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May 6, 2024 10 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Remy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Tererka. So in
a minute, we're gonna call her and see tell us
why she's ghosting, and maybe get another date. But first, Remy,
how long has it been since you heard from Tarika.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
It's been in about two weeks now, Okay.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Have you reached out to her?

Speaker 3 (00:23):
I mean at first I was reaching out, but you
know I've kind of gotten the point and you know,
held back recently.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
But why don't you tell us about your date?

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah? Sure, So we went out to stake place in
town I really like, and then after that we went
out for a froio and then we even went out
to a little dive bar I really like after that.
So I don't know, it was a great night, you know,
you know, we met up around seven, and you know,
by the time I dropped her off, it was you know,
almost starting night. So great night, a lot of fun.

Speaker 5 (00:55):
This is always weird to me when you go to
three different locations and then you get ghosted, because at
that point you have a pretty good feeling that like,
this person wants to spend time with you, like you
had it out two different times.

Speaker 4 (01:05):
Did you feel like she was super nice?

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah, she was super nice. I like, you know how
we talked a while before even our first date, and like,
I don't know, we're both vive been really good together.
And yeah, it was really weird that she didn't tell
me anything was wrong.

Speaker 6 (01:19):
So could it be like work or family related that
she's not like something's going on in her personal life?

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, I mean she she's some like she really had
her stuff together. But you know, it's definitely possible shed
get this guy busy. But you know, like I said,
it's been in a couple of weeks, so I forgot.
If she wanted to go out another date, maybe she
would have answered me, But I really at least, you know,
want to know why.

Speaker 5 (01:40):
During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that
she liked you? Did she say that or is there
something that could have possibly happened that would have made
the date kind of take a turn? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
Like so I guess the one thing is I was
making like kind of some suggestive comments, like you know,
because things were going so well, like, you know, how
much I liked her and stuff, and it seemed like
those feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know,
maybe I pushed too hard, like that's the one thing
I could really.

Speaker 5 (02:07):
Think of, But like what did you say? What direction
were you pushing? Like, oh I really liked you, I
can't realy get married or yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, yeah, no, no, nothing like that, but just like, oh,
you know, next time, I'll have to do this, and
you know, things like that, like you know kind of
you know, you know, insinuating that you know, this wouldn't
be the only you know, date.

Speaker 4 (02:27):
I think that's some good things.

Speaker 6 (02:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or
any reason that you'd be getting ghosted.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Yeah, I don't know, Like, uh, I don't know. Maybe
I wasn't dressed right, like I was wearing like corduroy
pants or something. Maybe she was kidding me on that.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
Corduroys are in now, so ish okay, so maybe you
were getting judged on that, Like I mean, I like them.
How tight were they?

Speaker 3 (02:59):
They said? That's right? Man?

Speaker 1 (03:00):
Okay, all right, well we'll see if that is the issue.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
We'll play a song come Back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another date if you still want.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
Okay, all right, also appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
So we'll play a song come back, and get your
first day follow up next.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
if you're just joining us, Remy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Tarika. So in a second,
we're going to call her and see if she tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on
your date with Tarica.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
So, yeah, we went out to stage place, we had
frozen yogurt, you know, we went to a dive bar,
you know, all together. We were together probably for about
five hours. It's a great day, you know it. Text
her a few times after the date, but now it's
been about two weeks, haven't heard from her. Don't know
if she was judging me on my quarter right chain
some of the talent that is making you know, you know,

(03:49):
hoping that we would you know, it wouldn't be our
only date or anything like that. And yeah, I'm just
really like to hear from her again, or at least
find out like why I haven't heard from her?

Speaker 1 (03:58):
Okay, cool, you're ready for us to call her?

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Bill?

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Okay, here we go, Hi, I speak to Erica. Please.
This is hey Tarica. How are you?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
My name is Jewbell and I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
Hi, Sarah, I'm Nina. I'm also on the show.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
Please serious, that's cool?

Speaker 1 (04:30):
You listen to the show.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Ever, Yeah, we do a segment on the show called
the First Date follow Up, where if you go on
a day with somebody and ghost them, that person emails
us to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Okay, so.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
We got an email about.

Speaker 6 (04:48):
You, Okay, all right.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
It's from a dude named Remy. Oh no, oh yeah, yep?

Speaker 4 (04:57):
Are you ghosting Remy?

Speaker 6 (05:01):
Can I say yes or no?

Speaker 4 (05:03):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (05:04):
Yeah? Would you mind explaining to us what that means? Though?

Speaker 6 (05:08):
I get like, I definitely put off messaging him back.
I'll put it that way. I've put off messaging him.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Back, So he's ghost yet it's just delayed. It just
mailed him a letter.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
At this point sounds funny.

