May 4, 2024 • 43 mins
Happy Weekend! Morgan and Abby shared 3 good things happening in their lives right now and open up about their love lives with a 3-question limit! Then, adult life is weird… so we discuss some current adulting moments.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one
ahnger Thing with a member of the show. Welcome everybody,
it's best Bits time. I'm joined this weekend by a
lovely Abby. Hello. Hello, how you feeling?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I'm good? How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Little tired, little a little strung out of feels like.
But we are here and work again. Yeah we are,
and we got things to talk about. So before Abby
and I get into some fun stuff that y'all really
want to hear about. The best bits this week We've
got the today years old. When I learned blank that happened,
Everybody was mind blown. During that. Amy Grant stopped by
the studio. Lunchbox sold something from the palette. Finally I
(00:42):
did a smell test because I feel like my smell
is finally back. Maybe Brothers Osbourne also stopped by the studio.
We had doctor Raglan in for Eddie's possible hair transplant
situation and we did a draft of things we want
to go away in twenty twenty four that definitely got dark.
So that is everything that happening this week from the show.
But Abby, we have to talk. Listeners have lots of
(01:05):
questions for you, and I vote they do about our
love life.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh gosh.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
And I've decided the way to go about doing this
that will be easy as like friends talking about it first,
like kind of invasive questions. Yeah, is you and I
can eat each ask each other three questions about this
and that's where we leave it. Okay, okay, okay, And
you can in those questions you can say plead the fifth.
I'm not answering. I'm not ready to answer. I like this,
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that's an option. Yeah, but that at least is coming
from each other and we're still talking about it. Okay, yes,
all right, So I'm gonna start okay, and I'm starting
out like swinging first, swinging for a home run? Have
you guys said I love you?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I knew that was your question. I knew it. And
how can I know?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Like I said, can you plead the fifth? You can?
You can. But like also, if you feel comfortable, please share.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I am gonna say I plead the fifth on that. Okay,
all right, it's a big deal for me to say
love I will say that.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, you totally get it, and it is a huge deal,
especially after when you've been through a lot of stuff.
So I get it. Yes, cool, played the fifth. Okay,
all right, do you want to go back and forth
or do you want me to ask my three and
then you ask your three?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Let's see you asked your three, then I'll ask mine.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Okay. Have there been any serious conversations about the future.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yes, there have Okay, Yeah, he's very good. He's better
than me, like bringing things up. But he's also like
we're at an age where you don't really have time.
We're not I'm not in my early twenties where I'm like, oh,
it's fine, like whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Just you're not messing around anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Right, It's like I think we're dating at this point
to like know if we want a feature with this person. So, yes,
there have definitely been conversations, and.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
You feel good about those conversations.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I do, Yeah, yeah, okay, love it all right? Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
What is your favorite thing about him? Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
My gosh, and.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I know you probably have so many, Yeah, but name
like a big thing that comes to mind? Right when
I ask that, I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Would say that he's so easy going, like he never
is difficult, and I'm not used to that. Usually it's
like there's pushback or like hey, I'm gonna go like
the half marathon, like he wanted to run it with me.
You know, he could have been like, oh, I don't
want to do that, like I have other things to do,
or you know, something like that, like he always wants
to like join in, or like if I want to
do something last minute, like hey, you want to go
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downtown and do this, like he'll be like sure or
why not? So it's just super like easy. I would say, okay,
which I love.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I love it. So we got some details. Do you
feel good about those anyway? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I don't think it was too much.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
So I like you all right now it is your
turn to put me on the spot.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Okay, So I already had this one in mind. You
guys he said, I love you.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
No, no, we're not there yet.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Has he proposed yet? I'm just kidding. I'm just gonna.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Definitely know and that I won't make a counter second question.
But no, no, we have not I love you yet.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
But that was funny. Let's see what has been I
guess Okay, does he usually plan all the dates? And
or what is the best date you guys have gone on?
That's kind of two questions.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Oh yeah, that is that's a few.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Let's just do what what is your favorite date you've
ever been on?
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Favorite date? Okay, I will say yes, he has planned
ninety five percent I'm not gonn't say ninety ninety five
percent of things we have done together. And our favorite date,
the best date so far. Gosh, this is hard. We've
had some good dates and there it's funny. It's because
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they're not like crazy, but like, so our second date
I think maybe my favorite so far because it was
just so uniquely both of us. He had planned a
new Greek restaurant for me to try because he knows
I loves trying new restaurants and of course they have
to have vegetarian food. So Greek restaurant. It was amazing.
It's now one of my favorite places. Like added a
foodie spot for me. And then after the date, we
(05:00):
we both drove there. Because it was the second date,
he didn't pick me up, even though he offered, and
he was like, I washed my car in case you
want me to, Oh pick you up.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
That's really new.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
No, it's okay, not quite yet another I'm very I'm
just very cautious at this point.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
But so we were like in the parking lot talking
before we were gonna leave, and he saw all the
all the ducks on my jeep and he was like what,
and he asked what those are about? So I told him.
He's like, well, let's go duck some jeeps. So we
like drove around in the parking lot and ducked like
three different jeeps, and he had the best time just
literally running grabbing these things out of my little like uh,
(05:34):
glove compartment and taking them and just running and putting
them on jeeps. He's like, this is awesome.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
That's so cute.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
It was adorable. And then he drives a stick shift
vehicle and I was like, I am never touching one
of those. That's terrifying. He's like, no, it's fine, I'll
teach you. Put me in his car and I he
taught me how to stick shift drive in the parking lot.
After this date what And we're just like hanging out,
having like the best time for this stupidest reasons. Like
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two other people they'd be like, well what just happened?
But he was so calm and so fun and just
it worked so well in so many ways, Like we
did so many different things that I learned a lot
about him in those moments, Like he's very patient, he's
very kind, like and I mean I could have crashed
this man's car, and he was just like, yeah, you're good,
(06:21):
You're doing great.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Like like, okay, so did you learn I did?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I know? Yeah, I drove around. I drove around the park.
I am scared to drive on the main roads, but
I drove around the parking lot.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
That's awesome. Yeah, No, that it really does test somebody's
like patience.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Oh yeah, and he has Oh my gosh, his patience
is through the roof, like he could put up with
anything that I do.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Oh my gosh. He doesn't get mad because yeah that's
a red flat.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
No, there was no anger, and I was like, who
are you? Yeah, So it was just a really good experience,
like funny, quirky. I was giggling the whole time I left,
and I was like, dang, I want to hang out
with him again.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I love that. That's a good sign. That's how I
feel when I'm in mine too. Yes, I'm like, oh
my gosh, I want to be with him now. Right.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
He makes me giggly, Like I've never been that way.
I've always been pretty like confident and just I never
really had that like kind of giggly school girl since
I was like in high school. You know what I mean?
Where and I said to you and I just start
giggling and I don't know why. I'm just like a
little giggle box. That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Okay, that makes me happy.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Yep, there's there's second question.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Well more my third one. So are you guys official?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Okay, this is this is just for best bits. I'm
sure I will share more on the big show at
some point in time later, but without sharing too much detail.
I we are no longer on dating apps.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Okay, that's a big thing.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
That's okay, and haven't been for a minute, so love
that answer an answer.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Okay, that's that's a good it's going towards a Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
There's more, but I'm still kind of I'm sitting on it.
I'm just really enjoying all of this right now until
I'm kind of ready to share. I think I also
shared a little bit with Scuba was on last weekend
and now I'm not.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Sure what did you you just like, word, vomit everything.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I just get so excited to talk about him. Yes,
like it's a weird thing. When I like when I
went to which we'll get into and a little bit.
I went to a bachelorette party and people would ask
me about I'm like, oh, yeah, I'll let me talk
about him, and I haven't. I just haven't. I mean,
I have not felt comfortable, especially in my last two relationships,
where I was like, I would talk about him and
(08:32):
I was excited to be dating, but I haven't felt
safe to talk about them. Like right now, I feel safe.
I don't feel like I'm going to get bamboozled. I'm
not going to be tricked. I'm not going to be like,
oh gosh, I shared this, and now two weeks later,
here's this. I do constantly feel like the other foot
is going to drop and and I say that to
him a lot, and he literally looks at me. He's like,
(08:53):
both of my feet are firmly planted right here, like
for me, that is, And I'm like that, I love that.
Not for me, I am that's express over here right.
But I haven't felt that way in a long time
to just feel like, Okay, I feel safe that you're
actually just a good human being and this hopefully will
(09:16):
progress in the best ways, you know what I mean. Yeah,
so that's all new to me, and I'm still trying
to understand and comprehend that. That's why I think I'm
afraid to be like, yes, this is where we are,
this is what's happening, because I'm just like, I'm anticipating
the worst things to happen because I'm so used to that. No,
I feel that too, even though he's given me zero
reason to feel that way, zero, like not even a
(09:37):
little bit.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
That is amazing. Yeah, because even with the guys I
was dating, like, there were red flags, but I just
kind of ignored them. So then I just didn't talk
to many people about him because then they'd be like, oh, so,
you know, what do you get you for your birthday?
And you know, I'd be like, oh, he forgot it
was my birthday. And then they'd be like, wait, why
are you with this guy that doesn't even care about you?
So I just didn't like talk about it. But now
I'm kind of the same way. I just I feel
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comfortable to talking about it and people asking me questions
because I don't have anything that I I want to
hide or like that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I'm embarrassed now because you guys have been together for
how long now?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
It was just before it was like middle of December,
is when we were like official.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
So it's been five months.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Yeah, by my mouth, right, a little over five months, okay, yeah, yeah.
We met like at the end of October.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So yeah, okay, so it's been technically like seven months
you've known each other, yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Which is a long time.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah. No, And like for me, that's at least at
the point where you are really starting to understand and
know somebody. So I don't know that you can be
at the point where you're waiting for the other shoot
to drop. Do you feel like you've let that go
a little bit or is it Yeah, I've let it.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Go, but I'm still I'm just like cautious like you, Like,
I'm always scared for something. I have these like abandonment
abandonment like issues just from like my family and things
in my past that I'm like, I feel like when
things are so good, you're like, Okay, it's not going
to last that long because.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Like it's too good, something has to happen.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Yes, or like I feel like a lot of things
in my past that are good have been taken away.
