April 22, 2024 • 13 mins
Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm divorced and my ex husband and I are great at co-parenting. My son is fourteen and my daughter is ten, so she prefers to stay with me and my son prefers to stay with his dad. After we have been divorced seven months, I got a mommy makeover and my ex came and stayed a few nights to help me with the kids. He also drove me to my doctor's appointments and we worked on becoming friends again. Ten months after our divorce, we started having sex again. Then I found out he had a girlfriend and I asked him about it, and he admitted that he was in love with a new chick. I met the woman and she told me they were getting married......................................
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
by clicking Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letta.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, thank you, nephew. Subject. She was going to push
me to do it. She's going to push me to
do it. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm divorced and my ex
husband and I are great at co parenting. My son
is fourteen and my daughter is ten, so she prefers
to stay with me and my son prefers to stay
with his dad. After we have been divorced seven months,
(00:48):
I got a mommy makeover and my ex came and
stayed a few nights to help me with the kids.
He also drove me to my doctor's appointments and we
worked on becoming friends again. Ten years after our divorce,
we started having sex again ten ten months after our divorce,
we started having sex again. Then I found out he
had a girlfriend and I asked him about it, and
(01:11):
he admitted that he was in love with a new chick.
That he was in love with a new chick. I
met the woman and she told me they were getting married.
She was gloating, but I congratulated them, and I decided
to cut off the sex with my ex. He begged
and pleaded to make love to me again, so I
gave in to him about three months ago. The love
(01:31):
making is better than when we were married, and I
found myself falling in love with him again. But all
of a sudden, his wife started irritating me like she's
never irritated me before. Her intuition must have kicked in,
and she started checking my ex's phone and checking my
Instagram page all the time. She started posting selfies with
(01:54):
my ex with the hashtags muffin and lovebug. What really
made me mad was her telling my kids that when
she met their dad and he was sad and miserable,
that he was sad and miserable from being married to me.
She's going to push me to tell her what her
husband and I are doing. While she thinks he's at work.
I've cut off the sex with him once again because
(02:16):
I can't deal with the drama. He told me he
will make his wife apologize to our children if she
doesn't apologize. Should I tell her everything? Would my ex
consider coming back to me or would he be upset?
All right, he would be upset, no question. But my
question is to you. You want him back after he
(02:38):
told you he's in love with the new girl. No,
he's not for you anymore. He's with her, and she
told you that they're getting married. He's not. Only he's
only having sex with you. He hasn't asked you to
get back together with him, has he. No, he was
just begging you to have sex with him. You never
(02:59):
told us why you guys got divorced in the first place,
But he seems to be fine with it and what
he's got going on now with his new boo. She
made you mad by telling the kids you were making
their dad sad and miserable. So your ex said he
would make his wife apologize to the children. So are
they married now or what? But either way, if they're
(03:20):
married or just together for now, let him go. Please
let him go. He has obviously moved on. Like I said,
he's with her, but he does miss having sex with you.
But face it, that's all it is. Okay, that is
all it is. I'm glad you stopped having sex with him.
Now maybe you can move on with your new mommy
makeover and start your own life, your own new life. Okay, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Why do women have to have a man tell you
they don't want you twice?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
I don't know, Steve, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You all got a divorce. That's as big a I.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Don't want you as you can get. Here's some paper,
Sign these please. However, you all got divorced. You all
both divorced. You had two kids. I know why you
got divorced. It's obvious to me, Shirley said. You never
mentioned why you got divorced, and you didn't. You didn't
mention it. But it's obvious to me why you got
(04:24):
the divorce. I will share that with you. In just
a moment you got the divorce, you decided to get
yourself a mommy makeover. He came over and stayed a
few nights to help you with the kids. Obviously you
had a total package. You did something to your breast,
your chin, your stomach, your butt, your thighs, your dout,
(04:48):
your neck, your face, your jawls, your breast, the back
of your arms, under your arms, your back, fat them,
chicken wings, jowls.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Uh, Tommy tunk, liposuction.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And booty all right, sons her feet sounds like, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Pretty so you was pretty sure. You was so so,
you were so so. He had to come over because
you couldn't move. They were giving you sticking super stuff.
Your kids ain't know who you was.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
None of that's in the letter.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
All that's in.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
There to me, That's why I had to come over there,
because the kids was scared that lady came in.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
She wrapped up like a mummy. We can't even see us.
She rout us that we gotta go get us, that
she can't use the bathroom. We washing her. We all
like them over there and help you and so uh.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ten months after our divorce and and the and the
mummy makeover, we started having sexy again.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Then I found out he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I asked him about it, and he admitted that he
was in love with a new chick. I met the
woman and she told me they were getting married. She
was gloating. I congratulated him and decided to cut the
sects off with the eggs big and pleaded with me
to make love again. You gave in about three months
ago to love, making this better than when we were married.
