In this episode, Sophia is joined by Erin Tillman also known as The Dating Advice Girl. She is a Certified Intimacy Coordinator for TV/Film, Certified Sexuality Educator, JHRTS Board Member and Member of the LA Local SAG/AFTRA Sexual Harassment Committee. As well as being an author, speaker, TV, Radio, and podcast host.
Erin and Sophia discuss navigating the modern dating scene. Including, identifying and being clear about your boundaries, learning from mismatched dates and dealing with rejection. As well as covering the importance of putting what you want out there into the universe and using the right dating apps for you.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Find the right dating app for you – Erin shares some recommendations.
- Be verbal about what you are looking for relationships-wise. Put it out there into the universe ASAP.
- Be clear about the type of person you want but leave a little wiggle room.
- Time is precious. Don´t waste it by not sharing who you are and getting a clear understanding of who they are.
- If you like someone you meet on an app, date them in person as soon as possible.
- Energy and chemistry are important in relationships. Meeting someone in person will tell you sooner if you click on that level.
- When a date does not go well, work out why, so you can learn from that situation.
- Stop comparing yourself to others and feeling bad about where you are relationship-wise.
BEST MOMENTS
‘If you meet someone on an app, don´t wait too long to meet them in person.’
‘Try not to feel too discouraged, dating is very hard.’
‘Guys don´t have to chase as much as they used to…but they are having a hard time too.’
ABOUT THE GUEST
https://thedatingadvicegirl.com/
http://www.instagram.com/datingadvicegrl
http://www.twitter.com/DatingAdviceGrl
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Website: www.thereikihealingcoach.com
Instagram - @createlifeyourway and @sophia_i_got_ig
LinkedIn -https://www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-elcock-b1941b5
Facebook -https://www.facebook.com/sophia.el.754/
ABOUT YOUR HOST
Sophia is passionate about traveling the world and personal development. She gets off on the power that travel has to change your perspective and also realizing that everywhere you go there you are. So, continuously working on herself is important so she can give the best of her to those she serves.
With over 15 years in the helping/ healing space, Sophia holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology, is a certified life coach, and has built her healing toolbox with lots of tools. She uses these tools to help women move from thinking there has to be more to life than this to knowing fulfillment, more satisfying relationships, loving who they see when they look in the mirror, and stepping into their power.
CONTACT THE HOST
Website: www.thereikihealingcoach.com
Podcast Description
The travel and transformation podcast is for women who enjoy traveling and personal transformation. You can be anywhere on your journey, just starting to travel or working on yourself, or seasoned at either or both. All are welcome. You’ll be getting the tools you need to start living the life you want to live by creating life your way. Forget living life for other people, whether it’s the job they want you to have, getting married, having kids, or any other people’s wants. It’s about finding a way to do you especially if you are single and over 40. You’ll hear from Sophia individually and the coaches, healers, and others that she interviews.
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