Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23

Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024

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• - In this episode, Mayfair and I are talking about the somewhat controversial topic of not joining or being involved with your local BDSM scene.
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• - “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”

• We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.

• • 10: Bad vibes: Pay attention to your intuition (Ben)
  • 9: Unsavory activities: Drugs/drinking (Ben)
  • 8: People not taking no for an answer: (Jon)
  • 7: Lack of education (Jon)
  • 6: A culture of pressuring people to go further than they are comfortable or want. (Ben)
    • 6A: Culture of “breaking slaves and subs”
  • 5: Lack of education by partner (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 4: Partner’s feelings about the safety of your relationship (Daddy’s Princess)
  • 3: Predators and the protection of predators by the community
  • 2: Relationship issues
  • 1: People are crazy

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