April 29, 2024 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Teddy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she
told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you
heard from her?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
I'd spent about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
How many times have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Maybe three times? Like what's every couple days? Two or
three days, just you know, saying what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
How's it going.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
We were talking before h and after we went out
that it just kind of stopped.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
She didn't respond to any of those I.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Know, not not at all.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Well, let's talk about the date and see if we
can see went wrong? What and see what went wrong?
Speaker 5 (00:46):
We went to a really nice place we went to
I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.
If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,
you know that we sit outside because it was a
really really nice day.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
It was cool.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
We had a really great conversation and she's got her
head on her shoulders, you.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Know, in the right way.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
You know how a lot of people they focus too
much on like social media and stuff, you know what
I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and
that's I'm not I'm not trying.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
To meet anybody like that, you know. But she really
loves her job. She's got a really good job. She
works up and she's got goals, which is always a
good thing, you know what I mean. Yeahs like like
a five year plan.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that
I was I really thought we hit it off on
on that level. And uh, you know, the food is
great and the hobby option is great.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
You know. So I really can't really think off the
top of my head.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Of why after such a nice date that, you know,
I just she just stopped communicating with me, Like I
can't say that we stopped communicating.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
I'm so you know, trying to reach out.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,
was there anything awkward that happened on the date at
all that you can think of?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
I don't know if it's anything I did.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant
even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
That might have been something. I will admit. The service
wasn't the best.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
You know, we wanted to sit outside like that she
suggested it, but then they sat as where the suns
like directly in our faces, you know, so I had
to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because
the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,
you know, I can be a little assertive when I
you know, when when the situation calls for it.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And maybe that's part of the reason why.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
After like the second time that I had to ask
to be moved to get somebody's attention, that might be,
you know. Other than that, we talked for a while.
We watched you know, the sun go down. It was
really really cool, you know. And again we had a
lot in common, and you know, we had you know,
we had we talked about goals. That was always really good.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem
to change her on my quote unquote assertive.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
She didn't change her demeanor. Do you feel like she
kind of was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
No, I mean, in the moment, I can't I don't
remember any disagreement I'm going to say, no.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
You sound really really nice. So I'm having a hard
time picturing that, Like what did that sound like? Do
you mind like pretending for a second?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Well, no, because it's like, you know, excuse me.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
You know, I don't know if you remember the old
Bug Bunny cartoon where he's trying to see an other
animal's attention. He's like, hey, all the animals are just running.
He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,
And then finally I was like, hey, excuse me for
a second, you know. Okay, I didn't like raise my
voice or anything, but I definitely had to like get
up and go talk to somebody.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to
figure out. Like, it wasn't an excusemer.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
No, I'm not going to do that. That's inappropriate.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Did you guys kiss or anything?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any
moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug
at the.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
End, Okay, not like a side hug.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
No, it wasn't.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
No, I wasn't like a sidehug, but it was very brief,
like oh, thank you very much, A little pack.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Of a cheek. That was it?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, plus song come back and then call her Seash
tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you
another date. Okay, okay, great, all right, well plus song
come back? You get your first a follow up next.
Right in the middle of the first day follow up.
If you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Maya, So we're about to
call her Sosha, tell us why she's ghosting him, and
maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why don't
you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
No, we met online, We talked for a while.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
We went on a really nice date at dinner and
talk for a while, and I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Everything was going great.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
And I haven't been able to get a touch here
since you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Please?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yeah, okay, here we go, I may I speak to Maya. Please.
This is che Hey Maya.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
My name is Jewbell and this is a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Maya, the whole show's here.
My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Hi cool.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
I'm good?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
How are you? I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking. Well,
we're calling you today because we do a segment on
the show. It's called the first Date follow Up. What
that is is if you go out on a date
with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can
email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Okay, that makes me nervous.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Are you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
I guess like kin and I feel like I remember,
this is maybe about a guess. Teddy, you're correct.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get any price
for that, but yes, it's Teddy. Would you mind telling
us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Uh? Well, so we So I met him online and
I had when I was when I was online.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
And I was like going to the app or whatever.