Speaker 6 (05:27):
It wasn't anything like I literally just got thrown off.
That was that was it. Like, it wasn't like anything.
I was just thrown off. Okay, So I couldn't stop
thinking about what happened where we went to get frozen ugurt,
like like I don't know what happened, but like he
like became like a monster in that Prolio shop, Like

(05:50):
he added everything that they had available for toppings and stuff,
and then he went bonkers, like he added everything like
cookies and gummy bears and sprinkles and the JoBlo syrup
and the strawberry.

Speaker 5 (06:07):
Yeah, it sounds like he was having a good Yeah,
it sounds like something I do too. I know he's
ended up sending forty bucks those like.

Speaker 4 (06:16):
Some things are so good. I don't understand what you
was just one right, Well, I was.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
My thought process. But I was like I was like weird.
I was like, okay, this thing is going to weigh
forty pounds, and I just like, has you never been
to one of these places? Like is this first time
out of the house, Like no, I just I guess
I thought about it like way too much. And then
I was like, well, I'll get back to him. You know,
I was still in my head and then I completely

(06:44):
forgot to get back to him.

Speaker 4 (06:48):
Okay, just for that sounds like something, Victoria.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
Yeah, obviously you're judging him on having so many toppings?

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Does that?

Speaker 5 (06:56):
Does that tell you something about his character? You're just
really not show how somebody can mix cookies and gummy
bears together. I'm not really understanding how this was like
an ick for you.

Speaker 6 (07:07):
It was just like a lot like I think I
was just stunned. It was kind of like a train
wreck kind of thing. I was just watching it. I
just can't I can't stop thinking about it.

Speaker 4 (07:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (07:18):
Okay, let me ask you this, Tarika. This will help
me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt?

Speaker 6 (07:23):
Oh? Well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,
you know, two tree flavors that like all make.

Speaker 4 (07:29):
Sense together, but no toppings.

Speaker 6 (07:32):
I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like,
let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like
some fresh strawberries on it or something like that that
makes sense, Like I do a couple of things.

Speaker 5 (07:42):
Yeah, no, no, I get it now. Her closet is
like it's color coordinating it is. Actually yeah, see okay,
I just needed to understand, okay, why the chaos.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Was third.

Speaker 6 (07:56):
Chaos is a good word for it.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Yeah, that's the reason that you're ghosting. It was because
of the toppings on his froyo.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
I was just kind of picturing, you know how, like
there's those people at the like soda fountains that they
get like a splash of every single flavor in the
cup like that always.

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Okay, so I do that too. What Yeah, it's a
very incoction. It's called Anina. I understand your name, like
Nina aid, you know, like lemonade.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
Was like anyways, Erica, thank you for telling us. I
should also you know that Remy is on the phone
listening and wants to talk to a little.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
So yeah, I guess I kind of like you could
say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt, like you've heard
of the kid in the candy store, while I'm like
the man in the frog place, Like I just can't
make my mind. So I guess maybe I didn't want
to hold on the date, so kind of deciding I
just added a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
If I don't think you need to apologize.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
I found pretty offended, So.

Speaker 6 (09:03):
I was okay, So I clarifica said, I'm so sorry.
I was not offended. I was just blown away flesh.

Speaker 4 (09:10):
My mind is just blown.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
Like I don't think I had the power to think
after that.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza
or something, but you know, I like to order a
lot of topics.

Speaker 6 (09:19):
Those, so I was gonna say, like, how many topics
go on your pizza? Like are you one of those
people that put party contina butter or something, but.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Maybe some sausage and pine applehole and green pepper and
onion and Canadian bacon and taco and you know, pepperoni
and black olives, green olives, So not too many mushrooms,
but not too many toppings.

Speaker 5 (09:47):
But I.

Speaker 6 (09:50):
Don't know that well, at least like with pizzas, you
can usually order like a half and half.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
So but yeah, so it was just a proio huh.
Like it was really kind of just going around an
ear from you.

Speaker 6 (10:04):
Oh, Like I wasn't really like ghosting me because of it.
I just got in my head about it and then
I honestly I meant to get back to you, and
then I just I didn't like that. That's it, like
I wish I had a better use, I wish I
had a clever and I have nothing.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
It was just would you like to go out with
Remy again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay
for most of it. I don't know how much is
FROO cost if you guys get FROO, but we'll pay
for it.

Speaker 6 (10:30):
I mean, I guess the big your question is like,
is he willing to go out with me again?

Speaker 1 (10:35):
That's fair?

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Yeah, you know that, uh pizza with the twenty topping
just sounded pretty good now, so that'd be awesome.

Speaker 6 (10:42):
Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just
don't get the twenty topping pizza.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
I'm like, you get

Speaker 1 (10:51):
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