Like that kind of gets a little deep. But I'm
That's what I'm always scared of. I'm like, oh, my gosh,
is this gonna be taken away next?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
So I really hope not.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That's just in my head and I can't help it,
and it's probably something I need to work through obviously,
but this.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Is something too he's helping you work through, like have
you voice them? And then like this is what I
feel and he's like, Okay, how can I help make
this feel safer? Yes? Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
So I think that is what it's all about, is
like communication, And sometimes I forget that because I don't
want him to be like, wait, are you like insecure
or whatever? But that's not what it is. It's just
you don't want the same patterns to keep happening that
have happened in your life.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
So mm hmm. You know, and communication is so huge,
Like you're talking about how he's a great communicator. Man
in uniform is a great communicator, Like there's I never
have to be like, oh I can't talk about this
or oh I don't want to bring this up. H
I want to bring everything up. I'm like, let's talk
about it. And he's like, yeah, okay, whatever.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
That is amazing, yes, Like that's so healthy, right, great
to just like feel like you're in a healthy something.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Yeah, I know, like but you know, just you and
I sitting over here waiting for that other shoes.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Just fall off.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I know. Welcome to our lives.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I know that's bad, but I know we're not alone,
like no.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
And you know I ours are different. The reason I
feel that way is from certain relationship. The reason you
feel that way is much different. And for you, I
don't know that that's ever going to go away. You
know what I mean for what yours is related to,
and only you can speak to that. But I don't
know that that will ever be totally gone for me.
(12:36):
And maybe maybe you feel like if you hit a
certain threshold, you will, Like I know, for me, the
day I get engaged or the day I get married
are like the days that I genuinely have to be
like okay, I have to.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Let this go when the ring goes on the finger,
like that's when, And.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
That's crazy that it's going to take that for me
to get to that point, Like not I would say
I'm like eighty percent where I'm just like, it's that
twenty percent where I'm just always waiting. But that twenty
percent I think would go away from me once that
day comes to be like, Okay, you actually like I
don't think you can go anywhere. I mean, you still can,
right Like. I don't know why. That's just the thing
I've kind of put in my head right because of
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everything I've been through. Do you have that threshold? Do
you feel like or do you feel like it is
just going to be this lingering.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
For some reason? I feel like it is, which scares me,
and I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
That's not a bad I mean, but it's not a
bad thing because you're aware of it. You know, it's
part of who you are, and you're just like, this
is who I am. And he seems to accept that
based on what you're saying. Yes, So I don't know
that you have to be afraid of it. I just
didn't know for your sake that there was ever gonna
be a threshold.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Uh huh. Like I know I think about that, and
I'm like, I think it's just gonna take some like
I'm a words of affirmation. I need that so sometimes
just but I don't want like the you know, I'm
not leaving you, right like, I don't need like that,
But just I don't know, I don't know it's there.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I think words of affirmation. For somebody who's a words
of affirmation person, it's not like saying each day I
love you so much, I'm never going to leave. It's
the words of affirmation that coincide with the actions.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Yeah, one hundred percent consistency.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Of that, Like in over a long period of time
that I do think you can probably get to that
point where that's kind of just a very very whisper
in the back of your brain versus this kind of loud,
you know, devil on your shoulder for lack of a
better way to explain that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
And you know, I think actions are even more important
than the words, because I've had guys in the past
that are like, you know, I'm not going anywhere, like
I would never go anywhere. What we have is great,
and then and then hello, like they're like, oh, never mind.
And so it is the actions you really have to
look at.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
And over time, I think you find a way to
trust in those when they are consistent and they both
coincide together. So I do think it's possible for you.
But I didn't know if you like have been like
that's my throat should like I'm like put it ring
on my finger and I'll probably believe you.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I'm gonna say five years in a marriage, our fifty
year anniversary.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
We got some trauma. Okay, it's fine, we do. Okay,
We're gonna take a break and we're gonna talk about
some three good things that are happening in our lives
right now. Okay, okay, all right, so we see we
ended up on trauma. Let's talk about some life lately,
what you've been up to. I want you to share
like three good things in your life right now, and
(15:30):
you had had messaged me some of them, so maybe
can use some of those or maybe different ones that
come up, whatever, whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
I'm gonna say the half marathon that I did because,
for one, I raised almost six thousand dollars for Saint Jude,
which is amazing.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Which is like you, yes, slaving for yourself. Also mostly
because I am by myself in here.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
And also I got to run it for the first
time with my boyfriend and that was really fun and
he pushed me like I usually run it by myself.
I don't know, I just it's hard to stay with
someone for the thirteen point one miles, you know, the
other the whole time, we say the whole time, did
you guys talk a little bit?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yeah? So it was kind of running bad. I can't
even run one mile on the treadmill. I'm like, nobody
talked to me.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Well, it was like till mile five and then after
that I was like, oh my god, I cannot talk.
But he just kept pushing me to be like, don't stop.
I was like, can I walk for like two minutes?
He's like, no, you got this.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
So that was so. Was he a big runner too? No?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
That was his first half marathon?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Are you kidding me? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:28):
What the I know he had done a half iron Man,
so he's very okay casual. I know, he's like really
good at everything. He's very athletic. And so I'm the runner.
So he thought I was gonna beat him by a lot,
but I kind of held him back a little. But
it was very nice that he stayed with me.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Oh so you guys crashed the finish line together?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Yeah, no, our time. It was exactly like, I don't
know how that happened. That it was to the second
the milliton.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Did you guys kiss at the finish line? We're like,
we did it?
Speaker 2 (16:56):
No, I almost threw up I'm not even kid like.
I was running so hard towards the end that I
like literally almost did like at the finish line. No,
I went on the ground and but they gave me
my medal and then it was bad. I was like,
this would be great because there's people just standing watching
when I throw up.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
But yes, honestly, would have been funny. I've been very
ram calm ess if you would have tried to kiss
you and you're like, what on him?
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Oh my gosh, that is what happened, so oh like
it that would be his ick for me.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
I think she threw up on me after a half marathon.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I'm ant ick.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Okay, that's a really good one. Congratulations to both of
you guys.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Hey, yeah, that's another one. Oh that my parents were
there to watch, because like my mom always comes every
year and does and does it. And she was like, well,
now that you're dating someone, I don't want to like
get in the way. And I was like, mom, this
is our tradition, Like, so I really love that that
we keep this tradition going so.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Kind Yeah, just because you're dating someone, I you know,
I've I've had a lot of these conversations with friends
in my life. Like just because you're dating someone, like
you have your own life. Life still, you get to
have your own life. You should have your own life,
and those things are just go away because you meet somebody.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Yes, I know exactly. I was like, if he doesn't
like that I'm close with my mom, that's a red
flag for sure.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Like, and you gotta be close with your family and like,
those things are important. I would never personally want someone
to lose their friends or their family, those relationships just
because we started dating. That's that's not a good place
to be in. I guess one thing to be like
obsessed with him and want to spend all the time,
but like it's another that you make time for all
those important factors of your own individual life.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Right, So I love that.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
You were like, no, mom, what are you talking about?
You're coming.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
I know. It's like I'm not changing who I am.
You know, like he if he loves what who I
am now, then that's gonna work out. But if I
have to change, then that's it's.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Not Yeah, I like toxic, not good, not good.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
That is very toxic. And then the final thing is
not going to morganwall on this weekend. And I'm very excited.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Which night because I heard he's here three nights and
yeah for a riday. Okay, you will. By the time
this airs, you all have been at Morian wallin Yes. Nice.
Was How much did those tickets cost you?
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Two point fifty a piece? Yes? On the side, I know, yeah,
I probably could have gotten some cheaper, but it was
like an impulse by Like my boyfriend and I were
looking and we're like, let's just get them. They might
go up and I'm like, no, they're going down. They
keep going down as time goes. It's okay because there's
three nights.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Are they good tickets? Like? Are you good seats?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Oh, they're really good. They're on the side. I was
debating between the floor and the side. But you know,
being short, I'm like, I know, like a tall the
seven foot guy's going to stand in front of.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Me every time every time. Yeah, I could have a
great view. And all of a sudden I turned one
second and there's somebody new in front of me that's
like five thousand feet tall. Yes, and then a spot
and then.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
They do it again and then they shift. Yeah, and
they're wearing like a cowboy hat and everything. So I'm
like I'm not going to take that chance. I want
to be able to see.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
So who's opening for that show?
Speaker 2 (19:54):
So let's see Nate Smith and Bailey'szimmerman And it's fun.
What's her name? Laura wat Lauren Walking? Yes, she's like
the first one.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
It's all fun. It's at Nissan Stadium, right, Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Something Cury song?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Do you want to hear? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Man, I love sand in my boots. I love that one.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
How do you remind me how that one goes? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But nowag and paddles and my sons Silverado there is
a yeah, okay, it's another one. I want to hear
the post malone?
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Mom, do blend together for me?
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I know they do.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Yeah, that's about to post one is going to be
a jam.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Gosh, it is a jam.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
It's wind. Does it come out?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
No, I don't know. I don't know if they've announced it.
Have they?
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I don't know it has I just know they've posted it.
So I'm like, did you guys at least sure a
date yet?
Speaker 2 (20:39):
It's all over? TikTok it is and.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Raised phone that he keeps playing it on every millisecond.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
I know I sent him a video. He keeps playing it.
It's a really good one.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
It is really good. But literally every time I come
out of the studio, he's playing it. It's like a
break song for him. Now. It is so apparently something
has surpast Samon in this moment.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Oh my gosh, we're singing it.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Yep. Oh shoot, okay, so those are fun, fun stuff
happening right now.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
What about you?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Okay? So I did it? Just get back from Miramar
Beach Deston, Florida.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
That looked I was so jealous. I was like, I
need a beach.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
It was so funny. You're such a beach girl. You're
such a beach girl. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
You're not.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
They put me on the sand. I was like, we'll
have stand in my swim soup.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
I don't like this.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Did not sit down, like, don't like it? Hev gs.
I was.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Not at all. Did you get in the water?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I did? Well, I didn't. I didn't during the beach day.
I did during our Crab Island day. Okay, So I've
never been to Miramar. I've been to Deston, which like
they're kind of connected. But Miramar was beautiful and we
drove around. My favorite part was that our abing me
had a golf cart and I drove it around.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Are you kidding me? That's awesome?
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I felt so cool. I was like, guys, golf cart life, like,
this is a beat. That is what I like about
the beach. Put me in a golf cart and I'll
just drive everybody drive around. This is so much fun.
I don't know. I don't know why. It's so much
fun to drive like a little cart like that around,
just like a little electric Was it electric? Yeah? They
are right, yeah, I think they only go like thirty
miles thirty thirty five miles an hour. And then we
I made them do Bridle Beer Olympics Thursday night. When
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we got in, I'd put together Bridle Beer Olympics, and
so it was like each different We did beer darts,
dizzy bat, what was the other one? Oh? We had
I had these flamingos that you put on your head
and you had to put like a ring toss for
so like each stage was like meeting each other, engagement, elopement, marriage,
Each stage was like the different phases of Bridle Beer Olympics.
