April 11, 2022 • 56 mins
61, Homicide Loss - LVM ADVNTGE
Don't let the LOSS take over your MIND, use it to your ADVNTGE.
Rebecca Benny was 17 and in high school the day she had to gather her friends and tell them her mom had been killed. She was closer to her father than her mother at the time, and she has been left with the task of figuring out her complicated relationship with her mother now as a motherless daughter. Besides gathering her friends that day to tell them the news, it wasn't typical of Rebecca to speak about her mother, Luz V Minda.
Today she's 24 and has started a podcast in order to voice her own story and to be a voice for others experiencing homicide grief. Join Rebecca in her very first episodes and travel with her on her literal journey from the dark to the light. Rebecca began sharing her story from a couch in a dark room. 13 episodes later, she has started to show her face and has just released her first True Survivor Series sharing other homicide loss survivor's stories.
Rebecca's Advice: That guilt should be on the person that committed the crime. Not us, because we didn't do anything wrong. It is important to keep their name going.
Don't stop talking about them.
Book Recommendation:
Healing Your Traumatized Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Someone You Love Dies a Sudden, Violent Death (Healing a Grieving Heart series) by Alan D Wolfelt
https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Your-Traumatized-Heart-Practical/dp/1879651327
Podcast Spotlight:
LVM Podcast - LMV ADVNTGE
Join Rebecca Benny as she shares her journey of losing her mother to homicide. As we live in a world where people would rather listen to true crime stories, survivors are the only ones that are able to share the life their loved ones lived. Rebecca not only talks about her grief, but also provides a safe place for other survivors to talk about their grief. Let’s Raise Homicide Awareness Together.
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtMsEZTsPyPU6Q3FTT3yBCQ
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lvmadvntge/
Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/lvmadvntge
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lvmadvntge/
If you'd like to donate to Tim Harris' project of providing free therapy to at least one person for one year, please visit www.grievingisbreathing.com/donate
This is a Back Home Media production, recorded and produced in Phoenix, AZ.
Additional production and music by Ian Releford.
Music by Colen Lococo and The Revolving Birds.
Like what you hear? Helped by what you heard? Have something to share?
https://www.patreon.com/parentlesspodcast
Email: parentlesspodcast@gmail.com
Instagram: @parentlesspodcast
Voicemail: 623.396.6069
You are not alone.
Don't let the LOSS take over your MIND, use it to your ADVNTGE.
Rebecca Benny was 17 and in high school the day she had to gather her friends and tell them her mom had been killed. She was closer to her father than her mother at the time, and she has been left with the task of figuring out her complicated relationship with her mother now as a motherless daughter. Besides gathering her friends that day to tell them the news, it wasn't typical of Rebecca to speak about her mother, Luz V Minda.
Today she's 24 and has started a podcast in order to voice her own story and to be a voice for others experiencing homicide grief. Join Rebecca in her very first episodes and travel with her on her literal journey from the dark to the light. Rebecca began sharing her story from a couch in a dark room. 13 episodes later, she has started to show her face and has just released her first True Survivor Series sharing other homicide loss survivor's stories.
Rebecca's Advice: That guilt should be on the person that committed the crime. Not us, because we didn't do anything wrong. It is important to keep their name going.
Don't stop talking about them.
Book Recommendation:
Healing Your Traumatized Heart: 100 Practical Ideas After Someone You Love Dies a Sudden, Violent Death (Healing a Grieving Heart series) by Alan D Wolfelt
https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Your-Traumatized-Heart-Practical/dp/1879651327
Podcast Spotlight:
LVM Podcast - LMV ADVNTGE
Join Rebecca Benny as she shares her journey of losing her mother to homicide. As we live in a world where people would rather listen to true crime stories, survivors are the only ones that are able to share the life their loved ones lived. Rebecca not only talks about her grief, but also provides a safe place for other survivors to talk about their grief. Let’s Raise Homicide Awareness Together.
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtMsEZTsPyPU6Q3FTT3yBCQ
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lvmadvntge/
Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/lvmadvntge
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lvmadvntge/
If you'd like to donate to Tim Harris' project of providing free therapy to at least one person for one year, please visit www.grievingisbreathing.com/donate
This is a Back Home Media production, recorded and produced in Phoenix, AZ.
Additional production and music by Ian Releford.
Music by Colen Lococo and The Revolving Birds.
Like what you hear? Helped by what you heard? Have something to share?
https://www.patreon.com/parentlesspodcast
Email: parentlesspodcast@gmail.com
Instagram: @parentlesspodcast
Voicemail: 623.396.6069
You are not alone.
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