day, my sister went to visit our mom,
who has been buried in Lincoln Cemetery in Blue Island,
Illinois for over twenty years now. She's been there and
she has a pretty large headstone that we got for her,
and we go visit it like every birthday, every holiday.
And when she pulled up to go visit my mom
on Mother's Day, the headstone was not where it usually is.
(00:48):
So my sister freaked out, obviously, and then she looked
like to the left and it was kind of down
the way on top of another headstone. So you know,
you have some headstones to sit up and you have
some that are like flat.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
On the ground in the ground, so she was on
top of another.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Person's headstone, my mom's headstone on top of another person's
headstone that was flat in the ground, and it was
just every look, everything just looked displaced. There were other
headstones that had been pulled up and things that had
been moved. And so obviously my sister freaks out because
it's Mother's Day. She's there with the flowers to put
down and everything, and then the office was closed because
(01:22):
it's a holiday, and so she was like, nobody can call,
so she just had to like take the l we
weren't able to visit my mom on Mother's Day. Then
the next Monday, the next day, she calls, she complains,
lets them know, and they're like, oh my god. First
they acted clueless, like what are you talking about, Like
nothing has been moved, and she's like, so she's sending
the lady photos and videos that she took, and he's like,
(01:43):
oh my god, oh yeah, oh yeah, I know what happened.
It's our it's normal procedure sometime for us to move
headstones around, right, And my sister's like, but you don't
notify the family and you don't think to do whatever
you're gonna do before Mother's Day weekend. So and the ladies,
you know, that was on us. They should have definitely
put it back. I'm so sorry, And so my sister
(02:05):
hung up with her. We both finished our day at work,
and then we got off of work and we went
to go verify that it had been put back, and
it seems to be back in the right spot, but like,
who will really know, you know, it's a big yard,
and so it's back in a spot that looks to
be the right spot.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
However, there were.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
Still other headstones displaced. One of them was turned over
like on its side. Another person's headstone was cracked down
the middle. And when we speak to them, they're just like, oh,
it's just normal procedure. We're just we have to do maintenance.
So sometimes we move them around. Yeah, we have to
do maintenance, we have to do constructions. It's all type
of reasons that we move them. But it should have
definitely been put back, and we apologize. I'm not okay
(02:43):
with that still right, And as I put it, I
put a video on social media. A lot of people
are chiming in saying it's absolutely not normal. They should
notify the family if they ever decide to do anything
with your headstone. And a lot of people are telling
me to contact an attorney, and other people have had
this happen. A few people I've watched my video and
they're like, oh my god, my family is in that
(03:03):
same cemetery.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I'm going to check.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, So, because, like I guess, you just assumed that whatever,
because you buy the space. Yes, so I guess you
just assume that whatever happens there is going to remain
like that. But think of all the people that I mean,
I've got relatives buried all over the country. I haven't
been to their grave sites and forever. Who knows, right,
I don't even know they're still there exactly. And I
guess a lot of you know, a lot of people don't.
I'm not a big gravesite girl. Some people go often
(03:29):
and camp out there. I'm not that girl. But my
sister is more of She goes frequently.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
And it's sad, but like you kind of have to
go now tore, like monitor what's being done with your
loved ones.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't think I have to go there to talk to,
you know, the people who have passed away. I used
to think I wanted to be buried, Now I don't.
I think I want to be cremated.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I was like, put me in a KFC chicken box
and put me on your fireplace.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Jason, you know time explosion date?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
What do you want?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Yeah, I'm a ja Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Yeah, Like I mean, I don't even know about that.
I think you should maybe people just spread my ashes
or something, because, like we were talking about yesterday, I
don't know, what are you supposed to do if you're
like my great great like Polly's grandchildren, what the hell
they supposed to do with my urn? Like they never
knew me? Like, oh that's the clown DJ guy that
was you know, seven generations ago. They gotta be flying
space ships around by that point. What are they gonna do?
