April 30, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married nineteen years and we have two teenage daughters. My husband has seen it all and he has adjusted to bras and the laundry makeup all over the house, and he doesn't mind buying special items for the girls. The girls are totally in love with my younger sister, who's twenty four and care free. She's a nail tech and she's probably sleeping with an older man because she drives an expensive car that her quote man bought. She's a free spirit with a big personality and big wild hair. My husband jokingly calls her a weirdo, and she calls him a nerd............................................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
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We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Thank you, nephew. Subject my topless younger sister in the
hot tub. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have
been married nineteen years and we have two teenage daughters.
My husband has seen it all and he has adjusted
to bras and the laundry makeup all over the house,
and he doesn't mind buying special items for the girls.
(00:45):
The girls are totally in love with my younger sister,
who's twenty four and care free. She's a nail tech
and she's probably sleeping with an older man because she
drives an expensive card that her quote man bought. She's
a free spirit with a big personality and big wild hair.
My husband jokingly calls her a weirdo, and she calls
(01:09):
him a nerd. Saturday, she took the girls to a
concert and they got in late, so my sister slept
on our couch. She woke up and made coffee and
I cooked breakfast. My husband had said he was going
to sit in a hot tub for a few minutes
because his back was hurting. When the breakfast was ready,
I assumed my sister was getting dressed, so I yelled
(01:29):
for her and my daughter's to come eat. I was
headed out back to get my husband, and I saw
the back of my sister's head. She was in the
hot tub with my husband and they were having a
conversation about budgeting, but she was topless. She had her
triple ds sitting on top of the water, surrounded by bubbles.
(01:52):
She nor my husband thought that anything was wrong with it.
He tried to calm me down, but I chased her
wet behind all across the backyard until my teenager's caught
up with me and told me to stop. I can't
believe that she is that clueless. My husband said he
wasn't aroused in the least bit. What kind of fool
do they think I am? How could he not be
(02:13):
turned on. Is that even possible? Please advise, Okay, whether
she says she knew it or not, and of course
she did a babysis was out of line period, she
knew what she was doing. I mean, what heterosexual man
would not be turned on by a topless woman double
d's in the hot tub with him at that point,
(02:36):
he's no longer looking at her as your little sister.
He's looking at her and her boobs. If he wasn't excited,
like he said, why didn't he tell her to put
her top on? He should have gotten out of the
hot tub and gone in the house. I mean, she's grown,
she has a man, she knows what men like. She's
your sister, not his. It's disrespectful, it's shameful, especially with
(02:59):
you and the kids in the house. You're not wrong
in how you feel. You're not wrong in what you
did when you chased her around. You react to like
any wife would have. She shouldn't be glad that you
didn't do anything else like beat her behind.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Steve, come on, rather open and shutcase.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yeah, my topless younger sister in the hot tub, y'all
been You and your husband married nineteen years, two teenage daughters,
and you have a younger sister who's twenty four years
old and care free, and the girls, your two teenage girls,
are absolutely in love with her. Now this is where
(03:40):
you start to learning about it. You say that your
younger sister's a nail tech and she's probably sleeping with
an older man because she drives an expensive car that
her man bought. Okay, I guess he could be older,
but you know it don't necessarily have to be. But
(04:00):
let's let's say that's true. She's a free spirit, big personality,
big wild hair. Now she and nail picked, big wild hair,
free spirit. It's all that her hair, and you refer
to that as big wild hair. I think you want
to put a lot more on this girl so you
(04:22):
can get to the bottom of this letter. She big
wild hair. Keep in mind big wild hair.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
All right.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
My husbandly jokingly calls her a widow, and she calls
him a nerd.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That is called deflection. You little weirdo.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
With that big old hair and them big old hey widow,
Now you a nerd, Okay, but we don't. He's if
you got double d's you've noticed it before we got
in this hot tub. Yeah, I'm just telling you that
(05:02):
right now, because just being on the show with you
all for all these years, you know, that's all on
the show, and that's all. I'm just all around, and
you know that's what this says about it, you know.