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And then but the end was like this dizzy bat
and the dizzey bat remind me so much of college
have you ever played dizzy bat?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yes, we have to.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Like Okay, so you get basically a kid's little baseball
bat and you cut off the top. You have to
pour a drink in there, chug it for however many
seconds and however long. How many seconds it takes you
is how many spins you.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Have to do after so many seconds, and then after
your spins you have to hit the can.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
And so that was how it did it. But it
was so much fun. Like I felt like I was
back at There's sorty house all week and long with
so many girls.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
See, we need weekends like that. That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, we do.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Wait did you plan it?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Then?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Are you made of honor?
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So this one, I am one of three bridesmaids. Okay,
I helped with some of the planning because there's only
three of us. So I helped the maid of honor
with some things. Not in this one, no, But now
I'm in another one that I'm another bridesmaid, and i'm
my sister's I'm a maid of honor.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
So you're oh, you're two bridesmaids and one made of
honor this year. That's a lot.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Yeah, I feel uh, I feel tired. Yeah, like I
got back from this weekend and all I wanted to
do was sleep.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
I mean, yeah, you're probably still catching up, because I'm
sure it was.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
And now I'm currently not recording this, but once you
guys hear this, I will be in Austin.
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Oh it's never ending.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
It is never ending. We did see, like, okay, so
there was a part of this. We saw a pot
of dolphins. There was five dolphins together. Oh my god,
and two of them were babies.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
I mean babies, like the size of like my from
my tors to my head, Like, these were baby dolphins.
They're so cute and they were so cute, and uh,
I got burnt.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
I got fried like a tomato on the back. I
put sunscreen everywhere else, and for whatever reason, neglected to
ask somebody to put it on my back.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
You mean someone like lunchbox didn't come up this people?
Speaker 1 (24:22):
You know, honestly, that's it would have been a great reminder.
And I'm like, you know, I sure, why not.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Would you have said yes if a random dude came up?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
You know, vacation vacation workings different. I'm just like, yeah,
I don't do anything that's like bad, but I'm just
more susceptible to be like yeah, I'll do whatever.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
With friends, like they think it's funny, and it's just funny.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Exactly, like like we were at the we're at the
bar and drink and I just did more more inclined
to say yes, but it's more of a like, oh, yes,
I guess I'll do it. And we did see a
bar burned down, an entire bar there, uh is called
Fins two Fins, And as we were getting on our
boat to go out to Crab Island, the entire bar
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was engulfed in flames.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
And they know what happened.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
We were reading on the news after things. Nobody got hurt.
They were open for breakfast, so like people were in there.
But as far as we knew on the news, that
was reported nobody got injured. But uh no, at the
moment when we were looking at it, nobody knew what happened.
But it was engulfed in flames.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
I cannot even imagine.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Ten o'clock in the morning. What in wild world. So
our suspicions were that it was like a grease fire
of some kind because our boat captain said it was
by the kitchen area. But crazy, that's cray Yeah, so
that was fun. Okay, first Utte again and my two
other bachelrettes. I'm excited to get to go to because
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I've never been to those places before. Palm Springs in California,
and we're doing Joshua Tree in the aerial tramway and
lots of brunch and karaoke and all things planned. And
then for the other one, We're going to Lake Huron
in Michigan, and I've never been to Michigan for the summer.
Really excited.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
That is gonna be so cool.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Yeah. So I'm excited for both of those, even though
I'm like tired thinking about it. Excited to go see
some new places.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Yeah, you do have a lot. I've been to Palm
Springs and I loved it. I was there like two days.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Did you go to Joshua Tree and you love Joshua Tree?
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Yeah, Oh my gosh, I loved it. Yeah. We stayed
at like an Airbnb out in the middle of Joshua Tree,
like out in the middle of the desert, and there
was like a stargazing separate house and you go up
in a ladder and you just like sit at the top.
It was crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
That sounds so romantic.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
It was the coolest thing. It was my friend and I.
My girlfriend and I, so it would be very romantic
friendship love, friendship love.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I was like no, I was there and I was like, man,
this is very romantic. This would be fun to be
with a guy.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
But it was so awesome.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Yeah, Okay, it was so hot. We went in like
August August. Yeah, it was Oh man, I didn't realize
it was so hot there.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
It's gonna be hot when we go to It's at
the end of May, so we're gonna be primetime.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
You'll be at pools. What was cool though, It's like
there's different hotel pools, but you can buy like a
day pass. It's only like ten dollars. Okay, are we
just went to a couple of different Our.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Airbnb does have a pool, so I am excited about that. Yeah.
And we are doing lots of hiking, a lot of
hiking eve hiking. Yeah. We're gonna do like Indian Canyon,
which which is near Palm Springs. Yeah, and do the
aerial tramway and there's hiking and restaurants up there at
the top. But then we have Joshua Tree, like a
full day at Joshua tree too.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
That's really cool. That'll be so fun. I want to
go back, very exciting.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Yeah, so those and yeah, I've never been to Michigan,
so I'm excited to see those and then my last
one obviously. Besides, you know, there's a man in uniform
existing in my life, but he's there. My garden and
my grass looks so amazing right now, and I'm taking
it all because it's only probably gonna last like two
more weeks.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
You have been busy in that backyard, like that's do
you water it? Like every day?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
I have a little spring, so I don't have a
sprinkler system, and I can't convince myself to like pay
for it because I guess it's really expensive to installed
and everything. Oh yeah, so I did find these things
on Amazon that's like a hose but has a little
sprinkler attachments. So I have all in my garden and
that goes off every morning. Oh, I have it on
a timer, okay, because I can't remember. I can't keep
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plants alive in my house, say my life, so they
will not survive if I am on the clock to
water them.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
What are the best things to plant? Like, aren't the perennials.
Those are ones that come out every year, right.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Yes, so you don't have to. I do not plant annuals, Okay,
I only plant perennials, which is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Okay, that's what I need. My whole the front my
whole front yard. Like my rose bush died and they
just took it out and now there's nothing. It's just mulch.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
You should plant the one, the one that I love.
She is a sparkler. She is so pretty. It's a
wine and roses plant, and she is a perennial, and
she's green year round, and then in the fall she
even turns like red instead of the green that she
is year round, which I know that sounds I said
that weird. But then when she blooms, she has pink
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pretty flowers and they're on all and it's like a
kind of like a literally looks like a sparkler, like
it kind of comes out like that. Oh I like those, Okay,
so pretty. So that could be where your rose bush
was and they have thrived now I don't know. So
all the ones I plant back there are really good
for part sun and little like mostly shade.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Okay, mine's like half it's probably half in the same part, okay.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Because that's what my whole backyard is. It hardly gets
any sense. So I had to find like very specific things.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
I know. That's what I've been looking up because I'm like,
I don't want everything to die.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
So it does every and I will say even the
perennials do end up dying at some point depending on
the harshness of winter that we get and if people
protect theirs and put things. I don't have that energy,
I know, don't.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
They like cover it. They're like, I'm gonna go cover
the plants.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Like my dad brings his inside to his garage. He
has like a little terrarium. I'm like, this is a
lot of effort.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
That is that I don't have some dedication to the plants,
so much dedication, and I'm like, I love that for you.
That is not my life, I know.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
So they do still end up dying depending on the harshness,
but they can last forever. I've had plants that have
been back there forever, and my I have hostas that
survive every year. Really they've done really good, like the
last three I think it's been three years. And then
I have azaleas that have also done, that have been
there since I moved in, that have done really good.
Oh and my magnolia tree has grown like crazy. Oh
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I granted her and she was like maybe six feet
tall and no, I think she's like almost twelve.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Geez. They do grow really and they grow to be huge.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Yo. That's why I'm so exciting. I really love their blooms.
But their blooms last. They do it one day. I'm
not kidding you. These magnolia flowers they bloom one time
and they last maybe one day and then they fall off,
and like that was really uneventful.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
Yeah, that's a lot for just one day exactly hopefully
your home when it's there.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
And maybe a little bit longer that. But I'm not
kidding you. It's it can't be more than seventy two hours. Can't.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Oh my gosh, because they're so pretty.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
I know. But yeah, then they create a mess with
their little bloom things that fall off. Huh.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
Oh you've inspired me. I gotta I gotta get on it,
because my it's just like nothing.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Wine and Roses, I think that's your plant.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
I think, which Okay, I already like the names.
Speaker 1 (31:01):
I go right, Wine and Roses you need other help,
I'll help. I have a little green thumb right now,
like putting together a little flower bouquets too, that's my favorite.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Yes, oh I've been doing that too. At Trader Joe's
they have like pretty flowers.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Trader jos is the best because you can buy everything
individually and put it however you want to.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Oh my gosh, have you seen like the It's like
baby's breath but it's unicorn. No, Oh my god, I'm obsessed.
It's like pastel colors, beautiful, Like it's my new favorite. Okay,
it's like lavender.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
We need to do like a flower day. We should
a flower day and then we go rage for some
day drinking. That's what you said you wanted to do.
Do a little bit of it.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Okay, perfect, all right, we're gonna take one more quick break.
We'll be right back. All right. So adult life is
kind of weird. So I have adulting questions of just
situations I've been in.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
Okay, hope flag can help well.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
More so that you may have answers also, or maybe
you have none. But there are three different questions. What
is something you still do in your adult life that
you don't think anyone else really is doing And I'll
answer mind so that way you can give you some
time to think. But mine is balancing my check book.
I still balance my check book.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
Oh my gosh, what Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Still write them down. It's because I have caught a
few times, like discrepancies in my accounts where I'm like,
I'm going to pay that because with tipping in the
way that so many websites have my info even when
I haven't saved it is insane. So like, I still
balance my check book at the very least, I'm at
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least going through and writing everything down to make sure
I'm aware of what's going on in my account.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
That is so impressive and organized it is.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
But I'm like should I is it even worth it anymore?
Like I mean, I've maybe caught that didn't scrub it
Now I can't. I said it one time and I
get it. I maybe caught it twice, and like the
ten years I've been doing this, you know what I mean,
Like it's few and far between.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I don't even know how to do it because everything's
like online banking. I don't even know how to balance
a check book.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Well, I keep all my receipts and then I write
them down in my chipbook, and then I double check
them with what's online to make sure everything's like on
the same.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
Gosh, my finances are a hot mess. I rarely look
at them, which is really bad. I wouldn't even know
if someone took.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
Well, don't say that, don't say that. I look every
morning before it works. Okay, I'm gonna look right now.
You should definitely after this error looks good.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
God.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
So I don't know if I need to keep doing it,
but I you know, I'm here and I'm doing it.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
If you know what you're doing and it makes you
feel better about things, sure, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
I don't know if it's just adding another freaking thing
for me to do. You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Why can't you just look on mine? Well you can,
but you don't know it.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
It's just basing it basically, Like I see the receipts
of what actually got charged, and then if I'm double
checking to make sure online there isn't any discrepancy in
what I was charged versus what it shows up on
that's online.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
Were power to you.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I think there's gonna come a day where I'm like
I'm out, but I'm impressed and make you think of
anything for you that you still do. You're like, nobody
else probably does this, well, mine is.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
I set about ten alarms on my phone and then
I ask Alexa to set like three alarms every morning.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Is your Alexa in your bedroom?
