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May 8, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Liz is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Elliott.
So the second we're going to call him and see
if you tell us why he's ghosting here. But first, Liz,
how long has it been since you heard from Elliott?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been four days?

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Are you sure you're getting ghosted?

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (00:26):
Why? Well, because we had such an amazing date and
it was really long and intricate and wonderful. So yeah,
I mean we went on Hinge and we were like
talking for a month, so there.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Was a big lead up. Oh wow, Yeah, we're just
we're busy.

Speaker 5 (00:47):
And so when we finally had a Saturday where we
could actually see each other, we did it and we
decided it was going to be a whole day, like
a day date, and so we started with a coffee
and a walk, and then we went to the aquarium,
and then we had a late lunch and drinks.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
It keeps going, and then we were like.

Speaker 5 (01:09):
What do we do about Okay, and then we like
looked to some antique shops that were like in the area,
and then he took me to.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
His favorite bar and we had more drinks and some apps,
and then we played pool and we were having such
a good time that he invited me back to his
place and I went and that was great too, and
I slept over.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Okay, I mean that sounds like an amazing date. That's
like five dates in one and there was.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
Never an awkward moment. Like everything was wonderful. We were
just playful. We seemed to have the same sense of humor.
We kind of making each other laugh. We're like both
kind of adventurous.

Speaker 5 (01:48):
We kept wanting to like do new things.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
So that's what I'm saying, Like, it just felt amazing.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Well, how did it end?

Speaker 3 (01:57):
Well, I slept over and just saying that part.

Speaker 5 (01:59):
Was good too, awkwards, just nice and easy.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
We had coffee in the morning and then we're like,
I guess we've been together for like almost twenty four hours,
so I'll give you some space.

Speaker 5 (02:13):
But like we kissed, and the next day we were
like texting a lot, just saying how are you?

Speaker 3 (02:19):
And then after that I tried to text him like
four more time and nothing.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
What was your texting?

Speaker 5 (02:26):
Like?

Speaker 3 (02:27):
Well, the first you know, day was like, oh that
was so much fun. We talked about like today.

Speaker 5 (02:31):
Chokes and the aquarium.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
But then I was just like, how's your day going?
Or I sent.

Speaker 5 (02:37):
Him a picture like saw this and thought of you
because it it made sense at the bar we were in.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Like stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Okay, So there wasn't anything like awkward that you said
on text that could be the reason it's ghosting.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
No, although I'm now thinking there is one thing. But
it didn't seem like, you know, it didn't seem like
a big deal. But now, but I just keep thinking
about it.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
When we were in bed together, I kind of made
this joke because he said something about kids or babies, and.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
Then I'm like, oh, yeah, what would our babies look like?
Oh okay, but he kind of went with it, and
and I'm an awkward at the time, so I think
he knew I was joking.

Speaker 5 (03:19):
But now I'm wondering, Oh, maybe he thought, I like
want baby once you're here serious.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Some people are just into that, like some for some
people to get there that fast, they I don't even
think that they understand what they're talking about, Like it's
part of like the thing thing like tell me what
my baby would look like?

Speaker 4 (03:37):
Gotcha? And then this is more fun for me now.

Speaker 1 (03:40):
So maybe that maybe he thought that was your thing,
or maybe he thought you really wanted this. Maybe I
don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
I hope it isn't that that's the only thing, right?

Speaker 4 (03:52):
Would that freak you out? Juble?

Speaker 1 (03:54):
What if somebody was in bed with you and they're like,
tell me what you think our baby would look like? No?

Speaker 4 (03:59):
I don't think so. Okay, But also I've trusted the
wrong people.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay, all right, we'll play this song come back, and
then call him and see if he'll tell us why
is ghosting you?

Speaker 4 (04:11):
And maybe get you another day if you still want one.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
Okay, Okay, sounds good. All right, I'll do it next
if you're just joining us for today's first date.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
Follow up.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
Liz is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a dude named Elliot. We're about to call him and
see if he'll tell us why is ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Liz, why don't
you refresh everybody's memory on your situation?

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (04:31):
I mean, so I met this guy Elliott after like,
we texted for a month and we had this amazing
state where it lasted about twenty four hours, and we
did so many things and everything was fun, but acquiring
am pool and bar and drinks and we hooked up
and we.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Laughed and texted the next day.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
And now I haven't heard from from And what's the
one reason you think that he might be ghosting you?

Speaker 3 (04:56):
Well?

Speaker 5 (04:56):
I did mention that, like what would our babies look
like when we were med together?

Speaker 3 (05:01):
But it was just really fast. It was gorgeous curls
and I have gorgeous eye.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
That's a beautiful. All right, are you ready for us
to call him?

Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah, let's do this.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Here we go, Hello him, I speak to Elliott. Please.

Speaker 6 (05:29):
Oh yeah, this is him.

Speaker 4 (05:30):
Hey Elliott, how are you? My name is Jewbell and
the house the radio show it's called the Jewbel Show.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
Hi, Elliott, the show's here.

Speaker 4 (05:36):
My name is Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you?

Speaker 6 (05:40):
Yeah? I'm good. Hey guys, what's going on?

Speaker 4 (05:43):
Just chilling? Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 6 (05:46):
Yeah? Yeah, do it? You guys do a good job.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
Thank you. I appreciate that.

Speaker 6 (05:49):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
Yeah. Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?

Speaker 1 (05:54):
I have?

Speaker 4 (05:56):
I have great that's cool. Well, guess what, Elliott.

Speaker 6 (06:01):
Did somebody put you off?