So anyway, Saday, she took the girls to a concert.
(05:22):
They got in late, so your sister slept on the couch.
She woke up, made coffee, I cooked breakfast. My husband
said he was gonna go sit in the hotel for
a few minutes because his back was hurting.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Now, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
If she heard that then or if after she made
the coffee she was in the hot tub. I don't
know who got in there first, but somebody got in
there first, and somebody knew the other one was in there.
Either he looked out there and saw her out there
with the coffee, or she decided to go out there
(05:55):
after he made the announcement he was going to get
in it.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Because he hurt his back.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
So my husband said he was going to sit in
the hotel for a few minutes because his back was hurt.
When breakfast is ready, I assumed my sister was getting dressed. Well,
you got that right, You got the dress part right,
But you just misunderstood.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I yelled for her and my daughters to come eat.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I was headed out back to get my husband, and
I saw the back of my sister's head. She was
in the hottail, but my husband and they was having
a conversation about button and she was topless. Well you
just said you assume your sister was getting dressed or no,
but she was getting undressed.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
We'll have part two of Steve's responds coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject
my topless younger sister in the hot tub. We'll get
back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy
Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's
strawberry letter. The subject is my topless younger sister in
(07:01):
the hot tub.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Well, let's just get to this part of it right here.
Your husband knows you have this younger sister. She's twenty four.
Y'all got two teenage daughters that just love her. Or
one night.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Then your husband.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
First her as a weirdo, and she refers to your
husband as a nerd.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I think that's deflection.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Because she got triple d's and she got big hair,
and she got this car she driving that you think
an older man bought for.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
So obviously a homegirl know what she doing. Yeah, she
know how to use what God gave her for evil purposes.
So anyway, that's what it for.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
She took the girls to a concert one night, and
so she got in late. They slept on the couch.
She woke up to twenty four year old and made
some coffee. I cooked breakfast. My husband said he was
gonna go sit in the hotel a few minutes because
his back was hurting. When the breakfast was ready, I
assume my sister was getting dressed, so I yelled for
her and the doors to come eat. I was head
out back to getting my husband. I saw the back
(08:05):
of my sister's head. She was in the hot tub
with my husband and they was having a conversation about budgeting,
but she was topless. She had her triple DEDs sitting
on top of the water, surrounded by bubbles. She know
my husband thought anything was wrong with it. Well, I
know your husband got to act like ain't nothing wrong.
(08:26):
So this is what I think happened, sister. I think
your husband got in the tub first because his back
was hurt. She heard that and went, oh, they got
a hot tub. I'm gonna go out here and get
in it too. But she took her top off, So
I don't think your husband is to blame here. I
think he got in there first. He tried to calm
(08:48):
me down, but I chased her wet behind all across
the backyard until my teenagers caught up with me and
told me to stop.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I can't believe she is that clueless. He's not.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Ain't no woman took their top off in front of
no man and didn't think that was supposed to be
some type of reaction. Come on, that's impossible. So she's
not clueless. She know what she doing. She took that
same top off and got that car.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
A nice car too, an extensive car.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, it's them triple deeds that keep her working as
a nail tech because while she been over doing these nails.
You better believe them customers going, Lord, have mercy, look
at you. My my husband said he wasn't aroused in
the least bit. Oh God, what kind of food do
they think I am? How could he not be turned on?
(09:45):
Is that even possible? Please advise, yes, it is possible
to not be turned on.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
It is possible. Breast can't do it, just breast.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I've seen some women with some incredible sizes and not
being attracted at all, So yes, it can happen. Here.
