April 10, 2024 • 13 mins
Welcome to another episode of Wise Women Wednesday with Bamo and Mambo where we embrace vulnerability and discuss the highs and lows of content creation.
Starting off with a dose of positivity, we share 101 Blessings to brighten your day and uplift your soul, promises from God for women, and discuss the importance of being true to oneself and supporting our loved ones in their quest for authenticity and self-improvement. This conversation is all about inspiring you to always put your best foot forward!
Interestingly, we delve into some personal struggles faced during content creation including the story of a YouTube ban which was a valuable lesson on accountability. We emphasize the importance of learning from our mistakes and use this incident as an opportunity to impart vital knowledge for aspiring content creators. It's all about growing from each experience.
Also, don't miss the endearing discussion of how we maintain a close relationship with family and loved ones through simple things like shared love for keychains and stickers. Discover how these little things can ignite a sense of joy and childhood nostalgia, reminding us that it's okay to embrace our inner child.
Stay tuned for exciting content every Wednesday and Friday, and live episodes in Spanish every Monday for our Spanish-speaking listeners. Available now on multiple platforms including Spotify, iHeartRadio, Player FM, Listen Notes, Samsung Podcasts, Podchaser, Boomplay, Deezer, and Podcast Attic. Explore, grow and journey with us as we navigate life, embracing vulnerability.
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(00:00):
Bamo and Mambo, welcome to another Wise Women Wednesday of Embracing Vulnerability.
I hope everyone is doing well.
I hope that you are receiving this week well and whatever you may go through,
you have the strength to live through it.
Let's start it off by reading 101 Blessings to brighten your day and uplift your soul.
(00:25):
Promises from God for women. There is not one blade of grass.
There is no color in this world that is not intended to make us rejoice.
This was written by John Calvin. Psalms 100 verse 5.
The Lord is good and his love endures forever. His faithfulness continues through all generations.
(00:49):
I found this box of cards in Barnes & Noble.
I'm pretty sure you can order it on their website online. line.
You don't have to actually go to a Barnes and Noble in person if that's not your vibe.
So I want to talk about mistakes I've done as a content creator.
I want to say that I want to, I don't know why I'm stuttering.
(01:14):
I yearn to be so completely myself that people around me have to look within themselves and be like,
what is it that they need to work in themselves to be their authentic self?
Because I really want my friends to reflect what I am on the inside.
(01:35):
And I know a lot of my friends, my loved one, I'm working on not saying friends
because it's loved one, it's family members and friends, not just friends.
My loved ones all suffer from different things
so i'm hoping that my
loved ones are giving it their one percent every day to improve their life and
(01:55):
because you're listening to this you're also my loved one you're also my friend
if you need to reach out to anyone
because you have no one my instagram is linked in podbean it's linked,
My Instagram is linked and my Twitter also. You can message me on Instagram
or you can message me on Twitter. I promise you I don't bite.
(02:20):
So I want to share the mistakes that I've done so far as a content creator.
I was banned from YouTube on April 1st. I appealed and I'm still waiting for them to respond to me.
It's April 8th and I haven't gotten any emails from YouTube.
So y'all wish me well, wish me luck. work, wish that the universe aligned to
(02:40):
work in my favor so that I can get unbanned.
But I also want to share that if I don't get unbanned from YouTube, that's okay.
I'm willing to accept the consequences for my actions.
Now, I didn't know what I was doing was wrong, but now that I know that what
I was doing is wrong, I won't do it again.
You see, that's how accountability works.
I'm working on my accountability.
(03:02):
I'm working on many things, right? So what happened was I was I was trying to
promote the podcast by leaving the link to my podcast on random YouTube videos.
Just random YouTube videos on the comment section. I was just dropping my link.
I didn't know that I couldn't promote my podcast that way because YouTube flagged it as spamming.
(03:25):
Mind you, there's naked people on YouTube.
There's naked people on every social media platform out there.
You search for it, you will find it. Skin on skin on skin.
For me, leaving the link to my podcast was flagged as spamming,
and that's how I got banned from YouTube.
So the violation was spamming. Isn't that funny?
(03:48):
That's hilarious. I told my friend Gabby what happened, and he told me that's
literally the definition of spamming.
And I responded to Gabby, Gabs, English is my second language.
I didn't know the meaning of spamming. I didn't know the meaning of the word spam.
Yes, I've had an email for years and years and years.
But I didn't think leaving comments on random YouTube video comment section
(04:13):
was considered spamming. Now I know.
