Episode 96 Are you stuck trying to love someone who can't accept love?

I read a post with a quote from Matt Kahn this week which didn't resonate for me. 

"Why are people not nice to you? Because they're treating you the way they treat themselves and the way they've been treated by others, and they are showing you how much love lacks in their lives. Which means, they're crying out for love. And they don't know they're crying out for love and they're projecting onto you what you haven't done to keep them happy. So don't give them what they want, give them what they need: Love."

But what if the person crying out for love isn't able to accept it?

For me, anyone trapped in or wanting the abuser back—whether consciously or unconsciously—this would indicate to them, they are doing the right thing by staying and giving love. Or trapped not able to move on. 

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