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May 2, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jeff is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by BBE. So we're
going to see if we can figure out why he's
getting ghosted in just a second. But first, Jeff, how
long has it been since you heard from BIB.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been a couple of weeks, not for sure, maybe
close some months at this point.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
Oh wow, So in that time, how many times did
you try to reach out to her?

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Almost once a week? But then I you know, I'm
just scared of pushing it too much. Yeah, I kind
of will just keep reaching out to her, but I'm
containing myself.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
Why do you still want to try to get a
hold of her? But it's already been a.

Speaker 3 (00:39):
Month because I can't thinking about her?

Speaker 1 (00:42):
You can't stop thinking about her? You really liked her?

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Okay, what'd you like so much about her?

Speaker 3 (00:47):
She was It hasn't happened to me too many times before,
but she was so pretty and even smarter than what
I thought she would have been initially. And that's just Yeah, I'm.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
Upset, Alicia, And you know what you're honest about it.
That's cool.

Speaker 4 (01:04):
So what was it like when you spent time with her?
Did she seem like she was into you? Why don't
you just go back and tell us about how you
met in your date?

Speaker 3 (01:11):
I mean pretty much it was. It wasn't the craziest story.
We were at a bookstore and we were just happening
to sit next to each other reading our own books.
And I saw what she was reading and she kind
of saw me peeping, and long story story yet kind
of all talk. And after I really liked her vibe

(01:32):
and I thought she was pretty so asked her if
she wanted to go out for dinner and play some
board games, you know, some very casual or it wasn't anything nice,
and we did. She she accepted. We had a great time.
We just connected. The food was great, our conversation was
even better. We hugged it out. I didn't want to
push it too much. I said, you know, I want

(01:53):
to see you again. She was on the same page,
I thought, and that's it. Ghosted right after that.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Okay, did you go to a bar to play board.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
Games or yeah? It was a very casual like bar,
board game place.

Speaker 4 (02:06):
Yeah, was it anything happened during the date, like, were
you too competitive with the board game?

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Was there like any moment where you kind of argued?

Speaker 3 (02:15):
No, I mean, look, no arguing, but you know, it's
just like playful competition. I mean, she really beat the
crap out of me and viewed games like I just
lost massively. And I don't know. Maybe she's just really smart.
And I feel like, maybe I don't know now thinking
about it, maybe I wasn't on the same level. Maybe
she thought I wasn't as smart as her or something.
I really don't know.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Why would she think you're not as smartest her? Do
you do you or do you not think you're a smartest?

Speaker 3 (02:41):
I don't know. Maybe I'm not. I mean, I'm not
calling myself dumb. It's just yeah, you know what did you?

Speaker 1 (02:47):
Guys talk about.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Everything and anything from life experiences to we went down
to physics, and she's also into politics. We talked about
some of that.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Politics, physics, WHOA the first date? WHOA that.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
I was starting to get sweaty to me.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Too thinking about both of those.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Things, and yeah, that's pretty much where we're at.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Was there anything awkward that happened on the date at all?

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Not to my knowledge, No, did.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
It seemed like she was into like during the date,
I mean, since it felt like everything was going great.
But did she give you any signs that she was
flirting with you?

Speaker 3 (03:30):
Yeah? I mean, you know, yeah, like we were like
stared each other in the eyes a lot, a lot
of eye contact, a little bit of like, you know,
arm touch, that kind of stuff. I mean, like again,
I think these were all just positive signs. You know,
we're on the ship, biggling, having a great time. She
was winning, she was really laughing about it and having fun.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
And how'd the date end?

Speaker 3 (03:51):
We we just hugged it out. We hugged it out
and that was it.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
Did she say anything about getting together again?

Speaker 3 (03:58):
I had I had told her on it here yet
and she was on board. She was on the same page.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
Were one hundred percent sure. She's single to.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
My knowledge yet. Now if she's in some sort of
situation that she didn't bring up, well then that's a
little bit on her.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
But of course, yeah, just curious at the.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Time we have we both found out we haven't been
dating for a while. I mean, we're really looking okay, okay, all.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
Right, we'll see if we can figure it out for
you a play a song, come back, and then call
her and see she tells us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Okay, all right, thank you, Okay, well play.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Song, come back, and get your first day follow up
next if you're just joining us. Jeff is on the
phone for a first day follow up and he's getting
ghosted by Bbe. So we're about to call her and
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe
get him another date if he still wants one after
here's the reason. But before we do that, Jeff, why
don't you catch everybody up on your date with Bib.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Pretty much, we had a very unplanned first encounter at
a book shop. We were just sitting next to each other,
how to have started having some small talk, invited for
a dinner tip together. We had a great dinner, We
had a great conversation. Then we went to one of
those board game bar places, very casual, played a couple

(05:09):
of games, had the best time, laughed the loss. You
wiped me out. She's very beautiful, she believe and smarter.
And the last month I would say it's I've been
texting her, and yeah, i've been. I've been ghosted, heavily ghosted.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
It feels fishy. Are you ready for us to call her?

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Let's go?

Speaker 1 (05:27):
All right, here we go? I may I speak to BB. Please?
It's HIBB. How are you?