Now I will learn from my mistake. It was a mistake.
So I didn't lie to YouTube. When I appealed, I wrote in my paragraph that I
didn't know that it was considered spamming and now that I know that I won't
do it again. I was honest. I didn't lie.
I didn't create some some elaborate story. I told them the honest truth. Now, I will accept it.
(04:37):
I will accept the consequences to my actions.
If YouTube decides to not unban me, I'm fine with that. I'm chilling. I'm good.
It's just an idea that I had because I met this person on Twitter.
When I say me, I mean like we've just been chatting on Twitter.
(04:57):
And also, thank you for your patience.
My children are home. There's no school and I have to record.
So you're going to hear children and noise in the background today.
So I met this person virtually and we exchanged basic information.
And he another thing
(05:20):
is i had to ask my loved ones for their
their consent if i could share their
names on my podcast some of them
told me to use an alias and some of them told me
i'm not afraid you could use my name alex i
can say alex without being afraid of
(05:40):
violating his privacy to see alex alex alex alex
anyways um so this person
consented that i can use his real name as well the person i've been talking
to virtually james we've exchanged basic information and he told me do you have
any questions so i asked him how does he link because i started following his his podcast.
(06:04):
So when I started following James on podcast on Twitter, I noticed that he has
a YouTube channel as well.
Well, his podcast has a channel on YouTube and it's basically the audio and
it's just the icon of the channel is what shows on the video.
(06:27):
It's not actual people that they're showing in the images.
So I was curious and I was like, oh, hey, how do you transfer the audio from Podbean to YouTube.
And he showed me step-by-step. He took screenshots.
Shout out to James. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, James.
That exact same day, April 1st, that he showed me how to link it.
(06:47):
I linked it successfully. That's why I dropped a random audio on Monday.
I'm not releasing audios on Monday in English.
That's why last week, April 1st, I released a random episode.
That was me testing out how to link it to YouTube. It was just a test run.
I'm not dropping episodes on Wednesday.
Not Wednesday. I'm not dropping episodes on Monday. I'm going to continue to
(07:10):
drop episodes Wednesdays and Fridays.
It god willing so okay
anyway he showed me step by steps thank you so much james
one more time i'm gonna shout you out he showed me
how to link it step by step with screenshots pod my
podcast episodes to youtube so i did that that exact
same day i received an email because at
(07:30):
the beginning i'm like okay i'm thinking it's gonna take a few
minutes for the audio to upload to youtube and
i'm seeing 10 minutes past 20 30 so then
i messaged james and i'm like hey how long does it take for the
audio to upload and he's like oh two to
four hours I was like two to four hours I think
the audio from Monday was like 40 minutes I was like oh god have mercy okay
(07:50):
fine and he also let me know you can only drop one episode per week on YouTube
when it's linked that's also a con from the linkage but that's fine I was like
that's fine I guess in my mind I'm like okay one episode per week on YouTube is fine that's fine.
The same day, April 1st, I get an email from YouTube telling me that I got banned
(08:13):
for violating the guidelines and protocols of YouTube, yada,
yada. And I'm like, what?
I'm reading it. I'm upset at first. I'm reading it. I'm like, oh, my God, bro.
I'm angry. I'm pissed.
Emotions all over the place. And then I decided to do my box breathing.
Breathe in for four seconds. Hold it for four seconds. Breathe out for four
(08:34):
seconds. Hold it for four seconds. I did my box breathing, okay? Okay.
After I did a couple of box breathing exercises, I continued to read and it
was the violation was spamming.
And I said, okay, okay, okay. That's fine. Lesson learned.
I felt my emotions. I gave my emotion their place. I gave, it's valid to be
angry at any situation. It's valid.
(08:56):
It's just not valid for you to go all day angry and taking it out on other people. That's not valid.
That's not right. So I moved through my
anger and I understood that I made a mistake fake and I
decided to share with other people in case you want
to create content you avoid the mistakes that I make
I'm going to try whatever mistakes I make creating content
(09:16):
I'm going to try to share with you guys so you guys can
learn from my mistakes now another thing that happened to me last week is I
feel like my loved ones and I our souls are intertwined our mindset because
Because I was fixing my keychain because I like keychains and I buy keychains all the time.
(09:37):
Or people give me keychains. For example, my sister, when she goes on vacation,
she brings me a keychain from wherever she visited.
And I was changing the keychains.
Anywho i was removing some keychains because i want a new keychain to go with
(09:58):
my car um keys and my brother alex calls me and mind you he facetimed me that
boy never facetimed me unless he wants to show me something we usually just talk.