Speaker 2 (34:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Uh huh, that's creepy, Alex creepy. I'm just saying, Alexa,
be creepy watching you sleep.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, that does freak me out a little bit. She
does just come out there, come on there, and she's
like the weather today, and I'm.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
Like, what did you call out setting?
Speaker 2 (34:34):
No? No?
Speaker 1 (34:36):
Oh yeah, she like you. I got a crush on you.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
I actually really hate it. And I also hate when
she goes, good morning, Abby, have a wonderful day. I'm like,
shut she talks to you.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Yes, I have to have features on there because I
never does this. I'm pretty sure you need to change
your settings.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Are there settings that say like never talk to me ever? Yeah,
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Mine's on silent.
Speaker 2 (35:00):
The only reason, the only reason I use it is
I'm like, how is the traffic on the way to
work today? Okay, She'll be like it's good, what's the
weather like? And my alarm and then play music. So
I use her for like four things. But she's saying
good morning, sleep. But anyway, the endless amount of alarms.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Okay, that's I.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
I just don't trust myself. I'm the same way, like ten.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
This is why my dad calls me and I get
made fun of it. I have anxiety with this job
of not showing up. I can't. I can't not be here.
So it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
It is the anxiety. Yeah, trying to think what else?
Speaker 1 (35:37):
One?
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Yeah, you have other ones?
Speaker 1 (35:39):
No? That was I have other questions though? You ready
for the other question? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, the alarm
clos other adult. Yeah, yes, I do think you have
more people on your team than you think. I think
there's a lot of us that have lots of alarm clocks.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
Okay, you're not alone and Alexa in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
That's weird. You're on your own. What do you still
buy in store and refuse to do any online or
version to buy it? And the reason I'm bringing this
up because I see so many people use like the
grocery store and I can't. I have to buy my
own groceries.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Oh sing, I have trust issued? Yeah, how do I
know they're gonna get the avocado I wanted exactly.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
And they always do like they like, do you want
a sa No, I wanted what I want on the list,
so why And it's kind of like it's funny because
the grocery store like app how they like pick them
for you remind me of like my dad and mom
growing up. My mom would always write things on the
list and my dad would come back with like a
different version of what. Oh my gosh, that is not
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what I wanted.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I literally had it written out for you, and he's.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Like I didn't find it, and then we go the
next time, Like I would go with him the next time.
I'm like, Dad, it's right here, Like, oh, that's what's
happening with the apps.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
It would yeah, I just I don't either. I would
never do that. I can't.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
But people are like it's so convenient, and I'm like, dang,
that's awesome. You just get picked up. That's great.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
I know.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
Here's me just do to do my little to do
list in the grocery store, and everybody else has been
really like convenient.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
I have trust issues.
Speaker 2 (37:05):
Mine is closed. I can't nothing fits me ever if
I go try something on in the store, it's not
gonna look good. So I know the odds of me
buying it online in it fitting or just not gonna
So have.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
You ever ordered anything online?
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah, but usually I have to send.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
It back there.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
They're not a high success rate, right, Like there's vichy Right,
that's how you say, yeah, Chi, that one everything always
does fit. I feel like that's the only store that
I've found that I know it's gonna fit.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
Well, that's good, I know you do. You do kind
of find your ones that work.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Just because sometimes they run too big or too small
or so.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
You also love shopping in person though too right, Like
you're a big I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Take that away. Yeah, Like if I can go to
the store, I will go.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
I'm pretty sure. There's been multiple times where I've messaged
you been like what do you have to and you're
like shopping just walking around the mall.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
I may go after work today.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
It's like your it's your comfort. It is take away
your comfort.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
But you know the good news is it's like that
you used to be in my retail therapy, and I
realize I'm going less lately. So that's that's a good
thing in my life.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
Well, now you have a boyfriend. Yeah, somebody else helped
fill some time.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Yes, So now he knows that I have a shopping issue.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
That's is he go to the mall with you?
Speaker 2 (38:11):
No, we've never gone shopping together. He hates shopping, so
I go not with him. But I have a lot
of stuff in my house and he doesn't have much
in his, and he's just like, oh my gosh, abby.
But he's very tolerant of it, you know, like yeah,
it's just like, wow, you got problem. But I love
a shop. I'm like, great, is this a red flag?
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All my closets are full.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
It's your beige flag. Yes it is. I will say
we all have our beige flags.
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Yeah, and that's my work that I just have a
lot in my house.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
It's okay, I hold him your you're very sentimental, all right.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
I'm trying to work on that. Get rid of stuff is.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
The most I'm working on it. Like I'm not, but
I am. You know. It's funny. I'll share a shopping
story with you that was really sweet. I went shopping
with man in uniform. He wanted me to help pick
him out some outfits and we did, and it was funny.
He walked out of the dressing room at one of
the places we were at and one of the like ladies'
sales associates like went up and was like, okay, like
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this looks really good and what do you think? And
it was the sweetest thing ever. And I was so
cough guard because I was just chilling and I was
letting her do her thing, and he just kind of
looks at me. He goes, I don't know, I just
do whatever she says. She's the opinion I want to hear.
And I was like, oh, like.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
Mean to her.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
He was just like, I don't know. Whatever she says.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
Then he trusts you.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
Yeah, I'm melted.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
That makes you feel really good.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Yeah. I was like, are you for real?
Speaker 2 (39:38):
Oh my gosh, Oh that's really cute.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
It was cute.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
Okay, chopping story, Yeah yeah yeah. Mine doesn't like to
shop and he just got a new house and he's like,
you can be the interior decorator.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I was like, yes, that, let's go.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Have you been decorating not that much. He's like he's
trying to get other things done first. Like, I don't
want to come on a little too strong. I got
this all mapped out I have it all ready to go,
but I haven't actually done it yet. Also, it's expensive
of getting a new house, you know, and I feel
bad being like how much you want to spend?
Speaker 1 (40:11):
You know? Yeah, you're like, I have all of this,
but do you want to spend three thousand dollars on
a couch?
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Right? Exactly? He has all that stuff. I just get
to do the fun stuff, like the stuff on the
walls and like the accessory like plants and yeah, all
the accents, rugs and yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
So working on that.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
She did before and after photos. Your own little abby
ht TV situation.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
I know, start my own little side gig.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Yeah, we'll have side hustles, right, it can be your thing. Yeah, okay.
Last one, what is something you still don't understand? And
I say this because literally every time and people have
explained this to me, and I still don't understand it.
When you slide a debit card and it asks you
VISA debit or US debit, I have no idea which
one I'm supposed to select?
Speaker 2 (40:49):
Oh that, what is it?
Speaker 1 (40:50):
I don't know? And I know that I have been told.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
Before us it. Wait, what are the options again?
Speaker 1 (40:56):
VISA debit or US debit.
Speaker 2 (40:59):
What's US United States?
Speaker 1 (41:01):
I'm assuming VISA means like international and US means like
in there, But why it's a debit card? Just freaking
slide it like a debit card.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
I would have thought Visa was like the visa brand
in American Express.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
Visa it is, but I don't know what it means. Like,
why are you asking me which option?
Speaker 2 (41:18):
I don't either. I haven't seen that in a while
because I usually do credit card, A credit credit. Yeah,
I just like chip it up.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
Okay, that's my that's my See. I don't know if
you don't have to Scuba just walked in and maybe
he knows scuba. Do you know why when you slide
a debit card, it asks you VISA debit or US debit?
Speaker 4 (41:39):
Someone told me this one time, and I forget what
the answers. My wife works in finance. One of them
requires your pin and one of them is basically another
way of saying credit card, so you don't need the pen.
But I forget which one's which I believe it's. I
think I think it's Visa as the one use your pin,
and US is the mom where it's like running out
like credit.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
Well, why would you want to run a debit card like.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
A credit I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:58):
I thought.
Speaker 4 (41:59):
I was like, an, I think it's like an antiquated
thing that not everyone asks for anymore. I don't see
it as much as I used to.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
I don't either, but every time I do, it startles me,
and I'm like, well, I'm pretty sure every.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
Time I pick something different, you know, in the beginning,
I was like, I don't know if I'm the select
And then one would ask for a pinamon wouldn't, And
after a while kind of figured it out, and then
I asked my wife. She's like, yeah, it's like an old,
stupid thing that no one really does anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
Yeah, okay, well Abby, give us somethings. I see. Nobody knows,
nobody knows what it is, so God, I'm not alone.
What is something you still don't understand and it't make
you think of anything.
Speaker 2 (42:28):
I don't understand why people still don't know how to drive,
like I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
Very broad statement, but I likely is.
Speaker 2 (42:35):
Like I don't know if it's Nashville or I feel
like it's not like that. In Kansas people are pretty good,
but Nashville, it's just nothing adds up Yeah, like the merging.
I feel like we got to know the zipper. It's
like you just go in, you blend in, but no
one ever wants to.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
I'm still trying to figure it out. No, you're so right.
Any big city man driving as an adult is not fun.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Well, I don't think Tennessee. You have to take a
driver's test, so you just get your ID. That would
be interesting, Like Kansas. I remember I had to study. Yeah,
you renew it?
Speaker 1 (43:06):
What twenty five hours? I'd drive some stranger in the car.
Speaker 2 (43:10):
Well, I mean that's to get your license. But once
you have it, to renew it, I think you just
you just have to.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
Yeah, picture Nelly out here dressing everybody.
Speaker 2 (43:19):
I don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
All right, we're gonna head over to listener Q and
A here and a little bit. I hope your Saturday's
going great. Abby, thanks for joining me. Tell people where
they can find you.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Thank you on Instagram, Abby Lee Anderson, and then on
X singing.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Abby there she is. You can hang out with me
at web girl Morgan and that's all. We'll see you
guys in just a little bit. That's the best bits
of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure
to check out the other two parts this weekend. Go
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Speaker 2 (43:47):
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Speaker 1 (43:50):
To submit your listener questions for next week's episode.
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Part one
ahnger Thing with a member of the show. Welcome everybody,
it's best Bits time. I'm joined this weekend by a
lovely Abby. Hello. Hello, how you feeling?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
I'm good? How are you good?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Little tired, little a little strung out of feels like.
But we are here and work again. Yeah we are,
and we got things to talk about. So before Abby
and I get into some fun stuff that y'all really
want to hear about. The best bits this week We've
got the today years old. When I learned blank that happened,
Everybody was mind blown. During that. Amy Grant stopped by
the studio. Lunchbox sold something from the palette. Finally I
(00:42):
did a smell test because I feel like my smell
is finally back. Maybe Brothers Osbourne also stopped by the studio.