I found myself falling in love with him again. But
(06:25):
all of a sudden, his wife started irri taking me
like she never Her intuition kicked in. She started checking
my ex's phone and checking my Instagram pages.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
She started posting selfies on my eggs. Hang on, Steve,
you got that. Now when we come back, I'll tell
you why they got the divorce.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
All right, Coming up, we'll have part two of Steve's
respond to today's Strawberry letters. She's going to push me
to do it. That's coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour. Right after this. You're listening hard Morning Show.
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject she's going to push me to do it?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Well, she gonna push her to do it because she
had a divorced from her husband. Then she decided to
get a mommy makeover, and then the man came over
there to help out. Because she had a total makeover.
We went over that with everything that was wrong with her.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
She got her eyes lifted, her face lifts, she got
her jaws done, she got that hamburger pack, them hot
dogs took off the back of her neck. She had
her throat done, She had her breast done, She had
her neck done, She had them flaps up under her
arms done, the chicken wings or them kites. The back
of her arm had done. Then she got her breast done.
(07:37):
Then she had liposuction. Then she had tummy tuck that. Uh.
Then she took the biscuit back off her back where
all the also was a biscuit back. You know how
you wear a halt and it looked like somebody opened
up a can of biscuits.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yeah, you know when you put the spoon on that
scene and it opened like that. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Then she had Then she had a bbl and then
she had that. She had her thighs done, she had
thigh reduction and all like this, right, and she had
her knee lift so you could see her kneecaps.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Right there.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, she did the whole thing because
you know, sometimes your knees start disappearing, and so she
had a move back so she could look like she
had knees because some people get older, it just looked
like a leg.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
She had all that done throughout the letter, and then all.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Uh ten months after the divorce and she got healed
and everything, she got fined. So they started having sex again,
and then at uh then.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
You found out he had a new chicken.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
He told you I'm in love with this new woman
right here, But you kept having sex with him, and
then you met the woman and she was gloating talking
about they was gonna get married, and then he started
she started showing up following you on Instagram because her
intuition kicked in and.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Started following y'all.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Then she started posting selfies online with the hashtag muffin
and love bug. And then what really made the letter
write or mad was her telling my kids that when
she met they dad, he was sad and miserable from being.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Married to me.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Oh see this half a wrong right here with she
is going to push me to tell her what her
husband and now are doing while she thinks he's at work.
Uh oh, now I've cut off the sex with him
once again because I can't deal with the drama. He
told me he will make his wife apologize to our children.
(09:35):
What she won't If she doesn't apologize, should I tell
her everything? Would my ex consider coming back to me?
Or would he be upset? Now let's talk about something
she did not say in this letter, why they got
a divorce.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
No, but I know exactly why they got a divorced.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Okay, why why?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Because she had needed this mommy makeover God, and he left.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
I went down the long list of everything that was wrong,
and he just decided he wasn't fetni live with her.
Ass you need too much damn work for me to
stay here. That is what caused the divorce. Because after
divorce and she got the mommy makeover and she got healed,
he right back on her.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So I ain't no need to get mad in me.
Now we know what the divorce was for.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
And even the lady, yes she did, Shirley. She said
it in the letter and I can prove it. She
said we went back to having sex, and she said
that the sex is better than ever.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah. Yeah, Well she mowed all that stuff out the way.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
See the whole lot of stuff in the way when
you're trying to have good sex and you got all
this stuff in a way. Giles in the way. Your
thoat in the way back, y'all in the way, you're
under arms all in the way, tom it hook. You
need a bbl you need it. You ain't got no
you You got that biscuit back. You can't get too much.
(11:19):
You know, you took your clothes off and just spread
all out into bed. Yeah, so that's what happened to
the man. Now let's get down to the bottom question. Okay, Now,
since she gloating and throwing this in your face, she
gonna make she gonna push you to do it, to
(11:41):
tell her what her husband is done.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Well, I don't know if that's gonna do you any good,
because I want you to know something.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
He's not coming back.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
He's done because now you second, and you don't mind
being second, because he's got a girlfriend and told you that,
and you start having sex with him anyway. Now you're
falling in love with him, but he ain't no more
in love with you, in love with the new you.
