Ep. #85: From the Sidelines: How Parents Influence Youth Sports with Hernan Chousa

Consider this: what if your parenting approach could significantly influence your child's future in sports? That's what we're exploring with Hernan Chousa, a former tennis star turned family business owner, who grapples with the trials and triumphs of raising two children in youth sports. We also discuss how parents can best support their child's athletic endeavors, even when the road gets tough, from dealing with disappointment when a child is cut off from a team to prioritizing mental health. Hernán emphasizes the importance of repetition in implementing lasting changes in parenting, the influence of role modeling, and the benefits of personal growth for a better parenting approach. Tune in for an enlightening discussion filled with insights and tangible takeaways to help you better navigate the world of youth sports parenting. About Hernan Chousa: Hernan Chousa is an Argentinian author, businessman, and public speaker. Based in the vibrant city of Buenos Aires, he is the CEO of Chousa SRL, a global leader in zinc flake coatings. With an impressive background as a former professional tennis player, Hernan is passionate about sharing his parenting experiences. Through his books, thought-provoking talks, and comprehensive online courses, he offers profound insights and practical guidance to help parents navigate the world of sports. His publications include "My Son the Tennis Player," "How to Help Your Kid Succeed in Sports," "ParentShift: The Skills You Need to Become a Super Parent," and "Put Your Mask on First: The Greatest Gift is Your Self-Development."

Not limited to his literary pursuits, Hernan showcases his creativity in "Unplugged: A Rock Story," his debut novel that seamlessly blends his love for music and writing. Beyond his professional endeavors, Hernan finds fulfillment in his personal life. He is married to Mariana and cherishes the joys of fatherhood with their two sons, Julian and Sebastian. Where to find more of Hernan:

Instagram: @hernan.chousa https://www.instagram.com/hernan.chousa/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hernanchousa/ Twitter: @ChousaHernan https://twitter.com/ChousaHernan Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hernan.chousa Websites: https://www.hernanchousa.com/ https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/parentshift https://www.hernanchousa.com/courses/entrenatulegado  Amazon Store: https://amzn.to/42Heqs0

 

Episode highlights:

[0:00] Intro

[2:10] Who is Hernán Chousa

[3:08] Parents need to train themselves

[5:26] Reasons why 3 out of 4 young people walk away from sports

[9:56] Kids model after parents

[13:38] Don't watch your kids practices

[18:38] Parents need to have their own life and their own goals

[21:53] The models that tend to work the best are either 100% control or 100% relax

[24:59] If you want to have good kids, you have to work on yourself first

[26:04] Repetition is key

[30:53] Outro