We had doctor Raglan in for Eddie's possible hair transplant
situation and we did a draft of things we want
to go away in twenty twenty four that definitely got dark.
So that is everything that happening this week from the show.
But Abby, we have to talk. Listeners have lots of
(01:05):
questions for you, and I vote they do about our
love life.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh gosh.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
And I've decided the way to go about doing this
that will be easy as like friends talking about it first,
like kind of invasive questions. Yeah, is you and I
can eat each ask each other three questions about this
and that's where we leave it. Okay, okay, okay, And
you can in those questions you can say plead the fifth.
I'm not answering. I'm not ready to answer. I like this,
(01:32):
that's an option. Yeah, but that at least is coming
from each other and we're still talking about it. Okay, yes,
all right, So I'm gonna start okay, and I'm starting
out like swinging first, swinging for a home run? Have
you guys said I love you?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I knew that was your question. I knew it. And
how can I know?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Like I said, can you plead the fifth? You can?
You can. But like also, if you feel comfortable, please share.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I am gonna say I plead the fifth on that. Okay,
all right, it's a big deal for me to say
love I will say that.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Yeah, you totally get it, and it is a huge deal,
especially after when you've been through a lot of stuff.
So I get it. Yes, cool, played the fifth. Okay,
all right, do you want to go back and forth
or do you want me to ask my three and
then you ask your three?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Let's see you asked your three, then I'll ask mine.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Okay. Have there been any serious conversations about the future.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Yes, there have Okay, Yeah, he's very good. He's better
than me, like bringing things up. But he's also like
we're at an age where you don't really have time.
We're not I'm not in my early twenties where I'm like, oh,
it's fine, like whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Just you're not messing around anymore.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Right, It's like I think we're dating at this point
to like know if we want a feature with this person. So, yes,
there have definitely been conversations, and.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
You feel good about those conversations.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I do, Yeah, yeah, okay, love it all right? Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
What is your favorite thing about him? Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
My gosh, and.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
I know you probably have so many, Yeah, but name
like a big thing that comes to mind? Right when
I ask that, I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Would say that he's so easy going, like he never
is difficult, and I'm not used to that. Usually it's
like there's pushback or like hey, I'm gonna go like
the half marathon, like he wanted to run it with me.
You know, he could have been like, oh, I don't
want to do that, like I have other things to do,
or you know, something like that, like he always wants
to like join in, or like if I want to
do something last minute, like hey, you want to go
(03:21):
downtown and do this, like he'll be like sure or
why not? So it's just super like easy. I would say, okay,
which I love.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I love it. So we got some details. Do you
feel good about those anyway? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I don't think it was too much.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
So I like you all right now it is your
turn to put me on the spot.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Okay, So I already had this one in mind. You
guys he said, I love you.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
No, no, we're not there yet.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Has he proposed yet? I'm just kidding. I'm just gonna.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Definitely know and that I won't make a counter second question.
But no, no, we have not I love you yet.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
But that was funny. Let's see what has been I
guess Okay, does he usually plan all the dates? And
or what is the best date you guys have gone on?
That's kind of two questions.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Oh yeah, that is that's a few.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Let's just do what what is your favorite date you've
ever been on?
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Favorite date? Okay, I will say yes, he has planned
ninety five percent I'm not gonn't say ninety ninety five
percent of things we have done together. And our favorite date,
the best date so far. Gosh, this is hard. We've
had some good dates and there it's funny. It's because
(04:36):
they're not like crazy, but like, so our second date
I think maybe my favorite so far because it was
just so uniquely both of us. He had planned a
new Greek restaurant for me to try because he knows
I loves trying new restaurants and of course they have
to have vegetarian food. So Greek restaurant. It was amazing.
It's now one of my favorite places. Like added a
foodie spot for me. And then after the date, we
(05:00):
we both drove there. Because it was the second date,
he didn't pick me up, even though he offered, and
he was like, I washed my car in case you
want me to, Oh pick you up.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
That's really new.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
No, it's okay, not quite yet another I'm very I'm
just very cautious at this point.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
But so we were like in the parking lot talking
before we were gonna leave, and he saw all the
all the ducks on my jeep and he was like what,
and he asked what those are about? So I told him.
He's like, well, let's go duck some jeeps. So we
like drove around in the parking lot and ducked like
three different jeeps, and he had the best time just
literally running grabbing these things out of my little like uh,
(05:34):
glove compartment and taking them and just running and putting
them on jeeps. He's like, this is awesome.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
That's so cute.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
It was adorable. And then he drives a stick shift
vehicle and I was like, I am never touching one
of those. That's terrifying. He's like, no, it's fine, I'll
teach you. Put me in his car and I he
taught me how to stick shift drive in the parking lot.
After this date what And we're just like hanging out,
having like the best time for this stupidest reasons. Like
(06:01):
two other people they'd be like, well what just happened?
But he was so calm and so fun and just
it worked so well in so many ways, Like we
did so many different things that I learned a lot
about him in those moments, Like he's very patient, he's
very kind, like and I mean I could have crashed
this man's car, and he was just like, yeah, you're good,
(06:21):
You're doing great.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Like like, okay, so did you learn I did?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I know? Yeah, I drove around. I drove around the park.
I am scared to drive on the main roads, but
I drove around the parking lot.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
That's awesome. Yeah, No, that it really does test somebody's
like patience.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Oh yeah, and he has Oh my gosh, his patience
is through the roof, like he could put up with
anything that I do.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Oh my gosh. He doesn't get mad because yeah that's
a red flat.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
No, there was no anger, and I was like, who
are you? Yeah, So it was just a really good experience,
like funny, quirky. I was giggling the whole time I left,
and I was like, dang, I want to hang out
with him again.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
I love that. That's a good sign. That's how I
feel when I'm in mine too. Yes, I'm like, oh
my gosh, I want to be with him now. Right.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
He makes me giggly, Like I've never been that way.
I've always been pretty like confident and just I never
really had that like kind of giggly school girl since
I was like in high school. You know what I mean?
Where and I said to you and I just start
giggling and I don't know why. I'm just like a
little giggle box. That's amazing.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Okay, that makes me happy.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Yep, there's there's second question.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Well more my third one. So are you guys official?
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Okay, this is this is just for best bits. I'm
sure I will share more on the big show at
some point in time later, but without sharing too much detail.
I we are no longer on dating apps.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Okay, that's a big thing.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
That's okay, and haven't been for a minute, so love
that answer an answer.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Okay, that's that's a good it's going towards a Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
There's more, but I'm still kind of I'm sitting on it.
I'm just really enjoying all of this right now until
I'm kind of ready to share. I think I also
shared a little bit with Scuba was on last weekend
and now I'm not.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Sure what did you you just like, word, vomit everything.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I just get so excited to talk about him. Yes,
like it's a weird thing. When I like when I
went to which we'll get into and a little bit.
I went to a bachelorette party and people would ask
me about I'm like, oh, yeah, I'll let me talk
about him, and I haven't. I just haven't. I mean,
I have not felt comfortable, especially in my last two relationships,
where I was like, I would talk about him and
(08:32):
I was excited to be dating, but I haven't felt
safe to talk about them. Like right now, I feel safe.
I don't feel like I'm going to get bamboozled. I'm
not going to be tricked. I'm not going to be like,
oh gosh, I shared this, and now two weeks later,
here's this. I do constantly feel like the other foot
is going to drop and and I say that to
him a lot, and he literally looks at me. He's like,
(08:53):
both of my feet are firmly planted right here, like
for me, that is, And I'm like that, I love that.
Not for me, I am that's express over here right.
But I haven't felt that way in a long time
to just feel like, Okay, I feel safe that you're
actually just a good human being and this hopefully will
(09:16):
progress in the best ways, you know what I mean. Yeah,
so that's all new to me, and I'm still trying
to understand and comprehend that. That's why I think I'm
afraid to be like, yes, this is where we are,
this is what's happening, because I'm just like, I'm anticipating
the worst things to happen because I'm so used to that. No,
I feel that too, even though he's given me zero
reason to feel that way, zero, like not even a
(09:37):
little bit.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
That is amazing. Yeah, because even with the guys I
was dating, like, there were red flags, but I just
kind of ignored them. So then I just didn't talk
to many people about him because then they'd be like, oh, so,
you know, what do you get you for your birthday?
And you know, I'd be like, oh, he forgot it
was my birthday. And then they'd be like, wait, why
are you with this guy that doesn't even care about you?
So I just didn't like talk about it. But now
I'm kind of the same way. I just I feel
(09:59):
comfortable to talking about it and people asking me questions
because I don't have anything that I I want to
hide or like that.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I'm embarrassed now because you guys have been together for
how long now?
Speaker 2 (10:08):
It was just before it was like middle of December,
is when we were like official.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
So it's been five months.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Yeah, by my mouth, right, a little over five months, okay, yeah, yeah.
We met like at the end of October.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
So yeah, okay, so it's been technically like seven months
you've known each other, yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Which is a long time.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah. No, And like for me, that's at least at
the point where you are really starting to understand and
know somebody. So I don't know that you can be
at the point where you're waiting for the other shoot
to drop. Do you feel like you've let that go
a little bit or is it Yeah, I've let it.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Go, but I'm still I'm just like cautious like you, Like,
I'm always scared for something. I have these like abandonment
abandonment like issues just from like my family and things
in my past that I'm like, I feel like when
things are so good, you're like, Okay, it's not going
to last that long because.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Like it's too good, something has to happen.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Yes, or like I feel like a lot of things
in my past that are good have been taken away.
Like that kind of gets a little deep. But I'm
That's what I'm always scared of. I'm like, oh, my gosh,
is this gonna be taken away next?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
So I really hope not.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That's just in my head and I can't help it,
and it's probably something I need to work through obviously,
but this.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Is something too he's helping you work through, like have
you voice them? And then like this is what I
feel and he's like, Okay, how can I help make
this feel safer? Yes? Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
So I think that is what it's all about, is
like communication, And sometimes I forget that because I don't
want him to be like, wait, are you like insecure
or whatever? But that's not what it is. It's just
you don't want the same patterns to keep happening that
have happened in your life.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
So mm hmm. You know, and communication is so huge,
Like you're talking about how he's a great communicator. Man
in uniform is a great communicator, Like there's I never
have to be like, oh I can't talk about this
or oh I don't want to bring this up. H
I want to bring everything up. I'm like, let's talk
about it. And he's like, yeah, okay, whatever.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
That is amazing, yes, Like that's so healthy, right, great
to just like feel like you're in a healthy something.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Yeah, I know, like but you know, just you and
I sitting over here waiting for that other shoes.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
Just fall off.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I know. Welcome to our lives.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
I know that's bad, but I know we're not alone,
like no.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
And you know I ours are different. The reason I
feel that way is from certain relationship. The reason you
feel that way is much different. And for you, I
don't know that that's ever going to go away. You
know what I mean for what yours is related to,
and only you can speak to that. But I don't
know that that will ever be totally gone for me.