(12:14):
But that's just cause of Now what you need to
do is compare yourself to this new woman he got.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
M Now you know we don't compare, we're not supposed
to compare.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Do she look like she need a mommy makeover. Probably
obviously not, probably not.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Probably nothing. D Is he coming back to me? No,
he ain't coming down, no, ma'am. Or would he be upset? Yeah,
he's gonna be upset, mad as hell is the urdon? Yes, yeah, yeah,
(12:53):
he gonna be mad. The he gonna hold look it
and then he gonna go get another chicken. But if
you break up, all right, we'll be sleeping with him
again more often, but until he finds some.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Please stop, all right. Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry
Letter at Instagram and at Steve Harvey FM. Check us
out on the Strawberry Letter podcast as well on the
free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. Coming
up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this,
you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
by clicking Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're going to
read this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letta.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Okay, thank you, nephew. Subject. She was going to push
me to do it. She's going to push me to
do it. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm divorced and my ex
husband and I are great at co parenting. My son
is fourteen and my daughter is ten, so she prefers
to stay with me and my son prefers to stay
with his dad. After we have been divorced seven months,
(00:48):
I got a mommy makeover and my ex came and
stayed a few nights to help me with the kids.
He also drove me to my doctor's appointments and we
worked on becoming friends again. Ten years after our divorce,
we started having sex again ten ten months after our divorce,
we started having sex again. Then I found out he
had a girlfriend and I asked him about it, and
(01:11):
he admitted that he was in love with a new chick.
That he was in love with a new chick. I
met the woman and she told me they were getting married.
She was gloating, but I congratulated them, and I decided
to cut off the sex with my ex. He begged
and pleaded to make love to me again, so I
gave in to him about three months ago. The love
(01:31):
making is better than when we were married, and I
found myself falling in love with him again. But all
of a sudden, his wife started irritating me like she's
never irritated me before. Her intuition must have kicked in,
and she started checking my ex's phone and checking my
Instagram page all the time. She started posting selfies with
(01:54):
my ex with the hashtags muffin and lovebug. What really
made me mad was her telling my kids that when
she met their dad and he was sad and miserable,
that he was sad and miserable from being married to me.
She's going to push me to tell her what her
husband and I are doing. While she thinks he's at work.
I've cut off the sex with him once again because
(02:16):
I can't deal with the drama. He told me he
will make his wife apologize to our children if she
doesn't apologize. Should I tell her everything? Would my ex
consider coming back to me or would he be upset?
All right, he would be upset, no question. But my
question is to you. You want him back after he
(02:38):
told you he's in love with the new girl. No,
he's not for you anymore. He's with her, and she
told you that they're getting married. He's not. Only he's
only having sex with you. He hasn't asked you to
get back together with him, has he. No, he was
just begging you to have sex with him. You never
(02:59):
told us why you guys got divorced in the first place,
But he seems to be fine with it and what
he's got going on now with his new boo. She
made you mad by telling the kids you were making
their dad sad and miserable. So your ex said he
would make his wife apologize to the children. So are
they married now or what? But either way, if they're
(03:20):
married or just together for now, let him go. Please
let him go. He has obviously moved on. Like I said,
he's with her, but he does miss having sex with you.
But face it, that's all it is. Okay, that is
all it is. I'm glad you stopped having sex with him.
Now maybe you can move on with your new mommy
makeover and start your own life, your own new life. Okay, Steve.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Why do women have to have a man tell you
they don't want you twice?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
I don't know, Steve, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
You all got a divorce. That's as big a I.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Don't want you as you can get. Here's some paper,
Sign these please. However, you all got divorced. You all
both divorced. You had two kids. I know why you
got divorced. It's obvious to me, Shirley said. You never
mentioned why you got divorced, and you didn't. You didn't
mention it. But it's obvious to me why you got
(04:24):
the divorce. I will share that with you. In just
a moment you got the divorce, you decided to get
yourself a mommy makeover. He came over and stayed a
few nights to help you with the kids. Obviously you
had a total package. You did something to your breast,
your chin, your stomach, your butt, your thighs, your dout,
(04:48):
your neck, your face, your jawls, your breast, the back
of your arms, under your arms, your back, fat them,
chicken wings, jowls.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Uh, Tommy tunk, liposuction.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And booty all right, sons her feet sounds like, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Pretty so you was pretty sure. You was so so,
you were so so. He had to come over because
you couldn't move. They were giving you sticking super stuff.
Your kids ain't know who you was.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
None of that's in the letter.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
All that's in.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
There to me, That's why I had to come over there,
because the kids was scared that lady came in.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
She wrapped up like a mummy. We can't even see us.
She rout us that we gotta go get us, that
she can't use the bathroom. We washing her. We all
like them over there and help you and so uh.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ten months after our divorce and and the and the
mummy makeover, we started having sexy again.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Then I found out he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I asked him about it, and he admitted that he
was in love with a new chick. I met the
woman and she told me they were getting married. She
was gloating. I congratulated him and decided to cut the
sects off with the eggs big and pleaded with me
to make love again. You gave in about three months
ago to love, making this better than when we were married.