Speaker 3 (06:02):
To this.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
Yes, we got an email about you from somebody that
you're ghosting.

Speaker 4 (06:07):
They want to know why you're ghosting them. You have
any idea who could be?

Speaker 6 (06:10):
Yeah, I have an idea.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
Yeah, take a shot. I'll tell you if you're right.

Speaker 6 (06:15):
All right, is it Liz?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
Yes, Elliott, congratulations, you know who you're ghosting. So Liz
wants to know why you're not calling her back. She said,
you guys had an awesome time.

Speaker 6 (06:27):
Oh my god, I can't believe it.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
I mean, of course she would call you guys, because
just what should do? Okay, So yeah, first let me
say that. Look, I really liked Liz, but I mean
even this is a bit extreme right now, Like wow,
I just have to say, like she's a bit clingy,

(06:51):
and uh, she like was constantly texting me like it
was just sweating me. Wouldn't even give me like some breathing.
I mean it was a great data and everything, and yeah, we.

Speaker 6 (07:03):
Did hook up.

Speaker 7 (07:04):
But then I got really weirded out because I mean
we're laying in bed, you know, everything's going okay, and
then she's like, oh, gee, I wonder what our baby's
name would be.

Speaker 6 (07:14):
And I'm like what she told.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
Us about that she said that might have scared you off.

Speaker 7 (07:19):
I mean I was a little bit freaked out, like
I'm like, whoa, Like what are you talking about?

Speaker 6 (07:24):
What our baby would look like and what his name
would be.

Speaker 7 (07:27):
I just met you, like came, you know, like pumped
a break and then you know, she leaves, and then
she just constantly starts pinging my phone and texting me
over and over. Like I had to like basically turn
my phone on silently because my buddies were like, dude, like,
what's going on, Like is it work? And I'm like, no,
it's this girl home. They're like, oh my god, like

(07:48):
what's going on? And I have to be honest with you,
Like my last relationship was super smothering.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
You know.

Speaker 7 (07:54):
I just I can't be in that sort of environment,
Like it just causes them to DSc and if uncomfortable
and I get anxiety. And I just felt super smothered
by her, and it's a huge turn off.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
So it's just too much for.

Speaker 7 (08:08):
You, Yeah, way too much. Like she's got to pump
the brakes, like I know, you know, it was all good.
She's good booking, I'm good booking. You know, the physical
part of it was perfect.

Speaker 6 (08:21):
You know, it's all good, but my goodness, you know,
give a guy some space. Man, Oh okay, to.

Speaker 4 (08:26):
Be like so much.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
Well, this might not be good then, but she's actually
on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 7 (08:37):
Ash, Hey, hey, Liz, how's it going?

Speaker 5 (08:44):
Ill? That was a lot. I feel like you're kind
of exaggerating a bit. Like we spent twenty four hours together.
We obviously like each other. I obviously like you. That's
why I would want to text you, especially after we
hooked up and.

Speaker 3 (09:03):
It seems like you really liked me.

Speaker 5 (09:05):
I did not text you like twenty times to text
you like full time.

Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yes, every day, but like once, So I don't know, like,
do you like me? Do you want to get to
know me?

Speaker 7 (09:17):
I mean, look, I do like you live and I
think you're a great girl and everything, but like you know,
I just really need my space.

Speaker 6 (09:26):
I mean, especially in the beginning.

Speaker 7 (09:28):
You know, I told you I just got out of
this relationship and like she was super you know, jealous
and super clingy, and it was it didn't end very
well and I just need my space.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Okay. But I'm not like that. I'm not like codependent
or want to control you. I'm not going to ask
you what you're doing every minute. I'm not going to
like want your opinion about stuff.

Speaker 5 (09:50):
I just want to get to know you better and
see you more or like flirty talk and text like
what makes you feel comfortable if you want to just like.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
Talk in the evenings so you can tell me. I'm
a big girl.

Speaker 7 (10:06):
I think, you know, yeah, if we could just do it,
you know, like at the end of the day when
things are winding down, you know, not do it during
the day because there's a lot going on. You know,
it's work probably for both of us, and then and
then just see where it goes.

Speaker 3 (10:21):
You know.

Speaker 7 (10:21):
I'm sure I'm down to joke and everything like that,
but you know, I think you know.

Speaker 4 (10:28):
Just yeah, no joking on business time is.

Speaker 7 (10:35):
Well no, no, seriously, Like I'm the real though, Like
my boss, like they check that stuff. You guys, Like
they're like, oh, oh you yeah, They're like, oh are
you guys on your phone? Like or if they see
you on your phone, you know, they'll ask like, oh,
talking to somebody or oh you know your kid or
whatever I mean. And it's not like they make it obvious,
but you know, people are watching.

Speaker 6 (10:57):
I don't want to lose my job either.

Speaker 4 (10:59):
Well, would you like another date with Liz? We'll pay
for it.

Speaker 7 (11:03):
Well, Liz, yeah, I can definitely do another one if
you want, but don't worry.

Speaker 4 (11:11):
Yeah, yeah, I guess another one, only if you want.

Speaker 6 (11:17):
Elliott, no, ill No.

Speaker 7 (11:20):
Li is a great girl, and I was. You know,
I'm flattered that she's just that head over heels and uh, Liz,
it'd be great to see you again. You know, hopefully
I can we can just talk to each other and
I can be honest with you and and we can
you know, come to some sort of compromise.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
Okay, like scheduling our sex life.

Speaker 4 (11:42):
Okay, you're just cute.

Speaker 3 (11:47):
You're like, you're a little serious.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
But you're cute. Jules First D follow up
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