May 16, 2024 • 10 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocusla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Julia is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, but she's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker.
So in a minute, we're gonna call him and see
if we can figure out why he's ghosting her. But first, Julia,
how long has it been since you heard from Walker?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
About a week? Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Okay, that's kind of the sweet spot. How many times
have you reached out to him in that in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
I've sent him a couple of tecks, like three or four, Like,
what's a couple about three?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's not too bad, and you've heard nothing from.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Him, nothing, not a peep.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
All right, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant,
which I thought was really cool.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Okay, we had dinner and he hadn't.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Had much sushi before, so he let me kind of
pick everything out, and he seemed to really like what
I picked out, like especially.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
The spicy tuna.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Go ahead.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, So dinner was went really well. He told me
all about his business study starting, and he just seems
so motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we
went for a walk, which I thought was a really
good sign.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Okay, how was the walk?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
It was nice. I mean it lasted about an hour
and we just kept talking.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
How did it end? Like, did you a kiss?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Hug? Five? We hugged? Okay, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Did anything happen between the walk and dinner that may
have been a little bit off?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I mean, the only thing I can think is that
I recently I told him a lot about my work too,
because he was telling me a lot about his business.
And I recently got a promotion at work and I
was so excited about it.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Congrats, thank you. So I just wondered if that rubbed
him the wrong way or something.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Like, how do you think that could rub him the
wrong way?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well, he loved a little I don't know, like he
didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something.
And I wondered if because he's having he's just at
the beginning stages of starting his business, if he felt
a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well
in my career.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Did he talk a lot about his business?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
He did talk a fair amount.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I mean, he seemed excited about it and like he
was really interested in what he's doing.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I don't know how that would take away from what
you're doing, but I mean there are guys like that,
so I believe it. But I'm this, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
It seems like maybe he's not quite where he wants
to be in his career.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
So I wonder if that was it.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you,
because you want to be with somebody that's a little
bit more secure in that space, right, If that was it,
I mean, we're highly speculating it's this point.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come
across this before. So Okay, that's what made me wonder
if that's the only thing I can think of, because
we just had the.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Best time, okay. And then at the end when you
guys hugged, did he say like, oh I want to
meet up again or anything like that, or did he
just bounce?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, I think we just said we had a really
nice time.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you. We'll play a song, come back and then
call him and see if you'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. If you
still want one? Okay, Okay, all right, we'll play song
come Back, get your first Date follow up next. Right
in the middle of your first date follow up if
you're just joining us. Julia is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So we're
just about to call him see if he'll tell us
(03:50):
why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh
everybody's memory on your date with Walker.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had
a nice walk afterwards, and he told me about his
business that he's starting up, and he seems super into it,
and I told him all about my promotion at work
and how excited.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I was about it.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did you make a lot of Walker jokes while you
were walking? How couldn't even think about that? I just
thought of her right now. That could also be a
reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes like
I would go hand on.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
That that would have been a great joke to.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Okay, I was thinking maybe that is the reason, but
maybe not. William, we'll call him right now, are you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Okay, here we go. Hi, I'm I askeeking the Walker
please ye hey, man, how are you? This is a
radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. My name's Jebel.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Hi, I'm Youana.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. We got an
email about you from somebody that you are ghosting and
they want know why you're not calling them back.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Oh okay, yeah, okay, this is Julia.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Walker. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us a little bit
about your date and is really confused. Why you're Ghostinger?
Am I telling us?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I mean, that's that's about it. I'm starting to think
maybe even in a radio show about it could be
on that list. But that wasn't it initially?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Okay, so wait, what's the deal? Why are you Ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (05:32):
I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and
it was fun. It was great.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Actually, we got some sushi. I'm not used to that stuff,
but I housed a couple spicy tuneroles. Those things are
great and it was fun, you know, like it seemed
pretty easy at first, but she kind of got on,
Oh god, she kind of got on like this tangent
about her job and stuff and how she got this
(05:58):
new promotion.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
And then she was very excited about it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
It's it's it's cool, but it's kind of dominated the whole.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Back end of the night. So I don't know, it
just kind of felt weird.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Not I don't know she talked about her job too much?
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Is that it it's not even just about I don't
know about the job, but just seemed to be just
all encompassing, you know, like I don't know, like somebody's
whole identity is wrapped up in that, you know, and.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
It's just I don't know, it just kind of it was, Oh,
it was kind of boring.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
I'm sorry her.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Job is boring, or the way she talked about it.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
No, not that I don't know, you like, I don't
know much about finance, but that you know, just the
same thing over and over again.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
You know.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Does that make sense if somebody's talking about.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Just something like you get excited and then it just
goes downhill and it's like, God, all right, I get it.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
You know, I mean, is that all she talked about?
Is this wasn't interesting or what I mean?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Sure it's interesting. You first, she talked about.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Some friends too, and you know, they seem nice and
a little bit about her family, but for.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
The whole thing.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
It was about, like wanting a promotion and then what
I had to do to get.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
It, and I finally got it.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Now I felt about it afterwards, like God, rent a
movie or something that's terrible.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
I shouldn't say.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
That, but I feel bad or something. Did you ask question?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
I mean the usual stuff like, you know, where'd you
grow up and what were you into as a kid?