We usually talk just on the phone, not really on video or anything.
So when I opened the FaceTime, he's showing me keychains. He's at a car show. And I'm like, oh, my God.
(10:24):
The universe really, like, how are we in the same wavelength or something?
Because I'm literally fixing my
keychains right now. And I was thinking to myself, I want a new keychain.
And my brother bought me a keychain. He showed me a Sailor Moon.
Pink keychain i was thinking going with a pink vibe but
then he showed me it was like they got attack on titan
(10:46):
they got bleach and they got sailor moon
and i forgot what oh they had chainsaw man and
i said those are all animes and i said oh you know what i was gonna go with
pochita but then i said from chainsaw man then i said no because i have pochita
slippers so let me go ahead and let me pick the ichigo from bleach keychain
(11:08):
because i don't have any bleach merch,
so next time i see my brother i have to remember to get
my chain because i need to remember to get
my keychain because i want it and it's
super cute i love it thank you so much shout out to alex for getting me a keychain
he's always getting me stuff he's always getting me stickers i love stickers
(11:28):
too am i a child yes mind your business about me making the child inside of
me happy mind your the business. I love stickers.
If you know me, you know that I love stickers. I have stickers from many different places.
And I don't mean like countries or states. I mean, like the stickers can range
(11:50):
from book stickers, anime stickers, flower stickers, stitch stickers, star stickers.
I mean, different genre of stickers.
And again, I wanted to share the mistakes I am making creating my content because
I want you to learn from my mistakes and not make the same mistakes I do. do.
(12:14):
Again, I'm learning as I go. I create day in and day out.
The ideas just pop into my brain and the idea comes into my brain and I have
to write a script about it so the idea doesn't go away.
I'm doing that more and more, listening to my intuition, making sure that I'm
quiet and still enough to hear what my intuition is trying to tell me.
(12:37):
Thank you so much for your patience with me my children are
home and you might hear a lot of background noise
so this is the lineup that i'm working on i would
like to do lives on monday in spanish for my spanish bodies my bilingual body
my hispanic body every monday i'm attempting to do lives you can listen to that
(12:59):
if you speak spanish if you understand spanish and wednesday and friday i'm
gonna continue to drop content in English,
and I hope that this serves as a lesson to everyone that's trying to create content.
If how vulnerable I have been with you today has helped in any way,
please download the episode and follow me.
I release new episodes every Wednesday and Friday, and I am doing lives every
(13:22):
Monday in Spanish for my Spanish-speaking buddies.
My podcast is available now on Spotify, Amazon Amazon Music,
iHeartRadio, Player FM, Listen Notes, Samsung Podcasts, Podchaser,
Boomplay, Deezer, Podcast Attic.
Find me wherever you get your podcasts.
(13:43):
I am growing through every experience. I hope that you are too.
Music.
Bamo and Mambo, welcome to another Wise Women Wednesday of Embracing Vulnerability.
I hope everyone is doing well.
I hope that you are receiving this week well and whatever you may go through,
you have the strength to live through it.
Let's start it off by reading 101 Blessings to brighten your day and uplift your soul.
(00:25):
Promises from God for women. There is not one blade of grass.
There is no color in this world that is not intended to make us rejoice.
This was written by John Calvin. Psalms 100 verse 5.
The Lord is good and his love endures forever. His faithfulness continues through all generations.
(00:49):
I found this box of cards in Barnes & Noble.
I'm pretty sure you can order it on their website online. line.
You don't have to actually go to a Barnes and Noble in person if that's not your vibe.
So I want to talk about mistakes I've done as a content creator.
I want to say that I want to, I don't know why I'm stuttering.
(01:14):
I yearn to be so completely myself that people around me have to look within themselves and be like,
what is it that they need to work in themselves to be their authentic self?
Because I really want my friends to reflect what I am on the inside.
(01:35):
And I know a lot of my friends, my loved one, I'm working on not saying friends
because it's loved one, it's family members and friends, not just friends.
My loved ones all suffer from different things
so i'm hoping that my
loved ones are giving it their one percent every day to improve their life and
(01:55):
because you're listening to this you're also my loved one you're also my friend
if you need to reach out to anyone
because you have no one my instagram is linked in podbean it's linked,
My Instagram is linked and my Twitter also. You can message me on Instagram
or you can message me on Twitter. I promise you I don't bite.
(02:20):
So I want to share the mistakes that I've done so far as a content creator.