A friend of mine was with me, a girlfriend, and
she noticed him actually, and she.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Was like, oh, I know exactly who that is, and
she was telling me all about him. She like mentioned
that he was kind of a tool and that like,
I don't know, like dating him is kind of just
so bad.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Dating him is kind of like getting a like a
loan at a bank.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
And so for some reason that really meant that I
was kind of intrigued and I was like, I want
to see if this guy is really like that.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great. So I
ended up we.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
Ended up going on the date, and I just like
the whole time he was complaining about things and like
making kind of like a fuss about things, Like we
were sitting outside and the sun was like on our
table and he like made us move, and I just
I didn't really mindn't really like totally care. And it
was like super busy in our restaurant too, because like
(06:53):
this was kind of like uncomfortable. And then when we
started talking, he only asked me about my career and
like how my lifestyle is and stuff like that, and
I just felt like I was like, don't you actually
want to get to know me? Like it kind of
felt like he had already like made up his mind,
like he's like I could date her and let me
just see how it fits into my life that like
(07:14):
what's exactly she Like. I just felt like I had
like no say in it, And I was like, Okay,
this was kind of strange.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?
Speaker 6 (07:26):
You know?
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Of course, of course, I think it was just that
he didn't really ask me about any of my hobbies.
He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.
He was just like, what's your job? Like do you
make enough money to like support yourself?
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Like what what do you do?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Like?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
You know what I mean? Like it was very like
I just feel like I was in a job interview
or something.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
There's ways to get those answers without asking that question,
by the way, you'd like to learn, But.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well, guess what maya what?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
It's not easy easy thing because Teddy's actually on the
phone and has been listening this whole time, wants to
talk to about.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
I don't really know how much I want to have
this conversation.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Now. That's that's super messed up.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
You know that, you know, you and your friends are
making fun of me, and that's that's really what's wrong
with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know
someone or or share a you know, like anything proper,
it's just, oh, let me go see what this person
is like really about with a you know, with a
with an agenda that you don't even like articulate.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
You know, there wasn't like a vet or anything. I
was just genuinely curious.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that
before we went out, all of the questions that saying
that we were talking about.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
You could have asked me about me before we went out.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to
my friend, do you know whatever whoever your friend was,
and we you know, we could have had this conversation
and just avoided all that whole thing.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
It's just a little on the ridiculous side, you know,
And that's that's a problem.
Speaker 7 (08:59):
Anything that you would have acted probably like like a
different way, and then I would have not actually known
who the real you is.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
Like I just think that that's a silly thing.
Speaker 7 (09:07):
I just I went on the date, I like tried
to get to know you a little bit, and you
did not care about anything I had to say. You
just cared about like the way I like was in
my life, like how I.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
Fit into your life. And I just think that that's
a silly reason.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
I don't know about other people online.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I'm definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days
a week. So if you would have asked me, we
could have you know, we could have avoided that. All
you had to do was ask me about my experience
with your friend. And if I could have remembered your friend,
I would have told you exactly what you know, what
I felt. But when I meet with somebody, when I
meet anyone, you know, I'm very straightforward about you know,
what's important to me. And I think that we know,
(09:45):
what we talked about was really cool, and I thought
we had actually, you know, thought we had a cool vibe.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Now I don't know how differ it was. You know
how much that was you you you.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Know, I mean it was all me.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I just I just expected. I mean I could have
actually been a little bit more and stuff. But you
didn't ask me anything about me as a person, So
I you got what she asked for. I mean you
asked me. It felt like I was in a job interview,
Like I just don't get it.
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,
you know, meet someone and you want to know if
you're compatible, you would ask questions. And for me, I'm
I'm a person who does a lot of I'm very
serious about.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Work and goals and meeting my goals.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
So I just wanted to make sure that I was,
you know, on the same page as somebody who had,
you know, goals.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
I mean, do you even have any type of goals?
Or was that all just stuff that you were saying?
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Of course I have, sous. It's like a silly, silly
thing to say, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:38):
I just I just expected you to give a little
bit more of a crap about like who I am
as a person, and all those other things that you're
asking of me would have came naturally, they would have
come out. You could have like just been a little
bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it
or something.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Because it did not go well, Well, tell me one
thing that I said about myself on the day. Tell
me because if if it was good, then you should
know this, right.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
Yeah, but that's not the point.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
All right now.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
You know, Hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
No, thank you, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
I don't want to go out with you again. I
get I get it. You know, they just just have
fun on your apps.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Maybe you can meet somebody that you're not going to
be playing games with from the beginning.
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Okay, Teddy, well, you have fun playing games with yourself.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
Ju Will's first day follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Teddy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she
told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you
heard from her?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
I'd spent about a week.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
How many times have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 5 (00:23):
Maybe three times? Like what's every couple days? Two or
three days, just you know, saying what's up?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
How's it going.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
We were talking before h and after we went out
that it just kind of stopped.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
She didn't respond to any of those I.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
Know, not not at all.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
Well, let's talk about the date and see if we
can see went wrong? What and see what went wrong?