You know, did you play any sports? You know, where
do you live in the city, like that kind of stuff.
You know, pretty pretty basic stuff I think when you're
on a first date.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
All right, well thanks for telling us, man.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah, for sure, thanks for asking.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
No problem. Julia is also on the on the phone
and has been listening this whole time and wants to
talk to you. I shall tell you that I don't.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
Yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm sure she is, man, Yeah, right.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
She really is.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Hey.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Hey, welcome, Hey Julia.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah, I guess I'm a little confused. I mean, you
seem yeah. I don't even know how to put it
any more plainly than.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
I did when I didn't know you were there. But uh,
you know, I don't want to be mean. It's just
I'm really happy for you, but it just I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I just feel like maybe we're it's just not in
the same spot.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a
woman in a relationship to be successful.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Well, I mean, that's that's not it. That's no, it's
not it at all. It's you know, I just wanted
to somebody with a little more interest in life.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I just are you intimidated by me?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Not even a little bit? No, no, not at all.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
I think it's great, you know, it seems to make
you really happy, and that's wonderful.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
I just don't know if I can be a part
of it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Well, I think you're intimidated by me, and you can't
be with a woman who's more successful than you.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I think that's what it is.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
I'm sorry, I really don't know how to respond to that.
But that's absurd, that's not what this is. And it
feels kind of I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory
and weird to go to. It's not that at all,
trust me. I just think we're on two different playing
fields right now.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Okay, I think that's exactly what it is. But agree
to disagree.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
I guess sure, I guess, yeah, I'm sorry if I
gave you that impression, but that's not what this is,
so please don't harbor that.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Ill will towards Okay, Well, if you don't want someone
who's happy and feels good about their job, then you
know what can I do about that?
Speaker 6 (09:55):
There's nothing you can do about it. Keep being those things.
It's just not for me.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I think it's great. I'm very happy for you. Okay, Well,
I don't really believe you. So you know, just because
you can't be happy at your job doesn't mean I
can't be happy at mine.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
I sure, Yeah, okay, Walker, would you like another day
with Julia? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
I mean, I think that would be horrible.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
This was Ralph Jubile's first date fallow Up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocusla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Julia is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, but she's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker.
So in a minute, we're gonna call him and see
if we can figure out why he's ghosting her. But first, Julia,
how long has it been since you heard from Walker?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
About a week? Okay?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Week?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Okay, that's kind of the sweet spot. How many times
have you reached out to him in that in that time?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
I've sent him a couple of tecks, like three or four, Like,
what's a couple about three?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It's not too bad, and you've heard nothing from.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Him, nothing, not a peep.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
All right, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant,
which I thought was really cool.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Okay, we had dinner and he hadn't.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Had much sushi before, so he let me kind of
pick everything out, and he seemed to really like what
I picked out, like especially.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
The spicy tuna.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Go ahead.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, So dinner was went really well. He told me
all about his business study starting, and he just seems
so motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we
went for a walk, which I thought was a really
good sign.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Okay, how was the walk?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
It was nice. I mean it lasted about an hour
and we just kept talking.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
How did it end? Like, did you a kiss?
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Hug? Five? We hugged? Okay, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Did anything happen between the walk and dinner that may
have been a little bit off?
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I mean, the only thing I can think is that
I recently I told him a lot about my work too,
because he was telling me a lot about his business.
And I recently got a promotion at work and I
was so excited about it.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Congrats, thank you. So I just wondered if that rubbed
him the wrong way or something.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Like, how do you think that could rub him the
wrong way?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well, he loved a little I don't know, like he
didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something.
And I wondered if because he's having he's just at
the beginning stages of starting his business, if he felt
a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well
in my career.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Did he talk a lot about his business?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
He did talk a fair amount.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
I mean, he seemed excited about it and like he
was really interested in what he's doing.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I don't know how that would take away from what
you're doing, but I mean there are guys like that,
so I believe it. But I'm this, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
It seems like maybe he's not quite where he wants
to be in his career.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
So I wonder if that was it.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you,
because you want to be with somebody that's a little
bit more secure in that space, right, If that was it,
I mean, we're highly speculating it's this point.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Yeah, I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come
across this before. So Okay, that's what made me wonder
if that's the only thing I can think of, because
we just had the.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Best time, okay. And then at the end when you
guys hugged, did he say like, oh I want to
meet up again or anything like that, or did he
just bounce?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, I think we just said we had a really
nice time.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you. We'll play a song, come back and then
call him and see if you'll tell us why he's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. If you
still want one? Okay, Okay, all right, we'll play song
come Back, get your first Date follow up next. Right
in the middle of your first date follow up if
you're just joining us. Julia is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So we're
just about to call him see if he'll tell us
(03:50):
why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh
everybody's memory on your date with Walker.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had
a nice walk afterwards, and he told me about his
business that he's starting up, and he seems super into it,
and I told him all about my promotion at work
and how excited.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
I was about it.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Did you make a lot of Walker jokes while you
were walking? How couldn't even think about that? I just
thought of her right now. That could also be a
reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes like
I would go hand on.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
That that would have been a great joke to.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Okay, I was thinking maybe that is the reason, but
maybe not. William, we'll call him right now, are you ready?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Okay, here we go. Hi, I'm I askeeking the Walker
please ye hey, man, how are you? This is a
radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. My name's Jebel.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Hi, I'm Youana.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. We got an
email about you from somebody that you are ghosting and
they want know why you're not calling them back.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Oh okay, yeah, okay, this is Julia.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Walker. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us a little bit
about your date and is really confused. Why you're Ghostinger?