I was banned from YouTube on April 1st. I appealed and I'm still waiting for them to respond to me.
It's April 8th and I haven't gotten any emails from YouTube.
So y'all wish me well, wish me luck. work, wish that the universe aligned to
(02:40):
work in my favor so that I can get unbanned.
But I also want to share that if I don't get unbanned from YouTube, that's okay.
I'm willing to accept the consequences for my actions.
Now, I didn't know what I was doing was wrong, but now that I know that what
I was doing is wrong, I won't do it again.
You see, that's how accountability works.
I'm working on my accountability.
(03:02):
I'm working on many things, right? So what happened was I was I was trying to
promote the podcast by leaving the link to my podcast on random YouTube videos.
Just random YouTube videos on the comment section. I was just dropping my link.
I didn't know that I couldn't promote my podcast that way because YouTube flagged it as spamming.
(03:25):
Mind you, there's naked people on YouTube.
There's naked people on every social media platform out there.
You search for it, you will find it. Skin on skin on skin.
For me, leaving the link to my podcast was flagged as spamming,
and that's how I got banned from YouTube.
So the violation was spamming. Isn't that funny?
(03:48):
That's hilarious. I told my friend Gabby what happened, and he told me that's
literally the definition of spamming.
And I responded to Gabby, Gabs, English is my second language.
I didn't know the meaning of spamming. I didn't know the meaning of the word spam.
Yes, I've had an email for years and years and years.
But I didn't think leaving comments on random YouTube video comment section
(04:13):
was considered spamming. Now I know.
Now I will learn from my mistake. It was a mistake.
So I didn't lie to YouTube. When I appealed, I wrote in my paragraph that I
didn't know that it was considered spamming and now that I know that I won't
do it again. I was honest. I didn't lie.
I didn't create some some elaborate story. I told them the honest truth. Now, I will accept it.
(04:37):
I will accept the consequences to my actions.
If YouTube decides to not unban me, I'm fine with that. I'm chilling. I'm good.
It's just an idea that I had because I met this person on Twitter.
When I say me, I mean like we've just been chatting on Twitter.
(04:57):
And also, thank you for your patience.
My children are home. There's no school and I have to record.
So you're going to hear children and noise in the background today.
So I met this person virtually and we exchanged basic information.
And he another thing
(05:20):
is i had to ask my loved ones for their
their consent if i could share their
names on my podcast some of them
told me to use an alias and some of them told me
i'm not afraid you could use my name alex i
can say alex without being afraid of
(05:40):
violating his privacy to see alex alex alex alex
anyways um so this person
consented that i can use his real name as well the person i've been talking
to virtually james we've exchanged basic information and he told me do you have
any questions so i asked him how does he link because i started following his his podcast.
(06:04):
So when I started following James on podcast on Twitter, I noticed that he has
a YouTube channel as well.
Well, his podcast has a channel on YouTube and it's basically the audio and
it's just the icon of the channel is what shows on the video.
(06:27):
It's not actual people that they're showing in the images.
So I was curious and I was like, oh, hey, how do you transfer the audio from Podbean to YouTube.
And he showed me step-by-step. He took screenshots.
Shout out to James. Thank you so much. Thank you so much, James.
That exact same day, April 1st, that he showed me how to link it.
(06:47):
I linked it successfully. That's why I dropped a random audio on Monday.
I'm not releasing audios on Monday in English.
That's why last week, April 1st, I released a random episode.
That was me testing out how to link it to YouTube. It was just a test run.
I'm not dropping episodes on Wednesday.
Not Wednesday. I'm not dropping episodes on Monday. I'm going to continue to
(07:10):
drop episodes Wednesdays and Fridays.
It god willing so okay
anyway he showed me step by steps thank you so much james
one more time i'm gonna shout you out he showed me
how to link it step by step with screenshots pod my
podcast episodes to youtube so i did that that exact
same day i received an email because at
(07:30):
the beginning i'm like okay i'm thinking it's gonna take a few
minutes for the audio to upload to youtube and
i'm seeing 10 minutes past 20 30 so then
i messaged james and i'm like hey how long does it take for the
audio to upload and he's like oh two to
four hours I was like two to four hours I think
the audio from Monday was like 40 minutes I was like oh god have mercy okay
(07:50):
fine and he also let me know you can only drop one episode per week on YouTube
when it's linked that's also a con from the linkage but that's fine I was like
that's fine I guess in my mind I'm like okay one episode per week on YouTube is fine that's fine.