The problem though, they was in the hot tub, and
it was bubbles. Now, once you put bubbles on who
you are, they look eighty five percent better bubbles. And
(10:23):
then it's that sound, to that gurgling sound. And I'm
just tell you right now, while you was chasing her
around that backyard, he had to stay in that hot tube.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I'm just gonna tell you that right now.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
No way in his letter did it say he got
out the hot tub to help chase her down. He
got in that hot tub and let that hot water
do what he needed to do so he could get
back to norm. Yeah, and then the fighting you chasing
her that that's a that's a buzz killer too, So
that helped. Then the little his daughter come out in
(10:57):
the backyard. All that help to help regulate himself. So
by the time he stood up out the hot tube,
his back wasn't hurting and he was just thanking the Lord.
Now was she clueless, No, she was not. She knew
exactly what she was doing. Did you have every right
to chase around the backyard?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Yeah, And I don't.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Know what kind of budget that they was talking about,
but i'll tell you what them numbers weren't making no
damn since I could tell you that right now, because
he kept saying two and both of them. You know,
he just kept saying that over and over.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
He kept saying two and both of them.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
That was the budgeting they were.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
You know, you could say two times your money, and
you can double down on your money in the stock market. Uh,
you know sometimes you could triple your money. Yeah, and
you could them DeSUS when you double down.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
All of his references was them breast bubbling in that water.
So yeah, you can be not be turned on, that's possible.
But was he I don't know if he was that.
She say, your husband is nerd, but he ain't that
big a nerd. He got two babies. Yeah, this ain't
(12:13):
nobody that bigger nerd. And she twenty four. She knew
what she was doing, so I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah she is, Why would she do that? Why?
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Because she's dumb?
Speaker 3 (12:26):
She used to get in her way, and she was
gonna sit out there and try and see what she
could get away. This was just I don't think they've
done anything up until now. But she baked him though,
trying to see what it's doing. She might need another car,
maybe she maybe she need a car fixed. You know,
if you got an expensive car, well, a lot of
people don't know. Nobody expensive cars is maintenance. You can
buy the range Rover, but you got to be ready
(12:48):
for the range Rover bill because it don't call. You
can't go to Jiffer Lude and get that one done.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Doll all change on the range Rover, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey
FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry
Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded
So Good. Download it today now. Coming up at forty
six minutes after the hour, Junior and Sports Talk. Right
after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVEFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now. You never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type.
We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Thank you, nephew. Subject my topless younger sister in the
hot tub. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have
been married nineteen years and we have two teenage daughters.
My husband has seen it all and he has adjusted
to bras and the laundry makeup all over the house,
and he doesn't mind buying special items for the girls.
(00:45):
The girls are totally in love with my younger sister,
who's twenty four and care free. She's a nail tech
and she's probably sleeping with an older man because she
drives an expensive card that her quote man bought. She's
a free spirit with a big personality and big wild hair.
My husband jokingly calls her a weirdo, and she calls
(01:09):
him a nerd. Saturday, she took the girls to a
concert and they got in late, so my sister slept
on our couch. She woke up and made coffee and
I cooked breakfast. My husband had said he was going
to sit in a hot tub for a few minutes
because his back was hurting. When the breakfast was ready,
I assumed my sister was getting dressed, so I yelled
(01:29):
for her and my daughter's to come eat. I was
headed out back to get my husband, and I saw
the back of my sister's head. She was in the
hot tub with my husband and they were having a
conversation about budgeting, but she was topless. She had her
triple ds sitting on top of the water, surrounded by bubbles.
(01:52):
She nor my husband thought that anything was wrong with it.
He tried to calm me down, but I chased her
wet behind all across the backyard until my teenager's caught
up with me and told me to stop. I can't
believe that she is that clueless. My husband said he
wasn't aroused in the least bit. What kind of fool
do they think I am? How could he not be
(02:13):
turned on. Is that even possible? Please advise, Okay, whether
she says she knew it or not, and of course
she did a babysis was out of line period, she
knew what she was doing. I mean, what heterosexual man
would not be turned on by a topless woman double
d's in the hot tub with him at that point,
(02:36):
he's no longer looking at her as your little sister.