Speaker 5 (00:46):
We went to a really nice place we went to
I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.
If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,
you know that we sit outside because it was a
really really nice day.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
It was cool.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
We had a really great conversation and she's got her
head on her shoulders, you.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Know, in the right way.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
You know how a lot of people they focus too
much on like social media and stuff, you know what
I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and
that's I'm not I'm not trying.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
To meet anybody like that, you know. But she really
loves her job. She's got a really good job. She
works up and she's got goals, which is always a
good thing, you know what I mean. Yeahs like like
a five year plan.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that
I was I really thought we hit it off on
on that level. And uh, you know, the food is
great and the hobby option is great.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
You know. So I really can't really think off the
top of my head.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Of why after such a nice date that, you know,
I just she just stopped communicating with me, Like I
can't say that we stopped communicating.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
I'm so you know, trying to reach out.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
You know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,
was there anything awkward that happened on the date at
all that you can think of?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
I don't know if it's anything I did.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant
even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
That might have been something. I will admit. The service
wasn't the best.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
You know, we wanted to sit outside like that she
suggested it, but then they sat as where the suns
like directly in our faces, you know, so I had
to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because
the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,
you know, I can be a little assertive when I
you know, when when the situation calls for it.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And maybe that's part of the reason why.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
After like the second time that I had to ask
to be moved to get somebody's attention, that might be,
you know. Other than that, we talked for a while.
We watched you know, the sun go down. It was
really really cool, you know. And again we had a
lot in common, and you know, we had you know,
we had we talked about goals. That was always really good.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
You know.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem
to change her on my quote unquote assertive.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
She didn't change her demeanor. Do you feel like she
kind of was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
No, I mean, in the moment, I can't I don't
remember any disagreement I'm going to say, no.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
You sound really really nice. So I'm having a hard
time picturing that, Like what did that sound like? Do
you mind like pretending for a second?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Well, no, because it's like, you know, excuse me.
Speaker 5 (03:16):
You know, I don't know if you remember the old
Bug Bunny cartoon where he's trying to see an other
animal's attention. He's like, hey, all the animals are just running.
He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,
And then finally I was like, hey, excuse me for
a second, you know. Okay, I didn't like raise my
voice or anything, but I definitely had to like get
up and go talk to somebody.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to
figure out. Like, it wasn't an excusemer.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
No, I'm not going to do that. That's inappropriate.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Did you guys kiss or anything?
Speaker 4 (03:45):
No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any
moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug
at the.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
End, Okay, not like a side hug.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
No, it wasn't.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
No, I wasn't like a sidehug, but it was very brief,
like oh, thank you very much, A little pack.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Of a cheek. That was it?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, plus song come back and then call her Seash
tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you
another date. Okay, okay, great, all right, well plus song
come back? You get your first a follow up next.
Right in the middle of the first day follow up.
If you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Maya, So we're about to
call her Sosha, tell us why she's ghosting him, and
maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why don't
you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?
Speaker 4 (04:24):
No, we met online, We talked for a while.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
We went on a really nice date at dinner and
talk for a while, and I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Everything was going great.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
And I haven't been able to get a touch here
since you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Please?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yeah, okay, here we go, I may I speak to Maya. Please.
This is che Hey Maya.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
How are you?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
My name is Jewbell and this is a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Maya, the whole show's here.
My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6 (05:06):
Hi cool.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
How are you?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
I'm good?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
How are you? I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking. Well,
we're calling you today because we do a segment on
the show. It's called the first Date follow Up. What
that is is if you go out on a date
with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can
email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Okay, that makes me nervous.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Are you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
I guess like kin and I feel like I remember,
this is maybe about a guess. Teddy, you're correct.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get any price
for that, but yes, it's Teddy. Would you mind telling
us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (05:49):
Uh? Well, so we So I met him online and
I had when I was when I was online.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
And I was like going to the app or whatever.
A friend of mine was with me, a girlfriend, and
she noticed him actually, and she.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Was like, oh, I know exactly who that is, and
she was telling me all about him. She like mentioned
that he was kind of a tool and that like,
I don't know, like dating him is kind of just
so bad.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Dating him is kind of like getting a like a
loan at a bank.