The same day, April 1st, I get an email from YouTube telling me that I got banned
(08:13):
for violating the guidelines and protocols of YouTube, yada,
yada. And I'm like, what?
I'm reading it. I'm upset at first. I'm reading it. I'm like, oh, my God, bro.
I'm angry. I'm pissed.
Emotions all over the place. And then I decided to do my box breathing.
Breathe in for four seconds. Hold it for four seconds. Breathe out for four
(08:34):
seconds. Hold it for four seconds. I did my box breathing, okay? Okay.
After I did a couple of box breathing exercises, I continued to read and it
was the violation was spamming.
And I said, okay, okay, okay. That's fine. Lesson learned.
I felt my emotions. I gave my emotion their place. I gave, it's valid to be
angry at any situation. It's valid.
(08:56):
It's just not valid for you to go all day angry and taking it out on other people. That's not valid.
That's not right. So I moved through my
anger and I understood that I made a mistake fake and I
decided to share with other people in case you want
to create content you avoid the mistakes that I make
I'm going to try whatever mistakes I make creating content
(09:16):
I'm going to try to share with you guys so you guys can
learn from my mistakes now another thing that happened to me last week is I
feel like my loved ones and I our souls are intertwined our mindset because
Because I was fixing my keychain because I like keychains and I buy keychains all the time.
(09:37):
Or people give me keychains. For example, my sister, when she goes on vacation,
she brings me a keychain from wherever she visited.
And I was changing the keychains.
Anywho i was removing some keychains because i want a new keychain to go with
(09:58):
my car um keys and my brother alex calls me and mind you he facetimed me that
boy never facetimed me unless he wants to show me something we usually just talk.
We usually talk just on the phone, not really on video or anything.
So when I opened the FaceTime, he's showing me keychains. He's at a car show. And I'm like, oh, my God.
(10:24):
The universe really, like, how are we in the same wavelength or something?
Because I'm literally fixing my
keychains right now. And I was thinking to myself, I want a new keychain.
And my brother bought me a keychain. He showed me a Sailor Moon.
Pink keychain i was thinking going with a pink vibe but
then he showed me it was like they got attack on titan
(10:46):
they got bleach and they got sailor moon
and i forgot what oh they had chainsaw man and
i said those are all animes and i said oh you know what i was gonna go with
pochita but then i said from chainsaw man then i said no because i have pochita
slippers so let me go ahead and let me pick the ichigo from bleach keychain
(11:08):
because i don't have any bleach merch,
so next time i see my brother i have to remember to get
my chain because i need to remember to get
my keychain because i want it and it's
super cute i love it thank you so much shout out to alex for getting me a keychain
he's always getting me stuff he's always getting me stickers i love stickers
(11:28):
too am i a child yes mind your business about me making the child inside of
me happy mind your the business. I love stickers.
If you know me, you know that I love stickers. I have stickers from many different places.
And I don't mean like countries or states. I mean, like the stickers can range
(11:50):
from book stickers, anime stickers, flower stickers, stitch stickers, star stickers.
I mean, different genre of stickers.
And again, I wanted to share the mistakes I am making creating my content because
I want you to learn from my mistakes and not make the same mistakes I do. do.
(12:14):
Again, I'm learning as I go. I create day in and day out.
The ideas just pop into my brain and the idea comes into my brain and I have
to write a script about it so the idea doesn't go away.
I'm doing that more and more, listening to my intuition, making sure that I'm
quiet and still enough to hear what my intuition is trying to tell me.
(12:37):
Thank you so much for your patience with me my children are
home and you might hear a lot of background noise
so this is the lineup that i'm working on i would
like to do lives on monday in spanish for my spanish bodies my bilingual body
my hispanic body every monday i'm attempting to do lives you can listen to that
(12:59):
if you speak spanish if you understand spanish and wednesday and friday i'm
gonna continue to drop content in English,
and I hope that this serves as a lesson to everyone that's trying to create content.
If how vulnerable I have been with you today has helped in any way,
please download the episode and follow me.
I release new episodes every Wednesday and Friday, and I am doing lives every
(13:22):
Monday in Spanish for my Spanish-speaking buddies.
My podcast is available now on Spotify, Amazon Amazon Music,
iHeartRadio, Player FM, Listen Notes, Samsung Podcasts, Podchaser,
Boomplay, Deezer, Podcast Attic.
Find me wherever you get your podcasts.
(13:43):
I am growing through every experience. I hope that you are too.
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