Am I telling us?
Speaker 6 (05:18):
I mean, that's that's about it. I'm starting to think
maybe even in a radio show about it could be
on that list. But that wasn't it initially?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Okay, so wait, what's the deal? Why are you Ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (05:32):
I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and
it was fun. It was great.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
Actually, we got some sushi. I'm not used to that stuff,
but I housed a couple spicy tuneroles. Those things are
great and it was fun, you know, like it seemed
pretty easy at first, but she kind of got on,
Oh god, she kind of got on like this tangent
about her job and stuff and how she got this
(05:58):
new promotion.
Speaker 6 (05:59):
And then she was very excited about it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
It's it's it's cool, but it's kind of dominated the whole.
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Back end of the night. So I don't know, it
just kind of felt weird.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Not I don't know she talked about her job too much?
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Is that it it's not even just about I don't
know about the job, but just seemed to be just
all encompassing, you know, like I don't know, like somebody's
whole identity is wrapped up in that, you know, and.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
It's just I don't know, it just kind of it was, Oh,
it was kind of boring.
Speaker 6 (06:25):
I'm sorry her.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Job is boring, or the way she talked about it.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
No, not that I don't know, you like, I don't
know much about finance, but that you know, just the
same thing over and over again.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
You know.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Does that make sense if somebody's talking about.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Just something like you get excited and then it just
goes downhill and it's like, God, all right, I get it.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
You know, I mean, is that all she talked about?
Is this wasn't interesting or what I mean?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Sure it's interesting. You first, she talked about.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Some friends too, and you know, they seem nice and
a little bit about her family, but for.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
The whole thing.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
It was about, like wanting a promotion and then what
I had to do to get.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
It, and I finally got it.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
Now I felt about it afterwards, like God, rent a
movie or something that's terrible.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
I shouldn't say.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
That, but I feel bad or something. Did you ask question?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
I mean the usual stuff like, you know, where'd you
grow up and what were you into as a kid?
You know, did you play any sports? You know, where
do you live in the city, like that kind of stuff.
You know, pretty pretty basic stuff I think when you're
on a first date.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
All right, well thanks for telling us, man.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah, for sure, thanks for asking.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
No problem. Julia is also on the on the phone
and has been listening this whole time and wants to
talk to you. I shall tell you that I don't.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
Yeah, yeah, no, I'm I'm sure she is, man, Yeah, right.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
She really is.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Hey.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Hey, welcome, Hey Julia.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah, I guess I'm a little confused. I mean, you
seem yeah. I don't even know how to put it
any more plainly than.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
I did when I didn't know you were there. But uh,
you know, I don't want to be mean. It's just
I'm really happy for you, but it just I don't know.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
I just feel like maybe we're it's just not in
the same spot.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a
woman in a relationship to be successful.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Well, I mean, that's that's not it. That's no, it's
not it at all. It's you know, I just wanted
to somebody with a little more interest in life.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I just are you intimidated by me?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Not even a little bit? No, no, not at all.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
I think it's great, you know, it seems to make
you really happy, and that's wonderful.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
I just don't know if I can be a part
of it.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Well, I think you're intimidated by me, and you can't
be with a woman who's more successful than you.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I think that's what it is.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
I'm sorry, I really don't know how to respond to that.
But that's absurd, that's not what this is. And it
feels kind of I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory
and weird to go to. It's not that at all,
trust me. I just think we're on two different playing
fields right now.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Okay, I think that's exactly what it is. But agree
to disagree.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
I guess sure, I guess, yeah, I'm sorry if I
gave you that impression, but that's not what this is,
so please don't harbor that.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Ill will towards Okay, Well, if you don't want someone
who's happy and feels good about their job, then you
know what can I do about that?
Speaker 6 (09:55):
There's nothing you can do about it. Keep being those things.
It's just not for me.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
I think it's great. I'm very happy for you. Okay, Well,
I don't really believe you. So you know, just because
you can't be happy at your job doesn't mean I
can't be happy at mine.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
I sure, Yeah, okay, Walker, would you like another day
with Julia? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
I mean, I think that would be horrible.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
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If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
The Nikki Glaser Podcast
Every week comedian and infamous roaster Nikki Glaser provides a fun, fast-paced, and brutally honest look into current pop-culture and her own personal life.