Speaker 7 (06:21):
And so for some reason that really meant that I
was kind of intrigued and I was like, I want
to see if this guy is really like that.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great. So I
ended up we.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
Ended up going on the date, and I just like
the whole time he was complaining about things and like
making kind of like a fuss about things, Like we
were sitting outside and the sun was like on our
table and he like made us move, and I just
I didn't really mindn't really like totally care. And it
was like super busy in our restaurant too, because like
(06:53):
this was kind of like uncomfortable. And then when we
started talking, he only asked me about my career and
like how my lifestyle is and stuff like that, and
I just felt like I was like, don't you actually
want to get to know me? Like it kind of
felt like he had already like made up his mind,
like he's like I could date her and let me
just see how it fits into my life that like
(07:14):
what's exactly she Like. I just felt like I had
like no say in it, And I was like, Okay,
this was kind of strange.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?
Speaker 6 (07:26):
You know?
Speaker 7 (07:26):
Of course, of course, I think it was just that
he didn't really ask me about any of my hobbies.
He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.
He was just like, what's your job? Like do you
make enough money to like support yourself?
Speaker 6 (07:38):
Like what what do you do?
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Like?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
You know what I mean? Like it was very like
I just feel like I was in a job interview
or something.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
There's ways to get those answers without asking that question,
by the way, you'd like to learn, But.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well, guess what maya what?
Speaker 2 (07:59):
It's not easy easy thing because Teddy's actually on the
phone and has been listening this whole time, wants to
talk to about.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
I don't really know how much I want to have
this conversation.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Now. That's that's super messed up.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
You know that, you know, you and your friends are
making fun of me, and that's that's really what's wrong
with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know
someone or or share a you know, like anything proper,
it's just, oh, let me go see what this person
is like really about with a you know, with a
with an agenda that you don't even like articulate.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
You know, there wasn't like a vet or anything. I
was just genuinely curious.
Speaker 5 (08:36):
You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that
before we went out, all of the questions that saying
that we were talking about.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
You could have asked me about me before we went out.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to
my friend, do you know whatever whoever your friend was,
and we you know, we could have had this conversation
and just avoided all that whole thing.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
It's just a little on the ridiculous side, you know,
And that's that's a problem.
Speaker 7 (08:59):
Anything that you would have acted probably like like a
different way, and then I would have not actually known
who the real you is.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
Like I just think that that's a silly thing.
Speaker 7 (09:07):
I just I went on the date, I like tried
to get to know you a little bit, and you
did not care about anything I had to say. You
just cared about like the way I like was in
my life, like how I.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
Fit into your life. And I just think that that's
a silly reason.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
I don't know about other people online.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I'm definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days
a week. So if you would have asked me, we
could have you know, we could have avoided that. All
you had to do was ask me about my experience
with your friend. And if I could have remembered your friend,
I would have told you exactly what you know, what
I felt. But when I meet with somebody, when I
meet anyone, you know, I'm very straightforward about you know,
what's important to me. And I think that we know,
(09:45):
what we talked about was really cool, and I thought
we had actually, you know, thought we had a cool vibe.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Now I don't know how differ it was. You know
how much that was you you you.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Know, I mean it was all me.
Speaker 7 (09:54):
I just I just expected. I mean I could have
actually been a little bit more and stuff. But you
didn't ask me anything about me as a person, So
I you got what she asked for. I mean you
asked me. It felt like I was in a job interview,
Like I just don't get it.
Speaker 5 (10:11):
Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,
you know, meet someone and you want to know if
you're compatible, you would ask questions. And for me, I'm
I'm a person who does a lot of I'm very
serious about.
Speaker 4 (10:23):
Work and goals and meeting my goals.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
So I just wanted to make sure that I was,
you know, on the same page as somebody who had,
you know, goals.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
I mean, do you even have any type of goals?
Or was that all just stuff that you were saying?
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Of course I have, sous. It's like a silly, silly
thing to say, you know.
Speaker 7 (10:38):
I just I just expected you to give a little
bit more of a crap about like who I am
as a person, and all those other things that you're
asking of me would have came naturally, they would have
come out. You could have like just been a little
bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it
or something.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Because it did not go well, Well, tell me one
thing that I said about myself on the day. Tell
me because if if it was good, then you should
know this, right.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
Yeah, but that's not the point.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
All right now.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
You know, Hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
No, thank you, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
I don't want to go out with you again. I
get I get it. You know, they just just have
fun on your apps.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Maybe you can meet somebody that you're not going to
be playing games with from the beginning.
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Okay, Teddy, well, you have fun playing games with yourself.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
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