I found myself falling in love with him again. But
(06:25):
all of a sudden, his wife started irri taking me
like she never Her intuition kicked in. She started checking
my ex's phone and checking my Instagram pages.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
She started posting selfies on my eggs. Hang on, Steve,
you got that. Now when we come back, I'll tell
you why they got the divorce.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
All right, Coming up, we'll have part two of Steve's
respond to today's Strawberry letters. She's going to push me
to do it. That's coming up at twenty three minutes
after the hour. Right after this. You're listening hard Morning Show.
All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject she's going to push me to do it?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Well, she gonna push her to do it because she
had a divorced from her husband. Then she decided to
get a mommy makeover, and then the man came over
there to help out. Because she had a total makeover.
We went over that with everything that was wrong with her.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
She got her eyes lifted, her face lifts, she got
her jaws done, she got that hamburger pack, them hot
dogs took off the back of her neck. She had
her throat done, She had her breast done, She had
her neck done, She had them flaps up under her
arms done, the chicken wings or them kites. The back
of her arm had done. Then she got her breast done.
(07:37):
Then she had liposuction. Then she had tummy tuck that. Uh.
Then she took the biscuit back off her back where
all the also was a biscuit back. You know how
you wear a halt and it looked like somebody opened
up a can of biscuits.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Yeah, you know when you put the spoon on that
scene and it opened like that. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Then she had Then she had a bbl and then
she had that. She had her thighs done, she had
thigh reduction and all like this, right, and she had
her knee lift so you could see her kneecaps.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Right there.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, she did the whole thing because
you know, sometimes your knees start disappearing, and so she
had a move back so she could look like she
had knees because some people get older, it just looked
like a leg.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
She had all that done throughout the letter, and then all.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Uh ten months after the divorce and she got healed
and everything, she got fined. So they started having sex again,
and then at uh then.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
You found out he had a new chicken.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
He told you I'm in love with this new woman
right here, But you kept having sex with him, and
then you met the woman and she was gloating talking
about they was gonna get married, and then he started
she started showing up following you on Instagram because her
intuition kicked in and.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Started following y'all.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Then she started posting selfies online with the hashtag muffin
and love bug. And then what really made the letter
write or mad was her telling my kids that when
she met they dad, he was sad and miserable from being.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Married to me.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Oh see this half a wrong right here with she
is going to push me to tell her what her
husband and now are doing while she thinks he's at work.
Uh oh, now I've cut off the sex with him
once again because I can't deal with the drama. He
told me he will make his wife apologize to our children.
(09:35):
What she won't If she doesn't apologize, should I tell
her everything? Would my ex consider coming back to me?
Or would he be upset? Now let's talk about something
she did not say in this letter, why they got
a divorce.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
No, but I know exactly why they got a divorced.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Okay, why why?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Because she had needed this mommy makeover God, and he left.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
I went down the long list of everything that was wrong,
and he just decided he wasn't fetni live with her.
Ass you need too much damn work for me to
stay here. That is what caused the divorce. Because after
divorce and she got the mommy makeover and she got healed,
he right back on her.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
So I ain't no need to get mad in me.
Now we know what the divorce was for.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
And even the lady, yes she did, Shirley. She said
it in the letter and I can prove it. She
said we went back to having sex, and she said
that the sex is better than ever.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah. Yeah, Well she mowed all that stuff out the way.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
See the whole lot of stuff in the way when
you're trying to have good sex and you got all
this stuff in a way. Giles in the way. Your
thoat in the way back, y'all in the way, you're
under arms all in the way, tom it hook. You
need a bbl you need it. You ain't got no
you You got that biscuit back. You can't get too much.
(11:19):
You know, you took your clothes off and just spread
all out into bed. Yeah, so that's what happened to
the man. Now let's get down to the bottom question. Okay, Now,
since she gloating and throwing this in your face, she
gonna make she gonna push you to do it, to
(11:41):
tell her what her husband is done.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Well, I don't know if that's gonna do you any good,
because I want you to know something.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
He's not coming back.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
He's done because now you second, and you don't mind
being second, because he's got a girlfriend and told you that,
and you start having sex with him anyway. Now you're
falling in love with him, but he ain't no more
in love with you, in love with the new you.
(12:14):
But that's just cause of Now what you need to
do is compare yourself to this new woman he got.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
M Now you know we don't compare, we're not supposed
to compare.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Do she look like she need a mommy makeover. Probably
obviously not, probably not.
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Probably nothing. D Is he coming back to me? No,
he ain't coming down, no, ma'am. Or would he be upset? Yeah,
he's gonna be upset, mad as hell is the urdon? Yes, yeah, yeah,
(12:53):
he gonna be mad. The he gonna hold look it
and then he gonna go get another chicken. But if
you break up, all right, we'll be sleeping with him
again more often, but until he finds some.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Please stop, all right. Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry
Letter at Instagram and at Steve Harvey FM. Check us
out on the Strawberry Letter podcast as well on the
free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. Coming
up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this,
you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
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