(12:36):
And maybe maybe you feel like if you hit a
certain threshold, you will, Like I know, for me, the
day I get engaged or the day I get married
are like the days that I genuinely have to be
like okay, I have to.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Let this go when the ring goes on the finger,
like that's when, And.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
That's crazy that it's going to take that for me
to get to that point, Like not I would say
I'm like eighty percent where I'm just like, it's that
twenty percent where I'm just always waiting. But that twenty
percent I think would go away from me once that
day comes to be like, Okay, you actually like I
don't think you can go anywhere. I mean, you still can,
right Like. I don't know why. That's just the thing
I've kind of put in my head right because of
(13:17):
everything I've been through. Do you have that threshold? Do
you feel like or do you feel like it is
just going to be this lingering.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
For some reason? I feel like it is, which scares me,
and I don't want that.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
That's not a bad I mean, but it's not a
bad thing because you're aware of it. You know, it's
part of who you are, and you're just like, this
is who I am. And he seems to accept that
based on what you're saying. Yes, So I don't know
that you have to be afraid of it. I just
didn't know for your sake that there was ever gonna
be a threshold.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Uh huh. Like I know I think about that, and
I'm like, I think it's just gonna take some like
I'm a words of affirmation. I need that so sometimes
just but I don't want like the you know, I'm
not leaving you, right like, I don't need like that,
But just I don't know, I don't know it's there.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I think words of affirmation. For somebody who's a words
of affirmation person, it's not like saying each day I
love you so much, I'm never going to leave. It's
the words of affirmation that coincide with the actions.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Yeah, one hundred percent consistency.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Of that, Like in over a long period of time
that I do think you can probably get to that
point where that's kind of just a very very whisper
in the back of your brain versus this kind of loud,
you know, devil on your shoulder for lack of a
better way to explain that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
And you know, I think actions are even more important
than the words, because I've had guys in the past
that are like, you know, I'm not going anywhere, like
I would never go anywhere. What we have is great,
and then and then hello, like they're like, oh, never mind.
And so it is the actions you really have to
look at.
Speaker 1 (14:50):
And over time, I think you find a way to
trust in those when they are consistent and they both
coincide together. So I do think it's possible for you.
But I didn't know if you like have been like
that's my throat should like I'm like put it ring
on my finger and I'll probably believe you.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
I'm gonna say five years in a marriage, our fifty
year anniversary.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
We got some trauma. Okay, it's fine, we do. Okay,
We're gonna take a break and we're gonna talk about
some three good things that are happening in our lives
right now. Okay, okay, all right, so we see we
ended up on trauma. Let's talk about some life lately,
what you've been up to. I want you to share
like three good things in your life right now, and
(15:30):
you had had messaged me some of them, so maybe
can use some of those or maybe different ones that
come up, whatever, whatever you want.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
I'm gonna say the half marathon that I did because,
for one, I raised almost six thousand dollars for Saint Jude,
which is amazing.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Which is like you, yes, slaving for yourself. Also mostly
because I am by myself in here.
Speaker 2 (15:51):
And also I got to run it for the first
time with my boyfriend and that was really fun and
he pushed me like I usually run it by myself.
I don't know, I just it's hard to stay with
someone for the thirteen point one miles, you know, the
other the whole time, we say the whole time, did
you guys talk a little bit?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yeah? So it was kind of running bad. I can't
even run one mile on the treadmill. I'm like, nobody
talked to me.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Well, it was like till mile five and then after
that I was like, oh my god, I cannot talk.
But he just kept pushing me to be like, don't stop.
I was like, can I walk for like two minutes?
He's like, no, you got this.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
So that was so. Was he a big runner too? No?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
That was his first half marathon?
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Are you kidding me? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:28):
What the I know he had done a half iron Man,
so he's very okay casual. I know, he's like really
good at everything. He's very athletic. And so I'm the runner.
So he thought I was gonna beat him by a lot,
but I kind of held him back a little. But
it was very nice that he stayed with me.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Oh so you guys crashed the finish line together?
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Yeah, no, our time. It was exactly like, I don't
know how that happened. That it was to the second
the milliton.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Did you guys kiss at the finish line? We're like,
we did it?
Speaker 2 (16:56):
No, I almost threw up I'm not even kid like.
I was running so hard towards the end that I
like literally almost did like at the finish line. No,
I went on the ground and but they gave me
my medal and then it was bad. I was like,
this would be great because there's people just standing watching
when I throw up.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
But yes, honestly, would have been funny. I've been very
ram calm ess if you would have tried to kiss
you and you're like, what on him?
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Oh my gosh, that is what happened, so oh like
it that would be his ick for me.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
I think she threw up on me after a half marathon.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I'm ant ick.
Speaker 1 (17:32):
Okay, that's a really good one. Congratulations to both of
you guys.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Hey, yeah, that's another one. Oh that my parents were
there to watch, because like my mom always comes every
year and does and does it. And she was like, well,
now that you're dating someone, I don't want to like
get in the way. And I was like, mom, this
is our tradition, Like, so I really love that that
we keep this tradition going so.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Kind Yeah, just because you're dating someone, I you know,
I've I've had a lot of these conversations with friends
in my life. Like just because you're dating someone, like
you have your own life. Life still, you get to
have your own life. You should have your own life,
and those things are just go away because you meet somebody.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Yes, I know exactly. I was like, if he doesn't
like that I'm close with my mom, that's a red
flag for sure.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Like, and you gotta be close with your family and like,
those things are important. I would never personally want someone
to lose their friends or their family, those relationships just
because we started dating. That's that's not a good place
to be in. I guess one thing to be like
obsessed with him and want to spend all the time,
but like it's another that you make time for all
those important factors of your own individual life.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Right, So I love that.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
You were like, no, mom, what are you talking about?
You're coming.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
I know. It's like I'm not changing who I am.
You know, like he if he loves what who I
am now, then that's gonna work out. But if I
have to change, then that's it's.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Not Yeah, I like toxic, not good, not good.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
That is very toxic. And then the final thing is
not going to morganwall on this weekend. And I'm very excited.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Which night because I heard he's here three nights and
yeah for a riday. Okay, you will. By the time
this airs, you all have been at Morian wallin Yes. Nice.
Was How much did those tickets cost you?
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Two point fifty a piece? Yes? On the side, I know, yeah,
I probably could have gotten some cheaper, but it was
like an impulse by Like my boyfriend and I were
looking and we're like, let's just get them. They might
go up and I'm like, no, they're going down. They
keep going down as time goes. It's okay because there's
three nights.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Are they good tickets? Like? Are you good seats?
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Oh, they're really good. They're on the side. I was
debating between the floor and the side. But you know,
being short, I'm like, I know, like a tall the
seven foot guy's going to stand in front of.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Me every time every time. Yeah, I could have a
great view. And all of a sudden I turned one
second and there's somebody new in front of me that's
like five thousand feet tall. Yes, and then a spot
and then.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
They do it again and then they shift. Yeah, and
they're wearing like a cowboy hat and everything. So I'm
like I'm not going to take that chance. I want
to be able to see.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
So who's opening for that show?
Speaker 2 (19:54):
So let's see Nate Smith and Bailey'szimmerman And it's fun.
What's her name? Laura wat Lauren Walking? Yes, she's like
the first one.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
It's all fun. It's at Nissan Stadium, right, Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Something Cury song?
Speaker 1 (20:07):
Do you want to hear? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Man, I love sand in my boots. I love that one.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
How do you remind me how that one goes? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:14):
But nowag and paddles and my sons Silverado there is
a yeah, okay, it's another one. I want to hear
the post malone?
Speaker 1 (20:22):
Mom, do blend together for me?
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I know they do.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Yeah, that's about to post one is going to be
a jam.
Speaker 2 (20:28):
Gosh, it is a jam.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
It's wind. Does it come out?
Speaker 2 (20:33):
No, I don't know. I don't know if they've announced it.
Have they?
Speaker 1 (20:35):
I don't know it has I just know they've posted it.
So I'm like, did you guys at least sure a
date yet?
Speaker 2 (20:39):
It's all over? TikTok it is and.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Raised phone that he keeps playing it on every millisecond.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
I know I sent him a video. He keeps playing it.
It's a really good one.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
It is really good. But literally every time I come
out of the studio, he's playing it. It's like a
break song for him. Now. It is so apparently something
has surpast Samon in this moment.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
Oh my gosh, we're singing it.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
Yep. Oh shoot, okay, so those are fun, fun stuff
happening right now.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
What about you?
Speaker 1 (21:08):
Okay? So I did it? Just get back from Miramar
Beach Deston, Florida.
Speaker 2 (21:14):
That looked I was so jealous. I was like, I
need a beach.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
It was so funny. You're such a beach girl. You're
such a beach girl. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
You're not.
Speaker 1 (21:21):
They put me on the sand. I was like, we'll
have stand in my swim soup.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
I don't like this.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
Did not sit down, like, don't like it? Hev gs.
I was.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Not at all. Did you get in the water?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
I did? Well, I didn't. I didn't during the beach day.
I did during our Crab Island day. Okay, So I've
never been to Miramar. I've been to Deston, which like
they're kind of connected. But Miramar was beautiful and we
drove around. My favorite part was that our abing me
had a golf cart and I drove it around.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
Are you kidding me? That's awesome?
Speaker 1 (21:51):
I felt so cool. I was like, guys, golf cart life, like,
this is a beat. That is what I like about
the beach. Put me in a golf cart and I'll
just drive everybody drive around. This is so much fun.
I don't know. I don't know why. It's so much
fun to drive like a little cart like that around,
just like a little electric Was it electric? Yeah? They
are right, yeah, I think they only go like thirty
miles thirty thirty five miles an hour. And then we
I made them do Bridle Beer Olympics Thursday night. When
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we got in, I'd put together Bridle Beer Olympics, and
so it was like each different We did beer darts,
dizzy bat, what was the other one? Oh? We had
I had these flamingos that you put on your head
and you had to put like a ring toss for
so like each stage was like meeting each other, engagement, elopement, marriage,
Each stage was like the different phases of Bridle Beer Olympics.
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And then but the end was like this dizzy bat
and the dizzey bat remind me so much of college
have you ever played dizzy bat?
Speaker 2 (22:41):
Yes, we have to.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Like Okay, so you get basically a kid's little baseball
bat and you cut off the top. You have to
pour a drink in there, chug it for however many
seconds and however long. How many seconds it takes you
is how many spins you.
Speaker 2 (22:54):
Have to do after so many seconds, and then after
your spins you have to hit the can.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
And so that was how it did it. But it
was so much fun. Like I felt like I was
back at There's sorty house all week and long with
so many girls.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
See, we need weekends like that. That's awesome.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Yeah, we do.