You know, what are they gonna do with? I spread
(04:26):
them out somewhere. I don't throw them out of an
airplane or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I'm gone, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
My mom is to say that a lot, like throw
her ashes like in the woods and stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
And I was seeing that was like kind of weird
because I was like, why would I do that? But
now I'm just exactly like, no one's gonna carry it
on more than likely. Yeah, I don't burry me, don't bury.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Me, Like, my mom wants to be buried with all
of or I guess cremated, and then she wants all
of the animals we've ever had their ashes mixed in
with hers. I know, no, it's very nice. Otherwise, I
don't know what. We've got a cabinet in our house
full of ashes of animals that we've owned, and I'm like,
I don't know what I would do with these otherwise.
I mean, I love these animals, but I can't move
this stuff around for the rest of my life. But
(05:03):
I don't like that.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
I feel like you should tag like I know you
should tag like all the news outlets in the video.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Yeah, that's what I mean. Other people have already started
to do that. And there was a report that happened
on Mother's Day on the news from another cemetery that
wasn't far from this area. So I'm like, it's just
some funny business going on with cemeteries and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
It's giving vandals like you.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I watched that video, like it just looks like teenagers
are just running in there and just knocking things over.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
But they're so heavy.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
But I'm only there's ones that are cracked and turned
ups like on its side.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. And if they
gotta do something, you know, from a maintenance standpoint, fine,
but then you got to respect that that's somebody's that's
that's somebody's final burying spot. Yeah, like you got to
put it back exactly how it was in case anybody
wants to come look at it.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Especially on a holiday as big as Mother's Day. Like,
I can't believe. I just can't believe how you will
fumble that and not even to be like, oh, we
pay premium price, but we pay made a lot of
money for my mom's resting place. That cemetery had like
a great rating at the time. And where she's at,
like she's on a street view, like you just ride
back and wave at her.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
So like what you're doing?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
How do you not know that that area has been
messed with on such a big holiday.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Right, Like that's your like as if you're in a
cemetery you work in, that's like your job is to take.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Care of yes, yes, what kind of maintenance?
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Like it's a heavy stone that sits there if you
want to trim around it or whatever, keep it clean.
I don't know what kind of and people are saying
that that's not nice, it doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Yes, well, if the headstone moves, then I kind of
got to wonder what's going on underneath the headstone, right,
Like why? Because I guess I felt like the headstone
staying there means that the land has not been disrupted.
But then once you start moving the headstones around, then
I kind of gotta wonder, like, well, you, I mean,
but you said that the rest of the of the
dirt wasn't disturbed.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
Yeah, the ground looked like it hadn't been messed with
it all. But another person in my comments section on
TikTok say you saw in time. If you had not
saw that, then they might have been going to like
either dig r dig her up and resell that plot
or put someone else on top of her. They were
like they they believe that because we caught it, they
weren't able to do that, but that was going to
(07:14):
be the next step.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
When they put it back, you're not even sure if
it's in the exact right place.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Right, Like I'm looking at old pictures trying to like verify. However,
the other headstones that were there with her have been
shifted to so.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
It's like I don't fucked up.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Yeah, my mama might be on top of George. I
don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yeah, you just kind of assume that that's not going
to be messed with.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, you you should be able to assume that. But
I mean at least until like your kids, kids' grandkids die.