Speaker 2 (05:45):
My name is Jubil and ho's the radio show and
it's called the Jubil Show BB.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
The whole show is here with Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Super fun to say, Bbe, I know it is. I
just couldn't help himself.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Oh my god, I don't believe it. Am I on
the radio right now?

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (06:04):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
We do a segment on our show and it's called
the first Date follow Up.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
Yeah, okay, I've I've heard this one before. Oh nice, Yeah,
I think I know what this is about.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
That makes it? You want to take a guess? See
if you're right?

Speaker 3 (06:25):
Yeah, it's Jeff right.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yes it is.

Speaker 5 (06:28):
Congratulations. So we honestly like he's a really nice guy.
He's actually smarter than he gives himself credit for. He
was like beating himself up a lot on the date.
But so we went to this board game bar and
we played scrabble and he was like nice up until

(06:52):
that point, and then it was just like Frankenstein's Monster
was like complete switch and he was just so competitive,
but like mainly with himself. He was just like so
intense and beating himself up the whole time. And I
just don't want to didn't think i'd want to be
with someone who was able to kind of like be

(07:15):
that intense on a first date, you know.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
So what was he doing.

Speaker 5 (07:19):
He was just like getting super mad at himself and
like intense about the whole game. And we had like
just met and it would be his turn and he
would like play a word and then I would play
a better word, and then he would just like beat
himself up.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
He'd be like, oh my god, why didn't I see that?
Or stupid? You know.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
He'd like just realize he missed the word, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
And I was just like, whoa where he's like just
the game.

Speaker 5 (07:43):
He was just like I don't know, he was like
just compare.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
I mean I was much.

Speaker 5 (07:47):
Better at him, but that's fine.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
People, Yeah, he couldn't take it. I don't know, it
was just like, yeah, off putting.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
Did you say anything in the moment or did you
just let it go?

Speaker 3 (08:01):
No?

Speaker 5 (08:01):
I mean I just met him.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
I was just like okay.

Speaker 5 (08:03):
And then he obviously wanted to go on another day
and I and he put it the ball in my
court and he was just like, let me know, and
I was like, sure, I'll let you know.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
And then I guess didn't let him know. Yeah, yeah,
in a way I did.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
Okay, Well, thank you for being honest, Mabe.

Speaker 2 (08:22):
I appreciate that Jeff is actually on the line listing
and been listening this whole time and he wants to
talk to you.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Visage What what? That drove me crazy during our whole
game And I still can't stop thinking about it.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Oh, I guess, so, well, what's visage?

Speaker 3 (08:45):
This was the word that I couldn't figure out during
our game and it just drove me crazy. It's been
haunting me in my dreams.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Isn't a real word?

Speaker 3 (08:56):
The I s a g E.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Storious sound the studio or you sound upset about it
right now thinking about.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
It, Jeff, I mean, and then her on the other line.
It's a lot going on right.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Now, Okay.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
Visage a person's face with reference to the form of proportion,
proportions of the features. Oh, so you have an elegant
angular visage.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
Interesting, none of those a word. Thank you for teaching
us the word today.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
Uh, you're welcome.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Okay, thank you sound really upset.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
It's not sad. I just you know, I just didn't
know that BB felt that way about our first date,
our first encounter. I mean, I just really thought we
had a good time. I didn't realize I had these
toxic traits of being O really competitive and and yeah,
doubting my my my myself a lot. I realized all this.
It kind of hurts to listen to her say that, Well.

Speaker 4 (09:52):
Maybe it's also an opportunity to kind of open your
eyes to seeing how you talk to yourself and maybe
doing that something that might be helpful to change, not
just on a date, but like in general.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
No, I disagree with you. I'm sorry, But with all
due respect, if I did a bad job, I will
tell myself I did a bad job. I'll give myself credit.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Okay, do you ever give yourself credit.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
When the job is done? Well?

Speaker 5 (10:19):
Yeah, sure, okay, Okay, I mean I appreciate the self awareness.

Speaker 3 (10:26):
I will say that it does sound like you're still
like dating yourself up. Well, look, it's unacceptable. I knew
that word. I know it sounds kind of dumb to
being so angry about it, But when you know something
and you don't know about it in a certain moment,
of course it's gonna piss you off. And it did
at the time. It was kind of inconvenient. I could

(10:47):
have not known about that word at a dinner, but no,
I had it happen during a game with a girl
I really liked, you know. Oh yeah, And I swear
I'm going to sound like a nut right now, but
every morning I've been writing that we're down a hundred times,
so I don't forget it.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
Wow, okay, I guess that's sweet.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Oh I oh, that's robastic. Let's go on a second date.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
Would you like to go out with Jeff again on
another date? We'll pay for it, babe.

Speaker 5 (11:17):
Ummm, I'm not gonna lie like the whole lack of
self control, like I've gone out with guys who I
have that and it's not great. But I do appreciate
someone who has a affinity for vocabulary words.

Speaker 3 (11:35):
So yeah, sure, we're still on one more day and
it's a free dinner, forget about it. Even if you
hit my guts and I hit yours, we could just
not talk to each other. And it's the most expected
thing on the menu.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
So okay. So congratulations, Jeff, you got another date. You
will first date fall up.
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