He's looking at her and her boobs. If he wasn't excited,
like he said, why didn't he tell her to put
her top on? He should have gotten out of the
hot tub and gone in the house. I mean, she's grown,
she has a man, she knows what men like. She's
your sister, not his. It's disrespectful, it's shameful, especially with
(02:59):
you and the kids in the house. You're not wrong
in how you feel. You're not wrong in what you
did when you chased her around. You react to like
any wife would have. She shouldn't be glad that you
didn't do anything else like beat her behind.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Steve, come on, rather open and shutcase.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Yeah, my topless younger sister in the hot tub, y'all
been You and your husband married nineteen years, two teenage daughters,
and you have a younger sister who's twenty four years
old and care free, and the girls, your two teenage girls,
are absolutely in love with her. Now this is where
(03:40):
you start to learning about it. You say that your
younger sister's a nail tech and she's probably sleeping with
an older man because she drives an expensive car that
her man bought. Okay, I guess he could be older,
but you know it don't necessarily have to be. But
(04:00):
let's let's say that's true. She's a free spirit, big personality,
big wild hair. Now she and nail picked, big wild hair,
free spirit. It's all that her hair, and you refer
to that as big wild hair. I think you want
to put a lot more on this girl so you
(04:22):
can get to the bottom of this letter. She big
wild hair. Keep in mind big wild hair.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
All right.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
My husbandly jokingly calls her a widow, and she calls
him a nerd.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That is called deflection. You little weirdo.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
With that big old hair and them big old hey widow,
Now you a nerd, Okay, but we don't. He's if
you got double d's you've noticed it before we got
in this hot tub. Yeah, I'm just telling you that
(05:02):
right now, because just being on the show with you
all for all these years, you know, that's all on
the show, and that's all. I'm just all around, and
you know that's what this says about it, you know.
So anyway, Saday, she took the girls to a concert.
(05:22):
They got in late, so your sister slept on the couch.
She woke up, made coffee, I cooked breakfast. My husband
said he was gonna go sit in the hotel for
a few minutes because his back was hurting.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Now, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
If she heard that then or if after she made
the coffee she was in the hot tub. I don't
know who got in there first, but somebody got in
there first, and somebody knew the other one was in there.
Either he looked out there and saw her out there
with the coffee, or she decided to go out there
(05:55):
after he made the announcement he was going to get
in it.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Because he hurt his back.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
So my husband said he was going to sit in
the hotel for a few minutes because his back was hurt.
When breakfast is ready, I assumed my sister was getting dressed. Well,
you got that right, You got the dress part right,
But you just misunderstood.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I yelled for her and my daughters to come eat.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I was headed out back to get my husband, and
I saw the back of my sister's head. She was
in the hottail, but my husband and they was having
a conversation about button and she was topless. Well you
just said you assume your sister was getting dressed or no,
but she was getting undressed.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
We'll have part two of Steve's responds coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject
my topless younger sister in the hot tub. We'll get
back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy
Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's
strawberry letter. The subject is my topless younger sister in
(07:01):
the hot tub.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Well, let's just get to this part of it right here.
Your husband knows you have this younger sister. She's twenty four.
Y'all got two teenage daughters that just love her. Or
one night.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Then your husband.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
First her as a weirdo, and she refers to your
husband as a nerd.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I think that's deflection.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Because she got triple d's and she got big hair,
and she got this car she driving that you think
an older man bought for.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
So obviously a homegirl know what she doing. Yeah, she
know how to use what God gave her for evil purposes.
So anyway, that's what it for.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
She took the girls to a concert one night, and
so she got in late. They slept on the couch.