But I'm still here and thriving, So I don't understand
why they would think, like you can go look at
the records and see like, oh, this lady died in
two thousand, or this lady died in ninety nine, like
we probably shouldn't mess with her just yet.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
She still got kids coming over.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
But like if she died in nineteen forty eight, everybody
might be gone.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Well we were talking about that yesterday too. It's like,
I mean, I'm sure if you look at the fine
print on all this stuff, they probably have a right
in one hundred years or ninety nine years or something
like I don't excavate and resell the land or whatever,
because like you know, when you think about it, like
the example I used yesterday was my grandparents mausoleum. I mean,
there will be there will be a generation that never
knew them, right, I mean, PAULI never knew them, you know,
(08:20):
and like her kids will never know them. And obviously
you hope that you know, somebody cares. But at the
same time, at what point do you say, nobody's gonna
know if we just throw all that stuff away and
sell the same you know spot in the mausoleum again. Yeah,
I'm sure there's something in the fine print about how
it's a lease and not in you know, you don't
own it to you lease it or something messed up
like that.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
Yeah, there's certain jobs where you need to have a
bedside manner and you cannot slack, especially like the way
that they told my dad that my nana died at
the nursing home was insane, like so nonchalant, rude.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Oh nobody told you yet, like it was, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
And so there's certain jobs you really need to care
for people's family.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
It can't be moved people, you can't. You gotta like
you can slack.
Speaker 5 (09:02):
At some jobs, but not when you're doing something that
important with people's love.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Once, bless you do any of you want to be buried?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I thought I did no anymore. I wanted to be
a tree.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
At one point, I know you can do that like
grandmother willow.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
Oh, I thought you wanted me to wear you like
a diamond.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Oh okay, well we could split me up. I guess
if we're doing it at that point.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I mean, you're going to be wearing me like a diamond,
but on a Cuban link. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. At
the rate we're going, i'll be their way before you.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
But I don't know. I feel tired, so we'll see.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Yeah. Well, it doesn't like it doesn't get any better.
If I thought I was tired of thirty two, I'm
tired of forty two. I'm tired of damn it. I'm
more tired. But it's messed up. And I hope that
you get to the bottom of that and they don't
mess with Maybe the fact that you uncovered it means
they won't screw with it anymore, but who knows.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
I hope, and I will definitely be keeping an eye
on it. But I just feel bad for those other
families who may not have people coming to visit them.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
So I don't even know.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Yeah, and I want to put you a ring camera
on that headstone if they come around and get on
there and go.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Hey, hey, hey, I think that might be the move put.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
A ring camera on a headstone and somebody comes and
be like no, no, no, yes, you're not going to
do it. Not happening.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
So they make them waterproof, like you know what I mean. Yeah,
they Oh my.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
God, that's yeah, it'll be fine.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
They make it on bad or you can run it
on bad do that. Yeah, and I'm gonna talk to them. Yeah,
I can't wait.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
They mess with the wrong one.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
They really did, because I got all the time like
this is never in the content for me. So I'm
going to figure this out.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Lawyer. She's got the platform, she's got several platforms, she
got the interest.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Oh yeah, you know me.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
I'm not trying to get in the wrong side of
Kiki No, otherwise I get blown up on TikTok.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
You already know from the shower, yes, wherever I need
to do it.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Yeah, I'm waiting for a shower snap food just one
day where you accidentally go live.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
In that thing episode.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
It does happen all the time, Like I'll be trying
to like swipe and it'll go to my camera and
I'll just seeing me and I'm like, oh, like this
is what Big Timsey.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
And then I'll just hurry up and flip it back.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
But yeah, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
We'll do it from the Friend Show radio.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
No, no, a little shopping on their.
Speaker 2 (11:21):
Account. Hey, my car is full right now.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I've seen it myself.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
Ye what all have you guys ordered from the TikTok shop?
Because I haven't gone to the dark side yet.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I've never ordered one thing, and I don't need. I
don't need to start because I feel like it would
be addicting. I've got this shower.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Brush, did you, girl? Yes?
Speaker 4 (11:41):
It is worth it. At first, I was like, I
don't know what I'm doing. I'm not doing it hard enough.
It's not cleaning good. At a I figured it out
and now I deep clean my shower. I feel like
it's the best thing ever. You was so satisfying just
watching the dirt come out, and that's ogre.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
I hate cleaning the shower in the oven And it
was like, fifteen bucks.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Do you do the shower every time you're in it?