Speaker 2 (23:09):
Wait did you plan it?
Speaker 1 (23:10):
Then?
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Are you made of honor?
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So this one, I am one of three bridesmaids. Okay,
I helped with some of the planning because there's only
three of us. So I helped the maid of honor
with some things. Not in this one, no, But now
I'm in another one that I'm another bridesmaid, and i'm
my sister's I'm a maid of honor.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
So you're oh, you're two bridesmaids and one made of
honor this year. That's a lot.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Yeah, I feel uh, I feel tired. Yeah, like I
got back from this weekend and all I wanted to
do was sleep.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
I mean, yeah, you're probably still catching up, because I'm
sure it was.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
And now I'm currently not recording this, but once you
guys hear this, I will be in Austin.
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Oh it's never ending.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
It is never ending. We did see, like, okay, so
there was a part of this. We saw a pot
of dolphins. There was five dolphins together. Oh my god,
and two of them were babies.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
I mean babies, like the size of like my from
my tors to my head, Like, these were baby dolphins.
They're so cute and they were so cute, and uh,
I got burnt.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
I got fried like a tomato on the back. I
put sunscreen everywhere else, and for whatever reason, neglected to
ask somebody to put it on my back.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
You mean someone like lunchbox didn't come up this people?
Speaker 1 (24:22):
You know, honestly, that's it would have been a great reminder.
And I'm like, you know, I sure, why not.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Would you have said yes if a random dude came up?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
You know, vacation vacation workings different. I'm just like, yeah,
I don't do anything that's like bad, but I'm just
more susceptible to be like yeah, I'll do whatever.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
With friends, like they think it's funny, and it's just funny.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Exactly, like like we were at the we're at the
bar and drink and I just did more more inclined
to say yes, but it's more of a like, oh, yes,
I guess I'll do it. And we did see a
bar burned down, an entire bar there, uh is called
Fins two Fins, And as we were getting on our
boat to go out to Crab Island, the entire bar
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was engulfed in flames.
Speaker 2 (25:06):
And they know what happened.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
We were reading on the news after things. Nobody got hurt.
They were open for breakfast, so like people were in there.
But as far as we knew on the news, that
was reported nobody got injured. But uh no, at the
moment when we were looking at it, nobody knew what happened.
But it was engulfed in flames.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
I cannot even imagine.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Ten o'clock in the morning. What in wild world. So
our suspicions were that it was like a grease fire
of some kind because our boat captain said it was
by the kitchen area. But crazy, that's cray Yeah, so
that was fun. Okay, first Utte again and my two
other bachelrettes. I'm excited to get to go to because
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I've never been to those places before. Palm Springs in California,
and we're doing Joshua Tree in the aerial tramway and
lots of brunch and karaoke and all things planned. And
then for the other one, We're going to Lake Huron
in Michigan, and I've never been to Michigan for the summer.
Really excited.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
That is gonna be so cool.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Yeah. So I'm excited for both of those, even though
I'm like tired thinking about it. Excited to go see
some new places.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Yeah, you do have a lot. I've been to Palm
Springs and I loved it. I was there like two days.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Did you go to Joshua Tree and you love Joshua Tree?
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Yeah, Oh my gosh, I loved it. Yeah. We stayed
at like an Airbnb out in the middle of Joshua Tree,
like out in the middle of the desert, and there
was like a stargazing separate house and you go up
in a ladder and you just like sit at the top.
It was crazy.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
That sounds so romantic.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
It was the coolest thing. It was my friend and I.
My girlfriend and I, so it would be very romantic
friendship love, friendship love.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
I was like no, I was there and I was like, man,
this is very romantic. This would be fun to be
with a guy.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
But it was so awesome.
Speaker 2 (26:40):
Yeah, Okay, it was so hot. We went in like
August August. Yeah, it was Oh man, I didn't realize
it was so hot there.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
It's gonna be hot when we go to It's at
the end of May, so we're gonna be primetime.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
You'll be at pools. What was cool though, It's like
there's different hotel pools, but you can buy like a
day pass. It's only like ten dollars. Okay, are we
just went to a couple of different Our.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Airbnb does have a pool, so I am excited about that. Yeah.
And we are doing lots of hiking, a lot of
hiking eve hiking. Yeah. We're gonna do like Indian Canyon,
which which is near Palm Springs. Yeah, and do the
aerial tramway and there's hiking and restaurants up there at
the top. But then we have Joshua Tree, like a
full day at Joshua tree too.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
That's really cool. That'll be so fun. I want to
go back, very exciting.
Speaker 1 (27:22):
Yeah, so those and yeah, I've never been to Michigan,
so I'm excited to see those and then my last
one obviously. Besides, you know, there's a man in uniform
existing in my life, but he's there. My garden and
my grass looks so amazing right now, and I'm taking
it all because it's only probably gonna last like two
more weeks.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
You have been busy in that backyard, like that's do
you water it? Like every day?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
I have a little spring, so I don't have a
sprinkler system, and I can't convince myself to like pay
for it because I guess it's really expensive to installed
and everything. Oh yeah, so I did find these things
on Amazon that's like a hose but has a little
sprinkler attachments. So I have all in my garden and
that goes off every morning. Oh, I have it on
a timer, okay, because I can't remember. I can't keep
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plants alive in my house, say my life, so they
will not survive if I am on the clock to
water them.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
What are the best things to plant? Like, aren't the perennials.
Those are ones that come out every year, right.
Speaker 1 (28:17):
Yes, so you don't have to. I do not plant annuals, Okay,
I only plant perennials, which is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Okay, that's what I need. My whole the front my
whole front yard. Like my rose bush died and they
just took it out and now there's nothing. It's just mulch.
Speaker 1 (28:32):
You should plant the one, the one that I love.
She is a sparkler. She is so pretty. It's a
wine and roses plant, and she is a perennial, and
she's green year round, and then in the fall she
even turns like red instead of the green that she
is year round, which I know that sounds I said
that weird. But then when she blooms, she has pink
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pretty flowers and they're on all and it's like a
kind of like a literally looks like a sparkler, like
it kind of comes out like that. Oh I like those, Okay,
so pretty. So that could be where your rose bush
was and they have thrived now I don't know. So
all the ones I plant back there are really good
for part sun and little like mostly shade.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Okay, mine's like half it's probably half in the same part, okay.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Because that's what my whole backyard is. It hardly gets
any sense. So I had to find like very specific things.
Speaker 2 (29:22):
I know. That's what I've been looking up because I'm like,
I don't want everything to die.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
So it does every and I will say even the
perennials do end up dying at some point depending on
the harshness of winter that we get and if people
protect theirs and put things. I don't have that energy,
I know, don't.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
They like cover it. They're like, I'm gonna go cover
the plants.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Like my dad brings his inside to his garage. He
has like a little terrarium. I'm like, this is a
lot of effort.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
That is that I don't have some dedication to the plants,
so much dedication, and I'm like, I love that for you.
That is not my life, I know.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
So they do still end up dying depending on the harshness,
but they can last forever. I've had plants that have
been back there forever, and my I have hostas that
survive every year. Really they've done really good, like the
last three I think it's been three years. And then
I have azaleas that have also done, that have been
there since I moved in, that have done really good.
Oh and my magnolia tree has grown like crazy. Oh
(30:15):
I granted her and she was like maybe six feet
tall and no, I think she's like almost twelve.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Geez. They do grow really and they grow to be huge.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Yo. That's why I'm so exciting. I really love their blooms.
But their blooms last. They do it one day. I'm
not kidding you. These magnolia flowers they bloom one time
and they last maybe one day and then they fall off,
and like that was really uneventful.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
Yeah, that's a lot for just one day exactly hopefully
your home when it's there.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
And maybe a little bit longer that. But I'm not
kidding you. It's it can't be more than seventy two hours. Can't.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Oh my gosh, because they're so pretty.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
I know. But yeah, then they create a mess with
their little bloom things that fall off. Huh.
Speaker 2 (30:53):
Oh you've inspired me. I gotta I gotta get on it,
because my it's just like nothing.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Wine and Roses, I think that's your plant.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
I think, which Okay, I already like the names.
Speaker 1 (31:01):
I go right, Wine and Roses you need other help,
I'll help. I have a little green thumb right now,
like putting together a little flower bouquets too, that's my favorite.
Speaker 2 (31:11):
Yes, oh I've been doing that too. At Trader Joe's
they have like pretty flowers.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Trader jos is the best because you can buy everything
individually and put it however you want to.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
Oh my gosh, have you seen like the It's like
baby's breath but it's unicorn. No, Oh my god, I'm obsessed.
It's like pastel colors, beautiful, Like it's my new favorite. Okay,
it's like lavender.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
We need to do like a flower day. We should
a flower day and then we go rage for some
day drinking. That's what you said you wanted to do.
Do a little bit of it.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
Okay, perfect, all right, we're gonna take one more quick break.
We'll be right back. All right. So adult life is
kind of weird. So I have adulting questions of just
situations I've been in.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
Okay, hope flag can help well.
Speaker 1 (31:54):
More so that you may have answers also, or maybe
you have none. But there are three different questions. What
is something you still do in your adult life that
you don't think anyone else really is doing And I'll
answer mind so that way you can give you some
time to think. But mine is balancing my check book.
I still balance my check book.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
Oh my gosh, what Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Still write them down. It's because I have caught a
few times, like discrepancies in my accounts where I'm like,
I'm going to pay that because with tipping in the
way that so many websites have my info even when
I haven't saved it is insane. So like, I still
balance my check book at the very least, I'm at
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least going through and writing everything down to make sure
I'm aware of what's going on in my account.
Speaker 2 (32:38):
That is so impressive and organized it is.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
But I'm like should I is it even worth it anymore?
Like I mean, I've maybe caught that didn't scrub it
Now I can't. I said it one time and I
get it. I maybe caught it twice, and like the
ten years I've been doing this, you know what I mean,
Like it's few and far between.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I don't even know how to do it because everything's
like online banking. I don't even know how to balance
a check book.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
Well, I keep all my receipts and then I write
them down in my chipbook, and then I double check
them with what's online to make sure everything's like on
the same.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
Gosh, my finances are a hot mess. I rarely look
at them, which is really bad. I wouldn't even know
if someone took.
Speaker 1 (33:18):
Well, don't say that, don't say that. I look every
morning before it works. Okay, I'm gonna look right now.