She woke up to twenty four year old and made
some coffee. I cooked breakfast. My husband said he was
gonna go sit in the hotel a few minutes because
his back was hurting. When the breakfast was ready, I
assume my sister was getting dressed, so I yelled for
her and the doors to come eat. I was head
out back to getting my husband. I saw the back
(08:05):
of my sister's head. She was in the hot tub
with my husband and they was having a conversation about budgeting,
but she was topless. She had her triple DEDs sitting
on top of the water, surrounded by bubbles. She know
my husband thought anything was wrong with it. Well, I
know your husband got to act like ain't nothing wrong.
(08:26):
So this is what I think happened, sister. I think
your husband got in the tub first because his back
was hurt. She heard that and went, oh, they got
a hot tub. I'm gonna go out here and get
in it too. But she took her top off, So
I don't think your husband is to blame here. I
think he got in there first. He tried to calm
(08:48):
me down, but I chased her wet behind all across
the backyard until my teenagers caught up with me and
told me to stop.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
I can't believe she is that clueless. He's not.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Ain't no woman took their top off in front of
no man and didn't think that was supposed to be
some type of reaction. Come on, that's impossible. So she's
not clueless. She know what she doing. She took that
same top off and got that car.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
A nice car too, an extensive car.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Yeah, it's them triple deeds that keep her working as
a nail tech because while she been over doing these nails.
You better believe them customers going, Lord, have mercy, look
at you. My my husband said he wasn't aroused in
the least bit. Oh God, what kind of food do
they think I am? How could he not be turned on?
(09:45):
Is that even possible? Please advise, yes, it is possible
to not be turned on.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
It is possible. Breast can't do it, just breast.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
I've seen some women with some incredible sizes and not
being attracted at all, So yes, it can happen. Here.
The problem though, they was in the hot tub, and
it was bubbles. Now, once you put bubbles on who
you are, they look eighty five percent better bubbles. And
(10:23):
then it's that sound, to that gurgling sound. And I'm
just tell you right now, while you was chasing her
around that backyard, he had to stay in that hot tube.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I'm just gonna tell you that right now.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
No way in his letter did it say he got
out the hot tub to help chase her down. He
got in that hot tub and let that hot water
do what he needed to do so he could get
back to norm. Yeah, and then the fighting you chasing
her that that's a that's a buzz killer too, So
that helped. Then the little his daughter come out in
(10:57):
the backyard. All that help to help regulate himself. So
by the time he stood up out the hot tube,
his back wasn't hurting and he was just thanking the Lord.
Now was she clueless, No, she was not. She knew
exactly what she was doing. Did you have every right
to chase around the backyard?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Yeah, And I don't.
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Know what kind of budget that they was talking about,
but i'll tell you what them numbers weren't making no
damn since I could tell you that right now, because
he kept saying two and both of them. You know,
he just kept saying that over and over.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
He kept saying two and both of them.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
That was the budgeting they were.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
You know, you could say two times your money, and
you can double down on your money in the stock market. Uh,
you know sometimes you could triple your money. Yeah, and
you could them DeSUS when you double down.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
You know.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
All of his references was them breast bubbling in that water.
So yeah, you can be not be turned on, that's possible.
But was he I don't know if he was that.
She say, your husband is nerd, but he ain't that
big a nerd. He got two babies. Yeah, this ain't
(12:13):
nobody that bigger nerd. And she twenty four. She knew
what she was doing, so I don't know.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah she is, Why would she do that? Why?
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Because she's dumb?
Speaker 3 (12:26):
She used to get in her way, and she was
gonna sit out there and try and see what she
could get away. This was just I don't think they've
done anything up until now. But she baked him though,
trying to see what it's doing. She might need another car,
maybe she maybe she need a car fixed. You know,
if you got an expensive car, well, a lot of
people don't know. Nobody expensive cars is maintenance. You can
buy the range Rover, but you got to be ready
(12:48):
for the range Rover bill because it don't call. You
can't go to Jiffer Lude and get that one done.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Doll all change on the range Rover, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey
FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry
Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded
So Good. Download it today now. Coming up at forty
six minutes after the hour, Junior and Sports Talk. Right
after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
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