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Clean it?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Not every time, because I.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Use a squeegee on the glass every single time.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
You do my glass is that's why?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Because it'll build up and then it's harder to get off,
So I squeegee every single time.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Yeah, that's hard to get off.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Oh, you guys don't do that.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
I don't have a I don't hear.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
I don't have yeh.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
I'm poor, Yeah, but I do. Sure you're tidying in
the in the shower, No, because.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
It would be harder to clean it, you know, if
you stay you longer.
Speaker 5 (12:32):
Yeah, no, I would do the same thing.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Yeah, I don't have glass. I'm poor.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
I got a dusty, crusty curtain.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Yeah, you don't have to clean that, right. Maybe it's
better to be poor than less to clean.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Jason that you do the TikTok shot too.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
I got the body glaze. What the hell is that
smells so good?
Speaker 3 (12:50):
It's like, uh like what like balm, but you like
rub it on your skin like hydrates.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
But it works for like my crusty elbows, and it
smells so good. I put it on like three times
a day.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
And I just bought some freeze dried candy.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Oh my gosh, to Maura.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Gen Z all my sister and her friends.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Etho.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I got all the vitamins. I ordered all my vitamins from.
Speaker 2 (13:13):
You trust it.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Yeah. A dude named Carl sending you vitamins, like in
a brown paper.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Bag, got my collagen peptids. You know what I'm saying. College, Yeah,
vitamin multi vitamins and like the D three and the
K twelve whatever it was supposed to be taken.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
I ordered Justice.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
It's always from.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Some things for Ashland a water bottle, Gatorade water bottle
and nothing to help them learn how to write a
little booklet.
Speaker 5 (13:39):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Clothing, I ordered a Lightning McQueen T shirt influenced.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yes, yeah, man, I don't need No, I don't need it. No, No,
you don't see the ad scrolling.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
You just get like, oh man, that looks.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
For twelve dollars right free ship.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I've had a few phases where I got like into eBay.
This is in the day, but like that was a
problem because you know, I don't know, I would start
buying crap I didn't need, and then I didn't want
to lose the auction, you know what I mean, because
you know how like you's like you bid on oh god,
by now you did. Wow, this is years ago, but
that I was on eBay buying crap and it's just
(14:17):
like it's so addicting. I was checking it all the time,
seeing if I got out bid or whatever, like yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
But then there was a It was like, uh, you'd
have to watch out for it sometimes because like you
would bid on something and then because you could put
like a max bid. But I felt like the person
selling it would have someone else bid, like like a
fake right, like oh bit again, wow, like someone like Fred,
Like Fred would be like, oh let me bit again, yeah,
and then they'll just keep racking it up.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I was like, this is fun. Yeah, I didn't. It
was just I found that I was buying crap just
to win it. I just wanted to win, like, oh
this costs real money. Fuck never mind. And then this
ship would show up. But I'm like, what is this?
What am I going to do with this? All right, Well,
I'm sorry for your situation.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
Thank you, But that was a great idea you gave me.
To thank you for that.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Yeah, so get on the TikTok shop by yourself, a
little camera and get some body glaze while you're on there,
and you'll smell great and you'll be on top of
everything at the at the gravesite of clean clean moms.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
I do I can use that.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
I learned so.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Much, just tied it all together. I'm very sorry for
your loss about Chris Martin.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
You know that's gonna be tough for me. I might
need a day off of two.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Yeah, same, okay, Ben, Yeah, you don't even know what
this is. He didn't know. Now we can talk all
the ship we want right now. I ain't even never
heard of this. Oh boy, that would be something he
(15:50):
would cry. He would cry.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Well, he would roast us back, is what he would do.
At the end. We would all all get bodied.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yes, you don't talk, you Ben, You don't talk, you there,
mister Bennett.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
Then waiting your watch, waiting where he goes off at
him at the party.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you don't talk, you Ben. All right,
there's the change. Have a good day.
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