You should definitely after this error looks good.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
God.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
So I don't know if I need to keep doing it,
but I you know, I'm here and I'm doing it.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
If you know what you're doing and it makes you
feel better about things, sure, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
I don't know if it's just adding another freaking thing
for me to do. You know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Why can't you just look on mine? Well you can,
but you don't know it.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
It's just basing it basically, Like I see the receipts
of what actually got charged, and then if I'm double
checking to make sure online there isn't any discrepancy in
what I was charged versus what it shows up on
that's online.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
Were power to you.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I think there's gonna come a day where I'm like
I'm out, but I'm impressed and make you think of
anything for you that you still do. You're like, nobody
else probably does this, well, mine is.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
I set about ten alarms on my phone and then
I ask Alexa to set like three alarms every morning.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Is your Alexa in your bedroom?
Speaker 2 (34:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Uh huh, that's creepy, Alex creepy. I'm just saying, Alexa,
be creepy watching you sleep.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, that does freak me out a little bit. She
does just come out there, come on there, and she's
like the weather today, and I'm.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
Like, what did you call out setting?
Speaker 2 (34:34):
No? No?
Speaker 1 (34:36):
Oh yeah, she like you. I got a crush on you.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
I actually really hate it. And I also hate when
she goes, good morning, Abby, have a wonderful day. I'm like,
shut she talks to you.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Yes, I have to have features on there because I
never does this. I'm pretty sure you need to change
your settings.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Are there settings that say like never talk to me ever? Yeah,
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Mine's on silent.
Speaker 2 (35:00):
The only reason, the only reason I use it is
I'm like, how is the traffic on the way to
work today? Okay, She'll be like it's good, what's the
weather like? And my alarm and then play music. So
I use her for like four things. But she's saying
good morning, sleep. But anyway, the endless amount of alarms.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
Okay, that's I.
Speaker 2 (35:20):
I just don't trust myself. I'm the same way, like ten.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
This is why my dad calls me and I get
made fun of it. I have anxiety with this job
of not showing up. I can't. I can't not be here.
So it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (35:33):
It is the anxiety. Yeah, trying to think what else?
Speaker 1 (35:37):
One?
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Yeah, you have other ones?
Speaker 1 (35:39):
No? That was I have other questions though? You ready
for the other question? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, the alarm
clos other adult. Yeah, yes, I do think you have
more people on your team than you think. I think
there's a lot of us that have lots of alarm clocks.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
Okay, you're not alone and Alexa in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
That's weird. You're on your own. What do you still
buy in store and refuse to do any online or
version to buy it? And the reason I'm bringing this
up because I see so many people use like the
grocery store and I can't. I have to buy my
own groceries.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Oh sing, I have trust issued? Yeah, how do I
know they're gonna get the avocado I wanted exactly.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
And they always do like they like, do you want
a sa No, I wanted what I want on the list,
so why And it's kind of like it's funny because
the grocery store like app how they like pick them
for you remind me of like my dad and mom
growing up. My mom would always write things on the
list and my dad would come back with like a
different version of what. Oh my gosh, that is not
(36:34):
what I wanted.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
I literally had it written out for you, and he's.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Like I didn't find it, and then we go the
next time, Like I would go with him the next time.
I'm like, Dad, it's right here, Like, oh, that's what's
happening with the apps.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
It would yeah, I just I don't either. I would
never do that. I can't.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
But people are like it's so convenient, and I'm like, dang,
that's awesome. You just get picked up. That's great.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
I know.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
Here's me just do to do my little to do
list in the grocery store, and everybody else has been
really like convenient.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
I have trust issues.
Speaker 2 (37:05):
Mine is closed. I can't nothing fits me ever if
I go try something on in the store, it's not
gonna look good. So I know the odds of me
buying it online in it fitting or just not gonna
So have.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
You ever ordered anything online?
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Yeah, but usually I have to send.
Speaker 1 (37:17):
It back there.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
They're not a high success rate, right, Like there's vichy Right,
that's how you say, yeah, Chi, that one everything always
does fit. I feel like that's the only store that
I've found that I know it's gonna fit.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
Well, that's good, I know you do. You do kind
of find your ones that work.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Just because sometimes they run too big or too small
or so.
Speaker 1 (37:36):
You also love shopping in person though too right, Like
you're a big I'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
Take that away. Yeah, Like if I can go to
the store, I will go.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
I'm pretty sure. There's been multiple times where I've messaged
you been like what do you have to and you're
like shopping just walking around the mall.
Speaker 2 (37:50):
I may go after work today.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
It's like your it's your comfort. It is take away
your comfort.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
But you know the good news is it's like that
you used to be in my retail therapy, and I
realize I'm going less lately. So that's that's a good
thing in my life.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
Well, now you have a boyfriend. Yeah, somebody else helped
fill some time.
Speaker 2 (38:06):
Yes, So now he knows that I have a shopping issue.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
That's is he go to the mall with you?
Speaker 2 (38:11):
No, we've never gone shopping together. He hates shopping, so
I go not with him. But I have a lot
of stuff in my house and he doesn't have much
in his, and he's just like, oh my gosh, abby.
But he's very tolerant of it, you know, like yeah,
it's just like, wow, you got problem. But I love
a shop. I'm like, great, is this a red flag?
(38:31):
All my closets are full.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
It's your beige flag. Yes it is. I will say
we all have our beige flags.
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Yeah, and that's my work that I just have a
lot in my house.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
It's okay, I hold him your you're very sentimental, all right.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
I'm trying to work on that. Get rid of stuff is.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
The most I'm working on it. Like I'm not, but
I am. You know. It's funny. I'll share a shopping
story with you that was really sweet. I went shopping
with man in uniform. He wanted me to help pick
him out some outfits and we did, and it was funny.
He walked out of the dressing room at one of
the places we were at and one of the like ladies'
sales associates like went up and was like, okay, like
(39:11):
this looks really good and what do you think? And
it was the sweetest thing ever. And I was so
cough guard because I was just chilling and I was
letting her do her thing, and he just kind of
looks at me. He goes, I don't know, I just
do whatever she says. She's the opinion I want to hear.
And I was like, oh, like.
Speaker 2 (39:28):
Mean to her.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
He was just like, I don't know. Whatever she says.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
Then he trusts you.
Speaker 1 (39:33):
Yeah, I'm melted.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
That makes you feel really good.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Yeah. I was like, are you for real?
Speaker 2 (39:38):
Oh my gosh, Oh that's really cute.
Speaker 1 (39:42):
It was cute.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
Okay, chopping story, Yeah yeah yeah. Mine doesn't like to
shop and he just got a new house and he's like,
you can be the interior decorator.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I was like, yes, that, let's go.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Have you been decorating not that much. He's like he's
trying to get other things done first. Like, I don't
want to come on a little too strong. I got
this all mapped out I have it all ready to go,
but I haven't actually done it yet. Also, it's expensive
of getting a new house, you know, and I feel
bad being like how much you want to spend?
Speaker 1 (40:11):
You know? Yeah, you're like, I have all of this,
but do you want to spend three thousand dollars on
a couch?
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Right? Exactly? He has all that stuff. I just get
to do the fun stuff, like the stuff on the
walls and like the accessory like plants and yeah, all
the accents, rugs and yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
So working on that.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
She did before and after photos. Your own little abby
ht TV situation.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
I know, start my own little side gig.
Speaker 1 (40:32):
Yeah, we'll have side hustles, right, it can be your thing. Yeah, okay.
Last one, what is something you still don't understand? And
I say this because literally every time and people have
explained this to me, and I still don't understand it.
When you slide a debit card and it asks you
VISA debit or US debit, I have no idea which
one I'm supposed to select?
Speaker 2 (40:49):
Oh that, what is it?
Speaker 1 (40:50):
I don't know? And I know that I have been told.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
Before us it. Wait, what are the options again?
Speaker 1 (40:56):
VISA debit or US debit.
Speaker 2 (40:59):
What's US United States?
Speaker 1 (41:01):
I'm assuming VISA means like international and US means like
in there, But why it's a debit card? Just freaking
slide it like a debit card.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
I would have thought Visa was like the visa brand
in American Express.
Speaker 1 (41:12):
Visa it is, but I don't know what it means. Like,
why are you asking me which option?
Speaker 2 (41:18):
I don't either. I haven't seen that in a while
because I usually do credit card, A credit credit. Yeah,
I just like chip it up.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
Okay, that's my that's my See. I don't know if
you don't have to Scuba just walked in and maybe
he knows scuba. Do you know why when you slide
a debit card, it asks you VISA debit or US debit?
Speaker 4 (41:39):
Someone told me this one time, and I forget what
the answers. My wife works in finance. One of them
requires your pin and one of them is basically another
way of saying credit card, so you don't need the pen.
But I forget which one's which I believe it's. I
think I think it's Visa as the one use your pin,
and US is the mom where it's like running out
like credit.
Speaker 1 (41:56):
Well, why would you want to run a debit card like.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
A credit I don't know.
Speaker 1 (41:58):
I thought.
Speaker 4 (41:59):
I was like, an, I think it's like an antiquated
thing that not everyone asks for anymore. I don't see
it as much as I used to.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
I don't either, but every time I do, it startles me,
and I'm like, well, I'm pretty sure every.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
Time I pick something different, you know, in the beginning,
I was like, I don't know if I'm the select
And then one would ask for a pinamon wouldn't, And
after a while kind of figured it out, and then
I asked my wife. She's like, yeah, it's like an old,
stupid thing that no one really does anything anymore.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
Yeah, okay, well Abby, give us somethings. I see. Nobody knows,
nobody knows what it is, so God, I'm not alone.
What is something you still don't understand and it't make
you think of anything.
Speaker 2 (42:28):
I don't understand why people still don't know how to drive,
like I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (42:33):
Very broad statement, but I likely is.
Speaker 2 (42:35):
Like I don't know if it's Nashville or I feel
like it's not like that. In Kansas people are pretty good,
but Nashville, it's just nothing adds up Yeah, like the merging.
I feel like we got to know the zipper. It's
like you just go in, you blend in, but no
one ever wants to.
Speaker 1 (42:53):
I'm still trying to figure it out. No, you're so right.
Any big city man driving as an adult is not fun.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Well, I don't think Tennessee. You have to take a
driver's test, so you just get your ID. That would
be interesting, Like Kansas. I remember I had to study. Yeah,
you renew it?
Speaker 1 (43:06):
What twenty five hours? I'd drive some stranger in the car.
Speaker 2 (43:10):
Well, I mean that's to get your license. But once
you have it, to renew it, I think you just
you just have to.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
Yeah, picture Nelly out here dressing everybody.
Speaker 2 (43:19):
I don't understand that.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
All right, we're gonna head over to listener Q and
A here and a little bit. I hope your Saturday's
going great. Abby, thanks for joining me. Tell people where
they can find you.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Thank you on Instagram, Abby Lee Anderson, and then on
X singing.
Speaker 1 (43:31):
Abby there she is. You can hang out with me
at web girl Morgan and that's all. We'll see you
guys in just a little bit. That's the best bits
of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure
to check out the other two parts this weekend. Go
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Speaker 2 (43:47):
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Speaker 1 (43:50):
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